DesconocidoUK Archive

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1	Attractive Women Want it All: Good Genes, Economic Investment, Parenting Proclivities, and Emotional Commitment It seems they'll also still cheat even with the whole package - diversifying genes in offspring/securing extra protection and resources etc. And if they can lock down a better deal across all the metrics of male success they'll openly branch swing. Look at how many young women behave, riding the CC. And how older women behave on girlie holidays away from husbands/partners. This is how it appears most women would like to behave if they could - maximising their genetic investment and security/reso…	/r/TheRedPill	11/08/17 03:33 PM
1	What to do in absence of emotional intimacy? Yes, that's a given. Escalation with a smirk. But if she waits til third date then she's less likely to be a slut and more likely to be perceived as LTR material. Caveat emptor however...	/r/TheRedPill	05/07/17 10:17 PM
3	What to do in absence of emotional intimacy? Women that put out on a first date may be in awe of you however having a challenge makes a man more comfortable committing to a woman - it shows that she's a low scorer on the AWALT spectrum and that she's not easily going to jump into bed with another man. Traditional women are thus easier to respect, and hence easier to commit to. I think there was even some psych research on this which showed first date sex tends to reduce chances of a relationship forming for men. Call it BP, but if you want…	/r/TheRedPill	02/07/17 01:48 PM
4	What to do in absence of emotional intimacy? Just find a woman who scores low on the AWALT traits and build something with her; there are good ones out there, you just need to look beyond hotness, drama and emotional provocation. Women from a more traditional background who enjoy being feminine and nurturing and appreciate the little things through having perspective are the good ones. Remember she'll want security and commitment, and emotional connection. It's just a shame there aren't many around in the west. I find doing activities with…	/r/TheRedPill	02/07/17 01:42 PM
1	You shouldn't post if you are new. You should STFU and get learning. You see dry humour above? You obviously aren't English. You're obviously a big macho guy who shoots from the hip and tells it straight, no messin'.	/r/TheRedPill	30/06/17 09:56 PM
1	You shouldn't post if you are new. You should STFU and get learning. I appreciate this is an important point and there's frustration but do you think such an aggressive tone is necessary? I quite like reading the random meandering streams of consciousness of people struggling to figure stuff out by bouncing their thoughts around - I wouldn't want young men with issues given a hard time when they come here for a bit of support etc. Just a thought.	/r/TheRedPill	28/06/17 09:20 PM
1	It's that time of the year again: we need to have The Talk about 'alpha' and 'beta' Ha ha. I would suggest you're aiming too high with your SMV. You'll only get the hot ones if you catch them in the mood and drunk. Game can only take you so far. Develop real power and improve your looks then try again with the hot ones.	/r/TheRedPill	25/05/17 01:38 PM
2	It's that time of the year again: we need to have The Talk about 'alpha' and 'beta' Ha ha. I would suggest you're aiming too high with your SMV. You'll only get the hot ones if you catch them in the mood and drunk. Game can only take you so far. Develop real power and improve your looks then try again with the hot ones.	/r/TheRedPill	25/05/17 01:38 PM
1	It's that time of the year again: we need to have The Talk about 'alpha' and 'beta' Ha ha. I would suggest you're aiming too high with your SMV. You'll only get the hot ones if you catch them in the mood and drunk. Game can only take you so far. Develop real power and improve your looks then try again with the hot ones.	/r/TheRedPill	25/05/17 01:37 PM
1	It's that time of the year again: we need to have The Talk about 'alpha' and 'beta' Ha ha. I would suggest you're aiming too high with your SMV. You'll only get the hot ones if you catch them in the mood and drunk. Game can only take you so far. Develop real power and improve your looks then try again with the hot ones.	/r/TheRedPill	25/05/17 01:37 PM
1	It's that time of the year again: we need to have The Talk about 'alpha' and 'beta' Like I say it's a trade off. Looks matter, but not as much as power. A binary argument in favour of either is wrong. Women are turned on more by power than looks, but looks still matter. I would roughly suggest power is 60 to 70% of the attraction, the rest is looks. Whereas for men it's 95% looks. If the fifty year old is ordering around the beasts you refer to, and they have to do his bidding, a woman will find the fifty year old powerful guy makes her wetter. It's hard to process as a man giv…	/r/TheRedPill	25/05/17 01:28 PM
5	Hiring an escort is like hiring any other service provider You're spot on, as is OP. They're still women. If you connect with them and show respect/ interest they can enjoy their work. If you don't, they see it as a chore. Women like sex with appealing men. Even if the man is paying for it and they are working the same rules apply for normal seduction. Treat her like a woman, respect her, and you'll get a better experience where she may even enjoy her sex work.	/r/TheRedPill	25/05/17 09:01 AM
-1	It's that time of the year again: we need to have The Talk about 'alpha' and 'beta' Look at your little ego all bruised. Alas it appears you don't know what you're talking about. Because you've never been close to or experienced power. You just project your own attraction patterns onto women. Which is a mistake. But a common one. Don't worry, you'll learn.	/r/TheRedPill	25/05/17 08:05 AM
-1	It's that time of the year again: we need to have The Talk about 'alpha' and 'beta' Look at your little ego all bruised. Alas it appears you don't know what you're talking about. Because you've never been close to or experienced power. You just project your own attraction patterns onto women. Which is a mistake. But a common one. Don't worry, you'll learn.	/r/TheRedPill	25/05/17 08:05 AM
-1	It's that time of the year again: we need to have The Talk about 'alpha' and 'beta' Look at your little ego all bruised. Alas it appears you don't know what you're talking about. Because you've never been close to or experienced power. You just project your own attraction patterns onto women. Which is a mistake. But a common one. Don't worry, you'll learn.	/r/TheRedPill	25/05/17 08:05 AM
1	It's that time of the year again: we need to have The Talk about 'alpha' and 'beta' But wealth and being tall make it easier to be a smirking jerk boy who pinches the girls' bums and gives them tingles.	/r/TheRedPill	24/05/17 09:27 PM
2	It's that time of the year again: we need to have The Talk about 'alpha' and 'beta' I see you missed out Clinton. The sly dog. His interns were his sextoys. I don't recall him being a young stud at the time. Just extremely powerful. Berlusconi. Billionaire 70 something banging 17 year olds. Why weren't those young women out banging athletes? Because they wanted to be close to real power. It turned them on more. Looks matter for women in terms of raw attraction, but power matters more. For men, female power matters little, and looks matter far more. Overwhelmingly so. It seems m…	/r/TheRedPill	24/05/17 09:25 PM
0	It's that time of the year again: we need to have The Talk about 'alpha' and 'beta' I can tell you've never experienced power.	/r/TheRedPill	24/05/17 09:15 PM
3	It's that time of the year again: we need to have The Talk about 'alpha' and 'beta' Stephen Hawking isn't particularly powerful. And even he traded in his wife for his younger nurse.	/r/TheRedPill	24/05/17 09:15 PM
2	It's that time of the year again: we need to have The Talk about 'alpha' and 'beta' It's power. Unless the man is too old and the power of youth trumps the accumulated power of an aging alpha. But even then the woman will find it a hard choice. Power and security are fundamental drivers of female attraction. Evolution made it that way. What stops it happening more in modern society is the feminist restructuring of power in favour of women and the fact that social shaming occurs to suppress the fire raging in a young woman's burning loins when around a powerful older man. If you…	/r/TheRedPill	24/05/17 09:14 PM
1	It's that time of the year again: we need to have The Talk about 'alpha' and 'beta' This. Exactly. She wants Alpha power and beta commitment. Combined. In the same guy ideally, or through several if necessary.	/r/TheRedPill	24/05/17 03:57 PM
2	It's that time of the year again: we need to have The Talk about 'alpha' and 'beta' Not necessarily. You have plenty of accountancy/finance guys who are great at making money but soft and subservient to women. They get rinsed by them. I know people who have lost thousands paying for rings/jewellery holidays etc only for their girlfriends to jump ship with a more masculine man with far less wealth. The point is about how you act. You may act alpha to help generate wealth, or having wealth may fill you with confidence to act powerfully. Women notice wealth, but they notice how yo…	/r/TheRedPill	24/05/17 03:54 PM
0	It's that time of the year again: we need to have The Talk about 'alpha' and 'beta' I agree. The gardener's looks are a source of power themselves, but he may equally be a pussy despite them and not get any action. Good looking betas who act in a feminine way get turned down all the time "I just didn't feel chemistry" etc But she's getting the whole spectrum of power traits with your example, but from different men. If the old codger doesn't act like a man, he'll get duty sex at best. If he keeps his attitude and flaunts his power derived from his wealth and status, she'll enjo…	/r/TheRedPill	24/05/17 03:33 PM
25	It's that time of the year again: we need to have The Talk about 'alpha' and 'beta' This. Essentially it's about power. A whole spectrum of traits make you powerful. Looks, height, wealth, status, etc and a dominant attitude flows from this power. This dominant attitude gives tingles. Which is why you can fake power with game. Women want a powerful man. But they want him to commit and love. If you commit and go all emotional then this makes her excited, provided you are powerful and act like it. If you are not powerful, and thus don't act like it, then she doesn't want your com…	/r/TheRedPill	24/05/17 02:15 PM
2	It's that time of the year again: we need to have The Talk about 'alpha' and 'beta' Wealth and status generate power and are therefore Alpha. Willingness to commit the resources is beta.	/r/TheRedPill	24/05/17 02:02 PM
5	How to escalate and turn a conversation sexual Depends on the advance - a first kiss standing up and she turns her cheek maybe not, but that's suggestive of lack of kino build up and misjudged kiss attempt without chemistry. But if you've already built up the touching and definitely if you've kissed, spank and smirk away my friend. Remember you DGAF.	/r/TheRedPill	15/05/17 10:00 PM
2	Common mistakes, misconceptions and hamstering from newcomers Texting thing isn't accurate. You can build connection and flirt through text. It's another test. However if you're shit at being interesting and witty via text then better not to bother. And as a caveat don't be consistent and predicable with the fun chit chat, ie same time every night. Drop random texts, have short and long little chats here and there. Go quiet for a night etc. As long as it's not needy it's fine to text and can help you a lot. And don't try to be "funny" like a clown, it's su…	/r/TheRedPill	15/05/17 08:12 PM
12	How to escalate and turn a conversation sexual Just laugh it off when she tests you by knocking back your advances. Smirk. Call her a "good girl". Change the subject. Spank her ass, get up and move away and crack open a beer or something. Look bored. Yawn. Etc. Don't say "Well, I tried". Sounds a bit whiny.	/r/TheRedPill	15/05/17 08:05 PM
1	Evo psych article implies cuckoldry is not common, does it hold up to scrutiny Ha ha. Wolves in sheeps clothing. The portfolio diversity inclination is reduced when they tick most of their boxes for power and looks, commitment/security and support. However they will want a better deal for their investment, if they can get it at any time. I think the portfolio diversity comes into play when there's risk with their investment. If their investment is good, then it's only changed if better returns can be made. If it's risky, they diversify.	/r/TheRedPill	09/05/17 10:29 PM
3	Evo psych article implies cuckoldry is not common, does it hold up to scrutiny The pill is known to mess with hormones so much that women find betas permanently more attractive. When they come off the pill suddenly they get the tingles back for masculine men and don't fancy their partners anymore.	/r/TheRedPill	09/05/17 10:21 PM
1	Find Your Mirrors So you need to recognise yourself without relying upon others as mirrors. Or only look into trusted mirrors. Are there any trusted mirrors?	/r/TheRedPill	09/05/17 10:08 PM
3	Evo psych article implies cuckoldry is not common, does it hold up to scrutiny This is spot on. And explains why men can improve their SMV and get better women. Whereas women are stuck with their looks and some psychological warfare to convince a superior man to commit. It also explains why women do bail on men they are sleeping with who won't commit who are significantly above them in SMV. They want their security and commitment and leave to get it elsewhere, then are inclined to return to the lost Alpha and cheat with him. But because they "still have feelings" it's rati…	/r/TheRedPill	09/05/17 10:02 PM
3	Evo psych article implies cuckoldry is not common, does it hold up to scrutiny Yes. But the tingles come from dominant behaviour ideally accompanied by good looks. Dominant behaviour tends to flow from having power (which flows from resources/education/status etc). That power is what she wants, ideally along with good looks. Then she wants to lock down the man into a committed relationship (unless and until she can upgrade to an even better option). AF/BB arises where the woman can't score highly for power and looks. She gets a loyal partner, then cheats to try to branch s…	/r/TheRedPill	09/05/17 09:51 PM
4	Evo psych article implies cuckoldry is not common, does it hold up to scrutiny Good post. This makes a lot of sense. Effectively women seek a genetically fit, high status man and try to secure his commitment. If they cannot, they secure a lower status man willing to commit and then harvest the high status genes for looks and power, and maybe discreet resource favours too, from the most powerful males. This explains why power gets women so excited - they may have a loyal partner in the background but they'll cheat willingly to attempt to branch swing into a complete package…	/r/TheRedPill	09/05/17 10:20 AM
0	Find Your Mirrors But people hold up distorted mirrors to serve their own ends.	/r/TheRedPill	08/05/17 03:59 PM
3	You haven't made it until you have accepted the harsh truths that don't fit your narrative, there is a big difference between taking the red pill and coping. Not true. I'm 38, I've been having a great time for the last 7 years dating a multitude (100's, with the strike outs) of women of more nationalities than I can remember. I stay in shape, am well travelled, have a house and medium status job. I dress ok but nothing amazing. It's a fucking playground in your 30's. I'm so glad I bailed on my LTR aged 31. I also have divorcee friends in their mid late 40's who are killing it with much younger women. One of these guys has balls of steel and will appr…	/r/TheRedPill	06/05/17 04:38 PM
0	TRP vs. 3rd wave feminism Good point. The emotional reasoning/shaming/pity plays deployed are obvious once you see through them in general. And interestingly these methods are also favoured by psychopaths.	/r/TheRedPill	06/05/17 09:15 AM
13	Where Have The Good Women Gone? When men had a greater share of resources relative to women they automatically acted more alpha due to the status they enjoyed. In today's western societies this structural advantage has been taken away. This means men have to find a different means as a basis for being assertive and empowered with women, whether that be game, lifting, a talent, social proof etc, which is far harder than a simple salary advantage. So modern egalitarian society really does sort the Alpha from the Beta, which serv…	/r/TheRedPill	01/05/17 05:15 PM
2	Your "friends" and how they're not as important as you think People are competitive and generally only relate to one another for a benefit of some kind. True friendships that transcend this transactional reality are rare and usually forged in tough shared experiences. So much of what I see happening between people everyday is fake; the exchanging of cards, the faux concern for another's drama, the lunch date tete a tete. Very few people would actually sacrifice something for their friends. Most of the time it looks like political positioning and posturing…	/r/TheRedPill	01/05/17 04:11 PM
1	Your "friends" and how they're not as important as you think This is very true. You see it in workplace friendships most clearly; when people move jobs they tend to move friends as well. The majority of "friendships" are contextual in that you have to be sharing some activity or experience and once that stops people fade away. The friendships that transcend these circumstantial connections are usually due to a legacy of some kind, whether it be university or growing up together. But even then as people change it's hard to keep these going. Although in som…	/r/TheRedPill	01/05/17 04:04 PM
4	I Think I Failed A Big Shit Test Today (LTR Workplace Harassment) Insecurity shit test. Ignore it and flirt with other women. Women are constantly hit on by other guys; it's something you should presume and accept. Reacting to it by mate guarding and getting annoyed shows weakness. You should laugh it off, smirk, communicate you know what she's up to by telling you instead of not bothering and flirt with other women. She'll fall into line.	/r/TheRedPill	30/04/17 09:14 AM
1	You Have More In Common With Feminism Than You Think I agree. Perhaps the mirror opposite idea still applies though - TRP and Feminism are just sexual strategies deployed by either sex. Feminism facilitates AF/BB through making women less dependent on men. TRP is a countermeasure men can deploy to avoid being ignored or utterly squashed by an increasingly gynocentric society.	/r/TheRedPill	30/04/17 09:02 AM
3	Emmanuel Macron: The apotheosis of the Beta Male She's from a wealthy chocolatier family. Probably fairly high net worth.	/r/TheRedPill	30/04/17 08:56 AM
16	Emmanuel Macron: The apotheosis of the Beta Male Yeah I agree there's definitely something not right here. Either closet gay, or a narcissist /psychopath who married for social connections and power - the wife is from a rich family. Politicians know that presenting an image of family life is very important for a successful career. The reason why the French don't care is because they presume he has young mistresses and has married for social connections. Which actually qualifies him for the job. I reckon he's not gay or a "pedo"; like most poli…	/r/TheRedPill	29/04/17 05:33 PM