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These women work too hard on these profiles, why not just write "Run!" and be done. No pic needed
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/22 03:05 AM
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Most of them have done homosexual stuff or pedo stuff to get that high up, so I usually think eeeeew. The only characters I thought were hot was Eric Bana in Troy and Zachary Quinto in Star Trek (who I think is gay irl, but he was hot in that movie) probably partly because of his emotionless coolness, but could still fall in love type thing
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/21 08:59 PM
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You know people must be quite lifeless when they sound just every other girl on the internet. They all sing the same stupid song. Nothing unique about their thought. Nothing special. It's like they're robots manufactured in the void of hedonistic hell
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/11/21 01:32 AM
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They never mature fully mentally so they keep up with the same things young people are into. They are into the young celebrities, read things targeted to that audience, watch the same videos, they are desperate to stay relevant. They probably observe young people to try to emulate them. Older women who had kids, a spouse, grandchildren, did not have much time to be doing that or didn't have the energy. They had different interests, possibly even found religion which can help them be more humble …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/11/21 09:04 PM
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That's wonderful. I don't regret it now
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 11:43 PM
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Thanks. He's a great guy and yes I try my best to treat him right and treats me right as well. We've definitely had ups and downs like every marriage but I'm glad we have endured
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 11:41 PM
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I'm 39. I got knocked up at 19 by my boyfriend. Made my share of mistakes for sure. I had enough of a decent upbringing by a mom and dad. Nothing spectacular but secure enough. At that point I figured I've messed up once badly enough sure as heck not going to make a second mistake. I gave a family a shot with all I had being immature and thankfully my boyfriend made himself responsible also. We married. NOT IDEAL. But we stuck to our guns and figured it out as we went. We've had more children an…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 06:14 AM
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LMFAO She's 35 LOL LOL LOL LOL
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 12:22 AM
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The absence of father figures is a complete disaster. Women can not be left to their own devices. Some are exceptions but then everyone thinks they are the exception. Women need their fathers or a male role model growing up to protect them from bad decisions that ruin their reputations and life. After they become adults they need a husband to protect them from bad decisions that can ruin, either their marriage, life, and/or reputation. The more good guidance a young lady has growing up the less …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/21 02:02 AM
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Nope. This is wrong. It is very naive. Women and men will be attracted to each other but that doesn't mean you have to cheat. It's called prevention. Cheating is so serious that you have to prevent it miles back before it happens. Meaning don't make yourself stop the second you're about to lean over for a kiss. Stop is by not being alone with the opposite sex
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/21 01:55 AM
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Exactly. Optics matter also. Don't do anything that looks questionable if you can avoid it. You were smart to end it. Don't put yourself in situations that can look wrong or could give the opportunity for something to happen. It's called safe guarding your relationship.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/21 01:51 AM
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That is so pathetic LOL. I don't even like seeing women on facebook posting they're favorite male actors/models etc. It's like, have some class. Then again i'm not the type to drool over celebrities. I just like average people
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/21 01:38 AM
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Not completely the same but check out this behavior that mildly annoyed me: I'm an older happily married woman and no need to compete for men or women, for some context. I was at Starbucks and it was mostly young pretty girls servicing the store. They take my order with the most indifferent attitude possible (sometimes they're nice and smile but sometimes like this particular moment, you can tell there is a million things they'd rather be doing but instead they have to deal with you). No problem…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/21 01:32 AM
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you probably have to read the studies to see how they were conducted. It also matters who sponsored them. And also, you could look directly in science journals. Some older studies may be more helpful than newer ones in this case. But we don't need to do all that, we know fertility decreases with age. Google may just be giving you more relevant articles, like they've been visited more or are more popular. And then you see 100 results with the same freaking article. Also, fertility may still be th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/21 09:33 PM
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Yes. You're right. I was just pointing to some of the other things she mentioned that were good about him unrelated to finances
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 04:32 PM
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That gives it a lot of context. That probably explains why he eventually left.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 04:31 PM
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It's ok to receive things from a man if he wants to give you those things. But we don't know what happened and why he stopped or what reason he gave. It's wrong when we think we expect it or deserve it and that's what I didn't see on the post
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 04:30 PM
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that makes more sense. If you flip it around feminists would be crying that you're not entitled to a relationship just b/c a man is expressing wanting one and maybe having some trouble, difficulty, or woes about it. Like that's fair but feminists will jump on him for it
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 06:32 AM
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He made her feel safe and didn't abuse her. They were a good team. They started to see a future together. Yes, a lot of it is based on the finances. But she was talking about it in a grateful way not in an entitled way. It just doesn't seem like the other examples posted here. But like I said the one thing I do find disturbing is why he broke up with her and why did she leave that piece out. That's what would tell us what the problem really is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 06:30 AM
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She's lamenting for sure while leaving the most important piece out: Why. Why did he leave and I have feeling she left it out because that would actually be very telling of the situation or she's embarrassed of it
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 06:27 AM
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I don't see anywhere where she seems entitled to a relationship. She is seriously mourning over this relationship and admitting she needs a man. I do wonder why she left out the reason he left. She claims it's not relevant but I really doubt that. She may be purposely leaving that part out which would help us glean more into the situation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 03:17 AM
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Seducing men is not hard. They act like it's hard. Try being 20 years married and still be able to seduce your man, now that's art.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/21 12:36 AM
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She's a bratz doll but no one will take her off the shelf
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/09/21 01:28 AM
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What is it with the bubble lips?! These girls think that's attractive. Run from women having a distorted view of beauty
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/21 08:04 PM
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Why do they get their lips done like that? It looks fake. She may even have plastic surgery
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/21 04:16 PM
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To get what they want? Women have no idea what they want much less what they need. So they go by their basest of desires
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 09:17 AM
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Behind her back? what? Sounds like she's upset her boyfriend is looking up cam girls online "behind her back". But she's the girl. hahahahaha. You can't make this up
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 02:04 AM
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plausible theory
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/21 04:39 PM
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Yes, I know the culture is slowly being taken over by these trends but I'm compared to say Western culture it's less. Specially if you think about the fact that a place like Mexico suffers from great economic inequality and in those lower socioeconomic circles people can not afford feminism. People can't afford to just divorce their husbands at the slightest whim. People can't afford two households. People tend to be more religious. They have less access to propaganda models that promote things …
/r/ExRedPill31/08/21 04:38 PM
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that's inevitably what's going to happen. She's not going to find anyone with those standards willing to date her. When she realizes there are no takers it will be too late even for her to find someone to "settle(gasp)" with
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/21 03:40 AM
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I'm going with got stuck in a pool floaty and then it burst
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/21 03:37 AM
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The Hispanic culture generally tends to be very traditional and conservative in terms of gender roles and family values so MGTOW is not as relevant in that culture as it is in others. But it seems you can take MGTOW principles anywhere, it's just less necessary in some cultures (picture MGTOW in say deeply religious Muslim groups) because feminism hasn't infiltrated those cultures as much or only just recently
/r/ExRedPill31/08/21 02:04 AM
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oh, absolutely
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/21 09:38 PM
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True. But men and women should ideally be reared for different roles. The men being raised to be a leader and the woman to be a wife/mother
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/21 01:25 AM
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I think four dates is reasonable
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/21 12:33 AM
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Therapy
/r/ExRedPill28/08/21 10:26 PM
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It was mostly a joke. I know women can be ruthless. They need a very good upbringing, good guidance throughout their life to be a good woman/mom generally speaking
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/21 09:10 PM
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Yeah, I'm going to need a VIN to confirm...my suspicions
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/21 07:56 PM
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I'm assuming it means broken heart. We do start with one hahaahahahah
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/21 06:54 PM
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It sounds like you're falling out of love with him. After 4 years, it's very possible. Are you sure there isn't something more deep here that you're feeling. It just seems like something silly to be really selfish about. It's almost like you're looking for reasons to have problems
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/21 07:10 AM
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Because there was probably nothing wrong other than he was a gentlemen in person. How do explain that as a problem LOL
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/21 10:58 PM
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yeah, I could see that. Interesting
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/21 08:46 PM
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I'm wondering what went so wrong that she didn't like the date. I bet he was a gentlemen in person. YEP. I'm going with that
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/21 08:17 PM
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I wonder why he confessed? Did he confess to a woman? maybe had the hots for her?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/21 08:12 PM
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I'm not jaded
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/21 07:36 PM
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most likely lying but I meant she really is 35 but she aaaaaaall beat up! LOL
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/21 03:45 AM
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"I want him to be all about me"? RUN
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/21 01:52 AM
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She looks 45+ or she's lying about her age
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/21 01:50 AM
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So she can be picky now after letting "a douche" (her words) procreate with her
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 07:48 PM
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exactly. "how do i let him know without him getting upset?" for example. You can't have the best of both worlds, he might get upset, o well. deal with the consequences and with the uncomfortable feelings
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 07:38 PM
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No. But I also got married young. I have an easier time communicating with men when I do have to when I'm direct, but many confuse direct with impolite or stern. But it doesn't have to be. That is just an excuse. Women tend to deflect, make excuses, be defensive etc
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 07:37 PM
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Women use words more and talk more but that doesn't mean they are better communicators. They communicate well with other women and children but I don't know that they are better communicators with men. Why would men and women have such a hard time understanding each other?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 07:33 PM
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hahahahaha;ha
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 03:34 AM
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hahahahaha, exactly. As a woman I can understand a lot of this indirect language stuff us women do. I've just learned over the years that most grown-up situations require a direct approach.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 12:53 AM
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I hate all the "How do i let him know blah blah blah" infantile crap. Uuuuuuum Just like that, just let him know. You know words right?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/08/21 11:08 PM
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Let them. They're screening themselves makes it easy for you to know they aren't the one
/r/seduction23/08/21 08:17 PM
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Saw that LOL. Been binge watching delusional women calling him about dating. They're all past the wall w/ kids most of the time and wanting to find a three figure guy, oooooh but they have to feel attracted to him, still want looooooooove WTF. Oooooh but I have my degreee LOL
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/08/21 06:56 PM
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She should've done everything within her power to make things work with him. It looks like she had a choice. Women always think they'll meet someone better.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/08/21 05:00 AM
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When my marriage got tough, the one thing that always kept me firm at it was 1) he was good father 2) I loved my kids so much I'd put up with more just so they can have their father because I knew if they needed anything more than material things, it's their father in their home 3) he was a good disciplinarian (hard for step parents to do this) 4) I believed being "still married" gave me a certain status money can't buy (pretty much it was a pride and dignity thing. I was also lucky he stuck in …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/21 03:07 AM
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then why do they say "single" instead of "divorced". It would serve them better to say that even if not true.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/21 03:00 AM
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You assume this lady was married once?! She said "single" not "divorced", at least a "divorced" woman can claim she gave it a try once, being a proper married woman, that is
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/21 02:59 AM
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I got pregnant at 18 with my high school sweetheart. I stayed with him no matter how much money he made, how many issues we had. We worked through them and thankfully he thought enough of me and his kids to work through it with me. Five kids and 20 years later we live a humble yet happy life. No, I didn't end up the success my parents were expecting or I dreamed about but I'm sure glad I didn't end up like these wall crashers. Yikes!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/21 02:53 AM
3

exactly my thought. They'd be smart to say "divorced" mother of "so 'n' so". but can't even wise up enough to do that. I mean it doesn't fix the kid situation but at least they can come off as "at least I tried at one point"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/21 02:45 AM
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that's exactly what it is, we want it all. We never know what we really want. We couldn't tell you. I call it Goldilocks syndrome hahhahaa
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/21 12:05 AM
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Be a provider, no more games, ready to settle down but don't take life too seriously hahahahahaaa
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/21 12:03 AM
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They'd be smart to at least say "divorced" mother of three. Make it sound like you tried once in your life. "Single mother of ___" screams "all different baby daddies."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/21 12:00 AM
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you have a good point. The only time it becomes a problem is if they're using you for money or other favors and you get nothing in return. Just them allowing you to be around them is not a good enough reason. Unless you truly enjoy their company and don't have hopes or desires to get together eventually
/r/seduction31/07/21 03:36 AM
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this is how child abuse happens. Who do you think is looking for an opportunity where someone is not even interested in mom but has full access to the children? Yes, a pedophile. Very sad
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/07/21 06:40 PM
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