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I’m not sure about a lot but there might be some. Personally, I know exactly what I want and that’s why it took me a week on the dating app to find him. Easier to eliminate and move on. Oh, and he’s confidence and rugged. He’s very caring and that’s the kind of providing I expect. The Conservative kind of providing is what we plan to do together. It’s not a one person job. Nope that’s masculine for me. So when we say we want a certain kind of man, we generally know what we’re talking about. For …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:22 AM
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If a man A is being misogynistic/ racist/homophobic etc and a man B calls him out even if it means insulting man A, then that’s a huge green flag and an attractive quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:57 AM
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So can men. There’s no rule saying a man can’t befriend a women. The mindset that needs to be made here is that women are people and not just a object of desire like it’s been told and seen for generations
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:56 AM
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lol. Your flair says no pill but everything you said is so red pilled. I don’t want to scatter this comment so I’ll reply to one point. Women feel no pressure? Seriously?! Have you met any of us? We are constantly criticized for just existing. Even women who bend to every will of the red pill are criticized, insulted and humiliated. We have a constant praise for a lot of things starting with starting alive and not being raped. Then there’s those constant pressure to do better than an average man…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:24 PM

2 happens when a woman isn’t aware of 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:17 PM
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I’m seeing more career driven women saying they don’t need men. So this is news to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:13 PM
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Yes, people with troubled past have a tendency to choose toxic/abusive partners. This is a gender neutral fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:12 PM
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If a man makes fun of another man for baseless reasons like identity then no. If he makes fun of a man for being toxic and what not. Then yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:11 PM
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lol this none one caring is from a patriarchal society. And no one saves anyone unless you are ready to put in the effort and save yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:10 PM
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No one under influence can give consent. Since statistically, drunk women are tasked advantage of, it’s been stated explicitly. Men drunk or not do get sexually assaulted and no one is ignoring that. So it’s not insulting to consider this but it’s definitely insulting that men have to explicitly told this so that they don’t take advantage of drunk women. Also insulting that you turned a statement to prevent violence against women as an insult to women. I hope this perspective helps you see thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:08 PM
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lol. Wtf. If I get constant dopamine hits I’ll be exhausted and would want to just leave. Date ideas can come from both ends. Not just men. My husband and I consider a movie at home with some wine as a good date. We are financially aware and don’t believe dates need to be extravagant and expensive. Once in a while, yes. Never constantly. We just want to spend time together. That’s all. So you’ve probably not heard of enough relationships… or stable and healthy ones at least. Your questions make …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:05 PM

In a world where most men (yeah, even that average so called well meaning one) are raised to think they are superior than women, it’s actually hard to find someone and women aren’t larping. lol. Men just haven’t caught up with all the facts like “women are people too. Not lesser people than you. Just people.”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:59 PM
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I’m only countering the point where you said it’s worse than red pill scam. Red pill scam encourages to gory anyone who’s not a white man. That’s not what the empowerment comment does. The empowerment content falls under what the self development and productivity industry does.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:06 AM
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Well, any self development program can be a scam. So not sure why it’s bad only when the target audience is women. At least they don’t teach to go subdue men or something. There might be some influencers who do this but it’s not the whole industry like red pill industry. The whole point of girl boss and such marketing is to earn your own money and built self respect to not tolerate BS from men. So it’s not a bigger scam then red pilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:07 PM
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Lmao. You are equating complaining about violence against women as hating all men. The comment says women are treated like incubators and that's hating men for you? That tells a lot. The comment never mentioned men are pedo and nothing about <insert violent action> against men. No let enslave men or take away all rights men have. But you have the audacity to call that hating men? The only way you can think that comment is about hating men is it you think men should have the right to take away an…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:31 PM
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Are you literally screaming not all men. The comment days all about how misogyny is executed but you are stuck on whining about not all men? I read nothing on the post like kill all men or hate all men or any sort of <insert violence here> on men. If you stand around while another man talks about a woman like she's not human then you're part of the problem. We women raise are voices against but it's obvious that we need allies. So you need to provide a better example else this is just plain whin…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:56 AM

The best thing to do is breakup. Did you mean that too when you said detach?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 11:41 PM
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Can you provide links please? I haven't noticed this or maybe I skimmed over it. Personally, I don't hate men because they means I hate my dad and he's a gem of a person. My husband is another sweetheart. So yea, I literally can't hate men. That said, you need to know social media is not real life. If you know feminists irl who do this, have a conversation with them. My best guess is that they are reacting to the trauma caused by patriarchy and misogyny. Not venting. Reacting. Once bitten, twice…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 11:27 PM
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I agree, but you need to consider that societal conditioning teaches men to control women. Control brings unpaid labour and lots of luxury they can have. If there's no need, how will they control? That's why many men are very focused on women needing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 08:06 PM
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I think it’s a response to when women express their fear from all the violence caused by misogyny and instead of addressing the issue directly many people come up with “What about men?” And try to turn the whole conversation into misandry. That’s why these misogynistic violence still happens. People not involved in the crime want to always avoid discussing the women’s issues and make it about men. Why not just start a fresh new discussion to tackle misandry?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 12:23 PM
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If you walked yet another reason to blame women, blame a women’s cause you should have that this through. I think the other commenters are clearly pointing out that your wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 12:12 PM
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You can never satisfy the society with anything you do. That’s why you do it first and foremost for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 12:04 PM
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I used to live there. Still have family there and it’s scary to think about now knowing how much safer a city can be. Since I have experience in both places, I tend to have a more global reference. From what I’ve read up it’s even worse in many other countries. So yea, I try to be as inclusive as possible and not just stick to one country, continent or the western world.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:33 PM
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Rape is normalised. I am taking universal and not just one country. Many countries don’t think marital rape is a thing. Marriage is a license for the man to do anything to his wife which includes rape. There are also cultures where if a woman is raped, she is forced to marry the rapist because her purity is lost. So yea, rape is normalised in many parts of the world. I’ll be honest, with all this happening every hour in the world we do voice put women’s safety more than men’s safety. The bigger …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 01:39 PM
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Damage with what? Telling the truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:42 AM
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Yea and that’s because he thought since her inappropriate pictures leaked she’ll have a lower self esteem and that’s the perfect time to ask her out because she’s weak and would probably say yes to him. He targeted her because of that. He was not attracted to her. He clearly says, “She’s not my type.”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 11:28 PM
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I see one of these every day saying women are responsible for all the violence men do. lol. Can you think beyond that? You didn’t watch the show so let me tell you. The girl rejected him. Online red pill content told him that he’s ugly and girls have high standards. Red pill content tells men to hate themselves and then blame women. He was a small kid. He should have been taught how to practice self love, how to handle rejection and how one girl saying no to dating him shouldn’t make him violent…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:54 PM
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Normalizing rape isn’t making the world safer for women compared to any gender. I guess you are missing those news reports.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 09:20 PM
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Does that mean you never talk about women’s issue and every time it comes up you deviate so that the divide only stays on what men want? Is reducing rape rates that bad an idea that avoiding the very discussion is the first instinct?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:29 AM
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I’m tired of repeating this like a broken record - stop devaluing us women by dismissing our issue with deviation to men’s issue. It’s a tactic to avoid any discussion to make anything safer for women. Avoiding a discussion to reduce rape. Is reducing rape that bad an idea for you all?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:28 AM
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The law of which land? From what I looked up Britain and US don’t draft men by default. Norway and Sweden consider women when drafting too. Personally, I am all for no drafting. Is unfortunate that wherever you’re from, men will be drafted by default. Coming back to topic, you did dismiss it the minute you retort to a women’s issue with a men’s issue. It’s classic tactic to avoid any issue pertaining to women. That’s why I said it’s distracting and dehumanising. You would rather talk about draft…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:13 AM
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I am all for discussing drafting and how it shouldn’t be mandatory for men to go to war. I am ready to discuss how men also face abuse and it’s downplayed. As I said, I consider me as people and valuable human life. I am not one to dismiss men’s issues by saying “but women…<insert issue here >“ and start deviating the whole discussion to what my gender faces. I am willing to discuss the issue at hand. The main issue is that when there’s an issue of raping women you want to dismiss it which shows…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 10:37 PM
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That doesn’t even sound like an advice. Lol. It’s just a fact but advice should be how you should treat your partner right no matter the gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:44 PM
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Attraction is subjective. So it’s not a deal breaker to never get anyone to date IMO. Love yourself first and self care can go a long way and one can look attractive. Also, attraction is beyond looks. It’s manners and personality and how you carry yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:43 PM
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Lol. I think Maine you can look up assault, rape and abuse of women in different countries and you’ll see a pattern. The world is made for men and not women. Women’s safety is not anybody’s worry. In many countries if the woman is raped, she is blamed for being out of her house. Maybe in your neighbourhood your stats are true but I’m talking globally.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:27 PM
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I would still say children first. Women signing up for drafting… There’s two parts to this. Why should anyone be forced to go to war? War is always something the governments/rulers want and not the people. So I’m against anyone going to war. Just because men go that doesn’t meant there’s no loss to society. I consider men as humans unlike how you are showing in your comments that you don’t see us women as such. Anyway, it still sounds like you think it’s okay to go around raping women. That is s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:25 PM
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Learn self defence. Speak up when you see it. This is what we can do as individuals. Governments can probably do more but we don’t have control over that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:21 PM
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I said crazy high. I didn’t say higher to compare it to anything. One country’s stat is that a women is raped every 4 hours and those are the reported cases. Don’t you think it should be lower than that? What’s with the dismissal of women issue by deviating to men’s issue. Why can’t we handle women’s issue in one topic and men’s issue in another and just give attention to both. It’s like the minute women’s issue is mentioned, it needs to be shut down with saying “but men’s issue…”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:19 PM
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In the pyramid of human needs, safety is the most basic thing. As OPs topic is women safety I stated women safety. People need to stop dismissing us with is useless retort of “but men…”. Acknowledge, there’s an issue. If you have the power, do something about it. No one is telling not to focus on basic human safety of any other gender. Your sort of response is what shows that value is not omen is extremely low or non existent because any issue we have is eclipsed by an issue of men so that you d…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:14 PM
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Typical response to degrade and belittle women and their existence. Clearly shows you don’t see us as human because the minute a women’s issue is brought up your reaction is to deflect it with another issue focusing on men. The war was caused by men. Rape of women is generally by men. I think I see a pattern on who the issue is here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:10 PM
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Women’s safety is also because people finally started seeing us as human and decided abuse is not acceptable… in some countries. Other countries still put women in danger by saying a abuse is something a woman should endure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:07 PM
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It sounds like you’re justifying/normalizing assault, rape, slavery, abuse etc. Safety comes under the pyramid of human needs as the most basic thing. You’re not living a normal human life if you’re constantly abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:04 PM
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Safety is a basic human right for all genders. It’s sad that we live in a society where women safety isn’t a default. The rape rates are crazy high for example. So yea, safety isn’t an entitlement if you think women are human beings
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:02 AM
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Who said she concealed it. The scenario I’m talking about is when they both know they are pregnant from the start. Concealing is an exception and then it’s fair but it’s not the norm. Biology is unfair to men? Lmao. You guys have the easiest life biologically when compared to women. For starters, you never have to know what period cramps are like which as recent studies shows is as painful as a heart attack. Does heart attack for 3 days every month sound like fair biology for women. Then comes t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 11:38 AM
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Who said she concealed it. The scenario I’m talking about is when they both know they are pregnant from the start. Concealing is an exception and then it’s fair but it’s not the norm. Biology is unfair to men? Lmao. You guys have the easiest life biologically when compared to women. For starters, you never have to know what period cramps are like which as recent studies shows is as painful as a heart attack. Does heart attack for 3 days every month sound like fair biology for women. Then comes t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 11:38 AM
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After the child is born they can opt out is basically not taking responsibility. Say abortion is an option, then the man can opt out and the woman has a choice. If it’s after that point then the man is just running away from a big responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:36 PM

This depends on when they decided they didn't want the child. If it's after the child was born then tough luck. If there's no legal right, should they fight for a right to be in the child's life or fight to not pay child support?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 05:46 PM
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I am not comparing one person in their 30s with another in their 20s. I am talking about the same person in their 20s who then become more attractive in their 30s. Since that’s factually possible it’s not a fact that people lose their physical appeal once they hit 30 like some sort of drain switch is turned on. Societies came up with it to force people to settle early and have kids before they can fully introspect and figure out what THEY want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 07:05 PM
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If it’s not societal and made up how are people finding older me. Or women more attractive than that in their own age (eg 20s)? If it’s a fact no one should thing anyone 30+ is more attractive compared to someone below 30 but we see that happening a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 08:10 PM
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Biologically it slowly makes you less capable of procreating. Attraction and all that is a societal construct . It’s unfair to hold everyone to the same expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:25 AM
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What are you basing your data on? Traditional/conservative/narrow-minded statements by people who can’t think based on facts alone? That’s not reliable. That’s just a bad opinion that many have. It’s to discourage any sort of independence and lock a person into a family life they might not even be completely satisfied with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:12 PM
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So don’t that prove that attraction doesn’t deplete for anyone above 30. You yourself say that people find attractive partners over the age of 30
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 01:41 AM
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Well, my boyfriend think I’m beautiful and that’s all that matters. I feel bad for you that you can’t find beauty in this world in what’s natural. It’s a sad experience to be filled with such negativity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 08:45 PM
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It’s no rule that you should only look for a red pill woman as a partner, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 08:01 PM
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Maybe red pill women are looking for a man to provide but I am not am not and I am not alone. Lol. I can provide for myself. I’m looking for an equal partner to build a life together. That’s the whole point of a healthy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 07:53 PM
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This isn’t a fact. This is your opinion and I sympathise with you for that. Men in their 30s and even 40s are very attractive. Attraction isn’t just looks which also increases for many with age. It’s also maturity, behaviour, personality. 20s is the age to experiment and so we tend to make so many mistakes that makes us very unattractive. A man who takes up household chores is very attractive. In this patriarchal world it takes men a while to realize that’s the right way to live. Men who are bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 04:40 PM

Devaluing women based on age… talk about dehumanising. Women aren’t some sort of commodity to set superficial values on
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 03:52 PM

But partially. Looking at out globally, some countries have a desert due to female infanticides. You have the right to complain about it if you haven’t contributed to the cause but what’s the solution?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 12:49 AM

Women have more options but almost most options are abusive, toxic or incompatible. So no use having a bigger pool if most fish can’t be caught. And 3 seem country specific and I have no idea about US laws Women aren’t seen as morally superior. They are seen more as morally inferior especially these days as most women don’t listen to/obey a man. She has a job. Chasing her dreams. Waiting to find the right person to marry and have a family. But all this is a huge sin in most conservative communit…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 12:43 AM
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Feminists in one country can influence and spread the word about issues in another country but that’s about the limit. They can’t demand another country’s government to change laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 07:24 PM
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Dating should never be an obligation. If people force you, stay away from them. They seem toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 11:53 PM
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Marine I stated it differently but you do not hate peoples based on identity. If you do, that makes you a bad person. If you hate a person’ because of a crime they committed then it makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:07 AM
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Criminals deserve the hate they get. Rape, abuse, murder and all that can lead to the survivors, friends/family of victims and people in general to hate them and they deserve all of it and more. So no, I can’t condemn hate in general
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 02:32 AM

I don’t condemn any hate based on identity that one has no control over. That goes for gender, race etc
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 12:33 PM
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You are talking about radical feminists. There are many other kinds of feminists. We don’t hate men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 12:49 AM
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Here’s an example of a nice guy. “Hey, I think women should work. I’ll allow my (future) wife to work.” There are similar sentences for the women’s outfit. Another example I heard from a man at a women’s day event. The prompt was to talk about time best woman in your life. “My wife is the best. As you all know she works at the company in the next building. We both go home together and then she cooks the tastiest meals for dinner everyday. I’m so lucky.” Sidenote, this guy doesn’t take up househo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 12:02 PM
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Don’t men also want the introspection of appreciating oneself? Isn’t that where confidence comes from
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 11:36 PM
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I didn't tell anyone to use self love to treat depression. That's something one should take to a professional. This is to build confidence and that takes you a long way. It also helps find a partner once you have learnt to love and understand yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 08:11 PM
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Well self love is learning to love yourself no matter what your gender is. So I would tell it to anyone and everyone whom I think is being too hard on themselves and can boost their self esteem. Also, I would always tell to work on understanding, accepting and appreciating yourself on your own without any sort of external validation. It’s a great way to develop confidence and that takes someone a long way in life
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 07:21 PM
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I don’t understand this at all. I can do self love without a man. Man’s love should be worth something privately, not socially. Insta only couples (no matter the gender) think like what you said who only post pics to show off but irl they are so unhappy. Again, do you know self love exists and it’s all over social media how to express this. Why do we need a man for this. We only want to feel loved by the man we love. A relationship is a commitment. We don’t want to get emotionally invested witho…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 07:10 PM
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Feminists are bothered that women find themselves in such situation. Ignoring the red flags is one miss but who is teaching too many men be abusers… society and patriarchy. So you are right. Society enjoys seeing the women suffer ig
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 07:24 AM
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