Devilery Archive

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1	I feel it's cringe worthy to wait for sometime before replying to a girl's text. Anybody else feels the same? If you don't have shit going on in your life, your very foundation is a mess. This is a whole another post, but people please get this. No seduction method will be more effective than being fit, successful and aware both internally and externally. Work out, make money, and join a social, purpose driven community.	/r/seduction	19/02/21 07:39 AM
–	I feel it's cringe worthy to wait for sometime before replying to a girl's text. Anybody else feels the same? It is cringe. That's not "high-value me because I have more important stuff to do than to reply you." It's more along the lines of "I have so little to offer that all I can do is create an illusion of being busy while I am actually nervously waiting for you reply". If you're unable to get her interested in replying you in a normal timeframe, you're simply not worth replying to and reciprocating with the same bullshit makes you both cringe-worthy and insecure. A legitimate man couldn't care less …	/r/seduction	18/02/21 11:53 AM
1	Anyone here try getting professional photos taken for Tinder/dating apps? Totally worth it! Pictures make all the difference. The amount of matches you get will increase, and the attractivness of matches too.	/r/seduction	25/11/20 07:57 AM
0	Anyone here try getting professional photos taken for Tinder/dating apps? *mediocre men Tinder absolutely has genuinely cool girls there, and I've met quite a few of them. If you're getting no matches, no dates, or you do get matches and dates, but they're ugly physically, mentally, spiritually or any other way maybe there's work to do on yourself to attract what you're looking for? Like seriously, I could make a whole post about this, but it's pointless. Most are just weak and have zero drive to make themselves worth talking to. Tinder in 2020 is perfectly normal for…	/r/seduction	25/11/20 07:56 AM
1	How exciting of a life do I really need for a girl to want to date me? I think your current lifestyle could very much play in your favor, a similar lifestyle does for me. I work from home (12 hours a day), go to gym and sleep. That's pretty much all I do. The classic party hoes who go clubbing every weekend won't like us. The mature, ambitious, career-driven, goal-oriented girls love us. We're rare. Harsh, but honest. Most guys are and will stay mediocre. Girls love purpose-driven men. Ambitous, build and almost careless about anything that doesn't revolve around t…	/r/seduction	03/09/20 12:30 PM
0	Friendly reminder that women are people It's a process. As long as you're moving forward, you're golden! You might make turns here and there, but if you're moving, that's already great. Most are just spinning their tires...	/r/seduction	29/07/20 07:17 PM
–	Friendly reminder that women are people I mean "game" works. I see kind of an accelerate way, where you narrow your focus to dating specifically. What helped me the most was really getting my career, fitness and lifestyle goals in order. Just immersing myself fully in my personal potential and just working on realizing as much of it as I can. Of course, there are exceptions and unique scenarios, but you will be at least "good" in dating if you: Have your career in check. Let's be real. Your entire daily routine, possibilities, most of…	/r/seduction	29/07/20 05:14 PM
–	Friendly reminder that women are people Exactly! Glad to see posts like this. Just be the best you can fucking be in every area of your life, and you will be successful in dating. Forget the "game", pickup lines, persuasion abilities. These all come naturally if you know what you want from life and get after it. It's the classic paradox, the less you chase and the more you focus on yourself, the more attractive you become. My dating life has never been better. Did I start cold-approacing 20 women every day? Reading PUA books? Clubbing…	/r/seduction	29/07/20 07:32 AM
2	How to be in control of the conversation. Hey, sorry, busy day tomorrow, going to bed, but hey - I might have underestimated your mindset. I still those line are not good, but I agree it's often all about How you say it not WHAT you say. Sorry for the approach, keep crushing!	/r/seduction	15/07/20 07:29 PM
–	How to be in control of the conversation. Username checks out. First one, yeah, okay. Last two? Have you actually said that to any girl? And okay, I won't just be an asshole, here's what's wrong with those two. "Break up..." In what context would you believe this to be effective? It's certainly possible that a girl could break up with her BF for someone else, but this is some insecure try-hard BS. She won't. Give her reason to do it and let her do it on her own will. "Tell me your work schedule" WTF? Tell her what timeframe works for yo…	/r/seduction	15/07/20 05:35 PM
1	Is it weird to offer to book a hotel on tinder? If you're meeting for the first time, meet in a coffee place or a walk around a park. Keep it short and simple, just to figure out if you actually want to spend a night in hotel with her. She might look worse, she might act different, hell, you could look and behave different than she imagined. Don't meet a stranger (days of online chatting don't really tell much). Keep it short and go home. Wait until she writes back. Tell her you had a great time, and would love to spend more time with her. It…	/r/seduction	30/06/20 09:11 AM
21	Inappropriate? Not inappropriate. Just really dumb and unfitting for the subreddit.	/r/seduction	09/06/20 06:04 PM
1	Is there anyone here who GENUINELY went from loser to champ? How did you do it? Where did you start, and what does your success look like now? I had another one about my hairstyle. I have pretty long hair she said - 'you should cut them', I responded with: 'I know my hair look stunning, with more volume than yours, but I can share my hair care routine!' It's pretty easy to see when it's having fun and genuinely 'testing your frame'. I'm fine with both, but 'frame testing' is usually much harsher. Same, that's why I never did online dating, but now with the virus, didn't have other options. And honestly, I was surprised how many decent …	/r/seduction	02/06/20 08:55 AM
1	Is there anyone here who GENUINELY went from loser to champ? How did you do it? Where did you start, and what does your success look like now? Eastern Europe. Went to all (literary) all Scandinavian countries and few more in Europe. I was top 3 in class when you look at test results, and I dropped out when we had to give in the last exam. It was easy. I could have done it in a week. But there was a strategy, weird, but purposeful in it. Do you know why the first rapper with lots of face tattoos made them? "With a face like this, no one will ever hire me. My only option is to succeed as a rapper." So, I dropped when there was only one e…	/r/seduction	02/06/20 06:39 AM
1	Is there anyone here who GENUINELY went from loser to champ? How did you do it? Where did you start, and what does your success look like now? And yeah, don't let anyone insult you, but be ready for teasing. You will get teased a lot, and you have to learn how to counter them. In my situation it's all more than good there, but what I did when she said that was: "Yeah, you're kinda right. Someone fresh out of high school could be a better fit for you. You know, someone doesn't have all these crazy career goals etc. and can do all the teenage stuff with you." I turned 'offense' into a flex, and even counter attacked. Now she had to prove…	/r/seduction	02/06/20 06:34 AM
1	Is there anyone here who GENUINELY went from loser to champ? How did you do it? Where did you start, and what does your success look like now? I drink very little, few glasses of wine is usually it for the whole evening. I also don't go to parties anymore, but instead to a 'more cultural' events. Honestly, I'm not a fan of cold approach on street, but it's definitely doable. My favorite is just asking a random question, like - what's the time? And then say, I don't actually need to know the time, you look cool, so if you would to meet for a coffee, let's exchange numbers. Or ask for a good place to eat and then say, could you show me t…	/r/seduction	02/06/20 06:26 AM
–	Is there anyone here who GENUINELY went from loser to champ? How did you do it? Where did you start, and what does your success look like now? Our dating preferences could be different, but overall, loving the attitude! I don't wish you luck, luck's shit. I wish you unrelentless drive and discipline, so we meet somewhere at the top!	/r/seduction	01/06/20 06:58 PM
–	Is there anyone here who GENUINELY went from loser to champ? How did you do it? Where did you start, and what does your success look like now? That's why we meet only once a week. If I was in college, I'd fully agree. At this time, this is my ideal scenario. Focusing on my vision 6 days of the week, and having a day of over the weekend. That's the balance I needed, and what saves me from burning out from my business activities. Have fun! Go for the hottest hookups out there! It's a must have experience!	/r/seduction	01/06/20 06:42 PM
–	Is there anyone here who GENUINELY went from loser to champ? How did you do it? Where did you start, and what does your success look like now? 6'9ft? Damn, that's tall! I mean, getting laid is really not that hard, but yes, casual, random hookups are not much better masturbating. Casual hookups get boring quickly, especially, if you're not picky. If you feel like, you should live a lifestyle where you should be having sex with tons of hot girls, go for it! Relationships are something everyone should be cautious with, as 95 out of 100 won't work/last, but for me, casual, long-term dating works better. I'm busy and don't have time for ho…	/r/seduction	01/06/20 06:25 PM
1	Is there anyone here who GENUINELY went from loser to champ? How did you do it? Where did you start, and what does your success look like now? I'm 24, and I would say, I crawled out of the depressive hole like 3 years ago. That's when joined the University (after working 60-70 hour heavy labor work weeks since 18). Getting involved with driven people, around my ago (coworkers were mostly 30-50), really got me on a good path. I still struggle somedays, but it took me around 2 years to be in a very, very different, much better place. Which consisted of being very social, working out, reading and studying. My first goal was to re-integrat…	/r/seduction	01/06/20 06:07 PM
1	Is there anyone here who GENUINELY went from loser to champ? How did you do it? Where did you start, and what does your success look like now? True. I mean, hey, I'm not a magician, so I can't help with anything more than some inspiration. It, actually, took me looong, dark years to call myself good looking, so yeah, I'm biased, but will always stick to the point - it can be worse (be grateful), you can always improve (there might be physical upper limits).	/r/seduction	01/06/20 05:47 PM
1	Is there anyone here who GENUINELY went from loser to champ? How did you do it? Where did you start, and what does your success look like now? I agree, as mentioned in a different comment, people have varying starting points. Each has different advantages and disadvantages. I'm not perfect, I have pretty shitty acne that can be cured only with accutane. It was, until it came back.. Though, my point still stands. You might never be a Calvin Klein or Victoria Secret model (idk your gender), but you can and should always invest in yourself. Do workout, do find a fashion style you can rock, and most importantly, work on your wellbeing! Any…	/r/seduction	01/06/20 05:39 PM
2	Is there anyone here who GENUINELY went from loser to champ? How did you do it? Where did you start, and what does your success look like now? Thank you! Definitely all the best to you as well!	/r/seduction	01/06/20 05:18 PM
–	Is there anyone here who GENUINELY went from loser to champ? How did you do it? Where did you start, and what does your success look like now? I started working and living abroad, right after high school. I've lived in like 6 or 7 countries, and also studied abroad. That could be why my life seems so diverse, I have really tried looots of stuff.	/r/seduction	01/06/20 05:12 PM
0	Is there anyone here who GENUINELY went from loser to champ? How did you do it? Where did you start, and what does your success look like now? Haha :D My girlfriend teases me about this all the time. Saying, I'm old for being so focused on career (which she, obviously, also loves). I've definitely seen a lot in the past decade, after working in dozens of jobs, in like 6 or 7 countries, studying abroad, trying to start multiple businesses, etc. Not all experiences have been fun, but I definitely have stories to tell!	/r/seduction	01/06/20 05:10 PM
1	Is there anyone here who GENUINELY went from loser to champ? How did you do it? Where did you start, and what does your success look like now? A 7 daily, an 8 if I maxout on everything. I'm tall, muscular and have a passion for fashion. I've got great hair, and a symetrical face, though have some moderate acne. 9 out of 10 people can be good looking if they max out their mindset, fitness, fashion and personal hygiene.	/r/seduction	01/06/20 05:08 PM
1	Is there anyone here who GENUINELY went from loser to champ? How did you do it? Where did you start, and what does your success look like now? I also have these days. Not even that rarely, to be honest. In these days, remember about your long-term vision, and remember that it's all about gradual, incremental progress. It's okay to have days where you get done less, they still add up, and eventually, will turn into massive results. This is also one my biggest struggles. I lack patience. In business context, my income has doubled in the past months, but I feel like I'm not progressing. In these times, remember where you started, and focu…	/r/seduction	01/06/20 04:23 PM
2	Is there anyone here who GENUINELY went from loser to champ? How did you do it? Where did you start, and what does your success look like now? I'm 24.	/r/seduction	01/06/20 04:13 PM
4	Is there anyone here who GENUINELY went from loser to champ? How did you do it? Where did you start, and what does your success look like now? Sales & Marketing. I run a small marketing agency, covering a range of services, but my speciality is copywriting.	/r/seduction	01/06/20 04:13 PM
0	Is there anyone here who GENUINELY went from loser to champ? How did you do it? Where did you start, and what does your success look like now? 6 ft 4 or around 195cm.	/r/seduction	01/06/20 02:50 PM
12	Is there anyone here who GENUINELY went from loser to champ? How did you do it? Where did you start, and what does your success look like now? Of course, that helps a lot and I'm very grateful for that. Though, I just want others to know that looks are not entirely 'set in stone'. I have gained over 10kg of close to pure muscle mass, got my acne in check, completely, changed my wardrobe, and found a hairstyle that stands out. Gym can easily give an additional 1, same as fashion can give an additonal 1, clear face, great hygiene, well kept beard/hair, can be another 1. There, fairly simple things that can make 5 look like a 7. And let's…	/r/seduction	01/06/20 12:21 PM
–	Is there anyone here who GENUINELY went from loser to champ? How did you do it? Where did you start, and what does your success look like now? This is similar to the 3 second rule, where you go and talk immediately, so you don't talk yourself out of it. In a party setting, I'm always in my best mood, otherwise I would cancel it. I would be dressed in the best possible outfit, with the best possible hairstyle, and even though not good for muscle growth, I always have a heavy gym sesh before parties to get an agressive mindset. Usually, a push day with preworkout! :D I also drink few glasses of wine prior, to get in a more chill state. S…	/r/seduction	01/06/20 11:49 AM
8	Is there anyone here who GENUINELY went from loser to champ? How did you do it? Where did you start, and what does your success look like now? True! I'm still sometimes curious where narcissism comes from. Currently my explanations would be: Genetic. You just have it in your genes since brith. Later in life adapted self defense, coping mechanism. Self taught. Consciously, through practice. I think mine is a mix of the last two, as it is for most people. If someone has had low confidence, or even worse - been bullied and/or traumatized, narcissism could develop as a defense mechanism. Where instead of working with the trauma, person dec…	/r/seduction	01/06/20 10:56 AM
6	Is there anyone here who GENUINELY went from loser to champ? How did you do it? Where did you start, and what does your success look like now? Thank you! Definitely all the best to you as well! My daily life is quite 'lonely' as I work all day long from home, but everyone I meet always get my mega-package of 'mindset coaching & motivation'. :D Definitely stick to the: "Once you start believing.." Not always, but very often the only difference between a happy person vs unhappy, successful vs miserable, is the quality of their past thoughts. And of course, relentless execution! Keep crushing!	/r/seduction	01/06/20 10:46 AM
–	Is there anyone here who GENUINELY went from loser to champ? How did you do it? Where did you start, and what does your success look like now? I believe narcissism is not a bad thing, if paired with a great amount of self-awareness. It can be a great tool, though a tricky one. I focus on not being expressive with it, but rather, use it as an internal driving force. Another thing I do is - I'm very open and genuine in real life in all contexts, except not always in a business setting. I don't hide my less attractive personality traits, as I'm an introverted-like person. Meaning, I don't worry if who I am puts some people off, I'm all ab…	/r/seduction	01/06/20 10:43 AM
17	Is there anyone here who GENUINELY went from loser to champ? How did you do it? Where did you start, and what does your success look like now? Pleasure to hear! I still have looots of heavy days, but I have also surprised myself. Even though, I'm not crazy wealthy, don't have 12 super model wives, etc., I love sharing my insights and I'm sure some can benefit from my experiences!	/r/seduction	01/06/20 09:59 AM
–	Is there anyone here who GENUINELY went from loser to champ? How did you do it? Where did you start, and what does your success look like now? Yeah, not easy to write it all. Way too much to say there. As I started out with serious mental health issues, I was deep into the whole existencialism - who am I, what's the point of anything, so I went all in into spirituality. Read books about everything ranging from ancient greek philosophies, to hinduisim bibles and meditation manuals. I meditated for an hour in the morning and an hour in the evening. I also dedicatedly praticed everything I read in those books, and forced me thought patter…	/r/seduction	01/06/20 09:55 AM
–	Is there anyone here who GENUINELY went from loser to champ? How did you do it? Where did you start, and what does your success look like now? I wouldn't myself a champ, but I am definitely now a person, I didn't believe I could be years ago. I was acne-riddled, seriously underweight, diagnosed with a clinical depression (likely, with many additional undiagnosed issues). I also come from a pretty poor (not abusive, but financially) background. Though, got plenty of unfavorable experiences too. So yeah, had a really shitty start. I got worse and worse until it got so bad, it couldn't get worse. I was in massive debt, pot-head, extremely…	/r/seduction	01/06/20 08:37 AM
3	Is seeing a woman in a towel generally a turn on? Your question is kind of vague (what's your real question? if he's into you?), but I would say yes. If you are at least average looking, it definitely sparks some curiosity and naughty thoughts as you're naked under the towel. No one cares about the towel, but he should care about the fact, that the towel is the only thing covering you.	/r/seduction	30/05/20 08:41 AM
0	I don’t enjoy talking to girls. Just saying, you might be gay.. On a more serious note, talk to them like you would take to guys. Just whatever you're passionate about, or even just a quick chat about nothing at all. Just talk to them. Get comfortable, and see where you want to go from there.	/r/seduction	28/05/20 03:36 PM
1	How do I stop taking virtual rejection (getting left on read, getting left on delivered, getting ghosted...) so personally? "I have abundance mentality and have multiple girls in my rotation" and you think like this? I would probably take a different approach, but now that you said this, the answer is simple (and would be true anyway) - you are not worth responding to in their perception. Harsh, but reality. As you said: "they talk to so many guys". They also talk to many guys outside Tinder. You either become better (in perceived or tangible value) than every other guy they're talking to or keep wondering. I can't i…	/r/seduction	23/05/20 08:24 AM
1	Dating apps are bullshit My daily routine is very similar. I always work from home (as a freelancer), and I have 2-3 hour workout session at 3pm. For me the focus comes from the shit I've experienced in the past. I was poor, tried working long hours in well paid jobs. Hated it all, so entrepreneurship is the only way to go. If you know David Goggins, then you know what kind of mindset I'm cultivating. For me the whole 'business-thing' is what made me successful in dating. I'm one of the rare ones, who has a clear future…	/r/seduction	22/05/20 04:33 PM
1	Dating apps are bullshit Not really, I guess I'm somewhat good looking, because I never update my account. I found a bio and pictures that get me matches, and I keep it as it is. Currently, I'm dating just one girl. I've never been a person to commit to a relationship and I'm still not, but I'm incredibly busy trying to get my business off the ground, so I really don't have time to fuck around. She's cool, has a great mindset, common interests. We meet once a week in the weekend. No drama, just relaxing together on the …	/r/seduction	21/05/20 05:50 PM
3	Models by Mark Manson Send me a message. This book is life-changing, so I can send it to you.	/r/seduction	21/05/20 02:50 PM
5	She invites me over to stay, cuddles and gets physical but doesn't put out. Maybe you're going 'too physical' too soon? Recently one of my buddies asked the same question: 'She seemed into it, but we didn't get too far. Did I do something wrong.' Lack of patience is a common one. Cuddling and massaging is definitely the way to go, and for me the build up can last for hours, until she gives in. Of course, there could be many other reasons, but if you know that you like to 'get to the business quickly', try massaging her longer, and tease her, go near the breasts, massage…	/r/seduction	20/05/20 08:05 PM
2	This community fucked me up. Fuck this place, just get out there and focus on being the best guy you can be and girls will come naturally I can guarantee you definitely don't have a healthy relationship. Work on your self-awareness, so you can find out why what I wrote triggers such emotional response from you. It's okay, we all have our insecurities, but writing them out here won't help you much. Especially, when you can get intimidated so easily. Wish you well!	/r/seduction	19/05/20 03:28 PM
–	This community fucked me up. Fuck this place, just get out there and focus on being the best guy you can be and girls will come naturally Most of the advice is here is toxic trash. Insecure boys trying to learn 'big boy tricks'. With some level of self-awareness and decent mindset, you can filter the information on here, but many, many advices here are trying to 'game' women with some fictionary tactics. Models by Mark Manson is pretty much all you need. The Way Of A Superior Man is also a good one. The rest is relentless, unrelenting action-taking to become the best a woman could ever meet. You don't need any 'game' when you do e…	/r/seduction	19/05/20 07:12 AM
1	Dating apps are bullshit Also, you will likely be upvoted for your comment, but the whole rule 1 & 2 is cancer to dating world. Of course, it reflects a huge part of reality, but you're doing yourself no good by accepting these 'rules' as the way it works. Reality is a fluid, ever-changing thing. Rules can passed in many sneaky ways. Seriously, start focusing on how you get improve yourself.	/r/seduction	19/05/20 07:01 AM
1	Dating apps are bullshit For matches try finding my other comment on how to set up your account and what to write. I'm by no means an expert, but I'm definitely getting everything I want out of the online dating 'game'.	/r/seduction	19/05/20 06:56 AM
2	Dating apps are bullshit The thing is, I was completely miserable just a few years ago. That is where this belief that 'everyone can' comes from. Everyone can do well, now, whether everyone is willing to do what it takes to do so is a different question and can only be answered by his/her own. I was diagnosed with depression, and had many more mental issues, was acne-riddled and seriously underweight. Broke and in debt. Zero dating. Ever. I didn't get lucky, I CHOSE to change.	/r/seduction	19/05/20 06:54 AM
1	Dating apps are bullshit For me, I just do whatever I like, and what girls love is the passion and effort I put into my hobbies. I go to gym, occasionally do fighting sports and endurance sports - swimming, cycling, running. Most girls won't necessarily enjoy any of these, but apart from my fitness level, they love how passionate I am about these things. How disciplined I am, and how ambitious/competitive my mindset is. What I've heard are great, especially, for meeting women are definitely dancing classes (they will ma…	/r/seduction	19/05/20 06:51 AM
1	Dating apps are bullshit Yeah.. Which can be achieved through hard work. Even if you look like a hobbit, a fit body, trendy hairstyle, nice style and a really dope lifestyle will get you plenty of dating partners.	/r/seduction	19/05/20 06:44 AM
3	Dating apps are bullshit Oh man, that's unfortunate to hear. I'm kind of an asshole in a way that I'm really tall, fit, with great facial symmetry and I run a small, but growing business, so that definitely gives me an advantage. Though, all my life prior, just a few years back, I had never even had a date. And honestly, as cheesy as it sounds, it was the mindset that changed everything. I started working out, completely changed my diet, completely destroyed my whole identity and started anew. I was insecure, depressed,…	/r/seduction	18/05/20 10:37 PM
1	Dating apps are bullshit Now, as far as what to write. I use always start with teasing her. Show her that I am looking for something that fits me, not someone who will accept me. I test her not the other way around. Most won't like it, that's fine I don't need most. Then, I would use sarcastic humor, mixed with some subtle flexing about who I am and what I do. Wannabe-entrepreneur is my favorite angle. It's like saying I'm broke but it sounds like I'm rich. I will always keep the dominate frame and act like I don't care…	/r/seduction	18/05/20 10:27 PM
–	Dating apps are bullshit Hey man! I can see how I might have come across as offensive and definitely didn't mean to. I can imagine that a lot of guys struggle here and that me being a marketer has taught me well how to also market myself. Honestly, the key is really just overtaking every other guy in every way possible. Of course, it's also unrealistic, but such mindset definitely puts you ahead the most. Then, really think of what message your pictures are sending and have the best quality possible. Here's what I would…	/r/seduction	18/05/20 10:18 PM
0	Dating apps are bullshit Definitely! Wildly different than real life, which is what I prefer. My pictures are taken with a professional camera and pre-planned, and I'm a copywriter so I know how to write more than well. Dating game can be brutal, but if learned really well, it's really nice to get all the validation and the potential to meet someone cool (which I did and I'm not using the app while dating someone).	/r/seduction	18/05/20 10:04 PM
10	Dating apps are bullshit Definitely. I have had some less fun experiences. But after a while you learn how to weed out the catfishes and the psychopaths. Face timing is one of the great ways to do that.	/r/seduction	18/05/20 09:54 PM
–	Dating apps are bullshit The thing is 10 men never really work hard. Almost no one genuinely can say: 'I work hard to be the best I can be and make an impact to the world around me'. And hey, I wouldn't mind being 10th on the New York marathon, that's a professional athletes level. The problem is, most guys on this subreddit can't run a 10k, keeping a decent pace. Yes, it was a rushed response. Could you please specify your question? My point was, most guys are really just expecting a lot when they are offering so littl…	/r/seduction	18/05/20 09:36 PM
–	Dating apps are bullshit Just know, you're not alone. Most guys are just stuck in mediocrity and no girl wants to date them. Easier to blame the whole dating app game than adapting and improving their skills. While these guys say: "girls on dating apps are dumb, ugly, toxic, whatever'. The same and other girls talk equal shit about them: "the mediocre, unnattractive guys with unoriginal pickup lines from r/Tinder" I work hard on my fitness, business, mindset, etc. every single day, and I do get fantastic results at dati…	/r/seduction	18/05/20 07:55 PM
–	Dating apps are bullshit I don't know, man. I have to disagree. You are partly right, and you are also partly projecting your own flaws & insecurities. I do agree that, statistically, most women on dating apps are shallow, insecure, immature, and every other way incompatible for a healthy relationship, but you can definitely find great ones there too. First things first, don't swipe so many to the right. My left to right ratio is like 15:1. That considerably cuts out the 'bullshitters'. Now, don't use cheesy r/tinder pi…	/r/seduction	18/05/20 07:52 PM
1	STEP BY STEP GUIDE ON HOW TO APPROACH Ha! Got me there, but look who also got curious in the "overdoing, narcissistic man's" rationale... (no emojis on laptop)	/r/seduction	30/04/20 06:50 AM
1	STEP BY STEP GUIDE ON HOW TO APPROACH Sounds cool! I'm going to sleep right now, but would love to let you pick my brain apart! 😄 It's equally fascinating for me to see what fascinates you. 🤭 Anyway, good night! UK should be late evening right now!	/r/seduction	29/04/20 08:34 PM
1	STEP BY STEP GUIDE ON HOW TO APPROACH It is, indeed. Everything is learned. I'm basically relearning things that will help me in life. You can probably see that from my comments in entrepreneurship-minded subreddits. Yeah, the 9/10 thing is a mix of my inner narcissist and some wonderful experiences. I'm sure there's the other side, which is me cutting contacts once things get serious. I can imagine that's the downside... I can't keep up a long-term relationship, but I'm down to have a fantastic time with no strings attached once in…	/r/seduction	29/04/20 07:51 PM
1	STEP BY STEP GUIDE ON HOW TO APPROACH I mean, I probably did sounds like the classic 'Alpha-douche', so I get where you're coming from. Oh, it's pretty tricky to explain the whole "what I'm like', when words can be so easily misinterpreted. The key thing in this way of thinking is being the most authentic version of myself. Yes, my professional career heavily relies on persuasion and grey area manipulation, but in dating context, I'm as natural as I could be. Many, many guys DO try to attain the cocky "Alpha" frame. I would say, I'm…	/r/seduction	29/04/20 06:44 PM
1	STEP BY STEP GUIDE ON HOW TO APPROACH It's pretty simple, can't disagree. That's why I added my comment about the 'positioning' or in dating context that would be 'framing' yourself right. It's simple, but I bet more than half of redditors in this group can't follow through all the steps covered, so it's probably valuable to someone. I'd rather encourage someone who's maybe not that experienced, than put him down. He's taking action and that's more than most guys ever will.	/r/seduction	29/04/20 04:17 PM
2	STEP BY STEP GUIDE ON HOW TO APPROACH Exactly! It's the authentic me. I am such kind of person, so I fully embrace it, and I think it's the best way to go. I follow a very simple motto: "If we vibe, we vibe, if we don't, we don't" Thanks!	/r/seduction	29/04/20 04:11 PM
1	STEP BY STEP GUIDE ON HOW TO APPROACH Thank you! Genuinely appreciate your view here. I do have some narcissistic tendencies, but I do my best to only express them in a business setting. I'm a highly ambitious, career-focused guy, so I might come off as cold and cocky. Meanwhile, I always show my true intentions, and never abuse what I believe I know. Of course, such mindset could repell many, but at the same time, some girls just love it. I'm confident, the go-getter type, very self-sufficient and cold at first. Many find it intere…	/r/seduction	29/04/20 02:27 PM
1	STEP BY STEP GUIDE ON HOW TO APPROACH That's great! For sure do! I really hope I didn't come off wrong in any way. Please continue approaching all the cute girls! They will be glad you did!	/r/seduction	29/04/20 10:34 AM
–	STEP BY STEP GUIDE ON HOW TO APPROACH No worries, man! Appreciate the guide, and I see that you're likely doing more than well! I'm just pretty deep into the whole 'right words' and persuasion thing as I'm a copywriter and marketer. Might seem odd, but those skills transfer to the dating world as well, as you're essentially selling yourself. That's how I enhanced my approach and learned to be 'wiser' with the words and angles I use.	/r/seduction	29/04/20 10:25 AM
–	STEP BY STEP GUIDE ON HOW TO APPROACH Oh wow, sorry for being picky, but I wouldn't use the phrase " oh wow sorry to bother you..." 'Sorry' and 'bother', first of all, have a negative connotation. Why instill an idea that you're uncertain about the approach? And rather than being sorry for approaching, I would rather twist it as her being lucky you did. It's should be an exciting opportunity for HER. I mean, you're definitely in a good mindset, but I would never open with a 'sorry for bothering'. You might be bothering her, but I wo…	/r/seduction	29/04/20 09:51 AM
1	Does not having social media make me appear creepy? Okay. I might have overestimated, but it's still pretty much the truth. Of course, your current living situation determines the result as well. If you meet a lot of people daily, then you're probably fine without social media. For me its a little different. I work frome home in a small town. I work a lot and don't travel often. I did meet girls in various events, but there's only šo far you can go with calls and Facebook (which I use only for business). The contact dwindled quickly, and I became…	/r/seduction	12/04/20 08:09 PM
1	Does not having social media make me appear creepy? If you go into social media unconsciously, it will wreck your mental health. It's all about reinforcing imaginary quality of life, and the person posting content. But, it also has it's benefits. If you are aware of how it works, you can definitely leverage social media to improve your dating pool. I also didn't have social media for a couple of years. "Fuck that fake shit, I don't need to prove anything to anyone. I'm tired of keeping up with fictional standards" - that's what I was thinking. Fa…	/r/seduction	12/04/20 08:05 AM
3	Masculine v. Effeminate men My bad in wording, I'm totally with you on this. I agree that large part of self-development process is recconnecting with the authenic version of yourself. Only half of the whole process is building something new. I'm a huge believer of "Everything is mental", so for me exercise is all about developing my mindset - visualizing the limitations and overcoming them. Setting goals and learning relentless execution. It truly has nothing to do with seducinf women, but the more you focus on self-devel…	/r/seduction	08/04/20 04:36 PM
7	Masculine v. Effeminate men For me it gives the mental toughness that transfers really well in other areas, business especially, but dating as well. It teaches you how to keep going even the shit gets hard (e.g. getting turned down by a woman, getting cockblocked, etc.) As mentioned in another comment, I believe we still have the same cave men instincts and urges that need to be maintained through vigoruous physical exercise.	/r/seduction	08/04/20 04:05 PM
5	Masculine v. Effeminate men Definitely, I believe that we still have the same drive that cave men had, and we need to release the same ancient urges. That's why I workout like a testosterone filled caveman every day, and that for sure boosts my confidence and daily drive in all areas.	/r/seduction	08/04/20 04:03 PM
42	Masculine v. Effeminate men Gym for sure. Endurance sports as well. There's lots of suffering in sports. Once you learn to love it, you're golden. Gym is the easiest one, can't not feel masculine when you can lift heavy shit, and look masculine. Fighting sports will make your actions more confident and 'offensive'.	/r/seduction	08/04/20 11:09 AM
–	Left on read Just happened to me. Matched with super attractive girl on Tinder. She was really close, and the quick chat went really well. Basically, she asked how tall I am, and well... being 6'4 has it's upsides. Then, I got busy for the evening. Didn't reply also the next day. And then I got hit by "just like the other guys". I sent a gif that said "What it do babe?" And she didn't reply. Apparently, no one likes to be left on read. :D	/r/seduction	03/04/20 02:57 PM
2	Game For Bony Men: Gain Muscle, Gain Respect and Attraction Never-ending work in progress, but yeah, action is the key. There was nothing wrong with me nor there is anything wrong with anyone else. It's just that if you want to see a difference, you have to make it (not you specifically). In dating context, 'just let if flow, and the right moment will come' is the worst bullshit ever. It wont just 'come'. You have to walk towards it, jump over obstacles, pass through muddy rivers. Some people have longer path, some have shorter. Some cruise in a cabrio, …	/r/seduction	22/03/20 10:50 AM
–	Game For Bony Men: Gain Muscle, Gain Respect and Attraction Great post, but I think you didn't put enough emphasis on the main point, which is the mindset's development. A year ago I was skinny, depressed, zero game. Overall, felt like crap. I started working out, commited to bulking (no, it's not fun to 'eat more'). I worked out with push, pull, legs program. Aimed for at least 500 calorie surplus, somedays even hit 1000. Fast forward to today. I went from barely 80kg/ 176lbs to a little over 90kg/ 200lbs+ in a year. Sure, I look way better. But the mai…	/r/seduction	22/03/20 09:23 AM
–	Tinder 101: A Complete Beginner Framework to Crush Online Dating I wish more guys would realize this. Looks play a major role in online dating, but so many guys just have cringy profile setups. Out of curiosity, I set "guys only". Guess what? Most of them have retarded selfies, super bland & boring pictures. Oh, and let's not forget skinny abs guys and shitty car guys. If a guy is 6 or above, decent pictures and witty bio will get plenty of matches. If a guy is 6 or below, WORK ON IT! - get fit. that's at least 1 point up. - dress really well, get a nice hair…	/r/seduction	23/01/20 10:00 AM
2	Money dont help you get women *you're :)	/r/seduction	24/07/19 05:20 PM
1	Money dont help you get women I'd say your financial state reflects your mental state. If you're broke financially, you're probably not the coolest guy around and there are many other issues, additionaly to your broke-ness. If I was a woman I would never go for a guy who can't get his life together a.k.a. have a decent career, with a decent place to live, car (unless super urban environment), cool hobbies (they ain't free) and has a purpose. If you're broke you probably lack all of these things. Being broke is also pretty hi…	/r/seduction	24/07/19 05:14 PM