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Because the same applies to us men too, physical traits or appearances in general speak for themselves. Of course that doesn't always guarantee anything about the person's personality and goals in life.
/r/seduction20/05/25 05:42 PM
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Same reason why men don't settle in their twenties.
/r/seduction30/06/24 09:59 PM
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I agree with your quote from the other comment, fair enough. I also agree with your second part to an extent. In a world where men are expected to chase and lock a woman down, sure. I think the world is becoming much more progressive though, and this wording may be irrelevant when the dating scene starts to stabilize in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:56 PM
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Lmao none of this is initiating anything
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:36 PM
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Anything can be worth it if it's good lmao, though it is still not a replacement for this deeper feeling of loneliness people need to overcome with themselves. Just because someone loves you doesn't save us from the project of loving ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:09 PM
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Insecurity in general 100%, regardless of experience, plagues many minds. I speak as a 26 year old virgin, what many people desire is a secure self, but since they can't allow/give themselves the same attention and care many compensate for this by trying to find it in others.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:33 PM
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It starts with you bro, giving yourself the attention and care you desire, what you seek so much from others is ultimately what you want to allow/give to yourself for greater security. We project our self-image through interactions with others.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:19 PM
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I'm a 26 year old virgin with no regrets, most of the sex and flirty stuff seems to be over hyped as others have said, and what most people experience is insecurity in general that they are struggling with. Even in a relationship or fling people are still stressed and anxious because they feel controlled in their perception led by insecurity. If a person does not have a secure self they will try to compensate and find what they can't allow/give themselves from others. It is hell until you make y…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:15 PM
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Personally, I would compare it very similar to someone who uses drugs or is addicted to video games; there are also men who are addicted to female attention and women addicted to male attention, both are terrible coping mechanisms for poor emotion regulation issues. These people are not relationship material for good reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 05:16 AM
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So based, this is the way to go. People play hard to get or make a person wait long-term without explicitly telling them they are sexually and romantically interested, this only works if they make it crystal clear as you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:32 PM
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This, everything you see on the internet is mostly people virtue signaling so they can appear "better" morally to what in ideals is considered attractive. When in reality no one actually follows through in the moment, they're more focused on how they feel than what they thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:29 PM
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Making a person wait for sex is such a bad strategy, and it weaponizes sexuality. It only works for those who have a low N count or have a low libido because it is consistent with their past history, otherwise the person is wasting their time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:22 PM
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How do you know they've actually changed? Would you date a serial dater? They're more likely to have unresolved issues they have not dealt with on their own yet. If they're making you wait, they're most likely keeping their options open.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:19 PM
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Someone being pragmatic, so rare nowadays. I find it so naive when people say their past doesn't matter, or "it shouldn't matter," when it really does. People who cheat, have lots of hookups, serial daters, all are more likely to not commit and struggle because they have issues they have not dealt with on their own yet. If they suddenly make a person wait they're keeping their options open while tagging them along.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:16 PM
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Spot on, women prefer a man who is open emotionally only if they maintain their attractiveness while doing so, which is not the same openness women actually mean. You gave good examples
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:08 PM
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Yes, that was already directly implied.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 07:56 PM
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Literally this, most people, no matter how successful or not they are, are likely to have low emotional intelligence, that's just life. When people start to get entitled it is due to them having a false sense of confidence that was not created by them, but by their objects of dependence such as their performance, what they get, or have/done. This is not sustainable long-term especially for women who get a lot of male attention early in life, and when that crumbles they actually face reality and …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 07:48 PM
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This is true, they're only going to use her for her body.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 07:40 PM
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I guess we just have different opinions. I think a lot of these differences in values or perspectives might stem from the changing dating/sexual market dynamics going on. Like I mentioned earlier we have feminism empowering women to level out the playing field, traditional values aren't realistic for a big majority of the population nowadays, and sexless men on the rise; not only that but primary social institutions of power are being questioned and doubted (like with capitalism, or marriage and…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 12:06 AM
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Personally I, as a man, would be concerned about whether or not they could support themselves. There's a reason why traditional values are disappearing and changing. We have feminist movements that have brought more empowerment for women (a good thing), but we also have capitalism that has caused inflation and isn't keeping up with living wages. I digress though, both people are putting in their time and effort to experience and get to know each other. I'm not sure how your argument about someon…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 09:33 PM
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You seem so adamant on comparing apples to oranges here. The topic is on making men wait for sex, but just for conversation, I'm really not sure why a man would go 50/50, and I'm not sure how it would be possible to find out and know this, do you ask men this? Talking about our sexual partners is important which is why it's brought up. Finances are important, hopefully both individuals would be able to provide for themselves and woo each other in the dating process. So I'm not sure what talking …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 08:21 PM
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My comment is only in regards to sex. All these women who are hooking up for fun then try to make a guy wait have no integrity, they had their fill for thrill and decide to settle down with some chump to finally explore their emotional side, they fucked up and realize that. Sexuality is an important part of a relationship, they need a friend or therapist to work through their baggage. Hence why it's a red flag Edit: I want to clarify this is why body count matters for men, a lot of women who get…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 07:00 PM
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This is only true if the person making the person wait has a history (their past behaviors) that aligns with this ideal, otherwise this is pure hypocrisy. It's a red flag. Either that person doesn't actually know how to say they have a low libido or are romantically/sexually inexperienced. Otherwise they are keeping their options open, weaponizing sexuality. Have you seen how FDS operates? It's not hysteria. Many women who know they can easily get sex simply for being female are trying to get so…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 07:19 AM
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