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Don't just "be yourself" http://therationalmale.com/2012/01/13/just-be-yourself/
/r/seduction24/06/15 04:20 AM
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http://therationalmale.com/2012/01/13/just-be-yourself/
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 10:38 PM
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When she wants to be just friends. Here's what the girl really means: "I've pegged you for a chump. I don't think you have options with other women, and I don't think you're willing to walk away, so I'm going to frame this relationship on my terms. We fuck when I want to, and that's going to be after I've made you jump through a bunch of hoops to prove you're my little compliant bitch who's going to give me all the time, resources, and validation I want, at will. If you were a real man, you’d ha…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 05:42 PM
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The ironic thing about this is, if he had actually survived, he would be knee deep in pussy!
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 10:51 PM
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Two key things that helped me with establishing my frame and maintaining it were: Amused Mastery and Dread Game.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 09:20 PM
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http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/04/16/texting-driver-hits-bicyclist-i-dont-care_n_5158966.html
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 09:08 PM
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The Manosphere: A New Hope For Masculinity by Ian Ironwood
/r/RedPillBooks16/04/14 11:19 PM
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You can read more about shit tests on Rational Male blog or TRP.
/r/seduction06/03/14 05:08 AM
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Smile or Smirk?
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 12:31 AM
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I immediately apologised, again and again. That was his only mistake. Shit test, failed.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/13 12:24 AM
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I spoke with SoM most days on the IRC. Last he told me he was getting into a new field for work.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/13 12:19 AM
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To be fair that guy did fit the stereotypical college frat guy, I mean he had a Ed Hardy belt on for christ sakes. Though I see your point.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/13 06:54 PM
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I'm saying don't pay for them, harg is assuming OP is already in the mind set that he needs to pay for them to make a good impression. We are both advising against it. OP don't dwell on her friends too much. If they like you then good but if they don't it shouldn't be a huge deal. If your girlfriend senses you are seeking the approval and validation of others she will lose attraction for you.
/r/seduction13/09/13 11:23 PM
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We are both making the same point.
/r/seduction13/09/13 11:16 PM
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What ever you do don't pay for them.
/r/seduction13/09/13 11:12 PM
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Ideally he should never give them a number, always answer that question as if it were a joke.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/13 09:49 PM
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This responsive while positive sounds way too close to what Seddit produces. Be careful with throwing around the whole "be yourself" motto.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/13 09:37 PM
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I don't even bother trying to tell you what do you because I know you won't listen to me. I can't read you at all and I hate it! ( I smirk a lot and she always get gitty when I do) I've noticed people don't want to get on your bad side. (She notices how others interact with me TAKE NOTE FELLAS)
/r/TheRedPill12/08/13 06:19 PM
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Smirk is king. Always make them wonder what you are thinking.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/13 07:38 PM
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Check out the outline for RPW, it will give you a better understanding. The fact that adopting this lifestyle scares you is because you see some truth in it. Once you become conscious of all this new information that makes you responsible to act accordingly. http://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/1giney/welcome_to_red_pill_women/
/r/TheRedPill31/07/13 11:03 PM
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How isn't it? Women want Men who will lead them. The instant the womans doubts your ability to lead her in life and the relationship is the moment she starts to lose attraction for you. She can't help it. I would only show a little emotion if I am in LTR because you have give SOMETHING to her or else she will have no investment.
/r/seduction30/07/13 07:07 PM
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Yes speak the truth and be unfiltered I agree. Women don't want to hear about your fears and problems. That is what your male friends are for.
/r/seduction30/07/13 07:05 PM
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I'll quote the no-maam blog. You cannot expect a woman to be your true confidant, your soul-mate, and your respite to lean upon during the stormy times in life. That is your role for her benefit. It does not work in reverse, for as soon as you believe it can work that way, she will lose confidence in your ability to lead her and begin to resent you. I never said anything about acting perfect.
/r/seduction29/07/13 07:58 PM
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Showing your emotions and vulnerabilities to a woman is the fastest way for her to lose attraction.
/r/seduction29/07/13 07:23 PM
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I'm not really sure what to do now, but I just felt like giving this small rant that I realized I'm a huge beta. You are here so that's a start. Everyone has gone through these issues and if you can learn from them and gain then it isn't a total loss. Obviously you need to stop communication with her immediately OR make your intentions clear with her. I'm sure once you tell her you aren't interested in being her lap dog she will deem you as an asshole and probably stop talking to you anyways. Fr…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/13 12:22 AM
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BluePill is going to love this thread.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/13 05:49 PM
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Dread game at its finest. Fucking amazing feeling I tell ya.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/13 06:42 PM
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GASTON FUCK YES!!!!!!!!!!
/r/TheRedPill28/06/13 06:23 PM
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http://therationalmale.com/2011/09/13/rewriting-the-rules/
/r/seduction25/06/13 07:58 PM
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It begins...
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 04:07 AM
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Not to be mean but she sounds like a child. When a child has a tantrum you let them moan and holler, don't give in and they will learn that tantrums won't solve the problem. I suggest the same method with your wife. Sound's awful familiar to a blog entry I have read before. Oh wait it's on our sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/13 07:35 PM
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Son of Man.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/13 07:23 PM
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Cuse me' I have something in my eye.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/13 06:47 PM
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Here is one RPS posted not too long ago. I thought it was beautiful. "Mating is a zero sum game, yes, in the sense that what best benefits a man's imperative will be at the peril of a woman's imperative (and vice versa). However, you are incorrect in believing that adapting masculine traits and ditching realistic goals to ensure a high self-value are effective long-term female strategies- in essence, that's the the feminists' playbook, and it's exactly what's lead to a huge number of single wome…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 04:59 PM
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I love this, the very end reminds me of the Terminator 2 movie where they throw the T-1000 into the lava and he desperately changes into every form he knows. Well this hamster did the exact same thing and pulled out all the stops to make her ex husband look like a criminal. She gives no shit about that kid, he is just viable to maintain her lifestyle.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 01:32 AM
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Don't ever get relationship/dating advice from women. Worst thing you can do.
/r/seduction05/06/13 08:20 PM
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Also applies to actions and conversation. Your initial opener just seemed like way too much as if you have intended to contact her for a while. Frame is everything my friend.
/r/seduction05/06/13 08:14 PM
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1/3 method dude. Use it.
/r/seduction05/06/13 06:09 PM
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Yeah, being Alpha is SO beta.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/13 11:12 PM
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The brothers. hehehe
/r/askTRP15/05/13 07:30 PM
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Yes and I am sure she won't flake on him, because women are like that.
/r/seduction25/04/13 04:21 AM
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There are only two things that CAN happen. He either calls/texts her OR she calls/texts him. I don't really think he needed us to tell him that.
/r/seduction24/04/13 09:55 PM
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You killed yourself from the get go, you didn't game her enough while she was with you to make her even want to see you again. Chances are slim that she will go out with you now.
/r/seduction24/04/13 02:52 AM
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Most.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/13 07:30 PM
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Falls to knees You are the Pan.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/13 07:03 PM
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Gotta say, as a woman (and a feminist) this sort of discrimination really upsets me. Just for the record, this is not what feminism is about and having it labeled as a "feminist" policy really hurts the movement as it perpetuates the idea that many people have which is that feminists don't want equality for all genders. The fact that he could get arrested for calling the police on his abusive girlfriend is rage-inducing. A little hope. Just a little.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/13 06:40 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KrEzrbSJCUQ&list=UUK_QgiNMxVjgo-P0dybBNTw
/r/TheRedPill21/03/13 07:48 PM
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How much shit do you think the male community would get if we praised a serial rapist? "John Doe got what he deserves, doesn't matter still had sex!"
/r/TheRedPill21/03/13 06:20 PM
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It is a well-known (as well as scientifically proven) fact that the size of his testicles is proportional to his faithfulness. The smaller they are, the bigger the chances that he won’t cheat on you. This is a troll. It has to be.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/13 08:31 PM
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Yes of course I will do what she asks, I meant as far as advancing my career. After my red pill knowledge I always analyze how she behaves with me and others and try to make connections.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/13 07:55 PM
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How can I relate this to my work? I am fairly young in the movie/media industry and my boss is a woman. Or am I taking this video too literal? I forgot which blog post I read where they stated the only exception when to listen to a women was when she was an expert in her field.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/13 07:40 PM
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I think you're missing the point- which is that the more she learned about who he actually was, the more she realized that she didn't like that person. It's not about the opening up, it's about who the guy was once he opened up. I love this. This chick won't accept the truth even when its right in front of her.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/13 09:48 PM
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Another lovely response... http://www.reddit.com/r/AdviceAnimals/comments/18indq/unemployment_benefits_are_getting_even_better/c8fsexp
/r/TheRedPill15/02/13 07:04 PM
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Fucking mobile link...
/r/MensRights14/02/13 12:41 AM
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Be a girl. Use a web cam. Do anything remotely sexy. Neckbeards will lunge at the chance to talk to you.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/13 01:44 AM
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I saw some dude donate $250 to some chick yesterday. I asked if he ever donated such a big amount to any type of charity. I got banned.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/13 07:44 PM
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I love the men who chime in there and give their oh so valuable insights that just reinforce what women say and do the keep men as beta orbiters. The fact that they try to belittle the guys who actually know what the fuck they're talking about makes me a sad for the men who still live in that false reality.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/13 08:38 PM
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Yeah its a short stubby penis.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/13 08:26 PM
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You have nothing to prove to anyone. The moment you try to impress/validate yourself to women she will quickly catch on and lose interest.
/r/seduction11/01/13 02:12 AM
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I agree, the issue I am sort of dealing with is with all this new knowledge my is interactions and relationships with women just got a whole lot harder. By harder I mean now that I know certain things I am required to act accordingly.Interacting with women now I really have to stop myself from falling back into old habits and ways of thinking, which is hard for most because that shit has latched onto our very core. Sometimes I find myself exhausted with everything I need to be aware of. But I do…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/13 07:39 PM
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Well I'm not talking about taking away womens right to vote per say, that example is a bit extreme. I just mean the way females tend to keep males in beta orbit with out even knowing it. Its just the way they are. I explained to a friend how you must always "game" a woman in all stages of your relationship and how ALL women will shit test you in one way other another. He screamed bloody murder that I would always be alone if I thought that way. In reality he has only slept with 1 woman all his l…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/13 09:48 PM
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I think most of the arguments arise because once you are informed in Red Pill knowledge the next step is to look inwards at yourself. People absolutely despise the idea of challenging their own identity and everything they have been conditioned to since birth. When I discuss Red Pill topics with close male buddies of mine some of them flip their shit. I think they know damn well if they chose to embrace this information then you actually have to do something about it rather going through life be…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/13 06:38 PM
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Fuck this hits close to home, a buddy of mine is in a similar situation. All of his LJBF girls are always DYING to hang out with him. The way they call and text him you'd think he had game but sadly this is not the truth. Whenever they hangout they always talk about relationships (mainly about their bfs/ex/flames) and when it comes to him all they say is the whole "You're a great guy, the right girl for you hasn't found you yet!" I've explained to him countless times that they have no interest i…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/13 08:18 PM
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Women won't think twice (or even once) about throwing shit tests your way and luring you into beta orbiter status for their own gratification and validation. They have no problem embracing their sexual strategy. Why should we be concerned with how our sexual strategy "appears" if they don't! That seems to give them quite the upper hand if we do! Great fucking information here dude. I am currently trying to get my close friends into this type of thinking but they are REJECTING it as much as he ca…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/13 06:41 PM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/15ud5q/can_someone_please_help_restore_my_faith_in/c7pvq9p My favorite part of these comments? I've said "no" like 4 times now.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/13 10:47 PM
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Why not both? I can see your point and I respect it. I can't see limiting myself to any kind of knowledge or information that will benefit me. Some of the stuff I read I may not whole heartily agree with but knowing something is still valuable despite your stance on it.
/r/seduction02/01/13 08:23 PM
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Try being more reserved. Don't speak unless somebody speaks to you. (in a group that you're already in). Be careful about this one.
/r/seduction13/12/12 07:42 PM
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Here is a tip that might sound a bit risky but hear me out. Call him out on his shit, I cant tell you how many countless conversations I've had with women that were shallow and meaningless small talk. A few incidents of a woman calling me out on something really flipped the switch for me. In my eyes she went from eh shes not bad to WOW I really dig this chick. A man wants a woman who can be real with him. Its very refreshing to get this kind of behavior from women. Or just be interested in a hob…
/r/seduction13/12/12 07:34 PM
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Yeah i've been to a gay salon, I liked it. The haircut I mean.
/r/seduction13/12/12 07:18 PM
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Trying acting (or speaking) like you would if you were hanging out with your best buddies. A common issue is people care far too much how the other person is perceiving them during the initial contact/conversations. Think in your head how you act around people you have known for a long time and try to emulate that. Also control your breathing it helps. Poor breathing results in poor body language.
/r/seduction15/11/12 08:28 PM
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We live in a world where people are always trying to look good and avoid looking bad. Applies both on a physical and intellectual level. Good thing to remember these people are just as terrified of you as you are of them. Just think about when you enter a elevator full of people, probably one of the most intimate settings strangers put themselves in but most of the time no one says a word.
/r/seduction09/11/12 08:14 PM
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REMINDER fellas while you're doing this. Don't listen to your scumbag brain going over all the reasons why you shouldn't approach that cute girl. I won't say shut him the fuck up because thats impossible, but just don't listen to that asshole.
/r/seduction09/11/12 07:31 PM
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One good tip to remember is don't overwhelm yourself. If you stumble upon some information you feel will have a great impact in your life then focus on really interpreting into your lifestyle. Biggest mistake everyone does with new valuable information is just read it - not live it. I was guilty of this myself, id read tons of books/articles/blogs but I never really incorporated it into my real life. Don't try to compare yourself to people who have far more experience and practice than you. To q…
/r/seduction07/11/12 07:10 PM
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This was posted a while back. Read it. Live it. http://zenhabits.net/zen-attachment/
/r/seduction15/10/12 10:45 PM
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Great post. Another great point that has been brought up countless times is don't listen to your brain. That little voice that trys to rationalize everything and gives meanings to everything is an asshole. So next time you find yourself out alone and its just you and that little voice shut that fucker up. You are your biggest judge. Some of the shit that guys drive themselves crazy over are stuff that people don't notice.
/r/seduction15/10/12 08:37 PM
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Best to use the search but... One good one I always like to use is. "Would you like another?"
/r/seduction13/10/12 06:30 AM
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I took a landmark education forum and the MAIN thing they try to teach you is: DO NOT PUT MEANING BEHIND WORDS/ACTIONS What I mean by this is if you put a meaning behind everything a women does or says to you, its setting you up for future failure. Example: If you get rejected by a girl were fairly intrested, don't add meaning to her words/actions. You can't ever possibly know the real reason why she did not want you. If you give something meaning that means it has power over you. She rejected y…
/r/seduction11/10/12 05:53 AM
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Braddock: "Are you stealing pennies from the elderly or telling Tiny Tim's dad that he has to work an extra shift. You know this could be Tim's last Christmas……." Katie: "Who is tiny Tim?" Braddock: "Wow….missed the scrooge reference?!? Minus 3 cool points…." Katie: "Ohhhhh….wait!!! Now I remember the Christmas movie. Not fair, Tiny Tim threw me off." Braddock: "They let retards play with people's money!?!? Hmmm…. What bank do you work at again? Ok, back to work. Talk to you later brat. : ) [or …
/r/seduction10/10/12 06:01 AM
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DO NOT move in together.
/r/seduction10/10/12 05:39 AM
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I have a problem with lines like these, when I try to use them I feel like im not being genuine and it shows.
/r/seduction16/09/12 07:06 AM
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I forgot which PUA said it but. "What women say they want, and what they really want are two different things"
/r/seduction18/08/12 09:44 AM
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I have this buddy and while he doesn't hate seduction per say he wants nothing to do with it. For example anytime I read about some useful information the first thing I want to do is share it with my close friends, but every time I try to have a discussion about it he brushes it off like he won't even listen to it. I remember after reading The Game and Mystery Method I told him to check em out and his response was "I don't need to learn or change anything, im good the way I am I don't need a boo…
/r/seduction01/08/12 06:23 PM
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