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Get them talking about themselves. Spicy relationship questions. Astrology. “Are you a local or just visiting?” “You moved here/there for a boy huh?” “What happened, why’d you guys break up?” You ask these the right type of way and she’ll tell you her life story, it might be hard to get a word in. But she should be doing most of the talking if it’s going well.
/r/seduction13/04/26 11:36 PM
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Women don’t just introduce their hot friends to anyone. This is a very different situation than you’re talking about. OP is already pre-vetted by the taken friend as a cool attractive guy otherwise this situation wouldn’t be happening.
/r/seduction13/03/26 07:28 PM
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Preselection is an amazing attraction trigger along with physical looks. What do you think attraction is? Just looks?
/r/seduction13/03/26 05:25 PM
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Good on you for befriending the girl and her boyfriend to the point she wanted intro you to her friends. The hottest girls you’ll ever meet will be through friend intros. This is how you meet the 9s/10s. Good job man
/r/seduction13/03/26 03:59 PM
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With the preselection and the ratio you won’t have to do much outside of “don’t be creepy” and seed the pull. Play it cool and they should compete for your attention. Save physical escalation for when you’re back at your place so they don’t feel judged.
/r/seduction13/03/26 03:25 PM
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Part access to locations where these types of girls go to. These aren’t the types of girls you can DM or cold approach. Typically you would need to be introduced to her or be at a high status event. That’s just the access/intro part. The rest is standard game with huge emphasis on frame.
/r/seduction31/01/26 09:40 PM
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GA for sure sucks. But if you’re in VIP with a table it’s a whole different story. Also, if you’re socially savvy and connect with the right people you never have to pay a dime.
/r/seduction27/12/25 09:50 PM
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Post funny memes and mention her on it / send her funny memes. The same kind of shit you would do with your good friends. If she doesn’t respond, put her on your close friends and post stories that would make your ex jealous to your close friends.
/r/seduction13/11/25 05:30 AM
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Don’t listen to what they say, pay attention to their actions. This is like people skills 101, you always look at their actions, not their words.
/r/seduction07/07/25 02:03 AM
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Nope, never. My L has and will continue to haunt me for the rest of my life. I lay in bed many a night completely destroyed, wondering if I’ll ever recover. If only there was more than one woman on Earth I could shoot my shot with, but it’s all over I guess.
/r/seduction26/06/25 12:46 PM
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Take this with grain of salt, I only recently got back into dating. Delivery is a huge part of it. Whatever you can do to nail a nice balance between cocky and funny. Too funny and you’re a clown. Too cocky and you’re an asshole. The balance you want between the two varies from person to person. If she’s rolling her eyes while smiling/laughing or playfully calling you stupid then you’re probably doing it right. If she shit-tests you it’s not the worst thing, but you probably leaned too cocky and…
/r/seduction15/04/25 05:01 PM
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Sounds like it was a small thing. Given how you described it, I doubt she’ll remember it happened unless you were super creepy about it. But if you just moved on, enjoyed your meal, and then left without commenting on it I think you’re good to keep going. Just don’t try to reinitiate and keep it short if she’s your server again. The only exception would be if she initiates a conversation.
/r/seduction10/04/25 05:14 PM
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Oh my bad I thought that’s what you meant. I’ve been complimented for my feed not being a bunch of titties and apparently that’s a common thing men to have on their feeds from what they were telling me. So I imagine if they’re people you know and they’re not too overtly sexual with their IGs it should mitigate that first one.
/r/seduction10/04/25 05:13 AM
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Turn your IG into a highlight reel of your life. Have your real life social circle as your followers and follow them back. Post your travels, your wins, your losses, turn your IG into something that reflects your real life. This way your IG is just a quick way to get a feel for who you are and what you do. It doesn’t have to be some high status lifestyle stuff, I just has to be authentic. You’ll learn how to take better pictures and how to use the filters and editing tools and what not with prac…
/r/seduction10/04/25 02:10 AM
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As long as you’re making progress within her comfort level I don’t think it really matters how long it takes. I think as long as you’re escalating, but not too fast for her should be fine. What you want to avoid is thinking she didn’t appear in the mood as a way to excuse not making a move. And of course you don’t want to escalate too quickly either. Not saying you’re doing these things, but just putting that out there. I tend to keep the connections open because I believe it’s a good thing to d…
/r/seduction09/04/25 04:44 PM
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You gotta go open and get rejected enough times while sober
/r/seduction08/04/25 07:56 PM
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Matching their energy + progressing things forward works pretty well for me. Generally I agree with you, but I think it’s okay to mix in the “boring” stuff to avoid coming off too player-ish
/r/seduction07/04/25 02:57 PM
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Grain of salt, I’ve only recently gotten back into dating again. In my opinion, If the vibes are great and she’s down, why not? Find out when she’s free to cook a meal together. If it’s before your vacation, great. If not, then you have that date after.
/r/seduction29/03/25 02:03 PM
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Hard to convey over text, but it would be funny to be like ask her what she wants as if she’s trying to get something out of you by saying she’s horny. Like the whole you’re clearly trying to get something out of me with your devil vagina magic kind of thing. “Are you trying to sweet talk me into something? Cuz it’s working” , it needs some work, but I think you get the idea
/r/seduction14/03/25 07:12 PM
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You could try the whole “I just got a bottle of <some drink you both like>, you down for me to come through on <some day you’re free>?” From what you described about the interaction so far I imagine the response would be either accept or reschedule
/r/seduction06/03/25 05:12 PM
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“I am not a cat” Roaring Kitty meme
/r/seduction14/12/24 01:58 PM
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In college I was just unapologetically honest and straight up told them I date a lot of girls. They could take it or leave it from there. I feel like transparency goes a long way and gives them the power to decide if they’re with it or not.
/r/seduction11/10/24 10:10 PM
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0 because I have a gf. When I’m single I try to do at least 1 every day
/r/seduction06/10/24 06:17 PM
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I hear ya. Without practice you leave it to luck, which isn’t the worst thing in the world depending on your social circles or if you naturally meet women all the time. If you want to be able to find a choose a good girlfriend for yourself, it’s gonna take practice.
/r/seduction06/10/24 04:32 PM
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Who cares what most guys do? It has nothing to do with how many approaches it’ll take you. If one of those guys takes 1000 approaches to have a gf, it doesn’t inform you in any way of what to expect from yourself.
/r/seduction06/10/24 02:14 PM
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No, not realistic. It’s like asking how many reps of bench press is it gonna take to have great looking chest muscles. Generally speaking, even if you know how many approaches it would take it doesn’t really matter. Whatever the number is, you’ll have to do them anyways. If you do decide on a number that happens to be wrong, then you’ll have mismanaged expectations. If you’re looking for a ballpark number, assume it will take 100s or 1000s of approaches all together, maybe even more. You’ll have…
/r/seduction06/10/24 12:50 PM
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It’s a nuanced statement that depends a lot on your delivery and the dynamic between yourself and the people you’re talking to. It should be part of playful banter and back and forth. To your point it’s easy to come off rude or like you’re trying to “put them in their place” so it’s risky if you’re new or trying to figure out dating/socializing. It’s so dependent on HOW you say it. In that sense, saying things like this would be more advanced. You’re not actually trying to suggest they’re not pr…
/r/seduction29/09/24 12:47 PM
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I used to jokingly say “we all want things” in response to someone asking me for something. Hypothetically for that situation, assuming they’re friends I can joke like this around, “but I only buy drinks for pretty girls though.” Another idea, you could always ask the bartender to fill up a bunch of shot glasses with water and tell your friends it’s tequila to mess with them. Generally, I think most responses that end up making light or fun of the ask is gonna be good. Kudos if you can bust thei…
/r/seduction28/09/24 08:59 PM
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I think you can, just not the way you described. If you’re gonna compliment looks, be specific and/or transition out of it yourself. If it’s gonna be as generic as “wow, you’re good looking” you gotta segue into something. You can’t just compliment and leave it like that, it can make things awkward. In this case it should be a side comment during the main topic of the conversation. “Wow, you’re good looking, anyway, like I was saying, Dino nuggets are my jam and anyone who isn’t down with that b…
/r/seduction06/04/24 02:57 PM
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For me personally, I went with “how does a person with an abundance mindset act?” And focused on the actions. It helped me ignore whatever beliefs and narratives I had built that were holding me back. Mechanically, I could just focus on what I say, how I say it, and what I need to do different. It helped me fake it until I was able to snowball into abundance mindset. Keep in mind what I described is stripped of all the frustrating nights, heartbreaks, harsh rejections, and what not. It probably …
/r/seduction28/10/22 10:29 PM
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