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1

Yup. And testosterone levels keep dropping. The hormone of the gods.
/r/MGTOW13/08/19 02:40 PM
17

Agreed. I’ve tasted freedom and independence and would never want to be stuck in that shit ever. She has one job, not to be fat. One... job...
/r/MGTOW12/08/19 02:32 PM
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The industrial revolution was the beginning of the death of the family. Prior to that families were together all day long. Boys probably even spent most of their time with men. Their fathers, their uncles, grandfathers and brothers. Now they spend their time with twisted mothers and female teachers. No moral to this story, it just is.
/r/MGTOW12/08/19 02:30 PM
1

The “useful idiots”. And when they accomplish what their mission, they will be put under by the ones pulling their strings.
/r/MGTOW08/08/19 01:17 PM
1

Well stated
/r/MGTOW08/08/19 01:11 PM
2

That may be the case, but the methods don’t always have the be the same. They have shown their hand pretty clearly in the west and it’s top down control.
/r/MGTOW08/08/19 01:10 PM
1

If you ever decide to make one, look into a DC motor from a scrap treadmill. Get the dc controller from automation direct if you need to. The AC motor is awesome, but a lot of work.
/r/MGTOW18/07/19 01:32 AM
2

I made a couple knives myself. Recently went on a tangent to make this 2x72 grinder (http://dcknives.blogspot.com/p/2-x-72-belt-grinder.html?m=1). Bought a 3 phase motor and VFD to run it. The tangent started because I just wanted to redo a tedious bevel. With no one on your ass you can follow whatever meandering path you want Glass of whisky and zen
/r/MGTOW17/07/19 07:52 PM
6

I need to look into this quote for sure.
/r/MGTOW17/07/19 03:24 AM
5

The one episode I watched had this one go off on white supremacy and combatted the term virtue signaling. Sneaky propaganda
/r/MGTOW07/06/19 01:13 AM
7

I almost enlisted when I was younger. Glad I didn’t as I’m not inclined to get my dick blown off for these assholes. Not exactly “fighting for our freedom.”
/r/MGTOW31/05/19 10:34 PM
1

I second that!
/r/MGTOW12/05/19 11:32 PM
4

I would assume you should have been informed of said condition ahead of time.
/r/MGTOW29/04/19 08:31 PM
38

How the eff, can she even tell from that photo what kind of purse it is? It’s that important?
/r/MGTOW14/04/19 03:52 PM
1

I’m almost there and it is feeling better and better every day.
/r/MGTOW06/04/19 12:38 AM
3

There are a lot of comments saying you wrote too much. I don’t know that I agree with them. Silence allows them to create whatever explanation they want. I believe your message is well written, sometimes these things need to be said. Maybe the details in the message were in part for you to get out, who cares how she took it. If you truly don’t care about her, then there is no loss in saying everything you want to say for your own benefit. Cheers.
/r/MGTOW17/03/19 04:29 PM
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I worked with some amazingly inept engineers and the one thing they had in common was the type of university they attended. One that caters to a specific protected class. Watered down.
/r/MGTOW18/02/19 11:14 AM
1

I recall in circuits class, there were 2 masses of students seated in the auditorium, at the center of each were the only 2 decent looking girls. I ended up having one as a lab partner. It was established early that she wouldn’t have to do shit as long as she stayed out of the way. Easy A for her.
/r/MGTOW18/02/19 11:11 AM
1

No disagreements from me. The never ending need for growth is a ridiculous premise. Unfortunately many countries (especially the US) sold their future stability for present (or past) gains. Because of interest rates on government debt, we have to grow in order to stay the same. That’s right, the GDP must increase every year just so that our standard of living stays the same. I’m all for putting a stop to it all as much as you are. This is why the demands of many progressives are incoherent. You …
/r/MGTOW12/02/19 03:16 AM
3

The idea was to breed the next generation from within instead of importing immigrants. I’m down with that, but I can see some abuse as a result. Should be a stipulation that the kids be from the same father and they stay married. Whatevs
/r/MGTOW11/02/19 05:07 PM
2

Best of luck indeed, mine is 2 yrs. let’s hope it can be done.
/r/MGTOW07/02/19 01:44 AM
8

Yeah it’s odd that being penetrated is the defining feature of being a female
/r/MGTOW01/02/19 06:02 PM
29

Came here to say this
/r/MGTOW22/01/19 08:17 PM
13

I had one once who would kinda lift her hips towards me as she was lying on her back otherwise doing nothing. She was a freak...
/r/MGTOW13/01/19 01:51 AM
6

Sent this to every dude I know. Thanks for the actual LOL.
/r/MGTOW29/12/18 05:53 PM
2

I also keep the numbers so as to know who is calling. Learned the hard way many years ago about deleting them. ​
/r/MGTOW28/11/18 04:19 AM
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You can PM me any time man. I’m a year and a half into it and have recently made some peace. In short, hobbies dude. When you can Truely feel that she has always been a drag and a negative and a wet blanket on your life, you can make peace with the freedom that is coming. Allow yourself to go through the grief stages, but do not allow yourself to get stuck there. You will make mistakes, forgive yourself when it happens. Also, before you financially split, go to South America and get a lot of hoo…
/r/MGTOW27/11/18 10:21 PM
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Perfect
/r/MGTOW27/11/18 10:15 PM
8

Every damn time
/r/MGTOW25/11/18 02:34 PM
1

The early days are rad because you have what you signed the contract for, exclusive rights to a slam piece. With that, the convo can be as slutty as you want it to be. That doesn’t last long though. They dry up and become cunts with nothing much to offer. Her part of the bargain is her pussy and she knows it deep down. When she chooses to withhold, she knows the rest of the marriage is a sham and she has to make up all kinds of other “conversation” which is just a gas-light existence.
/r/MGTOW04/11/18 10:38 PM
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Spot on my friend. All the rest is the song and dance.
/r/MGTOW04/11/18 10:33 PM
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Good point man, I find that the most incompetent are the ones riding your ass the most to cover for their deficiencies. I see it at work.
/r/MGTOW23/10/18 11:34 PM
3

Where ya at bra?
/r/MGTOW23/10/18 11:17 PM
2

Outstanding. Saving bits for future use.
/r/MGTOW18/08/18 01:28 PM
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In places like France it’s fucking illegal to unilaterally do a paternity check. Or so i read. Can you imagine that shit? Without a vasectomy, there is no defense.
/r/MGTOW17/08/18 11:47 PM
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Zero effing accountability.
/r/MGTOW17/08/18 11:44 PM
1

Actually lol’d. Thanks bro.
/r/MGTOW17/08/18 11:43 PM
4

We had a fat female friend in our group who never had a kiss. The better looking ones tried to talk me into throwing her a bone and kissing her. I wasn’t too pleased, they were actually serious and thought i would.
/r/MGTOW30/06/18 01:40 PM
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Make the main photo a decently good looking chic to get them to even look at it.
/r/MGTOW26/06/18 08:59 PM
2

Fricking nailed it!
/r/MGTOW18/06/18 09:15 PM
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She will wind up with a lesser man in the end or a bunch of cats. Not that it makes anything better. Similar boat my friend.
/r/MGTOW13/06/18 07:00 PM
3

Well said. My 2 biggest love interests ended having the exact same malfunctions.
/r/MGTOW13/06/18 03:10 PM
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Lol man
/r/MGTOW13/06/18 03:08 PM
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I looked back at timelines and realized that when she allegedly stopped loving me was during the election cycle. She seems to resent white men even though that’s all she goes for dating-wise (she is not white). Donald Trump might have saved me from additional years with this hollowed out husk of a human being.
/r/MGTOW13/06/18 03:07 PM
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Yeah it is weird how gay males are being punted out of the support group.
/r/MGTOW12/06/18 11:53 PM
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Becoming infatuated with women: didn’t say that, no clue if the link provides that. Taking offense: don’t care about feelings. There may be others that get value and good for them. Homosexuality isn’t a disease: agreed and never offered a counter to that statement. I don’t know what’s on the other side of the link as I haven’t clicked it. If it’s aggressive shit to make a gay person feel bad about themselves then yeah, fuck that shit. If it is resources that can help someone, then great. Maybe w…
/r/MGTOW12/06/18 08:26 PM
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I saw it and was cool with it. This sub provides unfashionable resources for self improvement that are seldom found elsewhere. If it helps someone then great. Please note that sexuality may not always be dualistic (one or the other). It is not at all unlikely that there are members of this community that are dealing with both the typical issues presented here as well as lingering issues with sexuality. Again, if it helps someone then let it be.
/r/MGTOW12/06/18 05:55 PM
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Gentlemen, In the spirit of bettering our lives and taking control of our circumstances, I present to you all the concept of Direct Primary Care. This is a health care model where physicians opt out of the bureaucracy associated with "traditional" 3rd payer system and subsequently are able to provide their clients with much better service. They do not take insurance, instead you pay a subscription fee (i.e. $50/mo) and get virtually unlimited access. With deductibles and "maximum out of pocket" …
/r/MGTOW12/06/18 02:48 PM
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Holy shit, I love it
/r/MGTOW07/06/18 04:23 PM
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The smart ones went to Constantinople, got off of the hyper inflated Roman coinage and lasted another century while western Rome went to pot.
/r/MGTOW07/06/18 12:56 AM
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Grats on everything except for the abuse to your kids mate.
/r/MGTOW25/05/18 04:45 PM
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Thank you for the input. Good info.
/r/MGTOW25/05/18 04:13 PM
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Questions about Costa Rica: likelihood of contracting a STD? likelihood many of the girls are sex trafficking victims? Costa Rica sounds great, but I’m not down with those 2 concerns.
/r/MGTOW25/05/18 02:25 PM
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You and me both.
/r/MGTOW17/05/18 09:11 AM
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Coinciding with this premise, the man is more likely to stick it out through thick and thin through hard times as long as she is faithful. Once’s that threshold has been crossed, it’s done. Women are the opposite, they will drop you on a dime if a better wind blows, cheating doesn’t matter much because had they had better options, they would already be gone.
/r/MGTOW17/05/18 01:23 AM
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I think the podcast I mentioned addresses pretty directly Roosevelt's views on masculinity and national defense. Wouldn't be bad to get another perspective. That being said, this isn't one of the most entertaining of his podcasts so you will have to bear with it to some degree. Skip through all the intro stuff about Patreon and all that. It takes him a bit to get going.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 10:52 PM
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Check out the Dangerous History podcast, episode titled “Remember the Maine.” Teddy was a piece if crap who was hell bent on a war with anybody for any reason.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 01:08 PM
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when men get bored we get hobbies
/r/MGTOW14/05/18 12:58 PM
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Also an EE, and also desired to delay the 9-5 grind. After undergrad I hung around and bartended for a few years and lived a rather debaucherous lifestyle. My degree went stale so I went to grad school for a masters. Once I started working I realized how wrong I was to delay it. The office is not actually bad. If you go straight from undergrad to start work, you will potentially be around others in the same boat. You will have lots in common and plenty of money to enjoy life and free time. Let m…
/r/MGTOW12/05/18 07:42 PM
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Link me that bench please, I want to get one.
/r/MGTOW12/05/18 09:15 AM
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Yep!
/r/MGTOW09/05/18 08:59 PM
1

Agreed. That was mild yet still hard to listen to.
/r/MGTOW09/05/18 06:44 PM
1

What do you mean by flashing the phone?
/r/MGTOW02/05/18 07:47 PM
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Agreed.
/r/MGTOW28/04/18 01:14 PM
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If he does a John Cena with a stout prenup then it’s all good in my eyes. Most of us here learned by fire, may be his time to learn.
/r/MGTOW28/04/18 01:11 PM
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Bookmarked!
/r/MGTOW27/04/18 12:21 PM
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The tax condition can be a benefit or a penalty depending on the couples relative income to one another. Couples with comparable income get penalized whereas couples with disparate income can benefit. Check out this video on Khan Academy that explains it: link
/r/MGTOW25/04/18 03:26 PM
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Not a single dispute with anything you wrote.
/r/MGTOW25/04/18 02:30 PM
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Yup. Thinking of it in terms of biology helped me tons. I want to add that I am inclined to believe the biological imperative in women can be overruled by virtue and integrity. Yes they will always have the predisposition for hypergamy, but in the end they still have to choose to drop their pants for the next monkey-branch. Unfortunately virtue and integrity is increasingly in short supply. Still room for some hate I suppose.
/r/MGTOW25/04/18 12:18 PM
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Yeah seems that way doesn't it? I should clarify that the guys before this one were before she and I got together. Still rather cuck-ish.
/r/MGTOW24/04/18 01:07 PM
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It’s coming, strategy is everything. We know full well about divorce rape, so taking it lightly is a poor choice.
/r/MGTOW24/04/18 12:26 PM
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If things start getting dicey I will respond accordingly. I have been prepping for a long time now, so I am not just shooting from the hip. I am not saying that I am in total control and nothing can go wrong. I don't have that false confidence. Cheers. Thank you.
/r/MGTOW23/04/18 10:09 PM
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I understand my man. I had months to mentally prepare so the confrontation was mostly just wrapping up business. Had it been a stumbling upon discovery this time last year... I don't know. See mine thought she could get away with it. That she could hide it and thought she had control over the situation. But she didn't. Precisely the situation. The thing is, she has been getting away with it time after time, man after man. She's been caught this time.
/r/MGTOW23/04/18 10:06 PM
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I’ll PM you when I get a chance bro. Don’t want any identifiable details until the eventual divorce is finalized.
/r/MGTOW23/04/18 09:37 PM
2

I am sorry you didn't get the resolution man. Everyone around me says you don't need it, but I can tell you that I got it now and it makes a huge difference. At least for me, I know myself well enough to know that I forget the bad and only remember the good. I needed it, and furthermore she needed it. She has been going through guy after guy and always seemed to get out of it unscathed. With reputation intact (except with people who really knew her close). She needed to get busted, she needs the…
/r/MGTOW23/04/18 07:54 PM
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Did you get the resolution that you needed for your own well being? How long did you suspect it before it was confirmed?
/r/MGTOW23/04/18 07:35 PM
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You might be too target fixated on the MGTOW paradigm to see something that doesn't fit the bill precisely. It is ok.
/r/MGTOW23/04/18 07:25 PM
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I am certainly playing with fire and putting myself at great risk. I just don't want to put too much identifiable stuff on social media, otherwise I wouldn't be so secretive about it.
/r/MGTOW23/04/18 07:24 PM
2

The death of the marriage was felt pretty acutely a good while ago. Planned, sustained & deceptive cheating sucks to be sure.
/r/MGTOW23/04/18 07:21 PM
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Beta preference is very much in the face of TRP :) What you say certainly rings true. Seems like the only way to win is not to play... Where have I heard that before?
/r/MGTOW23/04/18 07:12 PM
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Country/city preferences are in sync with our situation as well. This would certainly be the situation if we lived in the country. I imagine she will move uptown with the hipsters when I kick her out. The house is mine and I am not giving it up. She actually thought I would roll over and give it up. As she monkey-branched from one beta to another, she always got out relatively seamlessly with her image intact. These guys perhaps didn't have the spine to stand up for themselves and take her to ta…
/r/MGTOW23/04/18 06:33 PM
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Certainly some parallels here. Moderately successful job, but acts like a big time player. her work image is very important to her. Parental dynamics are similar as well.
/r/MGTOW23/04/18 06:28 PM
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Thank you man. I am already stronger, this has been in the works for a while now.
/r/MGTOW23/04/18 06:27 PM
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Abandonment, super-check! not sure of the others. She certainly feels superior to everyone in the world.
/r/MGTOW23/04/18 06:27 PM
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Agreed, hence the monkey-branching to a new Beta when she could no longer control me. I am in a good position, but I can not get out just yet. You will just have to believe me that I have a very good reason. It will come to a close when the time is correct and it will be interesting until then.
/r/MGTOW23/04/18 06:25 PM
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I think it is good to add that she denied the ring and receded. They have the ability to deny their nature just like we have the ability to override our nature to spread seed. Personal fortitude can overcome the genetic predisposition for hypergamy, but those such traits are becoming less and less in fashion. To be clear, hypergamy leanings will always be there, but they can be suppressed some. How very blue-pill of me perhaps. Hey I finally busted my wife with her man yesterday. Great confronta…
/r/MGTOW22/04/18 01:39 PM
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I split finances with my wife once things started going south. Doesn’t help with the split, that is true, but it does help until the split. She can’t spend my money and now she has to live a bit more frugally since she can not spend my money. Also, Anything you spend for communal expenses is now visible and a bit more appreciated and less assumed.
/r/MGTOW21/04/18 01:20 PM
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Beneficial... always higher taxes, more entrenched cronyism, less liberty, more brutality, more statism, more deception and propaganda. No thank you. War has never done a damn thing for us, and no WWII did not get us out of the Great Depression.
/r/MGTOW15/04/18 05:35 AM
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Thank you bro. The WWII/Great Depression remedy is a big cringe. Send all the war ships to the middle of the sea and sink them all! Look at all that prosperity!
/r/MGTOW15/04/18 05:30 AM
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I rename ex contact info to something like “x1” so that I can recognize who is contacting me and not to answer. Currently my wife is “xx” when we divorce it will just be “x”. It’s out of the way in your contact list so you don’t see it much.
/r/MGTOW12/04/18 04:33 PM
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Wow, hits on multiple fronts
/r/MGTOW11/04/18 12:04 PM
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I knew a Sven. He was definitely a Chad
/r/MGTOW11/04/18 01:46 AM
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Yep. An no less than a year after our baby was born she pulled the eject lever. Was already on to another.
/r/MGTOW10/04/18 10:30 AM
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Cheat and lie like pros, yep and yep
/r/MGTOW08/04/18 02:49 PM
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Yup! Wife suggested marriage when I was weak and could white knight for her and her child. Wants divorce a handful of years later now that I am not.
/r/MGTOW08/04/18 02:45 PM
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Yes and i don’t know how I feel about it as the sex drive is still here. It’s a step in the right direction no doubt.
/r/MGTOW08/04/18 04:26 AM
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Similar situation.
/r/MGTOW08/04/18 02:28 AM
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I’ve been having troubles since MGTOW enlightenment as well. Not worried yet.
/r/MGTOW07/04/18 12:11 AM
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The 2 problems we currently face are trumped up domestic violence accusations and extending the period of communal property (depending on your local laws). The domestic violence one is a huge risk, slap a restraining order on that along with an arrest and we could find ourselves unhirable in the future.
/r/MGTOW01/04/18 09:46 AM
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This is a very good point. For me the proof came from the confrontation when her explanations were proven to be lies. I have been ghosting ever since. The principal still applies.
/r/MGTOW01/04/18 01:52 AM
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I am very happy to see effective posts like the OP hit home and find people at the right time. This method most definitely helps you quickly regroup and move on down a better path. I am pulling for you man.
/r/MGTOW01/04/18 01:49 AM
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Yes this place is a mix of people from all stages. Posts like this are very helpful and help set newcomers down the right path.
/r/MGTOW01/04/18 01:47 AM
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Well said my friend. I am standing right beside you in this as I am currently ghosting as much as possible a live in cheating ass wife. I have my reasons for not kicking her to the curb yet, but that day will come. Thank you for the inspiration and I take posts like this as motivation to keep on the path I have planned and not to waiver. Once I detached from intimacy I became happy.
/r/MGTOW01/04/18 01:44 AM
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Supply and demand dude. They have the pussy (supply) and urges for sexy time are less often in females than in males. Demand exceeds the supply. Also part of why hypergamy exists and why men try to lock down the pussy through marriage to a woman who ends up dropping him at a later date. Think about birds of paradise, the males have beautiful plumes and put on elaborate dances to court a female that just sits there in her bland feathers and casts judgement looking for negatives or the lack thereo…
/r/MGTOW31/03/18 11:24 AM
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I believe the technical term is ass-back.
/r/MGTOW31/03/18 01:55 AM
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The most personal experience would be an ex gf and my current wife. They felt entitled to my resources and never said thank you. They believe they are the greatest shit in the world and nothing else exists but what they believe. They find fault in everyone else in the world and delight in looking down on others. They also both cheated on me and never ever ever ever admitted to it, even when confronted with evidence. They can not admit fault ever. I believe that covers spoiled, entitled, narcissi…
/r/MGTOW31/03/18 01:50 AM
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In the end, you could barely find a Roman in Rome. Or so it’s been said.
/r/MGTOW30/03/18 10:22 PM
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Spoiled, yes Entitled, yes yes Narcissistic, heck yes Selfish, yep Lazy and with no skills: I’m not going to broad brush this one, yes and no.
/r/MGTOW29/03/18 11:40 PM
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Yes and no. I certainly have discussed Vietnam as a potential place to escape the madness, but I haven’t abandoned the West yet. I’d love to make it better over here. I know it is just chemicals in the brain, but tribalism is real and I want my tribe to get through the darkness. So, yes, I would look seriously into living in your country should the circumstances present themselves, but I foolishly feel as though there is more I want done here before abandoning the West.
/r/MGTOW29/03/18 11:38 PM
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I’d like to add that we can blame the power elite in the West for this war not the grunts. Of course personal atrocities committed by the grunts are inexcusable. They never should have been drafted to go there to begin with. Thanks for showing us the fortitude of guerilla warfare. Reason to fight for the second amendment.
/r/MGTOW29/03/18 12:46 PM
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If you get a chance to see Carmina Burana performed live, jump on it.
/r/MGTOW23/03/18 02:26 PM
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Somewhat related, if your about to do something for a woman, stop, pull your pud, then see if you still feel like helping. Helps determine your motivation.
/r/MGTOW20/03/18 10:09 AM
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I don’t disagree at all. I figure, if the situation presents itself and you aren’t putting yourself at risk, go ahead and let it rip if you feel like it. He can take it or leave it.
/r/MGTOW19/03/18 01:44 AM
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I would like to think it would help, maybe right away, maybe not. Might turn a long term mistake into an eventual pump and dump.
/r/MGTOW19/03/18 01:15 AM
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Similar boat, was hoping for a vicarious situation. I’ve thought of it as well.
/r/MGTOW19/03/18 01:12 AM
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Unless you have a child with her or some other reason to walk lightly, fuck it, do what you want and have fun. Fuck her.
/r/MGTOW18/03/18 11:37 PM
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Perfect! Appropriating this one
/r/MGTOW18/03/18 06:23 PM
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Ditto
/r/MGTOW17/03/18 11:17 PM
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Thanks for sharing your findings.
/r/MGTOW17/03/18 01:29 PM
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On top of the common fucked up that comes with their genetics. Rule of thumb, whatever traits helped the cave man procreate most efficiently are still here today. Societal norms may have changed a lot, but genetics have changed very little.
/r/MGTOW17/03/18 12:25 PM
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GasMuthaFuckingLighting
/r/MGTOW17/03/18 12:08 PM
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That is actually a possibility birthing right now in the Petri dish. Your timing with that comment is amazing. Surprised to see it on here. That does keep the risk of false DV accusations active however.
/r/MGTOW17/03/18 11:18 AM
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And it’s liberating to see right through them
/r/MGTOW17/03/18 11:15 AM
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Agreed, didn’t see any reason for the insult
/r/MGTOW16/03/18 07:56 PM
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She is his problem now. This is where I am with my wife. I have been very happy since I got enough proof to verify my suspicions. I’m free!! Edit: emotionally free, it remains to be seen how the divorce rape goes.
/r/MGTOW15/03/18 01:58 PM
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With the West’s already anemic birth rates this is the likely end game. Cultures with high birth rates that have a beach head in the West will be the future. Wonder what they do with the national debts they will assume.
/r/MGTOW14/03/18 12:27 PM
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Agreed, divorce not final yet but I’m the happiest I’ve been in a really long time.
/r/MGTOW07/03/18 09:56 PM
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Here you go: http://www.ascd.org/publications/educational-leadership/nov04/vol62/num03/With-Boys-and-Girls-in-Mind.aspx
/r/MGTOW05/03/18 06:47 PM
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Same goes for the radio. I just watch anime and listen to podcasts. Curating your own content is liberating, and I agree it is hard to accomplish with Netflix as they are another progressive propaganda factory. If you happen to like anime, get crunchyroll.
/r/MGTOW04/03/18 01:59 PM
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True story. Wife quit her job because she didn’t like it. She didn’t understand that you don’t quit a job until you line up the next one. The concept was uncomprehendable. She didn’t start looking for another for 3 or 4 months. She mooched off of me for 5-7 months.
/r/MGTOW01/03/18 02:42 PM
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I think this is a defence mechanism of women. Their ego is so fragile, that when a relationship ends they can't even begin to comprehend that maybe they could have done things differently or that they were somehow at fault Your timing is perfect. I’m in a spot where i was wondering which way to go. Thanks bro.
/r/MGTOW27/02/18 07:10 PM
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Ditto
/r/MGTOW26/02/18 06:57 PM
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I lived in horse country Aiken SC. I disliked everything about that culture. Pretentious for no good reason.
/r/MGTOW24/02/18 04:07 PM
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Don’t throw the baby out with the bath water. That is a tactic of the thought police tearing down statues. Take what you want from wherever and to hell with the rest. IMHO of course.
/r/MGTOW23/02/18 02:25 AM
2

Excellent song my friend.
/r/MGTOW23/02/18 12:26 AM
1

Good post
/r/MGTOW22/02/18 03:51 AM
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Man I don’t have a clue how I would have handled MGTOW concepts so early. It’s a huge vacusuck of hopes. You are better for it of course. Just want to share 1 thing with you friend, I didn’t stop doing stupid ass shit until I was around 25. Hormones are real and they fuck up your vision. You can’t rely solely on porn to vacate the urge because it gets stale and you wind up in dark avenues eventually. Hobbies and self actualization are important. Develop a network of brotherhood because men are f…
/r/MGTOW22/02/18 03:18 AM
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Can’t upvote enough.
/r/MGTOW22/02/18 12:02 AM
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I finally got enough proof of my wife’s infidelity that I feel liberated. I actually feel really great. A large part comes from seeing a future free of Thot control. MGTOW concepts helped a lot. Divorce inbound obviously.
/r/MGTOW21/02/18 06:32 PM
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With a 1 and a half year old here. Pondering the same thing. Sure we probably can’t make them just like us but that is a crap comparison. We can certainly help them not be the worst. Teaching humility and accountability seem like big musts. Don’t send them off to UC Berkeley, that’s for damn sure. Of course they could always rebel and do the opposite. Maybe the fine touch is to not preach but to lead by example and explain your methods. Seems like we should have a subreddit for likeminded father…
/r/MGTOW21/02/18 04:29 AM
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I’ve been pumping alternatives to universities. Praxis and hackreactor are examples. Can get you trained up fast. Hack reactor claims to put you on par with a software engineer in a year. Just need employers to get out of their comfort zones and accept the equivalence. There is a general frustration with universities so maybe they will be inclined in the near future. Imagine getting your career started at 18 or 19. You will be years ahead with minimal debt.
/r/MGTOW21/02/18 12:43 AM
2

Love poundmetoo, they served that up on a platter
/r/MGTOW20/02/18 12:45 PM
6

Biggest actual lol from a meme in a really long time. Thanks OP
/r/MGTOW19/02/18 02:33 PM
9

It’s great how indignant they get when you dig for truth in a sea of lies.
/r/MGTOW19/02/18 12:27 AM
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Two womyns that I know of. Neither ever admitted it even when confronted with legit proof. They both Bill Clintoned and just lied straight through. I’ll be damned if I didn’t walk away from the confrontations somehow having gained no ground. I mean I was done both times, but they never came an inch off of the narratives they hamstered in their heads. Both times I knew what was going down but had to lay in wait until they did something that just didn’t jive. Basically just caught them in the cove…
/r/MGTOW19/02/18 12:24 AM
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Becoming acquainted with MGTOW is killing my admiration of the female form. Porn is becoming less reliable even. A welcomed change for many reasons though. MGTOW exposure also made me never want to eat a pussy again. A shame because I really enjoyed that part.
/r/MGTOW18/02/18 08:51 PM
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Can confirm, Asian wife is awalt. Edit: supreme gas-lighter and soon to be ex-wife
/r/MGTOW18/02/18 08:46 PM
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I’ve been curious if there is a relationship between MGTOW mindsets and rejection of pop culture and such. Do you give a crap about the Olympics, television, popular music, sports, etc... I find that when I’m in a hotel, a bar, or a waiting room I try to get as far from the TV as possible. It’s all bullshit. Granted I’ve pretty much always felt this way. Maybe it’s why I easily gravitate towards MGTOW.
/r/MGTOW18/02/18 05:03 PM
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This isn’t going to be popular here, but the new tax law appears to be removing a layer of government interference. I’d be all for it provided the states and counties follow up by adjusting the divorce payouts accordingly. I will be subject to this new law soon enough. Won’t make a difference, but i plan to make the case that my payments should be adjusted as such.
/r/MGTOW18/02/18 01:58 PM
3

Fights were military related? Username converts to E8 in hexadecimal. Would mean you served a long time.
/r/MGTOW17/02/18 03:56 PM
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I see, thank you for the seed material. You had a rough bout in the family courts my man, sucks but allow me to benefit from it :) I am also accused of anger issues. The thing is, I only ever raised my voice to one person. Now that I’ve detached from intimacy and no longer try to please her, poof, no anger. Funny how that works. They never own their part, always someone else’s fault.
/r/MGTOW17/02/18 12:17 PM
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Can give support through office hours I suppose.
/r/MGTOW17/02/18 10:24 AM
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Did you consult any resources like books or whatever on how to not raise your daughter in a shitty way or did you just figure it out yourself? I have a very young one that is in the process of being broken homed by her mother. I’m the kind of person that researches before acting so I’d prefer battle tested literature over just winging it.
/r/MGTOW17/02/18 10:15 AM
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And then put male students in a micromanaged class and watch them struggle. Boys and girls don’t learn the same way. Time to stop expecting boys to behave like girls.
/r/MGTOW17/02/18 01:09 AM
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Some show mileage, it’s not foolproof, but blown out tube socks are indicative of something.
/r/MGTOW16/02/18 03:01 PM
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Post bookmarked. Thanks brother.
/r/MGTOW16/02/18 02:38 AM
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I also think farts are funny. I recall taking my hardest final in college and some dude rocked a remote controlled fart box. 15 minutes later I was still thinking about it and couldn’t stop laughing.
/r/MGTOW13/02/18 03:12 AM
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Oh so you are close but need a stop gap until then? I wouldn’t mind throwing a few bones your way. Direct message me. Won’t be much, I have a divorce coming to prep for myself. Would need a little proof before I part with the dough though.
/r/MGTOW10/02/18 03:02 AM
1

You hit the negative jackpot on judges. What do the appellate judges look like?
/r/MGTOW10/02/18 02:56 AM
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Forgive my ignorance, but I was under the impression for whatever reason that you would get a decent medical response in prison. That being said, I’d love to think it wouldn’t come to having to go to prison. Please keep us abreast as it develops. Shit man, wonder if you could do a “go fund me” or whatever that is called. Make a stout video, maybe it will resonate with enough people.
/r/MGTOW10/02/18 02:54 AM
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Seconded seconded. I bookmarked this thread for future use. Amazingly screwed up.
/r/MGTOW10/02/18 02:48 AM
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Fuck me man! My shit sucks right now as I’m still in the throws of looming divorce, but it isn’t nearly that bad. You have to be battle hardened and scarred.
/r/MGTOW08/02/18 02:01 PM
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Jesus man you had a rough outing. Very sorry it went that far before you were able to invest in yourself.
/r/MGTOW08/02/18 01:58 PM
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Absolutely this! Men are far more capable of the Disney romance that is catered to the female audience. Like someone said before, she may have meant it at the time when she old you “forever” but that is subject to change 5 days, 5 weeks, 5 months or 5 years later.
/r/MGTOW08/02/18 01:56 PM
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You have a good point. I was planning on an equity split as well by getting an appraisal to facilitate. But sure, without actually selling it, you don’t really know do you?
/r/MGTOW08/02/18 10:05 AM
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Similar boat here. No forwarning and no desire to make things better. When you put so much of yourself and your identity into your marriage and kids and then that is taken away from you, you are left with a hole, a loss of identity. It’s early on for you friend. The denial, bargaining, avoidance, rage, etc... will likely come occupy you for a clip. This is natural and you should progress through it. Let it happen, but don’t stay too long there. Eventually you need to work on you, make an identit…
/r/MGTOW08/02/18 10:00 AM
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You know, I’ve always despised graffiti but I can make an exception in this case. Would like some examples though.
/r/MGTOW07/02/18 02:13 PM
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Robbing us of large portions of our kids childhood is unforgivable. 50% is great, but it still means 50% lost. How they can so flippantly give up so much of their time with their children says a lot about what kind of trash they are as parents. Yes they may love their kids, but it is clear that they loves themselves far more. And then there is the risk of damaging the children that the separation creates. I can’t understand how a person can do such things to their children.
/r/MGTOW06/02/18 04:36 PM
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Yeah I made a “your not alone” reply but deleted. You guys may be correct on this one.
/r/MGTOW06/02/18 04:32 PM
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It's just hard for me to wrap my head around how someone can just throw it away....especially when there's a child involved. I’m right there with you brother! 18 month old daughter. The shit started before she even turned 1 year. I’d have thrown the wife out already if the child development specialist didn’t advise waiting until she was 3. Every single move I make is patient and researched for my girl’s sake. How a mother can put her child out on the wire so flippantly like this is beyond what y…
/r/MGTOW03/02/18 08:54 PM
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Well said, copied for personal reflection.
/r/MGTOW03/02/18 08:51 PM
2

I wouldn’t say so. Stature is but a detail to add to the definition, the rest of the traits are far more significant.
/r/MGTOW30/01/18 12:43 PM
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And to make you simp longer with the false hope of some 3-way action.
/r/MGTOW30/01/18 12:43 AM
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Yep, we are too immature. We are the ones with the problem... Yikes.
/r/MGTOW30/01/18 12:34 AM
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Very happy for you my man. Sorry it went south, but you might have just received a life’s lesson on the cheap. Really sucks it has to be this way.
/r/MGTOW30/01/18 12:16 AM
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Either way, it's not a feeling that lasts forever. When it's gone, so is any semblance of genuine caring. Devastatingly true. It seems the Married red pill view is to dangle enough of a carrot so as to entice them with just enough to keep that feeling. The MGTOW view is to eat the carrot and let them go. Sex dolls are looking more and more appealing. The shitty part of MGTOW in my eyes is the potential for collapse of western civilization as our birth rates are already anemically low. Part and p…
/r/MGTOW29/01/18 03:54 PM
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Man you went above and beyond! Thank you for your time and concern. This community always brings me contentment in how harmonious it is with genuine concern and straightforward knowledge sharing. An island in the otherwise vapid sea of the Internet. My plan has been and continues to be to allow her to remain in the house until my child is of the proper age. This is based on expensive consultations with a child development specialist. The house is in my name and was purchased before we got marrie…
/r/MGTOW29/01/18 02:43 PM
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Ditto
/r/MGTOW28/01/18 10:23 PM
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Spot on my man! Spot on. It’s hard to realize and itemize these tactics when one is blue-pilled and playing fair, treating others as you would wish to be treated. The default is to assume the other party thinks and feels as you do. Stepping out and seeing you are not dealing with a likeminded peer is game changing. In the end, the only way to win the game is not to play. Shitty but necessary conclusion.
/r/MGTOW28/01/18 05:06 PM
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Yeah that’s good one
/r/MGTOW28/01/18 02:37 PM
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Labels aren’t important. Was just making a comment. I’ll go my own way.
/r/MGTOW28/01/18 07:46 AM
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My upper 30s Asian wife told me she hasn’t loved me for over a year and a half and wouldn’t lift a finger to make things any better. According to her “we aren’t separated but we are not together.” She wants the resources and all the goods but none of the wifely responsibilities. I have another year and a half until my daughter is at an age where my getting the fuck out will do less damage. I’ve heard you can’t be married and MGTOW. Maybe so, but I’d like to think I’m close.
/r/MGTOW28/01/18 02:17 AM
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Read the sleep isn’t good though. Puts you in deep sleep longer when you should be cycling. Food for thought. Melatonin works for me. Cheers.
/r/MGTOW27/01/18 03:21 PM
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I have never believed anything that is contrary to your post. My concern about mass migration is birth rates and integration. In the west the birth rate is unsustainably low and having other groups join in with significantly higher birth rates is problematic. After a few generations the exponential nature of the difference in rates becomes quite significant. This alone isn’t a problem. I’d be ok with all that if the new population makes a significant effort to adapt to the norms and traditions o…
/r/MGTOW26/01/18 02:36 PM
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Wonder if there was a police report. Wonder if when she told her husband about the rape, before or after the pregnancy test.
/r/MGTOW26/01/18 02:23 PM
1

First post that has ever made me audibly and involuntarily gasp. Good god!
/r/MGTOW26/01/18 02:20 PM
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Two different women, one being my wife. Who knows whether or not there have been others.
/r/MGTOW24/01/18 09:05 PM
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Outstanding!
/r/MGTOW23/01/18 01:11 AM
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An open conversation would have been appropriate to enable the young man to come to his own conclusions at the appropriate time. Empty rhetoric is vacuous regardless of which side it is coming from. The issue is superficial mothers imparting zero depth to their children as a result of their having little to no depth in themselves. Edit: "Open" could have been that she isn't down with it and here is why... Furthermore, wtf did she expect? She sent him to a religious school. You can't put your chi…
/r/MGTOW22/01/18 11:20 PM
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Hidden neglect is a real thing. Though they may provide the basics to a degree, character enrichment is neglected. I watched a boy ask his mother about religion with an open heart and she could only regurgitate anti-religion rhetoric. Didn’t meet him in a meaningful conversation in any way. Now she wants to pull him out of his “backwater” private school because he found guidance there and is bible-thumping to a degree. No sense of introspection of responsibility.
/r/MGTOW22/01/18 06:12 PM
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Yup, expressions of gratitude only come when they do not feel in control. Even then it usually comes late and is forced.
/r/MGTOW22/01/18 06:07 PM
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I knew she was trouble and I was extremely cautious about having a child with her. She would be the worst albatross to have hanging around in a co-parent situation. Well we had a baby and less than a year late the wife shits the bed and wants out. I will be fine, I don’t take it personally. This is just the way she is. What I am not ok with is what this runs a risk of doing to my child.
/r/MGTOW22/01/18 12:05 PM
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I had an ex gf once that cut off sex so she could regain some elasticity in the vag for the next guy. Of course I appreciated that motto when we first hooked up. “What she does with you, so to will she do to you.” Thank you for your concern brother. I’m considering getting a surrogate for another child. The sooner we can obsolete women with this behavior, the better. Phone glitched, sorry for multiple replies.
/r/MGTOW22/01/18 11:57 AM
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I struggle with it as well.
/r/MGTOW09/01/18 06:21 PM
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I struggle with this. I was alone a lot in youth and I wasn't strong enough to appreciate it. Nowadays, the thought of vacationing alone really doesn't appeal to me. I was the happiest I've ever been while married until she dropped the bomb on me. Maybe I'll be able to try solitude again with newfound interest.
/r/MGTOW09/01/18 06:20 PM
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Well said. Realizing a current thought or feeling is temporary and will change is liberating. The alternative of dwelling on negativity is debilitating.
/r/MGTOW08/01/18 06:02 PM
1

I do have an exit plan, but I am waiting until my daughter is a little older. Never dreamed I'd have a broken home child. I'm doing everything I possibly can to minimize the damage that is coming her way. Basically the wife distanced herself from me without my knowing it and then when she was ready told me she hasn't loved me in over a year. "Coincidentally" she works late now and works out hard every day. Standard stuff really. You and I both know what that means. Found an Xmas gift she intende…
/r/MGTOW07/01/18 03:33 AM
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Hanging in for my child for the moment. Leaving will happen eventually.
/r/MGTOW07/01/18 03:26 AM
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We'll said my friend. Friends of old do disappear in marriage and family, but there are many more out there to befriend. Meetup.com is a great start. I used it every time I moved to a new place. Also, I am very lucky in that when shit hit the fan in my marriage, 2 of my closest friends were also going through shit in theirs. Started hunting and that's when it all opened up. Guys all around have places to hunt, people I barely acquainted are inviting all the time.
/r/MGTOW07/01/18 03:25 AM
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All true, but I haven't mastered enjoying going by myself yet.
/r/MGTOW07/01/18 02:10 AM
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Things are complete shit in my "marriage" at the moment and have been for a while now. Found a anniversary card in her drawer, something to the effect of "best friend and love..." Never delivered. No proof, but plenty of circumstantial evidence that a Chad is out there.
/r/MGTOW02/01/18 04:24 PM
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Things are complete shit in my "marriage" at the moment and have been for a while now. Found a anniversary card in her drawer, something to the effect of "best friend and love..." Never delivered. No proof, but plenty of circumstantial evidence that a Chad is out there.
/r/MGTOW02/01/18 02:50 PM
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Things are complete shit in my "marriage" at the moment and have been for a while now. Found a anniversary card in her drawer, something to the effect of "best friend and love..." Never delivered. No proof, but plenty of circumstantial evidence that a Chad is out there.
/r/MGTOW02/01/18 02:47 PM
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Things are complete shit in my "marriage" at the moment and have been for a while now. Found a anniversary card in her drawer, something to the effect of "best friend and love..." Never delivered. No proof, but plenty of circumstantial evidence that a Chad is out there.
/r/MGTOW02/01/18 02:47 PM
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Things are complete shit in my "marriage" at the moment and have been for a while now. Found a anniversary card in her drawer, something to the effect of "best friend and love..." Never delivered. No proof, but plenty of circumstantial evidence that a Chad is out there.
/r/MGTOW02/01/18 02:43 PM
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Things are complete shit in my "marriage" at the moment and have been for a while now. Found a anniversary card in her drawer, something to the effect of "best friend and love..." Never delivered. No proof but plenty of circumstantial evidence of a Chad out there.
/r/MGTOW02/01/18 02:42 PM
1

Things are complete shit in my "marriage" at the moment and have been for a while now. Found a anniversary card in her drawer, something to the effect of "best friend and love..." Never delivered.
/r/MGTOW02/01/18 02:41 PM
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Mine is apparently bipolar but won't accept the diagnosis so will do nothing to fix it. I'm stuck in this marriage for the moment, it is hell.
/r/MGTOW29/12/17 07:28 PM
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That's some powerful Jutsu!
/r/MGTOW27/12/17 05:17 PM
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Started playing D&D, my character is called MGTOW and I carry a few bottles of toxic masculinity in my inventory. I don't know what it does yet. Open to suggestions. I'm leaning on it not doing anything.
/r/MGTOW24/12/17 09:58 PM
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