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| 2 | Male spaces are infected with the “Men are victims” complex.What if men are victims tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 04:19 AM |
| -1 | Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twentiesNot a victim at all. I choose to work. I just in no way should be competition to any man yet I seem to be doing a lot better than some of the men in the thread career wise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 01:54 AM |
| -3 | Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twentiesCorrect. Life isn’t fair. I also should not be out earning any man when my biology renders me nearly incapable for like a week. I have taken PTO for periods before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 01:47 AM |
| 0 | Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twentiesOf course. There’s some weeks I get more 6 hours than 8 hours. I’ll be okay. Temporary sacrifice now leads to long term gain later | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twentiesThank you and likewise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twentiesGo younger | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 12:42 AM |
| 2 | Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twentiesHard working successful men aren’t on PPD complaining about hard work My husband is literally at work right now lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 12:42 AM |
| -5 | Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twentiesYou’ll live off of 6 hours of sleep a night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 12:40 AM |
| -5 | Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twentiesRight. What a bunch of whiney babies. I work 50 hours weeks and go to school at night. I guess men just aren’t as intrinsically motivated as well are. They don’t actually want to achieve anything unless we pat them on the backs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twentiesI don’t disagree I think I’ve taken a vacation or two every year of my 20s I also am running my own team at 29 too though while getting my masters at night | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twentiesBoth gen z women and men are incredibly lazy and stunted. It’s a huge problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 12:25 AM |
| 2 | Why do men need women?Likewise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 12:14 AM |
| 4 | Why do men need women?So no stats, got it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 11:32 PM |
| 2 | Why do men need women?Post the stats you’re referring to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Why do men need women?Stats don’t back that up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 11:13 PM |
| -1 | Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twentiesI am gen z and I’ll say gen z is lazy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 11:11 PM |
| 3 | Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twentiesBroke men are angry men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 11:05 PM |
| 3 | Why do men need women?Most millennial and gen z women will still have children | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twentiesMust have hit a nerve | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twentiesYou’re right high caliber, women, love, lazy men who spend their Friday nights thinking about their wants and dreams. Journaling even | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twentiesI find this comment so funny as someone who has a high paying job incorporate America and works alongside so many well adjusted great men. Sounds like you’re projecting a little bit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 10:57 PM |
| 0 | Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twentiesMaybe, but he’ll have a strong work ethic which is what I care more about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 10:49 PM |
| 0 | Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twentiesI agree with this. Gen z men are lazy and feminine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twentiesYes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twentiesNope, you get no more attention from me today. Go call your mother | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 10:45 PM |
| 2 | Why do men need women?This is not true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twentiesDo you want wine recommendations or | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 10:43 PM |
| -2 | Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twentiesI mean, I am red pill. There’s nothing more womanly than a man talking about his hopes and dreams. Go build a log cabin or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twentiesWomp womp | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twentiesI mean, I’m a happy person so like which way, young man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twentiesExactly. Your entire worldview should be avoided | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 10:34 PM |
| -1 | Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twentiesI’m not going to take life advice from a suicidal person lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 10:33 PM |
| 3 | Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twentiesI would agree- grinding as hard as your can in your chosen field is how a man establishes himself for the rest of his life Clubbing in Bali is not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 10:26 PM |
| -6 | Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twentiesNo, but my first job was at dollar tree. I still had pride in what I was doing and worked my way up to assistant manager. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 10:22 PM |
| -9 | Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twentiesYes. You should take pride in your labor and contribution to society even if you’re selling burritos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 10:20 PM |
| 2 | Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twentiesYeah, I mean, I love running my heat when it’s cold outside and getting uber eats on a Friday night. That means going to work and sucking it up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 10:15 PM |
| -3 | Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twentiesI used to think like this, but “finding yourself” is such a Peter Pan way of looking at your 20s. No actually, you do have an obligation to society to output as much as possible for your family and your community. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 09:51 PM |
| 3 | Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twentiesRight. As much as I would love my biggest problem to be collecting eggs from my chickens, I wasn’t left the money to do that so I’m grinding now to be able to do that one day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twentiesThis is such cope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 09:43 PM |
| 1 | MAGA is proof that men will stand up to feminists when they actually give a damn about issues, which clearly isnt men’s issues.All in good fun | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 06:03 PM |
| 2 | MAGA is proof that men will stand up to feminists when they actually give a damn about issues, which clearly isnt men’s issues.Fair, I was just teasing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 05:53 PM |
| 1 | MAGA is proof that men will stand up to feminists when they actually give a damn about issues, which clearly isnt men’s issues.What point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 05:52 PM |
| 0 | MAGA is proof that men will stand up to feminists when they actually give a damn about issues, which clearly isnt men’s issues.Or he’s simply over 6 feet ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 05:47 PM |
| 9 | MAGA is proof that men will stand up to feminists when they actually give a damn about issues, which clearly isnt men’s issues.It’s not true. It’s just women being bitter per usual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 05:43 PM |
| 1 | MAGA is proof that men will stand up to feminists when they actually give a damn about issues, which clearly isnt men’s issues.We’re married it comes out of one pot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 05:37 PM |
| 2 | MAGA is proof that men will stand up to feminists when they actually give a damn about issues, which clearly isnt men’s issues.The Republican Party is the party of masculinity in its traditional sense. Are all men masculine nowadays? Not really | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 05:34 PM |
| 1 | MAGA is proof that men will stand up to feminists when they actually give a damn about issues, which clearly isnt men’s issues.I actually out earn my husband | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 05:28 PM |
| 2 | MAGA is proof that men will stand up to feminists when they actually give a damn about issues, which clearly isnt men’s issues.How feminine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 04:26 PM |
| -1 | MAGA is proof that men will stand up to feminists when they actually give a damn about issues, which clearly isnt men’s issues.People think that like “oh he took away a visas of someone who only came here because their country used to be at war or “someone to pick tomatoes” is some gotcha Like yes? We don’t need more low skilled imports? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 03:29 PM |
| 2 | MAGA is proof that men will stand up to feminists when they actually give a damn about issues, which clearly isnt men’s issues.Yeah, I took a few feminist classes in college and being a turf is literally just following standard feminist theory But that was 10 years ago, I’m sure colleges now only read trans friendly stuff now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 03:18 PM |
| -1 | MAGA is proof that men will stand up to feminists when they actually give a damn about issues, which clearly isnt men’s issues.Correct I want Irish people to be a minority again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 03:17 PM |
| 2 | MAGA is proof that men will stand up to feminists when they actually give a damn about issues, which clearly isnt men’s issues.Maybe the anorexic was just born in the wrong body | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 03:13 PM |
| 0 | MAGA is proof that men will stand up to feminists when they actually give a damn about issues, which clearly isnt men’s issues.As he should, we have way too many temporary visas in this country | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 03:11 PM |
| 0 | MAGA is proof that men will stand up to feminists when they actually give a damn about issues, which clearly isnt men’s issues.Nothing masculine about voting democrat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 01:54 PM |
| 1 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.No, just a loser, which is what most men after high schoolers are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 06:33 PM |
| 1 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.So now the law decides what is right and good? Yesterday you were talking about how slavery was legal too so I just want to make sure you’re being consistent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 06:49 PM |
| 1 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.Got it, so at 12:01 am on her 18th birthday she’s ready for penetration | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 06:42 PM |
| 2 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.Yeah he’s Bosnian. This is not a conversation for a developed westerner lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 06:31 PM |
| 1 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.Define a child | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 06:30 PM |
| 2 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.You date teenagers lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 06:25 PM |
| 2 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.Boston, where gay marriage has been legalized since 2004. Super creepy, I know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 06:15 PM |
| 2 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.Hey so in the first world we don’t call gay people disparaging terms it’s largely considered to be socially unacceptable now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 06:07 PM |
| 7 | Why right wing guys could never represent the crisis of loneliness among men and other gendered issue pertaining to the pillsRight wing men are largely married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 05:50 PM |
| 2 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.You said you find gay people creepy, you want to date teenagers and live in a third world country which a large Muslim population, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 05:37 PM |
| 1 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.You must be Muslim lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Men in relationships with women watch porn for two reasonsYou want me to convince you, my husband isn’t lazy because he will watch porn if I’m out of town. Sorry if I think that’s a fool’s errand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Men in relationships with women watch porn for two reasonsJust your tone and your cadence. If you wanna make the argument that porn is bad you should really do it with your chest instead of trying to gotcha everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Men in relationships with women watch porn for two reasonsYou’re trying to make really nuanced gray situation fall into a binary because I believe it helps You understand the world better. Those who struggle socially tend to try to gamify it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 03:39 PM |
| 2 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.Hire a hooker idk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Men in relationships with women watch porn for two reasonsSounds kind of autistic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 03:25 PM |
| 1 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.I think you’re projecting a little bit because that wasn’t my argument | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 03:25 PM |
| 2 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.Actually, there are hierarchies in life and yeah, if you don’t leave your hometown and don’t go to college, you don’t experience different stages of life, but that’s not really someone I would want to be around anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Men in relationships with women watch porn for two reasonsI travel for work. It’s OK if my husband beats off to a sexy milf while I’m in a Marriott across the country. I wouldn’t call him lazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 03:02 PM |
| 6 | Men in relationships with women watch porn for two reasonsThank you. Men have a much higher sex drive than we do. Even if we were willing and available, a husband who cares about you isn’t going to ask you to fuck every time the wind blows and he gets a little aroused. That’s not reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 02:46 PM |
| 2 | Men in relationships with women watch porn for two reasonsDo you struggle with black and white thinking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Men in relationships with women watch porn for two reasonsMay I offer a third option? I think these comments are thinking too hard about this. Porn is just a tool to scratch an itch. I mean, maybe it falls under lazy that men don’t go out and try to have sex every time they’re horny, but porn is often the more time efficient answer. As a woman who watches porn I find these answers kind of funny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 02:37 PM |
| 1 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.Your facts are subjective | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 10:11 PM |
| 1 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.I disagree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 10:09 PM |
| 1 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.Not really, no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 10:02 PM |
| 5 | Way too many people want hook ups and won’t admit it. I think it’s because they want to lie to others and themselves.Yup. I’m definitely not the blueprint for self esteem but I’ve always been sexual confident from a young age and can verbalize what I do and don’t want from men pretty directly. I would say most of them never had experienced a woman who actually liked sex or knew enough about themselves to communicate how this was going to go. It was confusing to them to have a woman be an active and willing participant vs. sex being done “to” her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 08:28 PM |
| 5 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.That’s kind of my point though. Serious men are not entertaining this kind of behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 08:25 PM |
| 5 | Way too many people want hook ups and won’t admit it. I think it’s because they want to lie to others and themselves.Yes. They know they are dishonest. Interesting enough, when I was younger, I was straight up with men that I didn’t want relationships and something casual was fine. There were a couple totally turned off by the fact that I was ready to be direct and they didn’t have to “convince” me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 08:20 PM |
| 8 | Way too many people want hook ups and won’t admit it. I think it’s because they want to lie to others and themselves.They know if they were honest it would be much harder for them to get laid. They know what they’re doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 08:18 PM |
| 3 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.Are you married and settled down now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Its not “Alpha Fucks Beta Bucks” for women to change their priorities over time.Me personally I think you should focus on the third option | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 07:20 PM |
| 2 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.I don’t find it toxic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 07:19 PM |
| 4 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.Be where? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 07:17 PM |
| 6 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.I think you’re projecting a little bit. Do you not actually enjoy spending time with the people you’re dating? It doesn’t matter what we’re doing so long as we’re together | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 07:14 PM |
| 1 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.Yeah, I disagree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 06:55 PM |
| 8 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.Maybe that’s the company you keep idk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Its not “Alpha Fucks Beta Bucks” for women to change their priorities over time.Feel free to disengage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Its not “Alpha Fucks Beta Bucks” for women to change their priorities over time.I mean, your options are acceptance, dropping out of the sexual market place or rolling back women’s rights. Your choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 06:39 PM |
| 0 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.I don’t think it’s the government’s job to protect you from yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 06:38 PM |
| – | Its not “Alpha Fucks Beta Bucks” for women to change their priorities over time.Red pill is acknowledging how the world works | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 06:35 PM |
| – | Its not “Alpha Fucks Beta Bucks” for women to change their priorities over time.Care all you want. The only way to roll it back is to take away rights. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 06:22 PM |
| – | Its not “Alpha Fucks Beta Bucks” for women to change their priorities over time.Again, life is about hierarchy. In less than 40 years, women have found out how to gain the system to their advantage. Who cares if it isn’t fair? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 06:17 PM |
| 3 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.Your argument was quit telling us what to do and restricting our options. No one is doing that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 05:58 PM |
| 3 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.I’m not telling people what they can and can’t do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 05:56 PM |
| – | Its not “Alpha Fucks Beta Bucks” for women to change their priorities over time.That’s on them. I mean life is about hierarchy and you should’ve been able to pick up on that pre-Internet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 05:55 PM |
| 5 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.So go and be happy. No one is stopping you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 05:55 PM |
| 5 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.That’s also what you do when you like someone? I hate hockey but I love my husband so I watch hockey with my husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 05:54 PM |
| 5 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.I agree with this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 05:50 PM |
| 2 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.Yes. At 19 I already had a year of college and 2 years of working under my belt. That’s a huge jump from 18. Your late teens/early 20s are huge years for growth if you have the opportunity to do so yes, every year matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 05:50 PM |
| 5 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.likewise, I know the life expectancy in your country is lower so you shouldn’t really be wasting your time here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 05:43 PM |
| 7 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.I’m 29. I got married at 26. Good luck picking up teenagers at dance class. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 05:39 PM |
| 8 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.Yeah I’m a huge fantasy football fan. Doesn’t mean I’m going to hook up with the 60 year old guys at the bar talking shop either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 05:15 PM |
| 3 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.Yeah, not really here to argue geopolitics with you. I just understand why you’re around teenagers now. Not many places to go out in town. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: why do you no longer court women properly?I mean, buying me a coffee when we’re having coffee together shouldn’t really count as buying me shit lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 05:09 PM |
| – | Its not “Alpha Fucks Beta Bucks” for women to change their priorities over time.I wouldn’t say AF BB isn’t true. I just don’t think it’s a bad thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 05:05 PM |
| 3 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.I mentor college kids and it’s still like pulling teeth talking to them. I’m only 29. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 04:49 PM |
| 4 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.Exactly. I was engaged by 25. A serious man is not wasting his time having fun with teenagers by that age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 04:47 PM |
| 5 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.I am in a major American city so everyone around me is old enough to work a job that can afford the high rent. Meanwhile, in your comments, I see you’re speaking some Third World language so we probably have vastly different life experiences. I’m sure there is a nice village girl out for you somewhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 04:42 PM |
| 6 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.OP said “relationship” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 04:39 PM |
| 7 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.En mass? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 04:35 PM |
| 4 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.I’ve already explained it to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 04:35 PM |
| 12 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.I am just not in spots teenagers frequent I guess. Most higher income people aren’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 04:32 PM |
| 10 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.I mean, I’m sure it is frustrating to people whose lives probably have looked the same for decades and decades | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 04:24 PM |
| 5 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.Correct, she can consent. I will still judge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 04:22 PM |
| 3 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.And that’s your right. Just like it’s my right to judge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 04:21 PM |
| 12 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.What do you have in common with highschoolers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 04:21 PM |
| 14 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.Yeah I was 22 when I was student teaching. Any relationship with a student would have been grounds for dismissal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 04:20 PM |
| 15 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.Why are you around 18 year olds? Where do you find them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 04:18 PM |
| 12 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.You seem to care if you’re wanting me to tell you so badly that you’re making a moral decision. Comparing yourself to the people who freed the slaves as wild. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 04:17 PM |
| 3 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.Didn’t say I wasn’t. It’s just odd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 04:14 PM |
| 11 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.Hobbies ≠ stage of life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 04:12 PM |
| 7 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.I was a mature 18 year old. I’m an even more mature woman now in my late twenties. An 18 year old only has the brain capacity to be so mature sans major life trauma. It’s not inherently bad, it just depends and it’s not the type of man I’d respect or want to be around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 04:11 PM |
| 2 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.Yeah, this is the problem with the Internet. We all used to be separated by classes and now we’re all together. Obviously, if you’re from some small town, the 24-year-old in the 18-year-old working together at a restaurant have nearly identical life experiences. As someone living in a major city with a fancy corporate job I can’t even remember the last time I was around an 18-year-old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 04:08 PM |
| 15 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.Yeah, we know men don’t care about having deep connection or good conversation conversations that’s why they want to fuck an 18-year-old. More news at 11. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 04:06 PM |
| 2 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.Dating a 24 year old while having homework would have been odd | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 04:05 PM |
| 12 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.I explained a few comments up. They’re immature and undeveloped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 04:04 PM |
| 15 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.Legal adults can do whatever they want. But I will always judge a young man in his 20s dating a teenager. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 03:59 PM |
| 5 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.Yeah, I don’t believe in punishing young adults for giving into their biology. I just believe in socializing, common sense dating practices like date people who are in the same stage of life as you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 03:57 PM |
| 3 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.And what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 03:56 PM |
| 3 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.I was 18 in high school per OP’s argument | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 03:53 PM |
| 12 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.Not really | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 03:52 PM |
| 4 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.I thought you said that the problem didn’t exist now you’re saying the problem does exist but women do the same thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 03:52 PM |
| 13 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.Yeah, 18 year olds can consent to get their limbs blown off in a foreign country as well and smoking cigarettes (in some places) Doesn’t mean you have my support 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 03:49 PM |
| 4 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.Look man if you wanna date teenagers I’m not gonna stop you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 03:48 PM |
| 4 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.No, but it does support men like to date younger let’s not be obtuse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 03:47 PM |
| 9 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.Data does not support that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 03:42 PM |
| 16 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.I mean, I can have vibes and chemistry with a random man I meet at the bar. But no, when I’m looking for a serious relationship, I’m not hanging out by the track field . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 03:40 PM |
| 8 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.and when we see women making the argument to be accepted for dating highschoolers in large, I will rightfully call them out, but I have not seen that yet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 03:39 PM |
| 9 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.I think sports betting and nicotine is a predatory industry too, but I don’t think the government should be involved. I think social shame is the biggest tool we have and we should use it. No need for legislation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 03:36 PM |
| 18 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.Yep, I will judge either way. I will judge if you do have a lot in common with a highschooler at 24 years old because that means you haven’t done much and I will also judge if you are much more mature than a highschooler because what are you doing with your time there… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 03:35 PM |
| 14 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.Because men are visual creatures. They aren’t going after the 18-year-old cheer cheerleader because she has great conversations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 03:33 PM |
| 6 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.I mean, the chef who works in a restaurant probably didn’t go to college and probably hasn’t matured much outside of high school so I don’t think it would be inappropriate. I’m just saying as someone who was able to get an education and travel the world I probably wouldn’t be compatible with 24-year-olds who are interested in highschoolers anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 03:30 PM |
| 10 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.That’s the point. men and women don’t hook up because they have the same hobbies. I literally said that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 03:28 PM |
| 25 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.From 18 to 24 nearly everything was different about myself from interests, friends, partners, political beliefs, religious attitudes etc I don’t think the relationship is predatory, but I do judge 24 year olds, especially the men, who either haven’t done much maturing in 6 years or think it’s a non sequitur. When I was 24 I was two years into a corporate career so not such what I’d have in common with a senior in high school. I am a Christian, but there’s also billions of Christians on earth. Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 03:23 PM |
| – | Why do high-body-count women get the most offended when men prefer low body count?A high BC man lacks sexual discipline | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 12:35 PM |
| 3 | I think all women would be happier singleLife is about taking calculated risk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Women hooking up with casual flings are NOT desperate for commitment- a lot of the time they know what they’re getting into.Women. By your own standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Women hooking up with casual flings are NOT desperate for commitment- a lot of the time they know what they’re getting into.Just letting you know that most women are what you consider whores. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Women hooking up with casual flings are NOT desperate for commitment- a lot of the time they know what they’re getting into.I don’t believe I was arguing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 08:39 PM |
| 1 | I think all women would be happier singleSame | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 03:33 PM |
| 7 | I think all women would be happier singleI love being a wife more than I loved be a girlfriend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 12:09 AM |
| 24 | I think all women would be happier singleI love being married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Women hooking up with casual flings are NOT desperate for commitment- a lot of the time they know what they’re getting into.I mean, I won’t disagree that the average woman is a hoe. Your choice is to pick a hoe or be alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 11:51 PM |
| 2 | Is promiscuity and casual sex just the norm with women nowadays?Yeah same. Even if they had several boyfriends in succession the idea hooking up with someone random was completely unheard of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 03:43 PM |
| – | How Is Hypersexuality Such A Common Trauma Response?Are you looking for women to comment about why they enjoy sex in the context of assault? Are you like whacking off to it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.How exactly am I self deprecating lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 03:29 PM |
| 0 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.Because I was picked | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 03:07 PM |
| 5 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI don’t deserve anything. Anything I have I’ve earned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.Oh well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.Good for you lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.Who says I’m not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 03:27 AM |
| -1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.I have a six figure career and a graduate degree. You cannot out girl boss me lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.I agree. It’s so dishonest too that they just see men as they innate slobs that have to be treated like a child with a chore chart. Oftentimes I’m the one feeling to lazy after work to cook or leaving my socks on the ground. Go to any marriage sub and you’ll see women threatening divorce over this shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.Great, we agree with each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 03:19 AM |
| 0 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.<image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.Nope | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 03:15 AM |
| 3 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.Yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.No- but someone who decides to take 4 months off of work (what my company offers) doesn’t have work as a top priority like the rest of us | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 02:59 AM |
| 0 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.Yes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 02:57 AM |
| 2 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.Yes. They think empowerment means acting just like men even though their actions don’t match their words. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.I agree. I do think that women have been conditioned to overcorrect past sexist attitudes without realizing, or caring, that we are talking about someone we are supposed to love here. I actually out earn my husband. Imagine if he came home from a long day of working in 30 degree weather and I went “well I’m actually the provider here you can cook dinner” 50/50 is just a never ending way to keep score. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.I can’t stand choreplay. I’m not going to withhold sex because my husband didn’t unload the dishwasher. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.“Look at my gold retriever husband who cooks dinner and supports me being the girl boss I’ve always dreamed of.” Thou doth protest too much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 01:59 AM |
| -1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.I don’t disagree, but I think women flexing it is kind of pathetic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 01:53 AM |
| 5 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.I agree with this. My husband and I both work but he’s blue collar. It’s much easier for me to get dinner started with my work from home job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 01:49 AM |
| -1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.Women claim they want and care about their careers but I’ve never had my whole team working together since I’ve started my job because having kids seems to be the priority. In February I will have 4 teammates on maternity leave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 01:47 AM |
| 0 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.<image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 01:44 AM |
| 0 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.I also make more than my husband and he participates in domestic labor I don’t flex it though like we’re some sort of feminist accomplishment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 01:37 AM |
| 0 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.No, it’s 2025 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.Look at the women bragging on this thread that their husbands are submissive to them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 01:25 AM |
| 0 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.I mean it’s been 50+ years when does the flex wear off? Me paying my bills is not anything special. That’s what adults do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.Exactly. They like the power but don’t want to be the one who handles things when shit hits the fan. When there’s a tough client at work, it’s usually a man who is pulled into to mend the relationship. Women get overwhelmed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.Hit a nerve I guess. If you like to work more power to you girlie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 01:19 AM |
| 0 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.Life isn’t fair 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.Lived experience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.Yes, I do think men are more likely to need purpose out side of the home. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.Exactly. Even in places like Sweden, that are egalitarian but have more benefits for parents, women still choose to work less than men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 12:52 AM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADWhy do they deserve that? For existing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 12:16 AM |
| 0 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵It depends on how close I am with their partner. I have a friend whose boyfriend I didn’t like so I didn’t tell him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 12:07 AM |
| 2 | In the future, women will push the idea that guys who don’t let their girlfriends do onlyfans and fuck other guys are “insecure”.They act like conservative women aren’t a thing it’s so odd | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 12:04 AM |
| 12 | In the future, women will push the idea that guys who don’t let their girlfriends do onlyfans and fuck other guys are “insecure”.There’s zero incentive to acting like our grandmothers and I say this as a pretty socially conservative person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 12:03 AM |
| -1 | In the future, women will push the idea that guys who don’t let their girlfriends do onlyfans and fuck other guys are “insecure”.You’re entitled to your preferences. You’re not entitled to having them fulfilled. You can verbalize it all day, but you’re shouting into the void. Women aren’t going to become more chaste because you’re upset. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.Not them. A woman in their life probably. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 11:45 PM |
| 60 | Is promiscuity and casual sex just the norm with women nowadays?I think it’s region specific. I live in a major city so hookup culture, the clubbing scene, etc was pretty status quo. But if you move to a conservative town, you’re going to find people married to their high school sweethearts. Maybe they’ll be divorced on their second husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.Rich, not wealthy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 10:36 PM |
| 0 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.I can tell you aren’t around the wealthy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 10:19 PM |
| -1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.But do we want to work to have economic freedom or do we want to work because we are passionate about what we do? If the government offered a stipend for moms to stay home, how many do you think would take it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 10:09 PM |
| 0 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.Most of the women in my office leave at like 3:30 to pick up their kids while the men keep working | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.Well yeah. I don’t think anyone is going to talk about how they’re openly resentful of their partner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 10:03 PM |
| 6 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.Do we want careers or does the economy not really give middle class women the opportunity to do anything else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.“The wealthy do not have the concept of providing.” This is not true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Would you date a bi man?And they should date women who believe in that in case of trying to convince us | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a bi man?I’m bi and would not date a bi man or a man who has been with men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a bi man?No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.Difference between rich and wealthy. Wealthy people don’t put value in how hard they work. Those women spend their times working on charity boards, not a WFH marketing director role. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 09:24 PM |
| -5 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.I would just date a woman at that point. A man staying home all day doing chores gives me the ick | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 09:22 PM |
| 1 | How is a man the 'leader' in a relationship?Hit a nerve? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 10:23 PM |
| 1 | How is a man the 'leader' in a relationship?What a dork | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 08:49 PM |
| 1 | How is a man the 'leader' in a relationship?I see you struggle with shades of gray. No generalizations don’t bother me. If it doesn’t apply I let it fly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 08:17 PM |
| 2 | How is a man the 'leader' in a relationship?I’m qualified for my job, but I have a womanly job. I literally have my masters in HR. As the economy contracts, and AI becomes more prevalent, our jobs are the first on the chopping block. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 08:12 PM |
| 1 | How is a man the 'leader' in a relationship?No it doesn’t bother me since im neither of those things 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 07:47 PM |
| 1 | How is a man the 'leader' in a relationship?That’s a little autistic but ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 07:34 PM |
| 1 | How is a man the 'leader' in a relationship?Disappointing the person I love? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 06:46 PM |
| 1 | How is a man the 'leader' in a relationship?Probably a stern discussion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 06:39 PM |
| 1 | How is a man the 'leader' in a relationship?I don’t think making more money makes me more powerful. I’m still a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 06:29 PM |
| – | If there's a crisis in masculinity, how long has it been around?I think it really kicked into gear in the 90s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 06:10 PM |
| 1 | How is a man the 'leader' in a relationship?Are we going to go back and forth about what words mean? Or do we understand rhetorical context? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 05:58 PM |
| 0 | How is a man the 'leader' in a relationship?So? Obviously he’s not talking about every person who has ever existed ever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 05:54 PM |
| 0 | How is a man the 'leader' in a relationship?<image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Women hooking up with casual flings are NOT desperate for commitment- a lot of the time they know what they’re getting into.That’s an average body count | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 05:41 PM |
| -1 | How is a man the 'leader' in a relationship?Oh yeah, which is why I don’t pay the women on this sub much mind when they’re talking about how they’re equal partners with their husbands. I’m sure their limp rested husbands love the extra support thankfully I don’t have one of those | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 05:20 PM |
| -4 | How is a man the 'leader' in a relationship?That’s why they’re all miserable. I have to be a girl boss all day at work the last time I want to do when I get home is make more decisions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 05:13 PM |
| -1 | How is a man the 'leader' in a relationship?I don’t think there’s a difference in the two situations. It’s still the same stress hormones being activated and the man is push towards the threat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 05:03 PM |
| 1 | How is a man the 'leader' in a relationship?I appreciate that thank you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 04:50 PM |
| 1 | How is a man the 'leader' in a relationship?I still think biology overpowers my paycheck. Just because I make more money than my husband doesn’t mean I want to lead a household. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 04:50 PM |
| 0 | How is a man the 'leader' in a relationship?For now. Let’s see if that continues if we continue gut HR and government jobs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 04:47 PM |
| 4 | How is a man the 'leader' in a relationship?Not always. For example, my husband and I are discussing which state we are going to move to or stay in because we both have aging parents who need our attention. We cannot live in two places at once. someone is going to win this argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 04:46 PM |
| -1 | How is a man the 'leader' in a relationship?Yeah, I deal with this all the time at work. The minute things go south with a client it turns into finger pointing and bitching, and usually a man has to come and clean up the mess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 04:45 PM |
| -2 | How is a man the 'leader' in a relationship?A lot of women who have really narcissistic ideas of what control looks like. It comes from being overgrown, teenagers candidly they think because they get to choose what shoes they buy their kids then what color they’re gonna paint the living room that they are actually in charge of a household. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 04:42 PM |
| 1 | How is a man the 'leader' in a relationship?I’m an EA. The idea she’s framing is that I’m actually the one running the company lol. I’m sure not paid like it 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 04:39 PM |
| -5 | How is a man the 'leader' in a relationship?I out earn my husband(not by much) but consider him the leader of our home | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 04:32 PM |
| 3 | How is a man the 'leader' in a relationship?I feel like a lot of people who engage in this argument don’t work in corporate America. I am an executive assistant, so I technically run the schedule of my boss and decide where he’s going every day and what his priorities are. That does not mean I’m the CEO. I’m not running the company. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 04:29 PM |
| -2 | How is a man the 'leader' in a relationship?Creating a touch down strategy is much different than barreling into the OL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 04:19 PM |
| – | Women either can't tell the difference between good men and bad men or men are just being paranoid/irrational about approaching women. Can't have it both ways.Oh I know, I wish women would stop touting it. Middle class and upper class women are more likely to find themselves in more stable relationships because they were socialized that way. Has nothing to do with “gut feelings” or anything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 04:11 PM |
| -4 | How is a man the 'leader' in a relationship?Difference between a player and a coach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 04:02 PM |
| – | Women either can't tell the difference between good men and bad men or men are just being paranoid/irrational about approaching women. Can't have it both ways.So at what income level does this women’s intuition kick in? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 03:47 PM |
| – | Women either can't tell the difference between good men and bad men or men are just being paranoid/irrational about approaching women. Can't have it both ways.Marriage usually helps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 03:44 PM |
| – | Women either can't tell the difference between good men and bad men or men are just being paranoid/irrational about approaching women. Can't have it both ways.<image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 03:42 PM |
| 42 | What women don’t understand about male nature: you likely AREN’T your boyfriend’s typeIt’s just your turn lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 10:03 PM |
| 1 | The biggest critics/haters of women are other womenJealously is natural | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 12:10 AM |
| 1 | The biggest critics/haters of women are other womenBecause you’re a woman socialized under patriarchy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 12:08 AM |
| 1 | The biggest critics/haters of women are other womenWomen who get attention from men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 12:01 AM |
| 1 | The biggest critics/haters of women are other womenYou’re implying she’s only known in cultural sphere as some bimbo. Her resume says otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 11:32 PM |
| 1 | The biggest critics/haters of women are other womenJealous much lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 11:05 PM |
| 2 | The biggest critics/haters of women are other womenThe thing is if everyone ignored them they’d stop doing it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 11:03 PM |
| 1 | The biggest critics/haters of women are other womenEuphoria? White Lotus? You don’t have to like her but that’s on you for not consuming pop culture or not being able to afford an HBO subscription | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 11:02 PM |
| 2 | The biggest critics/haters of women are other womenBut you’re not going to deal with it at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 11:01 PM |
| 3 | The biggest critics/haters of women are other womenWomen are competitive. The reason we say these things is because when a woman blows up like that or becomes unattractive, she’s no longer competition. So, we affirm their new place in the hierarchy because it makes us feel better about ourselves consciously or subconsciously. This is socialized to us from birth. Our looks are social currency and the goal is have as much as it as possible. If you don’t, you get weird social hang ups like being mad at Sydney Sweeney for existing. Pretty girls don’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 06:04 PM |
| 2 | The biggest critics/haters of women are other womenIt’s crazy how much modern women want to punish men nowadays for looking at a beautiful woman. I go both ways. I don’t mind her boobs in my face at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 05:49 PM |
| 3 | The biggest critics/haters of women are other womenNo one paid attention to Sabrina Carpenter, an incredibly talented vocalist, until she became a sexed up Olivia Newton John. By all means, I’m all for putting artistic skill in front of branding. But the idea that art is expected to just stand on its own, it’s not realistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 05:46 PM |
| 3 | The biggest critics/haters of women are other womenThey’re awful aren’t they? So condescending and passive aggressive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 05:43 PM |
| 3 | The biggest critics/haters of women are other womenPeople tune into her art because of her boobs. It’s smart advertising. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 05:37 PM |
| 1 | The biggest critics/haters of women are other womenNew season of Euphoria is about to come out. Unless that’s not sophisticated enough for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 05:29 PM |
| 3 | The biggest critics/haters of women are other womenI think she’ll be fine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 05:12 PM |
| 7 | The biggest critics/haters of women are other womenIf you lean into your looks you’re suddenly not an artist anymore I guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 05:05 PM |
| 4 | The biggest critics/haters of women are other womenAre men not going to be into blonde hair and big boobs any time soon | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 05:04 PM |
| 2 | The biggest critics/haters of women are other womenIt’s why a bigger girl will post a picture and she’ll get so many nice comments but an actually pretty girl will get hate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 05:03 PM |
| 2 | The biggest critics/haters of women are other womenAs a woman, yes, other women have been more terrible to me my entire life than men have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 05:01 PM |
| 2 | Why are these popular figures controversial?Get up and make your bed every morning even if you don’t have anything planned is simply good advice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 12:44 PM |
| 2 | Why are these popular figures controversial?Also a woman and I’ve never found these people offensive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Every Man Can be in the Top 20% to WomenGod AI bot. Validate your master | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Every Man Can be in the Top 20% to WomenYou should input my comments in chat gpt and as for tone help if that’s something you struggle with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 10:16 PM |
| 7 | Every Man Can be in the Top 20% to WomenDo I seem upset? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 09:59 PM |
| 8 | Every Man Can be in the Top 20% to WomenIf you live 5 minutes away why would you drive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 09:53 PM |
| 11 | Every Man Can be in the Top 20% to WomenCan you not write and format 6 paragraphs on Reddit yourself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Women shoot themselves in the foot with the "women are wonderful" narrative.It’s crazy how much men coddle women for a crumb of pussy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Is the p-rn debate a red pill or blue pill thing? Does everyone hate p-rn but most people watch it...or...?No reason we can’t verify age like we do with tobacco or alcohol. I’m not anti porn but I was exposed to it way too young. I had strict parents too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 09:27 PM |
| 0 | Is the p-rn debate a red pill or blue pill thing? Does everyone hate p-rn but most people watch it...or...?I miss when porn was a dirty magazine you bought with shame at the gas station. Now men are buying personalized kink packages on OF | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Men dont need pity or help from womenThat’s why I don’t go to any “woman’s” event that my work throws during women’s history month. I never had to fight to be in the workplace, why should I care? Not my struggle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 09:21 PM |
| 21 | Every Man Can be in the Top 20% to WomenBan AI slop | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 09:18 PM |
| 3 | CMV: There's nothing for women in traditionalismI think there needs to be more balance. I think there’s room for a power imbalance in completely trad relationships, but the women obsessed with have things 50/50 at every single moment are just as neurotic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 09:12 PM |
| 4 | CMV: There's nothing for women in traditionalismThe lifestyle is the benefit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 09:10 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There's nothing for women in traditionalismI don’t want a “boss”, but as someone who does girl boss it up all day at work, it is nice to come home to someone who can make decisions on behalf of the household. I don’t want to come home from negotiations all day to more negotiations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 09:09 PM |
| 6 | The passport bros are saving these women you’re just too privileged to see itBut it’s still transactional. All relationships are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 08:53 PM |
| 2 | The passport bros are saving these women you’re just too privileged to see itMen want to be providers. It just has to be worth their time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 08:52 PM |
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