| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 4 | [FR] Great approach, intrusive guy friends, and flaky text game; can I still rebound? | Field Report | Devario | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 03:21 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| -6 | Men showing emotionthe good life she expected from you It’s quite apparent that your perception of relationships is quite warped and you’re approaching them from an extremely unhealthy place. | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Men showing emotionContext is king. Are they crying because their flight was delayed or because their dog died? | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 06:10 PM |
| -9 | Men showing emotionI should what? You claim that women left you because you were vulnerable, but you provide no honest introspection as to the other party’s experience of said relationships. It’s a fair assumption that maybe you don’t fully understand the other person’s experience. Maybe you miscommunicated. Maybe the other party realized you weren’t compatible. However you’re essentially putting the burden on the other party for the failing relationship, and then using that previous failure to represent all relat… | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Men showing emotionEveryone is terrified of being vulnerable. It’s not a male only thing. Men lean on being scared of being vulnerable as an excuse to not; then shocked pikachu when they can’t have healthy relationships because they spent decades in relationships with horrible communication. Many parts of life are uncomfortable. That’s okay. Learn to manage discomforts and care for your mental well-being and it will be less difficult. | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Men showing emotionWomen who claim it’s a turn off are women that should be avoided, much like men who cannot communicate their emotions. They are not relationship material. | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 05:38 PM |
| -19 | Men showing emotionThis take is riddled with insecurity. | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Men showing emotionVulnerability isn’t easy because experiencing negative emotions is a fundamental part of being vulnerable. Pain, heartbreak, disappointment, and discomfort are all a part of being vulnerable. Mastering these emotions is necessary to live a life of fulfillment and satisfaction. Meaning: understanding that they are integral to being human, that they are difficult, that this takes time, and learning how cope with them in a healthy and constructive manner so that you grow and mature. Vulnerability i… | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 05:28 PM |
| 13 | Is blowjob parties a thing?“Lifestyle parties.” Single men not allowed. Drugs common or banned. TLDR swingers | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 01:37 PM |
| 2 | If you receive a compliment, don’t respond by downplaying it, or giving a compliment in returnThis goes in line with Brene Brown’s research in her book ‘Daring Greatly’. Downplaying compliments is a form of rejecting an attempt at vulnerability, and vulnerability is the key to human connection. I strongly advise everyone to read it. | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 08:19 PM |
| 24 | Calling it a day for once.Under 10% is unrealistic. Get out of here with that nonsense; you’re only going to shame them even more for recommending goals that are so unattainable. Sub 20% and athletic is a good enough goal for most normal people. | /r/seduction | 08/11/21 09:10 PM |
| 1 | I’m invited to a party and a girl who rejected me is going to be there what should I do?Aren’t your excited to see ur test results | /r/seduction | 31/08/21 07:40 PM |
| 1 | I’m invited to a party and a girl who rejected me is going to be there what should I do?/u/profanitycounter | /r/seduction | 31/08/21 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Asking a Pretty Woman for Coffee - 100 Women in 50 Days - Day 4Her shield was up because she doesn’t want to talk to him. There’s no excuse; he’s not entitled to a conversation with her. She just doesn’t want to talk to him. It’s good to be outgoing and brave and to talk to people, but it’s also good to be realistic and to know when you’re invading someone’s personal space. There are women that don’t want to be approached, and they don’t need an excuse like being “nervous” or “frustrated” to shutdown a conversation. | /r/seduction | 07/06/18 06:51 PM |
| 3 | Asking a Pretty Woman for Coffee - 100 Women in 50 Days - Day 4I’m glad you’re doing this and I’m glad you’re stoked about overcoming fear and frustrations, but not all women want to be talked to. Woman #2 is a prime example of that. Good for you for bailing and not bugging her, but I think some people reading this might read too much into your over optimism. To other people trying this, if a girl says no, she means no. She doesn’t mean that you have to use a better line or try harder. She means no. Source: a guy that has to hear his girlfriend complain abo… | /r/seduction | 07/06/18 04:48 AM |
| 9 | What to text out of the blue to show you’re not ghosting?Cat facts. | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 03:31 PM |
| 2 | List with a lot of helpful tipsSkimmed through it but; Bluetooth AirPods are literally gods gift to man. If you’ve never work a scarf you’ve never been in cold windy weather. If you’re still not wearing scarfs sub 40 degrees then you’re missing out on what’s equivalent to a mother’s bosom of warmth. | /r/seduction | 21/02/18 04:57 PM |
| 2 | I used to have low test and it really messed up my overall drive and confidence when talking to women. I worked on it over the past few years and it's made a huge difference. Here is a science based guide to increase yours.This post is ridiculous. Yes, your test levels might mildly increase. No, it won’t be substantial enough to do anything. The REAL effect is that, surprise, by doing all those things you’ve created a healthy lifestyle. Who woulda thought that a healthy lifestyle makes you feel better. | /r/seduction | 01/02/18 02:59 AM |
| 166 | Today a very sad event made me come to a realization.Aaaaand this is why I'm still subscribed to this sub. It's not about picking up chicks; it's about making the world we live in much more comfortable by teaching us how to be accepting of ourselves and other people. | /r/seduction | 23/08/17 01:50 AM |
| 4 | Posted a truth in another subreddit, immediate downvotes. You guys will love this.You shouldn't frame your perspective around "getting women." I'm not sure if you're trolling or being serious but I'm going to respond like you're serious. If you legit have autism, then I'm unqualified to comment. But I can say that if you instead frame your view around being friendly, socializing, and becoming more comfortable instigating and maintaining conversations, then dating life will follow suit. There is so much power behind your mindset. It's also why megalomaniacs are so successful. … | /r/seduction | 20/01/17 07:05 AM |
| 3 | Posted a truth in another subreddit, immediate downvotes. You guys will love this.Mindset is power | /r/seduction | 20/01/17 06:41 AM |
| 12 | Posted a truth in another subreddit, immediate downvotes. You guys will love this.I'm not really active in r/seduction at all, I'm just subscribed and currently in a LTR, but holy FUCK most people don't realize the biggest piece of gold that comes from this sub and the lessons learned here are not hook ups but learning how to network and make friends. If you apply things from this sub to every day life, then networking, building a social circle, and becoming a more likable and fun person are inherent perks. Forget finding an SO, making friends and building a stable career are… | /r/seduction | 19/01/17 07:27 PM |
| 1 | How do I be more confident around women and get a girlfriend?"CICO isn't the best base system to lose weight. Because it's the base system that America uses and are" Nope. There's no way to quantify or verify the validity of that statement. America as a country doesn't have a standard for losing weight, and you're overgeneralizing a whole population without regard to cultural standards or history. Pls stop trying to misinform people. | /r/seduction | 05/07/16 07:13 PM |
| 3 | How do I be more confident around women and get a girlfriend?You're right. This guy is wrong. I just wanted to let you know. He's lost in a field of delusional broscience and technicalities. | /r/seduction | 05/07/16 07:11 PM |
| 4 | How do I stay in the friend-with-benefits zone? I don't want a relationship with anybody.Isn't this the inevitable? It depends on the girl, but at some point they'll want to move on or make it official. After all, you're not the only available guy. Many girls want a boyfriend, and if you fail to deliver it makes sense for them to move on after a while. Some girls may be open to keeping you around, but everyone's different. | /r/seduction | 08/02/16 07:53 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Took a girl from Tinder hiking, went back to my place, F-CloseRandom question but do you live in Boone? | /r/seduction | 06/04/15 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Some advice if a girl you really like says that she thinks the relationship isn't going to work.abundance mentality | /r/seduction | 11/01/14 02:56 AM |
| 1 | My OKCupid experiment is over. FINALLY was deleted/banned. x-post /r/OKCupidAfter all that I bet you are the most confident mother fucker. | /r/seduction | 07/01/14 03:13 AM |
| 129 | You have a girl over to "hang out" who there is obviously a fair amount of sexual tension with. What is your go-to move to get things started?if she doesn't like LOTR she sucks and make her leave. | /r/seduction | 29/11/13 06:22 PM |
| 125 | You have a girl over to "hang out" who there is obviously a fair amount of sexual tension with. What is your go-to move to get things started?movies. if not movies, hang out in your room. hang out on your bed. touch her. i don't see how it's possible to have a girl in your house that you have sexual tension with and NOT hook up with her. if you got her over, she's down to pound. | /r/seduction | 29/11/13 06:22 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/28/13I've been hooking up with this girl regularly for the past two months. We have yet to discuss our relationship, but we sleep at each other's houses about 4 nights a week. We go out, usually with friends, and party together. We don't text often, unless it's to hang out, but we're slightly intimate when we do. We don't do PDA unless its in private. She doesn't really question who I hang or go out with, and I don't do so to her. We snapchat each other, but that's about it. I wouldn't necessarily ob… | /r/seduction | 28/10/13 11:52 PM |
| 7 | A Beginner's Primer to Social Proof/Value: Why you should friend zone high level HBs.I honestly prefer to hang out with them over my guy friends. Especially if there's a small group of them; they keep each other occupied, and I can separate at any time. If I fail at meeting anyone, I can always double back and dance/hang with them. | /r/seduction | 26/09/13 10:25 PM |
| 24 | A Beginner's Primer to Social Proof/Value: Why you should friend zone high level HBs.My hb friends get me into clubs and free drinks on the reg. | /r/seduction | 26/09/13 09:43 PM |
| 2 | A great response to "Why are you looking at me like that?" When holding eye contact. [Intermediate Mid-game]WHY NOT RIGHT?! | /r/seduction | 18/08/13 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, how is it best to approach women who are clearly in a conversation with their friends without appearing creepy?Yeah, it gives me a chance to see someone actually using all this shit I read about. You can read all the stories on seddit and forums, but if you've never seen anyone do it properly, it's hard to understand the right mannerisms and other stuff blahblah. you know | /r/seduction | 18/08/13 04:42 PM |
| 3 | Seddit, how is it best to approach women who are clearly in a conversation with their friends without appearing creepy?this guy's awesome. just watched a handful of his videos. very genuine with his approaches, and i think that's his key. | /r/seduction | 17/08/13 04:07 PM |
| 4 | A great response to "Why are you looking at me like that?" When holding eye contact. [Intermediate Mid-game]GIRLS LOVE GUYS WITH AMBITION AND DRIVE. SHOW THEM HOW MUCH YOU REALLY WANT THEM. | /r/seduction | 17/08/13 03:27 PM |
| 5 | Being called aggressive/forward"Who says I'm attracted?" | /r/seduction | 17/08/13 12:42 AM |
| 30 | A great response to "Why are you looking at me like that?" When holding eye contact. [Intermediate Mid-game]"Why are you looking at me like that" "Because I want you" "what the fuck.." WHATS NEXT?! | /r/seduction | 17/08/13 12:32 AM |
| 1 | [FR] (Beginner's Luck) First Day of College: The Johnny Appleseed MindsetFuck. I need more wings like you. | /r/seduction | 17/08/13 12:31 AM |
| 1 | [FR] A night out, with some of my thoughts on openers and their importance, peacocking and how to modernise it, and state/frameI thought it was an interesting read and a pretty good FR. I read it as hastily as you wrote it. Some of your shit didn't work and some did, and I think you acknowledged that, and since it's a FR, you should note it so that some of us who may be doing the same thing don't do it. I see too many people commenting on threads saying "wow so cringe-worthy" "sounds like asshole" "blahblahblah." Keep writing FRs, you're doing well. | /r/seduction | 18/07/13 02:59 PM |
| 5 | Talking to girls is like writing an essay. 3 examplestl;dr just do it and be honest about it | /r/seduction | 11/07/13 07:11 AM |
| 6 | Watch these three videos before you go out tonight, straight up game changers for approach anxiety.i died whenever the spongebob walked through the frame. | /r/seduction | 15/06/13 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Get drunk and figure your shit outI think you're extremely over generalizing this subreddit. Sure, as with all things, there are fanatics. There are manipulative guys that have never even heard of seduction. To most people, seduction is about becoming the person you want to be. Sure there are tactics, philosophies, and methods that may or may not have been proven to work, but all of these are part of every day social dynamics...we've just put a name on them. I think for a lot of us, we simply want to become better at being fun p… | /r/seduction | 04/06/13 03:45 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys feel about SnapChat?i love it. gives girls an excuse to send you their pictures, which obviously can elevate into you know what. | /r/seduction | 03/06/13 11:56 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Great approach, intrusive guy friends, and flaky text game; can I still rebound?Awesome, this is the exact sort of tip I was looking for. | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 11:53 PM |
| 1 | I Think I May Have Found The Perfect Openertouche. | /r/seduction | 19/05/13 10:50 PM |
| 7 | I Think I May Have Found The Perfect OpenerHe's right...we're pretty dumb, but extremely shallow. | /r/seduction | 19/05/13 04:26 AM |
| 28 | I Think I May Have Found The Perfect OpenerThe last time I did this, she was blatantly drunk and said "I do what I want bitchhhh" and then proceeded to drop her phone. Completely caught me off guard. | /r/seduction | 19/05/13 04:23 AM |
| 2 | Would it be dumb to ask an exchange student out in her language?I read a really good quote, that was (paraphrasing) "Generally, if you have to think about whether or not some form of pick up is a good or bad idea, you should just do it. You'd be surprised at the end result, and if it's a bad idea, well..the more you know." What do you have to lose? If it fails, it'll make an excellent pickup story for another girl you meet in your native tongue. | /r/seduction | 06/05/13 12:24 AM |
| 0 | When texting a past hookup, skipping the formalities?from my experience, sarcasm and having little to no mental barrier typically work with old flames. I recently hooked up with my ex after not speaking to her for two months by snapchatting her my dog and telling her he wants boobs. old flames are awesome because the only way to go is up | /r/seduction | 06/05/13 12:21 AM |
| 3 | Pickup LocationsPUA BATTLE GOOO | /r/seduction | 28/03/13 03:10 AM |
| 2 | I am as shy as one can get, how can I bring myself to speak to girls with any sort of confidence?Nice recommendations. Im personally going to try these starting from number 1 (i feel comfortable all the way until the one with the compliments + directions). | /r/seduction | 28/10/12 09:51 PM |
| 2 | Called a dumbass at a party, didn't know how to respondThis is a good question. From reading the comments, I learned the best answer is to say: "excuse me?" with direct eye contact. Pause what you're doing and look him in the eye, followed by a wink or blowing a kiss. I would personally say "easy killer" or a "whoa there buddy." Something that says you're better than he and you give no fucks. | /r/seduction | 28/10/12 09:46 PM |
| 0 | I'm going to try and break every limiting belief about your looks there is. Let's do this.Its a great message, but what about meeting them? A girl that won't date you because of your jawline is obviously a lame person to date, but do you not think looks are the first "attack?" its the first thing any girl at a club is going to notice, and if you can't get in with the first look, arguably everything after will be more difficult. If i can get into a conversation, then im good. My problem is initializing an interest in me that, like many people on here, has been my biggest obstacle. | /r/seduction | 28/10/12 07:48 PM |
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