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If he's going to wife you, he's going to make you fat so you don't leave him. So don't worry about a potential guy losing interest in you because of a small population of weirdos on the internet who say otherwise.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/25 10:37 PM
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After having a baby, doing the "keeping his balls drained" part may not be possible for up to a year or so. Our hormones are so out of whack, some of us just aren't interested in sex at all. A man who wants a family HAS to be patient and understanding, as well.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/25 10:35 PM
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I am damaged myself and so I attract other damaged people. There's only so much I can take, though. If people can't have access to therapy for one reason or another, I highly recommend shroom trips by oneself for deep emotional issues. It'll bring out a lot. Seriously not cool of her to do that constantly. Of course you would be bothered hearing weird, specific, intimate details. It's not insecure of you at all to speak up against it. When you're with someone I think you should be present for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:16 AM
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I agree, they should! Like I said I tried to help the one guy as much as I could but he was still having problems. Some people are too far gone and beyond the reach of everyday people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 08:18 PM
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I had an ex bf that wanted me to be his therapist and it was very draining, to say the least. He had a lot of problems, and I did my best to fix them. But it was never enough, he still clung to his addictions and our relationship went south. Hurt people hurt people. I have trauma from that relationship. I advised him to get help so many times, but he didn't want to. Always made excuses. His behavior got worse. When we broke up I blocked his number, but he could leave me voicemails. He left me nu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:55 PM
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I feel like they don't need to unless for a reason, say like their behavior now is influenced from their past experiences, which is fine. (Like trauma) But if I have to hear how their ex gf of 10 years had a "really big ass" and how she had an abortion, I will assume he is damaged and missing her. This happened on a 2nd date for me, and I don't have a "really big ass". I know abortions can be emotionally damaging to men. 10 years is a long time with someone. He wasn't focused on the now too much…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:42 PM
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Well, I am from the middle of nowhere so I don't really have access to those things like regular people do. My bf is happy to make me happy. There's an In-n-out like 2 minutes from where he lives, in-n-out for me is like an hour away. So I love getting a burger with him when I am down there. We both love ramen, sushi, and pho so we'll go out and eat that from time to time. We're having a kid also, so museums and zoos are essential. I love to see him geek out over the critters and I can see that …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:31 PM
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My bf and I do everything together. He works 60 hrs a week and when he has time off, we always spend it together. He's always happy to do whatever I want to do, he's just happy to be around me. We go to the beach, movies, aquariums, zoos, see edm sets, restaurants, eat at home, play uno together, target/walmart/costco dates, do yard work together even lol. He has his gym time or goes for runs and I'm like nahhh, I'll sleep. Though I think he would love it if I went with him. People who say stuff…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:09 PM
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men using the date as therapy. Ughh I've had this happen so many times. A lot of men are not over their last and instead of going to an actual therapist, they use their dates as one. It's not fair to someone looking to date with purpose and wanting a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 11:41 AM
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You can lose the weight. I'm average looking as they come in a committed relationship and I have seen "ugly" looking people married with kids. They're almost always with people that match them on the physical attractiveness scale. The 1000 lb sisters have boyfriends or partners. If a 600lb woman can have a partner, I'm sure you can also.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/24 10:37 PM
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Block him
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/24 07:19 AM
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"The wall" lol. You can have babies age 30 and up.. my friend had her 2nd daughter at age 33 with no issues. My friend ain't ugly or anything, either. You will not prune up and turn into a hag at 30. Quit overthinking your life so hard.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/24 05:57 AM
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I met my long-term bf at a rave. We have an oops baby on the way, I quit my job due to stress, and he has been providing for me. Not only that, he is very supportive in other ways. All the ways. He always says to me that he wants to be a provide a positive impact to my life. We met at a new year's rave, and we were both inebriated. He was already following me on Instagram and never met me before that rave, but I posted what I was wearing, and he said he saw me walking by. He said he fell in love…
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/24 09:22 AM
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Girl, I don't make much at all. 15.75 an hour working in a restaurant. But I am passionate about my job, I give a fuck about the place that I work at. I work hard. But my job isn't my life-- I have other interests, passions, and hobbies. I would hate it if a guy tried to take me away from those things, and have me be more about my job. Like, no. Fat women have sex and get married, yes. But they're not the majority of what the general population wants. No one's saying that they don't get married,…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:15 AM
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My mom has always told me that the right man won't care what my job is. She is a boomer korean woman, not a red pilled guy on the internet. Several people agree with her, who are also older and from a traditional background. Me personally I know a lot, A LOT of women who were either not working at all, or doing some lowkey job (retail, fast food), and are in relationships, or are married with kids. Simply this-- someone found them attractive and made moves to keep them forever. I'm single at the…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:08 AM
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I've noticed this, too. Pickme vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:58 AM
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OP, if a lady is ugly, men don't want her. Simple. The hot cashier at Wendy's will attract more men than the ugly fat civil engineer making 6 figures.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:58 AM
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I work in a restaurant and honestly I'm so grateful for it. I'm not a cook technically, but I've learned so much rad stuff from the cooks! I know my future man will be grateful, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:55 AM
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The first one, because it kinda sounds like me.. except I like to look good, I'm just not the tidiest lady lol. I hate cleaning tbh, I have to do it at my job, I'm lazy in that regard. But yes I'm dropping my money on beauty products and some fashion! BTW I am friends with, and know of, lots of other pretty/hot women, and we ALL have messy living quarters. I wonder what the correlation is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:30 PM
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I'm 27 and I'm open to men 10 years older than me. I think the older you get, it's not as bad. Like no one says anything if a 40 yr old lady is dating a 50 or 60 yr old man. It's only when you're 19 and the guy is 50, that it raises suspicion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:22 PM
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What happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:42 AM
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Some women will not give a damn. I was head over heels for this one guy with a teeny tiny weiner, I mean he had gorgeous features, but he didn't want a relationship. I was chasing after him hoping he would. We hooked up, I saw no issue with his weenie because again, I thought he was gorgeous, but he didn't want to try to get to know me. 🤷🏻‍♀️ If a woman comes your way I think you ought to be grateful.. because you may be single for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 11:57 PM
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I'm 100% down to be a stepmom, especially if it means I can keep my youthful body and looks. Super nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 09:13 AM
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Men flirt with all females that work in retail
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:18 AM
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Gamers, geeks, nerds, etc yea I had no problem reeling those in but I've had those sort of men in the past and it's not ideal for what I want. My SO is country and wanted a housewife, he's a provider and is an overall good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 03:16 AM
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Retired military and mine workers is what lived where I lived
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 03:00 AM
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That's what I've read but I didn't experience that when I was living amongst "country" people in CA
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 03:00 AM
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Bakersfield is just Mexico now if white people there are preferring their own kind I don't blame them. Like I said down here in AL it's mostly white so the men here seem more open to dating POC, given if we're pretty, obviously if we're fat or something probably not so open. Over in Cali the white "chads" or whatever weren't biting when I was trying to date, they wanted white girls. I lived in east Kern, but when I went to victorville or a bigger town they were biting. They weren't country thoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 09:29 PM
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Being ripped helps but it's not required. A man can have a belly if the rest of him is strong and muscled (not necessarily toned).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 08:25 PM
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Well in kern county they're sure not interested. When I was working in a small town only the old dudes would show interest, otherwise the younger millennial country men weren't interested. There was only like 3 or 4 asian girls in the town I was in, with me included. Then in Tehachapi, if you know it, that's like pro-white republican central with wannabe country people, I hardly seen any asian girls with white guys there. Only time I'd see the pairing more frequently is when I'd go to bigger cit…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 08:09 PM
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I was working in a liquor store when my SO walked in one day and asked for my number. I would not date or flirt with my co-workers, ew. I'm low value as far as education and career goes, but high value in the looks department. My SO is high value 66-no 6 pack abs he's got a dad bod more like it. Very handsome though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:34 PM
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Just sharing an observation I've made. I thought for a long time country men had a strong preference for white women-- the blonde type of girl primarily. My fiance is as country as they come, we live in south Alabama from his home town now, and he doesn't mind me being half asian/half white. He met me in my state while I was working. In CA my home state the "country" men there don't like asian girls, they always chase after white girls. I just wonder why the difference in taste in women? Down he…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:14 PM
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No doubt the moms who drank and did drugs while pregnant have fucked up kids and collect their kids' disability pay for themselves. This is much more prevalent amongst low income people than middle income or higher families. I know someone who's autistic daughter gets her 1200 a month from SSI and she is using it as rent towards a house.. I do not know if that's considered acceptable or OK, I think that money is supposed to be for the child's expenses but yea. Lots of parents seem to do that. Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 04:11 AM
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I mean welfare like government assistance programs, which is what most people mean when they say "welfare". Food stamps, EBT cash, section 8, whatever else there is. When I used to work I saw low income families all the time. No doubt some of them sold drugs to get by though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:32 AM
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Yeah I would but he can't be stagnant.. well now I don't work (I quit my job so my man can provide, he wants a housewife), but when I was I was making $11 an hour lol. I would absolutely date someone who was making 10 or 9, but again it would have to have been a stepping stone to something else. I want marriage and a family before 30 (I'm 26), it would be very hard to achieve those things if my man were to forever be making 9 an hour. Lol. I suppose not impossible, welfare is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:17 AM
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Yea and it's big awkward to be around them, you can feel their tension.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:56 PM
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RPers aren't tradcons and tradcons aren't all into white Russian women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 07:07 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:55 PM
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Non-human animals don't have to deal with the stress of providing for their harem. They have their basic needs met, food and protection. This won't slide with a human harem. Yea food, a home which would be costly if it had many rooms/large property, all these women would need childcare costs covered, clothes, gifts, cars, etc. Non-human animals don't even contemplate these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:34 PM
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Yea I'd next him if he didn't want marriage. Not even a ring? I love all that symbolism. I am his and he is mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:30 PM
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What's he doing to be worshipped?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:26 PM
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Same!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:23 PM
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Same lol. I'm in a happy, committed relationship, that goes against any pill or incel complaint. I just like the mad people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:20 PM
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Ask women for their numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:22 PM
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Sounds like they're based.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:20 PM
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My SO is trad but he doesn't use manosphere lingo for it, he always just says "I'm the man". Right now he is working 5/12's and he is a welder that makes a lot.. he's a year younger than me and he makes 6 figures. I was shocked to hear it when I found out. Our relationship/marriage will work like this-- he takes care of me as long as I take care of him and we're good to eachother. I really do respect him a lot and I like doing things for him out of respect, affection, and appreciation. He said h…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:43 AM
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Dating would be easier in a city, however there is a lot more competition. I live in a small town and it's rough. No doubt. Gotta be much more selective. Redpill theory is more relevant here. A "chad" chose me and I've been told I'm in the top 3 of the hottest women here, been told I'm the prettiest. Gossip, rumors, jealousy, you don't deal with none of that in a city. If you're looking for hookups you're gonna be labeled a player or hoe and people will be wary of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 09:50 PM
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I don't care, but I may not want to be close friends with one if she has questionable morals, like say she sleeps with men that are in relationships or taken, and she doesn't try to rectify it with the other woman. Girl code comes first and I believe it must be respected. In my small town there is a "hoe group" and I don't want to be a part of it, bad for reputation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 09:01 PM
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They become the cool motorcycle uncle
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:25 PM
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Outlier here but my bf approached me, and at my job in general lots of men have asked me out or expressed interest. I know a lot of women who work in retail and they've all experienced men flirting with them (well I mean us pretty ones mostly, I can't imagine the uggier ones get as many men chatting them up). Men still approach here in the USA. Especially when a woman is pretty lol no shortage of men who will try.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:39 AM
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Good boy in the streets, bad boy in the sheets
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 11:46 PM
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No because I don't wanna be with a cynical asshole who's psychoanalysing everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 05:52 AM
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Too many introverted men on dating apps. Garbage lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 05:49 AM
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Conservatives care about looks and looking good, status quo all that, FDS legit thinks they don't need to lose weight for a man. They gon call me a pickme, but I prefer staying in shape and looking good, and I attracted a man that pays for everything. ESFJ (him) and I'm an ISFP. I think if I were 250 pounds, I'd have a hard time getting a good guy. And I'm willing to bet FDS are the kind of ladies that hate it when men have hunting or fishing pics on their dating profiles. Opposite of conservati…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 05:39 AM
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My work, me behind the counter and my bf happened to be buying beer one night. He was saying something and I asked him about his accent, where's he from, he asked if I drink beer, I told him what I drink, he asked for my number and called me later. That's how that happened. It helped that we were both attracted to eachother immediately. We hate being approached when we don't find the guy cute or attractive, but when we do find them attractive it's like WOW. Otherwise it's creepy, rude, whatever …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 12:10 AM
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I'm pretty introverted, reserved, and quiet and I haven't had much problem dating, I just don't reel in as many as my more outgoing homegirls do. I don't really want to, anyway. Quality over quantity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 11:42 PM
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My man chose me but I've come to find out that he is pretty popular in our small town and is high value or of high status, and sometimes I feel like I have to be on him extra when we're out and about, even though I know he isn't concerned with other women. I get plenty of stares from other women when we're at the bar, from moms in town wondering why he didn't choose their daughter. Legit heard a woman say "wtf is she doing here" last time him and I went and got a drink. The women are salty here …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:58 PM
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When I was single I was wondering if alternative men ever go for us soft, cute, "normal" or classy aesthetic women, because I mean alternative men can be pretty attractive but I usually only see them link up with alt girls. Or like, they only see us cute aesthetic girls as a plate, fwb, fuckbuddy. Sad. I might dress girly but I love hard rock and heavy metal, Bury Tomorrow and Slaughter To Prevail have been LIT lately. Yea we find them attractive but they need to open up their preferences and se…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:45 PM
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I do look at the man's father lol not gonna lie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 10:59 PM
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No it does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 09:42 PM
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No. I like PDA and my bf kisses me, holds me, and shows me off when we go out. I never dated someone like him and honestly it feels amazing. I couldn't imagine being with someone who wouldn't wanna show me off or let me show them off. Something must be wrong then.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 07:00 PM
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Look at men who work in trade jobs. Welders are hot and really masculine. Maybe not top 20% of men, they're not in law or medicine, it'll take them time to make 6 figures I'm sure but they're hot all the same. In the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:31 PM
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Looks attract a man initially, then personality comes into play after. And honestly it's the same for us women, too. Whoever says that's not true must be very ugly and mingles with other ugly people. Lol. (Just kidding lmao) I just started dating someone and he asked for my number while I was working, I thought "wow" when I seen him and he thought the same when he seen me. He's proud to show me off to his friends, family, and co-workers, and a big part of that is because I'm pretty. Second is my…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:37 AM
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Republican woman here who only wants a Republican man 🤣 there's no other way. You'll disagree on everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:11 PM
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Not all of us are feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 08:49 PM
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A man with manners. Simple, yet so many people (not just men) lack manners. Going to someone's house for the first time to meet their parents? BRING something!! You want to make a good impression.. flowers are like $10 and simple. Got invited to a dinner or potluck? Bring something, don't go empty handed. This rule is not just for men, it's for everyone, so if I'm going to meet a man's parents you know damn well I am bringing something. For nice dinners and get togethers, it's normal to bring ov…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 08:48 PM
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Trust me, they do NOT want a man of God and Jesus. Worst sex in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 08:22 PM
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I believe in God but I don't spread the gospel and I accept that I am probably going to hell 😂 I am also conservative. Yea its hard to find other conservatives that aren't bible thumpers. A lot are. I could care less. I have friends that are athiest as hell but lol they're chill to be around so it's cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 08:21 PM
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I love being sarcastic 🤣 it's funny as hell. Those who pick up on it also laugh, it's a win-win.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 06:27 PM
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I live in a small town and dating is very hard. I've been told I'm in the top 3 or top 5 prettiest women out here, but every time I shoot my shot I'm pretty unsuccessful. Not even for FWB lol. Status means a lot more in small towns, and if you're known as the sweet, quiet girl, nobody wants to fuck you. Out-of-towners do, but I'm not going to a hotel room to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 05:44 PM
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Since attractiveness is subjective and I am probably ugly to someone, I will answer. Yes Yes No Not necessarily, though the men I find handsome, I think they're more attractive than I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 08:34 PM
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I have a crush on a guy that I think is super hot. I was chasing him for like a month but I wasn't getting anything back.. I finally was just very blunt with him one day, asking him why he seems so uninterested, turns out he believes his penis to be small so he just doesn't chase girls. I guess he also doesn't think he is all that good looking. He's blonde, lean, has a great beard, really striking eyes, good chin/jawline, he looks like a viking. I often shock people when they ask if I'm married …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:58 AM
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I always say the only way I would date a man in his 30's is if he were cute enough. Money doesn't attract me, trust me I have guys flexing on me all the time, hoping that their income and proof of income will reel me in, that I'll say yes to going to dinner with them, but they're not very attractive so... no lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 07:33 PM
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What if you're a traditionalist yet you keep attracting egalitarian men? This has been my problem lol. Then when they get to know me they always seem so angry/irritated, and try to change my values.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 01:29 AM
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Yes older women date older men, I see old couples everywhere lol. I think it's when older women expect a cut, 6ft, 6pack abs man, that they are criticized for being too choosey, especially since MOST women in their 30's start to gain weight. That's where the wall stuff comes from I'm sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 01:26 AM
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I don't drink nor like drinking and because of it, I have very few friends my age. I have very few friends in general, due to the fact I don't like getting fucked up to have fun. So yes, you're fucked if you don't drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 01:12 AM
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Oh he was a creep I see. It's a good thing I was never a fan of his music. Please tell me Aaron Lewis isn't a creep
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 08:03 PM
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I'm talking about LTR's and marriage. The dating phase isn't much to talk about. I'm just saying that single moms are getting more men than those of us that supposedly have high SMV and RMV. It totally goes against what everyone says online. A great personality (subjective) or being really good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 08:02 PM
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Elvis? Daaaamn
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 06:56 PM
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Well that's fucked up. I need to know which musicians are pedos so I don't listen to them. I hate drake and cardi b (one grooms underage girls and the other steals from drugged men). What other scumbags to add to the list?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 06:45 PM
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By hot guys that want thick women apparently, and maybe a big family? Who knows? A single mom I am friends with who is like alternative-- piercings, tattoos, dyed hair, niche hotness, her bf is having her and her 2 sons move in with him, in a whole nother state. I know another single mom who is dating a big handsome guy, and she has a 7 yr old son. I know another single mom with a young daughter and she has had relationships with single dads and men in their 30's, and she can really pull the goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 06:40 PM
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Prehistoric men/women were hairy and looked like monkeys. Ewww
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 07:44 PM
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You say that, but IRL young single moms are snatched up quick. I have no kids but they're getting men to commit like they're not even trying, meanwhile I can't even get a date lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 06:48 PM
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Incompatibility. I'm never doing online dating again lol. Meeting a stranger, getting into a relationship, having sex, and getting to know each other along the ride is a disaster. I do not get along with everyone on a personal level, unfortunately. I'm chill a lot, pretty laid-back in most cases, but I rarely compromise, that's my toxic trait. Every time the word "compromise" came up in past relationships, it always seemed like to settle for less than what is wanted, and I don't like that. Every…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 05:44 PM
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I would date a guy that builds surfboards for a living 🤣 I feel like a harvard guy would be kinda snobbish, not interested in people who think they're better than everyone else. If someone wants to date someone like that, it's because they're also a snobby bastard, them snobby bastards can have eachother. More lowkey, humble men for the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 05:24 PM
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If I got pregnant I would have a kid. Lol. If I got pregnant God made it so for a reason. I have a friend that was a single mother, had a child at 16, when she turned 18 she met a Lutheran man who never had a LTR before. Did he have sex though? Yea. But regardless they really hit it off, they got engaged, and married. Now she's got another bun in the oven. It works out for all of us in the end, we just have to keep our faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 05:55 AM
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There's people who believe in God, that are married, and have sex with their spouse because it feels good. Not just for procreation. People who believe in God are not so black and white. Some Christian couples have sex before marriage and still get married, and still have sex with their spouse. I have many friends that believe in God, and go the extra mile with their SO-- they have kinks! Gasp.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 05:52 AM
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Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:44 AM
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Why don't the older, successful women find a hot little 22 year old guy? His sperm would be healthier than someone of her own age. I've heard IRL that MILF's are highly desirable, and I see men go for hot moms a loooot. I know a single mom who is my age (26) and she is pretty hot, not skinny, kinda curvy/thick, and she got scooped up quick. I guess a single mom wouldn't be considered successful, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:43 AM
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Forreal! Like I said in another comment, if you're in love and attracted to your spouse you should wanna bang all the time! Even when you're both old and wrinkly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 12:18 AM
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I can't take back my virginity lmao. I do strive for monogamy, I'm not a hoe. I don't sleep around. I had sex in my past relationships. If I'm dating someone the end goal is to marry them, have kids, be together. I confessed, I repented, and I've been celibate. Not really much there is for me to do. Why am I a Christian? Because I believe in God. Catholicism is the only denomination of Christianity that I get and it's people gets me. We believe in evolution, we appreciate our moms (that's why we…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 11:13 PM
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We can aspire as much as we want but we still fuck up.. I've met so many Christians that smoke (not just cigarettes) and drink alcohol like it's water. I don't smoke or drink, eugh. And I've had a heck of a time finding a man that doesn't smoke or drink, Christian, Catholic, or not. I care about sex because I want 3+ kids and if I'm marrying someone, shouldn't I be attracted to them, as they should be attracted to me? If you're going to be with someone for the rest of your life, you should be DT…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:20 AM
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I dated someone with depression and suicidal tendencies, the issue was he never tried to fix it.. never sought out professional help, or even holistic remedies (shrooms?), he tried to use me as a therapist and it made me pull away from him pretty hard. I shoot straight from the hip-- oftentimes he did not like what I had to say. I've been depressed also. Who hasn't? But we can all get over it, and someone out there has it worse than we do. I consider myself extremely blessed and privileged compa…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:01 AM
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Not I.. the age gap is too big.. I want marriage and kids, a man twice my age will die quickly and traumatize the children and I. Losing a parent and spouse is very painful and can derail someone's life path. Leave him for the gals who are just wanting fun and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 06:52 AM
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Because my parents are and they raised me that way? When I moved out I went through an agnostic phase, during that time I lost my virginity 🤷🏻‍♀️ I returned to Catholicism 2 years ago. Not every Christian is a virgin or a holy, sanctimonious person. I have met many Christians throughout my lifetime that are not virgins, even the women in my parish's womens' group, most of them weren't raised Catholic, nor were they virgin when they met their spouse or bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 06:24 AM
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It's not important to me. I am Catholic but I've had premarital sex and my sex drive is pretty high, whenever I meet someone again, that someone should have a high sex drive also. An experienced man that knows what he is doing is much better than a man that doesn't know where the clitoris is, how to finger properly, or has poor stamina in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 08:03 PM
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Ya raised Catholic, but not super devout (as I've had premarital sex in past relationships)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 02:28 AM
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I have to agree with what he is saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:13 PM
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Natural methods, I will have sex on days I am not ovulating with a relationship partner. Otherwise none. If a man is insistent on birth control, then we can wait for sex, because I just don't believe in hormonal birth control or condoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:12 PM
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As long as he deals with it on his own, it's fine. I deal with my problems by myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 03:01 AM
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I'm introverted and I strongly dislike neediness as well. It's too much, very exhausting.
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