DestituteVestibule Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	A case study on why dating is absolutely horrible for men and all men should go MGTOW I honestly feel like that post is a dumpster fire, but reddit is car from a true sample size of the world. If it was, Trump wouldn't have won the popular vote.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/25 12:22 PM
5	How long is maternity leave in us? Wow, that's truly amazing, what a trooper you are! I have boys who are 8 years apart. Could not imagine having 2 babies at the same time. 😭❤️	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/24 04:17 PM
2	How long is maternity leave in us? FIRST set? 😭	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/24 11:39 AM
3	Why are people so obsessed with age gaps when it's such a niche issue? All the discourse here is boring lmaooooo. I dont buy anything on the male or female side of this subreddit. It's like watching the inside ofna fish tank here seeing these people argue over things that don't matter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/23 02:21 PM
7	Why are people so obsessed with age gaps when it's such a niche issue? Op is getting dragged for asking this but you're here every week. Looking at the same shit get posted so....	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/23 01:21 PM
2	There's nothing wrong with treating women like children, a lot of women like it when you take care of them in a loving manner I didn't even read this. Your conflating of women and children in itself explains why men seek p3d0 relationships. That's it boys, shut down the subreddit. That's the end of it. We have an answer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/23 04:30 PM
1	Does having a 'hoe phase' come from a place of pain? For men and women both, yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/23 01:23 AM
0	Do women actually marry the men they aren't really that sexually attracted to? Yes and no? I'm about to take the long way around to answer this question. Women have a tendency to try to make a man fit the bill as opposed to him actually fitting the bill. Have you ever heard of the "i can fix him" trope among women? Men mistake this as women liking a bad boy when, in actuality, it's us living in a fantasy romance novel where we help him live up to what we see as his full potential and he picks us forever and ever. Physical attractiveness isn't central, but it's nice. Most w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 10:04 PM
4	Women just want an excuse to lecture men about sexism Men and women view this differently because she definitely isn't an ex from a few years. It's been less than a year and after reading the newer texts, he definitely intentionally led her on. It is massively weird for him to pursue, fall in love with and get another woman pregnant in a year or less while still emotionally investing in another woman. Do I understand where she is coming from? Yes. Do I think she's low down and dirty for posting these though? Also yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/23 08:03 AM
0	About what percentage of women do you think completely do not care about height? 50/50	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/23 07:03 AM
0	The Jonah Hill discourse is a display of many men not knowing the difference between “boundary” and “controlling” He said "surfing with men". There was no statement of boundaries. He just doesn't want her around men when news flash, men are half the population of the world lol. 'Cutting off friends', yeah, we dont know the stories and she did make a decision but it also sounds like he just picked wrong and tried to turn her into some cookie cutter, shut in housewife.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/23 10:34 PM
1	The Jonah Hill discourse is a display of many men not knowing the difference between “boundary” and “controlling” Kind of, but is it really if you find someone cool and willing and within your boundaries?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/23 10:28 PM
1	The Jonah Hill discourse is a display of many men not knowing the difference between “boundary” and “controlling” Instagram isn't a dating app, genuinely, is wrong with you? Lmaoooo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/23 10:27 PM
2	The Jonah Hill discourse is a display of many men not knowing the difference between “boundary” and “controlling” No one evesaid she was making a documentary. People can document without making a documentary. I keep photos online as a digital photo album to share as we all do. She's not running an onlyfans page.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/23 06:15 PM
1	The Jonah Hill discourse is a display of many men not knowing the difference between “boundary” and “controlling” She lives in hawaii and is an avid surfer. She is not "showing her butt to men". A stripper shows their butt to men. She is existing in her own life. Surfing. Hanging out in Hawaii in a swimsuit where it's hot as balls and beach is life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/23 06:13 PM
1	The Jonah Hill discourse is a display of many men not knowing the difference between “boundary” and “controlling” Everyone alienates hobbies for lots of people all the time. This wasn't something that she wants to do sonshe stood her ground. You can't force someone to do anything. And if those men did it and are resentful, then they should have stood up more for themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/23 06:04 PM
3	The Jonah Hill discourse is a display of many men not knowing the difference between “boundary” and “controlling” No one said you had to be okay with it. All I said is that boundaries protect and control is inflicted upon someone. If that person got tattoos knowing your boundary, I think it would be safe to say they'd be trying to control you at that point. Inevitably it would be a, "are you going to make a big deal over a tattoo" kind of thing that would try and force you into something you don't want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/23 06:01 PM
3	The Jonah Hill discourse is a display of many men not knowing the difference between “boundary” and “controlling” Exactly, they are not grasping this concept at all. Trying to change someone is not simply compromise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/23 05:56 PM
6	The Jonah Hill discourse is a display of many men not knowing the difference between “boundary” and “controlling” Change and compromise are not the same. Her hobby is surfing. That's not single shit. Modeling isn't single shit. It's a job. Hell cheating isn't single shit, you have to be committed to cheat lol. I just don't think you are making any sense. And lets keep in mind this man is JUST her BOYFRIEND asking these things, not wven ring on the finger HUSBAND-- Asking her to give up her life in HOPES that he MAY propose. If that's even something she wants.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/23 05:23 PM
6	The Jonah Hill discourse is a display of many men not knowing the difference between “boundary” and “controlling” Cheating and trying to completely change someone's identity are different things. You're conflating someone having a hobby with someone cheating. So lets look at it how you seem to want to scale this. Are you dating someone who identifies openly as a cheater? You knew this about them before hand, as a matter of fact, that's what attracted you to them. Then you get into a relationship with them and ask them not to be who they are and who you knew they were from the get go? Yes, that's controlling…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/23 04:30 PM
6	The Jonah Hill discourse is a display of many men not knowing the difference between “boundary” and “controlling” He didn't ask her that at all, he told her to not surf with men, not hang out with her friends and essentially not document her surfing	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/23 04:07 PM
–	The Jonah Hill discourse is a display of many men not knowing the difference between “boundary” and “controlling” Jonah Hill was basically asking her to completely alienate her hobby for him and cover up her body like some sharia law bs. He doesn't respect her at all, he wants to change and subdue her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/23 04:02 PM
–	The Jonah Hill discourse is a display of many men not knowing the difference between “boundary” and “controlling” In favor of men? It's not about women or men winning out, it's about mutual respect. The way you guys word these things really goes to show your own ego and insecurities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/23 03:40 PM
4	The Jonah Hill discourse is a display of many men not knowing the difference between “boundary” and “controlling” A boundary is something that protects yourself. Controlling is something that is inflicted upon someone else. I think it's pretty clear.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/23 03:36 PM
11	Pleasing a man sexually as a woman is so much easier than pleasing a woman sexually as a man Yeah quick question, have you ever spoken with a woman about this before? How old are you? So many questions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/23 01:36 PM
1	SOME men in your league will try to use you. But if you only go for men above your league, ALL OF THEM WILL It doesn't matter which is which because what I DO understand is that both are shitty and that's all I need to get out of it. Trust no man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/23 07:37 PM
2	Where's the insentive for a woman to have low body count? As a woman I feel the benefit to having a low body count is having less trauma. The more relationships you have in general the worse a person's outlook seems to be. I like having the patience and respect to really try with my partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/23 07:27 PM
1	SOME men in your league will try to use you. But if you only go for men above your league, ALL OF THEM WILL You said exactly what I said in a bunch more unnecessary words, so thanks for nothing? And it is deceptive. It's called leading someone on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/23 06:28 AM
2	SOME men in your league will try to use you. But if you only go for men above your league, ALL OF THEM WILL Having a meal and discussing things in person with someone isn't the equivalent to waiting weeks/ months and getting to know someone then ghosting after sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/23 04:04 AM
2	SOME men in your league will try to use you. But if you only go for men above your league, ALL OF THEM WILL So the sex almost ALWAYS bad and mennare truly seeking relationships? Yet men constantly seek sex, jizz, obsess over it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/23 04:03 AM
4	SOME men in your league will try to use you. But if you only go for men above your league, ALL OF THEM WILL Nooooo NO no no. He was lying and holding out for sex despite the icks. How do you spend time with someone and consider a LTR prior to sex....Then magically JUST SO HAPPEN to discover the icks right after sex? Men want what they can't have and once they get it, that is the ick. It's old pussy. He won. What do they like to say? "Doesn't matter, Had sex"? There's no avoiding that these men are shallow, please be for real here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/23 11:42 PM
5	Now that we live in an era where women work and make their own money, why is a man's money/career still so important for women? First point: Single motherhood is praised because it's hard and comes with sacrifice, it does not come with privileges and if this wasn't the case they wouldn't be considered lower on the totem pole of desirability. Second point: "All of human history" is grandiose. JUST NOW within the past 100 years women have started to have more freedom of choice to not strictly be a breeder. A woman couldn't match provider energy with provider energy if she's in the village/town looking after and educating t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/23 08:52 PM
3	Now that we live in an era where women work and make their own money, why is a man's money/career still so important for women? I think the disconnect here is accepting that she wants a man who wants a family. There are also men who may not want a family and simply want arm candy. Being arm candy is expensive and time consuming. Either way, a person desiring anything other than a fully 50/50, independent partner needs to bring stability for HIS OWN expectations to the table. it is unacceptable to demand extra work on someone else's part to meet you-- not in the middle-- but all the way on your side without providing some…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/23 08:31 PM
0	Now that we live in an era where women work and make their own money, why is a man's money/career still so important for women? I encourage you to look into Emile Durkheim's decades old (to this day) insights on male and female tendencies as they relate to committing [redacted].	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/23 08:19 PM