DetoxUpside Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	The average dude is creep profiled even before he approaches or expresses interest in a woman the victim complex is a powerful mindset. it absolves you of all guilt and accountability no matter how horrible you act.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/25 06:09 PM
–	The average dude is creep profiled even before he approaches or expresses interest in a woman men endure way harsher judgment in society than women. it's something they'll never understand.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/25 03:00 PM
–	Men being single isn't a problem to be solved exactly. You are not getting the same opportunity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/25 06:00 PM
–	Men being single isn't a problem to be solved not in the same field but overall it was more equal. Women dominate the dating market and men dominate the employment market (for example).	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/25 05:58 PM
–	Men being single isn't a problem to be solved women are more fussy. everyone knows that. But the opportunity imbalance still exists.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/25 05:57 PM
–	Men being single isn't a problem to be solved society was less safe and more patriarchal which boosted men's value. Men also had better employment opportunities compared to women. Dating apps also weren't relied upon making it harder for women to ignore a lot of men when seeking a partner. There was also less shaming of men's behavior which is common online today.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/25 05:49 PM
–	Men being single isn't a problem to be solved im not talking about dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/25 05:47 PM
–	Men being single isn't a problem to be solved How are people getting equal opportunities (in dating) if they are largely ignored due to their gender?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/25 05:45 PM
–	Men being single isn't a problem to be solved no	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/25 04:08 PM
–	Men being single isn't a problem to be solved we can't but we can raise men's opportunities in other areas to compensate. Like how things were 20 years ago.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/25 04:08 PM
1	How do yall keep the convo going when the vibe is fun but you still run out of things to say? keeping a person in conversation doesnt necessarily build strong interest. The question is: what do you say during that first 5-10 to build strong interest that leads to a "hook"?	/r/seduction	08/07/25 11:33 AM
–	Men being single isn't a problem to be solved shouldnt everyone have equal opportunities?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/25 11:00 AM
–	Americans are completely unhinged when it comes to age gaps between adults if the man has michael jackson syndome it will be very hard for him to connect with people his own age. That's what happens to dudes who never mature beyond their 20s.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/25 10:58 AM
2	Age Gap Game why is the post centered around your age then?	/r/seduction	25/06/25 06:31 AM
6	The internet has enabled men to listen in on female spaces, and men don't like what they hear the internet has brought out the worst in everyone. Men have been consistently exposed to the worst viewpoints women can have.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/25 04:58 AM
-3	Age Gap Game Yes, please explain why a 50 year old that can pull girls half his age with nothing but game (I assume you're not using money or status which isnt game) needs to come to reddit for advice?	/r/seduction	25/06/25 04:56 AM
1	Only Women, Children and Pets Are Loved Unconditionally. semantics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/25 06:58 AM
1	Only Women, Children and Pets Are Loved Unconditionally. you are playing semantics. Someone could argue even children arent unconditionally loved in extreme circumstances. But in the general sense, yes, they are. The same way women are. In general (if she doesnt radically change like getting obese or committing adultery) they are unconditionally loved too. If a woman doesnt change during the relationship the love will remain. It doesnt matter what flaw she has when it starts because there will be a man to tolerate it. That's the difference between men…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/25 05:41 AM
0	men hate things they cause lots of men = all men. retard	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/25 05:32 AM
–	What Men Want you won't find what people want by scouring the internet especially the toxic communities of the manosphere. if you trully want to know what men want leave your bedroom and go ask them. Ask 100 men on the street then report back on what they say.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 01:29 PM
2	How I went from an isolated, self-hating loser to a man with a life full of meaningful, authentic intimacy and sexual abundance in a year No, you will not learn how to generate sexual abundance by relying on tourists for lays. He's not learning true game. He's just putting himself in easy environments to find hook ups which will get harder and harder with time as he gets older (less physically attractive). Don't be salty that im not falling for your passportbro antics.	/r/seduction	12/06/25 01:25 PM
1	Only Women, Children and Pets Are Loved Unconditionally. unconditional love does not mean loving someone forever no matter what they do it means that someone can be loved simply due to their nature and nothing else. Why would an intelligent person like chris rock insinuate that women and pets can do anything and still be tolerated? That's silly and you're relying on semantics to make your point. What you are talking about is the notion that women have inherent value that men will want to be with them for, while men do not, and need to build their valu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 01:15 PM
1	How I went from an isolated, self-hating loser to a man with a life full of meaningful, authentic intimacy and sexual abundance in a year relying on tourists is still a crutch though. They have completely different attitudes to meeting strangers than locals do.	/r/seduction	12/06/25 12:56 PM
1	Only Women, Children and Pets Are Loved Unconditionally. Then name what conditions a woman must meet to find someone to love her? even the fattest craziest woman can get a partner i've heard. are you saying that's not true?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 12:50 PM
1	men hate things they cause what men? you're referring to anonymous trolls online. These same men would happily date the single mum, pay the onlyfans girl for a lap dance and try sleep with the slut in real life. So do men actually hate these women or are they just having a whinge behind the keyboard?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 12:13 PM
2	How I went from an isolated, self-hating loser to a man with a life full of meaningful, authentic intimacy and sexual abundance in a year hm, yes relying on a certain demographic like tourists to find success is not a passportbro in the traditional sense but i'd still say it is somewhat in spirit. It's like the guys who go to barcelona to run game because it's full of friendly tourist who would otherwise ignore them in their own town.	/r/seduction	12/06/25 12:08 PM
0	Only Women, Children and Pets Are Loved Unconditionally. Most men dont have conditions. what hoops do men make women jump through to start dating them? yes, the woman can screw it up by killing his family but initially he loves her for who she is which is what is meant by unconditional love. Meanwhile, men have to jump through hoops to win the love of a woman; they have demonstrate good social abilities, commit to her, show mental stability and financial stability etc... A woman doesnt have to do a single thing to find love, men will accept any flaw.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 12:04 PM
1	Only Women, Children and Pets Are Loved Unconditionally. unconditional just means without qualifications. A woman can just be herself and find love instantly while a man often has to qualify in some way with personality, looks, status etc... No. Humans mate with equal mate value partners. If you are a low value man, you will be able to mate with an equally low value woman, that you have other important matching traits with. High value is only needed if you want a high value partner. A low value man can't just sit at home and swipe on the apps or go to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 11:51 AM
1	Only Women, Children and Pets Are Loved Unconditionally. doesnt matter because the love is always there from someone else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 11:49 AM
1	Only Women, Children and Pets Are Loved Unconditionally. most men dont use their power to their advantage because modern society has blurred the lines between male and female. Now most men act weak and insecure (which is how women used to behave) while women are the ones who act boisterous and arrogant now. This has led to men assuming the role of the submissive gender while not receiving any of the benefits of it such as getting frequently pursued and taken care of.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 02:42 AM
1	Only Women, Children and Pets Are Loved Unconditionally. what do you mean "dont care about"? men care about their possessions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 02:35 AM
-1	Only Women, Children and Pets Are Loved Unconditionally. the way i interpret it is: yes a single man might stop loving a woman but there always be thousands of others willing to love her without knowing anything about her or no matter what she's done they'll still give her a chance and care for her while for men this is not the case. Before a man wins the affection of others he needs to demonstrate a form of high value.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 02:32 AM
1	Only Women, Children and Pets Are Loved Unconditionally. no, but someone else would love her. I think that's the point. If a man is a loser no one wants a bar of him, certainly not other men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 02:26 AM
1	Only Women, Children and Pets Are Loved Unconditionally. what would make you stop loving your children?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 02:25 AM
-9	Great success on Hinge, no success on Tinder & Bumble whatsoever link to photos, plz	/r/seduction	12/06/25 02:16 AM
3	Great success on Hinge, no success on Tinder & Bumble whatsoever nice. what do they look like?	/r/seduction	11/06/25 02:11 PM
2	Too old at 43? yes ive seen gus olsen here he is marketing his business trying to make money. I take his infields with a grain of salt; anyone can go out and get numbers all day but turning those numbers into lays is the hard part. I already showed you that rizzcam guy as an example of how easy number farming is. none of these youtube coaches do night game infields because during nightgame you actually have to show the pull which requires real game.	/r/seduction	11/06/25 02:02 PM
1	Too old at 43? 1 in 10 is consistent. most guys can easily do 10 approaches a day that means 7 lays a week and with a woman half you age? that's god tier results. yeah, your videos arent unique in any way im not sure why you keep sharing them they are dime a dozen on youtube; literally hundreds of videos of guys approaching and laughing with girls on the street. have you seen Social Stoic? Alex Leon? James Tusk? James Marshall? Balthus Daygame? Gus Olsen? they are actually in europe too even eastern europe. Lo…	/r/seduction	11/06/25 11:39 AM
1	Too old at 43? all im saying is your videos arent anything special. you can look up James Marshall from natural lifestyles. Even James Tusk newbie bootcamps. Full of guys maintaining conversations for several minutes with women half their age. I dont think that means sex. Better you write out a field report detailing the dialogue and actions you took from start to finish with girls you met on the street. This way we can proper analyze what you are doing differently than us to consistently get such good results…	/r/seduction	11/06/25 09:25 AM
1	Men need to stop chasing women. traps aka: looks, money, status. The average person who doesnt have any of that needs to go out and hunt for their meat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/25 07:20 AM
2	Too old at 43? Written fields reports aren't nonsense if they are genuine. I do a lot of game (6 days a week) and I've watched nearly every pick up video on youtube. Do you think this guy pulling all these girls? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XW18j_2XOIM He has hundreds of pick up videos. they all probably ghost him after the interaction. even after you make out with a girl the next day she will ghost you.	/r/seduction	11/06/25 07:16 AM
-1	Men need to stop chasing women. yes but its their problem not mine	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/25 12:12 PM
0	Men need to stop chasing women. how else does a hunter catch its prey	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/25 12:05 PM
2	I think there is something that needs to be said about how many men approach dating: the “be as appealing to as many women as possible” approach i often wonder what the person looks like behind these authoritative posts about the dating market and how to get women. i imagine is some weird sperg spinning fantasy erotic fiction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/25 12:04 PM
2	Men need to stop chasing women. It's fine to chase women just dont treat them like they are special. All they have is looks so stop treating them like they are these all powerful queens.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/25 11:51 AM
2	Too old at 43? I'm 47, without a stable relationship, and I date women in their 20s. Write some field reports. Those videos are useless they are just random opens that lead nowhere (in the video). Ok, you dont want to film your entire interaction--that's fine but you can write a detailed field report on how you succeeded with a hot girl half your age. Include as much dialogue as possible.	/r/seduction	10/06/25 11:40 AM
9	My best tips to get pretty girls to chase (been doing this for 15 years) Show don't tell. if your method is truly effective and replicable (not reliant on looks or anything just straight game) you should be able to write dozens of field reports detailing all the words and actions that led from meeting to lay.	/r/seduction	10/06/25 11:34 AM
12	How I went from an isolated, self-hating loser to a man with a life full of meaningful, authentic intimacy and sexual abundance in a year did you say you became a passport bro?	/r/seduction	09/06/25 11:52 AM
3	How to get laid on coffee dates Turning dates into lays is the easy part. The biggest obstacle for majority of men is getting lots of dates to work with.	/r/seduction	30/05/25 01:20 AM
1	A lot of guys who lack confidence have this fantasy. are you a woman or man?	/r/seduction	17/05/25 11:59 AM
0	A lot of guys who lack confidence have this fantasy. ah, the mythical manlet that's pulling the hottest girls with nothing but game. They are sometimes referred to as "a short bald indian" or a "shot bald dude in his 40s" or a "short ugly scruffy dude with no ego". I'm yet to see any actual evidence these guys exist.	/r/seduction	17/05/25 11:56 AM
4	Im 36, im having success with milfs 45-50+, i think its because of my age and physique, how is dating gonna be when im older like 45+ will it be harder or easier? Would be interestingwith some insights why do i need a good job to pull? in my 20s i pulled hotties with nothing but my shirt on my back now I have to be james bond.	/r/seduction	30/04/25 07:33 AM
1	How to Keep a Conversation Going After a Compliment or Opener? i thought i was the only one that can never think of things to say. all my wings can just ramble to girls for 10-20 minutes on the spot when they approach.	/r/seduction	30/04/25 07:27 AM
1	Most Men Feel Weird Approaching Women - Here’s Why I’m Proud of It why do you bother cold approaching when you'd do fine on the apps? what's your motivation?	/r/seduction	29/04/25 06:03 AM
51	Dating is a numbers game and men who care less stay winning it. the dating market is brutally capitalistic. Men who have everything keep getting more and more and men who have nothing get less and less because their lack of experience or desperation is a major turn off which compounds with age. Nature of the universe unfortunately.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/25 02:08 PM