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| 1 | Tinder: Been using it for months, 0 matches.Delete your profile and create a new one with a good profile picture. The algorithm Tinder uses makes you visible in womens feeds a lot more than usual during your first week in order to get you to then buy Tinder Plus when your matching rate starts to decrease. Good luck | /r/seduction | 31/01/16 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Sexually frustratedThe pain you're describing, is it accompanied by any type of bleeding - like a red tint when you pee or even blood clots coming out? You probably suffer from some kind of performance anxiety. What might help the physiological part of it is to quit masturbating all together for a little while. The psychological part needs some work, preferably with a partner you're comfortable with. | /r/seduction | 31/01/16 11:05 AM |
| 2 | What is your tinder bio?"I'm nicer than I look - but I bite". I have a big full beard and pretty bad case of resting bitch face. Has been tremendously successful to be honest. | /r/seduction | 31/01/16 10:58 AM |
| 6 | So this is the power of a freeze out?What? | /r/seduction | 12/01/16 10:35 PM |
| 13 | What happens when you have a girlfriend? How do you not SETTLE and not COMPROMISE.She says those things out of affection to you, please don't be oblivious dude. Talk this out with her or you'll break her, honestly. | /r/seduction | 24/01/15 01:20 PM |
| 10 | What happens when you have a girlfriend? How do you not SETTLE and not COMPROMISE.If you're dating exclusively then that kind of flirting should be out of the question in my opinion. Be upfront and honest with her about this as well, most likely she won't say anything about you being flirty with other women down the road but it's going to hurt her bad and she doesn't deserve that. | /r/seduction | 24/01/15 12:27 PM |
| 6 | My first exercise that helped me overcome approach anxiety - eye gazing. you would never guess what step 3 isDon't ever fucking use that clickbait title in this sub again, pisses me off to no end. | /r/seduction | 16/01/15 10:05 AM |
| 2 | How to be sexually confident?Walk around naked at home a lot. Seriously. | /r/seduction | 05/11/14 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Dating new hot girl I think I like. I threw something of an embarrassing drunk hissy fit after our 4th date b/c she still hasn't come home with me. How do I get the power back?Cool down and quit thinking in these power terms. Read up on outcome independence. | /r/seduction | 13/07/14 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Do Women always seem to come out of break ups better than Men or is it just me?This is my experience too. Probably because they have so many options it doesn't take long for them to find someone to fill that void even though it leaves the emotional part out. They can stay busy getting validated by flirting. | /r/seduction | 24/06/14 05:29 PM |
| 1 | I'm a male virgin (28) and I'm only attracted to women out of my leagueTop comment, and quit masturbating. | /r/seduction | 23/06/14 01:35 PM |
| 5 | What do you do with girls that hang out with you whenever you ask then, but don't try to keep the conversation going or ask you anything?I usually just stop talking to them and they make their move. If they don't, they're probably not interested and just lack the character to say so. | /r/seduction | 03/06/14 08:24 PM |
| 6 | 3 Simple Explanations for Why You're Still Single - Another great post by Mark MansonI thought this was going to give me 3 simple answers to the question "So why are you still single?" lol. | /r/seduction | 14/02/14 12:02 AM |
| 5 | How do you deal with flirts?"I notice you keep flirting with me, why don't you just ask me out already?" Definitely go with this, use a teasing manner and don't act as though you're calling her out on something. Keep it light. | /r/seduction | 03/02/14 08:04 PM |
| 12 | [FR] Climbing - making the new AFC feel welcome boosted my social valueEssentially you were overthinking a completely normal social interaction. | /r/seduction | 09/01/14 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Do girls like ass compliments?You don't. | /r/seduction | 05/12/13 10:47 PM |
| 2 | Being short is obviously not a good excuse.It definitely isn't. Even though some women prefer tall men, most wouldn't see it as a dealbreaker and I doubt you'd actually want to date the ones who do. | /r/seduction | 21/11/13 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Anyone really attracted to girls who display traits of Machiavellianism?I see what you mean but don't ever think for a second that you can tame that. You could probably end up in a 2-3 year LTR with her, she'd let you think you've made her change and become a "good" person, then you'd realize you were played like the others. | /r/seduction | 17/11/13 09:50 AM |
| 2 | Does awkward-funny game work?Evidently not. | /r/seduction | 09/11/13 03:58 PM |
| 0 | Need advice on after-date text.Wait a day or two, then text her saying you had a nice time and suggest a new date (time and place already decided by you). | /r/seduction | 27/10/13 09:16 PM |
| 4 | Over-investing: What I've learned this summer pursuing, dating, and losing a girl. (LONG POST)The fact that you loved the IDEA of her and not HER is very important here. She wasn't the person you thought she was, didn't possess the characteristics you projected onto her. You made her your ideal. I'm certain this has to do with subconcious self-deprecation. I say this because I've made the exact same mistakes and worked my inner issues out with a therapist. Still working through them :) | /r/seduction | 18/10/13 12:54 PM |
| 13 | A good response when a girl asks you to buy her a drink!I wouldn't want to ask a girl like this out. Most times when I've had this happen I've just laughed and went about with whatever I was doing (ordering my drink, going back to my group of friends etc) | /r/seduction | 19/09/13 07:17 AM |
| 1 | Tonight I finally got "That girl" that we all have. I just want to thank you guys, so, so god damn much"25 kills..." | /r/seduction | 09/09/13 04:35 PM |
| 16 | Tonight I finally got "That girl" that we all have. I just want to thank you guys, so, so god damn muchCongratulations. Now don't get lost in her. I hope that douchey vibe you're giving off here isn't part of your real self. | /r/seduction | 07/09/13 10:04 PM |
| 2 | What Cold Showers & Approaching Have In CommonGreat parallel. However, keep in mind that cold showers actually help you get in the zone by elevating heart rate and making you breathe quicker. Pretty sure most of you know this already. | /r/seduction | 07/09/13 08:02 AM |
| 1 | I'm assuming I messed this up beyond repair?As already mentioned, you've come across as needy. Her loss though, she doesn't seem like someone worth your time anyways. | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 08:46 AM |
| 1 | An easy way to impress just about anybody. [Field Tested]Actually listen for it. More often than not you don't even hear them telling them their name because you're too focused on introducing yourself. If you miss it, simply ask them to repeat it. This way it will stick for sure. | /r/seduction | 18/04/13 04:50 PM |
| 3 | How and what are the steps to improve my life?Stop skipping to the TL;DR and plow through the sidebar. | /r/seduction | 07/11/12 05:39 PM |
| 4 | Is it just me or when people hate on PUAs it's only on neggingIt tend to be the negging, and also the "objectification of women". Well, if women weren't posing themselves as objects in the "dating" world and actually actively participated in picking up men, the PUA scene wouldn't even exist. | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 11:01 PM |
| 4 | Why are women so negative about the "picking up women" school of thought?Well if women wouldn't expect to be picked up rather than picking men up themselves we wouldn't have a "picking up women" shool of thought. | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 07:53 PM |
| 3 | Got out of the friend zone and got ignored afterwardsIt means delete facebook, lawyer up, hit the gym. | /r/seduction | 11/09/12 06:57 PM |
| 1 | My biggest problem with seduction: sweatHaha! What I think this indicates is an insecurity or maybe that you over analyze the situation. This inability to relax and just be present in the situation may cause you to sweat more. When you drink you feel more relaxed and just act. Try and find that comfort in everyday life. | /r/seduction | 21/06/12 05:38 PM |
| 1 | My biggest problem with seduction: sweatMaybe a weird question but does this happen also when drunk? | /r/seduction | 21/06/12 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Hi seddit. I'm a woman and want to know what drives you men crazy when you're making out/having sex with us women.Genuine enthusiasm. | /r/seduction | 08/06/12 12:09 AM |
| 2 | Game has worsened once I find out that I actually have a chance with herI've had this problem as well, top comment is pretty solid advice. Build attraction by backing off and not paying her too much attention. | /r/seduction | 06/06/12 10:25 PM |
| 4 | Putting arms around girls.Not sure if I'm actually helping here but I used to have this problem until I started NoFap (not masturbating at all). Read up on it and see if it's anything for you. It's probably placebo but it has helped me be confident in touching women casually and "invading" personal space. | /r/seduction | 31/05/12 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Hey /r/seduction, IAmA personal stylist for men. I teach men how to look attractive. AMA.It strives towards what is known as high fashion in Europe. Other examples are Rick Owens, Obscur, Tom Rebl and John Galliano. Not for everyone. | /r/seduction | 30/05/12 09:10 PM |
| 4 | Invited to spend the weekend at a lake house by a group of girls.Outcome independence man. | /r/seduction | 26/05/12 05:51 PM |
| -7 | Here's something I've never said in my life...Big thing in Canada? | /r/seduction | 20/05/12 10:12 AM |
| 1 | What are some good baby making music?This is pure sex. | /r/seduction | 18/05/12 10:15 AM |
| 2 | Other PeopleJust keep your conversation with others going as she enters so she feels ignored. Alternatively if it's just you and her, as soon as she pauses when nagging say something like "Yea I feel you, but hey what do you think I should do about....." and go on about yourself. | /r/seduction | 17/05/12 09:02 AM |
| 1 | Best way to establish that I'm not paying on the first date?What are you doing for your first date? | /r/seduction | 17/05/12 09:00 AM |
| 2 | Anyone care to help critique my text game?Post it dude... | /r/seduction | 16/05/12 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Tips for small communities?Do not use Facebook. | /r/seduction | 15/05/12 11:22 PM |
| 1 | A lull in progressProtip for Scandinavia: Use Facebook instead of numbers. It's harder but you get better response. | /r/seduction | 14/05/12 08:05 PM |
| 2 | A night of Homelessness in London (long)Awesome man, seems like you had a blast! | /r/seduction | 14/05/12 07:50 PM |
| 3 | How to Create Your Personal StyleCould you please give an example of a more interesting and original style? Would be nice to see an example because style is such a subjective thing. | /r/seduction | 08/05/12 08:39 PM |
| 4 | After some of that great seddit insight - girl gladly accepts all my advances, sudden INSTANT cold responses.Don't talk to her for a while, let her get in touch. | /r/seduction | 08/05/12 12:43 PM |
| 4 | Perhaps the most important lesson I've ever learnedYou suffered from oneitis, glad you're out of it. | /r/seduction | 05/05/12 07:17 PM |
| 6 | I'm a virgin AFC and I have zero confidence. What is the best kind of place to find easy women?Your plan might seriously end up in being accused of rape... Read up in the sidebar, learn the basics and work on your inner game. You're definitely interesting and attractive enough, just work on the confidence and work on being interesting and attractive. Now go. | /r/seduction | 29/04/12 09:06 AM |
| 3 | What are some things I can do to build value...WITHOUT talking to girls?The order goes; Lead singer, guitarist (solo, rhythm), drummer, bassist. | /r/seduction | 02/04/12 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Picking up Scandinavian girlsScadinavian girls are cold | /r/seduction | 20/03/12 03:14 PM |
| 3 | Switching from Alcohol to Benzos in the field and its effectsIs that what you got out of my post? You're missing the obvious point. | /r/seduction | 17/03/12 04:03 PM |
| 20 | Switching from Alcohol to Benzos in the field and its effectsI have done both cocaine and various benzodiazepines. You need to realize that using drugs for the purpose of picking women up is just fooling yourself. I'd say preferably you should stay sober. If a beer or two doesn't do it for you, you need to work on your confidence. You shouldn't need to be plastered, stoned or coked up to pick up women. | /r/seduction | 17/03/12 03:21 PM |
| 11 | Switching from Alcohol to Benzos in the field and its effectsWhy not go straight for cocaine? It's like pure confidence in a zipbag | /r/seduction | 17/03/12 02:53 PM |
| 1 | General tips for avoiding awkwardness in any type of interaction with anyone? (Also seeking some reassurance...) Please read....NoFap man | /r/seduction | 16/03/12 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Guys, don't fight being skinny.High fashion for men is similar to that of women. There's a reason for the models to be skinny. Brands that usually fit skinny guys well include; Rick Owens, John Richmond, Imperial etc. Cheap Monday jeans fit perfectly on skinny guys, and are cheap. | /r/seduction | 16/03/12 05:21 PM |
| 4 | 10 things you probably do wrongYou're seriously describing the way I act and look when I'm stoned. | /r/seduction | 13/03/12 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Here is what I have learned over the past 12 months.Bebe still sounds weird to me. | /r/seduction | 13/03/12 02:43 PM |
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