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If their comment came from a guy you’d accept it. Not sure why you’re telling someone of the opposite gender how they function lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:58 PM
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The struggles are different and not made to compare on who has it worse. It would be best if both sides empathized with each other
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:40 PM
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I’m a white male Canadian. Just roast me anyway you want my guy. I’ll take it well
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:46 AM
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Bro, you are able to do whatever the fuck you want, no matter what team you decide to play for. Who cares if you’re a man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:33 AM
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Being a man has nothing to do with doing what you want lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:25 AM
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Ya he’s a loser
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 01:18 AM
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You’re fuckn weird
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 10:15 PM
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You’re asking if my wife was cheating on me? What a dumb question
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 10:08 PM
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You’re an idiot lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:34 PM
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As if men don’t either? Many men lie about their N-count so they don’t come off as a player. It would also be a red flag because if they were honest and the girl asked ‘have you ever been tested then?’ Then the guy would say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:27 PM
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That’s not even close to what I said tho but ok bro
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 08:04 AM
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The problem when comparing men with women is way more often than men, women actually give 2 shits about their appearance. Many men do give a fuck about their appearance but then expect to be called attractive. You have no idea how many men could become attractive by doing simple things like maintaining a clean look/positive hygiene, smell good, wear clothes that actually fit/have a sense of style and be personable. Women have been doing this for a while already….I wonder why it works?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 07:53 AM
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Lmao you can’t be serious. If you’re an attractive male, not only do you benefit fit from being a male (proven wage discrepancies, not having to deal with glass ceiling or you know, not being oppressed like what we’re seeing in Iran atm) and on top of that, you’re also attractive, so you get the benefits of choosing attractive partners, getting preferential treatment etc. it is absolutely much easier to first of all be a male in society and you’re also attractive so life is already pretty good. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:41 AM
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Men also need to know that the first date isn’t hoping in the women likes you. Almost 99% of the time, the guy is paying for the first date so men are the ones doing the vetting process, not the woman. You gotta figure out if she’s good for you too my kings
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 01:11 PM
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Having close women in my social group has made me into the best version of my dating self. It’s helped so much having their perspective on dating and the other genre it’s insane. Every guy needs a platonic female friend
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 03:40 AM
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What sub is that in?
/r/PussyPassDenied07/09/22 05:13 PM
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I’m doing my MBA at a top school next year. After I’m done, I have a generally good idea on how much I’ll make. I’ll be on par or higher than a doctor or lawyer. I’d say be funny/witty, have personality, be interesting and be clean cut if they are. I will absolutely say, being hot or showing off your body is not a personality trait. Men see right through you, will use you quick and realize you have nothing else to offer, they’ll push you aside. If you’re attractive, funny, engaging and genuinely…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:52 PM
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$200K and stay at home? $200K isn’t enough now a days for 2 people in major expensive cities. That shit is purely bread by how someone is raised
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 01:37 PM
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I’m very well traveled, , am close with my family, I think I’m funny (maybe even funny looking), I dress very well, sad to say this but I’m the right height that western women prefer, I have a good job, going into my MBA, I’m half Latino and half Italian, I love to cook (that means cooking for my partner too), am interesting as I have a lot of stories about traveling, and get along with a lot of people. My flaws? I struggle with relationships since I’m always looking down the road of ‘well what’…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:02 AM
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Lmao females. Cmon bro
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:14 AM
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Lmao women don’t have easier lives anywhere on the fuckn planet. You can’t be that naive
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:06 AM
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Lmao women don’t owe men shit. Same with vice versa. That’s it. Live your life following this rule and it’s a path towards enlightenment
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 11:49 PM
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This is so horribly staged lol
/r/PussyPassDenied17/07/22 11:56 AM
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The reason why people give that vague advice is they don’t want to be rude. Women and men know exactly why someone is having issues dating. But what’s better to say, ‘tbh bro, you’re kinda ugly, overweight and dress like shit’ vs ‘just be more confident!’ No matter how strong one might claim to be, that’ll hurt their feelings so people walk on the side of caution when being honest. It’s legit a basic human reaction and we’ve all done it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:51 AM
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I’m happy I don’t live in the US where this is even a conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:38 PM
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I don't know what any of that means. Simple terms?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 02:34 AM
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I’m really confused as to why it was overturned? I’m not American so I’m a bit out of the loop, but why did they feel the need to overturn it? It’s odd
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 02:19 AM
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I’ve drastically improved with women over time. I’m 28 now but in the last 2 years where I started to try hard to care about myself, things changed for the better. Who would’ve thought that putting in effort in yourself would make things a lot better? I’m not even talking about working out or any of that. Simple stuff that anyone can like wearing form fitting clothes, being clean cut, have a modern hair style, smell good with a nice fragrance, have a skincare routine, etc. these factors elevated…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:59 PM
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A man doesn’t need to be dominant to be a good lover tho. You know how many men will ‘dominate’ but can’t even find the clit or know what the hell their partner likes? Being attentive and listening to your partner will make you a much better lover than some ‘dominant’ male who just shoves it in and goes ‘oh ya baby, you like that?’ Like what jimmy? You put it in my butt instead of my vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:24 PM
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So I’m not even joking. If she legit made an OF and it was about her pooing in the bed, she could make quite a bit of money lol.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/06/22 01:12 AM
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Would you sleep around with greasy thirsty dudes if they’re coming after you? Probably not m8.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 05:47 AM
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Men date down or across. Women date up or across. It makes perfect sense and balances out really. There are exceptions to the rule
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 06:40 PM
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This x1000. I could never imagine spending so much of my time to go on a public forum to argue women’s obscene privilege. Dude needs a hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 08:37 AM
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I have 2 very close women friends. They provide great emotional and empathetic support that I just can’t get with my friends. Women have this innate natural ability to show great empathy and it’s made me really value how important that is. I’ve learned a ton from them in this area and I use it with my other friends
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:48 PM
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I wish more people understood this. This sub is toxic for that and these single boi’s come in making huge assumptions about the opposite sex without ever talking to them lol. They’d solve all their issues by treating the opposite sex as regular people, to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 01:37 PM
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It is the center of the universe so I say it is
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 10:27 PM
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Ontario/Toronto dating scene is absurd. I’m talking about my examples with dating women in toronto but damn, the entitlement is astounding. Then you hear stories of a typical Toronto mans as well and it’s just overall unhealthy. It’s always a constant pissing contest
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 09:33 PM
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Whoever brings up anything related to being alpha are idiots. Never try and be alpha, whoever does looks stupid and trying way too hard to be this macho person when it’s not needed. It’s weird
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 05:28 AM
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The money and their salary has nothing to do with their struggles
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 01:57 PM
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I’ve told women I work at subway as a sandwich artist to fuck with them. Fuck that noise
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:01 AM
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I mean, why have a 6 pack when you can have a keg, anyways?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:10 PM
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Basically any coastal city in the US. Making 6 figures+ in the US isn’t hard for most professionals
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 10:48 PM
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Probably because you refer to them as bitches
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 10:46 PM
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I’m average af I think and your description fits me well
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:03 AM
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No one will say it but men and women have common overlapping duties and then their own gendered duties. I find it odd that people say ‘there are no duties’. Try living life without a gendered duty and see how far that gets you. Can women wear whatever they want? Absolutely. Should they? Up to them, but they know how fucked up the world is and it’ll put them in harms way. Can men dress how they want? Of course! Should they? Depends if they want ridicule from the women around them. What about in d…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 03:49 PM
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Ya idc about getting married. I’m 27 with not much of a future due to extremely high housing costs so why push for marriage and kids
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:26 PM
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If you’ve been put in the friend zone then so be it. It’s over with the girl other than being friends and you need to forget about trying to work on yourself because ‘omg, if she only knew how great of a guy I really am she’d change her mind!’ Leave her the fuck alone and move on. Befriend women because you want them to be your friend
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:47 PM
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That is not what they expect at all. See what i mean? You haven’t slept with a women but yet know what they expect….how do you know this? If you actually asked them and talked to them about it, you’d see that your perception is wrong and I know it’s hard to believe this….but women are just regular humans, like guys are
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:03 PM
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You know sex is a 2 way street right? If a women is experienced, she is 1000x better in bed than someone who’s not. Nothing is worse than an inexperienced woman who tries to give you a hj like she’s trying to get the last of the ketchup out of the bottle.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:47 PM
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They want someone who knows what they’re doing and willing to learn what makes their girl go over the edge. You wanna stand out in bed? Next time you’re with a girl or your girl, ask them, ‘what would you like me to do to you?/what do you like?’ Listen to their instruction and you’re 50% of the way there. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:45 PM
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Why are you guys so fixated on the 0 body count. Don’t you want someone experienced to pleasure you?! Men on here probably want a size 0 dress with DD bra size and 0 body count
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:32 PM
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He just wants to hear people say that they would choose a better financial position over a relationship. I agree, way too contextual
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 02:15 AM
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cries with recessed chin
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 01:30 AM
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This sub is 90% neckbeards who have never spoken to a women but know everything about them. Absolutely there are men equivalents to what women do but because this notion doesn’t line up with the neckbeards ideologies, they think it’s one sided and say ‘oh well men have it worse’
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 05:37 PM
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It’s Megan fox tho
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:04 PM
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Hey OP. How about you stop caring what others do. If guys wanna simp then who cares. Makes the non simpers stand out
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:18 AM
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If Megan fox and I go out for dinner and she chews with her mouth open. There’s 0 chance it could work…..I’d still smash tho
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 02:17 AM
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You’re an idiot. But when they realize you aren’t rich and powerful, then what? You know yourself you aren’t rich and powerful so why even try and come across like that? You’re just faking it all to appear like something you’re not to impress people you don’t even like. I’ve lived in Chile and Latin America for a year, I know what it’s like and they know when someone is a gringo pendejo
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:59 PM
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Average would be Jonah Hill. Not ideal body weight, height, jaw line, etc. But you know what makes him stand out? He’s fuckn hilarious and has a personality. You fail to realize how important being able to talk to someone is. And you also don’t know much about women either, the majority of this sub would solve their issues by actually talking to women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:48 PM
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Average women don’t interact with average men? I’m perfectly average and can get the women I go after for the most part
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:39 PM
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Average women interact with average men…..
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:27 PM
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They stay clear of people with anti social behavior and shitty personalities. You don’t need to be Thor to get attention, you need to personality….doesn’t seem like you have one
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 04:59 PM
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What about being born as a woman and their luck for upward mobility for jobs? Does that take into account the glass ceiling? Men have it 100x easier in any job force
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 03:35 PM
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Just word of advice, you won’t change anyone. Women try to change men often in relationships and it doesn’t work out. And as well, this is the internet, it’s not worth the time
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:40 PM
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That’s like going to Afghanistan and trying to find goodness in the Taliban. People are too far gone in their beliefs and nothing can change it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:26 PM
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It’s because this sub is sad and knows nothing about women. It’s all neck beards who have never talked to the opposite gender before but somehow know everything there is to know about womens wants and why they act the way they act. You can legit only face palm reading the threads in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:45 PM
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Any reasons why or why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:13 PM
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I’d try them at bars so at least you aren’t stuck spending $$ on alcohol you might not even like. Try an amaretto sour next time you go to a decent bar. Might be $10-$15 but at least you’ll know if you like them. It’s one of my favourite drinks to make! I think you’d like an Aperol Spritz. It’s very light and refreshing (basically an orangey drink with bubbly). Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:07 PM
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You need to find drinks that you enjoy. Straight liquor is kinda tough but find a nice cocktail and it’s delicious
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:14 PM
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It’s because they almost rarely exist but for some reason, men here think every single woman is like that but also defend the man wanting a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:17 AM
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No shit you’ll get ignored if you’re quiet. Having social skills puts you leagues ahead of everyone else but for some reason, people lose their shit when they don’t try to get noticed, don’t go up and talk to the girl they’re interested in and then get upset when she picks someone else. Like r u srs? I’m a solid 6/10 but have great success on the apps and in person Because im a sociable guy. But wait for the guys who claim to be 2/10 chime in and be like ‘but I’m a 2/10 and this this and that’. …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:05 AM
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It’s not even worth the argument. It’s all neck beards in here who cover their eyes and ears and Scream they aren’t listening
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:02 AM
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It’s not even worth arguing man. These neck beards refuse to change anything about themselves and just want people to constantly feel bad for them. Ya, dating is hard. If it’s something isn’t working, update yourself. Men know what girls want in a guy but they don’t want to change for some reason. Makes no sense to me and then they come and complain ‘but but all women bad!’
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:40 AM
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The bar is set so low for men now a days that there’s no reason why men can’t get a woman of their choosing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:36 PM
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OP didn’t get his New Years kiss so he’s big mad
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:18 PM
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She realized she was wrong but she tried her best to turn around the audacity
/r/PussyPassDenied30/12/21 04:41 PM
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Literally anyone and everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:05 AM
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🤦🏻🤦🏻🤦🏻🤦🏻🤦🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 08:02 PM
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Your first give away is that you refer them as females. This isn’t grade 5 anymore m8. The hobbies that my women friends have are: plants/collecting house plants, water painting, hiking, ceramic sculpting, cooking, interior design, pole dancing, biking, traveling, reading, etc etc. sure, they watch Netflix at the end of each day maybe but why not ask your women friends what their hobbies instead of jumping to conclusion
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 03:23 PM
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You need to open up your social circle then. Every women I know has many hobbies that they love and have nothing to do with any guy in their life. This sub is incel central and it’s sad
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 04:05 AM
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Whatever you say buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 02:30 PM
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🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️ ‘their hobbies are shopping, watching TV and posting on insta’. Seems like you’ve never talked to a women before and know nothing about them. Also seems like because you have money now, you’ve turned that into your identity and have nothing else to offer
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 02:10 PM
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This is completely incorrect. Teens grow into adults and their experiences of moving out, living on their own, dating, etc etc form their new opinions on the world and 99% of the teen traits people have get dropped by the time they hit their mid 20’s when they are becoming professionals in the work place
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:45 AM
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A lot of the advice out there is pretty bad advice in general. Like those videos ‘how to get ANY girl to sleep with you’ or bullshit stuff like that. It creates this negative connotation that women are in fact objects or prizes that should be claimed or won……. That’s absolutely horrible advice but I think when people seek self help in that area, they start to realize that there’s a whole picture that has to be taken into consideration like men cleaning up their look/hygiene, fixing up their ward…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 03:31 PM
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This is an interesting thread. Long story short, women can afford to say ‘nah’ and move on. Men, cannot afford this luxury and have to do the chasing. Supply and demand
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 05:12 AM
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Ya same. OP, delete this
/r/PussyPassDenied14/12/21 12:27 AM
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I know, it’s ridiculous and sorry you have to go through that but that’s the issue with incel dominated subs. These think they know everything about women without ever talking to them because they watch a few videos on them. Like that’s so unhealthy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 03:13 PM
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I have! That there’s way more men in here that have never talked to women before that I thought. Almost all your problems and ideas about the opposite gender would be fixed if you spoke to the other gender a few times here and there lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 02:57 PM
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Read all the other comments here and you’ll see. It’s peoples own insecurities get in their own way since it’s all in their head.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:11 PM
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I’d like to buy a vowel
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:08 PM
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No no, I get that part that ya, life is easier if you’re attractive but how many times do people have to say it? It’s not new, it’s not a revelation or ground breaking. It’s just the same broken record all the time paying the same sad tune. It adds zero value to the convo and the 2 cents that are put in are completely meaningfulness. It’s not a thoughtful thought, it’s just peoples insecurities getting the best of them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 01:19 AM
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This argument is so stupid and annoying and adds no value. ‘Something something if you’re attractive enough’. Great addition, so what’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 12:20 AM
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I wonder what the number is for sexless women and how it compares
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 01:04 AM
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One of the few comments in this sub I agree with
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 11:01 PM
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I’ll be honest, I agree 100% that men don’t know what women want. That’s why it’s so imperative for men to focus on themselves and be the best version of themselves before seeking a partner. Same goes for women when they’re looking for a relationship. Many people will act accordingly to what they think the opposite gender likes. However, my point stands is that men need advice from other men on dating advice. I can’t speak for women because I’m not one but in my experience, women mean well but h…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 05:01 PM
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You’re taking the term way too literally. Nobody is trying to strong arm anyone, it’s that fisherman that have a lot of experience, know how to catch a fish under certain environment factors, location, weather, etc and then try and lure them with bait. The bait can be compared to a man’s ability to talk to a woman, his looks, height, job, etc. maybe he knows where to pick the up, how to be interesting and suave and what not but nothing is being forced. The man knows how to make himself look valu…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 04:25 PM
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Why not? Women on average care much more about style than most guys. They know what’s in style and what modern trends are appropriate for men. You should absolutely listen to what they have to say for style
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 04:15 PM
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Honestly, asking women how to attract women is horrible. It has nothing to do with them but their advice is generally anecdotal and you wouldn’t ask a fish how to catch a fish. Ask a successful man that has decent numbers behind him and he’ll know exactly what works and what doesn’t. Women offer advice based on what they want in a guy, they’re just projecting their choices. What they don’t realize is that you ask 100 women and you’ll get 100 different answers. What you definitely should ask a wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 02:32 AM
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I’m a guy and I’ve been single for a while but my number is in the 20’s. My friends only found out about my number recently and were completely shocked. I was shocked that they were shocked because now I sort of know what they think of me. But I usually like to keep that side of my life a secret until someone actually asks. I wouldn’t call myself ugly but I’m also not a chad. My friends do talk up a huge game but then have 0 success with women or don’t get any matches and then get surprised when…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 10:04 PM
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I’m a guy and my old roommate and I would just not agree on the dishes thing. Clean up after you cook, easy and done with. You go to bed with a clean conscious. Done, null, zilch, nada. But leaving it overnight is just stupid as fuck. Like why not just clean it? Near the end of the lease he got better because he knows I’d make a fuss over it every time if he left it overnight. But it’s not that hard…..or is it? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 12:15 AM
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Why would you disrespect Danny DeVito like that
/r/PussyPassDenied14/11/21 10:41 PM
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That you and many other guys have this weird fetish about women only wanting tall guys lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 06:35 AM
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And plenty of women don’t want 6’4.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 04:23 AM
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This is an interesting post. Anyone can be happy being single and that’s perfectly okay. But after the age of 45, it sure as shit gets lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 04:55 PM
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Idk what point you’re trying to prove. But all I can recommend is you stop caring about all of it. Who cares if some women prefer taller guys. The world spins and life goes on. Many women like not so tall guys, and again, life goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 01:25 AM
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You’re taking 2 examples so far out of context that you’re concluding your hypothesis. What about all the women that didn’t go and jump these peoples bones? What do you have to say for them? Absolutely nothing and because a few file were interested in a guy who happened to be tall, you’re concluding that ‘yup, it’s the height’. You’re height insecurities are making you have a really negative view on society and it’s getting in your way
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 12:42 AM
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Most women (on average) absolutely do not want a 6ft hunk with chiseled jaw line and kinda of fit/buff. You’re letting social media dictate your perception of the entire world and it’s horribly skewed. People like different things in people. Some like taller, others shorter, some like light or darker skinned, eye color, yada-yada….. Hollywood people have the best plastic surgeons on the planet, barely any of it is real and tangible. You sound like you’re 18 years old dude lol. No adult would tal…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 11:38 PM
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I’m convinced real FDS women don’t even exist out there. Has anyone every encountered one?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 09:29 PM
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Okay that’s r/oddlyspecific
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 02:16 AM
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Men complain why they don’t get dates and wonder why? just read the fuckn comments here! Literally a cesspool of men taking their insecurities out on the opposite genders lol. Absolutely facepalm worthy but it’s sad. You dudes need to go outside every now and again
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 01:01 AM
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Ya but red flags are subjective sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 12:57 AM
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I just don’t get that fallacy….you guys can talk bare shit about women and don’t believe in feminism but will love your gf’s/mothers/wives, etc but wouldn’t stand up for other women?
/r/PussyPassDenied03/11/21 02:31 AM
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I mean ya, I am. Aren’t you?
/r/PussyPassDenied02/11/21 11:56 PM
0

Not really. 90% of the posts are blown way out of proportion and just stupid af. As well, it’s toxic to constantly see people hating on other people or making fun of them
/r/PussyPassDenied02/11/21 02:04 PM
4

Alright man
/r/PussyPassDenied02/11/21 06:26 AM
5

r/whereareallthegoodmen is a good start
/r/PussyPassDenied02/11/21 04:50 AM
5

It’s absolutely not fine
/r/PussyPassDenied02/11/21 04:49 AM
10

👍🏻
/r/PussyPassDenied02/11/21 03:43 AM
12

Alright
/r/PussyPassDenied02/11/21 03:17 AM
10

Ok
/r/PussyPassDenied02/11/21 02:57 AM
9

What’s hilarious?
/r/PussyPassDenied02/11/21 02:51 AM
104

There’s already too many subs like that and it’s horrible
/r/PussyPassDenied02/11/21 12:05 AM
1

People of both genders bend over backwards for attractive people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 08:22 PM
0

Probably something similar with more modern standards. Usually a 2.1 software update would fix most growing pains associated with 2.9
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:39 PM
3

A lot of women will think they can change a man’s mind or change them but offering them sex and basically bending at their will if they’re treated poorly. It ends up with the woman not being successful and getting fairly hurt in the process
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 08:39 AM
9

This is the reason why many men fail in dating. They’re so insecure about someone better than them coming along that they lose sight that the chick in front of them is attracted to them. But no, they let it get to their head that ‘oh but but, what if another guy who’s got more money, taller, better looking’ etc etc. who gives a shit if they’re all that, you have the girls attention and she’s interested in you for YOU. She’s not just waiting for someone better to come
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 12:38 AM
5

Ya no. You know this is not true, so stop with this ideology
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 12:36 AM
2

Not as much as you honestly think. Why is it that you see many women on here having the same complains that they don’t get matches?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 05:53 PM
6

Here we go. OP, you think women are specifically out to get you and make you have a shit time with dating on purpose. What’s really making you have a shit time with dating is your negative view on what women are like and not treating them like a regular human….. Many many women also have horrible times on dating apps and it’s absolutely not all sunshine and rainbows for them like you or many men think it is. The moral of the story is both sides have shit times on dating apps and you can’t fix th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 05:23 PM
1

Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 03:39 PM
1

Whatever you say bucko
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 03:29 PM
0

Ughh no, not only chad. Only men that aren’t incels who hate women. There’s so many women out there for all the men, but men refuse to give any sort of effort to help their case and then blame the system when they don’t try at all
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 03:19 PM
-2

The argument of a quick fuck is so stupid. Men have access to a quick fuck, go and pay someone. Women have access to sex as well, but does mean they want to have sex with all the options they have? Absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 11:19 AM
27

But I mean, 80% of this sub is men not knowing what women want
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:10 PM
4

I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:10 PM
19

It was an answer to another post except it was a generic woman and a really sexy woman with similar descriptions
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:27 PM
1

But that doesn’t make sense. If she looks much hotter than a 5 then she’s not a 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:21 PM
1

Why’s that? Aren’t the scales the same? Wouldn’t the 5’s go for each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:27 PM
1

I find it weird that each gender will try and hype up their own gender ‘omg she’s so beautiful’ when she’s a solid 2 but when it’s the opposite gender….. ‘omg he’s so ugly’. Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:47 PM
1

Lmao well said! It’s the neckbeards who refuse to put any effort into their style and then complain when other guys do and do better than them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 09:45 PM
1

Women don’t need to want to fuck you or date you to look over at you. I’m aware that 90% of attention doesn’t mean they want something out of me, but when a girl glances at you more than once, it could mean a few things but if you’re dressed stylish, it helps you tremendously
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:51 PM
2

It’s literally this easy. By putting in effort into your appearance. Especially in North America where the standards are so low for men, it’s so easy to stand out with style and hygiene alone. I try and dress fairly European with a modern haircut and I get looks left right and centre walking down the street. But then you have guys tell you ‘you’re trying too hard bro’ Well then who’s the one that gets the attention? I’m also a solid 6/10 so if I can do it, anyone can
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 01:53 PM
-1

🤦🏻🤦🏻🤦🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 05:22 PM
-1

Well here’s the problem. You’re letting women dictate your own requirements for attractiveness. You need to determine that yourself and not let others choose for you. Women are most attracted to the confidence of that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 01:09 PM
2

The issue is women don’t give any signs of physical stuff for a while to make some men wait, so the men leave. I’ve done it in the past because I’m putting in effort, it’s clear I’m interested in more than just the physical stuff (like going out on numerous dates and not rushing anything) and then they turn around and say they want to wait. Okay no problem, I’ll wait, but how long is reasonable before it’s not? I don’t want to play games as well and waste my time
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 09:23 AM
6

Well 80% Reddit is people from North America so that’s probably why you see those view points
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 04:33 PM
5

It did happen to me in Morocco. Some women in Morocco expected me to pay for their taxi to and from our ‘date’. I was like ‘ya no thanks’
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 03:36 PM
22

Woah woah, it’s a US/Canada problem! I travel a lot for work and in many other parts of the world, the woman legit wouldn’t let me take my wallet out of my pocket. I was downright shocked to say the least. Where does the entitlement come from in canada/US?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 08:43 AM
2

I just play it safe and ignore any girl who makes eye contact with me. In the height of harassment charges and easily being labeled as a weirdo for just saying hi, it’s best to avoid it all
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 09:45 PM
1

Because any guy with half a brain knows his time is rarely worth chasing a girl. The older you get (I’m 27, so not even that old), the more you realize how any woman who’s entitled or immature is just an insane hard no. Any girl who’s worth it but is playing hard to get is a hard no. Making someone work for dating or a relationship is kind of dumb if it’s only one sided
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 09:54 PM
1

Pretty sure this isn’t true. Jordan Peterson had a good video on the types of people who hold high positions of power. He consulted at law firms and worked with very bright women who made partner and held high positions but at some point, they aspired to have kids and want other things in life since being a lawyer is horrendous for work life balance. Women want to bare children at some point meanwhile the men who hold high positions might not. These type of people are complete robots and have fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 02:44 PM
6

I’m a guy and like to dress up when I can. I’m not talking about a suit and tie every time I go out, but a nice pair of chinos, with a tucked in linen button down and rolled up sleeves paired with a casual set of tassel loafers. Make me look very Italian but not trying to hard. I don’t do it for others, I do it for myself because I feel like Tom Ford when I’m dressed like that and then my confidence will resonate and that’s what people are attracted to. Not so much the outfit itself, but the per…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 05:14 PM
10

I hate the argument so much. Some men just want to understand the reason behind what women do and want to make it seem it’s because of them. A big one I see is the fake nails argument. So many guys complain how it’s stupid and doesn’t look nice and think women do it for men lol. Women do it because they like it, but men who put 0 effort into their appearance then complain that women go the extra mile to look good AND then these guys will then complain why women overlook them so easily. Sorry I h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 04:35 PM
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Ya but men think women do all these things to attract men. They do it because they like it and thinks it looks nice on them. They couldn’t give a rats ass if men think it’s a waste of time or not. Some of the comments here are baffled that women put more time into their appearance and then say it’s a waste of time, like why even try and argue it. Who gives a shit. Maybe if you showered in between your magic then gathering games, you would be able to notice this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 04:06 PM
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It’s not even acting like a man. It’s acting like a fuckn idiot. Men don’t go around slapping other people, it’s dumbasses with smol egos.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/08/21 11:58 AM
442

👁👄👁
/r/PussyPassDenied20/08/21 03:34 PM
3

The only thing is the neckbeards will change their angle to blame women for something else now
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 01:27 PM
1

It’s not even that. They think the game is rigged and every girl is out to get them. They need to work on their own issues because it’s stopping them from moving forward. You could be the most attractive guy out there, if you have serious internal demons, it won’t matter how hot you are. Gotta love thyself
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 06:44 PM
2

No it’s not worth it because she’ll never be attracted to you? Lol wut the hell. If that’s the thinking people have, they need to confront their own issues before dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 06:31 PM
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It’s a lose lose. That’s why this sub is annoying sometimes. If these guys actually took the chance to talk to women and see they’re regular humans and not some alien like species that are out to get men, then they’d be a lot happier in life
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 07:07 PM
7

I know it’s not true. This sub is filled with neckbeards who have never spoken to women but know all about them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 06:50 PM
1

Ya no, stop with this bullshit please.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 05:46 PM
3

This is probably the only thread I’ve seen on here where the comments actually make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 01:37 PM
1

There’s a level of respect that’s deserved from both parties I’d say. It’s common decency to at least wait until you’re not with each other anymore. It’s a weird smoke and mirrors territory but I’d side with the chick on this one
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 07:14 AM
1

Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 08:51 AM
2

Most things in life are not, but I know for certain on this sub it is. It’s a joke lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 07:20 AM
1

I think as long as the numbers are similar for each person in the relationship, it’s fine usually? I’m a guy, my number is a bit high I guess but my ex that I dated briefly was a bit lower due to her being in a 3 year relationship. Nbd right? Well I guess when she asked me how many I’ve slept with, saying ‘idk, I stopped counting’ was not the correct answer lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:52 PM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 02:12 PM
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This sub is a bunch of neckbeards who have never spoken to women but know all about them apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 02:11 PM
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There could be slight correlation. People who tend to care about the way they dress tend to have their house under control. Europe and NA have different cultural mindsets when it comes to households. Usually men will live with their parents for longer than normal in Italy and then the parents will move in with the son when he has his own place. That’s considered normal, but in NA, it’s different. Does that direct translate to man babies? No idea, but man babies isn’t a cultural phenomenon, it’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 12:32 PM
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Go to Europe, you’ll see how people dress. It blows any clothing standard from Canada/US out of the water. I live in Canada but thankfully I’m half Italian, and have been exposed to how to properly dress. My friends make fun of me for dressing nice but at the end of the day, I’m the one who gets the compliments and noticed by women. Guys put too much emphasis on ‘not giving a fuck’ and think it’s a personality trait but in reality they’re idiots
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 08:36 AM
3

Keep playing the same old broken record. Your view on women as some foreign alien is probably the reason you lack success in dating. Dating is very easy and straight forward if you just treat the other person like a regular human being. Women have more options, so what? She doesn’t want to date every single one nor does she care to sleep with any of them. It’s this weird twisted view that women have more options, so men have it worse and deserve the sob story. Who gives a shit who has it worse, …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 12:59 PM
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She isn’t the ‘exception’ tho. Women are normal people too and i can almost guarantee the ratio is the same of men putting in effort vs women putting in effort in dating and relationships. You always hear about both sides complaining about the other side not doing a, b, c, or d.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 08:34 AM
3

I strongly believe that each gender gives bad advice for the opposite gender. Men should receive advice from other men who are successful at OLD, same with women. You don’t ask a fish how to catch a fish
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:35 AM
2

What about glass ceilings at work? What about physical abuse at home? What about being catcalled 24/7 walking down the street in a big city? What about your ass being grabbed 20x a night at a club? The list goes on and on about what women have to go through that men never ever think twice about. Something simple as traveling alone. If you think current women don’t have to try because they have swarms of men coming at them, that’s also false. Jsuy because some women have a lot of men chasing afte…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 05:18 PM
5

If you see what women have historically and currently have to go through that us men take for granted, I’d shut up OP. Go out and actually talk to a woman and you’ll see the world for what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 05:05 PM
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This is the dumbest thing I’ve read all week. Idk why men are obsessed with women and their makeup. If you find her attractive, who gives a shit. It’s rare for women to load the makeup on anyways and also rarer for men to lie about how much they make. If you’re bringing up your salary on a date to impress someone, you’re already a loser. It’s also we rarer for men to rent cars to pretend they’re worth a lot. TIL, wearing form fitting clothing is a no no
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:23 PM
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If you want a lasting relationship, then you will need to be a team. What happens when you get married? You get joint bank accounts and in the eyes of the law, 2 become 1. Also, you hiring in your consultancy business?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:19 PM
1

FDS can expect whatever they want but men who fit those categories do not give a shit about if women are into them or not. They aren’t improving themselves or working hard in life to attract women, and I think that’s where the disconnect is with FDS. These high value men pave their way in society and it’s either you’re there along with the ride or not. Women have their role as well in these types of relationships and in modern society, equality has never been more important and if you as a woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 12:19 PM
1

Accurate lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 11:43 AM
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Because he’s a neck beard who thinks the opposite gender is some weird, alien-like, scarce commodity that’s out to get him to make his life purposefully miserable. That’s like 80% of the guys on here anyways. They think they have any clue wtf they’re talking about but it just ends up being a woman hating rant by someone who’s never talked to a woman lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:25 AM
1

So I’m a man whore by your definition?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:02 AM
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What number would a guy need to be at to be a man whore? I’m at 20 but I don’t think that’s that high tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 02:40 AM
6

I’ve been groped numerous times at clubs by women. Like they’ll just start grinding on you or grab your dick and cop a feel. But like these women were never over 5’8 and I’d just give an awkward smile and kind of push away. But they know they can get away with it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 12:26 PM
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Honestly, if you clean up your look, get a fresh haircut, buy form fitting trendy clothes, smell good and aren’t insanely socially awkward, that puts you to a minimum of a 5. If you have a really easy going and fun personality, you’re up at a 6. If you’re interesting and intriguing and take care of your body, 7-8. The last 2 points are for guys who are naturally attractive. But guys think they have to be a 10/10 guy or nothing and they don’t even try and give up before they start. I’m a solid 6 …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:11 PM
2

Also the paradox of choice doesn’t really help
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/21 04:25 PM
6

If you live in Toronto, a suburban home runs you $1.5M lol. Rip
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 10:01 PM
1

It’s obviously a troll lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/21 03:57 PM
2

It’s not about ‘should’ or ‘shouldn’t’. It’s about what you can afford. In western countries, that’s the main driving factor. I live in Toronto which is the 4th least affordable city to live in after Hong Kong, Vancouver and Sydney compared to wages. If my $100K salary can’t even buy me an entry level apartment, why on earth would I even consider having kids. People tend to have kids when they feel secure in their positions and usually owning a property guarantees that. But the question after is…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 02:53 PM
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I can almost for certain tell you that ‘poorer’ countries have more children because of their lack of education in sex Ed in school. Look at Latin American countries, having kids is super common in the early 20’s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:43 PM
0

I disagree. If you are nice and not as attractive, you still have a lot of potential. It ends up being that people’s insecurities will make them undesirable and people avoid that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:18 AM
1

Why is it lucky? There’s so many factors that lead to getting with someone and not just by height alone. I’m 6 feet, does that mean every single girl I’ve been with was lucky? It also depends what part of the word you live in and what the average heights are and IF those women have height preferences. A large majority do not care about height. Guys make a much bigger deal out of it than girls do
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 06:15 PM
5

Lol nooooo wwwaaaaay. Just scroll this sub and you’ll see how all the incels explaining why women are to blame for their own accountability. And will call them every name in the book. This sub is hilarious to read sometimes, it proves the counter argument
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 05:33 PM
3

I disagree on the luck part. People create their own luck and if it’s happening on more than one occasion, then that’s not chance taking its course. Others slap the ‘luck’ word on situations they don’t understand because they only see input A and output A and can’t figure out how it worked out. But what they don’t see is all the in between
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 10:25 AM
1

But who are you to decide what people deserve and don’t? People feel they deserve many things, and if it works out, it’s considered lucky? Lol okay. People create their own luck
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 10:21 AM
1

Why not? And who cares? People will end up exactly where they fit into place eventually. As if the world will basically run its course and do its think and you’ll revert back to the mean. The issue with what’s fair and what isn’t is that it’s not a blanket statement
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 08:56 AM
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I think it’s fair to complain if your standards aren’t being met. But overtime, you will end up with someone just like you. If you have nothing else to show other than beauty, then that won’t last. But if you have an amazing work ethic, are independent, and will work hard for something you want, then you will get the standards you desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 12:54 AM
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It’s not that, is that gay men actually take care of their body and care heavily about the way they look; Hence appearing more attractive. Straight men can take a chapter out of their book on how to become more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 11:44 AM
1

A lot of women will care more about what their social circle will think of you vs what they themselves think of you. I found this to only be true in the younger years of dating, as I got older people started to do what’s best of them. Also, you purposefully described guy #5 really boring to prove a point. Status matters to a certain degree but it’s really not that important. I would argue wage/salary matter more because the idea is that women consider a few things in a partner. ‘Can this person …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 08:59 AM
11

Sorry, how’s fedora tippers
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 02:54 PM
30

This sub is like 80% neck beards who hate women and have no experience dating but somehow they have all these views of the opposite gender that they think is right lol. I wouldn’t let it get to you, it can be toxic reading it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 01:40 PM
1

Honestly I’m a solid 6/10 but my match and success rate was pretty good and I went on quite a few dates. The hardest part is purely getting the first date but I found some ways that almost guaranteed a date if the conversation is going well. From conversation to first date is probably the most critical part and there’s plenty of areas along the way you can mess up. If you feel like you’re in the bottom 50%, that doesn’t mean it’s game over. If anyone wants help with their online dating profile, …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 10:29 AM
5

This the best answer to the question. Well done
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 01:57 PM
3

That’s what I was thinking as well lol. Well said
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 05:09 AM
6

But it’s not all about attractiveness. You can be the hottest person out there, if you’re annoying to be around or retarded, good luck getting anything meaningful. The majority of people want a meaningful connection in the end, not some eye candy they see for 1 or 2 dates and realize their personality sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 02:05 PM
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I'm confused, you say you get nothing but have dated models? Clearly you're ahead of the majority of guys but it seems that your weird cynical view of the landscape is getting the better of you. You could be a billionaire for all I care, but if you're annoying to be around, no one will like you. Take away the yacht, 6 figures, 6 feet, whatever but you're really fun to be around and very enjoyable, people will like you much more.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 02:02 PM
4

I'm not saying facial looks. If you're clean cut/well groomed, dress nice/well for your body and have interesting photos with an intriguing bio, it puts you ahead of like 60% of the guys already. You have to market yourself to get attention from the women you want. The idea isn't to attract everyone and anyone, it's to attract the women you're interested in. Sure women get more likes than men, but that's not surprising. Men have been competing for women for hundreds of years, just in different w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 01:58 PM
18

Yes and no. The issue is that dating isn’t a level playing field, it never has been and it never will be. Especially within the male landscape. Men will complain they can’t get dates with online dating but then you see their profile and they don’t put any effort into it then complain they don’t get matches. Compare that to a guy that actually put some effort into their profile and look at their match rate. Looks are like 20% of dating. I’m a solid 6/10 but I put effort into my profile and the wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 09:01 AM
2

I may have said it wrong. What I meant was like if you’re getting your photo taken at a famous monument, put some effort into it and show you’re having a good time by not looking so serious. doing something goofy as well in the photo will help, adds life to your photos. I’m not saying if you’re having a fun time then to stop whatever you’re doing and take a pic
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 03:11 PM
1

I fully agree. I travel a lot and use those photos to my advantage and the conversations will ignite about traveling and then it goes from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:44 AM
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I’m a solid 6/10 but have some cool photos of me traveling that are decent quality and my match rate was pretty high. I feel like the photo quality is more important than the way you actually look. If you can show you’re having fun in a cool environment, then you seem interesting and women love that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 09:07 AM
1

Looooooooool the deez nuts guy is on there
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 03:21 PM
3

Looooooooooool
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 03:18 PM
6

As others have mentioned. Go in public and look around you. The people that walk by you are average.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 02:52 PM
6

It will be very subjective on who looks average. You ask 10 different women on their answers and you’ll get 10 different answers
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 02:38 PM
2

I think this will be me. I’m only 26 but I don’t really have aspirations to marry or have kids but my mindset might change down the road. I have this fear that committing to someone long term (marriage) will get in the way of what I want to achieve in life but I guess the idea is finding someone who shares similar goals
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 01:53 PM
3

I saw that the average girl on OnlyFans makes like $200. There’s only a select few that make a lot of money while the rest don’t really make a lot, or anything
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 01:28 PM
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I’ve met a lot of chicks who are like 5’5-5’7 and don’t care much about height as long as they’re taller then them. The average height for men is 5’9 in Canada im pretty sure so on average, men are doing okay
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 11:08 PM
-8

Being short and being too nice aren’t bad, at all. If you feel like those are the reasons why, I can almost assure you, there are other reasons why. The girl I’m seeing is like 5’2 and she doesn’t give a shit about height (I’m 6f) but she said a guy shorter than her is hard to come by. No such thing as ‘too nice’ but also, don’t be a doormat and have a backbone. Just don’t be a dickhead but you can still be the nicest person ever and be successful. I spoil the shit out of the girl I’m seeing and…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 10:37 PM
1

Well said
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 10:04 PM
13

Well if you were attracted to men, the pain in your ass would surely be greater
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 04:28 PM
1

Jeff bezos as well also had financial interest from the start and helped contribute to amazons original business plan. She did a heck of a lot more then be there for him when he needed her. They were clearly a solid team and were there for each other, regardless of how much they were worth. What about Mackenzie now marrying a teacher? She’s worth how many billions and the teacher makes like $70K?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:45 PM
2

Just because someone has 3 masters, doesn’t mean their respect isn’t any less valuable than yours, or vice versa. Respect the person, not their qualifications
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 02:25 AM
2

I mean, how much did you know about the guy? Your ex was a shitty person and has nothing to do with the other guy tbh. I’d like to think most women won’t cheat on their partners
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 03:32 PM
2

What do you do define as a bad boy?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 02:09 PM
1

No like they’re really close friends of mine. I see them both individually very often as they’re life friends of mine and we all hang out as a group as well
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 09:02 AM
9

I guess that’s fair. But this sub is like 75% incel dudes so the shoe fits
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 05:44 PM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 05:27 PM
7

I’m a guy but my ex wanted to know my count and I guess saying ‘I stopped counting a while ago’ was the wrong thing to say. She pressured me into giving up an answer and I felt so awkward but I said my number (it was 16 at the time - still is) and she got super upset....I’m like wtf, I’m dating you committed to you, who cares but she didn’t like it. We got past it after a day or 2 but I felt deep down it still bothered her a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 04:22 PM
3

This is not true. I remained close friends with the 2 girls in my group when they were in relationships. Nothing changed from when they were with someone or not. Maybe the frequency of hanging out changed but that’s the same with my guy friends too
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 12:30 PM
3

Exactly this. It’s not a new concept either, it’s been going on for quite some time
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 03:07 PM
0

But that even proves my point more. Anyone can be well dressed, that’s not only for above average looking people. I take off the clothes, I’m an average looking guy, I assure you. But I wear something nice and it elevates my game and that’s my point. Legit anyone can do the same
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 11:48 AM
1

Yes of course! I’d love to offer some insight
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 12:43 AM
1

Thanks! I appreciate the kind words
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 08:44 PM
2

Ya i live in Toronto
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 08:43 PM
0

That’s what I’ve been saying!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 07:40 PM
4

Thank you, I appreciate it!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 06:36 PM
2

I appreciate the feedback. I’d be happy to provide any insight to people’s profiles if they want a critique of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 05:19 PM
3

I appreciate the feedback
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 05:18 PM
4

Dude trust me. This is in my best clothes. I look like a potato 90% of the time. I appreciate the feedback. I’m just saying that quality photos or silly ones make a really big difference. Like the Halloween costume of Carl from UP probably gets me the most comments. I had a sloth costume a few years back and got some comments on it too. But like I’m not muscular, I don’t have shirtless pics of me in the mirror or super up close selfies, i can barely grow a beard. There’s nothing in my profile th…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 05:10 PM
3

https://imgur.com/a/LEpXWzk here’s my profile. I have cool travel pics and know my good angles. As well my profile shows I’m not a super serious guy and know how to dress well without looking super douchey.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 04:45 PM
2

What do you mean by game and exploit? What is there to exploit? I get too many matches to keep up with convos with everyone. It’s exhausting sometimes because I try to keep up with convos. I use the ‘pause’ function on bumble all the time to catch up. It’s not fun when you’re overwhelmed and for it to be a ‘game’ goes directly against everyone’s point of view of OLD how they don’t get matches but then want to make it a game...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 04:32 PM
3

I disagree. Imma solid 6-7/10 and get a reasonable amount of matches. I’m not a chad by any means but I’d say my profile is well curated and I put some effort in an interesting bio and photos. You don’t have to be a top tier guy to get matches, it’s just simply not true and an excuse people give themselves to not put effort into their profiles
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 04:23 PM
1

My really close friends love language is gifts and quality time. I hang out with her a lot and I bring her something small each time (like a homemade muffin) and she absolutely loves it because to her it’s a sign that I care. I don’t expect anything but she does give me stuff a lot as well, like little going away gifts (cookies or whatever) and it’s greatly appreciate. Nothing has to be transactional and it does bring me joy to give something to someone and watch their face light up as well vice…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 12:34 PM
2

How do you define a simp? I feel like a lot of guys can be respected by doing something nice for someone without expecting anything in return and have a backbone
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 11:34 PM
2

I find this point interesting because these sounds specific to STEM fields. I wish more women would consider doing trades/technician jobs as well so I’m curious if that field will see more women or not
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 05:08 PM
3

My biggest take is that these FDS chicks think these HMV are willing to just take them out and spoil the shit out of them and treat them like a supposed ‘queen’ when these HMV have a few options and don’t want to deal with bullshit. These men will absolutely not tolerate any FDS chicks, it makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 10:34 PM
41

Women on average go for the same education/earnings as them or higher and men go for the same earnings/education as them or lower. So women go laterally and up and men go laterally and down. There are many exceptions to this finding but it’s very common
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 01:03 PM
1

I deleted hinge and tinder because I couldn’t keep up with the matches and convos, so I just have bumble. I have around 5 convos going on atm on bumble that I could pursue for a relationship or casual sex BUT dating is hard in covid so, I might just delete bumble and call it a day
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 01:27 PM
7

I just went through the sub and I was blown away. Apparently splitting stuff 50/50 is a huge red flag lol and if a guy ever asks to split 50/50 then to cut him off and move on. Like wut
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 04:42 PM
20

Ya this sub is full of idiots tbh. It’s incel central
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 10:46 AM
1

That’s not the case after 30. Looks tend to fade for women after this age and when they approach 40 but women above 30 tend to be pickier because they know specifically what they want and don’t want. It’s not about being super attractive, it’s knowing what their worth is and won’t put up with bullshit that a lot of guys bring
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 10:24 AM
1

Honestly after high school I’ve never noticed it anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 12:20 PM
-1

Well today I learned that models are overrated and attractive women on reddit don't exist because incels on reddit say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 03:36 PM
5

I know many attractive women who frequent Reddit so you’re fake news buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 02:17 PM
1

Ya no. You can’t possibly see a women who is unhappy is entirely because their husbands are pushovers.....there’s a multitude of reasons as to why marriages don’t work out, and someone not being a pushover won’t automatically fix a marriage lol
/r/seduction13/03/21 02:27 AM
2

But its Brady tho....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 03:06 PM
11

Lol 10000%
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 05:28 PM
3

I read your title and I was about to fully disagree but you raise a strong point about the rest of Reddit begins an echo chamber which is pretty accurate. A lot of stuff on here I don’t agree with at all either but people are saying it I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 08:54 PM
1

Oof size small
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 04:04 AM
18

This sub is full of incels and ‘Spider-Man pointing finger at each other’ memes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 02:24 AM
22

WoW used to be a lot of fun in high school, playing with friends from class and staying up late on weekends. It can be time draining though when it’s a beautiful summer day out and you’re inside all day gaming lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 03:33 PM
2

Salaries are like 50% more for identical work plus cost of living usually tends to be lower relative to income levels. I was offered a job in South Carolina at $34/hr USD but turned it down because a company in Michigan offered me $40/hr USD while my coworkers and I make around $26-30/hr CAD. So I’ll be lucky enough to still live on the Canadian side and commute to Michigan for work while being paid in USD and the CAD is like 27% less than USD
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 03:21 PM
3

It’s a fantastic city to raise a family. We’re very multicultural and welcome every nation, very safe with decent social services so it’s a pretty good place to live. But if you’re young and not really interested in a family yet, then I urge people to go work in the US for a few years if they can then come back
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 03:12 PM
3

Ya I live in Toronto lol. Houses on average go for 1.3-2.0M. It’s depressing af. Condos are going for $500-700K for a 1 bedroom while salaries are much lower than the American ones for the exact same job
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 03:04 PM
3

So $50K seems to be the poverty line in my city but that’s a really crappy life. You’d need a solid $80K-$100K to have an ok life tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 02:39 PM
2

What would be above average salary? I understand the US might be the outlier for wages (I live in Canada and wages suck compared to our friends to the south)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 11:14 AM
1

Do you think there’s no girl out their ‘our age’ (I’m 26) that has their shit together? The majority of my female friends have their shit together. Don’t be an incel dude
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/21 03:36 AM
8

Pretty sure you could argue the exact same with women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 04:40 PM
13

If the price is right, I’m pretty sure all men would be hookers too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 04:24 PM
4

It’s factual that women end up with partners who are of the same hierarchy as them or higher and men end up with women of the same hierarchy or lower. If a women makes $X, she will seek someone of a similar wealth/job/prospective or higher. And men will do the exact opposite. It is very very rare for a successful women to be with someone in a lower ‘rung’ than them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:54 PM
7

I’ve been to the Charles Darwin research station in Galápagos, am I an honorary Darwinian chad?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/21 04:18 PM
36

I’m just a lad
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/21 02:44 PM
119

Didn’t know height or facial hair were personality traits
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/21 02:03 PM
4

Themselves
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/21 07:52 PM
1

Anymore on your list? I’m sure it’ll help a lot of guys here
/r/seduction22/01/21 07:37 PM
1

Could you expand further with #2? Are you saying like in a debate/argument don’t let them convince you? I read ‘the way of the superior man’ recently and this was one of the sections where you should stick to your own true beliefs and don’t let a woman change them. Is that sort of along the same lines?
/r/seduction28/12/20 12:22 AM
1

I’m sad because I’m a Man U fan
/r/seduction20/12/20 08:17 AM
1

100% they’re testing you on how you reach. Go along with it and it’ll make them want you more. Joke about it obviously but be playful about it
/r/seduction11/10/20 03:50 PM
1

What if the guy is there to hit on you? Or maybe you can start hitting on the guy to show dominance
/r/seduction14/08/20 11:36 AM
2

Ya!
/r/seduction19/07/20 12:23 PM
4

Funny enough, I just learned about the 80-20 rule today but for my Lean Manufacturing course lol.
/r/seduction19/07/20 03:27 AM
2

This is my Roomate to a fuckn Tee. He’s always in denial, and what drives me fuckn insane, is his eating habits. He weighs 360 and wants to lose weight but refuses to change his eating habits. ‘But I ate a banana!’ ‘But I had veggies!’. It’s honestly really sad because he does want to lose it but just wants to put in 0 effort at all and justifies anything and everything when people around him tell him ‘hey you smell bad’
/r/seduction19/07/20 03:26 AM
97

Hey don’t talk about dogs like that!
/r/seduction12/06/20 01:40 AM
2

Idk when girls flirt with me. I just assume they aren’t because I try to avoid awkward scenarios if I’m wrong.
/r/seduction03/06/20 05:09 PM
5

There are no girls on Reddit. They’re a myth. Prove you’re real
/r/seduction26/05/20 06:25 PM
2

M8, that’s probably a guy
/r/seduction26/05/20 05:11 PM
11

My aunt has never been married and wears a ring to prevent people hitting on her lol
/r/seduction26/05/20 05:11 PM
115

Guy: How spontaneous are you? Girl: depends how spontaneous you are! whips out crack pipe
/r/seduction12/05/20 04:43 PM
2

Just be yourself m8, don’t change the way you text to hopefully get a girl to be interested in you. You think the majority of these girls that are chased by guys change who they are? Fuck no. You’ll only put yourself in the friend zone if you allow it to. If she’s a boring texter and fails to capture your attention then I say put it on pause until this corona stuff blows over
/r/seduction08/05/20 11:22 AM
-8

Your mentality and approach to all of it is incredibly flawed man. Why do I or others have good experiences on the app? I’m a solid 6-7/10, but why can I come out of the experience in a positive light? You’re giving bullshit excuses to justify your thoughts on it. I think anyone should feel special, regardless of they’re looks. But what if they don’t talk to you or give limited responses because it’s on you. You have 10 apples in front of you and you want to buy 3 of them. Would you take the wor…
/r/seduction27/04/20 08:00 PM
-5

I’m going to stop you there. A couple of points...you make it seem like her feeling special is a bad thing and she should feel worthless so she can come down to your level? You have no idea how many guys she’s talking to, but you can some how derive that her giving limited messages instantly means shes talking to a bunch of guys. Or you think ‘I’m so great, I should be getting paragraphs!’ But when you don’t get what you expect, you take it out on them. This screams r/niceguys If a girl is actin…
/r/seduction27/04/20 07:26 PM
2

I think anyone can be photogenic. You have to know your good angle and get someone with a good camera to take good photos of you. The more you say to yourself ‘well I don’t have any good angles’ or ‘I don’t have any friends with good cameras’ or whatever bullshit to justify you not trying, you’ll just stay where you are. As someone said earlier, the rich stay rich, the poor stay poor Pay for quality photographer and work with them, they’ll tell you exactly how to stand, where to look and how to …
/r/seduction21/04/20 12:57 PM
19

It’s not their choice. Specifically in the online dating world, it’s a fact that whoever you’re talking to is talking to a few people at once and you should be doing the same. You always have to keep your options open. No different than investing, diversify your portfolio so if you experience a market crash in one industry/market, you’re entire portfolio isn’t wiped out! I’m not saying talk to 10 girls at once, but talk to a few at a time. Being stuck at home has never been easier to match with …
/r/seduction21/04/20 10:19 AM
27

That sub is legit the Wild West. I start sweating to see that people like that actually exist.
/r/seduction17/04/20 03:30 AM
9

Shrek works great as well if anyone is wondering
/r/seduction11/04/20 12:24 PM
8

Confirmed cases of upvote-19: 344
/r/seduction16/03/20 08:21 PM
3

I was legit about to say this. OP. Since he’s human, you know she’s capable of having explosive diarrhea, and she’s probably had some bad episodes of springing to the bathroom to unleash her brown, liquid wrath upon an unsuspecting toilet. If that turns you on, then whelp, I have some news for you. But legit, try and just picture her as a normal NPC where she happens to be more attractive.
/r/seduction24/01/20 02:33 PM
10

Sure but I also won’t take advice from a 15 year old lol
/r/seduction11/12/19 08:37 PM
32

M8, you’re in high school. The game changes dramatically when you exit school in general. I was, I guess like you in high school but 10 years after I left, women and men change a lot when they leave and mature. Girls will have high standards when they mature, and they don’t have time for silly antics. You’ll see for yourself eventually. You are surrounded by hundreds of people a day and see them every day, so talking to any is quite simple since hey, you’ll just see them the next day again and y…
/r/seduction11/12/19 05:43 PM
5

The third part is what I find the most difficult for me and maybe for other people as well. Like in my head I go, ‘alright imma be direct, imma tell her I like hanging out with her and I want to take her on a date’ And you know what comes out? A mix of Chewbacca complaining to Han Solo about some non-sense and trying to understand Silvester Stallone talk to Jackie Chan....comes with practice I guess
/r/seduction09/12/19 07:45 PM
4

I really like this comment. I think this paints pretty clear picture for a lot of guys and what they should try doing. Also to add, being an interesting person adds quite a lot of flair. I think I’m interesting because I travel a lot and have been to cool places but the other parts you mentioned sound spot on, imma keep them in mind!
/r/seduction09/12/19 07:30 PM
3

I have a very close friend that was seeing a guy but he kept beating around the bush for a relationship and would make time here and there for her but not really. She insisted something was there, and kept trying to change the guy. And I told her, from a guys perspective, exactly what OP described. We went out for a coffee and she started crying at the Starbucks and I’m like, ‘bro, look at you, you’re crying at a Starbucks over someone who doesn’t really care about you’ but she refused to accept…
/r/seduction09/12/19 01:36 AM
12

Or get a puppy :) they make everyone happy
/r/seduction09/12/19 01:23 AM
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