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5

I’ve fuckzoned girls before unfortunately. It’s because they were shooting way above their league with me. I was young and just wanted to get my dick wet. But I wasn’t going to be taking you home to show you to the parents or friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:54 PM
2

I’d rather have ice cream everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 12:23 AM
2

Movies, toys, shows all glorify war.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 04:01 PM
1

Yes, it’s a fact of nature. If a man dies, one life is lost. Another can easily take his place in terms of reproduction. If a woman dies, one life is lost as well. But no one can take her place in terms of reproduction. So you lose out on potential life of many generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:30 PM
0

I have 0 desire to experience war. War is pointless. I’m not fighting for some rich asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:23 PM
1

Yes. If I didn’t, I wouldn’t be in a relationship with them. Or in my case now, marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:23 AM
6

Yeah if she’s for real….Feel bad for husband and boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:23 AM
2

Maybe you’re part of the problem and haven’t looked introspectively into yourself as to why the relationship with your husband isn’t as good anymore. Or maybe it’s you put more effort, more time, into your boyfriend. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:19 AM
3

Yes for a month or some defined period. But long term the relationship would start to break down if there was no valid reason for a lack of sex. Sex isn’t love. But for many it’s an important ingredient to love. Physical intimacy may not be important to you, but it is to many people, and that doesn’t devalue their love towards their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:17 AM
41

If you are in a committed relationship, it is NOT acceptable to be advertising yourself. Nor is it acceptable to seek out that advertisement.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:46 PM
3

I think the whole point of this study was to gather a shit ton of irrelevant data. Compile it to say, yep no statistical difference. Like that’s what happens when you have shit data.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 07:27 PM
2

Something something 80/20 rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 09:35 PM
2

Lol, most men do want relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 04:40 AM
3

Everyone has some level of value of what you bring to the table in a relationship. Doesn’t mean you are not treated as a person. Stop trying to polarize that fact. Those who have more value (looks, assets, personality) get better value partners. Obviously you can make up in one category to offset another. Those who don’t get lower value. This isn’t some new philosophy. This is fact. You on the other hand are obviously low value. Since you can’t get a muscular man, you don’t bring much to the tab…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 02:31 PM
5

Would you still have this kink if you didn’t have your smell penis insecure boyfriend to stick around after being bred by a bull who would leave you once impregnated? Because sorry, if you can only secure a dude with a small penis who sticks around with you cheating on them and wanting to fuck other dudes, you’re not worth a high value dude sticking around. Because you are not high value. Idealism is great until you have to face this thing called reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 06:56 AM
16

I’m mid 30’s and same. Probably more successful then 90%. But I don’t want to deal with drama. Dating sucks ass even as a good looking dude. And looks are not everything. Also my wife is my friend. I wouldn’t fuck over my friend. Maybe murder them sometimes, but that’s marriage. But being hit one time to time is a nice ego boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 02:34 AM
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2x/wk
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 04:00 AM
1

No, I used to have terrible confidence. Yet I’m above average. And I have above average looks. I just undersold myself when I was young.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:08 PM
8

As a man with quite a few partners before I married, I disagree. I never had sex for status.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:43 PM
1

Societal collapse. Be like a super nova collapsing on itself. And then it would become stable dwarf star after time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:28 AM
3

Damn it. Took my thoughts exactly lol. Or you could use a waitress, does she like me or is she just trying to make money lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:50 PM
1

Maybe if you blindfold yourself and plugged your nose. Would hate for you to have to see or smell a vagina
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:50 AM
3

Least I don’t have vaginaphobia.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:42 AM
3

It’s fine if you don’t like vagina dude. I understand you would rather penis in your mouth. Nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:45 PM
2

Yep. Trolling. I figured you were just fishing with your other comment. You got me hook, line, sinker.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:30 PM
2

Nope. Offended there’s someone stupid enough how to please a girl, and try to tell people that oral on a woman is somehow indicative of someone’s personality. The metal gymnastics by you is astounding
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:37 PM
2

I’m not the one who thinks a guy going down on a girl is a beta. Stupidity would appear to suit you better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:40 PM
2

If that was the case you wouldn’t be asking how to please a girl. Ashamed of body count smh lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:37 PM
2

My point is, you’re young. You’re not confident. You’re not a stud. Asking that is counter to those things. But I’ll throw you a bone. It’s not submissive to perform oral on your lover. Maybe you see the act as so. And ok. I can give you that. But it doesn’t define your personality. It doesn’t make you a submissive and her a dominant. Your failure to see that, your questioning, and your thought process around that, its mind boggling and tells me you lack confidence and experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:33 PM
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Lol. 95% of dudes who say they have multiple girls on hand…don’t. I’m probably older then you stud. But I’ve had my time. But if you’re so alpha explain the below. Because a dominant, confident guy who knows what he’s doing doesn’t need to ask this shit. Asking how to please GF lol 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:25 PM
7

I’ll take shit that never happened for $500 Alex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:39 PM
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Lol. Don’t worry. You’ll never be propositioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:26 AM
1

E. Male. The rest can be provided by a good friend. But the rest are also necessary for a good relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 04:56 AM
1

Pshh you don’t have a very good friend group
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 11:52 PM
1

I would agree, but it’s personal preference. I can’t force anyone, no more can they force me to like it. Long nails, IMO look tacky. But that could be the food safety professional in me. So I’m biased
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:48 AM
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Yes, so do you. If I took a microbiological swab of your overgrown pit, you’d see more growth in a CFU/g basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:46 AM
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Good bot
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:44 AM
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you’re There would have to be lesions on both partners. Skin is an excellent barrier to disease. There’s a reason why condoms prevent STD’s…… Shaved can mean hair is shaved with an electric shaver which doesn’t potentially cut skin causing lesions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:44 AM
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I can’t with you. I trim extremely close. That gets rid of 95% of hair. It’s a reduction. Stop acting like you dropped out of high school. Your ignorance is killing me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:40 AM
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I’ve been there, not with scissors but with electric razors, not fun at all and bleeds a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:38 AM
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Anus has a lot of nerve ending. While I’m not a fan of rimming, it’s pretty self explanatory why people like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:37 AM
1

Not only do you not understand physics, you also generalize sexual acts to sexual preference even when in a heterosexual relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:36 AM
2

Long nails are unhygienic as well as they provide a harborage point for bacteria. They create niches and hence why long nails are an example of poor GMP’s in food manufacturing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:35 AM
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I trim to reduce surface are which thus reduces the rate of bacterial growth from moisture and sebum produced by the body all the time. And this trimming thus reduces odor transmission as well. Trimming is more hygienic. This is fact, not theory. Bacteria need surface area. Vaporization of smells require surface area. Hair provides surface area more of it. Logic
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:31 AM
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I’m glad you have no real rebuttal. Glands produce sweat and secretions throughout the day. Are you showering 24 hours a day?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:28 AM
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LOL. I said non pseudoscience. That means scientific literature. Lol prevention of STI’s. It is not a barrier. A barrier is not porous. It talks about hair being a buffer on the outside, yes because STI’s are transmitted from outside your vagina….right… No STI’s generally occur through absorption by mucus membranes. Ie your vagina. Which is on the inside. Not outside. It’s not skin. This is a scientific study. this is an actual study.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:27 AM
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Bodily hair literally gives more surface are for bacteria to grow and propagate. Hair also gives more surface are for smells to propagate. Which is why we potentially have hair in those places to propagate pheromones. But that’s not really applicable to todays society. Instead underarm hair and pubic hair just serves as a way to spread your BO. Please link non pseudoscience to support your claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:16 AM
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Women like men with confidence. Who take charge. Who aren’t pushovers. Turns out assholes have those personality traits. But having those personality traits doesn’t make you an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:31 PM
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No. My interest is not determined by sex. But back in the days I would have sex whether interested or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 02:24 AM
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Hey, a sheppey is English. And Planck is German.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:26 PM
0

Good bot
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:23 PM
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Why are parents willing to die for their kids? Some things run deeper then self preservation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:49 PM
1

I would say I was top 20, and probably before marriage something like 20ish.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 01:39 PM
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I’ve worked in manufacturing now for 14 years. It’s heavily male dominated. I have never seen a women paid less for the same job. But overall women do gravitate towards certain positions that do pay less. But in those positions the males are paid less too. I think the wage gap is bullshit. There may be a few shit companies few and far between, but it’s cheaper to not have a lawsuit and negative limelight. We have to deal with regulatory audits that look over pay and our workforce. We have custom…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 01:19 PM
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He was laughing, then he knew his wife would be pissed at his laughing, so he felt he needed to do something. Not alpha behavior at all. But lack of self confidence and simp behavior. Lets not forget Will is also a third of a food higher and heavier. He wouldn’t have tried that shit on someone bigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:28 PM
1

Good genes, perfect for reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 05:01 PM
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Don’t worry 20 ish dudes. I’m 35, married, don’t need that young drama. Have at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:57 AM
3

Ive been good looking, but prior to 24-25, I didn’t know it. But a had a few relationships. My first one wasn’t healthy and didn’t really establish my confidence. That was my fault. My lack of confidence destroyed my 2nd. And then my third I discovered it, and then broke that off and man-whored myself for a year or two to get experience and more confidence. After that, it gets boring after a while. Always chasing tail. So I settled down.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:32 AM
0

I’m 35. 2 kids. Work. Tons of hobbies. Don’t need sex all the time. Nor want it all the time. I don’t have 3-5 hours a week to have sex everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:26 AM
0

Even as a guy, I feel once a day is too much. I’d rather 1-2x per week
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:53 PM
1

Do what you want, but know there are fairly common long term pain issues with vasectomies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:40 PM
0

No. But infidelity can be an indication of systemic issues on both partners sides even if only one is cheating. Cheating is a symptom of a relationship problem which is commonly two sided.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:01 PM
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No I’m not going to do a FDA unapproved procedure not in my own country. And no I don’t trust Indian medicine over US
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:54 PM
1

Cool. 2 wrongs don’t make a right. I wouldn’t volunteer for any studies. So if there’s no volunteers progress won’t happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:46 PM
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Apparently not rigorous enough. Probably needs US based clinical trials. FDA is present strict on acceptance of meds and procedures
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:45 PM
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Well you also need volunteers for fda approvals. I’m not going to volunteer until I know the risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:03 PM
4

Unfortunately there’s no good contraceptives for men past condoms or sterilization that has more morbidities then we are told.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:52 AM
1

Plenty of people on Reddit who aren’t ogres.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:19 PM
2

Because of her attitude and hypocrisy. Not that hard to be 8-10 being 6ft and in good shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:10 PM
1

Neither honestly but if had to choose I guess 1
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:54 PM
4

Whether or not you give the bouncer a quick handie
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:48 AM
1

A few pounds ok, enough weight to affect your health and lifestyle? You better get help or I’m out
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:25 AM
2

I would say I’ve begun to emotionally cheat at one point nearly physically cheating, but never have. I also don’t frequent strip clubs. Maybe once in a blue moon with friends or bachelors. So total gone to like 3-4 strip clubs in my 36 years alive. The dudes who frequent strip clubs probably have a different take on relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:57 PM
2

Food is just food. Doesn’t matter if it’s Michelin star restaurant that my partner saved up for months to make a very special occasion…..or 3 day old food thrown out in the dumpster from that shady truck stop. You still get the nutrition your body needs….
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:30 PM
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There is no gay. It’s just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:21 PM
50

Someone to annoy for the rest of my life
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:24 AM
1

I had 15-20 by marriage and I feel like I man-whored around a little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 03:45 PM
1

Be down to earth, have goals, be moderately attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 09:54 AM
1

Sure you’re not a “nice guy”?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:03 AM
0

Yes, all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:18 AM
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You need sex for a healthy relationship where at least one of the partners values sex as his/her way of showing love/affection. You don’t need relationships to live. But you need sex in a good relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 02:56 AM
1

Well I’m confident about my body and abilities, so sure, I’d be fine. I don’t know if I’d feel the same if I wasn’t confident. But if it was an addiction then I wouldn’t be fine
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 02:03 AM
2

Well I’m confident about my body and abilities, so sure, I’d be fine. I don’t know if I’d feel the same if I wasn’t confident. But if it was an addiction then I wouldn’t be dine
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 02:02 AM
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Just because a guy doesn’t want to be friends with you doesn’t mean he doesn’t respect you. You’re taking that truth as a personal attack on you and then somehow turning that into your viewpoint. I never had many friends who were girls because they were never into the same hobbies as I was. And I want friends who want to do the same things as I do. I still would befriend anybody. In a relationship, that requirement isn’t the same. And gasp!!!! Men catch feeling for women. Women do as well. I’ve …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:35 AM
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I would fuck short women back in the days, but I ain’t procreating with them. I want a big family.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 02:34 AM
1

I’m like an 8 as a dude or was should I say. Hot if not said higher, but I’m more subjective. So as top 20% percentile as a male, I still found it hard to fulfill sexual needs. It took a lot of work, and generally settling for lower looks then myself. Any, even less then average, can get sex in one night which carries emotional fulfillment as well with little effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 01:16 AM
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I think everything would be fine, but STI’s would be more prevalent
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 05:54 PM
1

I definitely had mine about 24-27 as a dude. I needed it. Probably had over 20 sexual partners over my lifetime with 75% in the span of a few years. But it gets old. Chasing tail even as a good looking guy is a lot of work, and not very fulfilling. But it was necessary I feel like for me to get to where I am. Unfortunately not everyone is as lucky as me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 12:07 AM
2

Wow, that is cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 05:30 AM
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It’s no different then women wearing makeup or using hair extensions etc. Unfortunately for those who have male pattern baldness, there is a stigma of using a wig or toupee Just another double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 03:21 AM
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I don’t necessarily think promiscuous women have low self esteem. But low self worth which can equate to low self esteem. But I’m sure there’s some exceptions. The same can be true of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 12:00 AM
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Wait a second, you’re telling me they don’t get off by blowing your load on their face?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 10:22 PM
1

This is a little too dystopian for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:54 PM
1

This
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:28 PM
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Short women are fun to fuck around with, but I wouldn’t procreate with someone significantly shorter then I. I don’t want my sons to be small.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 07:42 AM
2

I’m male. I find any standards acceptable that women may have. Except double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 07:39 AM
2

What needs to be taken seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 06:27 PM
3

Lolololol. Look at the chart and tell me there’s a correlation. Also I’m ASQ certified as a black belt in statistics (real thing, not a Dwight thing lol). This study has holes in it everywhere. And improper analysis. Hell didn’t even do say groupings and do a t test between means, no ANOVA, nothing besides multi variable regression. And not only that, it’s pretty clear there’s some outliers that are driving the regression. Which is probably due to a small portion of rich, ugly old dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 06:23 PM
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Cheesecake Factory. I don’t like restaurants like Cheesecake Factory. There’s just too many damn selections. But I’d take going to Cheesecake Factory over no food at all or scraps that fall onto the floor.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 04:03 PM
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I love my wife. But children will absolutely show any faults. But they shouldn’t change how you feel about your partner. They will stress parents, and that may bring out the worst in a person. We make time for ourselves. We come first. We ensure the needs of our children are met. But we do not sacrifice our lives to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 08:52 PM
2

Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 02:51 AM
1

And you’ve proven mine. Thank you. We’re both right.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 02:48 AM
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I’m not trying to win. You state circumstance matters most when other variables are held constant. My argument is you can’t hold that variable a constant because it is a very important factor why a woman will sleep with one man quickly over another. You totally gloss over that in the OP. I’ve made my point, nothing more to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 02:45 AM
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Exactly you held one extremely important factor constant to make your point, which I’m arguing is a lesser factor. It’s easy to win a bad hand of cards if you get to say a flush, straight, 2/3 of a kind, etc are all irrelevant. Which is exactly what you’re doing. Attractiveness > circumstance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 02:41 AM
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You just stated ugly men struggle with attracting women at all. Never in your reply or OP say attractiveness has nothing to do with timeframe of a sexual encounter. You choose to keep that variable static in your argument. And then your argument becomes true. Because you held a huge variable to be constant. That’s my argument. Look differential> circumstances. While your argue look differential = same so circumstances matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 02:20 AM
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I agree. But you can’t discount what attractiveness brings to the table for a lot of men and women in terms of timeliness to start a sexual encounter or relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 02:16 AM
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I’m not discounting your anecdotal evidence or mine. Just providing a different viewpoint. My 30+ experiences (not all sexual) isn’t quite a statistical sound number, nor did I compile and rank data. But for me, it’s enough. Women are much more likely to sleep with a man who is significantly hotter, quicker, regardless of circumstance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 02:09 AM
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Just saying my personal experience wasn’t the environment that played the bigger factor, but the difference in attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 01:55 AM
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As a good looking dude when I was dating, well still am...circumstances did play a role, but when I was the significantly better looking, so much so that I wasn’t interested in a LTR, I found hookups happened waaay more frequently. Whether or not the women sensed that and just wanted to take advantage of sleeping with a much better looking dude, idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 01:50 AM
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3 leg chairs are superior. Never a wobble. But no one seems to want 3 leg chairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 02:19 PM
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Yes getting out and meeting people starting to form friendships and relationships is more successful then not doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 06:14 PM
1

Lol. Maybe it’s not your assertive attitude that gets you labeled as a bitch. But maybe your sarcasm and inability to effectively argue by belittling someone else’s viewpoint as mansplaining. But I guess that’s mansplaining as well. Dang.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 04:28 PM
1

It’s not respectable. In a real organization that values leadership, they don’t get as far. In a workplace with toxic cultures, ok they can probably rise up. Asshole managers =/= leaders. Sorry you don’t understand the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 02:37 PM
1

And assertive men are assholes in the business world.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 12:00 PM
1

No. Most real men want an independent woman who is loyal, and loves him to the moon.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 02:01 AM
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He wants to put something else in your mouth, he just doesn’t want to admit it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 09:47 PM
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It was also easier to label him as gay since the public only wanted to consider that HIV/AIDS is a gay disease. A stigma that still exists to this day.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 09:44 PM
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“Normal men” most high value dudes are not apes and are intelligent, and not put off by intelligent women. Which most high value women are also intelligent. And at minimum intelligent enough to know they can get an intelligent man, who’s also attractive if they themselves are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 02:02 PM
1

Hence why it’s not gay if there’s no eye contact.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 01:15 AM
0

Who cares. I have high n-count. Yet no std’s. I’m not fucked in the head. Who gives a damn about my ego when I’m ***** deep. Not as big of a deal, can find another woman. Uh, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 05:24 AM
2

Women like a challenge. A man in a relationship is a challenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 11:09 PM
2

Lose weight for yourself. But it can be a challenge. Find an activity you like to do. Cut back a little. But yes, you should get luckier since you’ll approve your attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 01:20 PM
2

As a male, I wouldn’t want a short girl, or unattractive partner. Men choose as well as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 01:16 AM
1

I’ve dated a woman who was 5’11-6ft for a few years. I’m 5’10”. Might be an exception, but just throwing it out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 07:08 PM
1

Yes. But laws should also play into at fault marriages and potential loss of rights to alimony, assets, and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 05:03 AM
1

They are insane. Generally without a help network they need to be able to solve their problems, and so they turn to murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:51 PM
4

Well good luck. I feel that demand will be the hardest to achieve. Other items in your list are pretty easy for most good men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:42 PM
2

I guess I can only speak for myself. I maybe watch porn 1x per week, for maybe half an hour. Hasn’t altered my perceptions right what women should be or sex should be. Maybe in the UK there’s less to do, but I’d rather be partaking in my hobbies then spending hours, days, to the extent of addiction. Porn is sometimes just a means to an end for some.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:01 PM
9

So 90% of men have an addiction to porn? You seem to spew a crap ton of generics and make broad over generalizations. But ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 07:26 PM
1

There is nothing unfair about the way women treat men or men treat women within legal boundaries. Everybody is self serving.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 04:55 PM
2

I like a woman with a penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:39 AM
5

I agree. But they are poor gf material, and most confident men sooner or later will see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 12:54 AM
1

That takes too much work. Don’t waste energy on uninterested women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 12:52 AM
5

It’s more of they are emotionally shallow and crave attention from anywhere they can get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 12:51 AM
1

I’ve never liked dating attention whores in my past. But they had their use.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 12:47 AM
1

Count me in!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 12:30 AM
0

Only if there is undeniable proof. Heresay doesn’t count.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 10:51 PM
0

It’s not their job to leave you scraps. If women want to get fuck zoned that’s on them. Sooner or later they’ll figure out that these dudes are not out for relationships with a girl who’s much lower on the scale of looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 04:46 PM
1

So insane, and psychopathic. Makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 01:47 AM
0

Has nothing to do with past. When some women are shooting leagues above your own, and knowing men with sleep with much less attractive women without a chance of a relationship...well. I’m guilty of doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 11:52 PM
1

Stop. You’re being dumb right now. Everyone has their preferences. Most guys smell perfectly acceptable and good.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 02:24 AM
1

Hell a man can’t even be bi without stigma, but women can. Men are supposed to be strong and ultra masculine. Trans is not that. And overall male or female, there’s a lot of stigma against trans culture. I don’t know why this is a surprise. Personally whatever floats your boat Also just because you don’t dress feminine doesn’t mean you’re yucky or smelly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 02:21 AM
0

No thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 03:09 PM
4

If you’re that worried what a woman did before you, it’s time to move on. Or change your perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 01:36 PM
2

One is a physical need, masturbation. The need to scratch an itch. The other is emotional. One can be excused, the other shows a shallow, vapid person who really has no self worth except for what society assigns to them. I mean what, masturbation takes like 20 minutes max out of my week. And I’m pretty sure as hell those who masturbate don’t assign their self worth by it. Attention whores are thriving on attention for many hours during the week, so much so that it consumes them. It gives them an…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 05:36 AM
1

Yeah I was, but yolo.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 09:02 PM
0

Wooo!! Guess that’s good news for me back when I was dating. Rarely used a condom, because they let me. I was so reckless. But luckily came out unscathed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 08:49 PM
5

Who cares about n count. All I care is that we are compatible. I never ask, but I’m sure there’s some data to the correlation of my successful relationships. B
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 02:59 PM
9

So uh, you want to maybe go calculate some fluid dynamics of compressible fluids using navier stokes equations later? Or maybe just some mass balances to keep it simple?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 06:58 AM
0

Height doesn’t matter, I’ve dated 4’11 to 5’11. Like Dwight though, I want a big family. I don’t want short kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 01:35 AM
1

When I was single, in all cases, because it was available. And easy. Never has been desperation. Just one of those, why not? And I never considered any of them ugly. Not on the same level as me. I wouldn’t have sex with someone I was repulsed by.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 10:52 PM
1

Try doxylamine succinate, OTC. Brand name Unisom. But generic can be found as well. Some market two different types, some are diphenhydramine HCl, Benedryl, which does nothing for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 01:27 PM
1

That’s because Chinese people murdered female infants, this is common knowledge, except to idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 12:34 AM
1

I’m a guy, I had a lot of fun being promiscuous, but at some point it’s too much work for too little fun. Maybe for a woman it might be different since it’s easier to get. But you do you, who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 10:01 PM
1

Semen is pretty distinctive. Either he’s stupid, or he loved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 09:58 PM
3

Yeah, that would be better then fucking throwing it into the ocean over a dead week fling.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 12:32 AM
9

I don’t care about that. BUT...she fucking threw what would be a 2-300 MILLION dollar necklace into the sea. It’s cool, you could have auctioned it off and used the proceeds to feed hungry children. Or even buy some putang for the thirsty incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 07:29 PM
1

Ok, let me know when you change the world when you grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 04:27 PM
1

You can’t change what other people do, all you have is your own actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 01:49 PM
1

When it comes to one night stands, I never was very selective. Guess I never knew I was really being diverse and giving and not oppressing anybody. Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 04:23 AM
6

I think of that we’re the case it might actually be more enjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 02:16 AM
3

Well, she could drop out of the industry....but then the gravy train would stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 11:26 PM
8

I’ve tried it 3 times in my life, 1 unsuccessfully. 1 messy, 1 successful. It’s ok, but honestly doesn’t feel as good. Plus she’s just not generally enjoying it. For me, the only fun was the novelty.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 11:24 PM
1

This is about the dumbest thing I’ve read today. You seem to infer that commitment somehow vastly changes the dynamic of good women and good men in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 02:36 PM
0

I’m a hmv, married as well. I would never accept the trash they try to peddle when I was dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 06:07 PM
3

Don’t really care as long as it’s within fairly normal bounds. Who cares, does she love me? Care about me? Chooses to be my life partner through thick and thin?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 10:58 PM
3

Who the hell are you speaking for? It’s definitely a crime. A terrible one at that. But it’s a crime that can be tough to prove sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 03:40 PM
6

Does sexual history really have much bearing? Not really. It probably cannot be introduced unless there’s a damn good reason. Why would a promiscuous women not allege all the other times she had sex with other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 03:37 PM
3

You may be correct as a lot of problems are based upon sexual attraction of men. But trying to change evolution...is not really possible. And men are not going to take a libido decreased willingly. Just won’t happen. Not by consent, law, or under threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 01:51 AM
2

Lol thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 05:45 PM
9

Grilling the perfect steak while wearing grass stained New Balances and drinking a Corona or Miller Highlife
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 02:45 PM
3

Lol. That’s quite a broad brush to stroke me with. And others. Anyways I’ve always done 95% of cooking. Do my own laundry, and tidy up after myself, etc, etc. I’m independent. I’m not looking for someone to take care of me. Plenty of guys are in the same boat. Your experiences may differ.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 06:00 PM
2

If you view marriage as the end goal, sure I guess. But relationships with different people through your life before you get to marriage give you many life experiences, different perspectives, and self learnings. Every relationship solidified who I am. None were failures as they contributed to my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 05:36 PM
2

I was approached by women. It’s awesome because it doesn’t happen often, and at least it’s a compliment that you’re desired. Sometimes it sucks to turn people down, but that dating. Also my wife approached me in the world of online dating, sent me a message. Not sure if that’s perceived different since I already put myself out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 05:31 PM
2

A relationship doesn’t always or need to turn to marriage. You can’t predict the outcome based on a variable such as what sex makes the first move.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 05:17 PM
1

Lol. You know people do look for companionship and love in the other sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 02:33 PM
2

I honestly believe that men who want virgins are more likely to see women as possessions. No one wants a second hand fleshlight.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 10:51 PM
1

Everyone has the freedom and opinion to live life the way they want to. But what’s the reward for you? For not?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 09:53 PM
-1

If someone needs that to feel “special”, they really need some hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 09:52 PM
1

He lives in fantasy land. Who cares if a women is a virgin or not. It’s the most asinine thing to care about unless you’re deeply religious. Which is also asinine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 09:44 PM
-1

Physical attraction only goes so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 09:41 PM
-1

Why does it matter if someone is a virgin or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 09:41 PM
0

Ramen noodles can sustain a person. Wouldn’t be my choice to live that way. Life is too short, sometimes unexpectedly so, why would I invert reward/risk? For some idealistic fantasy? No. Plus then not only are you not rewarding yourself and living a fulfilling relationship, you’re also going into something as serious as a marriage blind. Sex is an important pillar of marriage and any relationship. And if both partners aren’t on the same page it will fail. May not necessarily fail in a divorce, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 09:38 PM
0

100% no. Sexuality is a large part of who we are. It falls under affection. If affection isn’t important to a marriage, then IDK.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 07:30 PM
1

I would say neutral. I guess there’s a minority that would care. But generally I’ve only been asked that a couple times. And it didn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 09:47 PM
5

I’m a guy who’s definitely been with around 15-20, I was definitely a man whore. I was not a good person. Instead of productive hobbies, it was alcohol and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 08:31 PM
1

You lose the hormonal rush over time. But the incentive to have a lifetime partner is generally worth it. Sex is still nice and desired. I’ve already had tons of partners experienced many sex acts, some I’m not proud of lol. But that gets boring too. Sharing hobbies and challenges with someone is more fulfilling. Would it be nice to have my cake and eat it too? Sure but that isn’t quite possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 06:42 PM
1

Generally women don’t share my hobbies. I can find what I want in a guy friend. I’ve had female friends, but has always been attached to a group of friends who partake in a hobby. For me, why add potential drama to a marriage by hanging out with a female that there could be sexual attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 01:24 PM
3

You could probably further go on that women who change their sexual habits based on partners are probably toxic anyways and have little in the way to offer a relationship besides sexual satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 01:24 AM
2

I think what bothers some people is the female before was willing to be more submissive and freely take on sexual acts. And with someone who isn’t as dominant they are not as submissive. I can see how that can be troublesome. But at the end of the day you can either leave or deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 11:55 PM
-1

I guess in 3.5 more years my life is going to fall apart. My dick won’t work, wrinkles, I’ll be balding. And worst of all I’ll be pregnant. There is truth to the graph, however it is exaggerated by like 10-15 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 12:37 AM
3

Exactly. But I did end my chase with marriage. Which has many benefits if you have a good partner. But most of the time I’m building mountain bikes, or riding them, or cycling, or my side business, working on the house, catching sun in the pool, etc. I’m more content then I ever was chasing and banging women in my 20s. And I look better, have more assets, more money. My SMV is higher then it was back then. My outlook changed. You’re not an exception to the rule as OP thinks, and neither am I. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 02:50 PM
4

I’m 34, still in decent shape, although I could get in better shape in a month. Not bald, just as high of drive. And I look better overall. I now have money too. I played the field. That game gets boring and old. It’s a lot of work, and it’s not very rewarding. I’d rather be married, have a healthy relationship, and have my hobbies, save money, grill some burgers, cut my grass, etc. I just got smarter that’s all. Not less attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 12:52 PM
1

I’m not going to demonize anyone’s preference. Everybody has a right to their preferences in a partner. However one physical trait is controllable, one is not. To belittle someone on height is different then belittling someone on their weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 04:23 PM
8

It does matter, I mean I’ve been with around 20+women. And even a couple gay encounters. But most of it was in a few year period of me finding myself and my repressed sexuality. But then it died down to a few committed relationships until I found my wife. So yes context of the sexual relationships matter because it can show where you currently are in life. At one point I was not date-able material as a guy. I was a drunk, partier, who was actually depressed and lacking self confidence (even thou…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 02:48 AM
20

I expect my partner to be loyal and devoted to the relationship. However if she’s been through 30 guys in the past couple years, that’s a red flag. I expect a reasonable n count for myself and anybody else
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 02:13 AM
2

While out of everyone I’ve dated, a women hasn’t come close to my strength. I’m no He-man, but I’m not weak. I’m average at 5’10, 190lbs. I would have no issue with the ego part. However don’t like really muscular girls. I’d rather them softer. I have dated taller girls, no issues there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 12:24 AM
1

We are compatible. She is attractive to me. She is loyal. Not a lot to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 02:27 AM
1

Nothing. I was a low self esteem man. I aimed to please. And I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 04:07 AM
2

I don’t correlate sex with respect. Nor any act, well there may be some acts off limits due to decency/sanitation. But has nothing to do with respect. If you can’t be in a submissive sexual position for fear of somehow being inferior, then you are dumb. Same with the inverse. In a healthy relationship you should be in dominant and submissive positions and acts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 02:04 PM
4

Based on my own experience, 10 years ago I used to be a 7-8. Would bang pretty far down on the scale. I was in a place of no self confidence, drinking too much, and was wreck-less. But commitment was different. It would take a lot more. I’m still in the camp women can much more easily then a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 03:02 AM
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If a female is having gratuitous sex, basically what I see is a female starved for attention. She can’t get enough male attention, and uses sex to get the attention. To me this shows she’s a loser without anything besides attention from males to make her life complete. No fulfillment from job, friends, no hobbies. Unless you consider taking every dick you find a hobby. So instead of bettering herself, instead of finding herself and making herself a viable long term relationship material because …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 01:17 PM
0

How is hate especially hateful when aimed towards women? Hate is hate. Women are equal. It’s no more hateful to hate women then some other group.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 02:04 PM
1

Way to ignore the last part. Sex isn’t part of the equation unless a girl plans on holding out for a long time. But I’m speaking of myself in my mid 20’s. Or what I would do now. I don’t date anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 10:05 PM
1

Hey I like a bit of a challenge. Typically though anyone I’ve had sex with on the first date hasn’t lasted. But it wasn’t because they gave it up. They had character flaws (or incompatibilities with me). But c’est la vie
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 08:24 PM
1

Wrong, but it’s a coin flip to whether or not I ghost her or think of her as relationship material. Depends on the personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 08:22 PM
1

I never cared for a virgin, or cared too much about their past. But I don’t want to see a past of risky behavior, too many sexual liaisons, ect. To me that screams you’re a whore, and the only fulfillment you find in life is gratification in sexual attention given by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 04:16 AM
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Lol, a chick can make me wait 3 months like it’s high school, all the while I’m out banging others and then forming a relationship with someone else. Not saying to give it up first couple of dates, but 3months lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 03:16 AM
1

Men don’t need women either lol. Relationships are not for needing. But wanting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 03:14 AM
2

I’m sorry. Semen has a pretty distinctive taste. I’ll go down on a girl after I’ve cum, not afraid of my own bodily fluids. But if I happenstanced upon someone else’s while going down, rage city.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 04:01 PM
1

I’m not saying race doesn’t matter to some, to me it doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 03:01 PM
0

Nothing wrong with confidence, but all too often confidence is arrogance. Race doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 01:01 PM
3

Sounds like you’re trash. Nothing special.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 12:41 PM
14

Don’t act like it hasn’t happened to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 03:58 AM
78

This happened to me and my ex gf once. Then I showed her how it’s done on her penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 01:50 AM
1

Life finds a way
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 03:49 PM
1

Are you being sarcastic, or really this dumb?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 01:54 PM
1

How do you think the human race became the dominant primate? Neanderthals were a different species, and we fucked them out of existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:51 AM
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