Desaude Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	I got a girls number from work how should I proceed now? Or am I fucked? Wrong. You ask if she wants to go get dinner, coffee, ice cream. You MAKE the opportunity to get her face to face before you take the shot.	/r/seduction	06/08/22 03:58 PM
3	Help! Take the goddamned shot!	/r/seduction	06/08/22 03:50 PM
1	I got a girls number from work how should I proceed now? Or am I fucked? Dude, just spell it out. If she asks, tell her you chose now because you don't get into relationships with coworkers. That MAY be a lie in this case in spirit rather than technicality, but moving forward it is a solid rule. Whether you like it or not, you made the pro move here and here is why: You have taken work out of the equation. Dating a coworker is cute and fun when it goes well, and hell on earth when it goes bad. You have eliminated that vector of drama, and saved yourself from HR hell …	/r/seduction	06/08/22 12:47 PM
5	What do you guys think about Andrew Tate? There's a difference between choosing not to consume his content, and having the algorithm force it down our throats because idiots shill his bullshit.	/r/seduction	04/08/22 03:59 AM
3	What do you guys think about Andrew Tate? Pretty much.	/r/seduction	04/08/22 03:57 AM
11	What do you guys think about Andrew Tate? He can be aptly summed up as a big fish in a small pond at best. All of his matches in ISKA went to judge decisions, he never had a clear win in his career His MMA record is mediocre, and the only reason he has any kind of wealth is because he moved to Romania, which is has a 45-46% cheaper cost of living than in the United States and far more... loose policies. If he stayed in the US he would just be some scummy guy who owns a used car dealership. The only reason he still has money is because h…	/r/seduction	04/08/22 03:55 AM
1	If a girl invites you out to the bar with her friends, is it wise to do that or wait for a better opportunity. Different strokes I guess. but I am looking for the long game, not catch and release. The places I go to are like $12-13 for a burger, and drinks are about 5-10 depending on what's being offered. The price is a bit steeper, but I can glean a LOT more information and get a far better read through body language and how they interact with the wait staff. Are they just for looks, or is there a brain behind that pretty face? Is there an intellect there that will stimulate and sharpen mine? Or am I go…	/r/seduction	31/07/22 12:46 AM
1	If a girl invites you out to the bar with her friends, is it wise to do that or wait for a better opportunity. If I am taking someone to a bar / restaurant, I am spending at least $20 in drinks alone. I like good food, good drinks, and good company. I am frugal in a lot of things so I can spend that money on a good impression and tipping well.	/r/seduction	30/07/22 11:34 PM
1	'Dating 10/10 model girl' - Girl night outs - what is acceptable and what is not. Set the expectation and make sure it is known. If she cheats, it is over. End of story. It's not open for debate, it is a hard line, and there is no appeal. Circumstances have no bearing on the outcome. She can go out with her friend, fine whatever. But if she uses that opportunity and ends up with some other guy, it is done. Game over, get out. "I got too drunk, it was a mistake..." "I agree, there's the door." It's not being jealous or insecure, it's terms and agreements. Actions and consequen…	/r/seduction	30/07/22 05:32 PM
1	What is the appeal of bad boys Make no bones about it, I know I am fked in the head. But I don't worry about the little things anymore. I care about the feelings and perceptions of those who are important to me, and all the other randos of the world can fk off. Shame only has the power you let it have over you. I walk up and take my shot. Its their decision to get on board or get off the tracks, because I am coming through with or without them.	/r/seduction	30/07/22 02:01 PM
3	If a girl invites you out to the bar with her friends, is it wise to do that or wait for a better opportunity. But that's the thing; either way you are the hunter in this scenario. You either have a setup where she never shows herself, or you walk right into the den and make the opportunity happen. As someone who gets into Armor and fights with swords as a hobby; in the right circumstances. Aggression and initiative can be an adequate substitute for skill in a pinch. That said, experience will win every time. Going into this situation is a gamble, but this is how you get through it: Yes, she is surrounde…	/r/seduction	30/07/22 01:23 PM
2	If a girl invites you out to the bar with her friends, is it wise to do that or wait for a better opportunity. Have fun with that. I just got out of a suburb that has the same population density as San Francisco, and I wanted to die when I lived there. I like activity as much as the next guy, but I cant do with having that many people in my space.	/r/seduction	30/07/22 04:34 AM
2	What is the appeal of bad boys As a Former Paratrooper and Combat Medic, I can confirm this. Once you have been shot at, and have had a few REAL Near-death experiences like getting shot at or having a parachute fail, all the dumb shit you used to worry about just feels foolish to be worried about. You don't have to be a badass. You just have to maintain your bearing that you are secure, confident, and ready to take on whatever comes your way.	/r/seduction	30/07/22 04:31 AM
12	If a girl invites you out to the bar with her friends, is it wise to do that or wait for a better opportunity. Ah, yeah. Long Island, Fuuuck that. You need to put that in your post lol. No first date is worth more than $75-80 bucks. I don't know how you do it. I live just outside of Cleveland, so 25 miles is 30 minutes in my car lol. How do you live with so many people up your ass?	/r/seduction	30/07/22 04:20 AM
10	Somebody send some words of encouragement my way I’m about to go approach for the first time Fortune Favors the Bold. Fuck your nerves, you are BOLD! You will shoot your shot. If it works, awesome. If not, who gives a shit? just regroup and try someone else til it does hit.	/r/seduction	30/07/22 03:44 AM
3	Somebody send some words of encouragement my way I’m about to go approach for the first time Good goddamn, I just said this in another thread. Why do we have to keep saying this?	/r/seduction	30/07/22 03:42 AM
14	Is it weird to cold approach alone? My Grandfather once told me, "You miss every shot you don't take. And if you miss, so what? Take aim and shoot again until you hit something!" The hardest thing to remember is that women are normal people too. What I mean by that we always lock up and freeze talking to them like we are talking to the president, or the pope, or a rockstar. If you talk to people like you are talking to a friend, you will go a lot farther in life. The hardest thing to do is to stop giving a F*ck about what people y…	/r/seduction	30/07/22 03:41 AM
6	If a girl invites you out to the bar with her friends, is it wise to do that or wait for a better opportunity. Whoa. Full stop. 400? How? Why?	/r/seduction	30/07/22 03:27 AM
6	If a girl invites you out to the bar with her friends, is it wise to do that or wait for a better opportunity. You do you boo boo. You know your capabilities and comfort zone. But as someone who has wasted a decade of his life being married to someone he settled for (who later burned the shit out of him), playing it safe is for chumps and you don't have time for women who are not worth investing it in. I'm not saying jump blind, but Calculated risk is never a bad thing. Comfort breeds complacency. Complacency dulls the mind. You can always make more money. You can always find another woman. You cannot ge…	/r/seduction	30/07/22 03:21 AM
30	If a girl invites you out to the bar with her friends, is it wise to do that or wait for a better opportunity. Ok, so I am going to roll the Hard six on this one and say go for it, and here is why: This is the friend group you are going to have to deal with regardless of if you hit it off with her tonight or Sunday. Come in, show no fear, show them all courtesy as well as a good time.As a formerly married man, I can tell you that you will be dating her friends tonight and in the nights to come just as much as you are dating her. If you feel outnumbered and in front of a firing squad, it's because you are…	/r/seduction	30/07/22 02:56 AM