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| 1 | Don’t ever sweat the low body count.I am. Morality is just an increasingly vague suggestion instead of unchanging truth. Abortion is murder. Money and power are god, unconditional love is always conditional, US divorce rate is over 50%, and people who push a button from 30,000 feet above villages full of hundreds or thousands of innocent people are slaughtered with a click and the people that do it are called “heroes” even though they rape their fellow soldiers and countrymen, and I just found out that my 3 elder brothers that pas… | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 05:15 AM |
| -3 | Don’t ever sweat the low body count.I respectfully disagree with 1 and 2. Since 18 mg weight has fluctuated from 115-220lbs. I’ve ZERO desire for a 6-8 pack abs; that type of body is disgusting to me. I’d much rather have a nice, rounded fuzzy tummy than be a circus freak obsessed with jugs of supplements, steroids. You couldn’t pay me enough money to be a gym-monkey. I proudly wear my built-in travel pillow and wouldn’t change it. Heck, I’m hot to myself. Studies show increasing numbers of women (not silly little girls, women), 3… | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 04:26 PM |
| 3 | Don’t ever sweat the low body count.Some idiots doom themselves to relive 80’s “Porky’s”/ “Meatballs” movies for the rest of their lives. They’re known by several names: “Unhappy”, “Miserable”, “Fake”, “Empty”, “Sleazy”, “Liars”, “Suicidal”, “Infected/ Contagious”, or “Unhappy, Miserable, Fake, Empty, Sleazy, Infected A-hole Dirtbag Scum.” Have fun with being that. Enjoy being a POS deadbeat dad with 3 divorces, several kids who hate you, a war zone crotch, no morals and nothing to look forward to but your next orgasm and death. F… | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 04:01 PM |
| 3 | Don’t ever sweat the low body count.I have SO much sincere respect for you! I’ve 5 “Notches o my bedpost” that mentality of “more = better” is just nasty (IMO), and while I can’t cast Godlike judgement on anybody, I think the lower the “body count” is often a sign of the better person. I’ve turned down blatant very clear, including word-for-word offers from both sides, “Do you want to _____ me?” offers, from very physically attractive folks (strangers and people I’ve known), because it just didn’t feel right. I knew it wasn’t righ… | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Girl asked to be my gf before we even met in personYou’re right, that’s what dating is for, but you’ve already decided she’s not who or what you like. Let her down easy as you can, but please don’t string her along. Time wasted that could be spent finding someone you do like and let her do the same. A girl proposed to me a few months ago. I wasn’t expecting it! I knew we weren’t “right” for each other, so I blurted out “I can’t. I’m sorry, but I can’t say yes.” After that brief moment our friendship went back to normal. Basically saying the soon… | /r/seduction | 11/09/21 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Girl asked to be my gf before we even met in personI hope you’re right. It’d be awful if she’s (for whatever reason) she’s selling herself short and letting a guy who doesn’t even like her use her body to dip his wick in. I never like seeing that happen. Maybe you can help me figure this out: why do so many women want to be with a “bad boy”… (often until they get one and discover what it’s really like being a slave to a loveless shithead)? My father was one such shithead and beat my mom, siblings and me BAD and OFTEN, not to mention the psycholo… | /r/seduction | 11/09/21 02:41 PM |
| 2 | Girl asked to be my gf before we even met in personAgreed. She really seems to have serious issues, and he has no intent or desire to genuinely help or care. He may not have been the one(s) to push her down the stairs emotionally, but he’s definitely spraying the stairs with Pam. Even more sad, he flat out stated that he only cares what his friends think, and considers that a rational excuse to toy with her fragile mind- is that narcissistic or sociopathic? Psychopathic? Whatever it is, it’s not healthy, even if she’s the one gaming him and he d… | /r/seduction | 11/09/21 05:50 AM |
| 3 | Girl asked to be my gf before we even met in personDude, you’re both lost. She is likely: 1. using you w/o you knowing, 2. She’s trying to sign you up for producing net porn for her as content for her channel(s)- if she mentions $ once you know she’s the madame of a Cathouse. 3. She’s a lunatic. Then there’s YOU: you’re a disgusting pig of a person who apparently missed out on the “Golden Age” of National Geographic, just want sexual attention so you can tell yourself you were “pimp-daddy” enough to get to see what’s FREE all over the Internet (… | /r/seduction | 10/09/21 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Felt hold back because of my employees to ask for number:) | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Felt hold back because of my employees to ask for numberYour happy future awaits! (Just be sure she’s happy, first!) | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 06:56 AM |
| 1 | Felt hold back because of my employees to ask for numberUmmm... last I heard it’s stuffing 100+ people in a crate with little ventilation and shipping it oversees. When it arrives, your choice will have likely made itself... I’m Evil. Lol! | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 04:36 AM |
| 2 | Felt hold back because of my employees to ask for numberYou’ll never know unless you ask! From that point onward, let things flow; I’m not sure anyone has the Ultimate Answer for what’s next. What shouldn’t happen is building a string of hopefuls and dragging them along- that’s just common decency (or should be). Don’t leave several people on at once, it’s cruel. Whittle it down to 2-3 potentials, get to know them a bit better (I think it’s called “Dating” but I haven’t been on one in a few years). If someone feels particularly “right” proceed respec… | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 04:25 AM |
| -1 | Don’t take ‘texting for logistics only’ too literallyApparently my best “game” is to wait until a female I know I like to tell me she just got engaged, BUT if I’d asked her 2 weeks sooner she and I would be together, then find the nearest set of train tracks to nap on. | /r/seduction | 12/03/21 05:15 AM |
| 0 | Don’t take ‘texting for logistics only’ too literallyThank the Lord no ladies are out there looking for money, stature, power and fancy/pricey stuff they could just leach from a fella with a few well-worded lies and that fiercely hot look in her eyes... cough. (Asking for a friend. I meant ‘Speaking’ for a... friend). | /r/seduction | 12/03/21 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Don’t take ‘texting for logistics only’ too literally... it absolutely can! It can also blow-up in your face like a Hefty Ultra Strong garbage bag full of oxy/acetaline (torch) gas. A dear friend was blasted over the hood of a car as his shirt simultaneously disintegrated because our other buddy want quite careful enough. (True story, but the point is keep the random 3rd parties in mind. They can be lame and there may not be a 4th party if few people like you. | /r/seduction | 12/03/21 04:58 AM |
| 0 | Don’t take ‘texting for logistics only’ too literallyLie down on the couch and tell me about your mother. .. | /r/seduction | 12/03/21 04:46 AM |
| 2 | Don’t take ‘texting for logistics only’ too literallyI dig your angle, no matter if others might not... a lot of people have a constant rule running in the backgrounds of their brains that can be just as dangerous as it’s designed to be self-protective self. Nipples are Universal. 👍🐒 | /r/seduction | 12/03/21 04:41 AM |
| 0 | Don’t take ‘texting for logistics only’ too literally...Butt what if I just already did? Absorb as much warmth as possible while able? | /r/seduction | 12/03/21 04:31 AM |
| 2 | Don’t take ‘texting for logistics only’ too literallyThe only reason for communication in any form is to advance your personal knowledge or help another advance their’s. “Sizzle- Lean” easy! | /r/seduction | 12/03/21 04:29 AM |
| 1 | If you are ignoring the basic responsibilities of your life and seeking external validation from women, no amount of women will make you happy.I just one :) | /r/seduction | 09/03/21 02:25 AM |
| 2 | How to interact without being friendzoned?No, you’re gut’s right. She WAS flirting BIGTIME and she knew it, as I’d asked her out on real dates twice before. She turned me down both times. Then the night I described happened (after all of our mutual friends assumed we were together, as we were always together: weekly or 2-3x/ week dinners, rent a movie, eat at home, eat out at nicer places, go to the symphony, sailing lessons, concerts, acations to a friends’, everything except get physical. Then that night I spoke of, I knew my dream wa… | /r/seduction | 22/02/21 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Is it ok to not want casual sex as a guy?Yea waiting is often what leads to (du, du du!!!) marriages that last. Healthy relationships and marriages. Few if any regrets. The people and culture that pressure you to do otherwise are just sad, pathetic (even if celebrities) people trying to make themselves feel better by bringing others to their own level of emptiness. Don’t let anyone tell you (except her) when the right time is. It’ll happen. USA is about 60% divorce rate. We’re roach motel scum here. I’m one of them. Not proud, but spen… | /r/seduction | 22/02/21 07:03 PM |
| 2 | How to interact without being friendzoned?However, I know several couples that are happily married after being in 8 year college and beyond relationships with others. Asically my buddy was rejected for about 10 years including high school, then the love of his life left the guy she was with for 8 years and finally married him! They’ve been married over 12 years with 2 kids, extremely happy. Which proves that take (no offense) is NOT a “rule” at all. (Apologies for the slam, sir! I caught it the 2nd read through, and I didn’t intend to a… | /r/seduction | 22/02/21 05:44 PM |
| 1 | How to interact without being friendzoned?Ouch, dude! | /r/seduction | 22/02/21 05:36 PM |
| 2 | How to interact without being friendzoned?What about when they’re overtly rubbing knees, playing footsie, taking your hand, caressing it and telling you how much she loves your rings? And to top it off, a true Mexico Mexican mutual friend says “she really, really likes you!” And by random chance, the song “Why do You Build Me Up (Buttercup)/Just to Let me Down...?” Follow-up question: why do geeks/nerdy guys just seen to effortlessly fall into wonderful marriages with beautiful women while I’m looking it up on Reddit? (For a friend). | /r/seduction | 22/02/21 05:24 PM |
| 0 | Is cold approach counterproductive?I guess I’m not sure we’re defining “cold approach” the same! Lol! If you mean having the boldness to walk up to a woman you find attractive and introducing yourself, going from there, COOL! Always be respectful. But if you don’t ask a girl to coffee or lunch on impulse (not penis-pulse), do it! Even the women that may turn you down will still respect you for trying, and maybe make them blush! Always do the “ring check”. Ring =‘s don’t. No class in that. | /r/seduction | 22/02/21 08:32 AM |
| -4 | Is cold approach counterproductive?“Bang”? How charming. 😂 | /r/seduction | 22/02/21 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Is cold approach counterproductive?Only if you want to be sincere. The most important “rule” for people that want more than a wham/bam is to be genuine. Don’t play games. If you want the real thing, games won’t bring you to it. Especially if you’re playing games and the other is being sincere and you don’t care, please don’t! Unless she’s witty enough to call you out on your bullshit and throws it back at ya! That can lead to some fun banter! | /r/seduction | 22/02/21 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Do I sit in front or next to her on the first date?I’m not sure I follow, my friend! I had to accept that she chose another. If he makes her happier than have, I couldn’t keep her from who she chose. Letting go has hurt me more than anything I’ve ever been through. I just don’t understand why she’s overtly flirt, knowing how much I care about her, then change her mind? The example I wrote above was just one of several where she was clearly showing interest in me... then... changed her mind that fast? I’m always gonna care about her. She always b… | /r/seduction | 19/02/21 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Do I sit in front or next to her on the first date?Whoever gave my post a thumbs-up, thank you! Really. I’m not one to ask for pity-parties, and I could never be a home wrecker. However... meteorites have to land somewhere... and if one fell on my fat clone, that’s not my fault! That’s the other thing: I don’t wan’t to covet someone else’s wife. It’s easier said than done considering how close she and I were (and dang Covid) are and have been since 1998. I’m fighting it, but every time I think of going somewhere, anywhere and having fun, she pop… | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Do I sit in front or next to her on the first date?A question for the ladies- too long back, I met friends at a bar, table of 6. I was across from a close friend who I’d had a big crush on and she knew it for a few years. The other 4 left the table, and even though we had plenty of space, we were rubbing knees, then footsie (millennials ask your grandparents), then she took my hand, caressed it and said “really love your rings” (I wear rings sometimes but not wedding). So amazing... I was sure my dream of being with her (not a 1-night, but somet… | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 04:51 PM |
| 3 | Do I sit in front or next to her on the first date?Good point! You never pin a lady in. | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Do I sit in front or next to her on the first date?That’s where, from my experience, sitting at the bar, obviously side by side. Booth or table, other side. Now if she leaves for a moment and she slides in next to you, go with it. Just respect always. | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 04:21 PM |
| 3 | Do I sit in front or next to her on the first date?(Slight offshoot) A waiter at a Lo estate Steakhouse sat in our booth next to me, tried to buddy-up. “How about don’t sit there!” Apparently at that chain, they’re supposed to invade your space! He kept at it (my best friend and his wife sitting across, cuz when you’re married that’s totally fine!), I had to keep telling him “Dude, get the fuck out of my seat!” So we didn’t tip him a penny. Not one. We paid, he chased us to the parking lot, running, yelling and cussing as we drove away... you wo… | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 04:19 PM |
| 6 | Do I sit in front or next to her on the first date?I’m confused too! | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 03:39 PM |
| 10 | Do I sit in front or next to her on the first date?I think Garlic means if you’re sitting at the bar. I could be wrong. But if it’s a first or 2nd/3rd, And you really want to get to know each other, I vote sitting across from your date, that way you pay more attention to them. If it’s awkward, maybe not meant to be? Just saying, at some point early on, you have to be face to face while you chat. That’s how we learn how other people are really like! If you want something with potential beyond “dial-a-bone”, you have to be comfortable looking at e… | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Why your self image is importantI hav to say I agree with most of what you’ve said. I may have misread your meaning, but a good woman can help a man grow spiritually, and a good man can help a woman grow spiritually. I know so many people who truly became better people when they met the right person. Some dogs are determined to be dogs, some (insert popular hip-hop slut here) are determined to be sluts. Women who twerk and are surprised they’re treated like garbage is like a man calling himself “Lil Uzi” and being surprised wh… | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Why your self image is importantI wish you well, but I can’t say I agree totally with you. (I know ha said “warped” but meant “wrapped” around you- but that’s basically saying you feel the need to control women. How old are you? You don’t write as someone who wants anything healthy to last. I could be wrong, but your post makes you sound like a dig, not a man. If being a man means being a dog to you, I hope you rewind that thinking. I guess it depends on what you’re looking for. A one-night bounce or something longterm that me… | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Competing with a friend.If you do not try, you will never know how she’d respond. But I can’t say such without the obvious cautions: either one of you hurt her, take advantage (I don’t think you will), but you’d not see it coming. Just a friendly reminder :) | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Competing with a friend.I’d like to point out that I have absolutely no idea where my screen name came from! I had a different avi, name, then this! I’m a dude! | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Competing with a friend.I completely respect you for for that. For real. | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 04:46 AM |
| 2 | Competing with a friend.If I hadn’t said it, rule #1 is always respect the lady. | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Competing with a friend.That’s the rule (in your first sentence), then the lady may flip the script. Makes it tricky, but stick to bros. | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Competing with a friend.I wouldn’t be single still. My buds Cory and Dizzle respective wives have helped themselves to grinding in public (WITH PERMISSION!), each in the past, both being girls into ME that I didn’t give myself enough credit to notice... | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Competing with a friend.With video, at least audio on the sly! I’m bored! | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Competing with a friend.Cegavas, you seem cool. From my experience (no harm no foul in earthier 2ks), and to my regret, I did not realize how many chicks dug me. Then they married my best best friends and later told me they wanted me. J did not fmgive myself enough credit. But I’m not a home-wrecker either. | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 04:24 AM |
| 0 | Competing with a friend.If you’re both nippi g at her heels at the same time, you both go home alone. Or homo alono! | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 04:18 AM |
| 2 | Competing with a friend.I want to agree, but if it’s not about a one night + child support, be the better man. | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Competing with a friend.SNAP! Your bro bit back! Livestream! | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 04:13 AM |
| 2 | Competing with a friend.Take from an average looking man that’s made out with 2 10’s at at once 3-4 times. I can say honestly that I did t expect, plan, or anything to make that happen. | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Competing with a friend.It’s in your eyes. | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Am I shooting myself in the foot if I don't want to use dating apps?I’ve caused every dating sight I’ve tried to crash... into my arms... | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 01:54 AM |
| 1 | im happy even tho i get rejectedIt’s not about racking-up notches on your bed post either. The happiest couples I know were the (you may wish to look away) ones who abstained until marriage. Why is that such a difficult concept? | /r/seduction | 05/02/21 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone else feel like the masks really hurt their seductive levelNot if your eyes are working :) | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 03:13 AM |
| 2 | How to have a sexy/charming smile?Thanks dude! Couching it today! It’ll happen for ya.! | /r/seduction | 02/02/21 08:39 PM |
| 1 | How to have a sexy/charming smile?Depends on what you’re looking for. If you just want a 1 night fling, advice for being a scumball is available. If you’re looking for someone that you and they may truly click & stick (i hate rhymes, lol!), but NJAF (ask if you’d like help with that row of letters), it’s different. Main point: If you want something to last forever, you MUST BE Yourself! Example: I was born on Feb 2, 1979 (It’s my birthday!) I grew up on 80’s toys, toons, movies, music and culture. I am a MASTERS OF THE UNIVERSE … | /r/seduction | 02/02/21 06:00 PM |
| 2 | How to have a sexy/charming smile?I added my comment without even checking any others! To see so many other people say that the eyes are so very important! I’ve been told by a drop-dead “you can’t be real!” beautiful friend since 1997 (we met as college freshman) tell me I have “Evil Bedroom Eyes”! NOT actually evil! My goal isn’t just a “quickie”, that’s not me. I’d hate myself if I were that kind of person. I blame the Italians and the French. Lol!!! She’s happily married mother and friend of 24 years! A life changing friend! … | /r/seduction | 02/02/21 04:46 PM |
| 1 | How to have a sexy/charming smile?Subtle smile, but basically, your eyes are most important in concert with your smile! Maybe a slight head-tilt, eye contact, and a slight (not “wince”, not “stress”- the word escapes me! A slight squint! (That’s the word!)! | /r/seduction | 02/02/21 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Always worried about what people think. How can I snap out of it?I think (it took me forever to learn this) that we need to realize we have all been individually created by the same God! Nobody has the right to pretend or scare us into believing they’re any better than WE are! The only reason people want you, me, anyone, to think less of ourselves is because THEY are the ones who lack faith in themselves! They’re trying in vain to make themselves feel better by pretending to matter more than YOU DO! We’re all equal here! They are NOT “better” than you! | /r/seduction | 01/02/21 02:43 PM |
| 7 | How do I stop this unhealthy mindset?I’ve had that mindset too. I’m no Brad Pitt, and frankly I’m physically disabled and have wasted too much time (too many years) thinking “I’ll just bring her down, disappoint her...”. But then my best friend said to me “Why don’t you let HER decide that?” He changed my outlook that fast. So let your mystery woman decide, and respect her decision! You’ll find the right one! So will I! | /r/seduction | 29/01/21 05:26 PM |
| 4 | How do I stop this unhealthy mindset?My friend, I agree with most repliers! It’s only unhealthy if your instant thought is sex (and thoughts of forced sex is certainly the opposite of “healthy”! If that what you struggle with (you don’t seem to!), then it’s time to get help. You seem to have a conscience, and rapists don’t. I’m shy, I’m single, but sometimes I’ve surprised myself and just walked up, introduced myself (no lines, no lies), and said whatever corny but sincere (and respectful) thing comes to mind! It’s about 50/50, but… | /r/seduction | 29/01/21 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Is seduction 80% attitude and 20% locks, or reverse?If there’s a Kelly Kapowski factory out there, I wouldn’t say no to a tour. Don’t just look for “hot couples”, look for “happy couples”, because they’re actually getting it right! | /r/seduction | 28/01/21 08:36 PM |
| 2 | Is seduction 80% attitude and 20% locks, or reverse?Because you’re shallow and trying to sell something. My little tummy is a built-in pillow for a lady that loves me. | /r/seduction | 28/01/21 08:32 PM |
| 4 | Is seduction 80% attitude and 20% locks, or reverse?And this is why the US divorce rate is beyond 50%. I’m past the one-nighter crap. Gimme a pretty girl that loves Jesus and is better at math than I am! If you’ll take care of family book-keeping, I’ll do everything else! | /r/seduction | 28/01/21 08:30 PM |
| 2 | Is seduction 80% attitude and 20% locks, or reverse?Agreed! Who’s hand do you want holding yours when you die? That’s what matters. | /r/seduction | 28/01/21 08:23 PM |
| -1 | Is seduction 80% attitude and 20% locks, or reverse?Wow! You sound so shallow! I happen to find women with cut abs and such not typically my style. You do realize was happens to all of those muscles in time, right? They turn to fat. I’m guessing you’re the type that would ask for a “pre-nup”. You’ll be happier the sooner you change your outlook. | /r/seduction | 28/01/21 08:15 PM |
| 13 | Is seduction 80% attitude and 20% locks, or reverse?You say that with a bit of a “princess” attitude. You could be a bombshell, but your attitude wouldn’t make me glance twice. | /r/seduction | 28/01/21 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Is seduction 80% attitude and 20% locks, or reverse?Well said! I left my 6-pack in my other life! Lol! | /r/seduction | 28/01/21 08:09 PM |
| 3 | Is seduction 80% attitude and 20% locks, or reverse?Attitude/personality. A couple years ago I was at a bar with some buddies, and I saw a smoking hot pseudo cowgirl (straight out of Warrant’s “Cherry Pie” video) dancing. I lazily on/off watched and gave a look. I didn’t know going to a bar was part of the evening, so I wore a Kermit shirt, khaki cargo shorts and Sketchers sandals (+bug spray). A few buddies nodded they were going out for a smoke, sounded good. I passed her on my way out, smiling, leaned closer, and said “I don’t know how to danc… | /r/seduction | 28/01/21 08:07 PM |
| 2 | A review and summarization of Andrew Ryan's "Make Girls Chase You"I’ve no desire to manipulate a woman, to “conquer”, to have orgies or rack up 40-50 one night stands. This guy from the ad is gross. He spreads gross. He’s part of the reason God’s brought this plague and it constantly mutating forms. Hedonism, the idea of “if it feels good, do it,” is garbage. It’s been a long time for me. He perpetuates the idea that going without his weirdo choke-sex with sluts for a month, 6, a YEAR!?!? Is the END of male life. The “Third date = sex” concept our entertainmen… | /r/seduction | 22/01/21 07:52 PM |
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