Desthr0 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
51	Why Men Shouldn't Have Kids (USA)	Marriage/Children	Desthr0	/r/MensRights	17/10/22 06:57 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Feminism has completely destroyed relationships how do we fix it? It's not up to you to fix it. They are broken, damaged people. They need help, but they can only help themselves. And until they let go, they'll never have a real genuine relationship that way.	/r/MensRights	19/04/24 03:53 PM
1	Between 2013 and 2018, 52 of every 100,000 men and boys in the United States were killed by police use of force and about compared to 3 of every 100,000 women and girls. https://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=2144002 Enjoy	/r/MensRights	30/05/23 11:25 PM
18	11-Year-Old Boy's Fatal Circumcision Surgery Leaves Family With Questions Cause of death: Anesthetic reaction Why was anesthesia being used: surgical procedure What was the surgical procedure: circumcision Would the boy have perished without the surgical procedure: No Proximate cause: circumcision	/r/MensRights	30/05/23 11:09 PM
3	Mothers of boys with gender identity disorder had more symptoms of depression and more often met the criteria for Borderline Personality Disorder than the controls: 53% vs 6% Unlikely. Gender dysphoria is incredibly rare according to the DSM-V, affecting about 0.007-0.017% (yes, that low, and about 80% of those numbers are male) of the population. Women have 75% of the 1.6% of BPD diagnoses in the US, and if they have children at the same rate as most other women, then about 2% of women have BPD and have 1 or more children. That makes 0.5% of the overall population affected by GID alone, IF those women only have 1 child. 70x greater than the DSM-V rate. So obviously …	/r/MensRights	30/05/23 10:19 PM
3	Mothers of boys with gender identity disorder had more symptoms of depression and more often met the criteria for Borderline Personality Disorder than the controls: 53% vs 6% Isn't general population for BPD 1.6%, with women owning 75% of diagnoses? So 1.2% is the going rate, isn't that closer to 42x the rate of the general population?	/r/MensRights	30/05/23 08:28 PM
7	USA: Wife accused of poisoning husband with fentanyl-laced Moscow Mule. He told friends if 'anything happened to him it would be her'. Research trauma bonding and learned helplessness. It will be an eye opener.	/r/MensRights	10/05/23 01:19 PM
2	Do you think the system is bound to collapse? You do realize I'm agreeing with you right? LoL	/r/MensRights	08/03/23 03:20 PM
3	Do you think the system is bound to collapse? He is alluding to the communist class-based revolution scheme that underpins all of feminism. Because Marxist ideology worked so well in the USSR.	/r/MensRights	05/03/23 01:00 PM
12	Woman Who Pretended To Be A Man Dies By Assisted Suicide Years After Realizing How Difficult It Was To Be One Research studies show that left-leaning thinking is correlated with an increase in criminality. So I'm not sure where the right = crime thing goes. There's no such thing as hate speech. We do, however, allow ignorance to be voiced by all. Should we "police" ignorant speech and destroy people because they don't know any better? Of course not. Also, there is only one major media news outlet that has politically-right views, and a few relatively neutral ones. The rest are heavily poltically-left. A…	/r/MensRights	28/10/22 12:26 PM
43	Woman Who Pretended To Be A Man Dies By Assisted Suicide Years After Realizing How Difficult It Was To Be One Her actions of taking on the role and appearance and mannerisms of a man contributed significantly to the decline in her mental health. It wasn't the cause of her suicide per se; however, the fact that she chose to do it at all demonstrated how mentally ill she was in the first place. She never recovered from that experience.	/r/MensRights	28/10/22 12:17 PM
3	Not being in a relationship with women now makes you a terrorist. I would assert that your claim here supporting your argument about the commenter using a strawman is a false equivalency. If I go to a site, scroll through their posts and MOST of them are about women, Women make up about 51% of the population, so even if posts about the sexes were equally distributed by population (they are not, but that isn't important) MOST posts (ie: the majority) would still be "about" women. This is not an argument refuting your point entirely, but a point necessary to rai…	/r/MensRights	17/10/22 08:05 PM
1	Apparently, we shouldn't make misandry a hate crime, and if you think so, that should concern you. The slippery slope is the fact that the law never gets applied equally nor consistently. It only criminalizes hate speech and only for some people and not others. The people are supposed to be protected equally under the law.	/r/MensRights	05/10/22 03:23 AM
2	Apparently, we shouldn't make misandry a hate crime, and if you think so, that should concern you. The issue at hand is that it is illegal to restrict the speech of the people, with a few notable exceptions involving actual harm to other people. "Hate" speech cannot be used as a punitive enhancement to meet this criteria because it is criminalizing speech that does not cause harm in the ways that libel, slander, and false testimony do. Each of these is criminalized because the speech is deliberately used to cause harm to someone. Being a racist fuck isn't illegal. Being a racist fuck shouldn'…	/r/MensRights	05/10/22 03:17 AM
2	My wife of 12 years is leaving me and taking almost all of our life savings. I would agree, but she violated negotiating in good faith. She deserves to be held to account.	/r/MensRights	28/09/22 03:31 PM
8	My wife of 12 years is leaving me and taking almost all of our life savings. It's almost always illegal for anyone to conceal assets in order to manipulate their financial position for material benefit. They call it fraud.	/r/MensRights	28/09/22 03:30 PM
4	My wife of 12 years is leaving me and taking almost all of our life savings. Puerile-I adore your use of language fellow redditor.	/r/MensRights	28/09/22 03:27 PM
1	My wife of 12 years is leaving me and taking almost all of our life savings. You need a lawyer and you need to explain her deliberate concealing of marital assets immediately so you can recover your portion of those assets. Lawyer up fast, because if you can prove what she's doing (get bank statements, written correspondence, anything) you may be able to recover those assets via a judgement. It is unethical and possibly illegal for her to do what she is doing, and you deserve to be treated better than that. What her reasons are for divorcing are irrelevant. Australia may…	/r/MensRights	28/09/22 03:24 PM
9	Absolutely heartbreaking article about male rape in wartime Only a matter of time.	/r/MensRights	27/09/22 11:50 AM
4	Woman Convicted of Murdering 10-Year-Old Stepdaughter Found in Trash Bags Makes ‘Sudden Heat’ Argument on Appeal 35 to life, not bad for a female killer.	/r/MensRights	25/09/22 04:18 AM
10	Sooo this is what they come up with??? That's because "hate" crimes are a joke. Hate is a motive, not a crime. It's even more laughable that there would be a "hate" crime involving the murder of a female. Legitimately, men and women both are less likely to murder women because of our innate bias towards women. So what the fuck is the point when women are already less likely to be a victim? Shit like this is what aggravates problems between the sexes and devalues human beings. There's already correlative evidence that things like femi…	/r/MensRights	22/09/22 03:08 PM
2	Sooo this is what they come up with??? Statistically speaking, serious crimes are more likely to occur during night hours. Most crime occurs during the day, but the serious scary stuff? Most murders occur after midnight and before 5 am. So while you are more likely to be victimized for any random crime during the day, the likelihood of being affected by a serious violent crime is much higher at night.	/r/MensRights	22/09/22 03:01 PM
2	Sooo this is what they come up with??? How can women be bigger victims if men are. . . Ya know. . .bigger? ;)	/r/MensRights	22/09/22 02:56 PM
2	Sooo this is what they come up with??? Because actuaries have to be partially autistic to perform in that job. . . It's an awful fucking job. Imagine seeing the risk and opportunity costs for literally everything you see LoL	/r/MensRights	22/09/22 02:55 PM
2	The fall of men, of a society, is the fall of that society. There is only one contributing factor, all of the other ones listed are simply side effects of the actual cause.	/r/MensRights	21/09/22 05:47 PM
3	Company blatantly discriminating against men, especially white men, through diversity equity & inclusion goals Truth be told, all of the shenanigans these days are because of the push for extreme uniformity. Individuality is dead. Environmental sustainability is a pipe dream cooked up as an excuse for pushing uniformity upon the masses.	/r/MensRights	21/09/22 04:59 PM
79	What legal privileges have men got that women don't have? You forgot to add for the privilege of dying in some God forsaken area of the planet for a county that doesn't give a fuck about you. Kind of like Comcast.	/r/MensRights	23/12/21 01:51 PM
6	I’m an MRA and people say I hate my own gender Just to give you some food for thought... When people say "someone who will love you for you," or "love you for who you are," there is usually something that is left unsaid. . . It leaves a sense that "you're good enough" as-is, no matter what your problems or character flaws are, no matter how severe. And that is blatantly untrue. You need to become someone lovable in order to be loved for who you are. People don't love me because of who I am, they love me because of what I became. That's a har…	/r/MensRights	02/10/21 06:52 AM
1	Feminist GF seems unsympathetic to mens issues, sees most men as assholes. Is this a red flag to break it off? Break it off. She's an idiot. And if she insists on giving you shit, tell her this: "Do not speak to me that way. I do not appreciate being stereotyped nor being spoken to in anger. I will not tolerate it." Be firm, and do not waver. If she insists, tell her you are not interested in pursuing a conversation where you are going to be stereotyped and spoken to in anger, and go somewhere else. She's a powder keg waiting to blow you apart.	/r/MensRights	23/09/21 05:13 AM
2	Mythical Horned Creatures This is your fault. The fault of other men. You are looking for a bro-tug without taking ownership of the problem. Not quite sure what you mean here. The assumption that people are "happily" against effort is absurd. Except for the fact that we are. Our brains are instinctively wired for minimal effort + greatest reward. Even when we do something as innocuous as walking, our brains optimize the movement on the fly in order to conserve as many calories as is possible. Study after study shows that…	/r/TheRedPill	13/04/21 07:33 PM
6	Mythical Horned Creatures Every last bit is true. Well done. I've been told several times, by many "redpillers," that women like this don't exist. Well, the thing is, they do. Absolutely and unequivocally. The problem is that most men are complete ass, and even the men that aren't also tend not to be willing to put the effort in that is required to get a devoted and (relatively) stable life partner. You are the rock and materials she builds the house on and from. You don't build the house, she does. If you are unstable, …	/r/TheRedPill	10/04/21 01:38 PM
1	Anger is not a phase. You can choose an emotion to feel. If you have developed the mental mastery required. Initially, you may feel an immediate emotion that was preceded by an automatic cognition in response to a perceived event. Once you are aware of it, you can choose to dismiss that emotion and pick a different one instead. Take for example being angry at someone. Perfectly reasonable. You can look at what you thought and why you are angry, and after evaluation, choose to feel something else.	/r/TheRedPill	14/10/20 07:01 PM
7	Anger is not a phase. Exactly this. Examine your thoughts and emotions with a critical eye. And if it suits you, choose a different emotion instead.	/r/TheRedPill	14/10/20 04:31 PM
25	Anger is not a phase. I agree 100%. All emotions evoke some sort of action when experienced. What action that is can be destructive, or, ideally, constructive. Anger, for example, is a response to perceived harm. Physical, mental, emotional, financial, doesn't matter. We get angry because we perceive that we have lost something. Real or not. It is also important to be able to perceive the difference between external anger and frustration. Frustration is anger directed towards the self; it is anger at oneself for one'…	/r/TheRedPill	14/10/20 04:30 PM
4	Feel Good Story Of The Day, Example Of Redpill In Action Isn't it ~3500kcal/lb? Which would be about 8750?	/r/TheRedPill	20/08/20 10:48 PM
111	Feel Good Story Of The Day, Example Of Redpill In Action Damn that's funny. 2.5 lbs a week. That's like a 9000 calorie surplus. What the fuck is she eating! How does her stomach have room for that much fucking food?	/r/TheRedPill	19/08/20 06:50 PM
1	Suffer, you must. From the Stoics: "Live in accordance with [your] Nature." Your nature, your ability to be a profoundly intelligent being. Nothing more, nothing less.	/r/TheRedPill	03/12/19 11:19 PM
16	More TRP observations/lessons from my best friends sister. I think the whole part of being born a man is so you can take pride and value in yourself and your mission. It is what we do, women come along for the ride. It's not unfair. Unfairness means that injustice exists, (and it does, but not in this instance). The whole problem with Incels is they feel entitled to that sweet pussy, and get angry when they don't get it. That is what TRP means when they talk about outcome Independence, to understand that you aren't entitled to anything in this world. If…	/r/TheRedPill	22/05/18 11:26 PM
1	Child Support Law/Experiences by Culture question I shared a story with a good female friend about a guy who is being forced to pay child support for a kid that isn't his, when his ex openly stated in court that she was fuckng another guy and the paternity test proved it was this Chad's spawn. She "didn't believe it." I told her to look into it, we'll see what she comes back with.	/r/TheRedPill	21/05/18 02:18 PM
11	Backwards and reversed My favorite part of the fem article was this: "If you're a disabled child, and all you see on television are able-bodied people, what does that inform you about your existence?" That being able-bodied is normal. Imagine that. If the human race had all been disabled 400k years ago, I wonder what would have happened...	/r/TheRedPill	19/05/18 02:26 PM
1	May 18 - Weekly Improvement & Progress Thread Last week was my birthday, and I committed the cardinal sin of putting a plate's desires above my own. (She was graduating with her business degree, and wanted me to come to her graduation and meet her folks.) I agreed, putting off a camping trip with my children and friend. The day of, I get a call from her saying that my showing up would hurt the feelings of this other guy she is seeing and has feelings for, so it's best that "neither of us come." I box up the toiletries she has at my place (t…	/r/TheRedPill	18/05/18 03:55 PM
22	First rule of dealing with rape accusations and the police, keep your mouth shut. In the USA, constitutional law protects you from self-incrimination. Here, it has been taken to mean that if you keep your food-hole closed, they can't MAKE you incriminate yourself. So, in Europe, it may depend on where you are at. Nobody here is compelled to talk to anyone, let alone the police. It may be different there where people may be required to talk to the police.	/r/TheRedPill	15/05/18 05:55 PM
2	Leg day ruined by just one female. I would up the ante by being prepared before you talk to the gym owner. Get cancellation documents ready, new gym membership docs ready, and even get some of the regulars to hop on board. That way, if, in the slightest chance, the owner is special, the financial impact can be immediately realized. And, unfortunately, the price to pay is frequently nothing. Justice must be exacted by those who have been offended against in these circumstances, almost always.	/r/TheRedPill	11/05/18 01:24 PM
34	Mystery Man You NEVER talk about what you CAN'T do. You ALWAYS talk about what you CAN do. Women don't give a shit about what you can't do (for them). They want to hear what you can do (for them). Why talk about something you've never done? Let's talk about how good you look in that damn tux/suit instead yeah?	/r/TheRedPill	10/04/18 10:03 PM