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| 74 | The "women initiate most divorces" argument. Let's chat about the reasons. | Marriage/Children | DestructionDestroyer | /r/MensRights | 25/10/21 02:11 PM |
| 26 | Two things my wife hears about me at her job | Edu./Occu. | DestructionDestroyer | /r/MensRights | 28/10/21 06:22 PM |
| 0 | Why are women so entitled? | Feminism | DestructionDestroyer | /r/MensRights | 16/09/21 07:39 PM |
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| 1 | Do feminist believe that they didn’t create the hookup culture? That the sexual liberation/revolution didn’t play a part in it?This is timely. I just read this post on TwoX. I don't know what world they live in, but they're pissed because too many women "give away the goods for free" and it's hard to compete with that when you're hoping to get something out of giving up the goods. | /r/MensRights | 29/12/21 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Say it with me: kids! Can’t! Consent!Your thread title is missing the word "legally". Kids can absolutely consent. They do so every day all throughout the day. | /r/MensRights | 20/12/21 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Just a question about sexMen are allowed to decline sex, anyone is. Women are allowed to choose partners who want to fuck them, anyone is. | /r/MensRights | 14/12/21 07:18 PM |
| -5 | Hitting a man in the groin should be seen as sexual assault (in a non self defense situation)I never like these "keeping up with the feminists" approaches to male injustice. No, getting hit in the groin is not (typically) sexual assault. It is assault, not sexual assault. Sexual assault needs to (or should need to) provide the perpetrator with some type of sexual gratification. In most cases, the person doing the groin hitting isn't getting any kind of sexual gratification from it. Rather than trying to adopt the feminist approach of "OMG he touched me! RAPE!", we should be working to a… | /r/MensRights | 14/12/21 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Got laughed at for saying I was MRA"You don't think men should have rights? Weird!" | /r/MensRights | 01/12/21 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Need to get this warped perception fixed: vasectomies are NOT used for birth control. Despite what many media sources portray.you realize the people that talk about vasectomy as being similar to IUDs or birth control pills know they're wrong, right? They're just trying to deflect whatever point you're making. Don't let them. | /r/MensRights | 01/12/21 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Which country is least influenced by feminist or me too movement?Afghanistan? Saudi Arabia? Dubai? | /r/MensRights | 18/11/21 06:38 PM |
| 5 | This is just sad.Yep. Cop probably got an award because he saved an innocent citizen from getting stabbed in a violent domestic dispute. Nevermind that the only reason he didn't get stabbed was because the cop shot him instead. | /r/MensRights | 18/11/21 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Teaching consent to girlsDoes matter. Silence does not mean lack of consent nor withdrawal of consent. Period. | /r/MensRights | 16/11/21 09:58 PM |
| 0 | Teaching consent to girlsReally? Is it a struggle to use your words as I suggested earlier? Any person needs to be able to use their words to communicate that they want to stop something they've previously consented to. | /r/MensRights | 16/11/21 09:32 PM |
| 0 | Teaching consent to girlsIf you think that starting with consent, and ending with no indication of withdrawal of consent is rape, you are a false rape accuser apologist. | /r/MensRights | 16/11/21 07:56 PM |
| 0 | Teaching consent to girlsNot my fault if you can's use your words. Not a rape. Any woman person (you really should stop using gendered language) needs to be able to use their words to communicate that they want to stop something they've previously consented to. Otherwise, you're a false accuser. | /r/MensRights | 16/11/21 07:20 PM |
| 0 | Teaching consent to girlsStopping an acrivity is not doing nothing Okay, so if you're not "doing nothing" when you're "freezing", then what are you doing when you're "freezing"? You are advocating false rape allegations. | /r/MensRights | 16/11/21 07:13 PM |
| 0 | Teaching consent to girlswithdraw consent for it to continue. That is what freezing after saying yes "Do nothing" is not withdrawing consent. It is very clear that you have been brainwashed by the feminist version of "consent" education. You really need to unlearn all the lies they've taught you and start over so you don't accidentally accuse some chick of rape after she gives you a mind-blowing orgasm someday. | /r/MensRights | 16/11/21 07:05 PM |
| 0 | Teaching consent to girlsIf someone freezes after saying yes ... it is no longer consent. Then you are a good example of why consent education is so fucking important. So I'll do my part in your education and reiterate myself: Someday you might meet a nice girl who puts your dick in her mouth and sucks it real good. It might even be so good that you're concentrating so much on how good she's making your dick feel, that you don't really move or say anything until you power your load into the back of her throat. If/when t… | /r/MensRights | 16/11/21 06:55 PM |
| 11 | Have you been slapped/hit by a woman?Jeez... haven't we all? Certainly in middle- or high-school some chick has gotten violent with you; even if her ability to be violent was pretty limited. I really wish that questions like these would specific "as an adult". But it the same tact that feminists use to get their statistics, so I guess it's smart to be apples to apples. But there is a significant difference between a 12-year-old boy getting slapped by a female classmate and a 40 year old guy getting slapped by a 40 year old female c… | /r/MensRights | 16/11/21 06:53 PM |
| 0 | Teaching consent to girlsQuiet and freezing are very different. I didn't say "quiet", I said: you don't really move or say anything So not quiet, but "quiet and motionless". Care to explain how "freezing" is different from being "quiet and motionless"? | /r/MensRights | 16/11/21 06:48 PM |
| 1 | I might be framed for rape.no way of telling whether or not these rumours are true That's what your schools Title IX office is for. You don't need to investigate this to determine what has happened, your Title IX office should do that for you. File a report and let them take it from there. | /r/MensRights | 16/11/21 06:46 PM |
| 0 | Teaching consent to girlsOkay. So you've been with one woman who happened to never be quiet during sex. And, apparently, you yourself have never been quiet during sex. Not a great sample size there, bro. So let me prepare you. Sometime you might be fucking a woman or licking her sweet pussy for 'bout 30 minutes, and she might just lay back, enjoy it and not say anything for a while. When this happens, remember, you didn't rape her. More importantly; someday you might meet a nice girl who puts your dick in her mouth and … | /r/MensRights | 16/11/21 06:41 PM |
| 0 | Teaching consent to girlsHave you ever had sex? Many people are routinely quiet and motionless while sex acts are being performed upon them. | /r/MensRights | 16/11/21 06:29 PM |
| 3 | Teaching consent to girlsLike how condom tampering is rape now. Asking for sex multiple times is considered rape now etc Legally, no it is not. Even under the new California stealthing law, which only exists in California, removing a condom is not rape. And "tampering" with a condom but not removing it is not even illegal. | /r/MensRights | 16/11/21 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Teaching consent to girlsBut if girls have to say "no" to be raped, how can they put another notch in their victimhood belt when they have sex without saying "no"? | /r/MensRights | 16/11/21 06:23 PM |
| 0 | Teaching consent to girlsOkay? We're not discussing a situation where you walk up to someone on the street, ask for sex, they remain silent and motionless, and you have sex with them since they didn't protest. We're talking about a situation where consent has been granted and, during sex, rather that withdrawing consent by using their words or by pushing away, the consenter remains silent and motionless during sex. No rape occurred in that situation. | /r/MensRights | 16/11/21 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Teaching consent to girlsOh, perhaps this was just miscommunication. Yes, sexual coercion is illegal in many jurisdictions. No disagreement there. The disagreement would be if you think that: Asking for sex after being told no previously, or Continuing sex that was previously consented to when the consenting individual has given no indication that they are no longer consenting are sexual coercion. The are not. Your own link provides the legal definition, in Texas, of sexual coercion: In order to convict, a prosecutor mu… | /r/MensRights | 16/11/21 05:05 PM |
| 0 | Teaching consent to girlsWell in the law it is defined as rape Link to the law or STFU. Preferably, link to a law in the U.S.A. as that's what I was referring to, though I failed to specify. | /r/MensRights | 16/11/21 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Teaching consent to girlsI believe it implys sexual coercive is not rape which is when the opposite sex pesters for sex until the victim says yes, which is rape. No it's not. If you say no 100 times with no negative repercussions, you can say no 101 times and not expect any negative repercussions. If you say yes, instead of no, that's consent. both men and women experience a freeze response quite frequently It's not "freezing", it's consenting. If you want to stop having sex that you previously consented to, just say so… | /r/MensRights | 16/11/21 02:10 PM |
| 0 | Feminists invite males to compete against their female teams. Blame men for the result...If by "completely" you mean they remove the backboard in netball, okay. | /r/MensRights | 15/11/21 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Feminists invite males to compete against their female teams. Blame men for the result...So it's basketball without backboards. | /r/MensRights | 15/11/21 09:42 PM |
| 6 | Teaching consent to girlsConsent education doesn't need to vary by gender, it needs to vary based upon whether you are the aggressor or the pursued. All the "consent education" that we hear about today is directed at the aggressor: Absence of a "no" is not a "yes". If your partner seems to not be enjoying themselves, check in with them. No means no, not keep asking. Etc. The problem is that the pursued hear those same messages and then genuinely believe they've been raped when they've merely had a bad sexual encounter: … | /r/MensRights | 15/11/21 09:33 PM |
| 2 | Bullied for supporting men's rights"You don't think men should have right? Weird." | /r/MensRights | 03/11/21 04:39 PM |
| 0 | Two things my wife hears about me at her jobBecause my story is just as true as her story. | /r/MensRights | 29/10/21 01:53 PM |
| 5 | Literally gutted for nothingSounds like sexual harassment to me. Definitely report the incident to HR to have a record of it. | /r/MensRights | 28/10/21 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Guardian headline -- "Longtime Hillary Clinton aide Huma Abedin describes sexual assault by US senator." Not "alleged sexual assault," and check out the description in my comment below.This is why I hate it when someone (typically on reddit, but could be anywhere) tells a story that includes the phrase "I was raped", "I was sexually assaulted", or any similar phrase without giving any details as to what happened that they have decided to use that label to describe. For starters, some people use "rape" and "sexual assault" interchangeably. Some women could have had the exact same experience that Ms. Abedin described but call it "rape". Others could have the exact same experienc… | /r/MensRights | 27/10/21 08:14 PM |
| 3 | The "women initiate most divorces" argument. Let's chat about the reasons.Yes. That's why I mentioned that I'm referring to the laws in my state. Texas, for example, has much more equitable divorce laws where a breadwinning spouse is faced with only a short interruption of their life plan while giving an dependent spouse a reasonable period of time to re-enter the workforce. | /r/MensRights | 26/10/21 06:18 PM |
| 4 | The "women initiate most divorces" argument. Let's chat about the reasons.But if the mother needs a place to stay, can’t pay for the house they’re in and still has custody of the kids, she doesn’t gain much from it either. If that's the case, yes. In my state, permanent, lifetime alimony is mandated for marriages of 17 years or greater; so that case doesn't apply where I live. But whether you’re abused, in an unhealthy / unfixable relationship, sometimes it’s for the best. Absolutely it's for the best in some cases. And that's why we need more equitable divorce laws t… | /r/MensRights | 26/10/21 06:14 PM |
| 7 | The Mediocre White ManIs this a new phrase that I'm not familiar with? Seems similar to the "she's so basic" commentary that we heard a few years ago. | /r/MensRights | 26/10/21 03:04 PM |
| 17 | The "women initiate most divorces" argument. Let's chat about the reasons.I have heard men bring this up to “prove” women are of bad character. Can you give some context to this? Because how is that even a thing? Are there people out there that think a person getting divorced, or filing for divorce, is a black mark on their character? I've never heard of such a thing. Like if you have a group of 10 people who have filed for divorce, and a group of 10 people who have never filed for divorce, are there people out there that would categorize the group of divorce filers a… | /r/MensRights | 25/10/21 06:43 PM |
| 3 | Do you guys consider yourself anti feminist?feminists people who want political, economic, and social equality of the sexes Choose one. Saying that every woman who takes issue with the fact that marital rape is still legal in 100+ countries Generally speaking, this subreddit has no issue with feminism in places like the middle east or africa where actual oppression exists. We're generally talking about westernized feminism here. Saying that every woman who takes issue with lack of womens reproductive rights Pardon me? Women have far, far,… | /r/MensRights | 21/10/21 07:39 PM |
| 2 | why is mens rights/such groups always ridiculed and labelled and how do we stop it?Because feminists have a much louder megaphone and they're so used to privilege that when someone suggest equality they see it as oppression. | /r/MensRights | 21/10/21 05:38 PM |
| 5 | Do you guys consider yourself anti feminist?This is like asking a 1960's Civil Rights advocate if he considered himself to be anti-KKK. | /r/MensRights | 21/10/21 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Flawed Prenup Argument (Spousal Support For Cheating)clicks link "Hey guys, to get to the point...." 22:41 video. Yeah... he ain't gonna get to the point. closes link | /r/MensRights | 12/10/21 07:36 PM |
| 17 | If women do porn voluntarily, how is it degrading them?That even worse that they're degrading obese women who already have it so tough in this world! | /r/MensRights | 12/10/21 07:32 PM |
| 1 | If women do porn voluntarily, how is it degrading them?Because the same feminists who argue that women should chart their own path in life and that there are no "wrong" choices believe that no woman would voluntarily choose to perform in degrading form. <shrugs> | /r/MensRights | 12/10/21 07:31 PM |
| 15 | Any other college males abstaining from sex in college due to concerns over false accusations?While avoiding sexual contact with women certainly reduces the chances of a false accusations, don't be fooled into thinking that it makes you safe from false accusations - especially if you're rejecting women's offers of sex. | /r/MensRights | 08/10/21 03:35 PM |
| 12 | Is there anyway we could just focus on issues and not say anything about feminism?Everyone agrees men have disadvantages in society [citation needed] when most people identify as feminist just 20 percent of Americans -- including 23 percent of women and 16 percent of men -- consider themselves feminists. casting doubt on women that say they were raped This is because "I was raped" no longer has any meaning. And it has no meaning because a certain group of people has successfully degraded the definition of consent in women's minds to a point where literally any sexual encounte… | /r/MensRights | 07/10/21 02:13 PM |
| 13 | Is there anyway we could just focus on issues and not say anything about feminism?'The group 'NOW' successful oppose any reform in the child custody gap.' I said the same thing as you and didn't mention feminism at all. So it's the specific word that you're bothered by? NOW is the largest, most prominent and most powerful feminist organization in the world. "NOW" and "feminism" are literally the same thing. It'd be like trying to avoid saying "cowboys" and referring to them as "the Dallas NFL team". You're talking about exactly the same group of people using two different nam… | /r/MensRights | 07/10/21 02:03 PM |
| 28 | Is there anyway we could just focus on issues and not say anything about feminism?No. There isn't a way. It'd be like the Civil Rights movement of the 1950's trying to "just focus on issues and not say anything about the KKK". | /r/MensRights | 07/10/21 01:56 PM |
| 6 | Why don't you guys protesting?That's how you find yourself on /r/byebyejob | /r/MensRights | 06/10/21 04:42 PM |
| 5 | Married Men Paid More Than Single Men, Get More InterviewsDon't confuse an earnings gap for a wage gap. | /r/MensRights | 05/10/21 04:57 PM |
| 29 | UK: Female head of state boys school is teaching 14-year-old pupils about consent, sexual violence and domestic abuse in response to murders of Sarah Everard and Sabina Nessa. OP: Using the murders to push a feminist agenda."Consent" education is "if she regrets having sex with you, it's rape". | /r/MensRights | 05/10/21 04:19 PM |
| 2 | Could you guys show me examples of menslib being... Well like some of the comments that sya they're VERY feminist?a lot of talking about cultures being sexist or more sexist than others. I mean, this is just a fact, isn't it? Obviously, sexism is in a range and is not the same everywhere. Obviously sexist is more prevalent in some cultures than others. Can't believe that is controversial. | /r/MensRights | 01/10/21 08:29 PM |
| -8 | Men, would you still marry a woman who refused to take your last name?Just because she doesn't take your name doesn't mean you don't have the same last name. | /r/MensRights | 30/09/21 09:19 PM |
| 3 | Men, would you still marry a woman who refused to take your last name?It would completely depend upon the reason. But "refuse" seems like it's just her making the decision and it being final. Seems like it should be something we discuss together to arrive at a solution we're both happy with. If we can't get past a minor hurdle like this, the marriage is likely doomed regardless of names. | /r/MensRights | 30/09/21 09:18 PM |
| 22 | I think a law should be passed that allows men to not become fathersLet's eat Grandma. Let's eat, Grandma. Punctuation matters. | /r/MensRights | 29/09/21 05:52 PM |
| 2 | This is getting ridiculous. I'm sure there are countless fates worse than that regardless of gender.The problem with this view is that feminists have so bastardized the meaning of the word "rape", that I don't even know what that tweet is referring to when she says "rapist". Some guy kidnaps you, ties you to the bed, rapes your for 3 days, and you're forced to carry his baby inside you for 9 months? Yeah. No one is disagreeing. That's horrible and traumatic and only the most sadistic would say otherwise. But your boyfriend of 4 years didn't realize you fell asleep in the middle of sex after ha… | /r/MensRights | 29/09/21 03:00 PM |
| 3 | Apparently we're not allowed to stand around in group anymore?Nah. TwoX and FDS are virtually indistinguishable at this point. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/21 08:28 PM |
| 4 | Apparently we're not allowed to stand around in group anymore?okay? | /r/MensRights | 27/09/21 07:09 PM |
| 6 | Apparently we're not allowed to stand around in group anymore?all in an echo chamber It really is disheartening that that subreddit deletes and bans any logical responses to their constant misandry. The subreddit has become the female equivalent of /r/incel and any attempts to rescue those women from themselves is silenced. So sad. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/21 07:02 PM |
| 17 | Apparently we're not allowed to stand around in group anymore?At least Hispanic | /r/MensRights | 27/09/21 06:59 PM |
| 13 | Apparently we're not allowed to stand around in group anymore?as a woman you are vastly more likely to be murdered by a man than a woman And you are also vastly more likely to be protected from an attacker by a man than by a woman. So why are men assumed to be attackers and not assumed to be protector? | /r/MensRights | 27/09/21 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Apparently we're not allowed to stand around in group anymore?I don't comment on that subreddit, but I really want to know how the OP determined it was a "seedy" group of men. I can only imagine that the determination was made based upon factors like skin color and what they were wearing. Disgusting. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/21 06:51 PM |
| 526 | As a bisexual man, I can say from personal experience that the claim that sex in our society is "male-centric" is a mythI've never had a woman go out of her way to do what I like or to go the extra mile in bed to please me. "I'm here and I'm naked, what more could a guy possibly want"? | /r/MensRights | 23/09/21 01:49 PM |
| 8 | It’s becoming less and less attractive to date women (in my age group - in their 20s) because what is expected of men and what role is assigned to them in comparison.But, but, but.... "She's sacrificing her career to take care of the household"! I've never understood why anyone believes that concept. The whole point of working, for most people, is to accumulate enough cash so that you don't have to work anymore. If you can accomplish that at 26 by having someone else provide cash for you, why wouldn't you do that? When I retire at 65 is anyone going to believe me when I tell them that I "chose to sacrifice my career to take care of the household"? | /r/MensRights | 23/09/21 01:42 PM |
| 9 | It’s becoming less and less attractive to date women (in my age group - in their 20s) because what is expected of men and what role is assigned to them in comparison."What are you looking for in a partner"? If you ask a woman that question, she's likely to have a fairly detailed answer and probably even a list of qualities she's looking for. It may be broken down into categories like "deal-breakers", "nice-to-have", etc. But pretty much every woman know the type of partner she's looking for and will pass over men who don't meet her criteria. This is especially true in the age group you're referring to, while standards start to loosen up as they age. But men?… | /r/MensRights | 23/09/21 01:28 PM |
| 6 | Disheartening post from TwoX: "Men's helplessness in their own advocacy is so frustrating."Can we have a genuine discussion about the first paragraph of that post? Because I honestly don't know if I'm off base or not. I have had many a situation where I will mention a statistic regarding womens sexual assault, mental health issues, trauma, abuse, etc., and a man will enter the comments saying "well men also experience sexual assault and nobody talks about it! Where are the mens shelters? Mens help lines?" We see this sentiment from feminists a lot. But I think that they're misconstrui… | /r/MensRights | 20/09/21 04:34 PM |
| 6 | Disheartening post from TwoX: "Men's helplessness in their own advocacy is so frustrating."Just go build a men's domestic violence shelter! Just go do it!!! Oh ok I'll just go to Home Depot, pick up some wood and nails, and build away, you fucking moron. Plus, how do they think all those women's shelters are paid for (both construction and ongoing operating costs)? It's not like it's funded from donations from women. Nope, it's funded by government. A government that isn't supposed to look at gender but all too often does. A government that feminists would go bat shit on if they funde… | /r/MensRights | 20/09/21 04:11 PM |
| 15 | Disheartening post from TwoX: "Men's helplessness in their own advocacy is so frustrating."I don't know if it's true ignorance, or willful ignorance, but the women of TwoX don't see to understand the risk men take when advocating for men's rights. When women declare themselves a feminist and advocate for expanded abortion rights, hiring women in STEM and providing college scholarships for women, those women are celebrated and seen as leaders. Particularly by other women, but also by many men. When men advocate for male domestic violence shelters, hiring the best people regardless of g… | /r/MensRights | 20/09/21 03:06 PM |
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