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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 14 | Don't Pretend That Rats Don't ExistI love this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 03:36 PM |
| 21 | The little things matter too when vettingI just started dating a guy in the last two months and can you believe, he’s the only guy I’ve let into my home who PUTS THE TOILET SEAT DOWN when he’s finished doing his business. He has a great relationship with his mother and had an older sister and younger sister. It’s the little things like this that took me by surprise when he first came to mine (he cooked dinner AND brought everything needed to cook it) I sat down with a glass of wine he bought also. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 04:52 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts on warning an ex’s new girlfriend?No longer our problem. You’ve already removed yourself. Stay clear unless asked directly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 05:27 AM |
| 2 | A man's level of curiosity about you says it all.Agreed. He was getting too relaxed and I could clearly see he wasn’t going to ask me to do anything for Valentine’s Day. I was not waiting around for disappointment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 11:45 AM |
| 18 | A man's level of curiosity about you says it all.Thank you! Yes he should have. The trash took itself out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 07:12 PM |
| 158 | A man's level of curiosity about you says it all.I completely agree with this. I cut off a guy last night because I felt like he was stringing me along for his own convenience. We have been talking for roughly 4 months, but lately the conversations have been draining me. He rarely asks how my day has been and has started to become extremely inconsistent. Some of our conversations have lead me to think he is very insecure. I told him I started an online course during another national lockdown and he completely dismissed the entire conversation.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 06:17 PM |
| 2 | So much to unlearnThis!!!! This!!!!! This!!!!!! God damn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 06:05 PM |
| 39 | Can we talk about women who cancel on their friends so they can hang out with a guy?My friend brought the guy she is seeing to join in on our weekly walk. It was meant to be girl time - ugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 07:38 PM |
| 2 | Hi Queens👑! This is the 3rd baking I am sharing here! Made a cake for myself to outgrow all the birthdays my absent, narcissist father never celebrated throughout these 21 years, as my therapy of nearly two years is coming to a smooth completion this year.this looks absolutely STUNNING! Enjoy your special day, I’m sending you lots and lots of love 💕🌸 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Do what you want until they’ve fully committed ladiesThanks 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 03:30 PM |
| 3 | Do what you want until they’ve fully committed ladiesDating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 08:08 AM |
| 2 | Do what you want until they’ve fully committed ladiesWhat is OLD? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 12:13 AM |
| 2 | Do what you want until they’ve fully committed ladiesThank you for this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 11:53 PM |
| 2 | Do what you want until they’ve fully committed ladiesWell yeah, that’s what I mean. Sorry if I wasn’t clear. But I meant if you aren’t looking for a relationship, is it bad to flirt and date as a form of practice? I don’t let on my intentions either | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 11:16 PM |
| 63 | Do what you want until they’ve fully committed ladiesThe best line I have ever heard is “if he wanted too, he would”. And I’ll live by that statement | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 10:40 PM |
| 9 | Do what you want until they’ve fully committed ladiesOut of curiosity also, not just you but any other women here. Do you chat to guys over social media as a form of practice or boredom? I don’t usually myself but sometimes find myself doing so out of curiosity. Is this bad do ye think? I don’t tend to entertain the majority of it anyway (Private messages,dating apps) but I find it fun because I like to flirt etc. I do not make it a main priority in my day/week although. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 10:09 PM |
| 5 | Do what you want until they’ve fully committed ladiesAbsolute kudos to you. You sound very strong minded and know what you want. Keep that shit up queen. Also, thank you for the reply 🌸 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 10:04 PM |
| 19 | Do what you want until they’ve fully committed ladiesWhat age are you if you don’t mind me asking? (Edit: I shouldn’t have asked age, it doesn’t matter)I’m turning 24 next month and marriage isn’t isn’t a goal for now. But neither is a casual thing. But also, I have a few guys on the “go”(chatting). I got out of a very toxic relationship last year and found this S.R so I’ve just been practicing with dating men really. Any ladies have any advice for someone my age? I’m very focused on myself and my future lifestyle but it’s hard to cut men out alto… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 09:55 PM |
| 72 | Do what you want until they’ve fully committed ladiesI’m currently dating a guy and my birthday is coming up, although we haven’t had the “talk” (because I am not initiating that conversation),if he doesn’t pull some flowers and the likes on the day I’m just blocking his ass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 09:48 PM |
| 31 | Do what you want until they’ve fully committed ladiesYes! Do what you want to do regardless and make sure they’re supporting you while you’re at it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 09:45 PM |
| 146 | This was the second time he had talked to me this way while drunk and angry. THIS is when you leave ladies. Like my last post said, leave the first time.My mother is married to an alcoholic and she has become a shell of a woman. She was someone I really looked up too. Now I feel sorry for her. She could leave if she really wanted too but she still decides to stay with him. As her 24yo daughter, this has been the biggest heartbreak for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 09:53 PM |
| 2 | Take time out for yourself queenALWAYS DRINKS!! You actually hit the nail on the head with that comment lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 09:44 PM |
| 2 | Take time out for yourself queenTHANK YOU! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Take time out for yourself queenHope you enjoy every second of it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Take time out for yourself queenOh my god! Hollywood hills! Amazing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 05:59 PM |
| 2 | Take time out for yourself queenYes!! Love this! Keep doing you boo, I’m delighted for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Take time out for yourself queenYes queen 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 05:58 PM |
| 4 | Take time out for yourself queenYou’ll get to where you want to be eventually! Keep focusing, you got this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 05:58 PM |
| 17 | I was so inspired by the ladies who bought themselves rings, I started searching the internet immediately for a diamond one. I finally found one I loved, waited for Black Friday, and scored an amazing deal on a ring originally priced at $1500!! Don’t wait for a man to make you happy :)Absolutely stunning! Well done! Stay proud and keep that head held high, queen 💆🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 01:22 AM |
| 45 | Imagine: it’s YOUR lifeAs a 23 year old, I like this very very much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 05:35 PM |
| 10 | AS IF! LOOOOOLBiG FrEaKy CoUpLeS🤪🤪🤪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 11:23 PM |
| 9 | Hey ladies! Thought I’d just recommend a book I’ve bought recently. It’s absolutely brilliant. Loving every page. Ye should check it out.Yeah on her insta she does talk about kinks etc, which I’ve decided to over look as the topics in her book are great (so far) and have not been lib-fem. The majority of her work isn’t about sex. I saw some questions she had answered about women during sex liking to be called a slut etc and I was like, okay ew. But, that’s not the issue I’m interested in reading about. Also taking into consideration that she is only 21. She may change her views as years go by. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 11:20 PM |
| 26 | AS IF! LOOOOOLYeah me too. I unfollowed the insta page as soon as I saw it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Best ways you’ve rejected a man you’re not into?This is actually so perfect. I’m using this one from now on! Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 07:07 PM |
| 8 | Best ways you’ve rejected a man you’re not into?Hahahahahaha I am in stitches | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 06:06 PM |
| 5 | Best ways you’ve rejected a man you’re not into?This is great! Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 06:05 PM |
| 5 | Best ways you’ve rejected a man you’re not into?Yes this is also great but let’s say I want to work on my communication skills also haha. Like, for instance, there’s a guy I’ve been on 3 dates with (social distancing) and now I’m not feeling it. He’s very nice but clingy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 05:32 PM |
| 6 | Why do guys call you ugly? And then compliment you afterwards? I blocked him after my reply and reported him he looks 16 😂 I also should delete tinder I feel like it makes my self esteem worse these scrotes don’t know how to behave they’re like caged animals being released into the wildJust use it to get used to rejecting men if you feel like you’re not finding anything genuine. For now anyway, it’s a good way to practice dating and spot yellow/red flags and use that to your advantage for the next guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 12:00 AM |
| 53 | He also told me he cheated on an ex but he was “just being a guy”That emoji is the best answer to so many of these posts lmaooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 03:41 PM |
| 29 | How to not be a fan once you've become a fan?This is literally what I’m looking to do rn. I’ve been chatting with this guy for 2 weeks now and he’s great. But keeping your options open still is a must. Although I find it hard to chat to more than two guys at a time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 02:54 PM |
| 26 | Don't Forget - It's Okay. You Learned.Ahhh I didn’t even notice! Thank you ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 06:58 PM |
| 158 | Don't Forget - It's Okay. You Learned.This one hit hard | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 06:51 PM |
| 3 | I came across this “birthday card” my ex had written for me while I was deep cleaning my bedroom this morning. It was written with my lip liner. I still stayed with him for a year after this. You literally can’t make this shit up.Thank you for this! I never realise how that play on words could mean this. I’ll definitely be looking out for this in the future! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 10:02 AM |
| 3 | I came across this “birthday card” my ex had written for me while I was deep cleaning my bedroom this morning. It was written with my lip liner. I still stayed with him for a year after this. You literally can’t make this shit up.Nope, just lazy. I’m glad we can find the humour in it now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 10:54 PM |
| 3 | I came across this “birthday card” my ex had written for me while I was deep cleaning my bedroom this morning. It was written with my lip liner. I still stayed with him for a year after this. You literally can’t make this shit up.I’m sorry this happened to you :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 07:37 PM |
| 10 | I came across this “birthday card” my ex had written for me while I was deep cleaning my bedroom this morning. It was written with my lip liner. I still stayed with him for a year after this. You literally can’t make this shit up.It was roughly €20 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 04:18 PM |
| 31 | I came across this “birthday card” my ex had written for me while I was deep cleaning my bedroom this morning. It was written with my lip liner. I still stayed with him for a year after this. You literally can’t make this shit up.He wasn’t even bothered to dot the ‘i’ in “Birthday” either | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 03:56 PM |
| 8 | I came across this “birthday card” my ex had written for me while I was deep cleaning my bedroom this morning. It was written with my lip liner. I still stayed with him for a year after this. You literally can’t make this shit up.Preach it sister 👏🏻🙌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 03:53 PM |
| 11 | I came across this “birthday card” my ex had written for me while I was deep cleaning my bedroom this morning. It was written with my lip liner. I still stayed with him for a year after this. You literally can’t make this shit up.Girl! This! I did the exact same! Nothing on my birthday but then I had everything planned for his. We know the effort that could be put into a birthday gift. It’s not difficult to make your SO feel special. Damn, im pissed off lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 03:52 PM |
| 7 | I came across this “birthday card” my ex had written for me while I was deep cleaning my bedroom this morning. It was written with my lip liner. I still stayed with him for a year after this. You literally can’t make this shit up.I was 20, he was too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 03:51 PM |
| 15 | I came across this “birthday card” my ex had written for me while I was deep cleaning my bedroom this morning. It was written with my lip liner. I still stayed with him for a year after this. You literally can’t make this shit up.I’d accept that hug. Although I’m over him, the way I have been treated has effected the way I date. I don’t talk to guys and I lose interest pretty quick in fear I’m going to waste my time. Or get treated like this again. I never felt appreciated. I treat myself well and I’m not bummed about it tbh. I’m working on myself and the way I think in order to recognise these type of guys for the future. But, the way he pursued me was great. He did everything he could. But as soon as he “had” me it wen… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 03:48 PM |
| 31 | I came across this “birthday card” my ex had written for me while I was deep cleaning my bedroom this morning. It was written with my lip liner. I still stayed with him for a year after this. You literally can’t make this shit up.Not quite but he sure acted like it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 02:40 PM |
| 49 | I came across this “birthday card” my ex had written for me while I was deep cleaning my bedroom this morning. It was written with my lip liner. I still stayed with him for a year after this. You literally can’t make this shit up.I can’t find the comment, but someone called me raccoon and I’m screaming 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 01:55 PM |
| 73 | I came across this “birthday card” my ex had written for me while I was deep cleaning my bedroom this morning. It was written with my lip liner. I still stayed with him for a year after this. You literally can’t make this shit up.Hahaha, I have him blocked on this because I was so paranoid that he found out my username somehow. When I left him he called me and said he had my Messenger password and could see the people I was chatting too. I have him blocked on absolutely every social media now. As much as I’d like to tag and shame, I wouldn’t even want to give him the satisfaction of knowing I’m even thinking about him rn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 01:52 PM |
| 9 | I came across this “birthday card” my ex had written for me while I was deep cleaning my bedroom this morning. It was written with my lip liner. I still stayed with him for a year after this. You literally can’t make this shit up.😷😷😷 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 01:44 PM |
| 98 | I came across this “birthday card” my ex had written for me while I was deep cleaning my bedroom this morning. It was written with my lip liner. I still stayed with him for a year after this. You literally can’t make this shit up.Double disrespect !! Looool | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 12:32 PM |
| 93 | I came across this “birthday card” my ex had written for me while I was deep cleaning my bedroom this morning. It was written with my lip liner. I still stayed with him for a year after this. You literally can’t make this shit up.It looks like a toddler could have written it. I was 20 that year too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 12:20 PM |
| 311 | I came across this “birthday card” my ex had written for me while I was deep cleaning my bedroom this morning. It was written with my lip liner. I still stayed with him for a year after this. You literally can’t make this shit up.Just to add, the back of it says, “I love you so much, you have made this year the best year of my life. I don’t know what I would do without (you) these days to be honest. I could write a 100 page essay on how much I love you but you just wanted a cute little note + you all ready know all this. Happy Birthday beautiful. I love you, yours forever and ever and ever. What the actual fuck was I thinking lmaoooooo I can’t believe I HATED myself this much. At least the back was written in pen. Right?… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 12:19 PM |
| 2 | Just wanted to say thank you.Thank you :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 12:03 PM |
| 7 | Just wanted to say thank you.Loooool I love this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 11:27 AM |
| 16 | Just wanted to say thank you.No more games and no more scrotes! Honestly I felt like I came across the holy grail when I started reading. I was hooked haha Thank you! 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 09:17 AM |
| 18 | Just wanted to say thank you.Ugh they really are delusional out there 😷 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 09:13 AM |
| 5 | Just wanted to say thank you.💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 09:12 AM |
| 5 | Just wanted to say thank you.Thank you very much!! 💜💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 09:11 AM |
| 18 | Just wanted to say thank you.First step is to know your worth. I didn’t grow up with ANY positive male role models. My dad was absent. My step father is a drunk. And all my uncles were unemployed and drunks also. My mother used to bring them all dinner and help clean their homes. She is a very kind woman but because of her actions as I grew up I thought this behavior was normal. Settling to take care of men like this. It actually makes me sick to my stomach. It helps me to ask myself “do I want to be with a man who doesn’t … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 09:11 AM |
| 18 | Just wanted to say thank you.Drop him ASAP. You deserve better. I fall asleep peacefully every night knowing there is a community like this out here to support us. Stay strong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 09:03 AM |
| 7 | Just wanted to say thank you.Great stuff! I’m happy for you :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 09:02 AM |
| 69 | Just wanted to say thank you.Me too. Just self care, good living. We’ll get to where we want to be for sure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 01:20 AM |
| 23 | Reminder: LVM say anything to get what they want.I’m screaming | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 03:59 PM |
| 15 | What are some signs he JUST WAS NOT THAT INTO YOU that you wish you would have seen as a Pickmeisha?Same here! Or countless times he promised to call me and then didn’t. And then I was trying to call him. Ugh whyyyyy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 09:36 AM |
| 2 | Know yourselfGirl, I am exactly on your level right now. Well done for acknowledging this! And helping me put it into words also. We got this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 02:20 AM |
| 20 | If there's anything that men have, it's the audacity.Wooooooooow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 09:42 PM |
| 69 | What a high value male looks like in everyday lifeMy heart 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 08:15 PM |
| 3 | ONLYFANSGreat reply! Thanks for taking the time to write this. I used to be in Art college and as a class we had to draw live nudes models. It was an interesting experience to say the least. It’s refreshing to hear from your perspective! I agree that it’s not for all women and I’m sorry that you may not have had some of the best experiences with your line of work. People can be assholes. You seem confident in what you do, congrats. I feel as though a lot of young women go into the Onlyfans world because… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 04:17 PM |
| 3 | What are your thoughts on guys who put you on a pedestal?Preach it sister | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 04:56 PM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on guys who put you on a pedestal?Thank you :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 04:51 PM |
| 4 | What are your thoughts on guys who put you on a pedestal?What does it mean to be “put on a pedestal?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 12:35 AM |
| 9 | Key quote: "Familiarity will not breed better behavior."This was the sign I needed today. Like a clown, I went back to my ex and he was doing the same old shit again within the first month of “re-kindling” things. It doesn’t hurt as much this time around but I definitely needed a good kick to realize. Shame on me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 04:20 PM |
| 6 | Ladies, what should. you look for as a sign of a healthy self-esteem in men?I don’t think it’s a red flag, unless they are mostly speaking about past woman in a negative way. Like “she was a bitch” ect. I’m currently dating a guy and we don’t mind chatting about past relationships in a funny story telling way. Possibly, it could be his way to subtly get you to talk about your past experiences? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/19 09:46 PM |
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