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Derzu_Uzala/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 03:06 PM
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Monogamy is not natural. It is the price we pay to live in a civilized society.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/21 11:45 PM
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Yes I know, but we are rational beings that can understand what's going on. A shot of testosterone or peace of mind? I really wouldn't like to have "the hunger" all over again.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/20 01:26 AM
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I understand. I am 55 yo and married at 40, too. My ex wife and I got divorced about 2 years ago. Last year I was seeing this big tits, perfectly fit, 48 yo blue eyed beautiful blonde. And man, she liked to fuck. But I got bored and I came to the realization that sex IS boring. I rather prefer to spend time with friends, my daughter, my hobbies and once in a while just drain my balls. IMHO, sex is a distraction.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/20 08:22 PM
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What do you mean by workers? That they have a regular job? Or that they are, let's say, whores?
/r/TheRedPill21/10/19 08:38 PM
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Hi. Fernando from Buenos Aires here. How do the girls there in Montevideo react to you in an everyday setting? Do they look interested in you frequently or such a thing is rare? ​ Thanks
/r/TheRedPill21/10/19 08:36 PM
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And because they are children they need LIMITS. A limit is of paramount importance to assure the reduction of anxiety and fear in children. Imagine that you are in a very dark room, wall placements unknown to you. Would you start to run or even walk withpout knowing where the walls are? Limits is a way of telling children, "look, here is the wall, you can run and play whatever you like now because you now know for sure that you would not get hurt stomping your face against an obstacle". ​ Securi…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/18 09:04 PM
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Spot on. And you save a LOT of emotional grief towards women. If you put them at your same emotional level, inevitabilly, you would start to expect adult attitudes and deeds towards you. Great mistake. ​ They are like children, you set limits, they'll feel safer and they'll be forever grateful to you.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/18 08:56 PM
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GTFO of that situation ASAP. Cut her out of your life. Believe me.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/18 05:13 PM
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Yes, it's depressing but only for a while. We, as men, are extremely resilient. I know that now. Women are different. This realization is very important. Share your emotions and grief with another MEN. If you want to share with women do it but from a position of power.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/17 11:35 PM
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Many years ago I believed the same and got angry towards women. I understand now. Women and men are different, I accepted it and moved on. You will get tougher and learn to share your grief with another MEN in your life. Stay strong.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/17 12:27 AM
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Cry a lot and then get some plates spinning ASAP.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 12:38 AM
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For those of you with autoimmune diseases take great care when taking melatonin as it is related to exacerbations of underlying conditions. http://www.hopkinslupus.org/lupus-info/lifestyle-additional-information/avoid/
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 06:43 PM
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That's right, the issue is interest. In fact, one of the most interesting thing for women is the entertainment industry. All this nonsense is just an spectacle to be feed to women, so they can gossip about it and feel indignant. And they pay for it a lot of money which goes to the pocket of the master entertainers: feminists, politicians, NGO, etc.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 06:51 PM
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I think that those promoting women in STEM are just profiting from that nonsense. Rivers of digital ink, subsidies, conferences, etc. They belong to the industry of entertainment, not technology.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 06:46 PM
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IMHO, open source is a hobby for some and a way to gain prestige in the community for others. A lot of successful open source projects have secured high paying job positions for its coders. Anyway, it is true, women don't have hobbies.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 06:40 PM
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Depedestalize women Depedestalize women Depedestalize women Depedestalize women Depedestalize women They are just human beings WITH A TOTALLY different sexual agenda. Reread the sidebar, go out and test things in the field. You'll crash and burn a lot, reread again, repeat cycle. Then you'll start to fly. Welcome
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 06:22 PM
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Congratulations and thank you for sharing. I think you've found the proverbial needle in the haystack. Anyway, you maintained frame and it was a very low cost of investment, which is key, most of all if she had been fake.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 03:57 PM
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Feminism: converting women into 2d class males for the last 50 years.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 06:31 PM
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This. For women choosing a partner is status first and looks (distant) second.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 02:15 PM
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She is telling the "what" not the "why"=AF/BB
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 08:07 PM
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And one of the tenets of that manipulation is enforcing men to say "the truth" under any circumstance, so women can lie (and lie a lot) . There is something very blue pill about "telling the truth under any circumstance" Excerpt from "The manipulated man" which you can find in the sidebar: COMMERCIALIZED PRAYERS For most men all that remains of the religious faith of childhood are a few conditioned behavioral reflexes, such as love of truth, the enjoyment of honest, hard work, or a pleasure in n…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 07:30 PM
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This. Cut contact, accept and heal. There is no other way. In 10 years you'll be the man some girl is bragging about with a former ex.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 05:17 PM
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Women LIE A LOT gentlemen. AND AT THE SAME TIME, they expect the whole truth from us. This thing about being truthful at all times is A WAY OF CONTROLLING MALE BEHAVIOR. Excerpt from "The manipulated man" which you can find in the sidebar: COMMERCIALIZED PRAYERS For most men all that remains of the religious faith of childhood are a few conditioned behavioral reflexes, such as love of truth, the enjoyment of honest, hard work, or a pleasure in non-freedom. From the moral point of view, everyone …
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 03:40 PM
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romance novels = porn for women
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 06:34 PM
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Thanks for your field report. I really can identify with what happened to you and I am a 50 years old Argentinian man. Yes, it is universal. Your "lessons learned" are spot on. You have experience now, which is golden. Bravo!
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 05:07 PM
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RP Truth: women are no angels.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 06:36 PM
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When a woman ask you to "share" your feelings with her is because she wants to get all the information about you so to reassure her own standing in that relationship. In the best case you give up your mystery. In the worst, she just dumps you.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 08:17 PM
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Sorry to hear that, but most of us have been in your shoes. We should get stronger physically and emotionally and become the captains of our own souls which is the hallmark of a true grown up man. Now when they ask me how I am doing, I always respond "in the better moment of my life" and I mean it.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 08:13 PM
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About lying, excerpt from "The manipulated man" which you can find in the sidebar: COMMERCIALIZED PRAYERS For most men all that remains of the religious faith of childhood are a few conditioned behavioral reflexes, such as love of truth, the enjoyment of honest, hard work, or a pleasure in non-freedom. From the moral point of view, everyone should have the right to lie. It helps us to stave off society's often too bold attempts to supervise us and thus minimizes our own personal fight for existe…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 01:15 AM
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Whatever works. Third world countries have sometimes much better treatment of gay people than first world ones.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 08:45 PM
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Jesus, you want to really fuck her and it is all right just do not do it. Tell her that you have mental issues, low your own SMV in her eyes.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 08:25 PM
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If you care about your cousin and family, stay away as it is said before. BUT, and this is a big one, DO NOT MAKE HER TO HATE YOU, because if it so she will TELL EVERYONE that you tried to fuck her. I know it is difficult, your penis does not think, but stay away in the most diplomatic way. DO NOT STAY WITH HER when you both are alone, always have a witness. Say to her that you are gay or have a broken heart or have mental issues, anything, be diplomatic, do not leave evidence of both of you com…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 08:22 PM
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In fact the only one bullied and harassed seems to be Greg Elliott himself.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 03:43 PM
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Women WANT you to pass their shit tests.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 09:06 PM
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FR are the best. You go out and test this shit in the field. RP forum is not the Bible! I do not care if some FR is not teaching a lesson to me. Maybe someone else is learning whom in time will share his experience and benefit all of us. For some among us, masturbation is more akin to theory.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 09:04 PM
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Of course. Women died in childbirth as men died in wars. And it made a lot of economic sense.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 06:19 PM
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I think that women worked since the beginning of time. It is just that the economic conditions allowed only certain types of jobs for women because otherwise the whole community would have suffered. Just as the case for men. I am talking about work in its more abarcative meaning: producing services and goods for the family/community.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 05:33 PM
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Right. This is pointed out in "The Manipulated Man" by Esther Villar.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 05:27 PM
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I was filming the entrance of the Kindergarden my daughter used to go just to give some context for a home DVD I was making for my parents and parents in law. But, I had to switch my camera off because this annoying mother thought I was doing intelligence for kidnappers and thieves. If you are a man you are some kind of pervert. I am from Argentina, btw.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 04:27 PM
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As Nathaniel Branden used to say: "No one is coming".
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 07:02 PM
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As PokeChopSandwiches says, size does not matter only if you are not in the extremes, too small or too big. I know that this is could cause panic in some people, but have you considered surgery? It could put you in the average numbers zone.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 08:15 PM
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The Red Pill changes you and some people will resent you. Get new friends.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 06:47 PM
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All of us had some similar experience. Women despise men weaknesses. But, BUT, if you persists you will become emotionally strong for real and you will feel like a grown up man with steel balls. It is painful process and in time you will also learn to share your feelings of weakness only with people worthy of them. Women are hard teachers
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 07:04 PM
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"Between parent and child" Haim Ginot "Family and how to survive it" J Cleese (from M. Python) and R Skinner
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 07:36 PM
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She should try dating her hamster.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 07:42 PM
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Men have no paternity rights. This scum of the earth tricked a man into getting her pregnant because "she says, fuck it, I'll do it on my own" Two lives ruined (father and child) by this egotistical woman.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 05:48 PM
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The child is a product of a summer fling. I suppose he will be mandated to pay child support These two lines are priceless and demonstrate the power of the hamster: "Sometimes girl says, fuck it, I’ll do it on my own." "girl gets unexpectedly knocked up."
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 05:43 PM
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It is still low. BUT getting pregnant will be much more difficult. Anyway, for me, there are two bigger problems: 1) The idea that a child does not need both parents 2) The idea that you can have a child at any age Does she think she is inmortal? That she will be able to live until an age when her child will be able to support himself? That she will be able to do all the (unlimited!) things needed to raise a child on her own? What will happen when she is sick? These people are deluded.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 05:37 PM
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Not exactly related but there is one thing one shrink once told me about friendship and I think it is good advice. Do not expect friends to be friends in all the dimensions of your life. There are people who will only cover just one of those dimensions. Have several "social circles". Plate theory for friendship.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 09:08 PM
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My thoughts, exactly. I bet she did not even see the low smv males around her.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 08:57 PM
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Feminism uses a "male ruler" to measure women. Male only values are seen as universal values applicable to women also.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 08:12 PM
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Thank you for this information.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 07:55 PM
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This is an old feminist's trope. Today slashdot published a story about "The Woman Who Should Have Been the First Female Astronaut" http://science.slashdot.org/story/14/10/20/0436225/the-woman-who-should-have-been-the-first-female-astronaut One commenter explains it very well: This Yeti/Area-51/LochNess story just won't die (Score:5, Informative) by Anonymous Coward on Monday October 20, 2014 @03:54AM (#48184501) NASA did NOT test that group of women, and NOT to the same standards as the origina…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 05:23 PM
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It's really ironic that this is exactly what you'll expect from the stereotype of a woman. Flimsy, flacky, emotional, irresposible, no code of honor, etc.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 07:15 PM
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Only women could think in such a way.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 07:13 PM
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All succesful leaders have to have something psychopathic in them.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 03:14 PM
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In my experience women prefer men as bosses. Example, a female boss will have less consideration for a woman being pregnant, where a male boss will always be more accomodating. This is straight from the horse's mouth.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 02:50 PM
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Fuck dozens of women. And then you give up the IMAGE of women you have in your head.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 02:46 PM
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Not only that, they sometimes get their orbiters to do their job too.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 08:25 PM
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It gives you understanding and perspective of what is life but I don't consider it a motivator. I prefer to concentrate in my goals and /or the prize.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 11:49 AM
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Thanks, but the author is @SteveAmartinek
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 10:53 PM
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"Office Politics" by R Don Steele. It is intended to women, but 99% still applies. Very un-PC
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 09:01 PM
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Lots of men like myself been there in your shoes. Do not despair, follow the RP path.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 05:31 PM
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I am almost 50 yo, married for 9 years an with an 8 yo daughter. Adolescence and early 20 were hell for me. Depression (medicated), incel, beta to the max, etc. Then a LTR of almost 5 years, from 23 to 28. Finally thanks to earlier gurus from the internet I managed to fuck and get relationships with beautiful women, in some cases almost 15 years younger than me. It can be done. What still hurts is not the missing out of sex or relationships, because you can get tons of it if you follow the RP pa…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 05:28 PM
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His self steem is crushed right now. Maybe in a few months.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 05:01 PM
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Israel draft women since foerever. BUT they do not enter into combat.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 06:56 PM
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Men build a world then women fill it with people
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 10:39 PM
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You are welcome. It is a powerful quote, indeed. Thanks to you, too.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 05:40 PM
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They do not get into battle. Proof is that seldom you hear about a female soldier death.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 03:50 PM
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He who desires, but acts not, breeds pestilence William Blake
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 02:57 PM
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I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain. Dune – Bene Gesserit Litany Against Fear
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 02:57 PM
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Monogamy also helped to pacify the masses. Every male or female would have a partner. Imagine what an army of angry and horny men , beta or not, would create inside a society. The male get sex and the female in return, receives protection and resources.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 05:15 PM
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Anisogamy From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Anisogamy (noun) (also called heterogamy) refers to a form of sexual reproduction involving the union or fusion of two dissimilar gametes (differing either in size alone or in size and form) — anisogamous, anisogamic, (adj.).[1] The smaller gamete is considered to be male (sperm cell), whereas the larger gamete is regarded as female (egg cell) http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anisogamy
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 05:09 PM
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The Missing Men in Your Family Tree Let’s start with an assertion in the speech that troubled many readers: we have twice as many female ancestors as male ancestors. Dr. Baumeister called it the “single most underappreciated fact about gender.” Critics responded that it couldn’t be true because every child has a father and a mother. Some readers acknowledged that we might collectively have fewer male ancestors than female ancestors, but they insisted that any individual must have an equal number…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 05:02 PM
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Bateman's principle From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia In biology, Bateman's principle suggests that in most species variability in reproductive success, or "reproductive variance," is greater in males than in females. This is ultimately a consequent of anisogamy. Females, especially mammalian females, almost always invest more energy into producing offspring than males invest. Bateman's principle anticipated and is consistent with Robert Trivers's theory of Parental investment—in most specie…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 04:58 PM
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I have observed just the opposite.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 03:46 PM
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We are not born with this knowledge. In fact we, as males, are brainwahsed to go against our own nature.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 03:45 PM
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There is an old book "Family and how to survive it" that explains why setting limits is so important. One of the reasons is that limits allow the children to feel secure by defining a safe, supervised zone where they can grow.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 03:42 PM
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Your analogy is spot on. Yes, we are responsible. In fact I tend to view many divorces as a failure of the man to understand (for whatever reason) the dynamics going on in his marriage.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 03:35 PM
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Excellent on the "hand on dick" thing. A LTR of mine tended to do the same thing at the beginning of our relation. I suppose that her being a solid 8+ and with big tits, this move assured her pussypass. I saw her real intentions from ten miles afar and felt enraged.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 07:42 PM
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And what about the transgender people? And the disabled people? and the blacks, the latinos, the poor? I mean, Is there another class more deserving those jobs than the poor (black, white, cyan) from a diversity point of view? Feminism is for (white) women only.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 04:01 PM
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Feminism stops whenever a tyre needs to be changed.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 03:57 PM
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10 thousands upvotes for your post.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 03:56 PM
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Estupid girl, "brave new world" has already been written.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 06:02 PM
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I would not let pass this opportunity. Getting to empty your sack helps confidence when approaching better women. In time you will become more selective, but not now, please. BUT, apply red pill. Sometimes even the ugliest bitch thinks she is a princess.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 05:45 PM
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"Feminism helps men too" is a canard they usually like to say.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 05:23 PM
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We sure understand that advocating a world quota for people based on gender, race or religion goes against the most basic human rights that feminism says it supports.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 05:22 PM
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Get into assertive training, get books. Excellent techniques to avoid manipulation. Assertive training is a must in RP toolbox.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 06:03 PM
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LIMITS, LIMITS THEY ARE CHILDREN, THEY CRAVE FOR LIMITS. All interpersonal communication is BS of the greatest kind. Maintain frame.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 05:59 PM
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You can't be alpha but RP mentality gets you almost there (results wise)
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 03:09 PM
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asking is the ultimate pussy drier.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 07:49 PM
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Sorry mate, but it is almost offensive to ask questions after questions. It is almost to feel like in an interrogatory. It is far better to reveal some facts about you first, followed by "and you?" The information conveyed by women lie in their actions. Words reveal states of feeling.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 05:05 PM
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This is insane. A kiss in this context is almost a formal greeting. It is like someone extending his hand for a handshake while the other person refuses to even lift his arm. The misandrist take by the newspaper is another example of how misguided (and misguiding) media are.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 02:58 PM
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And when you think about it, you understand that there are thousands of Bar Refaeli but there is only one Leo Di Caprio.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 07:32 PM
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That's right. Orbiters = Beta plates with no fucking. I would add that women fuck alphas when opportunity arises, they are not spinning alpha plates, this would not be possible as an alpha plate is an oxymoron. But they do fuck a lot.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 05:34 PM
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I have heard many times how widows blame (with anger!) their late husband for leaving them
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 04:46 PM
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Wait until you support a woman economically.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 04:45 PM
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This has happened to me in every relationship: "I worry whenever you don't go to the office" And do not get me started when you feel REALLY sick, they couldn't care less. Consider yourself lucky if she picks up the phone and calls the doctor.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 02:38 PM
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Thank you all, gentlemen. Very informative.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 08:48 PM
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As a non-english speaker I can't get the meaning of "amused xxxxx". Amused mastery, etc. I look up in my dictionary and says something like "entertained" but it does not make sense. Do you mean effortesly, calm, non reactive? Thanks
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 06:13 PM
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Ask any woman who she preffers as a boss, man or woman? More than a 50% will say "man". Women tend to be ruthless among them where men tend to be protective towards females.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 12:46 PM
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As a foreigner that always has have the USA as a paradigm of freedom (at least the media and film industry get people from all over the world to think so) this witch hunt without end, is unbelievable.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 06:47 PM
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Oh yes, they spin plates, too. A lot.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 10:24 PM
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Those are TESTS. Remember, TESTS. Have her asked you directly to be exclusive? No? then do not make waves. She : "are you seeing someone?". You: "Look, I have no girlfriend". And it is true, you have no girlfriend. Besides, she will realize you are seeing other women. It is simple, you are not seeing her every day, not talking to her everyday. In the weekends you are doing something "else". She wouldn't be a woman if she wouldn't be suspicious. Do not admit it directly! Why? Because confronted w…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 10:21 PM
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Setting Limits: 5 Reasons Why it is Important to Set Limits with Kids http://discipline.about.com/od/establishingrules/tp/Setting-Limits-5-Reasons-Why-It-Is-Important-To-Set-Limits-With-Kids.htm
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 07:29 PM
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Talk to lots of women in just any situation. Just talk, no further intentions, this lessens anxiety. You are building confidence not picking up girls. Practice listening to them, looking at their eyes (do not be "creepy"). Try not having your eyes going from the roof to their cleavage and back. Do not look at their body. Do not look at another girls. Realize that hot women are just plain women but with hundreds of suitors. This means, try to think about them as if your are talking to your sister…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 03:32 PM
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I pay attention to what I really like and try to do it. I am a attracted to all sort of technical things, from electronics, computers, etc, to tiling a bath or making forniture. BUT, I get bored if I spend too much time on something so I just switch between interests.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 03:29 PM
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