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| 1 | American women have the worst reputation for relationships / marriage in the entire world. This is not (so much) the case for American men.Part of the cost of being the global cultural hegemon is that everyone pays attention to everything you do. Other countries at least have the option of putting their best foot forward with selective cultural exports and PR imaging campaigns. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 11:36 PM |
| 1 | American women have the worst reputation for relationships / marriage in the entire world. This is not (so much) the case for American men.But with us Brits its just downright negative. We have a horrible rep as tourists I thought this was only in Mediterranean countries because of spring breakers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 11:29 PM |
| 2 | American women have the worst reputation for relationships / marriage in the entire world. This is not (so much) the case for American men.~Come out ye black and tans!~ ~Come out and fight me like a man!~ Ok but in all seriousness wish you the best in your relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 11:11 PM |
| 1 | The average woman is completely delusional about men's income and what they "qualify" for.Reminds of a tongue-in-cheek joke where a woman asks what's the easiest way to land a doctor as a husband, and is advised to become one herself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 07:40 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIntroversion isn't the same as social awkwardness. It just means socialization is tiring and solitude is needed to recharge. The person you're describing is one who is capable of operating at a high social level, but needs to check out eventually to relax away from other people. I don't think this combination is even that unique. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 07:38 PM |
| – | 63% of men under 30 describe themselves as single, compared with 34% of women in the same age groupThe common stereotype is that Asian American men have a hard time dating/getting into relationships. So no, this graph does not provide evidence against that because as you mention, they don't break down the racial categories by gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 07:26 PM |
| 2 | Women, which "successful woman" stereotype does not appeal to you?Hot on-screen, but she's basically a walking advertisement for Glassdoor reviews. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/23 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Do you think mothers are confused as to why their now grown nice guy son has yet to find a partner?Some parents are fine with (or even encourage) their kids holing themselves up in their rooms so long as they're studying/doing academics. This needs to be addressed more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 04:50 AM |
| 2 | Which privileges aren’t women able to see?In order to have a productive conversation about privilege, a certain degree of generalization is required because the obvious answer that everyone is unique and no two people share the exact same "privilege" is not very interesting or helpful. Anecdotally from my school years, there were certain students ("bad apples", "troublemakers", etc...) who overwhelmingly bore the brunt of teacher discipline. Usually boys who were loud and rowdy, had trouble sitting still in class, were not very academic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Danzo was objectively the worst character in NarutoMizuki was more shit but he only showed up for like, two episodes so he's irrelevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 01:26 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Average men only have it hard on dating apps. They do fairly well in real life.Ideally yes, nothing beats having a solid social circle or meeting people doing the things you love. But for some people on the apps, this isn't really a choice. For example, I know some people who have to relocate frequently for job related reasons, or are stuck living in (and I quote) 'bumfuck nowhere'. In these cases, socializing IRL is difficult simply because of the sheer lack of opportunity to do so. For them, apps are kind of their only lifeline. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 12:20 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Average men only have it hard on dating apps. They do fairly well in real life.I'm more concerned about the trend moving forward than the current situation. If we as a society continue to fail to provide opportunities for teens/young adults to socialize organically, their social skills will atrophy and they're more likely to have to rely on dating apps as adults. And to be honest, 48% isn't that far from a majority. Georgia's recent Senate Runoff was decided by a smaller margin lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Opposites attract, but the real reason for this might keep you up at night.Opposites attract because people tend to hang out with similar people. That opposite partner gets a boost for being novel and exciting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 10:31 PM |
| 2 | How will this generation of single men and women do in the future?I'll throw in a wild card: a pharmaceutical that can directly manipulate dopamine, oxytocin or serotonin levels with negligible side effects is developed sometime in the near future. Rates of escapism via 'happy drug' takes off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 10:14 PM |
| 1 | What’s the most disheartening thing you’ve seen in your local dating marketYou'd think a job as a psychotherapist would be a license to print money in such an environment, but apparently that kind of work pays diddly squat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Why do you require someone who is “college educated”?There are quite a few diploma mills that'll happily take your money and give you a piece of paper with your name on it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'll just leave this here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadRonaldo fans in shambles | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 03:28 PM |
| 0 | Is it true most men are giving up on dating?Rock paper scissors is a pretty solid option. Simple and decisive XD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadProbably adapting poorly. There's usually some leeway, but 2/10 is, uhh, pretty bad. Almost certainly someone who was bullied in childhood or even adulthood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 10:19 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLiberté, Égalite, Fraternité,...Mbappé! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 07:09 PM |
| 0 | This is the worst time in human history to be dating.Tell me you're historically illiterate without telling me you're historically illiterate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Do you still demand the ring after a failed proposal?If it made it to the state supreme court, it was presumably litigated, then appealed. So it was an issue at least once 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Whats with all the buzz around confidenceThis is the kind of deep topic you'd read about in a psychology paper. Why is confidence instinctively attractive? Is it a learned behaviour or innate? Is there a cultural component to it? So many what ifs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 02:20 AM |
| 1 | The dad bod preference is nothing more than virtue signallingI think it's more likely you learned to subconsciously associate them with high maintenance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 04:29 PM |
| 1 | What characteristics would a young beautiful woman need to have in order to struggle with dates and don't be desirable by straight men?The plot of Gone Girl wouldn't have been possible if that was the case XD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSilver lining I suppose | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'd agree with you if it weren't for suprise medical emergencies. Unless you have great insurance coverage, those can be financially brutal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 05:49 PM |
| 2 | ONLINE DATING TRENDS: It turns out that Bumble, the app marketed as 'female-friendly' where only women can message first, has a user base of over 80% men in the UK. In the US, where the app is used by far the most, women are less than 1 in 3 usersWhat is going to replace them? Not much to be honest. Maybe we'll go the Japan route with people visiting host/hostess clubs and paying money to socialize with other human beings 🤷 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 04:50 PM |
| 5 | 30 Years is not old at all and stop listening to so much bad advicePerhaps, but these people usually produce the best song lyrics and poetry, so who am I to fault them for their solipsism? XD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 04:19 PM |
| 7 | 30 Years is not old at all and stop listening to so much bad adviceHe's just indulging in a little melancholy over what could've been. It's an older people thing :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Was the year of 2017 the great turning point?Global financial crisis was also really bad for men in aggregate in the west. Lots of higher wage manufacturing and blue collar jobs just straight up vanished. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 06:39 AM |
| 1 | Women need to stop telling men "you can also wear makeup" because it doesn't work as even close as it does for average women in terms of attractivenes.It works great on the odd acne scar here and there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 09:39 PM |
| 4 | It’s male projection that women will at least EVENTUALLY want to settle down with an Average Adam eventually. No relationship IS better than a bad or monotonous relationship, this cannot be stressed enoughOne of the reasons reading this sub is best done with a bowl of popcorn :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 08:22 PM |
| 2 | What do you believe is the solution to the imbalanced dating scene situation?There are some caveats. If you live in bum fucking nowhere or work 60+ hour workweeks that leave you physically and emotionally drained apps might be your only option unfortunately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 05:11 AM |
| 1 | women are not more socially intuitive it's just that they're socially forgiven morePerfect size to carry a hobbit off a volcano I'd say! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/22 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Social anxiety is the worst thing a dude can haveThis might come off as a bit callous, but as a guy with some social anxiety myself, I frequently come across threads asking for advice on how to become more confident where the response was basically to "fake it till you make it". The underlying logic being that you'll eventually become the persona you put forward through repetition, even if it starts out as a lie. Are you sure your boyfriend isn't trying to "remake" his personality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/22 09:56 PM |
| 1 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?If she's really that attractive, a certain degree of intimidation might be at play. "Out of my league" is probably a common train of thought among the guys she's interacting with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Who has more pressure? Do women have more pressure to be beautiful or do men have more pressure to be successful and why?I think you're underselling just how difficult it is to be successful and rich. Intergenerational poverty, coporotocracy, and rising inequality sucks. Beauty does get harder to maintain as you get older, but I always thought the people asserting it's impossible for older women to be beautiful were being just a little shallow. IMO beauty is very dependent on how well you take care of yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Her education and income matter, and will matter even more in the future.(stares) Wait, it's all been about money? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 01:45 AM |
| 1 | What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage?I prefer to think of it as putting your best foot forward. Think of it this way. If you're interviewing for a job, would you do interview prep or blow it off and rely on your latent social skills to carry a conversation? I mean, it could work, but why would you pass up the chance to be the best possible version of yourself to truly seal the deal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 01:27 AM |
| 1 | It's not that only men can be "shut-in" or "socially inept," it's more that being so hurts their dating success more than it hurts women's dating success.I've had plenty of friends tell me they were "just faking it" when I asked how they managed to be so confident and socially successful. But at some point, you become who you pretend to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 01:01 PM |
| 1 | What does "having your shit together" even mean?Is it really ambition if the goal is easily achievable or not particularly grand in scope? Doesn't that go against the definition of ambition? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Why are rates of depression so high in modern day Women?I was under the impression women usually outgrow that phase once they pass puberty and reach adulthood. Am I mistaken? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 06:59 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPresumably they were once struggling and working hard to make it big (unless they were literally born famous) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 09:08 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's called remorse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou are Isildur's heir, not Isildur himself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf that's their logic then they should take it to its logical conclusion and do it IRL as well. Like, carry a photo of your dick in your wallet and whip it out at the office mixer XD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 08:24 PM |
| 5 | Why men send unsolicited pictures so easily?Honestly, I think they were poorly socialized during their developmental phase. At some point, someone should've taken little Timmy aside and had a serious conversation about what is and is not appropriate behaviour. Evidently that failed to happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 03:03 AM |
| 1 | "Men only notice attractive women". Is this really true?No offense, but I find it seriously depressing how vain our culture can be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Women overrate "good communication" because of halo effectYou have to live in an area with plenty of opportunities to socialize and have a job that doesn't leave you an exhausted husk, or belong to an established social group that meets at least semi-regularly. Otherwise you're kinda stuck with OLD unfortunately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Dating spaces gaslight the absolutely living shit out of menY'all are really starting to sound like Ted Kaczynski | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 06:45 PM |
| 2 | How important is income for a man? Is frugality a turn off? Does a man need to make a lot to be date-able?I live in a high cost of living city. 50k to 100k is the difference between scrambling desperately paycheck to paycheck, to living a comfortable if boring existence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat can I say, I love business cards | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 05:46 PM |
| 5 | How bad is it being a tall girl romantically?I hate to break it to you, but that's not really a tall girl problem. Your shorter friends are probably getting approached for sex as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 02:14 AM |
| 2 | The Alpha/Beta male construct is a purely human construct."OH SHI-" Squak! Dramatic death scene cinematic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 08:04 PM |
| 2 | The Alpha/Beta male construct is a purely human construct....how did we go from fictional wolf pack dynamics to pigeon spying? 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 07:51 PM |
| 2 | The Alpha/Beta male construct is a purely human construct.Your should bump that up to at least a theta | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 07:29 PM |
| 2 | The Alpha/Beta male construct is a purely human construct.Coronavirus news coverage really helped me learn new Greek letters. On a related note, they should really switch from Arabic to Greek numbers when rating women for consistency's sake (e.g. Scarlett Johannsen is a solid iota) 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 07:11 PM |
| 3 | The Alpha/Beta male construct is a purely human construct.Greek letters engender a level of mystique in western society that (imo) is not really justified. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 06:52 PM |
| 6 | Women who sexually like men, are you personally not that visually stimulated by our bodies?If only dating apps let you submit short videos instead of pictures 😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Would more men be considered attractive if they worked out?Correction, birthrate is dropping pretty much across the world. At this point, it can basically be considered an indicator for development (the more urban and educated your population, the lower the birthrate) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Would you take a college course on love and relationships?You're both kinda right. Conservatives exercise a lot of control at the county and state level and they use it to push their educational agenda onto public schools up to the high school level. Meanwhile, post secondary academia is notoriously liberal (especially the humanities departments). Conservatives griping about "liberal indoctrination" at universities is basically a même at this point, but it has a kernel of truth; having a bachelor's is one of the best predictors of political alignment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSome Reddit people are cool. Trust me, you would not want to meet the ones who frequent the dark side of this site in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Has PPD made anyone realize how bad dating could actually be?No, but it has made me realize how entertaining some people are when they talk about how bad THEY think dating is. Watching people just shout over each other as they debate the same old points over and over again... Best way to waste a couple hours on a weekend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Men who do not get matches on these dating aaps, what do you think is your major malfunction??Oh I absolutely agree that people should make more of an effort to be social and meet new people whenever possible, especially when social media makes it all too easy to slip into antisocial behaviours behind a screen. Unfortunately, there are quite a lot of people for whom this isn't possible. Either they don't have the time to attend social events (working 50+ hours a week paycheck to paycheck), or they live in remote areas with few opportunities to mingle with the opposite sex. For these guys… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Men who do not get matches on these dating aaps, what do you think is your major malfunction??Telling someone not to let it get them down is cold comfort when OLD is increasingly becoming the main method of finding a date. Our modern lifestyle makes it difficult to meet people organically and develop a long term bond; that and it's usually the only option for someone without a long established social group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 07:26 PM |
| 2 | Would more men be considered attractive if they worked out?I don't disagree with your assertion, but I would like to point out that the birthrate is dropping pretty hard in the developed world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 03:20 AM |
| 1 | This sub just doesn’t believe in loveWhile I agree with the general gist of your argument, I will note there was a large spike in divorces by Boomer couples once the cohort reached old age. Evidently something was rotten in the state of Denmark. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Obesity has decimated the dating market in America.It's super messed up that the poorest people in our society are the fattest. If you said that to literally anyone from any historical period before the 90s, they'd have their minds blown. Starvation was the fate of the destitute for 99% of human history. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 05:30 AM |
| 1 | 5 Books that have saved me thus far. What are 5 books you'd recommend to someone trying to dive into the deeper end?Ahhh, alright I see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Unpopular opinion: Obesity is not the insane problem that it is made out be here and the average person is not obeseThere's something interesting about BMI in that it doesn't really scale all that well with height. It overrepresents obesity in tall population groups and underrepresents it in short ones. I've read papers suggesting that the "overweight" threshold should be adjusted to 23 for Asian demographics for this reason. That's not really why they're adjusting it tbh. Us Asians experience the negative effects of fat earlier, because our fat tends to accumulate around our organs. It doesn't look too bad f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 01:46 AM |
| 1 | The average man isn't attracted to the average woman either.This is wrong as fuck. If you just stepped outside you would see a vast majority of women here in the US aren't landwhales. How ever they measure that shit is seriously flawed. I know a lot of people read the US obesity stats and freak out, but we need to remember that obesity is a medical term used to better diagnose medical conditions like hypertension, coronary artery disease, type 2 diabetes, etc... It's not meant to be used as a 'Fat index', it's doing the job it was designed to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 12:41 AM |
| 0 | The average man isn't attracted to the average woman either.Yes, but that obesity is not evenly distributed across the country. Your local mileage may vary (if you live in say, Colorado vs. Mississippi) And to be honest, obesity is not that bad when it comes to attractiveness. When you hear 'obese', you tend to think of the extreme cases like people who can't get out of bed, mobility scooters (i.e. morbidly obese). A BMI of 30 which is technically obese looks perfectly normal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 12:24 AM |
| 3 | The average man isn't attracted to the average woman either.We really ought to legally crucify the processed food companies like we crucified the tobacco companies back in the 80s. The health damage they've done is probably comparable at this point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 12:15 AM |
| – | 5 Books that have saved me thus far. What are 5 books you'd recommend to someone trying to dive into the deeper end?Seriously!? You can just...refuse to read and not flunk out of school? That sounds wild to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 11:46 PM |
| – | 5 Books that have saved me thus far. What are 5 books you'd recommend to someone trying to dive into the deeper end?Unless your husband has absolutely no formal schooling whatsoever (not even K-12) I don't see how he could've possible avoided reading completely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps make misogynist menSounds like my online job search to be honest lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 01:58 PM |
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