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Why not when you revisit the discussion ask him to define a "few years" for you. After he tells you, ask him the reason behind his timeline. Then go from there expressing some of your worries about waiting too long to become parents. No need to be coy, or indirect, just direct and clear communication.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/21 10:39 PM
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Changing seasons as feminine. The trees stand strong through it all as masculine. My reason for this is I believe women have a proclivity to be more indecisive, they change their minds often like the seasons. The men-- they somehow manage to weather through it with maybe a few felled branches from time to time as I feel men are more stable in their decisions in the path they take. Haha
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/21 12:42 AM
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Congrats! Do not let the outside noise get to you. Being with an older man does not always equate to "they have more life experience, more mature, more power, blah, blah, blah" Everyone has different life experiences. There are 19-year-olds that have more life experiences and maturity than some adults. As for your family and friends- maybe time will make them come around. In the meantime prepare for your new arrival, save for a rainy day, and have your own little nest egg or learn a new skill (o…
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/21 12:23 AM
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I don't have any books to recommend but I do have some tips that may be of use to you though! Cooking: Start with simple recipes if you are new to the kitchen. Lasagna- no-boil noodles. Slow cooker for the lazy days. Lol Baking: Boxed cake is fine if baking is not your forte but you can make frosting from scratch or add things in the mix i.e. liquor, orange extract, fruit, etc... or after the bake i.e. fresh fruit, fondant, etc... Chemical-Free Cleaning: Vinegar diluted with water 50/50 instead …
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/21 04:23 PM
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Sounds like you're #2 and the ex is still #1. Why don't you make a PROS/CONS list about your relationship with him. After you've made the list see if costs are worth the rewards. Personally, I feel a relationship that brings insecurity will only lead to a rise in other issues i.e. self-esteem, trust, bitterness, etc... and it is hard to grow a fruitful relationship with that type of noise being constant in the background.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/21 09:52 PM
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Perhaps he is finding it difficult to be physically attracted to you again? ...but if porn did not even get him in the mood maybe the stress from feeling tired is preventing him from being aroused? To help get him in the mood...try helping him relax with a sensual massage (use this as foreplay) but only slightly brush around his tool area (lol), to help build up the sexual tension, and if he happens to get it up...then you know what to do from there. Have some tantric music playing in the backgr…
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/21 04:41 AM
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The relationship is artificial. Sometimes the best thing to do is to just cut it. Delete all messages, block the person and start to move on. Don't feel silly about your feelings. Sometimes you can't help how you feel but you can choose to do what you know is best for you. What is best might at the moment seem more painful but it's mostly fear of being or feeling alone.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/21 04:17 AM
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I could care less if a female is "weaker." That excuse is tired. A male should never have to be afraid of defending themselves and they don't need to check their strength just because it's a female attacker -- he owes his attacker no consideration. If a female wants to hit a male then she better be ready for the consequences if that male decides to hit back. Next time your brother is bullied by some girl or anyone- forget trying to have the school resolve it: Document the bullying. Take pictures…
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/21 04:01 AM
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What if you just keep your routine, and for your self care days work that around his schedule so it will be flexible to either alone time or quality time with him?
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/21 06:30 PM
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Does Insta not have an "only friends are allowed to private message" function in your profile/security settings?
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/21 05:27 PM
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Save the relationship? From what you wrote there's no indication of major conflict between the both of you. It may be benefical to first figure out what is going on with you...? Aside from maybe seeking help from a therapist who could hopefully help you sort out your emotions- it might be of help to you if you wrote down what your emotional needs are--presently? By writing them down it might help you see if those needs have changed. Sometimes we tend to project what we are seeking in ourselves o…
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/21 05:33 PM
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Sounds just as you described. Yes, it is his home on paper BUT if he says this is both your starter home then he would be considering your input as well. Especially if marriage is in the talks! There's always a happy medium to be found in mixing home decor taste. Example: He likes blue. The couch can be blue, but you get to pick the couch style. He likes a certain type of table. Cool. You choose the dinnerware. The walls--- can have both your likes on it. There's plenty of examples online on how…
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/21 10:15 PM
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Not everything on Red Pill is a guarantee. You can only control your actions, which includes your fears. If you allow this to consume you-you might just self-sabotage yourself into this self-fulfilling prophecy. Lay off or cut down on the Red Pill content. Do you have a hobby? Maybe find a hobby to replace your Red Pill consumption and as others suggested a therapist might help you find the necessary tools to help you manage your fears in a healthy manner.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/21 09:17 PM
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Sometimes simple is best. So for new learners still trying to gain confidence in the kitchen, learning to cook a few simple dishes can help you become a more confident cook, and encourage you to try expanding on the dish's flavor. For example, when I teach my young niece, we do dishes with no more than 3/4 ingredients and steps. Once she gets the hang of it- I slowly have her do dishes with more steps involved. She just made her first slow cooker lasagna the other day. A-MAZING! Her homemade din…
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/21 05:57 PM
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You've only been together for a month and you want to talk to him about his finances....? To you -he doesn't have a proper income. LOL. Define proper income? You have been seeing him for a month...why do you think you have a right to address him on what he chooses to do with his money? Are you both planning on living together, is he talking about marriage, do you see a proposal coming soon, in the near future...? If non of the above is happening, or in the plans then what he does with his money …
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/21 02:38 PM
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Same! I am extremely sensitive to the cold. A loose-fitting cashmere sweater and a pair of thermal pants are my go-to. I am actually in them now. Also, I keep socks on my bed, so in the morning I can just put them on before I get out of bed. What I like about cashmere is that I find it keeps me well insulated without having to pile on extra layers. A thin undershirt or no undershirt, as the fabric is extremely soft it feels fantastic on my skin, not itchy at all.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/21 04:34 AM
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Why? Emotional manipulation. Good to keep you in his back pocket- "just in case". He's not ready for commitment but genuinely enjoys your friendship or trying to get to FWB status... Who really knows----it's all speculative at this point. The only way to know is to just ask him. He may or may not answer honestly.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/21 02:17 AM
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Try an improv class. I have some people in my life who have taken improv to help them feel more comfortable expressing themselves, communicate better, build confidence, etc...who knows it might just help you lighten up and not feel so serious.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/21 09:32 PM
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You can start looking now if that is what you want! How about first looking to date someone which you both share similar values and beliefs? I do not think there's really an age-specific point when one knows they are emotionally mature enough for a relationship and not something you need to necessarily worry about. Proof--just scroll onto the biggest "Dear Diary" on the internet--Facebook. It's loaded with grown men/women of adult age acting like they're still in middle school. (ㆆ_ㆆ) Think you n…
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/21 04:10 AM
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Try out some different heel heights, and see what feels comfortable. I personally, enjoy my heel height to be about 2inches-3inches. Also do not forget posture. Good posture, engaging with your core while you walk, heel-to-toe gait, and taking small steps can make wearing/walking in heels comfortable. I also use light gel pads inside my heels for added comfort.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/21 03:16 AM
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Good luck! Personally, the negotiation route has yielded me a higher percentage of favorable outcomes when sometimes clear communication does not work. I completely understand! The battle of wants/necessity. Haha
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/21 06:20 PM
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I see three solutions here: Offer to do it as a team. You sort the clothes into piles, he loads the laundry into the wash. "Oh, hon, I really appreciate when you do the laundry, let me sort the clothes into laundry piles to ease a bit of the workload, teamwork makes the dreamwork" then give him a big o kiss, smiley face. Get a bigger washing machine. Beat him to the laundry.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/21 05:17 PM
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I enjoy wearing casual midi dresses at home (the ones that hug your figure loosely), long peasants skirts, or bohemian pants.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/21 10:45 PM
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I do everyday ballet at home, she has some tips, exercises on youtube, Instagram. Love, love the port de bras arm workouts, I also enjoy the overall program as it has a vary of options from 20mins-60mins workouts, and the format is just nice, simple, and clean.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/21 08:35 PM
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