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Well it’s good you have something you like doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 12:11 PM
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Sure. It’s a stringently followed rule that women can never lie about how big her man’s dick is when she’s bragging to her friends. Her only option is to actually fuck a massive dong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:25 AM
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It’s ok to have an alien fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:14 AM
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Yes. Things like consent classes don’t affect actual criminals. Is that where you think you’re being nagged at? They can do away with them for all I care because there seems to be a high chance of men turning neurotic and guilt ridden or angry with decreased empathy. Why are we doing something that doesn’t work and men can’t handle? Instead, women should be taught assertiveness skills, not caring if people thinks she’s being too assertive and men’s true nature. Things like the “broken record tec…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 10:31 PM
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“Nagging at” you? How is women wanting males to stop killing or raping us nagging? I mean your response is literally you’re tired of being henpecked. And we didn’t agree to a deal where we get to choose between iPhones and rape or no iPhones and no rape. I actually get what you are saying but it’s often hard to care. We are taking responsibility for our safety. But you want us to do that when it’s your idea. When we initiate the conversation of having to change the routes we take, or crossing th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 09:36 PM
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All I want is women to acknowledge that the violence and risk-taking that they benefit from, that men are more predisposed towards, stems from the same facet of our nature as the violence and risk-taking that they are terrified of. What would it look like if we did that? focus more on things that will actually protect them What are we focusing on instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:47 PM
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I’m not necessarily talking about what you said. There was a whole conversation going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 06:39 PM
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We know. But you all want us to draw the conclusions that are convenient or acceptable for you at the time. “We’re scared of male violence because we never know which of you all got the mix of sex and aggression wrong”. Omg, women are all overly terrified. “Why won’t women understand we want to fuck all of them into a pulp so I don’t have to keep explaining myself on PPD”.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 06:10 PM
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Why don’t guys on the verge of suicide or writing a manifesto just go on an antidepressant that tanks libido?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:36 PM
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Lots of fapping?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:21 PM
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Sure, my preference is that women continually call you out for the horn dogs you are instead of thinking there's any better nature to appeal to. But, you're 50% of the population, can you blame women for pretending they aren't sharing the planet with a bunch of barely contained maniacs?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:04 PM
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Imagine having an opinion so controversial yet so brave.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 03:40 PM
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Ok I get the distinction you are making. As to my other point. Men fuse dominance and aggression with sex. Society has tried to exert control over that one way or another. Of course, it was mostly done so that another man’s daughter wasn’t ruined, but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:10 PM
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What makes you think women don’t get this lmfao? That’s why we work with older men in power, who have wives and daughters, to make sure you get kicked off campus or locked up if you think you can go mask off.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:16 AM
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since women were at the mercy of men for quite awhile. What changed? Socialized behavior is not the same as programming. What's the difference? Ummmm.................. no?.... Ummmm.......yes?.....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 03:13 AM
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No, he was banned because that sub doesn’t allow the discussion. There’s nothing wrong with disagreeing about what does and doesn’t make someone a woman, objectively. But people have learned how to shut the discussion down.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 02:34 AM
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Men were programmed that way also. If you look at chivalry, the way “gentlemen” were supposed to act, and the rituals of courtship, they shaped men’s behavior as well. None of a woman’s dreams of picket fences matter unless male behaviors have some external control.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 02:26 AM
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Um, sorry. Guys can have fit, firm butts. That's what I mean. 🍑
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:50 PM
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Guys make theories about women because that's how men approach problems, theorizing and quantifying. It's why you rank things by numbers, 80/20 and the like. Also, if women started telling the bald truth all the time I don't know if you'd like it. You wouldn't be finding out things like true confessions about how she actually wants to jump on Chad's dick 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:45 PM
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Hell no, men's asses can be tight and rounded.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:41 PM
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Who know how accurate it is but it is connected to research. I don’t like OF because I think it draws in women who end up making not that much money. It’s weird any conversation I’ve had about it on Twitter, a girl (bot) pops into say she just bought her first house with OF money. I think a lot of media is normalizing it too. Teen Vogue has articles about sex work is work I think there’s a push to commodify women. Big money in it, not necessarily for the women. Though I think women are responsib…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:39 PM
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https://chartsme.com/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:07 PM
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Conservatives have more of a disgust response.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:19 PM
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What women wanted was freedom. They wanted to go to college and learn and perhaps develop a passion and career. Because they are people just like men. Instead, they were expected to use college to meet a husband. I mean you all really want to be “ha ha this is what you get” when women rejected playing bridge with the neighbor ladies while their husbands worked? To the extent we have a cluster fuck on our hands it’s everyone’s fault. Of course it’s ok for a man to decide at any time he doesn’t wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 07:01 PM
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Even if hypergamy is innate, what we see as a “provider” or as someone with status can change. After all there was a point in time when people didn’t own much of anything, such as land. Skills would have been very much what made a man high status, such as hunting, being physically strong, making arrow heads and tools, or the ability to be seen as a leader. It’s our societies stupidity that made money the measure of a persons worth. There’s no reason men and women can’t adapt and start taking mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 04:06 PM
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No it’s not, lol. A fireman is considered extremely masculine in our culture. You think a sixth grade teacher thinks she’s slumming by marrying one? Nurses and cops end up together so much it’s a running joke. Both jobs have equal status whether the nurse is more educated or makes more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 03:43 PM
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So women are judged for casual sex. Why go through that headache for a guy who’s a five when she can match with a model tier dude for casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 03:20 AM
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I'm not going to take tinder "experiments" that are reported through a deep bias at face value. I don't really care that some women want to fuck model looking dudes or put no hook ups on their bio but make exceptions for a hot person. Men shouldn't be shamed for their sex drive. A normal dude who wants to fuck women isn't a perv. But, guys are so fucking weird about where a woman's pussy has been even before she met him, I don't blame women for being dishonest. It's perfectly fine to do whatever…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 12:17 AM
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You want everyone to be clear what they are answering. Let everyone go wild with their own ideas and you have people who think they are virgins when they technically aren’t. I don’t even know where we disagree frankly. My analogy has nothing to do with how anyone reacted when getting a ticket. It’s the understanding of what “being arrested” means to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:46 PM
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There have always been ways for men to get sexual release outside of a relationship and men have always wanted relationships. I’m not worried. Women have more of an in group preference for other women than men do for men, in spite of men claiming we all hate each other. So you might not be correctly assessing the extent to which women don’t want other women exploited in porn. There’s no way to get around porn being borderline sketchy as a whole. With underage and trafficked women, revenge porn a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 04:00 PM
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Of course it does. Would you get an accurate report of how many adults had ever gotten arrested if people though getting arrested was the same as getting a ticket? Besides men are getting crazy too with “anything other than kissing” lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 03:28 PM
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Sure. It’s adorable you think women have it easy because men want to fuck us.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 02:12 PM
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The deal is that the majority of middle and upper class men are doing just fine with the status quo, or you’d do something about it. Men who would’ve done well in any other era are vastly benefitting from women working and still sacrificing careers and promotions to provide the bulk of childcare. No one is asking the least privileged to do all the fighting but you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 02:04 PM
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Supposed to be, anyway. A lot of good conversation happens. But there are a lot of men who are just complaining here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 01:52 PM
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Men can't handle the slightest pushback about any of this stuff. Of course if you're shaking up the status quo people will call you names and try to put you back in the box. Suffragettes got force fed in jail and were told they were all unfuckable old maids who couldn't get a man. Hell, people are still saying that shit about feminists. You want what you want as long as it's easy. That's why you complain about women's behavior instead of men's.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 01:48 PM
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Usually in studies they clarify what terms means. Regardless, virgin means “never had sexual intercourse”. If you want to cover every orifice a woman owns, perhaps you should use a word like chaste.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 12:21 PM
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Hate and blame whoever you want friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 12:11 PM
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Then you all remember to hate the game not the player the next the daily post about sexless men gets posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 08:02 AM
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They made the mistake of thinking restrictive gender roles were to control women. They didn’t realize men needed them to keep from falling apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:50 AM
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Yes we know that since Adam took the bite of apple by his own free will, it’s always a woman’s fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:29 AM
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Never expect better from men. That’s the lesson that should be learned from this. I guess we didn’t realize that social sanctions were the only thing that made men keep it in their pants occasionally. We mistook that for self control I guess. Whoops.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:10 AM
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Yeah, you probably have a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:37 AM
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You might have a point if people aren’t feeling they need to stay married any longer. But, people are getting married later in the first place now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 02:59 AM
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Of course men want relationships. We’re all people who want to feel safe, loved and desired. Now that strict social structure has broken down, and people are free to fuck or marry, or not, as they please, it’s young guys who feel the most left out and adrift.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:39 PM
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Exactly. Women who like the “bad boy” types are open to dating total losers, basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 06:52 PM
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Rating someone by attractiveness doesn’t equate to not good enough for. Also, what was the definition of attractiveness and was that shared with the participants so they were all rating people the same way? Did a group of disinterested people rank the participants by attractiveness beforehand? Or else how do we know whether the men on OK Cupid are really below average or not? It doesn’t matter if men are ranking women more “fairly” if they are acting the same way women are on the site. Aren’t we…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 04:16 PM
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There's a difference between estrogen and testosterone, friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 11:40 PM
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This is why women left the house and went out in the world. Men had their chance to live in a world where women don’t compete with them and put all into the household and men blew it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:59 PM
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It’s enough that you don’t hurt women. Men are stronger than us and we have something they very much want. People get angry now at “don’t hit girls” and when a woman is hit say “equal lefts for equal rights”. But men being able to care for and about women has been all we have had to keep ourselves safe. Yes, women are just people too. And all the structure that kept women safe and in their roles was something men needed to feel safe too. But we didn’t know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 11:26 PM
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The blank slate idea might not be 100% right either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 04:47 PM
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No one is having important conversations with you anyway so bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 03:25 PM
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Feminism doesn’t have to be about wanting equality with men. It can be for the liberation of women. Some strains of feminism have always argued that men and women are different. And that those characteristics we say are masculine and feminine are equal in worth and dignity. Men have to change too. They denigrate the role of childbirth and child raising by saying women haven’t contributed to making history. They say they are less particular about looks but that’s not helpful when they participate…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 03:25 PM
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You can’t fix anything you don’t talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 03:01 PM
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You’re talking about effort when women menstruate, get pregnant, give birth and lactate? She’s the person in the family who puts in more hours watching children so her career and lifetime earnings are affected.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 02:43 PM
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Then you go bang some guy as soon as he’s bought you a happy meal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 12:04 PM
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Everyone knows what the earnings gap is lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 12:03 PM
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Good idea to have the people with sense running things.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 11:03 AM
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“If you don’t want to have sex by the time the dinner check arrives, you’re not attracted to me.” Why should women act like men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 10:58 AM
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It’s a shame men don’t care for each other. I don’t think it’s a problem that the majority of men are invested in our well being to protect us from other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:20 AM
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What men say here about how little they care about things like education level. This study that showed women value attractiveness, independence and generosity while men value attractiveness. Men rating women no higher in attractiveness when they learn about her career but women finding men more attractive when they learn about their job.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 10:11 PM
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Looks is all men value in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 10:06 PM
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Even the OK Cupid data showed men and women acted the same way. Men were messaging the top percentage of women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 10:02 PM
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Thank you for the thoughtful response. What would it look like if women cared?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 09:20 PM
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Sure. But you know men's rights activists want 50/50 presumed joint physical custody, which is going to limit child support. That's what I mean by gender roles are out the window after a divorce. I devote all my time to my kids, live my life around them, then that's suddenly not fair when the marriage is over. Now I don't have a career and I don't have my kids with me like they used to be. Do you disagree with this aspect of men's rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 03:42 AM
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And that’s why the birth rate is below replacement. Why would we depend totally on a man anyway? Like not have a career and stay home. If things break down, suddenly gender roles are out the window. You want to pay alimony or child support for a woman who has no career if you leave her? The attitude is the woman is taking all “his” stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 03:29 AM
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Yeah, it’s men’s gravy train that’s over.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 03:21 AM
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You’re still treating it as though it was some agreed upon contract and women aren’t holding up their end of the bargain.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 03:04 AM
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Researchers aren’t really sure why this affect happens. In adolescence, boys start feeling more concern for girls and less for other boys. The people who did the original women are wonderful research thought it may have to do with people associating women with caring because of their mothers. Other people have thought women being less violent leads to a favorable view. Of course people have brought up the idea that women are weaker. If you’re looking at biology, it could be women’s reproductive …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 01:18 AM
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We need to start shipping men to Mars for adventures and exploration. Left to your own devises some of y’all are a mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 07:55 PM
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I’m not talking about men who aren’t calling women all liars, dishonorable or sluts. I’m not going to ignore the men who think we’re immoral children who also spend time and effort plotting how to fuck us. We don’t cultivate anything by not having sex with a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 06:33 PM
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It’s hard to care about people who are focused on fucking people they hold a seething dislike for, no matter how it started.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 05:01 PM
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Not talking about your post because that was actually pretty thoughtful and good. Responding to the person above me about their confusion about what people actually expect from women. I think that’s cause emotions don’t have to be reasoned out and sometimes aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 02:09 AM
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As much as some of the people here think they’re Plato getting to the truth of things, there’s a lot of resentment, sexual jealousy, and feeling undesired going on. Then women are blamed for the feelings, when half the feelings come from all the value judgements and rules and theories baked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 11:28 PM
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I think people are assuming that a successful single sex society would be one that could keep the one we having running just the way it is. Why? Men have created the world in their image. Of course they could keep it running. A world run by estrogen instead of testosterone would be different, not necessarily better or worse. Women are tough. We used to go with our men in covered wagons across the country to make something out of literal nothing. And what we have isn’t even the best of all possib…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 06:33 PM
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You don’t see a sampling error in your observations?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 05:56 PM
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If you want to go by what some of the women on dating sites say in their bio then sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 05:41 PM
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Sure if women like guys taller than them that’s going to make it rough for guys below a certain height. But then there are short women here who are fine with guys other people think are short. So, maybe women are saying “short men can get a woman” while men are saying “short men won’t get a lot of women”. But then you add in how people assign positive qualities like leadership in tall men and yes, short men do have some disadvantages.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 04:24 PM
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Women like men taller than them. I think the breakdown happens when people insist it has to be greater than 6 feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:58 PM
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Yes, and it also doesn’t make sense when a woman’s ability to provide doesn’t make her more attractive to men. Or that men are still attracted to youth when people are marrying later. A lot of what we do makes no sense. Though it’s obvious women marry guys who make the same as them and men marry women over thirty. People evolved the brains to be complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:17 PM
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Maybe people contradict you because you’re wrong. People tell women what they find attractive. Women say they find a wider range of men attractive then a narrow range of what you call Chad. Then along comes a study that shows women don’t all agree on what’s attractive in men. So, we’re all supposed to sit back and let you guys claim to know better than everyone? This is a debate sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:07 PM
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You don’t agree with the study then?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 01:57 PM
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Nah dude. The over prescription of psych meds could have something to do with part of it. I wonder how the obesity epidemic being fairly recent figures into women all being gluttonous. And our whole economic system rests on people buying stuff. You want to change that? Fine by me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 08:05 AM
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Choosing a man brings the potential for pregnancy. So I believe that did factor into their decision making. I’ve never seen a paper discussing differences in mate selection between men and women that didn’t touch upon this. I don’t feel attacked because I don’t think choosing a man for his ability to provide resources is worse than choosing a woman for beauty and youth. And both women are gluttonous and value judgements about gametes are opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 07:50 AM
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Why does pregnancy have nothing to do with it? The sexes have different bodies due to our reproductive roles. So not only are women only one of about three mammals that menstruate, we get pregnant, give birth and lactate. Oh and were physically weaker by a lot. Because we are a sexually dimorphic species. Since you have the opinion women are gluttonous, I think my “your gametes are dinky and nearly worthless” is back on the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 06:04 AM
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Yes I know all that. Men value beauty and youth and information about a woman’s job or education don’t add to a woman’s attractiveness. At least in the lab. Whereas that type of information can make a man more attractive to a woman. So men don’t care, women do. Do you think it’s kind of understandable since the man will never be pregnant? Don’t know where you are getting gluttony though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 05:46 AM
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Do you have a source that says women are happiest when they “have it all”? Or that they are more gluttonous than men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 05:33 AM
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The egg has to ripen through hormones and bursts through a cyst. This can cause physical symptoms of pain. And you couldn’t have read what I quoted because it clearly says the process takes more energy than producing sperm. But anyway, you were with your mother when she was in your grandmothers womb. Women’s bodies are freaking amazing aren’t they? We’re goddesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 07:54 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anisogamy#Female_phenotypes For internal fertilizers, female investment is high in reproduction since they typically expend more energy throughout a single reproductive event. This can be seen as early as oogenesis, for the female sacrifices gamete number for gamete size to better increase the survival chances of the potential zygote; a process more energetically demanding than spermatogenesis in males.[10] Oogenesis occurs in the ovary, a female specific organ that…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 07:21 PM
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Excuse me, didn’t you just say women don’t build houses and are only good for whining? Why should we change when this has men tripping over their dicks to get one of us?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 05:53 PM
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Oh, see men are almost useless in reproduction. So they contribute by building women things. We don’t build houses because we don’t have to, lmfao. Why do something heavy, dirty or dangerous when a man will?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 04:58 PM
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Feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 04:43 PM
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Tbf women don’t kill each other as often as men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 03:19 PM
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Why do you need to snap out of crying?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 03:17 PM
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What this woman wanted and how she was behaving sounds super confusing. I’m not talking about wait being incomprehensible games. Im seeing more as a woman sexually opening up when she can trust the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 05:00 AM
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You care about women's sexual morality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:22 AM
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Thanks for explaining your thought process. I totally get where you are coming from. I wonder if guys also feel less desired when a woman is able to wait with them but seemingly couldn't with another guy. But when men (or at least when I) get into a situation where a girl makes a guy wait and admits that she usually doesn't wait so long to have sex with other guys Has a woman ever explained why she is treating you differently? I just want to add that women are clowns in the circus with everyone …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 01:52 AM
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Yes I agree. I’m talking about the way some men would describe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 10:05 PM
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From what I’ve read about male prostitutes they all bullshit about the percentage of their clientele who are women. I don’t think women should commodify men either. But it’s preferable to the guys who con women online with promises of moving to be with her if she only sends another $1000. Just get some head for the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 09:50 PM
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I think this explains a lot of the conflict on this sub. But the difference don’t mean women are in the feeling, rather than the thinking domain.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 07:59 PM
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People should date a lot. The rise of casual sex means people assume the woman is riding the cock carousel and that men are stringing along a bunch of women and using them for sex. If a guy is honest with the women he can do as he likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 07:54 PM
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Can you see how it appears to Billy that you don't like him when you refuse him; and how it looks to Billy like you like Chad better than you like him? Can you understand that, yes or no? Yes. Because I listen to what men say and believe them. Does this mean when women fuck Chad, they don't really want to? Does this mean when they fuck Billy, they do really want to ? Sometimes and sometimes. How is Billy benefited by the fact that fucking her is like rubbing your cock on sandpaper because she do…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 05:02 PM
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I get what you are saying. I don’t care if men are judged for giving money to a gold digger for the rest of his life. It’s fine he’s not because I don’t think he should be. It’s called a thought experiment dude. Women are physically capable of having sex when they aren’t turned on, you know that right? And women don’t have a black and white boner or no boner desire. You don’t have to justify your feelings to me. I’m just offering an alternative perspective. You don’t have to lend it any credence…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 04:50 PM
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I’m saying you’re wrong about women’s desire. You assume for women it’s : had boner, had sex, had whatever the female equivalent of nutting is. No. And people’s mistakes aren’t all around sex those are just what this sub talks about. And any time you say I’ll wait you disappear so bye I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 04:42 PM
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Ok gtfo. I’m not saying men are x too. I’m asking if men should be treated the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 04:37 PM
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So all women are alike in their capacity for parenthood? One peak womb is the same as any other? Then you’ll blame women when you get stuck paying child support to some battle axe who made your life a living hell. I think you guys don’t know how to practice discernment so you say all women are the same anyway. And what a good dad you’ll be, showing your son or daughter women are brood mates.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 04:36 PM
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So some chick who was slutty the summer she was 18 is still ok at 22 because she’s fertile?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 04:26 PM
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Yes we know you all think penises are very powerful and that who a woman is is changed for all time after being penetrated by them. Women don’t think they defile a man by having sex with him. So it’s ok he was ever young and stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 04:22 PM
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Because the concept of caring what someone did with their genitals a year before we met them is foreign to a lot of us. Realizing it’s different for men is a purely cognitive exercise that comes from listening to men and believing them. Sometimes it makes no sense to us though. Basically you want to be the guy that has women just hop on his dick with no effort. Because you think if women do that to other men it’s because she is crazy in lust with them. You don’t think that some people just make …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 04:12 PM
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So a guy who has ever been a total fucking chump and spent his life savings on a stripper can’t ever want anything different in his life? All women can expect him to “like” them as much as he did Tiffany? You don’t get women don’t need boners to have sex. So you think, oh if she banged some lothario, she must have had a raging erection. And if she had a raging erection for me too, she would be incapable of making me wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 04:02 PM
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Nah dude some woman blowing Chad on the third date could men could mean she was young and silly enough to take men at face value. Maybe this is why we tell each other to approach things as “men only want one thing”. You don’t allow women to grow up, realize their mistakes and move on. Because you think she owes you because what she did with her pussy in the past is any of your business. If a guy has ever been a chump and spent all his money on a women, are women right to expect that from him til…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 03:43 PM
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In the midst of hookup culture when guys feel played if they don’t get sex by the third date you want women to come to what conclusion. Sure, you’ll wait for the “right” woman, but that woman was other guy’s sex by the third date woman. Then, because some men figure any woman who has dated has been treated this way, women get fingers wagged at them and told they’re playing games when she’s wants things to be different with a guy she likes. If she ever gave a blow job to “””Chad””” on the third d…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 11:13 AM
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Yes, very young women like having fun like traveling and partying. That’s not masculinity tho. Cops, soldiers, and guys who are clever in the masculine trades get plenty of attention. Maybe not from the women men here focus on, but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 03:43 AM
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Are you forgetting women are 50% of voters and politicians suck up to us like any other demographic? We’re 50% of the world and you act like everything we got is something men gave us. That could only be true if men held most of the power so your point is what? Oh, I forgot, men are horny so women hold all the privilege and power. Are you upset men’s dating issues aren’t acknowledged on a society wide level. I thought you were talking about here, so I was wondering that about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 03:37 AM
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Condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:08 AM
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What issues of women do you put in the time to understand and empathize with?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:04 AM
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I don’t know why they think women look down on these guys either. A guy working with his hands who can handle his own business around the house without hiring anyone is old school masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 01:53 AM
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Yeah I got the joke 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 09:25 PM
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🥱😴
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 07:42 PM
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🖐🏻 interested in some findom? Send me all ur money
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 07:15 PM
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I guess they are recognizing the true nature of men. They might be doing fine in their careers. Would the place be fine with you if they were exchanging diet and workout tips too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 01:36 PM
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But I thought women had it so much better than men in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 01:32 PM
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Yes. Behavior and achieving esteemable things raises self esteem. So does correcting thinking errors that make a person constantly attack themselves. CBT.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 01:27 PM
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Yeah, you’re right with whataboutism. Tho I’m not saying your argument or concerns are wrong. I didn’t give a shit when the incels were here. Because i want to do what the hell I want online. And I’m not trying to get porn removed from the site. FDS says they are a kink sub. Is the problem not what they are saying about men, but that no one believes they are masturbating while they say those things?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 09:05 AM
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I think men could be helping each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 05:14 AM
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Don't you guys think that some of the porn subs are about women are a blind spot in this discussion? I mean you're mad that women are calling you scrotes, but women have to deal with porn subs where men are aroused by degrading women and talking about rape. This is why FDS claims to be a kink sub, because all is apparently forgiven if an orgasm is involved
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 04:21 AM
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Neither of those things are studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 04:06 AM
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True some people post actual studies here. Some people think Chad fishing you tube videos are “experiments” so it’s a mixed bag tbh. You don’t think men resent the sexual attention women get, are jealous of Chad, hurt by their difficulties dating? Sometimes the only thing acknowledged is anger and some think they have used logic and reasoning to get there. Sorry not sorry 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:23 AM
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You want me to refute the theories the guys here spout to explain women? What’s been asserted without proof can be dismissed without proof. I don’t think you get my comment, I don’t know why I’m hearing this whataboutism and I don’t know why you think I care what fds does.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:15 AM
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Men absolutely have emotions cloud their reason. It’s obvious a lot of the men here feel hurt and resentment. If a person rationalizes that by claiming what’s really going on is that they’ve reasoned their way into objective truth, that’s not logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 03:47 PM
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Men sent younger men to wars of attrition like WWI and women are all catty and can’t get along? Ok lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 03:35 PM
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What sensible person judges all of womankind by the chicks he was lusting over in high school? Guys don’t know how to just have feelings. So jealousy, resentment, envy and hurt are dressed up as scientific discoveries of the workings of the universe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 08:47 AM
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😂 True I’m assuming the story didn’t happen exactly the way it’s presented here. Or maybe the women was trying to pretty things up by dancing around just saying she’s not aroused by men acting like a fat kid around a chocolate bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:32 PM
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If they lied they aren’t counted we have to go with the numbers we have. I’m not going to tack 10% onto rape statistics. I think later marriage plays a part.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:36 AM
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No, I think he used it right but he was open to being wrong tbf
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 11:42 PM
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He wasn’t willing to fool around for 30 minutes before poking it in her and women are bad at sex? Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 11:34 PM
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Is that what “literally no men” means?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 11:29 PM
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You have any links to support this assertion?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 11:21 PM
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Thanks for your answer. It helped me understand what's going on. Though I don't agree with anyone saying all men or all women thought it can be an easy trap to fall into.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 09:17 PM
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People saying all women lie or no woman can love are obviously holding a faulty position. We all have to come to the conclusion that a lot of the things society says about itself are half bullshit and half wishful thinking, women included. Women hear how good we have it how nice everyone treats us, and that pretty much crumbles in the face of any real life experience. Recognizing bullshit doesn’t mean the alternative explanation is true. Especially if there are other people who came out the othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 08:23 PM
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I think women don’t get that men are actually more vulnerable than we are in some ways. I look at all the rules and theories men make to describe women as coping mechanisms. Men don’t get it when we want to come and provide nuance. They look at it as is denying reality. When really, their way of looking at the world is meaningless to us. We don’t need tons of theories and rules to feel comfortable being social. I think the way people talk about each other is bound to cause defensiveness. Like do…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 07:13 AM
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Well yes some people who play the Megamillions end up billionaires. I don't know, maybe I live in an alternative universe. I've never been in some type of regular social setting where average people didn't end up banging and dating. It's definitely not winning the lottery rare. Though if people aren't good socially, or don't even like hanging out all the much, online is a good thing too. Where you can chat and find things in common before actually meeting up. It's pretty cool to have online spac…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 01:31 AM
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Sure. And that’s how you end up on a date too. Do you guys ever wonder if you are confidently asserting things to people who have lots of experience going to activities and meeting people? Like the non Chad dudes I’ve met and dated didn’t get friend zoned. And go outside for the love of god. You’ve never seen a dork with a girl or wearing a wedding ring? Honestly. Is he with a ten? No. Is that what ultimately bothers you guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 12:31 AM
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Good luck 🤭🤥
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 12:11 AM
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And you don’t know how to hustle or which sex are the biggest suckers when it comes to young ass. Christ, you don’t even have to fuck an old lady to get added to her will. How bad are you at this stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 11:32 PM
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That's why you don't show up and start asking women for their numbers right off the bat. People have said running clubs leading to things like meeting up for drinks, etc. If you don't like just hanging out getting to know people, you'll find it frustrating that you don't get laid (or a date) right away. It has to be something you find fun anyway. It might take weeks to have a conversation naturally turn to going out to get dinner sometime. And who the fuck cares if there's some mythical Chad who…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 11:07 PM
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I think the idea that of the hottest guy at the party is out of my league that I can go talk to another guy i think is good looking is fine. I’ve just been framing the ops question as: if a 9 or 10s are ignoring guys, why not go for the ones you’ve rated a 7 or 8. And really those sites don’t care if people are happy. They want money. I wouldn’t be surprised if some of the super hot women are fake. Make guys miserable and then string them along. They don’t give a shit about you all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 10:47 PM
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I guess I don’t consider the idea I date someone I’ve ranked as “attractive” a gross, unfeeling suggestion. 😵‍💫
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 10:33 PM
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Of course if they can they should. But men are complaining about a lack of success on dating apps and saying it’s because women’s standards are too high. But they’re acting the same. I posted a study on another sub that showed men and women use the same strategy on dating apps. Women lowering their standards would be dating men they’ve rated as unattractive. Men lowering their standards would be messaging a woman they rate as attractive but isn’t in the top. You don’t understand why people are w…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:47 PM
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It’s that men always tout that they rate women more fairly while women are unfair. That’s where 80/20 comes from. But they both act the same, going after top people. So men lowering their standard would be their going for women they’ve already rated as attractive or above average. Women are saying men are uggos and rejecting them. Men are claiming to have fairer standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:37 PM
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Then why are men rating in a bell curve?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:31 PM
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Yeah, it’s weird. The guy probably hasn’t known her long enough to loan her 500$ or let her use his car to take a trip out of town, but she’s crazy if she doesn’t want to get naked and swap body fluids. Then with the standard that women are going to get ghosted if they don’t put out by the third date, men are obsessing about the cock carousel and blaming it all on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:28 PM
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You think women are attracted to the old farts they’re banging? It’s business, not pleasure. Just bottom for someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 06:56 PM
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Am I wrong in saying men are the worst? Anytime I'm arguing with a dude wound up about women or feminism every comment of mine instantly goes to zero. Ok, makes you look real good to be hitting the downvote arrow with your rage boner.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 06:53 PM
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Women can put whatever they want in their dating profiles. Maybe "I don't do hookups" is a way to weed out dudes who respond with a dick pic. Who believes what a stranger puts on a dating profile anyway. But, they aren't anymore responsible for making sure you get what you want then the men all expecting sex on a second date.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 06:50 PM
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There's good and bad to it. I think people can forget that the male sex drive and their wanting to be with women is overall healthy and good. So there's a bunch of guys on Reddit who like puffy nipples or whatev. I don't really care. I think women mostly care about real life stuff. Like the fact that, especially when underage, things like being busty petite somehow attracts every predator within 20 miles. And note I'm saying predators, not regular guys who just want to take a glance and move on …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 06:44 PM
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Go for male sugar daddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 06:38 PM
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It’s a thought experiment. A man wants to sleep with three women. If they can all be 10s, do you think he’s going to be sure to pen a six into his schedule. You’re mistaking “any hole is a goal” for some kind of principled stand women fail at. The woman wouldn’t sleep with a ten AND a six because they they don’t have a desire to leave their cum all over the fucking place. That’s not a principle either.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 01:52 PM
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This is a supply issue like the other person said. Does a rock star at a party full of super models ever pick a 6? You’re confusing practicality for principals.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 01:35 PM
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I dated a guy who made a lot less money than me. I didn’t mind being the one with money because who gives a fuck? I could pay all my bills and buy whatever I wanted. I didn’t need his money. But he never planned anything. Ever. Not once. If you’re broke you can look in the paper for a free concert in a park and pack a couple of sandwiches. That’s fine. So I really instantly understood when I heard men complain about this. You want an active partner in all aspects of a relationship. I don’t think…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 07:06 AM
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Interesting. Yes. I can be passive aggressive and snarky. It’s one of my many vices. I also have mixed feelings when I’m here. On the one hand I enjoy talking to all kinds of people. I like it when the men here share what’s on their minds because when I don’t understand situations I like figuring them out. Otoh, sometimes I get pissed off here. Usually when I haven’t understood yet. So I think people are being dicks. So sure. The situation shouldn’t be manipulative. Like a woman is making you wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 06:59 AM
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Love is action. So sure, planning dates, being romantic themselves, etc. I can kind of see the “no wife stuff” as a rule if the woman is doing all that to get an uninterested guy to care about her. But if you’re in a relationship or seriously dating then do loving things. Second date take the guy out, with all the planning and everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 06:29 AM
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Women aren’t worse at getting in someone’s head than men are. They’re pretty good at it. I guess the only way to understand stuff sometimes is to have people explain it. I mean, sex could be something people want to do together. Instead of a battle of wills, lol. So if something makes the other person happy it should feel good to do that. But I understand there’s also a level of hurt and hostility involved too. And whoever came up with the concept of Chad and started blabbing about it online sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 06:18 AM
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Yeah they don’t get it either because for them it’s manipulation not pleasure. I think women made a mistake when they thought liberation was to be able to have sex just like men want. Because they thought their freedom was equality with men instead of being liberated as women. So now we have this expectation of sex on the second date, guys feel jerked around when they’re asked to wait, and a lot of people are unhappy. Of course I don’t speak for all women it’s just an observation and my mind wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 06:11 AM
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You guys are super obsessed with where a woman’s pussy has been. I don’t think women understand this, like at all. Where a guys dick has been doesn’t occur to us. The difference is really interesting. It’s a shame it causes guys upset and worry. Not everyone thinks about Chad. He isn’t in our minds when we talk about stuff. Just because you have a different frame of reference it doesn’t mean people are lying or bullshitting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 06:04 AM
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Most of their stuff is bullshit. But I think you guys don’t know what really gets women going. The dates, the hanging out, the slow build up in intimacy, the longing, are all super fucking hot. Are some women like the dummies on FDS being dumb? Yeah, but you all are suspicious of everything women do so you miss what is basically foreplay. Why do you think courtship used to be a thing? Sometimes our great grandparents are the ones who knew what the fuck was going on. You don’t value a woman enoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 05:46 AM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 06:46 PM
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What you’re realizing is that sex work is degrading to men too. These women feel no actual desire and are selling their consent. How do you think they view men they don’t want to touch grabbing and panting at them?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 03:47 PM
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If sex work is work why not? In the US we have OSHA. If a brothel is telling sex workers not to require a condom, they’d get fined.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 03:40 PM
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What are you all giving women when you date them?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 02:30 AM
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You all are no walk in the park either, lol. Anyway, I'm talking about sexual needs. Freud was crazy he thought we had penis envy. The way most women view and approach sex has it's own downsides for sure though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 02:24 AM
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It must be weird to be a dude sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 01:50 AM
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That might be why men have thought it was terrible. From back in the days when men could consolidate their own power or forge connections by choosing a daughters husband. I don’t think it’s terrible to women cause she thinks she was robbed of dinner and a movie though. Or whatever payment you think she should have gotten.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 01:48 AM
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You know how often we think about Germans? Never.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 10:09 PM
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Ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:48 PM
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I dunno what that looks like. But I know women aren’t spinning tales when they say there is a too muscular.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:33 PM
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The body builder look is gross and we all know roids shrink nuts. Hard pass. I think sometimes people want to find things to pick at so they can feel righteous anger.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 03:18 PM
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Men do the super jacked roided out look mostly for each other. Guys can get pretty good bodies and muscles from leading really active lifestyles. Though like some guys prefer the fake tit bimbo look, some women will like the body builder look. we’re all different.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 03:14 PM
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Not true. Women can find a man attractive as time goes on. Women have more sex fantasies when they are in a relationship. I think you are projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 04:13 PM
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[x]doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 01:21 PM
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Neither have you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 01:09 PM
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You’re a dude aren’t you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 12:32 PM
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Male facts and logic here folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 12:25 PM
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Workers rights? No, women helped. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mother_Jones
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 12:21 PM
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How many dicks have you sucked. Be honest, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 12:20 PM
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Well tbf you and I didn’t do diddly squat. And women were actually very active in social movements.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 12:08 PM
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Pimps?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 08:40 AM
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Comparing tall to fat doesn’t make any sense and it’s just a way to frame women as shallow. Compare being fat to something the man can also control, like being fat himself or out of shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 04:22 AM
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You want me to be complacent with women being objectified and treated as commodities because some men are lonely? Maybe you can blow the lonely guys. I’d like to have more compassion but at this moment I don’t. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 04:15 AM
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Communication during sex is a form of participation in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 02:59 AM
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Now I agree with women participating to achieve pleasure. Did you see where I said that may not be the most pleasurable position for her? Communication is participation too. I do think because most men are raring to go and just hop on, women can think that’s what he wants or get complacent. But you can ask for what you want or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 02:53 AM
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Ok go through life thinking other people are “just supposed” to do what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 02:38 AM
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C’mon there are men here who talk about women this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 01:42 AM
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Lol I thought you were a man sincerely stating his views. I guess my expectations are rock bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 01:37 AM
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So she’s supposed to read your mind? I thought only women wanted that from people. It may feel better for her when the man is on top. So ask her to do something different for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 01:35 AM
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Yes I know. I know how johns talk about the women they use. But you all hamster yourselves into thinking we hate sex work cuz we’re jealous or want to keep our hold over these men we don’t want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 01:25 AM
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Ask her to get on top sometimes? How hard is this. Feminists talk about women being socialized and seen in society as acted upon instead of actors. But you all laugh or get mad. So instead of constantly examining society, some people wake from their slumber when it affects them and wonder what the hell is going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 01:18 AM
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I apologize. I try to remember to say "some" so people don't think I'm talking about all men. But like the men here have their complaints, women are tired of things too. But, like I said, most men are good people, just like most women are good people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 12:25 AM
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I think more women would be supportive of sex work if men talked about the women as though they cared about their welfare.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 12:22 AM
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Plumbers is a skilled job with good pay. It’s kind of different. Why is this guy fixing my sink? Oh he needs money for food. Why is this women sucking my dick? Oh she needs money for food. Men 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 12:06 AM
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Yes and we had labor strikes, the creation of machinery, workers rights and the development of OSHA to make workplaces safer. People did care about those men. So I don’t know where you’re getting it’s women’s turn to take a shitty job with no consideration. Maybe give the women rights and unionize them, then we’re talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 12:02 AM
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Why are the sex workers in France Polish?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 11:54 PM
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No not at all, there would be drama if he had to ask and she found out in some way, making it mandatory cleans his hands of any "oh you don't trust me!" bullshit. Ok, so we're supposed to pass a federal law, and dna test newborns whether the parents want it or not, to save some guys from getting into a beef with their wives. Paternity tests are fifteen bucks at a drug store. Get one, swab the kid's cheek and you're good to go. Or is that too much to ask of poor beleaguered men too? it won't hold…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 07:23 AM
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No. I don’t want more state power because men don’t want to ask the woman for one. You just want to cause drama between people and hopefully punish women. Men aren’t children incapable of handling their own family’s business. Or are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 06:56 AM
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I’m against the kind of paternity testing clowns on Reddit come up with. Seriously. “Let’s make it a law that every kid born gets paternity tested. Then we’ll take the results seal them in an envelope, and give them only to the purported father. We won’t tell the mother the results”. What kind of high school drama is that? Dads should be able to get one upon request tho. I don’t care about that. What makes you think I have any vested interest in a cheating woman not getting caught? Fuck em.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 06:12 AM
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Dude this is tin foil hat stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 06:01 AM
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Ok thanks for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 11:03 PM
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When did I ever say women now should have their life funded? I’m saying there wasn’t some golden era for lost dudes to get pussy. If anything dudes from past eras would think you all were crazy for bitching.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 10:38 PM
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I have no idea how you are getting that from what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 10:10 PM
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No families had to dump their women on someone who could take care of her. So she wasn’t their problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 09:59 PM
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Change your view? The type of women you prefer is fine by me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 09:23 PM
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Men leaving their wives was something cancer doctors noticed informally. A study was done to verify that and it did. So cancer is pretty random. Men leaving doesn’t mean they are bad or “worse than” women. It could be that they feel totally inadequate to be caretakers because of the way people are socialized. Or because no one has ever valued them for that. The person made a good point that there could be behaviors related to job loss that end a marriage. Job loss is often devastating to men and…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 08:19 PM
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There’s a lot of woman hate here because dudes aren’t getting laid. At this point I don’t care if there’s a female sub dishing it out. At least the women in FDS are never going to write a manifesto and go on a killing spree.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:22 PM
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Well why can’t they be asses too?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:15 PM
1

They rate with numbers?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:14 PM
4

No one cares about paying half. There was never a time when people who didn’t want or care to succeed in the world they had got his choice of women. Or a woman at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:12 PM
16

Become good at cunnilingus.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 04:29 PM
0

I guess I need to remember to use an /s when I need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 03:31 AM
-2

Not sure of the link they used to get the measurements from. If it’s true, more men should know. Really a lot of them think six inches is average. That’s where I heard it. But sure it’s not a deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 02:38 AM
1

Would you rather lay bricks for eight hours or get buggered for eight hours?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 02:22 AM
9

No. Women know a man wanting to fuck them isn’t flattery.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 02:07 AM
-3

So women are happy with an average size penis? Good to know there’s one area where women don’t feel they are entitled to wildly unrealistic expectations 🙄. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 02:00 AM
2

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 07:33 PM
4

It’s not expected it’s what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 07:31 PM
3

Based. Ok talking about odds. Stuff like shooting up a place or driving a van through a crowd because of having a lonely penis. Body counts. Murdering someone because they want to quit you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:41 PM
2

Ok any of them ever shot up the place? Idgaf about crazies being crazy as long as I can live to tell about it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:23 PM
4

I dunno everyone I hung out with was always baked out of their minds so shit like that didn’t happen. Maybe find some hippies to hang out with lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 04:53 PM
3

Because we like you all. Most of you are decent and would never hurt us.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 04:49 PM
0

Yeah I hear you dating is a pain. Some men are psycho so you all aren’t exactly a bed of roses either. If it’s more of a pain for you than not you’re making a choice people make about seeking out relationships. Not a damn thing wrong with that. But you don’t have to denigrate women as a whole I don’t think.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 04:47 PM
3

It says nothing about women. If you think women are only useful as masturbation aids, then of course porn is an alternative. Women also are at risk in relationships. You decide the risk is worth it if you love non physical intimacy with other people. It’s fine when people don’t but that’s your stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 04:30 PM
9

Guns are the great equalizer. Way more woman are murdered by men than the other way around. Being in a relationship with a man is one of the most dangerous things a woman can do. Nobody loses their shit like a man can.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 04:20 PM
3

There's an entire federal agency dedicated to workplace safety in the US. Every workplace death is investigated. What else do you think needs to happen that would show people care?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 03:14 PM
0

Try expanding your social circle so you’re meeting friends of friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 10:58 PM
4

He was hot as hell when young. Better than square jawed models.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 10:46 PM
2

For real I had the same reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 10:41 PM
1

I dunno about giving advice because my life has been about 65% train wreck. A lot of chicks I’ve known like doing stuff outside in the summer. Especially if a guy knows a place they don’t know about. Like a quarry to swim in, some waterfalls, stuff like that. You just start talking to any chick about places you’ve gone. If she seems interested and asks questions ask her if she wants to go sometime. She doesn’t have to be a known outdoors person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 10:34 PM
1

Yeah, clubs suck. If a person is going to drink a party is better. But damn if you like the outdoors that’s a good way to ask someone out. A good way to screen out losers too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 09:43 PM
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No. This is rationalization and a continued need to blame women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:12 PM
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I jest I jest.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:14 PM
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Yeah well there’s at least one woman tied to a mouldy mattress in a basement in this subs future.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:10 PM
3

I’m only talking about the aspect of not telling her. Him being able to get the test is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:09 PM
2

Then why were people arrested convicted and fined for trafficking and pimping. Is is racist to say Thai men are being trafficked to work on shrimp boats. Though I see your point that just because someone is from a certain part of the world, we can’t assume they are easily tricked. The women could have been from any part of the world and my point remains the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 04:39 PM
4

I already said you should be able to get the testing without the mothers approval. I just didn’t know the reason for or how it would work keeping it secret from the mom. Unless you have part custody and take the child when it’s your time. You should be able to do that I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 04:02 PM
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I said what I have to say for now. We just have simple points to make
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 03:59 PM
1

Yeah you guys are making good points. I think society needs to be more honest with itself though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 03:56 PM
2

You're not Indian? Anyway, I can see I've been harsh. Maybe it would help if countries with legal brothels did some public education so everyone can watch out for trafficking. I don't think women are dumb, but I think when demand outstrips supply, women get trafficked by sociopaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 03:26 PM
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You have totally different concerns from women dude. Wanting a guy to poke us with his penis doesn't occupy our every waking hour. It's more like someone dumped a bunch of crack in your basement and you have crackheads banging on your door 24/7 wanting some. Like you want women to be happy having what you want instead of what we want. It's like me telling you you should be happy a bunch of chicks want to be just friends with you because that way you know they aren't using you just for sex. Anywa…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 03:24 PM
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You think being the gate keepers of sex is fun? Hell no. Guys don’t believe our no’s, hate us when one of us isn’t putting out for him (like a lot of the guys here) and we’re the ones who are sluts if the sex is sketchy. The only reason we are put in that role is because of men’s horniness. Y’all should just admit that women could all be chained to a radiator in some pervs basement and you’d have it worse because we were getting dick and you weren’t getting pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 03:09 PM
8

Yes, the average is under 500 bucks a month and tons of that is never collected.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 02:57 PM
3

“Half a brothel of women left their friends and families, and travelled to a strange county, to come suck my dick” Turns out that wasn’t true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 02:53 PM
7

Then request a dna test. There’s no reason to keep that a secret. How do you deny a mother access to her child’s medical records. I don’t even think that’s ethical or legal. Just say you want to mistrust her without any consequences to the relationship. I again wonder what the state interest is in helping you do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 02:16 PM
1

No. It’s her child. Just man up and admit you don’t trust her. It’s not the states job to intervene in your domestic dramas.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 02:09 PM
3

Ok now I know how it happens. I thought johns were indifferent but it may be they are all really dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 02:06 PM
2

Thats what the paper said who is mostly not having sex. I don’t think people are losers. The standard of living has been falling for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 09:59 AM
6

And that’s related to employment and student status. So calm down. Not everyone is fucking their way through college. The numbers shift as people get older. And if a person isn’t leaving their house to work they aren’t meeting people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 05:59 AM
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The way men feel when they’re single and horny is the way women feel when they have a connection with someone. It grows. This is why women will tell you non hot guys have a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 10:37 PM
6

That might work if a significant number of johns cared. Like, the largest legal brothel in Germany got busted for pimping and trafficking. What did the men think when they went into a place and all the girls working a shift were Eastern European? You can’t make anyone care about the women by making it legal or saying it’s just a job. Make it illegal for a John to use a pimped or trafficked woman then we’re talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 07:42 PM
1

Never mind
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 07:36 PM
6

I don’t get what either of you are saying because you’re being rather vague.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 05:48 PM
4

For what?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 05:33 PM
2

Accountability for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 05:23 PM
1

You are probs right
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 05:19 PM
1

What are women missing by being cautious of our surroundings? Do you ever go to a club and there’s no women because they are all home cowering?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 02:34 PM
5

But more men than women die from being murdered. Men die from getting into beefs with strangers. From carrying around guns and pulling them out for the dumbest of reasons. So you are saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 02:32 PM
2

The shame used to be all on the woman. If it’s grubby it’s grubby for the man too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 11:13 AM
2

Porn takes advantage of men? You’ve got to be kidding me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 11:07 AM
0

🤔 interesting, interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 05:44 PM
8

It’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 04:56 AM
18

Hmmm a bunch of anecdotes about your friends and stuff you’ve seen on Reddit. Much more reliable than the stories the females will be able to conjure up here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 12:38 AM
1

That doesn't prove the chicks you see in Barely Legal shit are 18. lol. Your dicks will believe anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 11:09 PM
0

And you believe all the women claiming to be barely legal, 18, in porn? Hoo-boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 10:24 PM
35

Yes this is exactly it. Sometimes I wonder if some of the people here are telling us who they are by their projections on women. Or if figuring out humans is really that difficult. Oh someone did their makeup and hair and took a selfie? What underhanded Machiavellian reason could there be for their friends to tell them they look nice 🤔 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 09:36 PM
2

The way things are now doesn’t refute anything about swapping places.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 07:02 PM
7

You don’t think women would change places from being desired for youth and beauty to being desired for success? Maybe not lazy women but smart talented women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 05:29 PM
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You all are always complaining about how OLD doesn’t work and how hard it is to date. So you have a live woman spending time with you and you wonder what she’s bringing to the table?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 01:53 AM
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Read some Marcus Aurelius. There I just helped you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:11 AM
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So you think we have no honor and lie and I’m supposed to be broken up none of us are volunteering to fuck you? That makes no logical sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:12 AM
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Why should women care? You all don’t even like us for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:21 AM
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Does having my own puss count?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 11:18 PM
8

Sure. People need users manuals for things that are easy. Like I’m sure you all spend this much time talking about how a spoon works.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 12:58 PM
15

You guys are like a group of Cave Men standing around poking an alien spacecraft with a stick and trying to understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 08:55 AM
1

Calibrate a no so the guy can continually dismiss all the ways you’re couching it? I can’t believe you don’t know what selfish creepers men can be. As in I actually really don’t believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 01:23 AM
1

Ok thanks for sharing. And where did I mention grace was needed? Say no to a guy once then mask and gloves off. This BS that we have to be all Emily Post when a dude didn’t get the message the first time is what chicks need to ignore.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 01:13 AM
1

Oh trust me, 16 year old girls very much want to send creeps on their way with their tail between their legs. Do you think assertiveness is an entire lifestyle instead of a skill, or.....?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 01:05 AM
1

Yeah I guess when you’re sixteen 30 year old women might as well be 100.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 12:56 AM
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Maybe they didn’t want the next manifesto writer connected to the site when the press started sniffing around.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 12:36 AM
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What are you ultimately trying to prove with your studies that women like tall men? Why is it important that people acknowledge that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 12:32 AM
8

This is a good point. It seems like because men feel strong desire for sex, they act like women have done something to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 10:56 PM
7

Are you saying men don’t take responsibility for their behavior and it’s negative consequences? Because this sub always talks like this is what women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 10:53 PM
7

Nursing is a literal shit job. Most nurses have been hit at least once by a patient if they work in hospital settings. Most women have noticed that it’s men up on a roof in 95 degree weather. I think the vast majority of women and their lives are just invisible to some of you all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 05:12 PM
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I agree with all of this. To the extent that women don’t bail when a dude is being pissy, whining or nagging to get sex is the only thing I see changing. And not giving a shit how it makes him feel. That, and women waiting until they are 100% sure instead of allowing ambiguous feelings to keep them from being assertive. I think it’s something but not everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 03:22 PM
2

That's why women to have "hell no" and "fuck no" in their vocabularies and their own way home. Because men are less worried about pushing and nagging through a no than they are about answering the urgent call of their peens.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 12:53 AM
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You don’t understand how surrogacy works.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 12:19 AM
1

Sure. When your rules don’t apply to all humans it’s the humans who are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 06:22 PM
1

Same thing. If you’re a four you’re going to get a four.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 01:47 PM
3

But women feel the same way about other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 12:30 PM
5

Where do you think the women are wonderful effect comes from?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 04:02 AM
2

Yeah, I shouldn't have been rude even if i thought it was silly
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 01:17 AM
1

This is a great comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 11:25 PM
3

Yes. This is part of what I’m saying. The men here are hamstering sometimes. But they mistrust what women say. It’s not defensiveness. It’s understanding why men approach things from what I always thought was an odd way. Now I get it. But it seems inefficient also. Like the only way I understood some of what men were saying is to listen to them. It seems weird that’s considered irrelevant to the guys theorizing what goes on in women’s heads. Like you aren’t the best at imagining it so way not li…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 04:20 PM
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I do too. Like at work. Not necessarily money, but if I put in effort at work I like to see it’s made a difference. Everyone has their own ways of judging the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 04:10 PM
1

No it shows women have TOM.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 04:06 PM
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So you get my point. Women express their own experiences in a way that doesn’t agree with men’s view of us. Because it’s different, we’re dismissed. TOM also correlates with insight. So it’s possible when we disagree it’s not because we’re wrong. Women can be better than men at some things. Or if not better just as credible. We are questioned as to whether we are capable of relating our own experiences. Men don’t have the skill to understand our thoughts and feelings better than we do. But many …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 07:07 AM
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So they’re bad at it lots of times. But they think they aren’t. They are trying to figure out people they have no empathy for with tools that work on things. It doesn’t seem to work. If it did people would be less confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 04:29 AM
1

In what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 04:24 AM
0

They spend a lot of time trying to figure us out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 04:13 AM
0

If that’s what you want to do, fine. Just don’t think you’ve figured women out and discount what we say. You’re not better at this than we are. There’s value in being analytical. I like being that way too. But that doesn’t mean you all understand women and we don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 04:13 AM
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Yeah. This is the problem. This is where your best thinking led you. And you think you have a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 04:05 AM
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You want us to gather evidence against things people didn’t use evidence to formulate? Everyone is just looking at the world and trying to figure things out. The guys here aren’t any better at it than the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 04:03 AM
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That’s an interesting point. Not saying the guys aren’t into something. Tho some people still seem confused. I’m just tired of guys thinking they have women all figured out and discounting what we say when we disagree. When they aren’t better at figuring things out than we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 03:59 AM
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No I want men to stop thinking women lie or have no insight because we don’t agree with your view of us. You aren’t superior either.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 03:49 AM
1

Then why do people discount what women say?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 03:46 AM
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Yeah I get that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 03:45 AM
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You edited your post? Look women can have analytical minds too. I think some of you guys start from the conclusion and see things through that filter. Different ways of thinking about things is good. Men aren’t the only ones who find patterns and systems. Insight and being intuitive works well also.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 03:44 AM
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No one is inept, they are different. Women, on average, use different skills to figure people out. Your way isn’t the only or best way. Women can analyze things the way men do. We don’t need a bunch of rules to deal with people. It’s not a Herculean task. I’m not apologizing for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 03:35 AM
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But eventually you are going to end up face to face with a woman. Rules stop being helpful and people skills are needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 02:36 AM
1

Ok that’s why I said if you’re average learn cunnilingus and foreplay.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 02:34 AM
0

So this is about something different than what people are actually discussing? Interesting, interesting 🧐.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 02:33 AM
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Do what work themselves? Women have access to tools that help them know what other people are probably thinking and knowing. Men want to speak in generalities with strict rules. Women have more specificity and a totally different skill set they apply to people and social situations. Men assume the way they talk about things gives truer answers. But I don’t see it, at all. Are the men here with their grand unified theory of womanhood happier or less confused than they started? No. It would be one…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 01:42 AM
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When men here say women are not being truthful. Wrong not as morally wrong but wrong as in not as correct as the conclusions men draw.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 01:17 AM
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People aren’t things though. Lots of men can be bad at something. Especially if we are looking at a particular set of men on Reddit. There’s no reason to think they are better at figuring people out than women are. To the extent that women’s input is disregarded or seen as dishonest. You are using what you have not necessarily choosing the best tool for the job.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 01:04 AM
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No one says women are too complex to understand. I’m saying you make rules and theories because that’s what you feel comfortable doing. Marketing to a demographic isn’t the same as dealing with one person. Which is what you have to do when dating. When individual women try to share their experience if it doesn’t fit into your rules or theories, then it’s the woman who’s wrong. Not that there is a weakness in your approach. Or that your way of figuring out people doesn’t register with most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 11:21 PM
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I think there is a bias that things seen as belonging to women, or labeled feminine, are coded inferior. For instance I’m not saying women aren’t also good at theorizing or also finding patterns in systems. I find trying to understand women and dating by theorizing and finding rules seems not to be very effective. Its like when medieval people tried to draw a rhino without ever seeing one. Women are seen as wrong for their explanations of social behavior though they have innate skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 10:14 PM
1

What do you imagine that would look like? Women taking responsibility?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 04:09 PM
6

Lol yeah please never show up at a girls house with a dildo the size of your arm. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 03:51 PM
2

It could also be that women who orgasm easily from vaginal sex prefer masculine men. It’s assumed that an orgasm is something an attractive man can make a woman achieve. Instead of something she is capable of already and that influences her sex partner But, it could be true. That means men who aren’t conventionally attractive need to get good at oral. 🤷‍♀️. That’s what gets most women off. The study showed attractiveness didn’t influence how often women orgasmed from non PIV sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 03:24 PM
1

Can you drop the abstract here I don’t have internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 03:04 PM
5

You have a study you could link? Pretty sure being good at oral is in there somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 12:59 PM
11

The eight inch horse cocks you see aren’t for women. A lot of vibrators for women are on the small side and aren’t shaped like cocks at all. Only men think a huge harshly vibrating fake penis would arouse most women. Penis isn’t the center of pleasure for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 12:56 PM
3

And this is why men go crazy about women’s past sexual encounters. Their worthwhile woman is another guys idea of a brutal pump and dump. They bring most of their misery on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 03:28 PM
2

Ok if guys aren’t interested in what a woman has to offer then can jog on. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 07:41 PM
2

The same thing she wants him to. Can pay her bills, has goals, likes animals and art and has hobbies. Is mellow and isn’t pissing and meaning all the time or starting an argument because of some petty quirk she has. Honestly you guys should have similar lists. I’ve dated guys with no hobbies or interests and it gets boring after a while. Real boring. Similar kinks I’m guessing is along the lines of likes toys and fuzzy hand cuffs but doesn’t have to be wearing a gimp suit and hanging from a tree…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 04:32 PM
11

Maybe quit worrying about what hot girls do?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 03:58 PM
2

Uh huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 06:56 PM
1

Yes that has the same coherence as the ramblings of some of the men here. Now you get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 03:17 PM
4

Then just don’t be fat is true? But also women can’t get attractive men when they hit the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 01:16 PM
4

Ok then just don’t be fat is not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 01:00 PM
6

Some have. When do you think they hit the wall?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 12:48 PM
7

Are you 16? The point is how does that fit into the “just don’t be fat” rule?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 06:26 AM
8

A red pill guy denying guys talk this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 04:44 AM
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No. Some of the people here literally think women hit the wall and start losing their looks at 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 11:42 PM
2

The irony of that comment in this of all places.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 11:39 PM
1

What should the women be doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 07:45 AM
2

It was men on a dating app that were measured. Also, the men only messaged the top 20% of women. So what are you complaining about. You want women to rank men more equitably, then only show interest in the top 20%?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 07:41 AM
2

I don’t know if he means chad would be the shitty father or the men women are supposed to fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 07:32 AM
2

Why won’t women have their own sex bots?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 07:27 AM
2

Women would get more out of a sex session with multiple partners than men would. If women had gotten pregnant less easily, such as only ovulating in certain circumstances, the world would be very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 06:14 PM
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We’re talking about people making fun of and scapegoating single mothers. I’d never use a pejorative to describe anger about any of the things you’re talking about. Look I like to poke fun at people too. I think FDS is occasionally funny. It’s not fun tho when people are genuinely upset. I actually think men have room to be mad about sex, dating and marriage. So I dunno I guess I see where guys are coming from. It doesn’t mean either women or men are all bad however.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 11:34 PM
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Everyone knows that bitter women encourage divorce to their friends. I’m focused on 95% of observable behaviour from millions of men that all say the same thing Just like the sub we're talking about, some people just want to circle jerk and shoot the shit. Look, nothing wrong with that, like at all. But it seems that, just like the "speak to the manager haircut", single mothers are a Rorschach test for the kind of women men are mad at. Now, otoh, people use patterns to make sense of the world an…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 10:54 PM
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Of course I go into things. Do you all take what women say at face value? No? So what I see you saying is that divorced women encourage other women to get divorced? I mean, to an extent, maybe. A woman can see another woman living independently and think she can do that herself. I don't know if you want to call that a good or a bad example. It would be good if an example was being set for a woman trapped in a terrible marriage, for instance. Maybe you're talking about divorced women encouraging …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 10:17 PM
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I agree with you. I'm supposing such women allowing themselves to have standards leads to some of the seething evident in the sub. I want people to explain it without dressing it up as being entirely rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 09:57 PM
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Why would someone have a problem with number 4? First, it’s a straw man. women understand what men desire. Men want youth and beauty. Every 30+, dumpy woman knows a handsome millionaire is out of her league. Unless she has no sense, but that characteristic is rife in both sexes. But if that’s true, for the sake of argument, so what? None of the guys in the sub find the women desirable, so who cares if her standards are unrealistic. It doesn’t effect them to the point they should be seething. My …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 09:16 PM
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Then laugh and say no, who cares? There’s no cosmic justice people have to follow though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 09:37 PM
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People can demand all they want realistically. And anyone can say no for any reason. Irrespective of who did what ten years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 09:17 PM
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Why does a woman need to spend her entire life making the same choices she did when she was in her early twenties? This is an unreasonable expectation that you aren’t holding yourself to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 07:00 PM
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Women like learning reading and words by and large. Boys develop the attitude towards learning demonstrated here before kindergarten. That girls are good at school, which makes school and school work feminine. Since it’s feminine it’s denigrated. At least half the comments here demonstrate this. Get a hold of yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 06:13 AM
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$$$$ plain and simple. Don’t hate the player, hate the game. Women, by and large, aren’t lusting for randos on Reddit. It’s all a hustle. If they are at all attractive they aren’t lacking people giving them attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 10:19 AM
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What’s with the Machiavellian scheming because someone treated you like an adult who values honesty? “Acting like” she doesn’t have sex on the first date means she has to turn down sexual advances. There’s a lot of rumination some of you all hang onto.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 05:20 AM
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Then don’t date. Many men don’t think sex with a willing partner and one who is barely tolerating your touch are the same. But I think this post is actually sour grapes. Sorry guys are having a hard time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 09:20 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 08:52 PM
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Yeah, people masturbate. It’s 2021 after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 07:35 PM
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The only way to empathize with people who have vastly different experiences is to listen to them. That leaves people who think the other sex constantly lies about their motives totally out of the loop.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 07:31 PM
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