DetectiveWarm9577 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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4	Rate my opener The thing is, confidence and pressure aren't the same thing. Pressure comes from making someone feel like they owe you an answer. Confidence is just being comfortable asking the question. If she isn't interested, "hypothetically speaking" doesn't really reduce the pressure. It just makes the invitation feel less certain. You tried to reduce pressure. What you actually reduced was certainty.	/r/seduction	23/07/26 01:33 AM
1	Rate my opener I actually like it overall. It has personality, it's playful, and you gave her two easy options instead of making her plan the date. The only part I would've removed was "Hypothetically speaking." It feels like you're taking back the confidence you built in the first three sentences. If you're asking, own the ask.	/r/seduction	23/07/26 01:14 AM
5	Approaching in clubs People often think confidence is what keeps a conversation going. I think curiosity does that far more often. You don't have to entertain her. You just have to find out if you actually enjoy talking to each other. If alcohol is the only reason you can approach someone, I'd work on approaching sober before worrying about getting better at clubs. The goal isn't to need a drink to become someone different. It's to realize you didn't need to become someone different in the first place.	/r/seduction	22/07/26 10:15 PM