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| 1 | I insulted my employers in the past behind their backs. Can I get in trouble for doing this? Can I do something to protect myself?Telling my bosses the truth would have got me in trouble. I talked to my coworkers, some of which I consider my friends, so that they know what they are dealing with. Someone had to open their eyes... I used to do it often, now I gave up and just try to live my life...the fact is, there are a couple of people I can't just get through to so I'm afraid they eventuslly snitch in me... | /r/askTRP | 04/12/16 09:21 PM |
| 1 | I insulted my employers in the past behind their backs. Can I get in trouble for doing this? Can I do something to protect myself?Yeah, I said this stuff in private and in front of others, but I thought they would never turn in me, as we are coworkers and a team. Others say this probably os already in the past... would you disagree? | /r/askTRP | 04/12/16 09:20 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when a girl starts touching you on purpose you but you know she's just teasing you (and is in an LTR)?Yeah, you are rationally right. I like her already, and I seriously got the impression she'd open her legs if I pushed hard enough. So I better let her go then unless they break up, but it's not woth waiting anyway, I have a life of my own | /r/askTRP | 20/07/16 07:57 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when a girl starts touching you on purpose you but you know she's just teasing you (and is in an LTR)?Yeah, she gave me the idea of being "conflicted", so to speak. The stuff I can get away with, the stuff she does for me, the fact she tries hard not to upset me by any chance and the fact I can flirt and be physical all I want without a glimpse of her telling me to stay away is pretty much telling... And yet, whenever she's really close to me on her own initiative or bu chance and there's a moment to think about it, she pulls back enough to detach. That think you said about she cheating me event… | /r/askTRP | 20/07/16 07:15 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when a girl starts touching you on purpose you but you know she's just teasing you (and is in an LTR)?So I take it as she wants me but is stuck with these issue. So it's on me to make the move, basically, right? | /r/askTRP | 20/07/16 06:12 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when a girl starts touching you on purpose you but you know she's just teasing you (and is in an LTR)?Well first, her being in an LTR means donkey dick. Second, what are you doing to give her validation? Are you complimenting her? Not complimenting, but teasing enough to indicate she's an attractive girl. I mean, I guess she can put 2 and 2 together and figure out I'd fuck her. Tease back, but make sure she knows you're not a WWAP I made sure she understood we are not friends, it's "I know you and there's sexual tension but that's it so we can fuck but that's it". but you make sure she knows you… | /r/askTRP | 20/07/16 05:42 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when a girl starts touching you on purpose you but you know she's just teasing you (and is in an LTR)?I agree with your points. But the problem is, if she's attracted to me but I know she's in an LTR, all she may be getting out of this is pure validation from me. If this is not your sister or close relative who's just fucking with you, she is trying to get a reaction out of you, and it's most likely sexual. I agree. But if she's just teasing me, how can I distinguish playing with? | /r/askTRP | 20/07/16 06:41 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when a girl starts touching you on purpose you but you know she's just teasing you (and is in an LTR)?An LTR with your friend/acquaintance/family/coworker, or with some random beta bitch that can't satisfy her? Some beta guy (I think) that I never see. Some random beta bitch's girl? Escalate. Get her alone and say "I know you're only flirting with me so much because your guy can't get you off". Call her out on it. Out of curiosity, did you ever manage to pull something like this off? | /r/askTRP | 20/07/16 06:39 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when a girl starts touching you on purpose you but you know she's just teasing you (and is in an LTR)?She doesn't do that to creeps. Ok, and this is the cool part. The not so cool part is: if she succeeds and I actually get to want her, but she was actually teasing me, what do I get in return? Because at this point I know for a fact she's been in an LTR for a couple of years so I don't want to be played for a fool. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/16 06:37 AM |
| 1 | I feel really confident when interacting with women but I can't stand competition with men, why is this?Did it, too. You know what started happening then? Well, the same people try to get a reaction from others. For example, instead of trying to piss me off, they try to make others laugh about me. At this point, I ignore but they are not trying to make me angry, they are trying to make them laugh. And this is something I don't know how to counter except by amogging back. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/16 07:09 PM |
| 1 | I feel really confident when interacting with women but I can't stand competition with men, why is this?He's saying that the fact it bothers you shows that you are insecure. People with high self worth don't worry about what others think because they know who they are. I totally agree, in fact that was me in the past. Then I changed and started playing my own game without worrying about what others think of me. In fact, that's how I go about my day and people are not a problem. What I describe above happens when guys try to shit on my image and my reputation for the way I am. For example, you go i… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/16 06:25 AM |
| 1 | I feel really confident when interacting with women but I can't stand competition with men, why is this?Thanks for your answer man. I see what you mean, and I'm not saying that's fair or not. I'm trying to understand this whole insecurity issue. I like myself, my life, what I do, etc, and I dont want to change. I'm not complaining about women chosing other guys, I can take that. What puzzles me is the aggeessive feeling I get when another guy tries to attack my reputation and openly compete with ne on that level. I mean, I'm very confident in myself and I believe I can do a lot of stuff, so guys c… | /r/askTRP | 17/05/16 08:30 PM |
| 2 | I feel really confident when interacting with women but I can't stand competition with men, why is this?Intersting point of view man, thanks. I never saw it that way, could you explain what you mean exactly? For example, I work in a place where the other three guys all have different issues: they either dont like their jobs, their lives, are unhappy with themselves, etc. I'm the opposite of that, I really like my life and what I do. So, seeing them and seeing myself, I defintely dont see how they are better than me. Of course it's my opinion, but I'm not going around throwing it to the wind, it's … | /r/askTRP | 17/05/16 08:23 PM |
| 2 | I feel really confident when interacting with women but I can't stand competition with men, why is this?I get your point, but I already tried to see if that's the reason and I'm not sure it is. I already see myself as a way better candidate for those girls in any way, and for that reason if some guy I consider "lower" or "dumber" or "worthless" tries to fuck with my reputation, I feel really pissed and aggressive towards him. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/16 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Coworker thinks I'm his enemy and thus tries to make me the butt of every jokeIt's not ribbing if, when I make a joke about him, he acts bothered and pissed... Nor it is ribbing when you act the same way he does and he gets angry. For example, I'm having a conversation and he starts making comments from behind to bother me, it's fine, we all laugh, he's being funny... If he's having a conversation and I do the same, guess what, prepare yourself for the wrath of the guy... It's like, when he's joking, everything's fine. When you are joking and he doesn't agree with it, you… | /r/askTRP | 08/05/16 07:17 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with people who talk down to you?Some men are very conscious of their place in a social hierarchy and they want and need to be top dog. This is so true. He's the king of the word "social" and is involved in a million things, like that's his only ambition. Another reason is if you are some form of a threat to him because you have abilities or gifts he does not have. I can't believe I left this part out. Yes, we have the same job and even though he has the same position as I have, he's very much behind me in terms of abilities an… | /r/askTRP | 07/01/16 12:12 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with people who talk down to you?Good idea. I prefer the opposite tactic. Meaning, if he's serious, just mock his serious ass. If he's being funny by putting me down, just mock the end result by showing he didn't get to me. This last part is usually tricky from my experience, as it's here when I freeze. You know, when you are made the butt of a joke in a cruel and unexpected way. This is what I have to work on. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/16 05:05 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with people who talk down to you?I'll approach it that way. I'll take my chances and smash him down (verbally of course, he's way bigger than me) and stop him before hand. Besides, those few times I pushed him back really felt good so I'll focus on that. Thanks! | /r/askTRP | 06/01/16 05:02 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with people who talk down to you?Yes! Yes! Yes! That's exactly what he's doing and it's working wonders. I feel intimidated to say things or make fun of him, and it's totally out of my control! The only thing that comes to mind right now is that I should burn him when he does this in some way or the other, and I need to stay in control in order to do this. I have no problem making fun of myself alongside other people and I'm not ashamed to be embarrassed in front of them and he f* knows this. That's why he's serious when throwi… | /r/askTRP | 06/01/16 04:58 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with people who talk down to you?It's a group. They like him and they like me. We are the ones who cant stand eachother. And I'm not dropping the people I like because of him. I guess I'll have to improve my ways when he's around in order to own him. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/16 03:17 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with people who talk down to you?The weird thing is I used to had an unshakable confidence and he just couldnt own me. In time though, he started putting me on the spotlight, pointing at all my negative characteristics. And slowly I started bringing myself down over this. The difference between me and the others is that we dont like eachother and I get attacked in a non-joking way by him constantly. It's like I dig my own grave by backing down... | /r/askTRP | 06/01/16 03:12 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with people who talk down to you?Yes, I see him at work so it's forced. Thank you for your input, I'll find a way to bite back in return. I already stand up for myself when this happens, it's this guy I cant fight back for some reason. It's totally subjective though, not because he's special or anything. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/16 03:04 PM |
| 2 | How do you deal with people who talk down to you?Why is it too reactive? I meant doing it smiling and not angry, in opposition to his annoyed and condescending look. Because that's the point, I used to be able to mock him when he did this and it worked great. Until I lost it and I just cannot get it back... I agree, ignoring is the right answer, but not always. If we are all gathered and puts me on the spotlight like this, am I suppose to stay quite and look at my phone until the moment passes? I dont think so. EDIT: I meant I dont want to. I … | /r/askTRP | 06/01/16 02:17 PM |
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