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DerpishGambino/r/askTRP02/10/17 08:40 PM
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DerpishGambino/r/seduction13/09/17 01:38 PM
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I'm joining the club. I'm 6'4" and about 200lbs. Unless there's at least a 40lb difference between a girl and I, it's a no-go.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/21 12:45 PM
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Having a vision and taking action is great, but at some point, you'll get lost if you don't chart where you're going. This year I started to write down my goals and break them down into actionable targets to hit each week, and then each day to make sure I'm heading down the path that'll give me the best chance at success. As Andy Frisella (RealAF podcast) stresses, you need to make sure you're winning each day if you truly want to achieve your goals. Meditate daily, journal, and notate your prog…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/21 05:39 PM
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Succinctly put & great reminder, thank you.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/21 02:34 PM
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That's a good way of putting it. Even tho women aren't predators, but a real predator would never take its eyes off its prey.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/21 01:35 PM
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If you're not flipping pages while doing supersets, do you even lift?
/r/TheRedPill26/02/20 02:21 PM
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"You're cute, I had to say hello." Been using for the last few days, works well.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 02:33 PM
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What about explaining to a fellow man?
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 05:08 PM
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In other words, "this isn't my first time", which wasn't a bad thing for you. How was the morning after? Were both girls pretty comfortable during?
/r/seduction05/10/17 01:04 PM
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Earlier this year I had a plate who got very mad at the fact that I told her I rejected a girl at a bar on one of my travels while we were seeing each other. Pretty sure I failed her comfort test, but that dread did work in my favor for some time though.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 11:54 AM
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Haha I get that. I've definitely never rationalized a normal question like that into her trying to make me beta buxs, not that it would happen anyways.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 11:51 AM
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Very true words, my friend. I, and I'm sure many others, would like to hear more from you. Thank you.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 11:48 AM
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I try not to be oblivious. I mean, I watch her body language/non-verbals, proximity to me, obedience etc. I've been with TRP for about 1.5 yrs, there's a chance the common shit-tests get rolled over by me.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 08:55 PM
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Realistically, yeah. It really stress the importance of identifying your mission, and sticking to it. You'll know what you need to go, you'll have your goals set and crush them. Why do outside opinions matter?
/r/seduction25/09/17 08:54 PM
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I sent her that text on Monday, to which she responded "Me too, let's plan something!" so I said Thursday evening. I knew I'd be available and I wanted to give her a chance to figure out her schedule (she's a 4th grade teacher, I figured she's busy, and I'm not one to rush dates). But yes, I have the same mindset too. Any girl I've seen multiple times has simply responded, whether it's right away, 3 hours later, or 3 days later, the girl still sent a message back. I'll give it today, and possibl…
/r/seduction13/09/17 02:24 PM
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That's what I generally say at first, so I'll shoot her something this evening. As usual, I'm not really invested, but she had a good vibe, might even be worth to check it out more. Thanks for the response my dude.
/r/seduction13/09/17 02:15 PM
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Nothing, really. Go for the add on FB, get ignored, become another dude liking her pics. React as he did, no number exchange, end of interaction.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 07:31 PM
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I personally do some pushups or other bodyweight workouts before I go out at night (of course I do a real workout at some point that day too) just so I can get a lil pump going. Visible muscles/veins, being tall, being african-american = "oh hey you must play sports"
/r/seduction08/08/17 08:45 PM
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Thank you. I didn't walk up to go the group with my chest puffed out, arms flexed, telling them I was the "alpha male" - it was more or less just me shaking hands, shooting the shit and building rapport with people I wasn't familiar with. "A" mentioned they liked football, so I brought that up and they livened up since it's something they all enjoy and were all equally engaged together.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 08:10 PM
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Care to clarify the "oh man"?
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 06:30 PM
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Good Q. Around the perimeter of the rooftop, there's a fence that's about 3-4 ft tall that has a ledge to place drinks on. She leaned against it at first, then I went behind her and put my arms around her. She turns around and we start mackin'. I pick her up and place her on that ledge and start moving our hands around each other. I purposely went over the clothes only while feeling her legs, to generate those feelz down below. She tried to take my shirt off, but I told her no and "you have to w…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 05:44 PM
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I just talk to everybody. Have an engaging convo with the Lyft driver. Say hi to everyone. Chat with people in line etc, pretty much anything to keep the ball rolling.
/r/seduction05/07/17 06:37 PM
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I love seeing this guy's posts, always quality content.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 02:36 PM
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Been a pretty good week. Went to the gym 4/5 week days at 4am and didn't miss a single rep out of any sets as well as adding in cardio to the mix. Currently on a cut too, so trying to lose a lil weight for the summer 6 pack. Recently ended something with a girl I developed real feelz for, so focusing entirely on my mission to get my head straight right now.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 03:40 PM
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I found it interesting how he practically bashes a lot of what /r/TheRedPill has to say about seduction and their ways on gaming girls. I admittedly read some stuff over there too, but I take everything with a grain of salt and apply what I like to my life. Basically, Mark just wants you to live honestly and act fully, confidently on your actions and thoughts. I would enjoy having a beer with him.
/r/seduction22/03/17 01:27 PM
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This guy profiles.
/r/seduction28/02/17 08:21 PM
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Well, holy shit. This is exactly what I needed to read. Realizing I've had some bit of oneitis for a girl I hungout with last week, which didn't go exactly as I planned, and feeling her attractation for me fade has made me a bit low.. I definitely do feel that emptiness though, but lifting this morning at 5am (as opposed to 9pm) has made me feel more happy, energized and optimistic than any girl has, especially knowing that I get to look forward to that each and every day I wake up. So you and e…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 08:28 PM
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Born, raised and currently live in MN! I'll pm you
/r/seduction30/12/16 05:47 AM
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That's what I'm thinking. Hasn't really been much an issue before though. These are mostly "extreme" examples, but all of my openers so far have been tame and are based off of the girls profile.
/r/seduction30/12/16 05:46 AM
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What do you mean "it's kinda obvious?"
/r/seduction30/12/16 02:50 AM
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The whole "Don't text women often" is such a common theme around here and I don't get why. I'll meet a girl off tinder or day game and text them and still have results. I don't think it's hard/bad to maintain a conversation but to each their own.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 01:44 PM
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Any way to get this without subbing to the kindle service?
/r/seduction14/12/16 11:23 PM
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Also going solo tonight, best of luck
/r/seduction03/12/16 05:53 AM
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I've been applying this to my life about everything. I'll only really tell people details about what I'm doing if it's necessary, otherwise I'll let them witness the results for themselves. Having left my previous university about two years ago, running into old peers has always left them saying something about how I've changed. A girl I used to have a crush on even blatantly told me she's happy I'm not ugly anymore. Even being able to confidently take that as a compliment and reverse that to ne…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 03:55 PM
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Telling her to text you leaves the ball in her court, gives her the control. You should be the one initiating and deciding if you want to see her, not the other way around. I don't know why you want this girl, but move on.
/r/seduction19/11/16 06:13 AM
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I wouldn't go out of my way to ignore her, but if you see her just say hi or something and continue on your way. She didn't want to go on a date? Oh well, no need to give her anymore attention.
/r/seduction22/07/16 02:07 PM
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6'4'' black guy here (and you seem somewhat similar to myself), play into your role and be dominate and assertive. I see that you walk around with confidence, which is good, but I think you need to work on inner game and creating a more natural, positive aura. Women can be fickle when it comes down to men of color (not necessarily bad, but just something I've noticed), so how you present yourself with both body language and fashion can turn those heads from to be looking straight at you instead …
/r/seduction05/07/16 07:25 PM
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Tl;Dr - OP gets cucked by girlfriend's foreign ex
/r/seduction02/07/16 10:44 AM
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Wow, that last line really did surprise me there. I'm black as well, 6'4" and about 195 with low body fat and always groomed face. Can't say I get anything free or get people randomly walking up to me, but I'm 100% my nonverbals and posture show confidence. But kudos to you, glad to hear another minority on TRP having success.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 07:56 PM
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If you're attractive - be confident and positive, go open to attractive girls and get them in your group. Isolate and escalate when needed. If you're not attractive - be confident and positive, go open to attractive girls and get them in your group. Isolate and escalate when needed. I have no idea what girls in Portugal are like, but who wouldn't be warm to a charming guy?
/r/seduction24/06/16 01:26 PM
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Outcome independent, exactly
/r/seduction20/06/16 06:00 PM
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If you're gaming these girls, why not tell em to come over to your room for minute?
/r/seduction15/06/16 07:04 PM
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That's it, just kissing? Just own that shit. Treat like you normally would and carry on.
/r/seduction03/06/16 03:58 PM
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I'm 21 and fairly outgoing and social, I text girls. I don't give a fuck. I'm not lonely, I'm not desperate, I simply enjoy conversation. Sure, I don't text every girl constantly and I may not reply for 1+ hrs, but I don't pretend to be all distant cause some guy on the internet told me to. Example: one girl I've been seeing recently has a very similar taste in music and one of our shared favorite artists released an album, so I texted her about it and we had an ongoing conversation about the al…
/r/seduction03/06/16 03:50 PM
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I agree with that. I met a girl off Tinder about 2 months ago and we've been seeing each other often and we've had great chemistry from the start. I didn't think of it much, but the first time we met I had "the fuzzies" and we found out a lot that we have quite a few common interests. But that look in someones eye when they're like "oh you like that too?!?" is definitely something I'm going to notice more often. Also, I like that you added the list of pitfalls too. Not to say I have one-itis wit…
/r/seduction02/06/16 05:37 PM
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Man, another great post. Chemistry is something I haven't fully understood, but this provided a lot of insight I never would've come across normally!
/r/seduction02/06/16 05:01 PM
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I wondered that too, then again, with his attitude it definitely isn't a problem. It's not like he's the stonefaced, sober guy in the corner(afc) who can't open to girls.
/r/seduction01/06/16 07:53 PM
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Well written post, I suppose I haven't thought too much about not making out with a girl when I have the chance to. There are times where it has worked, but looking back, I could have improved my chances by creating more tension. I'll definitely have to keep this advice in mind for later this evening.
/r/seduction26/05/16 06:03 PM
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I'm probably doing this wrong by Seddit's rules, but there have been quite a few girls I've been with that I've texted often. Like this past week, met a girl off Tinder and texted her frequently in between the initial match and our date, still ended with an f-close, so I'm not too sure what the big deal is. Obviously every girl isn't like that, but I just do what I, and the girl, feel comfortable with and go from there.
/r/seduction20/05/16 06:49 PM
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I always find some way to jokingly ask if they have a boyfriend/if they're seeing someone. Like if they mention they went out to breakfast this past weekend, I'd say something like "which boyfriend took you this time?" and the majority of times they'll blush and say none or that they don't have one. Now the door is wide open for you to lay down some lines or change the conversation
/r/seduction15/04/16 06:56 PM
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Thanks OP, really glad you could breakdown game into some main concepts that most people just brush over in posts/videos. I have to admit, I'm a talker and I really like to share stories and experiences but I have to work on keeping quiet more often.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/16 02:11 PM
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I'm really glad you posted this. As an african american male, it seems like the vast majority of posts on here apply directly to white men but it's relieving to some extent seeing as the theories here apply to minorities. Looking forward to the future with this.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 09:53 PM
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Apparently I should be passionately talking about hobbits. Knew I was doing something wrong.
/r/seduction08/03/16 09:17 PM
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She's stringing you along and trying to make you yet another orbiter. Curve her ass and move tf on.
/r/seduction08/03/16 12:56 AM
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I have nothing to say other than stay away from oneitis, but curious to see what others have to say.
/r/seduction01/03/16 04:40 AM
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Personally use snapchat in a less serious fashion, I try to keep my story and snaps lively and funny
/r/seduction01/03/16 01:07 AM
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I can't wink without looking like an idiot, so I just nonchalantly raise an eyebrow while smirking.
/r/seduction29/02/16 02:07 AM
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Progress so far: Cute front desk girl at the gym: normal great during check in, asked how her day was and why it is busier than normal, basic conversation Girl at target: went to buy a few groceries, lotta people behind me so a quick how was your day followed by a quick answer then grabbed my things and left. Slow progress is better than no progress. Update: 3-5. Went to the mall today to run some errands, talked to the female workers at each store for around 2-3 while shopping. Also had the opp…
/r/seduction24/02/16 04:46 AM
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If you wanna talk to her again, send her a text?
/r/seduction23/02/16 12:49 PM
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Being non-reactive is key as well.
/r/seduction22/02/16 11:17 PM
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Assert yourself. You're a man to be known and you want to talk to her. Waiting for a good moment to talk to her will leave you empty handed, trust me.
/r/seduction22/02/16 11:16 PM
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I'm a regular at my gym and notice some girls looking so often when I go. I have that same "get in, workout, leave" mindset as well and have yet to actually approach them, but I usually go to get a drink by the fountain and see if they follow me while walking. Next I visit the gym, I'm making it my goal to just talk to ONE girl. Just a simple conversation.
/r/seduction22/02/16 11:12 PM
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Been in this situation before. I would talk to her at the student center, it's an open environment and I'm sure she'd be willing to talk. You could say something cliché and give her a compliment based on her "beauty" or you could say something related to the class you were in and connect from there. Have confidence in your approach.
/r/seduction22/02/16 10:58 PM
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This. Not much is worse than talking your way out of a girls pants.
/r/seduction22/02/16 10:48 PM
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Definitely going to have to refer back to this post in the future, really showed how calm and collected you are while she was probably trying her hardest to get your to break.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 04:35 PM
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Isn't that what most kids do anyways? If you're confident in your day game, I say go for it.
/r/seduction22/02/16 03:38 PM
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Agree with this 100%, gotta be upfront and not afraid to drop her if she's gonna flake.
/r/seduction22/02/16 03:36 PM
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I'm down. Working a desk IT job might pose a problem or two when it comes to time constraints, but no more excuses.
/r/seduction22/02/16 03:32 PM
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I always try to be nice and friendly towards cashiers, and if it's slow I'll try to make a decent conversation out of our interaction too. Talking to them can also be a pretty good way to gain momentum too throughout your day.
/r/seduction22/02/16 01:10 AM
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If she reciprocates kino back, then that'd be one clear way of realizing that she accepts yours. Some girls would probably allow kino without being interested, but you have to pay attention to her non-verbals to see what she's really saying.
/r/seduction22/02/16 01:07 AM
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Shit man, this is very well said. I'm no expert, but couldn't planning to take her home after be a little detrimental to his mindset? For me at least, expecting to k or f-close hasn't exactly worked out that often cause the whole date I was projecting that idea onto her which can be a turn off for some girls, especially considering it's a first date.
/r/seduction22/02/16 01:03 AM
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I don't stick to anything specific, but I gauge her reactions and steer the conversation towards what interests her. Always shift away from the interrogation kind of conversation, I think that's pretty boring myself. Let the conversation flow, and if nothing is happening then, move on.
/r/seduction22/02/16 12:55 AM
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The last few girls that I've talked to and have tried being with, I ended up ignoring. Realistically, there was nothing that they did wrong that would have made me stop talking to her, but once I felt that she actually had interest in me, my interest in her dropped. No idea why I do that.
/r/seduction22/02/16 12:50 AM
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I go to the gym about 4 times a week and see plenty of attractive girls and I know that they display some IOI towards me but I still haven't gone up to any of them. I'm working on a proper mindset to get rid of my AA but I continue to get hung up on an opener, even thought what I say doesn't matter that much. I'm new to this subreddit and the train of thought around here but I challenge myself this week to put what I've learned into action and see where it goes.
/r/seduction22/02/16 12:47 AM
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Considering you said you were teens in your other comment, you have a looooong life ahead of you to get oneitis and feel like she's "the one." I'm 20 going on 21, but I know how you feel man, just gotta go on take this situation for what it is. IMHO, I can't do the whole "let's stay friends" thing, especially considering the amount of feeling you have for her. I suppose it could work, but you can't come off as needy or show signs of affection if you want to keep your sanity.
/r/seduction22/02/16 12:36 AM
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