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Like clockwork, people rush to prove my point for me. you can complain all you want, but "learn to be normal" is what it boils down to And here you are, complaining and psychoanalyzing advice, fighting off people telling you the same thing I told you. Rather than attempt to understand normal interaction, you double down on your autism, and you will continually do this and waste years of potential practice while getting no closer to the answer. Not only that but your own description just shows wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:48 PM
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you also cant talk to a woman because theyre forced to mask by the patriarchy Its amazing how someone can type this a paragraph after complaining about delusional terminally online folks without realizing you're one of them after writing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 03:24 PM
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what are you trying to convey? Stop being an autistic robot, learn to be normal in social interactions. Thats literally it. You can complain about whatever but thats really what it boils down to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 03:23 PM
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No, its true. The odds of your avg dude would go up if only men were earning money. The stats on breadwinner wives are undeniable, as is the fact that womeb simply like dudes with money. The thing they get wrong is that just making cash is all theyd need to succeed. men are fine but still say they need women while women dont say the same, not sure why Because theyre not talking about surviving, theyre talking about thriving.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 07:15 AM
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My ex was ukranian, she was complaining and sometimes cried over how much work sucked. She worked in an air conditioned office, with free beer on tap, writing advertising articles for an ad firm. It was so simple, I even wrote some of them for her whenever I wanted her to have a bit more free time for me. Others Ive met are full on gold diggers, exclusively hanging around azerbaijan and dubai simps who think their long distance gf truly loves them for them despite hanging out for just 4 days a y…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 03:55 PM
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doesnt make sense So you're telling me, you're just not smart enough to connect the dots? Lmao. your beliefs are being challenged LMAO you think insults make you an intellectual God no, im intelligent instead. Intellectuals are some of the dumbest people alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:27 PM
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i rarely go out why do i not get hit on? Go out more.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:15 PM
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You've got the same smarts and awareness that a flat earther has. "Oh those globe lovers just cant handle a serious and legitimate rebuttal of my theory!" Like, no. Its ironic you complain about being insulted when you literally just write an insult as a "rebuttal" (theres no argument either, dude asked for an opinion, something you'd know if your ancestors had ever evolved)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:07 PM
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Scanner says no sign of intelligent life detected in this comment
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:59 PM
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forcing the trad lifestyle is destroying society But the slow collapse has come as the nuclear family deteriorates. We know how single parenting acts as a multiplier for practically every single negative factor from teen runaways to homelessness, less educational achievement, more drug use, etc. And were seeing the rise in single parenting over traditionalist coupling, so you can expect more of these negatives to manifest over time. As for birth rates, the most traditional cultures have the high…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:36 AM
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Conservatives are the ones having kids, so you see a return to somewhat conservative dating. Muslims and mormons have some of the highest (unsubsidized) rates of childbirth, so thats what you'll see dominate the future: relationships forming from religious attendance.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:26 AM
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Would only worry for a son tbh, I'm not worried a daughter wouldnt be able to just swipe right and date on a whim. He wouldnt need to get laid in high school either, but at least go on dates, make outs, maybe a gf...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:21 AM
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i know the feminists will leave mean comments and mock me Oh I can tell you as a redpill guy, feminism's got nothing to do with the intense desire to bully someone like you. Like, seriously, I'd get twelve accounts banned if I just went at it right now lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:03 AM
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There's a billion things that CAN happen, you can win the lottery tomorrow if you play today, you can maybe lose out on a shitty prenup, but if we talk about likely and probably, you're talking out of your ass. You're trying to pretend like you're not arguing as you literally continue to argue the exception. Absolutely pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:56 AM
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I'm being reductive for the sake of making a point but lets get down to it. kids need a place and she has no money You're literally arguing the exception here, most women work, go deal in reality. She's got some money, and will still need a place of her own after a divorce so an apartment is the most likely place she'll end up, especially if your prenup included your home. This is especially true with 50/50 custody. So you're really cherrypicking and also likely wrong if you want to argue most d…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:46 AM
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This is just you not understanding what a prenup is for. Its pre, as in before, for a reason. Its meant to cover property owned before marriage. Its worth the paper its on to protect assets you fully own prior to getting married. If you have an art collection, a prenup can keep it yours. But kids are not a possession, nor are they parties to a deal between you and your wife to be, so of course no judge is going to let you fuck the kids over just because of a deal they had no involvement in. Its …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 08:17 PM
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you talk like the men arent fat Not to the same degree. Among 20-40 year old men its 37% of them rather than 14% of women 18-30 who meet the first bar. So over double the options given the same filter. For men 18-30, its 55% who dont get filtered out. Young men mostly meet dirt low standards, its only after income and height that this figure gets shredded (though the same applies for women, high income alone cuts it down to 2.5% or less) its the food quality! No it really is just portion control…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:20 PM
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a league is supply and demand. No it isnt. If you dont have enough heavyweight boxers for a heavyweight tournament, you still dont let them fight the lightweights, because their leagues are not based on market but on objective characteristics (weight). Mens and women's leagues are looks based. You're pretending its an economic problem but its basic math: Does 5xyz = 5xyz or not? I say it does, you're here literally arguing "no it sctually isnt because if we just add all this to exclusively one s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 09:12 PM
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But it really is the bare minimum. Single, thin, childless. That kills over 85% of the dating pool. Even if you do limit it to just one, the rate of overweight and obese young american women hits 67%, so 2/3 are just de-facto eliminated. This isnt true in the rest of the globe, just here. It may be an extra standard to say "disqualify the fee 14% in a relationship" but what is the realistic alternative? Just shack up with a girl you know cheated to be with you to keep your options up? Go date th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 09:06 PM
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No, not really. A 5/10 thin, childless, unmarried man shooting for a 5/10 thin, childless, unmarried woman is not shooting out of one's league, it's actually shooting a bullseye because they're dead set identical. Women shooting out of their league is a 5/10 aiming for a 9/10. and then say where are all the good men? That's the only thing that would be similar, me asking where the hell are all the thin women (literal answer: outside of america), because im supposed to be at a bar not a cow farm.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:58 AM
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You either have an unfortunate face, no social skills or an unpleasant personality You keep trying to turn it back around on me to sort of miss the point. I go out to a bar and take a look around, what do I see? 2/3rd of them are fat, a good amount more are married with a husband, another good amount more are there with a boyfriend. There's a small number of individual girls left to hit on, so lets speak to one: Oh she's a single mom, and so is that other one there. Fuck, there's like maybe 3 si…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 10:20 PM
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Most men want to marry, we just want the safety nets it used to have like having fault be a necessary component for divorce. why does divorce upset men so much Cant imagine why losing a house and returning back to apartment rentals, losing custody of kids, restarting a ton of your life in middle age or older would upset someone so much... how are women expected to not be a boss bitch while going 50/50 financial? We didn't push for your financials though, women did.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 10:09 PM
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The benefits are fucking amazing, including a full month off annually for extended travel. The caps suck but unlike my friends in the private sector, being able to say "fuck it im going on a month long trip to Mexico" is an unbeatable perk for me, especially when some of my friends tell me they get a full week off from work + federal holidays. Their vacation literally ends before it even begins since they can't just work on a federal holiday and stack up the extra days for a vacation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 10:07 PM
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There is a big distinction in upbringing and cultural background for a white american in Montana, than a mexican american raised by two mexican immigrant parents in Montana. Like, have you never been to a hispanic friend's house growing up?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:58 PM
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If women were surgically amputating their legs off in huge numbers, would "just have legs" be a high standard or is the problem that they are insane by amputating their legs off for no reason? Similarly, is "have some portion control" a high standard, or is the problem that they are incapable of putting the fork down?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:56 PM
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My longest relationship lasted five years.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:54 PM
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poor women in foreign countries A mexican girl born and raised in america is a poor foreigner? Her parents owned two homes lmao. None of these girls im talking about lacked cash or a greencard. The asians were wealthy enough to go to US colleges without our govs scholarships. They flew to miami to go to ultra just cause they were bored and had the cash. My russian ex was an anchor baby so citizenship from birth. My kazakh bro was (unbeknownst to me) so wealthy he was chauffeured to school as a k…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 04:22 AM
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you struggle to find a partner I struggle to find long term quality partners, one nighters are easy and common. Its really not so surprising to find out why when I know what the statistics look like. And, as I mentioned before, it also doesnt explain why I have no issue getting with mexicans with a strong latin background rather than a US background (felt bad about breaking it off with her but she really had negative IQ, those tits had a gravity of their own though), never had any issue dating a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 03:58 AM
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statistical reality is brutal and undeniable
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 02:57 AM
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While true, the issue is one of scale. 1% more likely to be fit is enough to make the statement true without much practical difference. Same thing for the concentration in major cities, probably true, but that still also doesn't disprove national statistics. A ridiculously low number of american women pass the bare minimum and that's a major problem, especially compared to men in the same exact cohorts. Men fail later down the road (especially as height and income come into play), but the thing …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:44 AM
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You forgot to exclude overweight (BMI > 25) and you're limiting age ranges dramatically here. I've linked to this before on this very post so IDK why you're all intentionally ignoring it but just for you I'm going to give you every individual statistic referenced: https://www.census.gov/data/tables/2019/demo/age-and-sex/2019-age-sex-composition.html https://data.census.gov/table/ACSST1Y2019.S0101?q=Age%20and%20Sex https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/hus/2019/026-508.pdf Those are obesity, age and sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:33 AM
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Oh god, you're actually asking me how an equation and a calculator works. A calculator you've been linked to, which explains how it compiles and calculates data, and that you can use yourself. Listen here old man, you either need to go back to high school and actually get your diploma this time, or you need to go to a psychiatrist to treat your rapid onset dementia
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:24 AM
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Now that you've found out that Spain is actually a literal country, lets break it down by age groups: Now little timmy, what portion of 18-24 are fat and what portion of 25-34 are fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:23 AM
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There's two different height obstacles in an obstacle course. One is a bar one foot off the ground, the other is a bar 5 feet off the ground. 14% of contestants jumped over the bar one foot off the ground, and only 3% jumped over the 5 foot bar. Does this mean they're professional athletes or does it mean that the people that couldn't make the jump are atrocious choices for the team that don't merit consideration? You're not a chad because you meet the bare minimum, just like you're not an olymp…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:20 AM
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You literally told me to add the ages though? I'll humor you and match it exactly, 18-30. The answer is now that 55% of men meet those same standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:17 AM
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what spanish countries are you referring to Look on google maps and tell me the name of the country bordering Portugal reeeeeeeal quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:15 AM
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i dont buy your ability to You keep thinking I'm doing this when it's really just a website. You also clearly didn't look at the actual sources cited when you continue to evade like a professional dodgeball player. this isn't what i said at all It's literally your OP restated. You would have to directly state that the video game players hate playing games and still do it for that restatement to be false. I still don't see anything that would lead us to your 14% number Because you clearly didn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:14 AM
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Yes you made exactly my point, our women call us trash, but everywhere else in the world we are leaps and bounds above the rest. It's not men causing the issue in america if american men are prized anywhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:10 AM
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it would be the same for men if you raise the age a bit American men ages 20-40 who are childless, unmarried and not obese, of any height and income bracket (same standards used for the women) comprise 37.9% of the US population, over double the number of women that make the cut for the same standards. they would be rare and desireable too No, it's really not. If most people were unemployed, you having a job doesn't make you desirable if the unemployed get a similar salary from universal basic i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:04 AM
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But it's not high standards though. Don't be fat cuts 67% of the american dating pool, but only 17-20% of the Spanish dating pool. The standards are objectively low, the issue truly is that Americans are fucking horrendous choices
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:02 AM
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I know loads of them Good for you, that's not a representative sample though. Women 18-35 of any height, at all income levels, of all races, who are unmarried, thin and childless = 13.29%. The lowest paid 10% of lawyers average a salary around $60k annually, the bottom 10% of physcians earn $73k (see payscale.com). The moment I throw in that 60k minimum income to do a search for your doctor and lawyer friends, we see that they become 2.53% of the population, so you're describing 1 in every 50 wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 12:54 AM
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Women like men who are 8/10+ in looks, which means not obese, fit, tall, specific face type and characteristics, etc. Men like women who are 5/10+ in looks, including not fat as a caveat. For most women, "don't be fat" is all you really need to succeed in the dating game. For most men, don't be fat is not enough. asking men to jump through hoops is to vet them out I don't see how you're misunderstanding me, what's not vetting me out isn't the inability to jump through hoops because I jumped thro…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 12:47 AM
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your interpretation of many figures No, the calculators outright tell you where the data comes for each possible figure you can exclude by: https://realitycalc.com/stats, these stats all come from the Census Bureau and NCHS. The site also links to each report individually so you can verify for yourself that it is accurate. You won't and can't though, because then you no longer have a single defense. I never claimed to You just claimed that men fucked themselves over for choosing to enjoy their l…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 12:37 AM
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how did you come up with that figure? Census data, theres a billion calculators for this online that effectively just calculate how many people in an age range fit certain characteristics. Thats also with me being generous and just keeping it those 3 exclusions. im not asking them to do more But you dont really have an answer to the problem that is the state of the market. Of that 14% you have to slash away girls in relationships that arent marriage, club thots and hoes, flat out unattractive gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 12:03 AM
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I have already done all of this. Borderline 6 figure salary (and room to double up to 200k+ in the next 15 years), tall, fit, one of the best dressed wherever I go, can play an instrument, speak two languages, traveled abroad extensively, can cook korean, indian, chinese and american food pretty well. I tick tons of boxes, frequently go out and often talk to anyone and everyone in public. Its gotten me absolutely nothing of value in the dating game. The best thing I ever did for my dating life w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 11:41 PM
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im attracted to masculine women built like bears My dude you need to come out of the closet asap for your own sake
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 03:01 AM
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You can put women into the literal two boxes of madonna and whore, but you dont have MWC if you can get it up and fuck women from both groups. The complex is literally based around impotence caused by categorization, so if you can pop a boner for your madonna wife, complex is not there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 10:37 PM
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Its a meme psychological condition that no one understands. Its really simple: MWC is: Impotence Caused by categorizing women as angels and hoes If you're not impotent, then its not MWC. If you're impotent, then it HAS to be because of categorization of women, or its not MWC. If you tick both boxes, then there you go. Its really rare (as most men arent impotent in the first place and most impotent men have hormonal or medical issues rather than psychological ones).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 10:34 PM
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I dont see how its a me problem when only one gal ive been with had that issue. I know basic math is really hard for you but if only 1 girl in 13 has a loose pussy, its probably that one gal with an issue, not me or the other 12.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 10:30 PM
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give her the ick and spend $500 on a michellin star dinner give her the ick and spend $8 on coffee and a walk I wonder which one is preferable...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 10:28 PM
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your paraphrase misquoted me I know, it gave context and perspective to your statement instead. the dumbest people are always convinced theyre so smart Lmao self awareness check? Its ok sweety, when you're no longer confused about how to do your makeup it will hopefully pull the weight of that big big brain of yours. You'll be able to defeat the mirror test some day soon, I'm rooting for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 01:10 AM
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you didnt paraphrase what I said! Meanwhile: a paraphrase does not need to accompany a direct quote a paraphrase typically puts the sources statement into perspective and context The average IQ of this subreddit is truly in the fucking toilet holy shit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 01:04 AM
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A paraphrase or rephrase (/ˈpærəˌfreɪz/) is the rendering of the same text in different words without losing the meaning of the text itself.[1] More often than not, a paraphrased text can convey its meaning better than the original words. In other words, it is a copy of the text in meaning, but which is different from the original. A paraphrase does not need to accompany a direct quotation. The paraphrase typically serves to put the source's statement into perspective or to clarify the context i…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 01:00 AM
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n=1 is totally valid, and even my n=1 shows less likely than not to ask out a man than vice versa Shit writes itself
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 12:55 AM
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Its a highly convenient answer given women almost never ask men out. Just be honest and say yeah, men should pay
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 11:57 PM
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Yet another obsession with theoretical argument that ignores real life. Your question is completely worthless, it doesnt matter if we should or shouldn't, whzt matters is do women want you to pay or not and does you not paying affect the outcome? The answer is that women want you to pay and not paying or splitting gives most women the ick, so you're just gonna have to pay up and deal with it. Coffee dates are great for this because they're cheap, so are free dates if you want to not pay. Quit wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 11:54 PM
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Id explain to you very carefully why everything you said here is just nonsensical, but I remembered that you have no reading comprehension and the exercise would just be a complete waste.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 11:46 PM
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Personality is more important to men since men display a wider arrange in preference for personality. Women overwhelmingly favor dark triad, meaning that while its important its not as important as they'll let it slide more often than not as not every guy has that kind of personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 06:17 PM
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Her pelvic floor needed a ton of exercise STAT then
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:31 PM
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Being a man or woman has nothing to do with height and width, a mathematical concept. Also, I dont have to imagine a man telling you about your pussy, its literally called a male gynecologist. Real high IQ on display there, your MENSA invitation will be arriving in your mailbox any moment now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:30 PM
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Imagine saying all this just to mess up on the first line. Tightness is a width, not depth issue. The guy could have a 1incher or 1 footer, but if her width is 10 inches wide, both dudes get the same issue
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:45 PM
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You can absolutely tell the difference, and despite thinking its a meme I have even come across a girl with an actual loose pussy (felt less tight than others Id been with, paradoxically too because she was the shortest girl Id been with). Also, if you also have to ask women if 3 inches feels the same as 9 you probably shouldn't post ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:17 PM
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If you want to date the oldies and leave more young women to me I wont complain lmao. bonding with women my own age without cash seems impossible to me Well duh, where do you expect to live without cash? How do you expect to take her out? Its just not doable without income.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:13 PM
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who are they? The hyper successful and the hyper attractive. this contradicts my observations Your observations are worth shit compared to the data collected by the actual sites. i know average dudes who get something out of it We didnt say its impossible, you're just not successful at it if youre begging for scraps rather than actively winning. Your average guy gets 1 match per 115 right swipes, and thats just a match not a date. Thats begging for scraps. Thats abysmally low compared to dudes m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:34 PM
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giving a man a child is not an honor Example #1,978,658,324 of whats wrong with modern women today
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:27 PM
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This is true cope indeed. Self improvement without the result you're looking for is ultimately worthless, just like improving at your job only to never see a pay raise is ultimately worthless. You can pretend all you want that its for you, but you've already admitted the whole reason for it was to get a gf. Lying to yourself about your own intentions is ridiculous and delusional. Embrace reality bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:49 PM
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if a man cries divorce rape he is believed Well the stats are overwhelming on this issue. false rape I generally do not believe anything regarding rape without a court case because its just too hot topic. No trial? No belief for anyone. someone suggested a man murdered his wife for adultery, this is a great example of men defending him as someone who cant do wrong When the tribalism brain makes you too dumb to notice you disprove your own argument as you write it out. Its not slander either, its…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:45 PM
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thank god I live in texas One of the fattest states in the country full of the very people I just described tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:37 PM
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No, it would pretty much fix the issue of lonely women unable to find a husband and we'd be remaking the conditions where womens happiness was much higher than it has been in the past several decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:34 PM
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just be ambiguous and don't state what you actually like and dislike
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:09 AM
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i think a reasonable person would give it up for a family Not really, if they did then casual sex and mass singledom wouldn't be the norm, it would be marriages. It's mostly a religious thing, with mormons and muslims being the most likely to be chaste you're using the future tense Like I said earlier, I don't make the rules I just play the game. I would like for the situation to be conducive to strong familial structure but it's not, we shifted gears to high individual structure. I would love t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:25 AM
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I know. The question is meant to show that doing what she's suggesting is impossible. You can't state that you don't want to date fat women without insulting a room with women in it, though women can easily state that they don't want to date fat men to no one's surprise or offense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:05 AM
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Not really, most women are obese and overshooting their shot. Unrealistic standards is the biggest thing holding women from family. I admit the hypocrisy, but the question isn't am I a hypocrite, it's what would make me happy and that's something I answer honestly. I'd give up casual sex to get a permanent family any day of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 04:44 AM
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look at a population pyramid and look at the young Your average difference is .15% so 101.5 men to every 100 women, and the male inceldom epidemic is much higher than this. It's really not the problem you believe it is. https://www.populationpyramid.net/united-states-of-america/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 04:42 AM
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if it's something that hurts, why endorse a movement that glorifies that? It might hurt your feelings to know that you cant go up to a wild tiger and pet it, but you'll likely endorse a movement that hurts your feelings and glorifies the concept that going up to the wild tiger is a horrible idea because the truth is if you don't then that tiger will fucking kill you when you go up to it, but you won't go up to it when you accept reality. Truth hurts, and dudes only look for the truth when they f…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 04:18 AM
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You compare back then to now and decide, because you can't have it all. You either have marriage and family as the goal and give up casual sex, or you have casual sex as the goal and give up family and stable relationships. It really is one or the other, you can't deny the low marriage rates, sky high divorce rates, lowest childbirth rates... I'd rather wait for one than have a ton of meaningless, boring one night stands and situationships that go nowhere (and I'm speaking from experience here).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 04:16 AM
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Wrong. Gender Ratio in the United States in 2023 is 98.016 males per 100 females. There are 168,295,333 or 168.3 million males and 171,701,231 or 171.7 million females in US. The percentage of female population is 50.5 percent compare to 49.5 percent male population. https://www.statisticstimes.com/demographics/country/us-sex-ratio.php
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 04:13 AM
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monogamy is being at the mercy of one girl You clearly don't know the history of at fault divorce if you're bringing this point up. she is likely very mid too You're likely very fucking mid, what's wrong with that? maybe in america LMS works It does, around 2/3rds of your competition as a man is fat as fuck, and only about 12-16% of young women are thin, unmarried and childless. The competition isn't massive here, but the sheer number of quality women is abysmal, especially when that 12-16% gets…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 04:11 AM
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We say it quite often, dont we? Enjoy the decline. Most redpillers who just sleep around do so because monogamy just isn't a viable option for most people anymore. We saw the rise of redpill hook up lovers AFTER enforced monogamy went away, not before. In fact, men who used to sleep around were called whoremongers and lechers, and were generally disdained. If you earned that reputation, you would be kept far away from people's daughters. The rise of casual sex is literally just because women pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 04:07 AM
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if you're being incentivized to have a lot of sex It's just a tool. I didn't seek it out to have a lot of sex, I sought it out to get a gf because I used to get no attention from girls growing up. I ended up with a good amount of sex along the way, and a few long term girls, but the goal for me was always one girl worth investing in (challenge level: nightmare) Who are you supposed to have sex with? Monogamy doesn't mean celibacy, you fuck your long term partner, duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 04:03 AM
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why are men so angry that so many women agree with the notion that men are only good for good looks and giving them tons of money rather than who they actually are as a person? Why do so many of you ask questions as if you're literal robots? This isn't fucking hard, it's obvious if you're a human being. Isn't it a win to know this? Depends on the goal. If you want to get laid and don't care about being seen as a disposable tool, then sure you win. If you cracked the code because you wanted to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:59 AM
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The average joe is fat, badly dressed, in tremendous debt or a paycheck away from homelessness, with meh social skills and not much courage or competence when speaking to strangers. The way the average joe plays the dating game is hitting the gym, developing his social skills, dressing nicely, and being competent with money (some form of savings, good credit...). That's it. That's all you need to do. Most of your competition literally isn't even trying these days so just put in some effort and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:54 AM
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what societal scenario would make you happy as a redpiller? Enforced monogamy, slut shaming on full blast, fat shaming on full blast, ban on divorce if kids are in the picture (except for at fault divorce). This pretty much fixes the dating world for almost everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:50 AM
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I fail to see the lie tho. You're acting like only women can be landwhales lmfao. No man complains when a woman proudly proclaims that she believes fat dudes are disgusting cheeto dust bearded slob losers. It's only when the tables are turned that its suddenly an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:47 AM
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have you ever met a woman that didn't count calories? Given that most women are fat, yes, most women I speak to do not count calories and if they do then they don't do it to lose weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:45 AM
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How do you state that you can't find thin women without offending the room then? How do you make it clear that you don't want to date obeasts without explicitly saying so?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:44 AM
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the promiscuity of western women is nurture over nature You've got it backwards, its why muslim girls who leave to the west drop the decades of nurture and slut it up. Whats nurtured is loyalty and tradition, and its nurtured elsewhere corporally. Slut it up in the middle east? You're getting beaten. In india? I dont even wanna get into the nightmare that is being a woman in india. Other examples like Japan where you have a modern society still fall under extreme hierarchical tradition to keep e…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:27 AM
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If you're still cynical instead of hopeful then you're just doomed to fail. The plan is to find someone thats not complete garbage (challenge level: impossible) and then really just pray for the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:57 AM
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dating apps are the only socially acceptable way of getting a relationship It isnt but people hyper terrified of rejection who believe the 3% of psychos screaming in twitter represent reality are unable to accurately perceive social norms and reality. Let me show you how it really works: cute girl in public? No one cares, just dont be sexual and you'll be fine, lesve that for an actual date. coworkers? Yeah you dont hit on them because you still have to work with them. Work is about working, not…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:20 PM
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Not every thin woman is a stacy, but no fat woman is a stacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:51 PM
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Are you intentionally missing the point or did your parents have slippery hands?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:55 PM
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They really dont get it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:55 PM
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Crazy chicks fuck the best, especially hot and crazy. Get in quick, get out before the shitstorm and enjoy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:02 PM
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You can, and I do. I dont see what the issue there is? Women shouldn't get to kill the very young just because they dont like the consequences of having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 01:59 PM
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we disagree Lmao this is just ridiculous. Like how do you expect a lawsuit to go? "YOUR HONOR HELP IM SUING THIS WILDLIFE TOUR BECAUSE OUR GROUP GOT ATTACKED BY A WILD BEAR!" Judge is gonna tell you to kick rocks because no shit that can happen, and the fact that it did doesnt change anything. Just because a woman fucks around and gets pregnant, that doesnt mean she now gets the right to murder the very young. Ive even been in that situation, my ex and I had a pregnancy scare, I was sweating bul…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 01:47 PM
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if you want to make the argument that society owes (owns?) kids become a commie Lolwut? Bro if dad runs away, mom gets benefits that everyone else is forced to pay for. I'm telling you that we shouldnt have to pay for her kid, dad should. Thats the literal opposite of communism like wtf reading comprehension do you have? say you're anti choice I am, but I'm also still right. When you get in a car and go down the highway you consent to the odds of being in an accident. When you swim in the water …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 01:34 PM
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im being punished! Lolno, its literally just the consequences of having sex. Every single time you nut in someone you consent to the chance of a pregnancy, no matter what birth control you use. You dont get to have your cake and eat it too. If you knock someone up and they have a kid, its your responsibility because its a fuckup you consented to. You whine about "punishing men" but someone's gonna pay for the kid. You're actually fine with punishing men women because you dont care that they have…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 01:26 PM
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you'd have a bunch of first dates You'd have a bunch of rapid fire interviews, not dates. The problem with speed dating is quite evident: you cant just do what you want, you have to keep rotating. So if I go to an event with 19 fat girls and 1 thin girl, I'm looking at 5-10 minutes i might enjoy and 90-180 minutes I know are a complete waste of my time and will go nowhere. If I'm at a bar or coffee shop though? I just go up to someone Im attracted to and see where it goes. Cheaper, guaranteed at…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:33 AM
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so just stay and get abused I dont know how youre not getting this. The punishment were talking about is by the court in a divorce. In at fault, if my wife abused me and I leave, I dont have to pay her ass alimony. In todays no fault rules, she can abuse me, send me to the hospital with broken bones, and a judge will look at the law and say "you make more money than she does, so you must now pay for your abusers new apartment for several years and face jail if you dont pay her." One system is mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:19 AM
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none of those words in the quote are actually mine They're literally your own post copy pasted and put in a quote block. you're writing to hurt me But when you passively aggressively say i do not have the capability to read and comprehend other perspectives, that's not meant to insult someone, it's actually "pure" motives to "make me a better person." You truly are an insufferable person. So blatantly fake that you can't even be honest when you're anonymous online. it was just a joke Its an insu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:05 PM
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Assumption made If you're unclear as a communicator, its your own fault that youre a bad communicator lmao. What is this autistic deflection? its in relation to how they treat you, not how they treat themselves They can start by treating themselves to a second seat on airplanes and stop their fat rolls from invading mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:24 PM
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It's a real thing, it's a rare disorder that people do not understand and think is super prevalent when its not. You even fumbled it in your own description. The whole thing is literally just psychologically induced impotence, so if you can still get it up for your "madonna", you do not have this complex. It's not a lack of sexual feeling or desire for her either, they do want them but get tremendous anxiety because they think it will make her go from madonna to whore and that anxiety causes the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:11 PM
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not because of behavior but a physical characteristic And, pray tell, how did the average hambone get that physical characteristic in the first place? HAHAHAHA GOTEEEEEEEM
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:02 PM
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maybe you'll have the capability to finish reading a comment to fully comprehend someone else's perspective and engage in an interesting discussion Maybe one day you'll have the capability to comprehend that you're not as interesting as you think you are, and that kicking off a full lecture about "how angry and wrong you are and how I'm the paragon of virtue and help you must listen to" isn't appealing to people. It's demeaning, alienating and no one wants to listen to and deal with you for it. …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:58 PM
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Gov needs to subsidize healthcare for thin people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:52 PM
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Nah, if you're fat you should be shamed and disgusted with yourself. You should be so disgusted you hit the floor and start working out every day and make your life better. If you actively live like a pig, that's the treatment you deserve. the world should change to accomodate you Isn't that what fat women are demanding though? That the entire world change to play along and pretend that fat is beautiful? That the medical field change and lie to believe you can be "Healthy at any size"? the world…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:51 PM
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Because 100 years ago the standard for divorce was fault versus today where the standard is no fault. It's really simple: If you knew you would not cheat, abandon or abuse your wife, then you have a guarantee that you will not be punished if she cheats, abandons or abuses you. You will not pay alimony, you'll keep most of your shit, whoever is at fault for the breakdown of the marriage takes all the shit that comes with breaking a contract. Today that's not the case. I can do everything right bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:45 PM
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Because the fat is beautiful discourse only goes one way. Guys aren't delusional about how being fat is holding them back. The prevalence of fat women is unbelievable though. Of women ages 18-30, only 12% are thin, childless and unmarried, the big disqualifier being literally just weight. Bring back fat shaming, normalize gym memberships and not eating an entire quadruple xl pizza for dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:30 PM
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Yeah, I'm pretty happy. I've got friends I meet up with (if the snow keeps piling we'll be skiing next weekend), great work colleagues I get along with, an amazing salary with a ton of room for growth, family I meet up with and love (we're planning a trip to Japan in 2025). I have loved and do love the women I date seriously (last relationship lasted 5 years). I'm not angry in telling you that your proposal is just trash for most guys, I'm being frank and honest. I don't want to be some sort of …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:25 PM
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You say this but its just not our lived experience. I grew up as an egalitarian feminist and it got me nowhere. Found RP, stopped giving a single shit about the opinion of women I interact with, and got more positive sexual attention and reward than ever before. Why the fuck should I do anything you tell me when doing what you originally suggested was nothing but negative for me in every way? And that was just personal, you want me to go back to no successes AND active stress from nonstop bullsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 12:42 AM
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why do they view divorce as a personal failure? No wife, destroyed finances, reduced access to my children, potential loss of home ownership if home is sold/given to her in divorce... No shit you feel like a failure when yesterday you had it made and now you're where you were 10 or 20 years ago. You can't NOT feel like it was a waste of decades when you get set back that far. Its like asking why a millionaire feels like he's been sent back to his college years when he goes from mansion to homele…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:54 PM
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its not a good metric of intelligence It actually is, but only once you break it down by field of study. Massive difference in average IQ between education majors and physics majors.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 01:18 AM
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It truly is disgusting to see it. These fart huffers think they're so smart for supporting it too, not realizing eugenecists are usually some of the most dysgenic motherfuckers alive. No seriously, look at these people and tell me they've got gigachad model genes https://www.npr.org/sections/pictureshow/2011/06/01/136849387/found-in-the-archives-americas-unsettling-early-eugenics-movement
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 01:14 AM
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It's not a false correlation, it's just a simplified version of the same point. Even with the smartest people, you see a return to the mean, not increase on increase. Genius is literally a precursor of intelligent parents and the right variance from random genetics aligning themselves + a solid environment growing up. The reason I used the two geniuses is because IQ is 50-80% heritable, so a lot of that variance is going to come from how smart your parents are. Newtons parents may not have been …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 01:10 AM
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A job is simply work for money, a career is a series of jobs in a field to continually climb a hierarchy. For example: a lowly walmart employee can either do it as a job or as a career. If as a job, he's there until he quits and sees no growth. If as a career, then he's thinking "I'll put in two years here and become an assistant manager, then 3 years later I'll be a manager, and a few years down the road I'll be a regional manager and then..." A career woman is not the same thing as an employed…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 01:07 AM
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why cant a woman have a career and a family Because you cannot both work and raise children. Someone has to watch and raise the kids while you're at work, and if mom and dad are working, then it's a paid stranger doing it. It's easier once they're in school, but they'll still need a parent that's free to pick them up at 3 and care for them until bedtime. It's true for men and women, but its mostly applied to women since women want a man who earns more than they do and works more. is it a turn of…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 12:58 AM
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this is not the norm Because it's mostly unaffordable. Most couple's can't live on one income. In fact a top 20% earner makes as much or more as two couples earning the american (not gendered) average income. If 80% of the population cannot afford a single income household, it simply will not be so. If you can afford it though, it's not hard to tell which girl men prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 12:50 AM
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high iq is not attractive to women, otherwise we'd have singapore IQs by now > he doesn't know about return to the mean, he doesn't know men are willing to date down about 40 iq points You'd need two geniuses to have kids to try to ensure a similar level IQ and even then variation and environment will make sure a good chunk of that genius gets whittled down. Intelligence is not something you can easily select for.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 11:29 PM
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We've always been called assholes, this really does not matter at all. As for us needing to come out and denounce the grifters, we've always had grifters lol, they ran the scam coaching sessions and boot camps charging hundreds if not thousands per session. The fact that fresh and fit, whatever and tate have come on by to grab a slice of the pie from idiots is nothing new and will keep happening indefinitely. We don't need to do anything besides focus on ourselves and not waste time and money cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:22 PM
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Education is a proxy for intelligence but it's not a guarantee of it. Intelligence is also more sought after now than it was before as nerdy hobbies and media have never been more popular. The issue today is mostly errors with perception. People perceive things as too expensive because we perceive the world from the POV of singles rather than from that of couples. Two average earning people are in the top 20% of earners when they couple up/marry and can afford a lot, but since people see things …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:04 PM
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how low would they have to lower their standards Pretty low, but the answer isn't lowering your standards a ton, it's go learn how to socialize and cut down how socially limited you are by your autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:48 PM
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I dont understand humor and sarcasm Shocking to find out you're a poster crying here
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:18 AM
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No, you don't have to move past it actually, because you can search for a girl whose standards you meet. And while you're searching, it is normal and not crazy to complain about the long search, especially if the search is delayed because women's standards are unrealistically high. I don't know why you keep trying to extend this, checkmate was several posts ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:12 AM
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You're 16? Stop posting, you have neither the brains (cant comprehend mutually exclusive conditions) or real life experience to bring up anything of value here. A crush is a romantic and sexual fantasy btw, typically involving an idealized version of a person someone knows. it differs from person to person It really doesn't, but you wouldn't know, you're literally a 16 year old with zero romantic experience. when i say romance I mean close friends who emotionally support you and make you feel wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:04 AM
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I'm not telling women to lower anything, I'm trying to find one whose standards I meet so that I'm not being settled for. That's the goal for us. Good luck friend I'll be fine, it's really just a matter of trial and error from my point of view. You're the one who needs the luck, you still haven't even made it to the starting line.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:53 AM
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I'll explain it so even a robot can understand: Not trying is a 100% chance of failure that leaves you feeling like shit. Trying has a 99.99% chance of failure, but if you get the .01% you feel amazing. Between most likely and guaranteed to fail, you pick most likely every time, because it by definition is not guaranteed to fail, and the more attempts you give it the more likely it is you will eventually reach a successful outcome. Checkmate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:47 AM
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Non divorced parents, high degree of familial involvement, wealthy background, level of education, place of education (girls school?), degree of religiosity, behaviors demonstrating impulse control and planning (no tattoos or excessive piercings), conservative leaning, manner of dress, country of origin, familial culture...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:44 AM
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But that's not OPs point, the point was that it's crazy to have these emotions, which you've conceded is not. We're in agreement, it's not crazy to feel this way. Argument's over, GG no re.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:42 AM
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I did. You said complaining about a feeling resulting from women's standards, while being afraid of feeling a certain way when she doesn't follow her standards is crazy, when its actually just normal. I gave you the answer and even predicted your own: You antihuman robots never fail to miss the obvious point, because you are so far removed from humanity that you cannot relate to normal humans. You're looking for a volley but are so stuck looking for it you haven't realized it's chess and this is…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:39 AM
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Your whole post again is just wordplay to avoid objective reality. You're almost like a stalker going "if I cant date you then I should so be your friend, just let me... let me be near you..." You even admit it gives you romantic feelings and that it's all based on some fetishistic fantasies of them being the potential perfect partner who one day will just fuck you and love you, but deny deny deny the obvious conclusion. It's almost as if you're trying to convince yourself more than me at this p…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:33 AM
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Hoes aren't stable though, they're the most likely to break up. As for how do you know she's not lying, you don't, it's why you look for all the indicators in your favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:15 AM
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You antihuman robots never fail to miss the obvious point. People are emotional, emotions are not rational. We can acknowledge and admit your point, but guess what, it still won't make you feel any better and it still doesn't make the feelings go away. Oh, and having emotions doesn't make you crazy either, it makes you human.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:13 AM
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Yeah guys, imagine actually hoping for a woman to genuinely want you for you if you're not a supermodel millionaire. How entitled can we be?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:23 AM
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why aren't you a hedonistic whoremonger? Because I want a stable relationship and children, not meaningless hedonism? but so many women are whores? There's still a few out there that aren't, might as well give it a try.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:20 AM
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my romantic motives are fulfilled when we do platonic activities America's military might invade you if your copium is that potent. Platonic activities are by definition, not romantic. It's why the same platonic activity isn't romantic when its your guy friend doing it with you. romance is subjective But there's a hard line between romantic and platonic. Hell, platonic literally means "of, relating to, or being a relationship marked by the absence of romance or sex." You're simply trying to rede…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:58 AM
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Its no grudge, it's just the ick. The idea of being with a hoe gives men the ick just like the idea of being with a broke, balding midget with a hunchback and colostomy bag gives women the ick. The hoe and the midget could be the nicest people with great personalities, still doesn't take away that ick though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:52 AM
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im not with them for ulterior (aka concealed) motives i have romantic motives they are unaware of because I conceal them and refuse to act on them LOL, LMAO EVEN
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:35 AM
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Happened to me. Tried to get me drunk so that I'd be down to smash. She was fully naked and attempting to strip me in her apt when we went up there for drinks after the bars closed. I went with C, don't care that she did it but its obvious we can't be friends if she just wants me to fuck her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:32 AM
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many of us wonder if we will get dates/a gf but i have all these neurotic questions about my self worth and her relation to me Literally just you being schizo and ruining yourself. how do you not self sabotage? I literally do not think about that shit at all when I'm on a date. i rue the day i stumbled on these forums This shit is not why you're not dating, its a convenient excuse but the fact that you use it just goes to show why you're failing in the first place. You have no social skills, you…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 11:05 PM
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If you believe you can go pet the pack of wild lions safely, does it serve you to trust your belief system because the idea of petting lions makes you feel good or does it serve you to trust the belief system that makes you sad because it tells you that you cannot pet the lions? A belief system isnt good because of how it makes you feel, its good because of how accurate and reliable it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 08:38 PM
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I know. What I dont get it how you literally cannot follow a conversation you started
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 06:08 AM
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students are AS popular as actual doctors ok fine so now you're saying some women invest and others dont? I don't know why this is difficult for you to follow given you literally wrote the premise here...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 11:23 PM
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You'd think so but I'd argue otherwise. An actual doctor has more free time and much more disposable income. Better schedules too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 02:25 AM
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Took the words right out of my mouth, this is just a ton of cope. It's normal to want a finished product instead of a fixer upper and odds are OP would not be with a fat woman on her journey to lose 60 lbs or the reformed hoe trying to pray the dicks away.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:01 PM
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I'm not literally speaking about actual scars JFC
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:58 PM
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this is what i hear from alpha rp men You're overestimating a lot of posters here. Most "redpill" posters today are just blackpill incels under a false label to avoid a ban. And they are in fact schizophrenic. my goth sister made it Good for her, but goths are a subculture, by definition you're talking about exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 04:35 AM
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They were selectively bred for aggression and it shows as theyve been consistently the most dangerous and lethal breed to own for decades. You can say "its all about the owner" all you want, but then statistics show that pitbulls are the breed of choice for shit owners, essentially behaving as a red flag for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 04:09 AM
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You definitely are. You're coping harder than incels right now
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 04:07 AM
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A man with scars is a heroic figure, a woman with scars is a tragic figure. You dont have to be fragile and incapable, but being dainty is definitely a plus. being feminine is abusive This is schizophrenia talking. what am I supposed to be like? Thin, well dressed, zero tattoos, no piercings besides the ears, kind, agreeable and chill. That checks the boxes for about 80%+ of all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 04:07 AM
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Generally, no, its a turn off. You dont look feminine with a billion tattoos, a ton of piercings, riding on motorcycles, owning a pitbull (child killer) or playing in bands (unless you're doing classical music). The more masculine and risk prone behavior you engage in, the more masculine you appear, and if we wanted masculine we'd just be gay instead. It was my experience that excluding american and western european women from my dating pool drastically increased the quality of girls I surrounde…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 04:02 AM
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People think that a minute checking submissions is some big thing for some reason when its literally faster than replying most of the time. haha I'm actually laughing you're so feminine for arguing with women The fake laugh is obvious cope there. Also thats a pretty misogynistic take that talking to women is beneath men. Your insult is essentially that im an idiot for engaging with a woman, who by the nature of her sex must be beneath me as a man? What a massive L for you to post as a woman (on …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 03:51 AM
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The only triggered person here is you, which is quite amazing too since what you call a personal attack is really just me pointing out what you've posted before. you need help I think you're confusing me with you, since you're the one posting for help and advice on how to cope with not going to the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 09:37 PM
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110 lbs is the weight of an entire adult female. You cant shed that much fat and pretend shell look anywhere close to nornal without surgery. Oh nvm just saw your history. No wonder you got butthurt, you're a 35 year old overweight single mom. 110 lbs overweight at that, apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 04:29 PM
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Probably not, she'll have enough extra skin to function as a paraglider after that level of weight loss
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 04:55 AM
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but hes being hypocritical People are emotional and emotions aren't rational. I don't understand why this concept is so difficult for so many of you to comprehend. People want their cake and to eat it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:33 PM
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to what reality? that I am oppressed because of my gender sexually and otherwise Your post history shows you're a married woman who is cheating with a boyfriend you believe is unattractive and you admittedly fucked your exes best friend when you began dating your now husband. You're literally incentivizing the behavior you complain about, because most men would rather be a sociopathic asshole than be in your husbands shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:48 AM
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Because thats what most women decided. You compete for the top guy and the top guy can do whatever he wants because other women dont hold him accountable. If he cheats, then whatever hes a rockstar thats expected and 95/100 women will still sexually reward him even if he loses 5. Other guys are held accountable quite often, if an average man cheats that relationship is over rather than tolerated and forgiven. If 95/100 women will reward and incentivize shitty behavior, then thats what you'll get…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:17 AM
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Because men dont make the rules. If you have no say, you have no responsibility. If you have all the say, you have all the responsibility. Its not really a difficult concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 02:38 AM
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Easily influenced by my not-uniform, statistically rare and unique international experiences as opposed to the boilerplate monoculture experience you have? Learn to take the L, this feels like I'm beating cripples as the special olympics at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 02:30 AM
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You can try all you want with weak shit like that, but reality is always the most brutal insult possible, and the reality behind your situation is that you're presumably a college kid who spends his time posting about how women don't want to fuck bisexuals instead of getting laid during the prime years of your life. Nothing you say can be a bigger L than actually living in your shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:42 AM
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My point becomes a self fulfilling prophecy right before my very eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:20 AM
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That dude is probably another terminally online redditor who has no friends. I grabbed 3 phone numbers last night and will be scheduling dates this week, and the funny thing is that my chick friends from work want in on the gossip as they bet on which girl (if any) is going to go from fun zone to relationship zone so in my experience not even the women "ex-communicate" me over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 06:12 AM
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They sure seem to be whining like incels that no one wants to date them here so it seems I was more spot on than previously imagined.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 06:09 AM
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Not wanting to date someone is not bigotry, just like you not wanting to date an incel does not make you a bigot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 03:42 AM
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Or, like most people do, just eat from the cup that you don't think is poisoned at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 03:28 AM
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>the men will ex-communicate you That has not been my experience at all. In fact, my bros dont give a shit how many women I date and sleep with simultaneously and these are friends in Finance, Law, Medicine, Architecture and Business from all parts of the world. Not a single man has ever given a shit about me fucking random strangers, and they likely never will care as long as I don't fuck their wives or girlfriends, which I won't. ​ >no need to have men and women in your life who act like digni…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 03:24 AM
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I've got a cup with 100 skittles, one of them is poisoned and lethal. I've got a second cup with 1000 skittles, one of them is poisoned and lethal. Your concern for dying is the same and just as real regardless of the statistical probability changing. You're talking about the risk, I'm talking about the concern. We don't typically make romantic decisions on hard data, we make our choices mostly around emotion/concern/feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 03:14 AM
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LMAO I'm an American, I've simply traveled throughout Europe, South America and parts of Asia and actually am cultured. Unlike you I also have taste, primarily drinking cognac and mezcal neat. You can't help but post L after L after L can't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:13 AM
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Compltely agree. Totally unrelated question but who makes incentives for men's behaviors in the dating game again? Oh... right...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:44 AM
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thats like saying You can say its like anything, but why not just take it at its face value instead? If you FEEL or are CONCERNED about your straight partner cheating then you're naturally going to worry about the people she's interested in fucking. So when it comes to someone who's bi, regardless of how rational your FEELING is, what's more likely to happen is an increase in your worry rather than a decrease. If you're so concerned about the feelings and emotions of bisexuals you've never even …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:38 AM
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the only time alcohol tastes good is when you mix it with something Yeah bro literally every wine drinker I know refuses to drink wine on its own. Every beer drinker refuses to have beer on its own too. Hard liquor is a tougher sell for most people who can't handle the higher alcohol content on its own (mostly from inexperience and a lack of trying), but there's a reason that old fashioned's (whiskey and a dash of bitters) remain a staple cocktail globally. The fact that you can't appreciate a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:32 AM
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gays run a bigger risk So what? The concern remains just as real and rational for both. You can't always rationalize away a feeling. You can rationalize all you want about a parent dying at old age, painlessly and whatever but it's not going to make the fact that a parent died any less painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:25 AM
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Spoken like a true plebeian with zero taste. Given your admission of shit taste, I'm going to completely ignore your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:23 AM
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but the zoomers Will shut up the second you confront one on their bullshit. Additionally, why would you give a single shit about what a zoomer of all people says or thinks about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:20 AM
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I know, that's why I wanted a direct answer. They can't be honest and tell you it's literally everything without looking like entitled narcissistic assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:17 AM
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At what point, if ever, is this "biphobia" that I've described ever possibly a legitimate worry?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 01:05 AM
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I don't think this makes anyone look bad, frankly. It is perfectly normal, logical and reasonable to not want to date someone who is bisexual. If you're concerned about half the population when it comes to future stability, you'd be doubly concerned about throwing in an extra half to worry about. It's also fine to be concerned about whether they're bi or gay and in denial, because that's not something you want to have to worry about down the line. If you don't care, good for you, but most people…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 12:52 AM
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you trying to stop her would be illegal And yet another delusional social moron thinks they have a point. No one is talking about locking her up in chains, we're talking about starting a verbal argument which is absolutely not a crime. you're insecure and dont trust her I'm quite secure in telling her what I am not ok with. As for trust, no, I dont trust people who feel the need to place themselves in constant temptation. why would anyone give up freedom for a relationship? Because thats what a …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:50 AM
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Here's 39 ways: https://www.bosssinglemama.com/financial-help-for-single-moms/
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:25 AM
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most criminals are kids without fathers you're bringing in this tangent to avoid answering the original question, you're dodging quite hard trying to avoid admitting you would prefer to shove the bill on the innocent boyfriend than pay the whole thing yourself. what's not morally justified Who said anything about morality? I asked a very clear question, would you rather pay the whole bill yourself or shove it on him. You've brought in two tangents now to avoid answering.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 02:30 AM
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The context is in response to the OP. If it's standard practice that presumably means it's done automatically at every birth, which means cheaters get found out and the dad does not sign the certificate, avoiding liability for the child. This leaves a single mom who is free to collect taxpayer money to take care of the kid now that they can't put hubby on the hook.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 02:27 AM
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It's the typical mistake men make: be "nice" by portraying yourself as a risk averse, unthreatening, overly friendly and selfless man. What they don't get is that this is also what a weak, spineless, door mat, sexless man looks and acts like
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:39 AM
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I prefer society pays for it That's not what I asked, and you answered this way because you know that if its between you or innocent him you're going to stick it on him every single time. you wouldn't be in favor of this as the individual in question Nope, but then again I'd get a paternity test of my own volition before signing anything so that I'm not on the hook. we pay for criminals though! To our direct benefit, it's good for everyone to keep a criminal locked up because you never know if y…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:29 AM
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Yes, and so does practically everyone else. Between you or a stranger, who would you prefer pays for the kid? When it directly hurts your bottom line, you want to stick the innocent stranger with it instead, because you're even more innocent than he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:14 AM
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Paternity tests aren't standard because the more men find out they're raising a kid that isn't theirs, the more the government has to step in and pay for that kid, so the government will refuse to enact this policy in favor of making one man pay rather than all taxpayers. You can make every argument in the book about it but it ultimately comes down to this right here, I don't want to pay for someone else kid, go stick the husband with it instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 12:48 AM
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i make a legal argument everyone fails to comprehend this and argues every other aspect instead when talking about divorce and/or arrest, which are legal proceedings
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 12:18 AM
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She wants to go to the club with her single friends, I dont want her going to the club. WhY w0uLd iT ApPLy!? Real big fuckin mystery why I want to be in charge of that decision and have her obey it...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:46 PM
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So then its not that they dont want to be approached, its that they dont want to be approached by a socially incompetent moron. Sounds like learning how to be socially competent seems like the solution for people who dont understand socialization then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:41 PM
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Lmao at this cope. I went out last night and approached a lone girl at the bar, she responded with short sentences and clearly wanted to be left alone so i left her alone within like 2 minutes. I then spoke with two sisters who had come to celebrate the younger ones 21st birthday, ended up joining them and had a wonderful night out. I can understand no means no, even when this girl literally didnt tell me to stop talking to her. But unlike you I'm not going to presume to know the answer. The onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:34 PM
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Getting evidence is not hard. It is not hard to take a photo of bruises after a beating. Its not hard to get a copy of a police record if you call the police. Its not hard to get a copy of a restraining order if you filed for one. Not hard to request psych notes or testimony if you sought psychiatric help for mental abuse. But you cant just make an accusation with no evidence and expect to legally punish someone else, because if you do then everyone will take advantage of that loophole for their…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:29 PM
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I can tell you didn't read the article I recommended, he also polled women and 3/4ths of younger women down to about 2/3rds of women in their 40s want to be approached more. So not only are women actually open to it, they want it to happen more. Again, the problem is a perception with what's happening. You perceive attention seekers trying to go viral on social media as indicative of reality, forgetting that social media isn't real.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:12 PM
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Yeah bro, I'm so unique and individual by doing everything [insert subculture here] is doing and promoting, i'm not part of the [big culture] hivemind because i'm part of [subculture] hivemind where we all just happen to agree with the same things! My tattoo is proof of my individuality bro, literally no one else has japanese characters on their back or a harry potter symbol tattoo on their wrists, it is literally just my individual self doing this. Coping hard there bud
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:13 PM
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Approximately 81% of men have not approached a woman in the past month. 45% of men 18-25 have never once hit on a woman, and a large chunk of the remaining 55% of men that have approached give up after one approach a year. Look up DatePsych's article on risk aversion for the full picture. It's not that dating apps have shredded shit, it's that men simply are not approaching, are fatter than ever before, and have never been as socially stunted. There is a warped perception of reality where people…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:07 PM
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It's a tool, it's all about how you use it. I personally avoid toxic women entirely and am highly selective. A single tattoo or nose piercing, a single photo with unnatural color hair and you're out of consideration.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:06 PM
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I've moved around 5 times in my life, starting a social circle from absolute scratch, finding relationships everywhere I go, and needing no one to push me to go out and do things. So why is your excuse valid for you when it's not valid for me? Quit being a bitch, accept your failings and grow the fuck up, or shut up and accept the life you've resigned yourself to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 08:04 PM
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if it helps, I'm of the OG RP group instead of the nu-redpill where people outright say shit like "don't approach just post on reddit and use tinder (despite knowing how shit it is) intead"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:59 PM
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You weren't abandoned, you stopped growing and expected everyone else to stop right alongside you instead of pushing forward with their own lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:55 PM
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See that's just something I won't accept. You got bullied or you're lonely so you're consistently responding to life as if you're going to be brutally murdered by an animal in the next few seconds? Bullshit. I've got a friend who was a marine, had a bullet pierce his helmet and almost go through his skull. He barely survived and he isn't in that fucking pit. He's suffered setbacks in life and every time he's taken a day to drink it out of his system and then proceed to get right back to fixing h…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:50 PM
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No, the safest space for a guy is with a trusted friend. I know secrets that can outright destroy the reputations of my friends publicly and permanently, and these friends knew that I am a better vault than the wife or family to keep that shit quiet while offering some support when they're down. Some of my friends struggled for 2 years before coming to me with shit weighing on them heavily that entire time, especially when it was an issue in his relationship, because he knew that I'd be there to…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:34 PM
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It's a matter of meeting us halfway, because if we are willing to spend a lot of our time to help you, then you need to at least meet us halfway and start moving on your own. The truth is, these dudes rotting at the bottom of a pit don't want to climb out, they want other's dragged in so they don't have to be alone at the bottom. Its a long climb out, so it's daunting and scary, but it's also fucking lonely. If you aren't taking that first step to climb out, then from our POV you're just looking…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:18 PM
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You can throw in whatever you want in a prenup, whether it stays or not is a different question.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:07 PM
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What a lot of women and many guys don't get is that a lot of men are more than willing to help and accept a loser male IF HE DEMONSTRATES A GENUINE DESIRE TO IMPROVE. The guy is right that we don't want some bitch made dude dragging us down, but that bitch made guy comes to us and says "I want to stop dragging down the team, help me get better" plenty of men will help out. If they are willing to take that first step and really mean it, then they'll be helped, but if you don't show a willingness …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:06 PM
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She's not wrong, people generally do not possess empathy for people they have no relation with. I don't give a shit about the homeless junkie down the street shooting himself up into oblivion, I won't blame women as unemphatic for engaging in the same behavior. Do women want empathy for shit like periods? Yup, whatever, I don't care, let them ask for it. Do women also want to appear empathetic without actually having to do anything about it? Yup, same reason why a dude may say he cares about the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:58 PM
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How about, and really hear me out on this... how about you just date someone in their mid 20s instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:49 PM
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Alimony is a determination made by the court relying mostly on financial need of the ex, this is something that you can't really know for the future because you don't know what her financial situation/need will be in a future divorce. Additionally, if she's in a position where she is impoverished or requires taxpayer funding, that's an immediate reason to kill off a stipulation against alimony (if you can pay for her, then the gov certainly wont being the logic). It can also be found unconsciona…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:38 PM
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Remember how I said its all about taking that first step? "A witness called 911 to report that a couple (later identified as Laundrie and Petito) were fighting. Officers from the Moab City Police Department (MCPD) identified the van driving erratically near the entrance to Arches National Park and conducted a traffic stop. They found Petito crying heavily in the passenger's seat, with police body camera footage showing what she told the officers. So a good samaritan takes the first step for her,…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:28 PM
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Even if you avoid a case and mediate everything, mutually agreeing on the full division and aspects of a divorce, a judge can tell you both to fuck off and do whatever he wishes or approve as you agreed, a judge is never not involved in a divorce and can sometimes be too involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:16 PM
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It's not hard to prove, its hard to collect evidence for it. The reality is that if you're bruised once that's all you need to call the cops, have him arrested and win out well in a divorce (at fault or no fault). The abused always needs to take a big first step, but after that first step you'd be surprised just how easy it is to split without issue. One doctors visit where you admit the partner did it is all you need, they call the cops, the cops move to arrest if you cooperate, it really is si…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:12 PM
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the kid is the father's because mom knows its hers Then the kid is the mother's, because we don't know if dad is actually dad. So that's wrong right off the bat. dad is making up doubts That's not withholding medical information though, that's a total lack of medical information, because if he had it then he would know, but he doesnt know, hence the test. edit: alright, im done losing brain cells with you. have a nice life
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:08 PM
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It depends on the state but if its a community property state then the 401k is split 50/50 practically every single time. Community property states basically say "everything obtained after the marriage is owned by both so its split evenly when it ends." Equitable Distribution states go with a more broad view such as "how long were you married, what financial contribution was made, what do the individuals need in the distribution..." An ED state will likely look at a 401k split like they see a pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:06 PM
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It's easier than its been done before, but you need something to latch on to. Pictures of bruises, doctors visits, psychiatric visits, calls to the police... You need something, it can't just be "he mentally abused me for years and I have no evidence whatsoever that it happened, believe me in one of the nastiest, adversarial legal issues where we are sometimes incentivized by our lawyers to lie for our own benefit."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:56 PM
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Lack of timeliness to review a prenup, lack of legal counsel to review the contents of a prenup, unfairness, likelihood to leave someone impoverished and/or requiring taxpayer assistance, the agreement is fraudulent/dishonest and makes lies or ommissions about finances and possessions listed therein, intentional misleading or coercion... There's a ton of reasons to get it thrown out and they do happen, the reason you don't get legal cases thrown at you is because cases generally deal with one re…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:55 PM
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how often does she get half? Of the 401k? Practically every time. It's one of the easiest things to claim in a divorce. Prenups apply to stuff owned before marriage, so you can exclude the amount of money in a 401k until the day you married. After that though, any funds going in are comingled, so she's entitled to half of every contribution that went in after they married. 401k's are harder to split when both parents work, because they have their own 401k's, but when only one works the single in…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:35 PM
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Fault was generally encompassed by Adultery, Abuse and Abandonment. Abandonment was as simple as just waiting it out, Adultery just needs one witness (the cheater, a hotel worker watching them go into a room together, etc). Abuse is easy if its physical, harder for mental. Proving abuse is actually easier these days, a maryland judge was killed about a month ago for essentially cleaning a man out in divorce because they felt the wife had proved substantial abuse which was defined as "cops were c…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:27 PM
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A prenup stipulation against alimony is not likely to survive. they're still going to get it Yeah, but they set a 5 year limit which is reasonable. You've got a hard deadline to get your shit together before the money stops flowing, that's perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:24 PM
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you don't have your own 401k That's marital property, you get half of his at divorce. you don't have your own accounts This is generally not true You're not building SS funds You don't build a social security fund, payroll taxes from workers get redistributed to the elderly who collect social security. You don't need to build an SS fund, taxpayers are already doing it for you. In fact, if you work, you're building the fund that the current elderly are being paid from, your SS fund wont exist unt…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:18 PM
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I always said that we had it right the first time back in the at fault divorce days. Did you cheat? You causing the breakdown of the marriage means you're on the hook or forfeit the right to receive alimony. If you broke the contract, you don't get to benefit from doing so, and that's something I can easily get behind. The bigger issue today with no fault is that alimony comes without barriers to permanence in a time where women have never had greater access to the workforce and high earnings (I…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:10 PM
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No, you're just not getting it. You tell her you're getting, say 2 tests to make sure your kid doesn't have downs syndrome or huntingtons or some other genetic disorder and that they'll do some blood draws to test that. She says yes. You go to the doctor and order in those 2 tests PLUS a paternity test and don't tell the wife that you ordered the paternity test. youre withholding medical info about the child to get a paternity test done But I dont have medical info on the child, I literally can'…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:02 PM
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Yeah, its not foolproof because no plan ever is. Its truly amazing that people here are so socially moronic that you do not understand the literal basics behind lying and the fact that lies can be found out. Its like im talking to a 5 year old when you pull a "gotcha" like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:00 AM
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why yes i consented to my genes being in this database to test my kid NOOOOOO I NEVER CONSENTED TO BEING IN THE DATABASE! L
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:57 AM
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you are not special enough I know, I literally said I wasnt. Im surprised you're THIS butthurt just because you were told that virginity is not as valuable as genetics. i have never met a man that thinks the way you do Except for all the men who dont date you when you tell them you're a virgin because they think you're mental, and all the chads that you're after who ignore you, and all the dudes who lie to you because they assume you'd react like a petulant child as you've done here. its equal p…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:56 AM
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I'm not looking for a unicorn, I dont expect to hit the lottery. As for honesty, yeah, your virginity is not as valuable in the eyes of men as you think it is. Looks matter. I dont get why you're so mad at being told the truth tbh. Figured you'd welcome it instead of continuing to listen to advice that you admittedly know isnt working for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:53 AM
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If she finds out about the paternity test then Im obviously not going to call her crazy for that, shes objectively right if she finds out, but if shes objecting to solely what she thinks is gene testing and no paternity test, then yes she is certifiably insane because I cannot fathom a single reason why you would refuse a blood test to ensure the health of your literal child. If your lover refused to take a blood test to help diagnose your sick kid, would you be fine with it or would you pursue …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:55 PM
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Thats fine, but if a white lie is what counts as abuse then everyone is an abuser. Christmas is global level child abuse, hiding an engagement ring before proposing is abuse... you're being ridiculously frivolous when that's the standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:45 PM
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you shame loose women and slut shame For one, women are the primary slut shamers of the world. Two, this is true, you lose value the more you whore around. This still doesnt mean you're special enough or inherently valuable enough to get Chad. A 3/10 thats a virgin isnt suddenly a 9 just because of her virginity. virgins are high value but not really? They are, but it doesnt make you outcompete non-virgin models. A 5/10 virgin can compete with a 6, maybe 6.5/10 hoe. The 5/10 virgin cant compete …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:33 PM
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You can virtue signal all you want but no, a white lie with the bonus side effect of actual medical testing for the child is not abuse, especially if she (likely) never finds out about the lie. To insinuate a white lie is tantamount to psychological abuse tells me that you're absolutely insane, full of internet brainrot and have near zero experience with other human beings. Its rule one: everybody lies. stay away from women Ive got 2 dates with 2 different girls this weekend and the next, with a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:17 PM
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How so? If she doesnt know then she has no awareness of a loss of trust. If I'm wrong and the kid is mine, why would that trust stay lost?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:12 PM
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Yes, the step for a healthy relationship when conducting a paternity test borne from paranoia is in fact lying and manipulation. The harm of a white lie to do the test (with the added benefit of actual medical testing for the kid regardless of result) does not outweigh the security it provides in both a positive or negative result. you sound like a piece of shit You're trying to make this a bigger deal than it is. You're not harmed in not knowing someone did a paternity test, just like I'm not h…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:08 PM
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they made the argument that being shot isn't as bad as being bullied and its being massively upvoted Fucking unreal but it just confirms everything I said. They will make a massive effort to excuse their lack of effort where it matters. If they want to rot in the pit, then fuck 'em.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:04 PM
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you're have to take multiple tests I know. When you lie about testing for health reasons, you're gonna have to actually test for health reasons. Wild that I have to explain how lying works here now like holy shit guys
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:37 PM
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Thats true, I'm still doing it and I will absolutely call her insane in front of her entire family and social cirlce if she makes a shitshow out of gene testing a kid for healthcare reasons (and a paternity test order snuck in to that batch that i will not mention).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:34 PM
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thats delusional af Human beings are egotistical and hypocritical, yes. were waiting for marriage! And for every one of you demanding a ring, theres plenty more not demanding a ring while putting out in relationships. Last girl I dated for a bit was like this, didnt put out until she felt like we were going somewhere. whats so special about you? Absolutely nothing, but the concept that people want their cake and want to eat it too really shouldnt be so surprising. Like you literally quoted me "c…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:27 PM
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you're low iq! if you think thing you never said This is golden, please keep going. weed is a better method DUDE WEEEEEED LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:15 PM
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I'll do you one better: being drunk is self induced poisoning all so people can feel slightly more at ease while socializing This teenager doesn't get that you can drink without getting drunk, or drink alone because you enjoy the taste, tremendously american teen tier comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:39 AM
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would you hold the same argument for simps? No, because there's nothing I'd hate more than having to be with another man that's making an effort to be with me. I don't hold much of an opinion on simps, I don't think it's going to work out for them but I don't care that they do what they do, you should ask women if they want more or less simps in their dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:32 AM
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men don't want virgins We do, we just want a virgin who puts out for us. Call it what you want but it is what it is, we want to be first/only and don't want to put a ring on it (especially these days) to get laid. former hoes are getting married at 40 Yeah, idiots who went through the ringer tend to remarry to not much greater success than the first time. men turn down virgins thinking they're clingy or mental You sound mental, first off, and second we turn it down because we want to get laid. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:26 AM
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It is overused, its also not a bad thing. I'd love to be with a girl who is a pick me, I want someone who not only wants me but actually makes an effort to let me know she wants to be with me. People using this term unironically are extremely masculine and disagreeable women that no men are picking, hence why they use the term so derisively. You've got it used for grifters like Pearly Things but that's just idiots failing to realize that shes grifting for clout and cash and wants as much negativ…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:09 AM
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OMG THIS IS A CATCH 22 Only if you're an extreme social moron. "Hey honey we're doing gene tests on the kid to prepare for shit like downs syndrome or abnormal diseases, gotta be ready for that just in case, we're doing it for the whole family." That fucking simple to get your dna test done without raising a single flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:05 AM
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Yes it is: https://datepsychology.com/risk-aversion-and-dating/ Stay coping instead of working on your social skills and approaching though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:02 AM
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I live in the US and can confirm everything that guy said was true. Most young men in america have either never hit on a woman or cap yearly approaches at 1, average guys are failing because they're literally not even trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:02 PM
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I got laid during and after uni and it was with people who werent from my university. I slept with a bartender at a bar i frequent and knew, i slept with girls i met at concerts, ive gotten the phone numbers of people in public transport because I asked them about a case of beer they had with them... you dont need uni to figure it out. i got numbers but was ghosted So you're socially competent enough to get pretty far relative to the rest here, but you're still striking out somewhere along the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:56 PM
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if a man is explaining something she already knows without asking if shes familiar with the principle No one makes this assumption, the default is "they dont know thats why theyre asking." Cant believe i have to mansplain basic human interaction 101, as condescending as it may be, but here we are lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:48 PM
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Most of the posters here have either never approached or barely ever approached. You also have legitimate autists with zero social skills who dont get that their way of socializing is off putting to people and a big reason for their failures. It literally is as simple as being kind on the way out when she says no. Shes not interested? No big deal, have a nice day, see ya. but I'm approaching at uni Totally fine, just dont keep pushing if she says no.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:11 AM
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Yeah its totally fine and normal to both talk to strangers and get their phone numbers for a date if you think it went well. Dont make sexual comments like "omg you're so hot", just shoot your shot, if it works then good for you if not then move on. Its that simple and its literally a numbers game. Dont let the socially stunted morons and terminally online freaks try to convince you of shit like "youll be arrested for approaching" and try often.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:50 AM
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At 45 its definitely weird if you havent had a handful of serious LTRs by now. At least 3 LTRs is what id put as expected. Maybe 5. my experience is two prostitutes Which means you have zero actual experience, prostitution experience != dating experience. You're not a late bloomer, you never actually bloomed. The 40 year old virgin film? That character is a late bloomer, he actually dated and got laid on his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:46 AM
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No, it pretty much does mean she cant. The issue is that unlike women, most men do not ask for alimony and resources even when eligible for them. Divorce is gender neutral in theory: whoever makes more subsidizes the one who makes less, the reality of the situation though is most women do not date down financially, so its almost exclusively men subsidizing the ex wife than women subsidizing the ex husband. In cases where she outearns him, then he is in fact protected.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:42 PM
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Depends on what you want. If you want a sure thing with less youth and free time but more money and a solid career, go date a made man in his 30s. If you want an investment that may or may not flop, date someone your age. Life is about choices and here's a choice you should be making: do you want the surer bet or the riskier but younger bet? Pick one and roll the dice. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:37 PM
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Most people are fat, unkempt and overall unable to meet dirt low standards. There is a massive shortage of quality options for both sexes. Politics has mostly fuck all to do with the dating pool, obesity and single parenting does more damage than politics ever will regarding our options
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:13 AM
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Know what, you're right, theres no point so stop trying. Theres also no point to whining about it on reddit, yet you'll keep doing this for years (assuming you havent been posting on these types of subs for years already). On one hand, you will gladly waste years of your life on something you know will reap you no rewards but you'll refuse to try doing something that can give you rewards. whats the point in just being rejected? 1 in 3 approaches ended up with a phone number as opposed to 1 in 11…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 01:21 AM
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Gays in denial about being gay pretend that their lust for boys is heterosexual because they put the term "fem" in front of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:51 PM
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Nah, the women go into porn knowing what to expect, it really is rare for them to be completely unaware of whats waiting on the other end of things. As for the men, they adamantly reject that which works so I don't really have much sympathy for them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:36 PM
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I mean, they literally promote the idea of toxic masculinity so theres nothing to apologize for there, theyre not masculine and they're not the guys these women are after.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 09:41 PM
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There's a reason almost no one has bluepill flair anymore, and its because it really got destroyed back then. I remember just how constant it was as literally almost every single proposition was struck down by study after study after article... i think those users left Few of us are still here, though I don't really post about that shit since that's ancient history. I stick with the good stuff, how to improve yourself now, because it really is ridiculously bad how low the post quality has gotten…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 06:10 PM
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its a minefield right now No it isn't, it seems that way to you because you've chosen the riskiest possible route in dating right now. If you don't date in the workplace, #metoo isn't really a concern. Post #metoo my only change was "no dating in the workplace", that's it, that's all the risk aversion you need.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 06:43 PM
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its not avoiding risk, because you see, the risk to avoid is real You contradicted yourself in literally 9 words lmao she doesn't have to go to HR to get you fired It's not about have to its about where do the reports go. They're not common, first off, as most women have never reported anyone. Second, most go to HR as in same company. So half of all the little risk there is, is avoided by just not hitting on coworkers. The risk is not what you make it out to be, you are literally the statistic t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 06:15 PM
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i hit on women a lot, have no success and was physically assaulted twice Have you considered, maybe, the problem isn't the women's behavior? To be assaulted not once, but twice, makes me think there's an issue with your methods there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:27 AM
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The article actually accounts for that, fear of rejection is the actual reason. Its around twice as much the reason as "no hot girls near me".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:34 AM
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Its not delusion about smv, its the refusal to go out and hit on women. Its a numbers game and theyre not trying: About half of single men have not approached a woman in person within the past year. This is true for each age group, but it does vary. For example, 59% of men within the 18-25 age group (Zoomers) have not approached someone in the past year. 48% of men in the 26-40 age group (Millennials) have not. Millennials are approaching more, consistent with the hypothesis of a generational sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:06 AM
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Datepsych's article on risk aversion shows that its not that bad, its simply: men are paralyzed by fear of rejection and social consequences, a majority of women want to be approached more, most men arent approaching more than 1 woman a year (if that), most reports by women to to HR and only 10% go to the police so risks are actually near zero if you avoid hitting on women at work... Essentially, people fear consequences that arent really there and overestimate the odds of their fears becoming r…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:47 PM
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nice was enough Lol, no it wasnt. Men werent as fat as they are now, men dressed more formally, we were more masculine and we went outside a lot more because if we didnt we were bored out of minds staring at 4 walls and social skills were generally higher. They were bullied to a worse degree than today and got the fuck over it instead of pretending its warzone level shell shock (muh ptsd!) People DRASTICALLY pretend like the only change was money, but it wasnt, everything from formality, dress, …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:00 PM
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its confirmation bias when you get good results its not confirmation bias when I get bad results though Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:16 PM
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theyd no longer settle Which means that conventional wisdom on what women want was false. That notion of women preferring an asshole was indeed met with tons of denial, literally the entire BP argument is right there. Just be nice right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:15 PM
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the material is out of date It isnt. Datepsych did a great article on risk aversion and found that its literally all in your head. Most zoomers and millenials either have not hit on a woman EVER or hit on exactly one in the past year. Fear or rejection stops 60% of men and 70% of incels from approaching, fear of social consequences is the next one at 50-60%, fear of legal consequences is also an incel thing as only 9% of non incels fear it but 20-25% of incels do. 77% of young women want to be a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:14 PM
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my gut instinct is no true scotsman But the two groups do have different core beliefs (genetic vs behavioral determinism). We know the two groups exist, we know that one group has been practically kicked off of reddit and we know that this is the biggest backup space they reside at. We see it during purge week when incel content floods the place and then immediately dies down. Im not saying theres "no true redpiller who wouldnt" im simply saying "theres a lot of group 2 hiding under my group 1s …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:55 PM
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TRP: behavioral determinism, Blackpill: genetic determinism. TRP tells you that theres things to fix, blackpill says its all decided at birth because genes/looks > everything else. There's some agreement in terms of the nature of women, but thats pretty much where it all ends. I mean, blackpillers literally call being humerous in conversation jestermaxxing, as if being funny and entertaining means you're the literal clown jester degrading yourself. what happened to just being a praxeology? Never…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:46 PM
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Thats not redpill though, people forget that black is banned and the incel containment subs were also nuked from orbit. A lot if "red" is actually blackpillers and incels whining. TRP has always had the same core message "get fit, get money, get experience, approach constantly", here a lot of the "red" isnt fit, whines about being an adult and having to earn money, refuse to get social experience, and are terrified of approaching. Purge week is really all you need to look at to notice how many i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:34 AM
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It devolved into that because the argument is mostly over. Men being horny fucks who'll stick their dick in practically anything has been known forever, but womens preferences coming to light despite the mountains of denial took a bit. Given the mountains of evidence at this point, there really wasnt a lot left to argue about so the whole place just devolved into "other sex bad." I think I actually have a decent take here since my argument is basically "go learn to socialize and hit on women irl…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:11 AM
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you're just describing more ways yanks arent people Do tell, where is this mythical lanf where women prefer being the breadwinner and dont give a shit about a mans wealth? Oh it... it doesnt exist huh? you're making a business owner rich! I'm paid quite well for my work and I get to help people in the process too. The truth about america for work is its great because something like being a senior software engineer will pay 41k in italy but 150-200k in america. If you're a skilled worker, theres …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:53 PM
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Sounds like he wants an echochamber and, as usual, to whine about dating apps instead of approaching women in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 08:15 AM
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I'll do you one better, datepsych actually ran a survey on this exact topic, the tl;dr is basically "if you do sex work youd better be okay with your dating pool being almost exclusively people who are woke". Of 1010 respondents, almost half of the entire pool of thise willing to date an OF thot was scored as extremely woke/far left on a scale of 1-7 where 7 is far right. Despite this high willingness, the mean (average) scores are abysmally low as 3.6 men would date a current OF thot, 4.2 date …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 08:11 AM
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i dont trust that Source is datepsych who in addition to doing his own surveys also cites official sources like CDC reports and published psychs. Heres what he found: About half of single men have not approached a woman in person within the past year. This is true for each age group, but it does vary. For example, 59% of men within the 18-25 age group (Zoomers) have not approached someone in the past year. 48% of men in the 26-40 age group (Millennials) have not. Millennials are approaching more…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 07:10 AM
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it's more difficult for men This just isn't true. We know that 45% of men 18-25 have never once hit on a woman, and hitting on just 1 and failing is enough to put you in the 55% that have. The truth isn't that it's harder, its that men these days either have never once tried, or have barely ever tried. Men have never had it easier either. Most of your competition is fat, dressed like a slob and not even trying to compete. If it's more difficult for men these days, it's literally because they dec…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 09:49 PM
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I don't understand why men aren't happy single Grow a dick and you'll find out overnight.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 09:42 PM
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Putting down the porn and socializing might help. It doesn't help that you've been spending the past 10 hours posting about celebrity asses on reddit. It really is a self fulfilling prophecy with people in your position. "Oh my god women don't want me, the guy who rather than go out on a saturday night spends his time posting about the asses of people I've never met on the internet for several hours in a row." How about actually learning to socialize and then going outside to practice instead of…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 09:40 PM
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this breeds a bad mentality in them! So what? Am I supposed to lie to them instead and tell them their supermodel gf is just around the corner? but it makes their delusion seem more real! All the more reason I want them to truly acknowledge the reality of their situation. It's dire, it's tremendously awful, it's mostly their fault and the solution is entirely in their own hands. The truth is that they are losers, they're at the bottom of the barrel, but its also true that there's a way out, that…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 09:34 PM
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22/23, if you made it through high school and college with no dating experience, there's something wrong with you. High school gets you leniency, strict parents or a tough to shake bad reputation holds you back, but during/after college you got nothing? Red flags going up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:35 PM
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The problem with this mentality is it never actually asks the most relevant question: "Are these dude's actually losers though?" For most posters here I'd say yeah, they are. That's actually what was best for me when I picked up TRP ages ago, it was realizing that I was a fucking loser and needed to get my shit together. I've spoken to a lot of TRP men here who are fucking losers, including one who unironically flaired himself as such and advocated never approaching women as he talks about brazi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:32 PM
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I've got nothing against an older person climbing up the ladder, but realistically, that person is generally at the bottom of the social barrel in college because they are just that far behind their peers. Same economic position as a fresh out of high school moron, nowhere near comparable status to an already made man in his age range. we're mid life career changers That's not an attractive proposition. From a woman's POV hes incredibly risky relative to other people with no benefit from the ris…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:25 PM
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its solipsism to have nuance, but its not solipsism if you agree with me entirely Lol, lmao even
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 01:58 AM
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A 25 year old woman is a young woman. Even then, while at 22 shes not chasing much older guys; they probably dont mind a 32 year old dude at the club as much as they mind the 40 year old. As it stands, the acceptable gap widens with age rather than lessens.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:24 PM
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I find this amazing as last week I literally was with a 52 year old man who picked up a 28 year old right in front of me at a bar. I'm talking full makeout right then and there. My reality as I've witnessed it literally matches up with the "myth" and I witnessed it less than 7 days ago. but the 40 year old on campus Is a fucking loser, thats why hes in college 22 years later than his peers who entered at 18. Theres a world of difference between a college man in his 40s and a made man in his 40s …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:49 PM
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Meanwhile I remember just getting a phone number from the girls i liked in college classes and texting to chill. Its really not so different but again, 45% of men 18-25 have NEVER hit on a woman. Its not so much that times changed but the dudes arent even trying anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:05 AM
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The other guy called this a strawman but it isnt. Its solid advice. These people are insane; ive got a self professed gigachad mindreader telling me now that I cant possibly be going out on weekends without trying to get laid, i cant possibly enjoy chatting up someone over a drink without wanting to fuck them. Its pretty wild because on one hand are the antisocials who refuse to learn because no immediate gf, in the other hand its antisocial ALPHASUCCESSMONEY bros poisoned by youtubers who can s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 08:51 PM
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You call me a social rookie but its actually just me not behaving like a sociopath. I want to enjoy myself, so I do things that I like. I enjoy a night at a bar with a good drink and a good chat, if some hot girl is there and dtf thats a nice bonus but i dont usually go out with getting laid as the goal. Its really not that fulfilling and Id rather date seriously over racking up yet another ONS. Im not concerned if my behavior is overly feminine or masculine, my concern is my enjoyment. You say …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 08:06 PM
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Yeah, i tend to enjoy life instead of min-maxing living. Its more enjoyable to let yourself be pleasantly surprised than constantly disappointed whenever things dont go according to plan or to maximum efficiency.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:18 PM
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exciting, passionate conversation is ass kissing flirting is ass kissing Id just call that normal and desirable. In my experience, unwarranted narcissism works more than focusing on her. my experience for sure dwarfs yours I legitimately dont give a shit if you disagree youre romanticizing reality No i just think you're overly negative about reality. No one wants a boring conversationalist, that doesnt mean youre kissing ass by not being a boring person to talk to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:15 PM
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spam approaching is dumb unless you're approaching the hot guy who's just sitting there alone But if its dumb then why is the hot guy being approached? It sounds like its not dumb at all, that its all a blackpill hot or not hangup holding you back.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:11 PM
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if women arent giving you clear signals approaching is dumb Who said its just women? I approach anyone and everyone. Ive built groups out of randos at bars before, merged existing groups together and had a blast. Ive approached women who were uninterested to then approach others who were extremely receptive 3 minutes apart. You never know until you try.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:10 PM
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Ive had one night stands, ive had long term girlfriends who were extremely passionate, it all mostly starts with courtship. Its not a long ass kissing process, the more ass kissing the worse your results will be, actually. By date 2 you can effectively move for something serious or find someone new (night 1 if ONS). The fact that most guys still think of it as ass kissing tells you how far behind the average guy is at. Your average young man has never once hit on a woman, so pointing to the aver…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:01 PM
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You can do that, but if you know you're cutting out 99% of women, dont whine when you dont find her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:43 PM
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The solution then, is obvious, theres something that needs to be learned and practiced, and to practice you have to go out and talk to people. It is that simple and theres nothing but refusals. Look at the other guy chatting me up here, he genuinely thinks sitting on a bar alone waiting for people to talk to him and invite him to a group is him trying. These people seriously believe showing up to the basketball court but never taking a shot is practicing your shots because "hey i went to the cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:12 PM
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You live in so much self delusion that you have to cut the statement in half to keep pretending you've made an effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:09 PM
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You have an immediate reaction to this every single time and its pointed out time and time again that you are that literal stereotype you rail so hard against. Your idea of socializing is going out and waiting to be approached because if you approach others that was you (and im literally quoting you on this) "being a rude dickhead" and "ruining others' night." You also admittedly gained a ton weight during covid that you havent lost again. You keep objecting to the characterization but never mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:06 PM
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i go outside and talk to people Then you, by definition, have options outside of dating apps. no point approaching those who dont want to be approached Outside of the obvious like headphones and in a phone call, how would you know if you dont try?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:50 PM
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Holy shit this is so good, why do you think every single one of them "failed to do so"?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:43 PM
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Lmfao. I'm projecting when you tell me your own friends refuse to make introductions to women for you? You tell the world here that all the people you consider your friends irl wont do you the favor but I'm wrong when stating the obvious? Fentanyl level copium there bro
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:31 PM
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I wish redditors would acknowledge that touching grass and learning to socialize (because they failed growing up and refused to learn afterwards) should be their biggest priority in life, especially if they want to get a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:27 PM
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Antisocial redditor doesnt see social situations as opportunities because he doesnt go outside and talk to people, news at 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:25 PM
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I truly despise the amount of whining people have about dating apps. You'll all readily acknowledge the statistics, there is zero dispute as to how absolutely garbage they are for a man who isn't a supermodel, yet you'll make any and every excuse to not seek out alternatives with much higher and better odds at success. every girl ive approached has turned me down And they all have one thing in common... you. is it worth doing activities if you cant get a gf there? Yes, it turns out that "i take …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:22 PM
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You say women hate weakness like men don't hate it too. I have no empathy for a weak man, but I've got plenty of it for a guy who's at least trying to make a change and better himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:12 PM
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women have no expectation of privacy in public Literally no one has an expectation of privacy in public, the court's have made this very clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:10 PM
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I completely agree. When it comes to a good portion of men here, they definitely want to play victim over a lack of empathy rather than try to become self reliant. I get attacked often when I say that it's generally a waste of time and effort to emphasize with someone who's at the bottom of a pit and just wants to rot there, and that we should exclusively empathize and encourage the ones who are actually trying to crawl out of the pit. The excuses are endless and tremendous. "I'm traumatized by …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:05 PM
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You're trying to disagree when my first sentence literally ends by saying "they don't perceive it that way."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:39 PM
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The majority of single moms are from the black community and were never married. I'd wager the good majority of single mothers in general aren't divorcees and didn't have a husband to leave in the first place. As for divorcees, the primary reason for divorce is adultery which was recognized as one of the only reasons for a divorce back when no fault didn't exist. It's not that they could care less about being poor, it's really that you have a breakdown of a relationship or no serious relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:38 PM
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im a man saving my virginity for my future partner You can do that but statistically, you're shooting yourself in the foot. i dont think one side will agree with the other Mostly because it's a personal issue rather than a side/political thing. I really, really don't get the need for people here to try and microanalyze shit that's literally just obvious on its face.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:20 AM
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Why are you guys like this? It's meant to be an insult, not something you seriously think about. This whole ackshually shit just makes people want to bully you that much more.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:18 AM
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Yeah, welcome to being the male of almost every species on planet Earth. b-but its not fair, a woman doesn't need to do as much as I do! So what? What's stopping you from rejecting women who don't have their shit together? You're completely free to do this but you want to whine as if her not having to do this to get laid means you shouldn't either? You have the mentality of a child if that's the case, you should want to be a self sustaining adult and if you're complaining that you can't be one t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:11 AM
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It's both, emotions are not rational and sexual desires aren't super rational either. Fat women prefer muscular men, but don't prefer losing weight to appeal to these men either. People are generally quite hypocritical when it comes to dating preferences, with most everyone wanting to have their cake and eat it too. You can whine about it all you want, but it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:49 PM
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The lesson would be pretty wasted because of one fundamental issue: if i were in a woman's body i wouldn't want to have sex for the entire month because it would mean having to be fucked by a man, and since most men aren't gay they'd be in the same boat. Women might get what it means to be perpetually horny because of testosterone but they'd also run into the issue of "how badly do i want to have what I'd perceive as gay sex rather than jerk off for the month and wait until we're all back to nor…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:43 PM
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We have a natural attraction and aversion to it. Guys prefer it, women detest it. The reason men are shamed for virginity is because the insult is literally calling them genetic trash. Same thing with incel, genetic trash that no woman would want. That's why male virginity is shamed while female promiscuity is shamed, the insult there being "dumbass woman who has no standards." It's not that people get shamed for fucking, it's really just a means of insulting people where it hits home: your lite…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:37 PM
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how do you know that? Presumably, he was a virgin before he got laid and can tell you the difference before and after.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:34 PM
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now you have to provide for two people Which is cheaper than one, actually. Your expenses don't actually double even though your income has. Rent, for example, is the best bit to go by: you and the gf split one apartment so your payment is halved. If you rent a nice 2 bedroom your monthly payment can drop from 2k to 1k, giving you and her a full thousand each in savings per month. You'll have to spend some of that on more stuff like food, but the savings outweigh the slight cost increase of shac…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:19 PM
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Women have a high in group preference for other women so they naturally group up and socialize anywhere other women are around. The loneliness epidemic isn't really about singlehood, it's about a lack of friends. Men don't have this and need to something to bond over. There's been a consistent erasure of male only spaces to the point where there really isn't a place for men to just meet other men (even the boy scouts are mixed now) which is a huge problem. Dudes really do need their own spaces, …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:58 PM
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i dont agree because I see women in horrible relationships with ugly men But that's got nothing to do with the loneliness epidemic, they're in a relationship so by definition those men aren't lonely. The loneliness epidemic mostly doesn't have anything to do with women, the biggest problem with the loneliness epidemic is a lack of friends, not girlfriends and wives. Even if you disagree, you'd then still have to explain why the more vulnerable and open men got the less friends they have now vs i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:49 PM
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It's not that the average guy won't be improving her financial situation, it's that they don't perceive it that way. If you're earning $100k you're top 18% of all earners in the country, the avg man in his 30s makes like $52k, so when their incomes combine they suddenly go from 50% of top earners to 18%+. This is an improvement so drastic that it means an easy ability to pay off student loans, easy way to save for a home, guaranteed retirement savings, much more money for entertainment/vacations…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:37 PM
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Women who post that shit are just delusional antisocial freaks who should be ignored but the bigger issue is the guys themselves, theyre far more delusional and that much more insane. Theyre the ones who will bitch and moan the most coming up with shit like "I'll be arrested for cold approaching!" and "theres no place to approach someone because I'm literally magically prevented from talking to a woman in a coffee shop, bookstore, bar, club, anywhere public." They never had social skills and dec…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:25 PM
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relationships are focused on equivalent exchange Lolno, most women are dating up not across the board. We see predictions that 40-45% of women will be single by their 40s because of a refusal to actually be in an equivalent exchange scenario. the loneliness epidemic isnt because of todays culture its the culture of the past thats the problem! Guys need to be more vulnerable and open! If this were true then loneliness would decrease as we move away from past cultural norms, yet the opposite is ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:19 PM
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Its all fake. These same women would applaud 18 year olds fucking strangers on camera for money as liberated and independent, but if that same 18 year old is doing it with one man out of love its suddenly wrong and shes being manipulated and a ton of bs excuses begin flying. While I dont date that far down, im not going to pretend like these women are infantile morons, they are fully free to make their choices and whether they choose wisely or not so wisely is entirely on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:11 PM
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The problem is that they then need to approach IRL and redditors desperately want to avoid going outside and socializing. Its why they whine about dating sites so much, because trying to approach a stranger is something they refuse to do. Theyll acknowledge the stats are awful and fully against them, yet they'll make every excuse possible to not escape the tinder trap by going outside
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:06 PM
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The most ridiculous part of this is: i need to have a job and maintain my home/car Wow bro, you need to do the bare minimum as an independent adult, its so hard guys! I have to use a swiffer on the floor once a week, spray windex on the countertops and even, gasp, work monday through friday!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:02 PM
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The individual who stops putting in effort/maintenance in the marriage is the one responsible for its death. People generally dont divorce for no reason, it usually has to do with someone stopping all effort, cheating or abuse so whoever is at fault for these is responsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:10 PM
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who would have more success? I think A even though I dated guy B for 3 years. You cant make this shit up lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:05 PM
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Its a lower effort repost where the OOP got BTFO as people pointed out that these remain places to approach and meet people, and its just that his neurotic take on social interaction is extremely flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:25 PM
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they arent wasting time They are, they choose to bitch and whine instead of try. Theyre wasting their time twice as badly because crying on reddit will never get you a gf but trying out irl can at least get you something be it a ONS, a friend group, a social circle, a fun night out or a gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:08 PM
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mass social dysfunction means its normal Just because it exists and is getting worse doesnt make it normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:06 PM
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how do you quantify it? Are you actively researching socialization online and/or are you going out and approaching people? That's an easy, hard line way to qualify effort that boils down to "are you dedicating at least some of your time to it?" You can also actually quantify it, how much time have you invested, how many people have you approached? Another way is routine, how often do you do it? It may be relative, but it's a guide. its not so simple for other people, its why therapists dig throu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:52 AM
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Absolutely none of this is descriptive of reality. It's really simple: you flirt and demonstrate interest, if she's interested she'll engage but if she isn't then she won't. These women are not sad and vulnerable, nor are they being lied to, they are genuinely attracted to these dudes and want to fuck them, so they do. Some women make the dumb assumption that a hookup = relationship but that's not even them being lied to that's just them making dumbass assumptions. Some women I've been with will…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:43 AM
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how hard is it to implement a small dose of empathy? I don't see the point in trying to help those who won't help themselves, but I see every reason to help those who are actually trying. Like someone trying to quit smoking, they need to really want to quit or else your efforts helping them will just go to waste, and the best show of a genuine effort is them taking the first step on their own. YES! why do you think they continue to struggle? Because they never put in a serious effort to move on.…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:24 AM
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Maybe they did go through some negative shit, so what? Does that take away their ability to improve their lives? Does it render them wholly unable to read about how socialization works and then put it into practice in real life? No. Something potentially horrible happened to some of them, but they still had year after year after year after year, maybe even a full decade or more to get the fuck over it and grow. The decision to stay in that pit and rot away is a choice they actively make every si…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:09 AM
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Women slut shame women more than men do, they really won't care as long as the girl you're with knows you don't think she's a hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:40 AM
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Its not an insult at all, its an accurate statement of facts. It IS abnormal to have zero friends. It is abnormal to not go out and socialize. Their self isolation is in fact deluding their understanding of socialization. The big issue with these guys is the total lack of accountability. They know their social skills are nonexistent yet they make no genuine effort to learn how to socialize and practice what they learned. They go years, if not decades, with little to no practice and study then wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:35 AM
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You disagree with it huh? Lets check your submissions to see how that's working out for you: you spend your time on reddit asking older men if dating is worth it for a young man in his 20s, asking women on reddit their opinions on women making the cold approach instead of you, focusing on how often strangers fuck others rather than approaching to focus on your own sex life. You ask about the frequency of anal sex in brazil because of trends with brazilian pornography, asking other men outright w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:00 AM
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Yes, medical conditions like menopause will fuck with libido and sex drive. Welcome to being in a relationship with a woman. The point however was that it can't be revived when that is simply not true, its hard but it can happen. In fact you even see it happen with much older couples, its the elderly who are fucking the most and spreading tons of STDs
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:55 PM
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Who the fuck is we? Red pill man flair and you advocate not cold approaching? That was RP 101. Get fit, get money, dress to impress and approach approach approach. Hell, most redpill posts were literally reports of approaches to ask for advice on what to do better next time, literally called field reports. We ALWAYS advocated cold approaching and that advice has never before been more relevant as fewer and fewer men approach. Your competition is literally ceasing to compete, there is no better t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:50 PM
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You're talking about a rare side effect. Low libido is more frequent but zero libido is tremendously rare, meaning that for the most part its resolvable by finding out how to wean her off antidepressants without her being miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:45 PM
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Yup. The default of "Im autistic and don't get social skills, so putting an effort to develop social skills is a waste of time, woe is me its all out of my hands forever and ever!" is annoying BS. Point out that they've wasted years deciding to make no effort, and that that's on them and they'll blame everyone and anyone besides themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:43 PM
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For most people, maintenance does stop the crash. Marriage is hard, parenthood is harder, but the difficulties of both and more do not absolve you of your duty to maintain. It's an easy out: "Oh I had work all day I'm so tired, now I've got to take care of the kids and do the chores and I have no time for me or even you." It's simple to get into that routine of neglecting the marriage because of responsibilities but that's what fucks you. medications and their effects Shit happens, but even so w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:41 PM
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Like I always say, just look at the stats. 45% of men 18-25 have NEVER ONCE approached a woman. Zero. When that age range ups to 35 or 40 the range was somewhere between 1/4 to 1/5 men who have never approached, and leaving that cohort just takes ONE attempt. So, at best, 1/5 dudes up to age 40 have never once hit on a woman, and a good amount of the 4/5 likely won't have hit on more than a handful or two in 4 whole decades of life. Zero or near zero experience flirting and approaching, not much…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:17 PM
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men are told to date their wives and woo them, but this is all a fool's errand If you don't maintain your marriage (or relationship) then it dies. This isn't a one way street. It's not impossible but it's hard to get that spark back once it's gone, but the best way to avoid losing that spark is to make sure the fire you two built never dies out. we shouldnt tell men fairytales that you can resurrect it with romantic gestures You can though, ask someone who is super frustrated with their partner …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:03 PM
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Think of the social skills of the average redditor real quick... still wondering where the delusion that you can't talk to people outside comes from?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 10:33 PM
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The reality is that antisocial redditors will say anything to justify not socializing. They will distort reality entirely to rationalize their decision to live as if covid lockdowns are still a thing today. They fear grass like a rabies patient fears water.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 10:30 PM
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cold approaching doesn't work Worked for me. It not only worked to get me dates, it even got me friends too. The first thing I ever did after moving somewhere new was find the spots I want to be a regular in, get to know the staff and then speak to regulars/anyone who frequented my spots. it comes off as desperate, telling the woman you have no social group or community so you have to approach a total stranger No, not really. Most people genuinely do not give a shit that someone is attempting to…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 10:27 PM
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Its not even about christian or not for me its just PLEASE BE FUCKING NORMAL. It is borderline impossible to find someone thin with no kids who doesnt have a ton of tattoos, a billion piercings, pink/purple/green/blue hair... I dont know what the hell happened that it became all or nothing, like if you're not super religious then there is a microscopic amount of people in the middle who are normal and then the rest went right off the deep end.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 04:30 PM
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You say that but lets not pretend "enjoy the decline, live a life of debauchery fucking strangers, drinking and partying until you're dead" is a conservative take. It really boils down to attaching politics to apolitical reasoning. Dating strategies arent political, people simply attach politics to them to label it positively or negatively rather than deal with the merits. A good example is noting that red pill content creators shit on conservative media who blame men for things like refusing to…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:16 AM
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The whole "its all downstream from politics" argument is awful. Its like saying evolution denial is politics based when its actually religion based. BP, RP has no politics at hand, one is an opinion and the other is empirically backed at this point. Some of it is religious (staying a virgin until marriage), some of it isnt. The only correct take for politics in dating is that people who are political are not people you want to date because they're overly idealistic and marry their emotional stat…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:14 PM
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Semantics.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:04 PM
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It isnt. I can accurately describe how light and color works but if I conclude that my blue shirt is actually red, my correct explanation of color is worthless as my conclusion is still wrong. To claim there was no traditionalism because the tradition was not one of unrestricted freedom is dumb on its face, because a tradition clearly existed. Its like saying the aztecs didnt have a tradition of human sacrifice because you werent free to not be sacrificed, its obviously wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:52 AM
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if it gets me to 90% cured instead of 100% cured its reasonable to not waste time and money on it Yeah man, if your social skills go from 5% of normal to 80% of normal theres clearly no benefit to be had there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:44 AM
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You tell bros to come because youre alone in a foreign country in search of friends that you mostly wont get with locals who dont speak your language and have no common experiences with you. They also know that its an extreme minority of viewers (less than 1%) who will actually move abroad and compete with them. I make good money but my job isnt one I can do remotely, so even if I listen to all the advice on where to move to, Im not moving. To passport bro you need: 100% STABLE remote work (beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:41 AM
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Shit like Tate and Pearl are not the same coin, because its all a grift for money. They sell some basic talking points (lift, be successful) and toss in ridiculous bs to gain clicks and donations. The majority of rp content from big names is clickbait trash for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:35 AM
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The previous commenter was me, and I was not talking about the majority of women, hence why I specified.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:31 AM
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You're making no counter argument, I said high end workers not all working women. If 1/4 dont work at all and increasingly fewer women chase the promotion and climb of a career, then who pays what makes no difference in retention at the high end. The fact is that retention at the high end is rare, with most women staying entry level and mid level. Theres a reason I specified high positions like law where its six digit pay instead of some advertiser earning half that with work from home for an av…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:30 PM
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you cant decide to do something incolving other peoples consent or interest Yet I talk to people in public all the time. You actually can decide to do something, its a matter of respecting the other person's decisions when they engage or refuse to engage, but you absolutely can stop and speak to anyone and everyone you see outside every sjngle day. you dont know me and say I'm a self sabotaging loser I have spoken to you about this before, its why I know your effort was literally "I went to the …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 07:45 PM
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having my negative fears confirmed is hard to recover from! You already know you're at the bottom of the social totem pole, its why you have no friends and spend all your time alone. The reality of confirming how low you are is actually good, because you've got two conclusions to reach once you realize you're at the bottom: stay and rot, do something about it gladly because the only way out is up. We already know your decision was to stay and rot, you just cant admit that to yourself because you…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 07:13 PM
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The goalposts arent moving, I literally dont see how it can be made clearer "just going outside is not socializing, waiting for people to talk to you because you're too afraid to do it yourself is also not socializing." It cannot be made simpler for you yet you just wanna cry victim instead of actually make an effort and socialize. you're not empathetic with me No, Im not going to give a fuck about you when you know what to do to improve your life and actively refuse to do it. I can cheer someon…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 07:06 PM
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You've literally admitted to spending over a decade of your life "putting in effort socializing" by going out to a bar or club and exclusively waiting for people to approach you or else you had zero social interactions that entire night. You've had your decade long mistake pointed out to you (that its on YOU to approach) and yet you prefer to whine on the internet instead of just making the initial approaches yourself. You are the peak example of the very "its out of my hands its all societys fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 05:14 PM
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i acknowledge it but need to see results You cant have it both ways. You cant both acknowledge exercise makes you thinner but at the same time need to see weight loss gains without a scale. You know its true, you just dont want to commit the effort because you dont have an end date. i cant have socializing have observable results Yes you can, length of conversations, enthusiasm with others you socialize with, number of people messaging you, number of social outings with people you meet... you ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 05:10 PM
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It really is amazing isnt it? "I'm a lonely friendless loser and society needs to make socializing easier for me!" Ok heres your social events so you can meet people and make new friends. "B-b-but this isnt giving me a gf!? Fuck that why would I want to go hang out with other lonely friendless losers!?" They have plenty of opportunities but dont want to put in the work to improve their social lives. Theyre the same as fat people who refuse to go to the gym to lose tbe weight because it involves …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:39 PM
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I really really hate this message of "nothing you can do." Stopping this message is the biggest thing you can do socially for lonely men, because people can take charge of their own social lives. In fact people can take charge for a ton of things in their lives, almost all of it tbh. You want to help the lonely? They must be willing to help themselves, go read up on how to behave normally, look at others and try to figure out slang, humor, body language, how to keep conversation flowing, etc. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:16 PM
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For the most part if a man doesnt lead the relationship doesn't last. People take the submissive thing too seriously as "get back in the kitchen" when it really is just "let me make the rare but massive decisions in life (moving to a new house, moving for a career builder...)" and its also not like she gets no input either. A good example is a friend who went to law school abroad, wife wasnt happy with the 3 year move and debt but his new salary made up for the sacrifice. As for high end working…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 02:55 PM
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JDBF is not a man thing, its a both sexes thing. Women aren't lining up to date sumo wrestlers, the difference is that dudes acknowledge that them being fat will fuck up their dating lives while women started 2 movements to pretend being fat is beautiful and healthy. this makes me feel so doomed I cant even imagine how privileged someone must be if their only worry is "I'll have to eat less and exercise omg how awful" what about ozempic and other weight loss drugs? People who used ozempic to los…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:02 PM
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Only 12.2% of women 5'2-6'0 tall in america are childless, unmarried and thin (not overweight or obese), so 7/8 women fail to meet the lowest standards imaginable. If I were to raise my standards further, there would be practically no one who would qualify.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:28 PM
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Yeah the abundance of people willing to do absolutely nothing but complain about their situation is astounding. Additionally, you're supposed to give a shit about people who care less than you about their situations. Its completely absurd. The notion that a lot of things in your life are in your control shouldn't be so horrifying yet it somehow is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:23 PM
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Theres a lot of loans you can get but you need to have something lined up before you can make it happen. Say you get a 12 month note for $5k to move to a city, well youre going to need a job lined up before you head out there to make sure you pay it back on time. The key to good credit is easy: use your credit card like a debit card, pay it in full each month (balance of $0 every month) and pay twice a month (during the week your bill comes in) to lower your utilization and improve your score qu…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 10:11 AM
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That's why i don't think there's a term for it, men don't seek to fuck to the exclusion of anyone besides the bottom of the barrel. If you find one, let me know
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:52 PM
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There's no real term for it because dudes fuck pretty much anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:46 PM
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Explain the flaw in your argument and then I'll tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:19 PM
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Men can socialize other men in a feminine manner though so it's not women causing these behaviors. You're really trying desperately to avoid answering the contradiction of your premise, hiding behind muh soggy knees instead of explaining the inherent issue, it's almost as if you can't do it because its wrong... The woman bad excuse is ridiculous, first post literally says I blame men not socializing enough to make a social circle as they self isolate. Women have nothing to do with men choosing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:16 PM
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I'd personally say that its due to the erasure of male only spaces. Even the boy scouts isn't just for boys anymore. When you have no place where you can meet and hang out with just the guys, it's really hard for a dude to make friends so they self isolate and stick to online interactions instead. Most men do not make friends with women because they want to date them, and an opportunistic predator does not a friend make.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:54 PM
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Where did I blame anyone for anything here? It's very simple reasoning, if A results in B then A cannot result in C, so its on you to explain why A resulted in C. If you can't do it, then you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:52 PM
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But then you run into the problem of increased feminine socialization in school and society in general leading to a reduction in male friendships. You can't argue that masculine socialization hurts friendships when the downward trend comes after feminine socialization of boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:42 PM
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If this were true then men would have more, instead of less, friends today when it's more socially acceptable to be less masculine. Instead we've seen the opposite with a steep drop in friendships compared to the relatively recent 1990s where it was far less acceptable to be a feminine man. Men aren't making less friends because of how we're socialized, men are making less friends because they aren't socializing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:39 PM
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can't move False, you'll simply need a promissory note and loan to do it if you can't afford to do so now. Look for jobs where you want to move to, get a loan to afford the move, slowly pay it back from proceeds from the job. Solutions are there, you simply have to take the risk and act on them. i'll be rectifying that soon All the best wishes to you my man, hope it works out!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:34 PM
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this statement is false and disproves the theory of evolution I'm a biologist and this is literally the sexy son hypothesis which derives itself from evolution. You essentially could not have made a more incorrect statement: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexy_son_hypothesis there's no one-line simple answer Specifically no, but generally, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:31 PM
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you don't have an issue in your life that is easily solvable? Got some student loans to manage but even then that's easily solvable to me, it's about budgeting properly and minimizing debt little by little until its all gone. Sticking to a budget ain't fun, but it fixes my problem, it is ultimately entirely up to me if I fix it, rack up a ton of interest by paying more slowly, or fuck myself into insolvency. trying isnt the same as succeeding struggling as you're trying is not the same as strugg…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:12 PM
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I'm not going to care about people who do not give a shit about their own lives, especially when the solutions to a lot of their problems are easy to fix with minimal but constant effort. I have nothing but praise for someone who is struggling yet making a real effort. I have nothing but contempt and disgust for people who struggle and choose to wallow in filth rather than make something of their lives. I wholeheartedly disagree, the world would be far better with more judgment, especially when …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:50 PM
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I do keep this same mentality for myself, why wouldn't I? If I don't lift it's no ones fault but my own. If I get sick from drinking too much it's my own fault. I view most everything in my life, good and bad, as the results of my actions/inactions and it's a great mentality to have. im talking about starting a social life And step one for me when I had to learn how to socialize was to blame no one but me for my lack of effort and prior shit results. There's a billion resources online to go off …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:41 PM
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You call it hypothetical yet I can point out specific users on PPD with this exact mentality and issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:04 PM
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There's a dude below literally trying to defend "making dating spaces" for people who are too stupid to use google maps and figure out how to spend their free time doing things they like to do. Literally displaying the responsibility level of children and pretending like its the world's fault that they refuse to grow up. It's unbelievable and yet they wonder why they're sexless virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:45 PM
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This is just completely absurd. Why would you need to find a new gym if you got turned down besides you having some overly neurotic response? Being told that someone isn't interested in you is not a catastrophe. Shoot your shot and if the answer is no, don't bother her about it, don't make a scene, just say ok and go back to your workout as if it never happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:42 PM
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There's nothing more that I hate than the woe is me bullshit mentality this post defends. Unless you're living in bumfuck nowhere, there are plenty of spaces for you to go to, you simply choose not to. This idea of "I have no idea where to go" is literal manchild syndrome. You've got google maps ready to point out every possible spot you can go to near you, costs (if any), travel time, expected busy hours... Finding out where to go takes minutes at most. Dating is relatively easy, you just need …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:39 PM
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You literally just stop giving a fuck and if she says no then you never bother her again. It's that simple. Any rationalization against this because "b-but she's not there for that!" or "its not polite!" is pure bs cope. Either it works or it fails, and if it fails then you don't try again, that's it, the rationalizations are just people trying to think up reasons to not approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:55 PM
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my worth has not changed as I've aged its not men that value youth, its just you Fentanyl tier levels of copium
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:44 PM
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how is it different? A 20 something can much more easily lock down the guy than a 30 something. When I say find I don't mean just a date and a hookup, I mean actual relationship. Even for hookups with men she wants its not as simple anymore, women post constantly about how even on OLD with a massive advantage their options dry up rapidly once the profile shows a 3 instead of a 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:42 PM
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im more attractive, have more money The only way you're more attractive as you age is if you went from fat to thin, otherwise that's just cope. As for money, guys do not give a shit about it, pew research found that your career is 8% important out of your whole package to a guy. im picking from 10% of the options I used to have but I haven't hit a wall Outright insane. It's like saying you haven't hit a wall in your career when you're only being offered 10% of what you used to earn 5 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:36 PM
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Women in their 30s do tend to hit a wall, in the sense that it rapidly becomes harder to find someone to date that they are interested in marrying. It's why a woman will typically settle and marry around that time to someone they will likely divorce in 7 years, while the rest don't settle and hold out hope for something that doesn't come. The wall really should be "can't find a man she wants" because women will never stop finding simps, but the issue is women don't want simps romantically. Peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:05 PM
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I argue all the time that the internet is not real life and I'm not even in my 30s. they can't wrap their head around 40% of couples meeting online these days Here's two other statistics for you: One of the biggest runner ups in how people met is out in a bar sitting around 22%. 45% of young men have never hit on a woman before in person. Almost half of the men up to their mid 20s have literally NEVER tried to get pussy irl, only through a dating app. It's not that I can't wrap my head around th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:57 PM
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The majority of women are looks centric though. you nerds just jealous I got laid weekly in June just because I made an effort to go out, party, and do so. I'm not jealous of people using dating apps at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:49 PM
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A paraphrase (/ˈpærəˌfreɪz/) is a restatement of the meaning of a text or passage using other words. The term itself is derived via Latin paraphrasis, from Ancient Greek παράφρασις (paráphrasis) 'additional manner of expression'. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paraphrase
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:47 PM
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you see its not that women lie, it's that they're actually all delusional and lacking in self awareness of their own desires What a defense, not the one I would have raised.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:07 PM
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You actually said "they are talking about how personally is matters more and looks doesn't matter, but actually care about it and have minimal requirements for it" which is a mess of a sentence that you really can't fault anyone for misinterpreting
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 10:10 AM
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it doesnt say they care more about looks than men do That was a different study, but this one still comes to the same conclusion from it: women lied about the importance of looks by understating its value. "The study suggests that women value physical attractiveness in a potential mate far more than they say they do, said study author Madeleine Fugère, a professor of social psychology at Eastern Connecticut State University in Willimantic." its only stated that they are talking about how persona…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 10:00 AM
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They literally do not exist. At least, not successful ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:38 AM
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I don't mean you, I'm speaking generally. Most american's cant cover a $1000 emergency so most americans will rely on social security to pay their rent (if it even covers rent and living expenses at all by then). just change how they work not a single politician will do this and not a single one is attempting to change this, it just is not going to happen and you're smoking opium if you think otherwise this whole thing is ridiculous speculation "I dont know what reasonable speculation is" lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:35 AM
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Whats more is they'll pretend that one piece they find is taller than the mountain in front of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:24 AM
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Hope for automation is really a cope. If you haven't bought your home before retirement (expecting modern day homeownership lmao, expecting to retire decades from now lmfao) automation won't do shit for your rent payment, you need safety nets like social security which are expected to go bankrupt because there are too few paying in and too many collecting. The issue isn't capitalism its the fact that we have a plutocracy (literally no one on either side of the aisle is seriously pretending to sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:22 AM
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The atomic blackpill was a set of tinder catfishes done to show just how much leeway looks got a man. A white male model with photoshopped swastika tattoos were hit on by women, including minority women, so nazism gets a pass if you're good looking. In another scenario, a self admitted child rapist who directed every woman he messaged to read the bio was flooded with positive attention and compassion for his looks, despite admitting to the fact (sometimes multiple times per woman) that he had be…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:15 AM
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All the data points one way, so you must find me data to support my own worldview Is accepting reality a bit too hard there? This is just sad. Men really don't, in fact your career is worth 8% to us out of your entire package. https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2017/12/05/americans-see-different-expectations-for-men-and-women/ You're being sought out for short term flings and hookups, but as we all know the predicted trend is record breaking more, not less, single women as they age. They …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:06 AM
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its just a convenient excuse Or the literal reason. Do you think someone in a dead bedroom who cheats then says "i did it because you don't fuck me enough" is deflecting responsibility or just giving the literal reason for straying? It's even true if you read that sub, most who have cheated say they would never if they were getting enough from the husband/wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:31 AM
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The burden of seduction doesn't come from expectations of orgasms it comes from risk of pregnancy because even double birth control can fail. The whole benefit from sociology is also just nonsensical as its all biological. Additionally, women need to be in charge of their own pleasure. If she lets him hit no foreplay, that's on her; and if she knows repeats with one guy is the key to success and she keeps hopping around, then she needs to find herself one solid guy. I also wouldn't complain abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:25 AM
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Increasingly online via dating apps as more and more dudes withdraw from approaches and public life. Soft harems will keep happening and increase in frequency like we see now because more men withdraw, more women get degrees and refuse to date down expanding on current trends. Prostitution may become legal to help keep incels in check, marriage and coupling continually declines which keeps people poorer as single living get more expensive, economic hardship increases as less young people being b…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 12:19 AM
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It is not immoral or illogical to uphold someone to a vow and contractual promise. It is immoral and illogical to permit a means by which the party to a contract who has fulfilled their end of the bargain is punished for compliance while the breaker is rewarded. Marriage is a contract. No fault divorce is the means by which the compliant party to a marriage is punished for compliance while the breaching party is rewarded for breach. This is so illogical and so immoral that the entirety of contra…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 12:13 AM
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Casual sex and hookup culture are not the same thing. Marijuana existed forever but stoner culture is relatively new. Casual sex has been a thing forever, but hookup culture was not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 11:59 PM
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Glink did a great video about OF stars and the users and they all say the same thing, it's not about the porn its about receiving what the buyer perceives as a "personalized" (LOL) message, as if there's a real connection/friendship/relationship between the person sending nudes and a few messages and the buyer. The appeal of OF is a pretend relationship for lonely losers. Realistically, throughout the last century, the standard has been thin, thin, athletic (thin and fit), thin, thin, thin, curv…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:30 PM
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It is a location thing, those are your broad statistics for the entire country so some parts are thinner and some are fatter. If you're in Denver almost no one will be fat as they're the skinniest or top 5 skinniest cities in America. If you go to the midwest or parts of the south, obesity skyrockets. Regarding women branching off, yeah you don't want to date the ones that do so. Find someone slightly more loyal than average.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:12 PM
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It's how a lot of guys think, just look at the Logan Paul-Nina Agdal thing, her sexual past effectively harmed this man's reputation more than him monetizing people who killed themselves and scamming his audience online. A hoe wife is more destructive to a man than being known as a guy that monetizes suicide. For a lot of men, the idea of marrying the town bike is the one of the most shameful and pathetic things a man can do. We also know women do compare you to the past, and if you're not the b…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:34 AM
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We can only go off of assumptions, if she admits she had a one night stand while drunk at a wedding my mind is going to wonder "how many weddings has she been to and how many times has she been drunk at a bar or club or party before?" She can say, genuinely, "it was just the one time", but since you can never be sure you're better off assuming otherwise. Other hand, I may believe it really was one time but doubt whether she was drunk or is just using that as an excuse to not seem slutty. She's n…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:03 AM
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This woman does not exist in reality, she only exists on the internet to grift cash from a bunch of morons. I applaud them on the grift and the scam (go get that bag), but these women are not real, they do not exist in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:59 AM
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The standard men are coming to is "I'll wait as long as I believe you've made other men wait" and with hookup culture increasing the prevalence of one night stands the default is "you've had a one night stand before, thus I'll wait one night or you're not into me like you were other men in your past (recipe for disaster)." That's why we don't typically believe you. The truth is that it's an easy sell when you've got a good relationship resume. If she's 25 and had 2 or 3 long term boyfriends, I'l…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:57 AM
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Going by census data, only 12.22% of women ages 18-30 are unmarried, childless and not overweight/obese. This is national data, so if you live in the US, only 1/8 women meet dirt low standards. Begin applying other standards like unmarried but not in a relationship, looks (you can be thin and unattractive), moral values, interests and compatibility and that 1/8 just gets absolutely shredded. Living in the midwest, my biggest issue was finding thin single women I was attracted to as most of the t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:31 AM
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You can keep attacking the flaws but all it amounts to is denial of a trend. "Oh the OKC one shows this but there's a problem with the skips", "ignore the study in this thread too, it shows the same results but the sample size is bad", "ignore the tinder and hinge data showing the same results too because there's too many men and not enough women or something..." Increasingly the argument becomes attack attack attack without much actual evidence to the contrary (because its just not there). At w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:12 AM
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You can talk results all you want but that really just boils it down to "lets ignore the why." During a recession dollar menu sales skyrocket, is this because people love and prefer dollar menu items or because the meals they actually want are seen as too hard to get? According to your results based analysis, dollar menu items are loved because of the result, in actuality, they're only chosen because of market influence. The record breaking unhappiness and current state of dating is a mediocre r…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:05 AM
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It's a choice but you can't pretend as if the reality of the dating market has zero pressure on that choice; the pressure back then was in favor of marriage because when women had to pick between a marriage and sleeping around most picked the marriage. The pressure is so high actually that only religion remains as the often mentioned safeguard for remaining chaste. You have no choice regarding an at fault marriage, because you can file no fault in every single state for no reason at all. Marriag…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:37 PM
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While hippies in the 60s started the OG hookup culture, for the most part it really wasn't a widespread issue and essentially had the best of both worlds: If you hated the idea of a lifelong bond you were free to fuck around and do as you wished/rebel against cultural norms, and if you loved the idea of a lifelong bond it still existed (and remained the default) with most people choosing this as an option. It was more likely than not during that decade that you'd have a virgin partner at marriag…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:26 PM
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No it really isn't. Around 5% of people are virgins at their wedding so that alternative dating scene where you needed to marry to get laid doesn't exist. The stability of marriage is gone with no fault divorce laws, and we know from those stats that men rarely ever win in a divorce. The alternative to hookup culture really doesn't exist anymore. You can point to the institution of marriage and pretend it's still there, but the reason it's not as prevalent is because it has been fundamentally al…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:33 PM
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can i buy you a drink works less often than i like your shirt It's why my favorite line is "you're cute, buy me a drink." I remember I said this to some friends (1 guy 1 gal) and she began to tell me that a line like that would never work because if a guy pulled it on her she would argue with him and not buy the drinks, my guy friend laughs and essentially tells her she admits it would work because of all the other people she could talk to, she'd spend her time negotiating who will buy the first…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:19 PM
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It's not self inflicted, only she can decide if you go in the friendzone. That being said, it's up to you whether you want to stay there or just leave and go find someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:11 PM
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the sample size is low Yet the results are a carbon copy of OKCupids sample size of literal millions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:58 PM
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It's a shitshow because hookup culture exists. It was very simple back in the day when you basically needed to marry to get laid. Men and women preferred the alternative, happiness surveys prove this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:54 PM
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Use doesn't really affect attraction because its expected that most everyone will have a social media page or two or three. The only time social media use affects attraction is when she's posting hoe content/thirst traps which garners a full rejection from me immediately, or if she has zero social media in which case attraction rises slightly. It's not really attraction though, its more "she's got an edge over other women for a long term deal"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:53 PM
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Yes it was. The biggest problem with dating is the sheer lack of quality in the dating pool and back in the past people were thinner, fitter, less single parents, and less tainted by creepy internet groups like furries and toaster fuckers. By practically every metric it was better except for casual sex (and that's not even necessarily true, zoomers are highly sexless these days)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:43 PM
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I make a good chunk of cash, I'll be making 6 figures in 2-3 years when I jump companies and add some experience to my just below 6 figure salary now. Since I make enough money to support a family, I really couldn't give a shit what she does for a living. All I need her to be is hot, not a hoe, chill and smart. If she can hit those 4 targets and she loves me, I'll give her everything I can to make her happy. If she wants to work, that's fine, but I really won't care what she does and will basica…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:07 AM
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First off, there is no perfect person out there for you, perfection just doesn't exist in the wild so if you look for it you will never find it. That being said, don't forego any and all standards either. Find out what your bare minimum is and start going on from there. For instance, mine are don't be fat, be somewhat intelligent, don't be politically extreme, be willing to try new things with me (weird food, new hobbies, spur of the moment type shit). If she can fit those 4 things we will proba…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:55 AM
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Yeah my shit's outdated, I remember it used to be 40k and 50k for women and men, now its around 55k and 67k respectively so overall cash went up. I really don't get the whole pregnancy excuse here, no man with a brain seriously expects a wife to gain no pounds while pregnant, or immediately after pregnancy, but if its been 2+ years after having the kid, it ain't pregnancy keeping you fat. Likewise, a dude can gain weight after breaking a leg and being unable to really work out and move much, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:42 AM
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I'm not saying they're wrong for wanting it, but the refusal to settle means you're going to have a problem of scale because the group of women earning $60k is much bigger than the group of men earning $100k. The reality behind luxury is that if you don't earn enough for a luxurious lifestyle yourself, you shouldn't expect it, but when you see the opportunity dangled in front of you via social media and dating apps that expectation tends to change because from their POV "hes right there, if I ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:04 AM
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The big issue, is the lack of dating. Society was not made for singles, so the expenses for singles are tremendously high. From your POV you really don't want to date someone earning $40k a year, but your combined income is $100k, so you'd actually fare tremendously well with an average man, but women in your position don't want him and will price themselves out of the market. I get it too, why chase $100k combined when you can chase $160k combined and really live it up? Its a tough situation fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:50 AM
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As a single person no, but it's above average income for men and women. The thing people forget is that civilization was not made for single people, it was made for families. $60k on your own will not go very far, especially in a modern megacity that everyone wants to go to, with new phones every year, expensive cars, european vacations, etc. Taxes alone eat up a solid 20%+ of it. However, if you get married in your early to mid 20s, combining the two average incomes suddenly goes a lot farther.…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:43 AM
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The thing is, dude's just don't care about income the way women do. A guy is glad to earn $40k, live somewhere cheap like Kansas and eek out a humble living there, most women abhor that situation though even if it comes with home ownership because its fucking Kansas. Its why economics are you statistics killer, because a lot of dudes in rural areas or lower income areas are doing just fine for themselves on $40k annually, they just don't get a new phone every year, or a new computer every year, …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:24 AM
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Income is your killer, and until you get there you've got it way better than guys do. Single, Childless, Thin women of any race, between 5'2 and 6'0, earning any amount of money (including $0) comes out to 12.22% or 1/8 women. Before income, you've got 25.3% or 1/4, literally double the options men have. Essentially, when it comes to men vs women who meet the dirt low standards, you have twice as many men than women meeting those low standards. What's killing your dating pool essentially is not …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:55 AM
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social media is trash, alters your reality and keeps you from living life to the fullest self awareness check
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:10 AM
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The point ----> Your head: O.O
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:03 PM
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Food tastes better when you're starving, but I'm not going to starve myself for 2 weeks just to have one good meal. Your own friends agree with me apparently, as they were surprised at how little you and your bf are intimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:57 PM
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You literally made a post a month ago about how you have kept up with your hot exes life and dating life to the point you had to block him a month ago because he's getting married while talking about all sorts of relationship trauma from it. I'm starting to think a lot of your post is just massive insecurity. i asked him why me and he said attitude matters because if the real reason was that he can't get laid to save his life, he'd definitely tell you, right? i know friends whose partner fucked …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:55 PM
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once or twice a month Ask me how I know your future husband is ending up posting on DeadBedrooms lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:46 PM
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I never said that men don't need to improve, those standards mentioned are in fact as low as the ground we walk on and even outright said that both men and women should be thinner and seek better partners to avoid unwanted pregnancy/divorce. It's not a complaint to say men and women need to do better, it's a factual statement, the problem is the support for not doing shit to get better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:42 PM
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why are you not complaining about men? Because I dont date men? That being said, you won't see me talk shit to a woman who says guys need to lose weight because they absolutely do. I won't talk shit to a woman who refuses to date a single dad either, for obvious reasons. but the rates are about the same for both sexes! I literally ended the post saying that despite the standards being dirt low, men should also take better care of themselves instead of refusing to meet these piss poor standards. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:39 PM
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There's the flaw in your reasoning right there, "if you are JUST focused on xyz." I'm not just focused on looks, but if I'm not sexually attracted to my wife then I can guarantee you that it just won't work out long term. Hell, it doesn't even work in the short term. Your entire whining is just ridiculous too. Yeah, pregnancy is different from obesity, you obviously give her time to heal and recuperate. As for no time to hit the gym because shes submissive, thats ridiculous, you don't even need …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:35 PM
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Discussions like these should serve to remind people here exactly why there is such a giant mass of virgins and antisocial people averse to going outside and socializing. Handsome is means by which a man is called cute or dressed formally, thats it. All this words words words for anything else is just ridiculous and unnecessary. You typed all this up when you could have just talked to someone irl instead
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:00 PM
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women will be told they need a rich, tall, muscular partner They don't need to be told that, they simply want it. men are told to find a skinny, feminine and submissive partner Because most guys aren't attracted to fat, masculine and domineering partners. It's not society that makes me unattracted to fat women, it's literally my dick refusing to stand for it. It's not lack of femininity in a woman that makes me unattracted, its the fact that she looks like a man. but most of us don't fit these s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 08:52 PM
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The standard for women today is so low, that being single, childless and at a healthy weight (which is obtainable with no exercise, just proper dieting) are considered high standards. It's seriously unbelievable. These are dirt low standards, and the best part is that they're not even for one sex either, men and women should both be thinner and taking better care of themselves to avoid single parenthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 07:41 PM
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you're just flexing No, I'm really not. I was actually pretty shy growing up and had to learn how to socialize step by step in my late teens. I put in a tremendous amount of effort and can still do better with more practice. That being said, I took accountability for my lack of skill and immediately went to work on it, you however are immediately trying to shirk from that accountability because of muh circumstances, muh different lifestyle. it makes you think everyone else has it the same way Mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 11:16 PM
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This is a common excuse I hear from people who frankly have garbage social skills. I talk to anyone and everyone, all the time. I just came back from a luncheon with a friend and spoke to someone who was alone at a table and asked her to join us. At a bar I will go solo and talk to anyone and everyone, group or not, and ingrain myself in their group. If I'm out at the park I'll talk to people, if I see a girl with a dog I'll ask her to pet it and talk to her, literally EVERYWHERE I go at any tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 10:32 PM
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Then stop using dating apps and talk to people IRL. Your odds are even better than on a dating app when you approach IRL. I will never understand the refusal to simply go outside, live life, and talk to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:48 PM
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You don't need a great body, being thin is mostly enough since most everyone else is fat and you don't even need to exercise much for that. The floor is free, go do push ups, sit ups and squats at home every day or every other day and diet. As for dressing better, you don't need to spend hundreds on a hugo boss shirt, you can get very good stuff at H&M for like $25-40. One shirt a month is affordable and by the end of the year you'll have almost 2 weeks worth of new stuff to wear for almost noth…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:30 PM
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its easier if you're having success You act like I got it right away, it took years to get where I am, and even with my good amount of success I can still get better after a decade of work. I couldn't have even dreamed of approaching a woman out in public back when I started, and after I started it was nothing but nopes left and right for YEARS. It was awful for a long time but I put in the work to make it happen. Right now, 45% of 18-25 year olds have not approached a woman EVER, that's almost …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 08:54 PM
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I don't get you at all. You first call it delusional and nonsensical, now you admit that its common, accurate and realistic. How do you hold two obviously contradictory extremes in your head as true?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:53 PM
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make it make sense We know that 2/3rds of young women are in relationships while only 1/3rd of young men are in relationships, so yeah, they're dating older in large quantities. It's a quantity so large actually that the number of young women in relationships with men their age is roughly the same as the number of younger women in relationships with older men. The only other explanation is they're all fucking the same men to the degree that they genuinely believe they're in a monogamous relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:42 PM
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Oh I've had plenty of it, I've simply also had enough successes to where it doesn't matter to me. Hell, a few months ago I was rejected in a bar and proceeded to wait 30 mins and then not be rejected by another girl at the same bar. It's really not a big deal, she's into you or she isn't, if she's not then stop wasting your time and find someone who is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:10 PM
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There's nothing wrong with dating younger, but it definitely reeks of immaturity to be happy seeing other people down in the dumps because of some perceived slight. I don't even wish anything negative on my exes, I hope the next man they get with can make them happier than I could. I'm hitting 30 soon and hit my stride careerwise as I'm making close to 6 figures now, my dating life has never been better (and I shoot for 21-25 year olds) but I don't wish for people to have it rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:51 AM
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I don't get the schadenfreude from seeing it. I'm never unhappy looking at a couple because "he took away a girl" or "she wouldn't have paid attention to me", I genuinely hope it works out for them. Likewise when I see older single women I don't think she deserves it for not dating me when she never even knew me, I hope she can find someone she genuinely loves someday soon. It's wild that a near 30 year old needs to be told to grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:47 AM
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The idolization doesn't come from him being a degenerate who can't fuck, its because his story is a story men relate with: the self made man who went from rags to riches and turned his whole life around, made something of himself and gained widespread recognition. That's what most people men see in that dude. Same thing with the Patrick Bateman fans, they don't really relate to being a yuppie psycho killer, they relate to the fantasy of the grind, getting to the top, making tons of money, owning…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:36 AM
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I never said there's no such thing or that everything is fair, my argument is simple: your autism is not schizophrenia. You can in fact learn to socialize as an autistic person. A good portion of Autism Therapy is literally "how to socialize" from speech and language therapy to behavioral analysis. https://www.kennedykrieger.org/stories/interactive-autism-network-ian/social_skills_interventions https://www.autismspeaks.org/social-skills-and-autism https://www.verywellhealth.com/social-skills-tra…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:00 PM
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You can be dismissive all you want but its the reality at hand: Its as simple as don't break the rules, and they frankly just break the rule often. Blackpill (genetic determinism) is banned, redpill (behavioral determinism and hierarchy) is not, if you bring up the blackpill and call it something else, it's still the blackpill and its bannable. It's really not a conspiracy like you pretend it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:47 PM
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the things males are victims of are often directly a result of their behavior lmao, absolution for female victims, victim blaming for male victims. the avg man is not at risk of getting prison raped unless he is in prison So that's just fine then? If he didn't want to get raped he shouldn't have been put in prison? "Sorry you got prison raped hun, your fault for getting caught with a bit of weed in the wrong state" Unbelievable. Almost no different than "well maybe if you didnt dress like a whor…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:43 PM
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no one calls mcdonalds a privilege, why is that? The obvious issue is because unlike attention, mcdonalds isnt free. This just tells me you haven't been that desperate economically, and good for you, but I know people right now who call a can of beans a fucking privilege, a friend of mine is potentially going homeless this winter and is looking for a second job to keep herself barely above water. When you're desperate and starving, a dollar menu is a godsend, and while I'm glad you don't seem to…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:33 PM
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People keep bringing up dating apps as if there's a reason to discuss them any more. We know the abysmal rates for even getting a match, so the obvious answer is to just go outside and approach. It doesn't take much to get laid IRL because it's never been easier as a guy to stand out IRL. 45% of young men (18-25) have never approached a woman, so if you're at a bar with young people half of the competition just doesn't exist, the remaining half is likely fat and dressed like shit, so all it take…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:03 PM
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TRP is being banned here No, its incels with the blackpill pretending that its trp that are getting banned. Just look at purge week, its always a flood of incel content because they know that despite being unwanted they've got nowhere else to go on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:56 PM
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its cheap so its not a privilege That's just ridiculous on its face. McDonalds is cheap food, but a homeless man will gladly accept all the cheap food you'll toss his way. I know people struggling economically right now that are desperate for cheap anything in their lives. violence you experience as a class Being seen as sexually desirable and being told to take general precautions in your daily life is not violence, its reality. women are more likely to get raped, trafficked, sold, assaulted...…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:44 PM
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cold approach leads to 99 rejections and 1 lay No they really don't, it's really all about time and place. A cold approach at a bar is far more likely to work than one done on a monday afternoon during the lunch break. Even if it leads to 1 lay out of a hundred, its better than tinder odds which are one match (not lay) every 105-115 swipes if you're an average man. If you're not at a good spot, a cold approach is a fantastic way to get numbers and dates. just to have sex once? So why can't you f…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:19 PM
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its not a magic mental illness, its autism and its real That's the thing though, he never answered, so it really is a magical mental illness. its autism, improvement is possible but I'll have a massive disadvantage Right, but you can improve. The other guy I'm referring to had said that it was impossible to improve, that he was fully prevented from improving his social skills at all so for all your disagreement here, you're making my exact argument. People hide behind the illness as a crutch to …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:08 PM
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I'm not saying it's a bad way to live, I'm simply saying that your awareness or fulfillment does not change the competitive reality of your situation. If you're trying to climb the corporate ladder, you are in effect competing with others doing the same. If you're comfortable where you are, you are still competing to keep your job (especially when layoffs come). Both things can be true at the same time, you can have a fulfilling life where you are, you may even think you're not competing for wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:14 AM
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If that were true then more men would be getting laid with the rise of OLD as approaching diminishes in value but we've seen the opposite where more men are sexless as approaching has disappeared. It may not be true for you but admitting n=57 alone means that you're an outlier so I don't see how you being the exception disproves the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:03 AM
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People are in a state of competition, but this does not mean they are always in a competitive state. When you work hard to climb the ladder you compete with others, but from your POV you may not think you're competing you might simply think you're working harder in a vacuum for a raise/promotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:00 AM
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I've got a dude in another thread trying to tell me that his undefined mental illness prevents him from socializing. When I said social skills are a skill you can improve his retort was "an armless man can't box", essentially equating a magical mental illness (most likely just autism) as so debilitating that he cannot even dream of improving his social skills. The truth is that yeah, if you have an anxiety disorder you need to either go to therapy or give yourself shock therapy and immerse yours…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:58 AM
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That's just bs though, because women you approach and talk to are women you can date and fuck. And the women you can approach for this are anywhere and anyhow.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:41 AM
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its easier to say you're not even trying than admit you gave up The easiest is "its out of my hands", we know that like 45% of dudes do not approach women IRL at all and yet there is a massive amount of cope here about how them being lonely virgins is out of their hands. "I have a mental illness that stops me from socializing properly" but the mentally retarded patients, downs syndrome patients, the deaf, the mute all can socialize, so really mental illness isn't the big bust people say it is. "…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:35 AM
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just world fallacy You keep using that term but I dont think it means what you think it means. if you have limitations that prevent you from improving Severe mental retardation isn't a full impediment to social skills, genetic conditions like Downs Syndrome arent a full impediment either, being mute or deaf isn't a sufficient impediment either as you have things like sign language and groups you can join, autistic people can still talk and think about where they went wrong, so really, just what …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:03 PM
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just world fallacy No, its just common sense that someone exists in the world with similar interests and is willing to chat with you. It's got nothing to do with fairness and literally everything to do with statistical reality. not everyone has the ability to have good social skills Even if thats true, social skills are still just that a set of skills. Every skill is one that can be improved with practice. The reality is that even if you're mentally ill (which is really just autistic because we …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:26 AM
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This simply isn't true. No one is stopping you from going out to a bar and chatting up anyone you see there, no one is stopping you from going to the park and talking to a total stranger, you literally have hundreds if not thousands of social opportunities every single day that you go outside. They choose to not talk to people, so by definition it is in fact their choice. As for people not wanting to engage you, someone will. If you're unable to converse with someone then the issue isn't one of …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:59 AM
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Very few people period choose to go into STEM. It's not about doing well, its about do you want to do this kind of work for the rest of your life and most people really don't want to live coding for hours or building complicated rocket engines when they could run a business or work comfortably in an office.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:55 PM
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> you're still competing against apps in the long term If she hasn't uninstalled in the long term, she belongs to the streets. This is just ludicrous nonsense where something theoretically possible seems to trump the likely reality. In theory its possible, but in reality most people will uninstall the apps when they find someone serious and the best way to find someone serious is to meet people IRL. > one day she will be curious or bored and remember that replacing you is easy Most girls already…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:52 PM
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STEM is male dominated, social jobs that pay less (teaching) are female dominated. Its that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:23 PM
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No, you're really not. A girl at a bar has dating apps on her phone, but when I hit on her at the bar my competition is everyone else at the bar, not everyone in an x mile radius based on her dating app limit. Its actually why I say that dating apps are the worst possible thing you could do for your dating life, it simply isn't worth it when you can limit your competition and meet someone in a much more natural way. My dating/sex life never got better than when I dropped the apps and forced myse…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:20 PM
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remove the incentive and increase the associated risks The incentive remains the same, getting laid or starting a relationship. It never changed. The associated risks are really only a thing in the workplace, you will not be fired from your office job for hitting on a woman at a bar or club or coffee shop. You know what my associated risk for hitting on a woman sloppily drunk several months ago was? Her friend told me she had a boyfriend, I wished them a wonderful night and then moved on to hit …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:14 PM
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They may not complain, but around 2/3 women 18-40 want to be approached more often, and among younger women 18-30 that number goes up to around 75-77%.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:07 PM
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you're denying the statistics No, I'm simply going by the DOJ's statistics which are backed by national crime victimization statistics for accuracy. This is extremely dishonest of you, as you literally deny DOJ and NCVS stats to make your original claim of 1 in 6. I can't with people who don't believe victims Ironically, that would be you if you stick to the defense of the CDC's numbers and surveys. I told you I've had drunk and high sex, therefore I am a victim according to the CDC. By your own…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 09:21 PM
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Except that that's just not true. In fact, the mathemagic behind such a ridiculous number has been known for ages and it still gets reported as true when it just isn't. "Both critics and supporters of the CDC’s methodology note the striking disparity between CDC figures and the Justice Department’s crime statistics based on the National Crime Victimization Survey (which includes crimes unreported to the police). While the CDC estimates that nearly 2 million adult American women were raped in 201…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:00 PM
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it boggles my mind how some girls will tell their partner [the truth] and expect a better result [than lying] How do you not genuinely see the problem here? If there was ever a statement to show how damaging hook ups can be, its your own words right there. you should be thankful shes settling down with you No, I shouldn't be thankful that I'm being deceived into signing half my shit away to her in a marriage. In no way should anyway be thankful they were manipulated into a relationship. why not …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:09 PM
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No it's really not rampant at all. Its actually quite rare for anyone in the US, Europe and East Asia to be made the victim of a violent crime. People tend to see much more violence than there actually is mostly due to media reporting because rape and murder are better headlines than "nothing happens for 100th night in a row in town". Crime is down, has been going down in most first world countries for decades, and your odds of ever being a victim are low (and get even lower if you take precauti…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:10 PM
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