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We will need a complete cultural shift for this to happen. In my opinion, in an ideal world, relationships should start off as a blank canvas with no expectations and allow everyone to explore and whichever dynamic they end up with is the one that's for them. Similar to that of the LGBTQ+ view of gender. BUT like I said, this would need a complete cultural shift. One that most will not agree with because most of us are educated on the idea of love and exclusivity being equated. And even if we we…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:53 PM
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Why does this feel chatgpt generated.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:06 PM
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IDK, but I see unmarried single moms get way more stigmatized than unmarried childless women. So honestly, you can't win as a woman unless if you live by certain male's needs and wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:39 AM
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lololol, yeah. Even though people shouldn't cheat. But IMAGINE the amount of pain that can be avoided if people are allowed to be themselves openly, and there is no hierarchy of 'what's normal, accepted, or better'. They saw being gay as an illness that can be 'fixed'. If you're someone who married one, don't worry! It's just a phrase, OR you can bring your partner in for a lobotomy or "shock therapy"! How about taking care of your appearance more so your gay partner who's not attracted to the g…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 11:30 PM
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The worst ones were those where it turned out they were gay, not even bisexual. It was so common back in the days when being gay was unaccepted. It just leaves you wondering if anything you'd had was true with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 11:10 PM
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Cheating exists in every form of relationship, not just monogamy. It is a breach of agreement regardless a relationship is open, polygamous or monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 11:00 PM
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It is definitely possible to be committed to more than one person, it's called polyamory. It's also possible to choose to commit and explore other options, that's called an open relationship. And I think all of these has as much of a right to exist as monogamy. I think your comment on commitment only narrows to commitment in monogamous relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 10:31 PM
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I disagree with judging a person's loyalty just by these things because it's an individual case. But it's because attractive men with the intention to be disloyal always have the option to be disloyal. The same men with same intentions, but unattractive and everything, don't really have other women just wanting them, therefore are forced into loyalty. Which even if it's true, I don't want anyone's loyalty to be forced by circumstance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 09:45 PM
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that's a different topic from the one at hand. We're talking about the concept of 'unconditional love'.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 09:27 PM
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Nothing is unconditional. With family, how many people leave upon realizing that the child they've been raising is not biologically theirs? that biology bond was the condition. How many of them grow up with the social condition that parents are expected to care, love and provide for their children? the social conditioning is one of the many condition. What about the feeling I get from providing and loving you as a parent? I feel fulfilled, proud and excellent. That feeling I get is the condition…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:31 PM
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Yeah, it's awful. I've had a friend who was never accepted as family by her stepmother. She was basically being bullied in her own household and school growing up by her half sister and her stepmother treated her pretty poorly. But the dad never left or stepped in to stop it. He even went as far as telling the half sister born from stepmom that "he only has one daughter" when she threw a fit about their father celebrating the neglected/abused sister's birthday. Most people seem to just agree tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:19 PM
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Can someone please explain to me what is red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 10:45 PM
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All marriages already automatically have a prenup. I personally don't find the need to redefine the deals of marriage. I don't find it disgusting or anything, If my partner asks for a different prenup than the traditional, that's fine. But I can see why to so many people, this is a big dealbreaker. It's like being in a monogamous relationship for the longest of time, and then you're suddenly asking me to be in an open marriage and willing to give away all we've built for it. You can tell me all …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 07:32 PM
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OHHHHHH THAT'S WHAT IT MEANS XDDDDD that's why married men looking for affairs always be like "I'm so lonely".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 03:52 PM
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I mean, we can also pay women for those doing traditional caregiving work and childbearing and stuff. But that doesn't really align with our capitalistic society, which is lowkey built upon the premise of free labor of women in that specific area.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 09:31 AM
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Not getting enough sex in a relationship is fundamentally different from two people having sex, but only one party enjoying it. Being unable to get a date is not the same as having a partner who treats you poorly If we want to draw fair comparisons, we need to create equivalent scenarios: A woman having sex despite not enjoying sex with her partner is equivalent to a man having sex despite not enjoying sex with his partner. A woman not getting enough sex from her partner is equivalent to a man n…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:19 AM
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Looking forward to more posts from you. I love some good parody.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 07:37 AM
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I said medical bodily autonomy, which refers to medical decisions. Paying child support is about financial autonomy, similar to that of whether or not one should pay taxes. It has no direct relation to medical bodily autonomy, or even bodily autonomy in general at all. Unless if we do what you do, which is create a big circle of "if this then that, and then maybe that, and then that, therefore" (i.e. beef comes from cows, cows eat grass, grass is a plant, all vegetables are plants, therefore bee…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 10:12 PM
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I have dated a woman who was 20 years older than me. I've never met anyone else who did.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 03:10 AM
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I've explained already how it works in practice, and as someone who's been in this field for years, I've seen it happen in practice. Adoption, and safe havens are a good example of it, if consent to pregnancy = wanting to be a parent for women, why does those options exist? Are all adoptions and safe havens forcing mothers who want to be mother to give up their newborns? If those two statements were true, yes. But it is not. A woman cannot just decide to be a parent anymore than a man can. But I…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 02:25 AM
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I mean, that's a completely different story. People do that all the time for everything, avoiding child support, running away from crimes...etc. Not just to another state, sometimes even to another country. There is always an underground way for everything that the law does not support, including this. Doesn't mean that such actions are a reflective of how the system is designed to operate. And for every tip, resources, network...etc you saw. More than likely it is only valid on the premise (gam…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 08:40 PM
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Which is why I said safe haven laws works for both genders. And in the case of they do choose to be parents, the woman still has to pay child support to them, just like men currently does in the case of if a woman chooses parenthood. Hence, "financial abortion" is validly needed for women as well. Again, actual abortion has nothing to do with parenthood. Getting an abortion does not mean you're choosing not to be a parent; it means you're choosing not to continue a specific pregnancy. You are no…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 06:06 PM
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I think what you're talking about is the acknowledgment of paternity process, which yes does need both parties' approval. But this is only the case for men that's not the biologically related to the child, but still want to parent with the mother, it needs both parties consent. That's the only scenario where if a women's says no, then he doesn't get to be a father. For biological fathers, as long as you go through the paternity determination process, you are guaranteed to be on that birth certif…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 12:26 AM
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Ummmm... no. I don't think you understand how this works at all... like at all. If it's mostly the woman's decision, all mothers would put Elon Musk on the dad section. XDDDD It's mostly dependent on whether or not whether the father wants to establish paternity, whether it is through through the means of acknowledgment of paternity or paternity determination. Or in the case of if the father denies paternity, mother will have to go out of her means to get a court order of paternity testing which…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 11:57 PM
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Safe Haven Laws apply to both genders, although they are most often utilized by women. This is largely because men have the additional right of not being automatically listed on birth certificates, which spares them from immediate parental responsibility. Men also have the right to deny paternity. Some women argue that this is unfair. If pregnancy and childbirth cannot legally establish paternity, then they believe it should not count as evidence of maternity either. Under this logic, women coul…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 10:42 PM
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A woman that consents to pregnancy cannot get an abortion for not wanting to be a parent. Coerced and forced abortions are illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 06:40 PM
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for the same reasons men do? To get out of parental responsibilities? Abortion is about consent to pregnancy, not parenthood. There are women out there paying child support, it's not unique to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 06:14 PM
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Well, that's the thing. A woman cannot abort solely for financial reasons. A woman who consents to pregnancy cannot just get an abortion because she doesn't want to be a parent, financial reasons...etc, that abortion would be considered coerced and not her true choice and no one would truly support that. In fact coerced abortions are illegal, but unfortunately, too common. The deciding factor is always her consent to pregnancy, not any other reason. And even if there are a million other reasons,…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 06:07 PM
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I feel that is a big part of what makes this conversation so icky. It is an attempt to re-define abortion for women in a way that benefits men. But I also have to be fair and say that it makes sense. Since that's all female abortion means to a man, is that they can potentially consequently get out of parenthood, nothing more. (on a practical level) But in reality, for women, the right to abortion is about getting out of the medical state of pregnancy. It's about basic healthcare and medical bodi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 08:56 AM
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Honestly, I’m fine with the idea as long as: both genders have the right to “financially abort,” there’s a strong social safety net in place to ensure the well-being of all children without parent/parents. abortion is fully legalized, accessible, and free from judgment or moral stigma for anyone. there must be equal or more effective ways to encourage and support male ejection responsibility. Women should not be the only one taking on the burden of birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 08:39 AM
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The mama only gets to decides whether or not she wants to stay pregnant. Not whether or not she wants to be a parent, she is forced just as much as dad in this regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 08:27 AM
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By definition, in most cases, I don't believe so. sperm donor noun noun: sperm donor; plural noun: sperm donors a man who donates his sperm for use in artificial insemination. And if you go through the donor conceived children and sperm donor subreddits. You will see how insulted the community is to have the term sperm donor being used as an interchangeable for deadbeat fathers. And quite frankly, you will see how most donor conceived children are against donations without strict laws that prote…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 08:15 AM
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I mean, unless if there's child support for fetuses, I don't see how you can financially abort a fetus.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 08:00 AM
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Yes, and? The context and stakes in each debate are different, therefore an argument that may seem logical in one scenario might not hold up when applied to different one. I say the same thing to both men and women who complain about fulfilling parental duties like child support. I don't say it to both pregnant men and women who wants a medical abortion for their own pregnancy state.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 07:56 AM
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Lying by omission is still lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 07:19 AM
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