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ResourcesDesperateForDD/r/seduction18/12/20 02:05 PM
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LifestyleDesperateForDD/r/seduction26/09/21 02:42 PM
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You’re not letting the man be himself
/r/seduction17/12/23 04:54 PM
1

What would you do without this dog?
/r/seduction21/10/22 03:55 AM
0

If he’s intimidated by beauty he won’t get to know them
/r/seduction01/08/22 02:21 PM
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I agree with your points. It’s just crazy that it’s not something I witness any other guy doing. It makes me wonder how are they doing it because I never see this happen. I live in a city with a lot of tall dudes so prob a bit more low effort on their part
/r/seduction28/07/22 12:15 AM
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No way they have a PR team with only 50K and 10K followers.
/r/seduction15/07/22 03:54 AM
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I think it’s fair to go for both girls. It’s a numbers game after all. But yeah he got caught big time. Gotta he more tactical.
/r/seduction14/06/22 10:16 AM
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Not bitter. I just asked you a question. Don’t get so angry
/r/seduction06/06/22 02:24 PM
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Alrighty Miss I-have-options, I humble myself before you. How do we flirt? If I don’t touch you in first date you’re out? I think that’s my problem
/r/seduction06/06/22 01:17 PM
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Given your thoughts on it where do you think most couples meet?
/r/seduction03/06/22 12:35 AM
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It’s maybe more so his fear
/r/seduction02/06/22 11:09 AM
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Kayaking w friends might be a lot for a stranger
/r/seduction31/05/22 09:37 AM
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Fack. Good job. Tells me I’m not trying hard enough. I thought 1 # per weekend was good
/r/seduction20/05/22 09:44 PM
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Not a connection, but found someone physically attractive quickly? Sure that takes like 2 seconds lol
/r/seduction30/04/22 02:09 PM
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10 minutes…
/r/seduction30/04/22 01:33 PM
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Damn this one is so true. Probably a symptom of thinking you are being a creep by trying to subtly check her out
/r/seduction04/03/22 03:37 AM
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Talk about the gym to us.boss. I’ve never witnessed a man talk it up with a new gal at the gym
/r/seduction28/02/22 07:35 PM
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I wouldn’t call it “polite”
/r/seduction26/02/22 07:00 PM
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What were they?
/r/seduction25/02/22 03:29 PM
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I think what’s making it hard on dudes is lust and the personality matches with someone you don’t have physical attraction to
/r/seduction25/02/22 03:26 PM
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I can’t believe ISIS combatants had an easier time getting laid than me
/r/PussyPassDenied27/01/22 05:09 AM
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You don’t know what a 11/10 is to a random internet stranger. It could be a 7 to you
/r/seduction26/01/22 11:59 AM
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Why would you go for less? If the one you approach is less than ideal in terms of attractiveness are you going to lie and tell her you think she’s a stunner?
/r/seduction26/01/22 11:09 AM
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If you make a post about #6 or can expand in the comments section that’d be appreciated (if there’s anything more to be said about it lol) I have lost out on girls because I didn’t get physical and they probably wanted me to. This is speculation because I don’t ask them but I think that by the time I realize this it’s too late and they have lost interest. It’s a weird thing because you hear so much from girls about how they want to take their time getting there but the second they’re ready and y…
/r/seduction20/01/22 03:30 PM
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Did you feel step 6 was a big move? Kinda messin up that one by wussing out of doing it sometimes
/r/seduction20/01/22 12:56 PM
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Please send her a selfie of you 2 together
/r/seduction17/01/22 03:45 AM
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Is microdosing enough or do you need a full blown trip?
/r/seduction04/01/22 04:29 AM
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Some girls move on if you don’t attempt to sleep with them on the first date
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:19 AM
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Explain
/r/seduction19/12/21 10:23 PM
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It’s called having a low self esteem buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 02:45 PM
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True
/r/seduction19/12/21 02:40 PM
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A man’s gotta coom
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 01:52 AM
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“Anybody can have” It’s a little different from that since women can straight up offer sex to randos and get many yes’ Men can’t
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 02:10 PM
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Key part is to relax like she said so you can crack jokes the way you would with your buddies. How do you relax around a stranger you find hot? You must practice speaking with strangers and cracking your jokes until you are comfortable doing it with anyone
/r/seduction01/12/21 06:07 PM
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This boy asking all the right questions
/r/seduction30/11/21 12:07 PM
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She’s hot
/r/seduction28/11/21 05:25 PM
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I would like this to happen to me
/r/seduction28/11/21 05:02 PM
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Set me up pls
/r/seduction28/11/21 05:00 PM
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It’s just a joke bro
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 01:24 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 01:16 PM
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Where do women want to be approached? Just at bars/clubs?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 02:06 PM
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Prostitution should be legalized
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 01:50 PM
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I mean you're hooking up with someone already and there's a reason you're doing that. Biology
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 10:07 PM
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Are you approaching girl during the day in random places?
/r/seduction19/11/21 09:53 AM
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Here to serve
/r/seduction17/11/21 11:54 AM
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Watch the "Social Animal" channel on YouTube so you can see the difficulty of approaching. I'm not saying it shouldn't be done, it definitely should, but you'll see the anxieties and fear of being creepy being all too real
/r/seduction17/11/21 11:05 AM
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Dang that's a triggered response lol. I'm referring to day time, at a park, grocery store, coffee shop and at times where no liquid courage is involved. When I say approach I think of going up to a complete stranger and connecting and then asking for phone # if all goes well I said bars in my original comment btw. And my friends don't hand me women with a leash, they hand em to me with a muzzle. Gotta buy the leash on my own
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 02:13 PM
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How common is approaching anyhow? Most people actually meet through social circles, bars, and apps . Not dissing approach because it does work but it's def not where most guys you see out and about meet their lady
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:20 PM
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What on earth
/r/seduction12/11/21 05:21 AM
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Chicken legs
/r/seduction10/11/21 11:40 AM
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Define rape then. If this stat is true I just know so many rape victims. I see em left and right
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 01:11 PM
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It's a learning process for the "creeps"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 04:25 AM
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"show your hand" So don't issue that sort of compliment but it still may be the motivator for a guy to meet you.. ofen physical attraction starts things off and then you find out through conversation if you vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 04:24 AM
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What do you do if your social circle doesn't have girls you find physically attractive? The hard part is if your natural friendly intentions does bring friends, including girls, into your circle but not the ones you are attracted to. In this situation cold approach is a good idea
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 07:29 PM
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Reading a self help book or what?
/r/seduction26/10/21 05:19 PM
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Do you thinks lots of other women share this perspective or is it not too common? It's a nice thought but it kinda flies in the face of "be confident" which is what people are attracted to
/r/seduction25/10/21 11:28 PM
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More than 80 but less than 100 because "I'm not that cool" Aight
/r/seduction12/10/21 09:49 AM
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I never witness another man cold approach in the day time
/r/seduction18/09/21 01:13 PM
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It's not something I ever witness in the day time. Only in bars maybe
/r/seduction18/09/21 01:12 PM
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Takes more balls when a girl is with a group. There's more fear in the guy. Not saying it's rational but put yourself in his shoes
/r/seduction10/09/21 12:43 PM
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Courage Merry...courage for our friends
/r/seduction05/09/21 03:16 PM
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"target selection" don't be a robot man
/r/seduction04/09/21 05:19 PM
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Are try a to convert him into poly amory from out of nowhere? It does have some value, it's a strong bonding tool for many
/r/seduction04/09/21 05:16 PM
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Lmao. Stable rock this man
/r/seduction03/09/21 05:06 PM
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Everytime you have a thought when you are around people and in a conversation, you might withhold it. You tell yourself it's too risky to share it. You are not expressing yourself. Instead of withholding that thought, share it and speak up loudly. Keep doing this. This is one step forward
/r/seduction03/09/21 05:00 PM
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How do you get over the hotness though?? Sure she might not meet traits like being intellectual or whatever but she could still be really hot. I guess you really have to get 5 hot girls numbers a day to be able to filter the way you say. The problem therein is that most of us work full time and there is no time to get that many #s a day
/r/seduction12/08/21 04:51 PM
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Really? Where did you meet these younger girls?
/r/seduction12/08/21 04:47 PM
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That's too bad. I think it's much easier for a girl to become attractive by hitting the gym than for a guy to become attractive by figuring out how to be confident It's not a reason for inaction but just a harsh reality lol
/r/seduction10/08/21 12:57 PM
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Is that malicious when you say "sad" or is it a sympathetic "sad" As in "it's unfortunate your upbringing & life experience didn't shape you into a confident man"
/r/seduction10/08/21 11:10 AM
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I know. His problems are nicer than mine lol
/r/seduction08/08/21 02:11 PM
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"off chance" that's way to slim a chance to make any sort of progress happen. Especially because everyone is wearing headphones at the gym
/r/seduction05/08/21 01:21 AM
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While this is true, when you approach women even with friendly intents they will often be stand offish which is why it is encouraged to approach many women to find those who won't shoot you down and will be open to connecting with you. At least the bit about it being a numbers game is accurate. Making friends with guys is quite easy but with the opposite sex it's tricky particularly if you happen to find the girl attractive. It can be done though!
/r/seduction04/08/21 01:27 PM
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Coom retention helps. It's just a long difficult journey
/r/seduction03/08/21 12:28 PM
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It's not as bad you make it out to be lol
/r/seduction31/07/21 10:42 PM
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Good points but it sounds like these guys were just standing around not doing anything in particular that projected confidence
/r/seduction31/07/21 11:46 AM
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Man that's a sucky thing
/r/seduction31/07/21 02:08 AM
0

At bars/clubs everyone shows up in their groups making it harder to approach and i can never hold their attention. Day time approaches ftw
/r/seduction24/07/21 01:25 PM
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How's he do that?
/r/seduction13/07/21 12:20 AM
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It's purple
/r/seduction16/06/21 06:39 PM
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Damn just learned this part the hard way: "If a guy approaches with the intent of only getting laid, the woman instantly senses it and her guard goes up EVEN IF she is looking for the same thing. Women need a classy excuse to get stuck real good." Good comment though, i screenshotted it
/r/seduction16/06/21 01:15 PM
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"America is exceedingly racist"....no. Sounds like you need to be exposed to Thomas Sowell
/r/seduction06/06/21 02:59 PM
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2 months..that's freaking difficult
/r/seduction31/05/21 10:01 PM
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Nice, agreed. I just need to get over the mental hurdle of trying this at the gym. It's in my head but it's seemingly harder to let a girl know i think she's pretty there. Because it's nerve wracking we make excuses to not take action
/r/seduction23/05/21 04:20 PM
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Suscribe to this channel!!
/r/seduction23/05/21 04:02 PM
1

Exactly. You still need to express yourself. Just also be able to listen
/r/seduction22/05/21 11:05 AM
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Lmfao
/r/seduction21/05/21 09:04 PM
2

You need to get comfortable enough talking to strangers that you are relaxed and expressing yourself the same way you would with a friend. It's like you're clogged and need to be unclogged (uncensored). I think you become "unclogged" by doing a couple of back to back cold approaches
/r/seduction20/05/21 04:42 AM
0

But wouldn't you think she's closer to getting somw with OP even if it didn't happen this time around? Like next time it's likely. She'd maybe score sooner with OP than starting from scratch with someone else
/r/seduction18/12/20 01:57 PM
1

Maybe he's not into you
/r/seduction13/12/20 03:23 PM
1

But how
/r/seduction29/11/20 03:51 AM
1

How are you not more jaded? Lol
/r/seduction28/07/20 12:04 PM
3

Instant sex is not as rampant as you think. It's mostly Hollywood
/r/seduction24/07/20 05:26 AM
3

The guy and the girl are messed up
/r/seduction17/07/20 10:08 AM
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