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The 9s and 10s are easily the most insecure - Everything they've got/achieved was because of their looks. How would you react if your entire life depended on something this fleeting, and someone questioned it?
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 12:58 PM
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Remember, "it takes a village to raise a child" came from somewhere. You do not understand that saying.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 01:15 AM
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Yep. But she was lying to that guy too Once a liar, always a liar.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 01:09 AM
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Don't beat yourself up over it. See if you can recover, and if not, just next her. And perhaps try again in 6 months, or something. But don't let the beta creep back up, butt your head in the wall if you have to and keep it away.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 05:08 PM
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I won't be catching oneitis. I hope. Lol I've been unplugged for quite some time, and trust me when I tell you I can deal with women TRP way. I still buckled very recently, though thanks to TRP I've quickly pulled my shit together. I wrote an extensive post on it, both on the main sub and this one. Check my posts for "The perfect storm".
/r/askTRP31/08/17 03:07 PM
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One, don't hang out this often. Give her the gift of missing you. Two, she's obviously fully aware you were nervous. In general, that's not good. She wants to be animal-fucked by a dominant alpha, not baby sit a newbie. Three, not everything is necessarily lost, but it will be more difficult now. More difficult to re-establish the alpha image, but may still get laid relatively easy. Don't talk to her for a few days, and then invite her out again. Then, work out the logistics of the date so you c…
/r/askTRP31/08/17 12:43 PM
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Thanks bro, appreciate the response... as I read it all makes sense again. Of course I fucked up and hit the reset button. My problem will be getting her to come out at all - I don't talk to her at all. In the past year, even though we worked together, I didn't really talk to her all that much except for when I'd ask her out. Basically talked to her 5-8 times, or so. It's why I was able to keep the tension up for that long. If she doesn't reply to my texts, that'll be the end of it... have yet t…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/17 06:53 PM
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Did you forget a "/s" at the end of the post?
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 07:23 PM
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No strong feelings, guaranteed. I stopped those. But yes, I did admit to a rising ONEitis, in the opening of the OP at that. I also mentioned a perfect storm, unusual shit happend that made me buckle. It's also why I came to TRP for some tough love... If you think that after you swallow TRP you'll never ever display any weakness, you're in for a rough ride. Being able to recognise the problem before it becomes gets humongous and dealing with it is, imo, the true principle of TRP. So yes, I am ve…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 06:24 PM
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Pls move your mouse to the top left of your scree, then look closely for that "left arrow", and click on it a few times.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 12:16 PM
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Or simply ghost... they know what it means, and won't cry.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 12:10 PM
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Again with millions of assumptions. There is no friendship of sorts. I only talk to her, and I did in the past, to ask her out. Not orbiting anything. But the funny thing is that in all your responses you've offered no advice on how to take it from there. Yes you read her very well, but no specific sexual strategy advice on taking it forward. Do you really care all that much about me not getting hurt? Perhaps you have no real life advice to offer, just a keyboard warrior? Others did.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 04:05 AM
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I mean yeah whatever. But you can only analyse this from her perspective. She doesn't know you have plates and yada yada. To her you're just a guy she used to work with and she wanted to hook up with. She flashed you her tits, fondled your man meat... Then you both went to bed at your own places... Bit of an anticlimax for her really. I know I have to escalate, but I didn't consider her perspective. This is spot on. And women are shit at dealing with rejection, no wonder she's avoiding getting t…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 03:57 AM
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Here we go again with the warnings... Think you may wanna re-read my post and replies to you. And pay attention to what I say. Nowhere did I say anything that implies I want an LTR with her. That's an assumption of yours. Also didn't say I wanna fix her, again you assumed this and suggested I be friends with her. I guess that's why you recommend r-relationshits. But I came to TRP for a reason. I also openly admitted to having a stint of ONEitis in this case. Yes, her fucking BPD traits vibe with…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 03:35 AM
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She was pretty candid, and told me many things. I just didn't put all the details down. Got married once, and divorced. Alcohol problems during the marriage. The story repeats itself, minus the wedding and the alcohol. In all fairness to her, I have reason to believe she's been a t total since then. I am fully aware she's broken beyond repair. Don't wanna fix her, have no illusions for an LTR or any of this sort. And I'm fully aware of the risk of BPD women. Just want to fuck her, end of. But yo…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 01:45 AM
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You got it all figured out bro, no point in me explaining anything! Lol
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 12:30 AM
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LMFAO - Sure buddy, whatever floats your boat, whatever you like to convince yourself of. But I gotta thank you, I really did burst out laughing reading your reply.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 10:12 PM
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LOL Nope, I"m not
/r/askTRP26/08/17 10:02 PM
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Great post, as usual. Only one comment, change your tip Jar to a SegWit address ;-)
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 10:01 PM
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That's the nuclear option. Instead, just confront him and tell him you will not tolerate this kind of behaviour. And always phrase it in terms of the company, never personally: "This behaviour is not acceptable in a professional work environment." "Your behaviour is distracting and hurts our overall productivity." or some shit like that. Point is, you are taking the position of the company, which your bosses will be mighty happy to see. If it's a half decent company, that is. May even end up pro…
/r/askTRP26/08/17 09:49 PM
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Start doing, so you your mind doesn't have enough time to think. Join a gym and start lifting, if you don't already. Sort your diet out, you have plenty of time being jobless, no excuses not to sort this shit out 100%. Of course, start looking for a job. And going out, meeting new people. Yes, this is gonna take some time, but again, you've got golden time. Also consider moving. Not because of her, but the environment can be toxic if it's a very small community, with all common friends and such.…
/r/askTRP26/08/17 09:15 PM
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I did, and have no idea what I'm supposed to look at?
/r/askTRP26/08/17 09:00 PM
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You should re-read the beginning of my post... I openly admit I'm only human ;-) It was down to three things as well. Had I gotten laid, I would have easily waited. It just all came together to make me buckle. What's driving my desire to not give up now is the challenge. Trust me, I've got my shit together and won't repeat the mistake. Any suggestions how to get it rolling again?
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 08:59 PM
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As for what to do, just move on. Sometimes it never ends up working out even if there's tons of tension. Seems like you had a couple opportunities to pull the trigger but didnt/couldnt so her interest is waning. My theory is there's a "window of opportunity", and if you don't pull the trigger within that window, it shuts. The higher the attraction, the shorter the window of opportunity - She expects you to fuck her right there and then sometimes. I think I mis-calculated my window of opportunity…
/r/askTRP26/08/17 08:56 PM
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Was thinking about the same line... an even longer wait. And then come up with some fun activity again. I suppose I had worst fuck ups than this one. Lol It's funny when you look back at the fuck ups.
/r/askTRP26/08/17 08:54 PM
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Nice! Didn't think of it that way, don't find myself around their place often, much more around my place.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 08:51 PM
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She's divorced. Got cold feet before the wedding, and those cold feet never warmed up. Had to do with the alcohol problem. Eventually she divorce him. And again without going into too much detail, a similar story repeated more than once after that, without the wedding and the alcohol... FUBAR, yes, doubt the alpha widow. I'm confident about my frame, and the boundaries are up and strong, and all the rest. This was the first fuck up in a long time, so yes I want to undertake the mission. Dumb? Ve…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 08:49 PM
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There's truth here... I'm in "challenge mode" now, it's not about the investment as much as it is the challenge. So yes, for that Mission Accomplished. Is it worth it? Prob not.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 08:39 PM
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About 50.
/r/askTRP26/08/17 04:49 PM
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That she was telling you to relax is a clear sign you were anxious about it, and she picked up on that. Don't engage any sooner than you normally would. How long between first and second date? Wait approx the same. And then behave as if nothing happened. Because nothing the university will ever care about actually happened.
/r/askTRP26/08/17 04:03 PM
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It happened to me, I recovered. "Hey, my dick is just not collaborating tonight.. you're out of luck!" This kinda shit happens, and what happens next depends entirely on your reaction whilst it happens. If you laugh it off, she'll generally by fine with it, no big deal. If you are all apologetic, she'll become more demanding and get pissed about it.
/r/askTRP26/08/17 02:58 PM
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Bro, you're asking me to give you instructions on how to be a BluePill Beta Not in a million years! I am asking you for suggestions to re-kindle that crazy flame she has in her, which BP Beta can never do. I can deal with BPD red pill style, and that's what I want - BPD challenge. Yes, it will probably end in tears... Any advice?
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 01:31 PM
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Even before I got to the end I knew you had fucked it up when you didn't lay her after the concert. What exactly happened after that? You said you were tired which sounds like you were too pussy to escalate properly (not trying to be all AMOG - but I used to use that excuse with myself many times before). Think this is a good read. She came in the picture after I've started to consider promoting my FWB to LTR. You can say my mind started drifting into "exclusivity mode". My FWB is as close of a …
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 01:23 PM
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Thanks bro, that's the kind of response I was hoping to get! You are reading the situation pretty perfectly... 12yr old boy vs old lady vs other personalities Spot on. She is tomboyish, and I brought up the 12yr old boy, telling her there's one hiding in her head. She just continued the story. I also spotted a "50ies housewife" in her behaviour. AND she did mention stuff like "having a difficult childhood". She also candidly confessed to other red flags, anger issues, alcohol problems in the pas…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 01:13 PM
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Not following...
/r/askTRP25/08/17 05:59 AM
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