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POV: when your investment manager is also a philosopher
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 07:04 AM
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I learned what that was when I read your comments. "What is she yapping about now?"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:51 AM
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She meant the bear
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:31 AM
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Speaking of, why is the hivemind page a picture of female clones? Checkmate
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:03 AM
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Is it banned? When people say it I think of myself like an alien ayy. It's kind of funny
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:29 AM
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I'll give it a pass because 21
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:55 AM
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Is that a joke tho? It's just calling someone a sloot or someone who gives head a lot depending on context
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:50 AM
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give me a gen z joke : l
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:28 AM
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I remember ending up on lipstickalley when I was young. I didn't know it was a femcel forum until recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:20 AM
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Ever since coming here, the first 10 seconds of this song will never be the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:15 AM
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I wanted to mention that one time. Thought I’d get jumped by ppd women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 11:10 PM
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I disagree only because you didn’t write female privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 11:06 PM
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no u
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:38 PM
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I'd play it at the next big family holiday with the relatives and everything
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:37 PM
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I'd ask them why but to soothe their conscience. It's why idc about the phone checking bs. Everything should be open and so if they are the type to check they'll see it once or twice then trust you forever. To me trust is earned not given, just like respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:33 PM
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I agree. I feel bad for you everyday when you make good threads lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 12:04 AM
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Kendrick and BBL drizzy firing back to back
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:01 AM
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What if they're just undercover PPD men who know your type
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:42 AM
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Those are similar to mine. I find 2 is true because the disrespect starts long before the cheating. I'm typically not a fan of blaming the one without a backbone for getting run over rather than the perp fixing themselves. However it is their responsibility to defend themselves. Would you date someone who resolved these trust issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:38 AM
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I’m sarcastic half the time I’m here 😎. I get where you’re coming from but I’m curious about your reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:08 AM
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It’s over for nice guys. Judged even for being a victim 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:47 AM
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I usually carry everything. I won’t next time though. I’ll tell her Eulen thought it was weird 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:42 AM
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Yeah surprisingly good for a game adaptation. If you’ve played the series you’ll enjoy it more but not required
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 01:56 AM
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Is there a reason apart from their appearance that draws you to yaoi/BL?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:27 PM
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Jeez...they're all terrible. I'll take my chances with the Fujoshi, see if I can convert her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:15 PM
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What colour is the planet?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 09:09 PM
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This guys got a girl
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 09:04 PM
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inb4 the heightcels say it's because they're 9 feet tall
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:55 PM
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delicious???
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:50 PM
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bbl drizzy gyatt
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:28 PM
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My wife. If it's really bad I'll just cover it with my clothes/blanket.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:29 PM
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They always ask what would the bear do but not how is the bear
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:44 PM
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She's blessed us with her presence again. Hail Excomen the wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:36 PM
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You do seem like the type to vainly look at yourself. Me too
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:16 PM
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Same, I usually go sweatpants. I don't like them for working out, I've tried different ones. The only good thing is visibility and looking double cheeked up on a Thursday making the girls jelly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:41 PM
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They also do RDLs in my face. Help my poor virgin eyes poopgirl
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:31 PM
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Honestly I don't believe them. They just want to look good and part of what we perceive as looking good is what others think. All our fashion, hygiene etc. I wear leggings too sometimes on leg days just to see my legs. They aren't comfortable. Also people look at my crotch too much, even the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:05 PM
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They didn't even know Korea existed until recently and now they're experts. The femcels here can fuck off out of Asian issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 02:47 AM
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like when cardi b said "I don't cook I don't clean"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 11:32 PM
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This is how I imagine it goes down. https://www.youtube.com/shorts/XRppGK2rNuY
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 11:20 PM
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I never said 24/7, I'm not that naive haha but on the forums yeah. I'd give you a fat hug.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 11:01 PM
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Me. It's my "red flag" that's never steered me wrong except the times I stopped listening to it. Just like I judge you badger, for being one of the most wholesome women on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:20 PM
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Essentially, yes. I believe situationship is a terminology that shouldn't exist because the majority of cases it's being pumped and dumped. If not you're just single and dating around. There's a nebulous grey zone whereby both parties are exclusive but there's no label and they both want to be official yet they're afraid. That's a real situationship aka zoomer "it's complicated" but it's so rarely the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:38 PM
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Just hop on Tren and use the same excuse
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:25 PM
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Do people really define pump and dump as a one and done? I've seen it a few times now. I use it as an umbrella term for "used" rather than take it so literally. If I get with a girl I have no intention of being with and she wants a relationship and I string her along for 4 months for sex then dump her. That's still pump and dump. It doesn't matter if it was a "situationship" or a "relationship"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:19 PM
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I just like reading the women in the comments upset
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:49 PM
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Women like to spank dudes with fat asses. Especially if it mogs theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:53 PM
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Why does that happen? It was a gif of Ross' teeth in that episode of friends
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:34 PM
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5'11+ women are great. I'm trying to climb trees in my free time
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:09 PM
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I'll make sure I gift you with the pleasure of axe body spray
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:20 PM
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based
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:27 PM
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All of the above. It was mainly because I didn't take it seriously and it was a way to filter people I deemed shallow. It didn't change much in the end, because the quality of people irl was way better. Girls on apps be crazy *Alexa play Toxic by RealestK*
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:16 PM
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6'6.6" and the world is your oyster
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:45 PM
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When I used apps I used to say I was shorter than I was. They can't tell the difference so I agree, most guys should lie only because other guys are so women assume you are too. In fact I downplayed everything about myself lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:43 PM
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Yeah it's not a big deal because even without the ethnicity filter I'm sure people filter manually regardless. I'm curious whether women are actually reasonable with the height filter though. I read there was like an "ELO" system. Idk if it's true. So it would make sense your rating would go down over time. I mean up. I think it's a pro. Big believer in paralysis analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:50 PM
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(tho does introduce 1-2 new ones) just two very small ones teehee
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:36 PM
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Exactly! I think if people had an extroverted friend to drag them out more they'll realize they're not as anti social as they thought. I need a week too. Do you end up reminiscing about it throughout the week because it's rare too? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:19 AM
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I think it's what the whole world rewards even in work. Just make sure you're not exchanging shy/socially awkward for introvert. I'm an introvert. In the sense that I get tired of socializing quickly and need/prefer my own time. During the time I'm locked in I can be the life of the party. It's also a muscle though. If you get comfortable staying home you'll suck. I used to always say no to outings, now I always say yes unless I have a good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:08 AM
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With all 11 herbs and spices, sorry buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 11:40 PM
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What are you eating it with? That sounds so good
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 10:20 PM
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He doesn't like bunnings sausage sizzles so no. Sorry I don't make the rules
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 10:19 PM
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Let's be real. They've always been like that. There's always an area of the house that looks like a bull ran through Sephora
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 08:55 PM
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I want a pet Dolphin but he'd probably steal my girls
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 08:49 PM
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Especially yours
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:39 PM
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Q4W: How does it feel knowing guys naturally have nicer eyebrows and eyelashes than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:01 PM
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You just unlocked a core memory of mine
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:02 AM
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You got time to turn your life around. You're young.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:42 AM
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The Dr Robotnik
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:41 AM
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oooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:13 AM
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You're 22 cmon man
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:55 AM
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:(
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:53 AM
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EJ and EK were cool so alpha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:18 AM
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You're in
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 11:07 PM
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Using her looks to get free shit at the fish and chip shop from the simp
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 11:02 PM
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Is it a wagon?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 10:19 PM
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Yes, and seconding flashy cars and convertibles. If you ever get cars you know "women" like they'll be even more into it. Miata is cheapest thing that fits this. It's not like she'll like you because you got a nice car. It's the same thing as being a good dancer or something. A bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 10:15 PM
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She's pretty and fits the American standard to a T, like a Bratz Doll. I think because of the surgery (?) she fits it in an uncanny way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:21 AM
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Sure man, I know you rocking the 4s, 12 and 13s to rub it in
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:06 AM
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What did you say when they did it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:55 AM
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You’re a Stacy aren’t you? The poor guys 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:45 AM
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mental leek out here putting dudes on blast for trying to relate to her but just awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:37 AM
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Acting like she just finished playing FFX. "This is my story" head ass
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:57 AM
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Keep this up and you're going up on the tier list
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:53 AM
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It's nice but are we glossing over the fact it was $150 USD? For a cut like that he's going in every 3 weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:29 AM
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I'm confused. I think this is what a lot of guys are asking for isn't it? The venting is more like America pretends it's France in this context but it's really kind of conservative but also not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 06:23 PM
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Look up their "useless husbands". You'll get a laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:05 PM
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There's nothing to debate. I agree. ok to say some really offensive shit to me. This was confusing. If anything, right after is when they should be most careful. You've just been injected with PNC.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 01:45 PM
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I know, it's ridiculous. A lot of women who are increasingly online (like everyone else) are getting radicalized. I read a comment from a 18 yr old who said her sister and mum had internalized misogyny because they said a certain actress was ugly. Tons of upvotes and people agreeing. I'm a firm believer that women who aren't feminists are only so because of those lunatics.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 12:15 PM
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This is the answer. As much as I shit on both genders when necessary and defend women who may need it, progressive etc when you interact in online spaces like these, the radicals do a very poor job of empathy and representing their gender. A lot of the time the people like me somewhere in the middle left just get shit from both sides but particularly from women because they're reactionary to a lot of triggers. Even from a good faith position you achieve the same as a misogynist who called her a …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 11:26 AM
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I was going to write that then thought it was the forbidden word my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 11:03 AM
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I'll be honest, lots of places eat things people consider "weird". I think it's just people being pussies. I looked up dogs and even humans and why we don't. Mainly due to health and disease.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 12:53 AM
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You know what's the real redpill? How humans treat different creatures based on how cute they are. Raccoons took a bit of an L though. So close.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 12:06 AM
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The more cleavage or butt you try to show off. I think you should provide some example photos if you want to find the line. Bodycons and sheers don't have to be extremely sexual but they definitely can be made that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:30 PM
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Already done, and in my culture normal at least more so.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 07:19 PM
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Depends on age, but I'm somewhere around <10.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:55 PM
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Never. If we are all a culmination of what we look like plus our intangible attributes, then all we need to do is pass a threshold. I'm sure in some ways I'm better others ways I'm worse or just provide a different experience. Her desire and passion would be judged by her behaviour to me. It'd be more important to me how many, and the nature of the relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:36 PM
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Probably the best woman on PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:41 PM
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I've said the same thing too. If it's so bad they'd switch en masse. Make the money and we stay at home but they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:58 AM
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Unpaid internships should be illegal fr
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:21 AM
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That's surprising. You said you're a longtime gym rat. I find a lot of women who weren't into muscles suddenly like it in their man after lifting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:08 AM
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Why can't you just be both a pretty boy and buff? I'm both and it works. You attract people into niches and everything in between. Remember when wonho trended on tiktok? Idk maybe some of you are from the deep South where it doesn't fly or something
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:58 PM
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edgyny coming in with the interesting explanations once again. It is true I felt that and I feel less of a "protective" instinct with tall women despite my preference for them in attraction. Good food for thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:35 PM
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Clothes off it turns out I cared more than I thought. Clothes on I like how flat chested women look. Elegant if they dress well. Also you're not RP anymore D:
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:29 PM
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I told you my height before which isn't crazy but even meeting girls who are 5'2, 5'1 makes me start thinking of a daughter. The height guys who enable these women weird me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:24 PM
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I'd fuck the MIL
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:15 PM
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Because women socialize more whether with each other or because men hit on them young. I will say though the gap has decreased a lot for young women. I never encountered a woman I'd label socially awkward until >2019. I blame tech and people staying indoors.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:26 PM
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Yes, I've seen them admit this before. It's related to wanting a family and time is ticking or financial security. Idk if the husband pretends he doesn't see it because you can tell when a woman really loves you like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:21 PM
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Would've worked if he said please
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 04:18 PM
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oof, that is exactly how it goes down every time tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:52 PM
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I thought a handful would pick him then remembered this is PPD. I think irl most don't care about his n count and he's the type most women ignore red flags for. Also is your bro no.2?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:46 PM
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edit: It's interesting but unsurprising that it's just flat out rejection of all 3 or tends to be no ranking at all so you can't see priorities. It's either completely in or out. Men's one was more interesting so far
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:37 AM
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<image> Did everyone gets the same questions about waking up on a train, villages, caves, cats, birds? Some questions were confusing edit: ngl these are pretty accurate for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:36 AM
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I agree. A lot of people lack empathy/intelligence to see beyond themselves. A common one I judge people on is the assumption that if you voice a concern about something, you must be suffering from it. Complain about capitalism? Must be poor. Discuss solutions about hypergamy? Maidenless. I was going to give her unique advice on how to explain it to her man until she started masking off about men then I deleted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:02 AM
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Her question wasn't just about herself. "...unreasonable for a woman" followed by speaking about women. You for whatever reason made it about yourself then only her which had nothing to do with what I said but I entertained it. The example about SAHD was to explain a macro trend on expectations from women which exists on a spectrum not her specifically. The premise of her argument is that she will be temporarily taking a financial hit because she has to take care of the children so wants to date…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:39 PM
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A man obviously. If women legit mean bear. Ok. Go do it then. I pay attention to what people do not what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:53 PM
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No. What I'm addressing is the most common argument that you can find in the OP. "Men aren't taking care of the child, household duties blah blah which is why I want him to earn more" I address that by saying "Even if he did you wouldn't want it but you're pretending like you do to mask the fact that you just won't come out and say I want more money". This has nothing to do with women like yourself who think no one should hold that role. To make it clear these same women I'm addressing would be …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:53 PM
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There's a decent number of women that constantly post, where the man hating undercurrent comes through. Same names every time, ignoring the argument, bringing up some strawman, "but men also do-". You can't criticize both with them. Only men. I just ignore what they have to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:38 PM
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Sure, never said you couldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 02:54 PM
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I don't believe deep down those are the real reasons for most women. When they're both wealthy enough, she'll still act that way for LTR. I'm talking 250k to her 300k+. In reverse many men are happy to date women who earn a decent amount less whether that's same economic class or one below. Not quite as drastic as the RP example of a doctor dating a Mcdonald's worker. If men said, "I'll raise the children and you go work. I'll sacrifice my career progression until they grow up", we'd get stigmat…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 02:23 PM
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3>1>2
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:59 PM
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I was not expecting that HAHAHA
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:15 PM
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They just need to be unconditioned out of thinking men will automatically say yes because they're sexual beasts and therefore if they don't you're ugly. This difference is most highlighted when your gf denies sex and it's ok but when you do it she whines and pouts until you give in.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:58 AM
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Revel in the cybertruck L
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 08:12 PM
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Must buy her a picnic Kelly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 06:38 PM
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Wth. Still bad idea but obviously 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 06:34 PM
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Extreme helplessness, gossiping behind someone's back, materialism (there's liking nice things which happen to be expensive and liking expensive things), if she ever says "A man is this". The latter 3 get a visceral reaction from me. I never think of them the same after.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:24 PM
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The implication of this question lies on the false foundation that it is jealousy of being compared which is what some women assume. That isn't the reason (for a lot of us). I am the "Chadly" guy and it comes down to what I think it says about her mental health, decision making, expenditure of her time etc. I cross reference other behaviours before I make a judgement. To demonstrate a woman with a body count of 6 from serious relationships is different from 6 ONS which is also better than 2 orgi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 09:58 AM
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You should've dipped after the first comment. Cmon bro I believe in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:59 PM
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Based? I had to do a double take on your flair
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 01:42 PM
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Too many recipes on tiktok turn out to be a disappointment. All show.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 12:10 PM
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If I'm understanding you right, it's essentially the push-pull, hot-cold dynamic in action. I also think that's it's two different kinds of women but the ones like this are more common especially when young. It's why I still play these games. I was "forced" to. It's a proxy for desirability. Sometimes it's not based on reality but perception. It's like how a woman would meet a guy and she says "You must be a player" based on nothing but his face. In this situation, while I will never recommend d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:39 AM
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Don't say that. We're all gonna make it!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:56 AM
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Yeah it is cope. I know girls from Korea. They're dating or got boyfriends. 4B is fringe. Their version of chad is some guy who looks like he stepped out of a manhwa/yaoi as the CEO daddy in a supercar. They're rolling around gangnam and they're not short on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:45 AM
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Agreed with everything but especially: There's also a heavy dose of race fetishism (the countries are almost always either Asian or, occasionally, Latin American). That's the biggest problem because what usually happens is everything a "western woman" does can be done over there but they don't point that out since it ain't the real reason they're there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 08:47 AM
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You're gonna be a chad
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 07:42 AM
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It's a double standard. I've sat around women that said guys like this are losers while their rent was being paid for by mum and another was unemployed at the time. Thank god for being part of a culture where it's normal until you get married to leave even though I left beforehand. As I always say, men should shine the mirror back at her. Don't give up your double standards and gender expectations until she lets go of hers. Plus, get a damn hotel. If it can be normal in Korea it can be normal ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 07:29 AM
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Everything from taking care of the household plus children to splitting household duties and work as the breadwinner. Looks like they're getting irate already lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 07:17 AM
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I'm going to have to agree here. Ideally it's split properly according to individual circumstances but I digress. Your point is true coming from a guy that has done that in my teens and adulthood. If it was harder, women should want to switch with us but they don't. Lots of SAHD still get shit on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:48 AM
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Something that impresses me about some women is when they ignore a blue check.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:28 AM
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In my culture it is kinda the default. Since I'm in Aus though I will explicitly say we're dating exclusively if I'm interested. No agree, me walk. Hasn't failed yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:12 AM
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It could also be life has repeatedly beat these guys down and now negative attributes manifest and are constantly reinforced. I like to think it's a contribution from all these factors
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:07 AM
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I've never heard this one before. It makes a lot of sense. Thanks for sharing!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:01 AM
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You've encapsulated perfectly how I've envisioned it in my mind especially things she thinks is "dumb" making her flip on you like a switch and the idea of you having a bank. I think for the latter I do this to women as well but not for vulnerability. I do believe there's women who have the capacity to be as supportive but the ratio seems unfavourable so far unless it's in a platonic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:52 AM
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If she was going through a bad month like that, would you also lose attraction and leave or stick around?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 10:15 AM
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Is that something you've experienced with men or your friends have? If accurate that's a shame. For me personally yes. My life was quite different and I had to mature fast. I began supporting people with depression and all sorts of issues as a adolescent/teen. As an adult I looked after a bed ridden woman who went through a traumatic event who wouldn't speak for 4 weeks. I perhaps am an outlier so I wanted to ask other people here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 10:10 AM
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Keep in mind you're speaking to a man who's always had more female friends and I know the issue with men supporting other men's emotions already. That's an entirely different story. The focus of my question is not to address the disparity in emotional support groups. It was essentially, in the event something horrible, overwhelming and built up was dumped on them, women don't want to "deal with it" as you've said. I'm trying to find out if men were put in that position of pent up emotions dumped…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:50 AM
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Usually some form of left leaning woman. I just align more with open minded people even if we disagree. No ignorant statements out of left field. Conservative women ime tend to like performative masculinity. She could have a masculine man who has quiet confidence but she perceives that as weak. She wants the loud, boisterous guy who tries to convince everyone he's the man. Think George St Pierre vs Sean Strickland.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:24 AM
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I'm asking if the roles were reversed would men also dip or be more supportive based on you and what you see other men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:36 AM
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Q4M: Often we say there are women out there who don't wan't to see their man be too vulnerable or emotional otherwise they lose attraction and leave. Do you think this is true for yourself and men in general or do you think we have a much higher tolerance? e.g. You have a 1 month depressive rut. She dips but in reverse you'd stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:29 AM
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Clothes look better on flat, thin, tall people. You're a walking clothes hanger. Because face is king
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:16 AM
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Agreed. Doesn't have to be to that degree but some modesty is nice. One time at the gym there's this girl on the treadmill in front of me that I noticed while I was resting from my set, looking around. Her booty shorts (loose) was so short half her cheek was out. As I see men walk into the room, my eyes dart into theirs to see if they're going to look. These guys, especially the old ones weren't even slick with it. Big pervs lmao smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:47 AM
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Give her a belly rub for me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:34 AM
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Both. Actual feminists that study it so people defer to them when discussing social issues, dating woes, declining birth rates. Of course this ends up affecting the cultural zeitgeist and the views of normal women. Would you not agree society as a whole but especially women defaults to leaning pro feminism + progressiveness? That's what they label themselves and that's who most people will interact with. A feminist like one you originally described is far ahead in understanding of many women who…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 03:27 AM
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Where are you from? Sounds like Sweden or something where most would actually insist and get upset. I've never paid , neither in dates that resulted in hookups/fwbs,nor in the ones that resulted in relationships. My man, me too. The whole point is that if she's into you she isn't making you jump through hoops. I'm sure if you're trying to sleep with the entire city it's more difficult but the principle is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:23 PM
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Huh you missed the point. Tech making everything easier is irrelevant. Their role in home making is now shared with their man because a single income home is no longer feasible for most people today. However what is a man's traditional role? Provision, protection, leadership. His role is not switched to a woman's, it's not shared with a woman's either he is beholden to what was always expected of men on top of now sharing her duties.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 12:13 PM
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LOL. I remember yeeaars ago a guy posted a thread on askwomen about how to talk to women on a date or something to that effect because he seems to not have very similar interests. They said to ask her questions about topics she might enjoy more rather than "sports or stocks". Thread ended. I made a thread right after that asking them to elaborate on what types of questions or topics do women enjoy more? Mod got upset and deleted it. Insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:30 AM
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I remember watching that Jubilee (?) vid about cheater vs cheated ons and the prompt was something like "Would you date someone who has cheated before?" Then it showed the results of the viewer poll. It was almost an even split iirc. Fucking humans istg.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:13 AM
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You just noticed the elephant in the room people won't address? Shine the mirror back at her until society changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 05:51 AM
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Han So Hee is my top but Ryu ain't ugly be real. He just ain't near the top of what Korea offers but women don't care for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:11 AM
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Height is maybe 2nd. Face has ALWAYS been king.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 03:55 AM
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No thanks I'd rather look younger. Sunscreen everyday people even if it's cloudy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 03:52 AM
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It sure does. My only issue is that the women who actually know that are few. If you talk to bloopers, left leaning men dating similar women which make up the societal norm now, you'll notice a trend that she can be divorced from her role but he's expected to maintain his. In places where western feminism has taken root abroad you'll get ladies who just freeze up when you mention it's meant to alleviate men from patriarchal expectations too. That of course is going to rub men the wrong way, espe…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 03:32 AM
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it's meant to be masculine to neotenous but they're all over the place
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 08:06 PM
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You hear women say things like women are more attractive than men on average. Maybe true before most men started putting some minimum effort in their appearance. Now? Without makeup, false eyelashes it's pretty even.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 07:09 PM
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That's interesting. Even ones done well where it looks "natural" to the untrained eye? Stuff that a lot of influencers get like nose, eyes, jaw? The intent behind my 2nd question was more about whether men were concerned about what their children would look like, morals against PS for vanity in general, or concerns over self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 01:41 PM
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A traditional woman doesn't exist unless you're wealthy which is a very small % of men. It'll be the same as the old days except she also has a job and you'll share household duties and child rearing. So yes it is code for wanting their life provided for because they should be smart enough to know it's not too realistic these days depending on lifestyle/kids. As for Chinese specific customs, the girls can ask for it if they fulfil their role that came with it. Issue is they're picking and choosi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 10:04 AM
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Q4M: If you got cash and you felt you "needed" it for attraction would you do plastic surgery? Seems like society has accepted it so why, why not? Do you have a plastic surgery limit on a girl for LTR/wife material?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 08:45 AM
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VirtuousLiberalMaiden
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 07:34 AM
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I agree but I guess you're making your own separate point or maybe you think she's doing that? It's the same as people body shaming those they dislike while being against it in principle. Disliking someone is the control and that's when most people struggle to be morally consistent. What I was talking about is guys making homosexual advances as jokes towards other but they're both straight. E.g. Guy on the daily thread asked how to practice kissing as he has a date coming and a guy responded "Wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:45 AM
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Are you guys old? Like X/Boomer? A lot of the homophobic sentiments I get from some women here seem to be from older women. What your husband and you are likely seeing are younger men "gay baiting" which is relatively new. They're completely straight and think it's funny to joke about being gay because they're comfortable in their masculinity. Some actual gay men have taken issue with this for the precise reason that they're straight but making a joke of their sexuality just in a non hostile way…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:07 AM
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Are you from the Netherlands? You must be an amazonian
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:44 AM
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My man! I bet you don't appreciate fine dining just like me for that reason
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:42 AM
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Yeah that's true, I've got my eye out. I shouldn't have said all are women it's actually only a handful of standouts and maybe a few less men. Sometimes you get dangerously close to losing yourself in them. Don't do it Laila!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 08:55 AM
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It does to certain women. They will rave on about it to the point it makes me uncomfortable. It makes me feel bad for actual average to short men. I'm 5'11 for instance. At this height most women don't really care. I know guys lie because they get insecure due to society. I actually lie downwards to see people's reaction and it matters. I'm a bit of an anomaly man on these boards if it wasn't obvious. I'm Asian myself. I'm still taller than a lot of white men here in Aus. Amongst the younger pop…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 08:30 AM
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I meant her saying 5'11 is still average. It'd depend where you're from, but it certainly is a little above. I'm assuming she's also from Aus like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 08:12 AM
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5’9 to 5’11 would be that much of a tangible difference. average male height It's over. Heightflation is real
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 06:13 AM
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REAL
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:42 AM
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I'm the woman respecter around these parts but is it a coincidence that, all these examples plus the ones I've noticed are all women? Scary~
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:41 AM
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You're the target demographic for those tiktoks where the guy sexually assaults his food while cooking aren't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:39 AM
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Are you nominating yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:32 AM
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When they don't know what to eat
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:57 AM
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Except for grandma. Shoutout grandma
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:44 AM
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Just marry a gymbro who only eats for macros not presentation or taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:41 AM
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After today, I'm convinced most of the cool people on PPD are on the daily thread. The others are unhinged opportunists who're two sides of the same coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:34 AM
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I've been saying this for a hot minute. Both genders problems and double standards exist because they enable them. A lot of the issues aren't inherently gendered but they're made to be due to socialization of gender norms. However in cases where men (attractive) get the privilege of women they act in very selfish ways outside of a select minority (sorry I don't have faith in humanity). This isn't changing without a huge reform. That's why I empathize with the disenfranchised men because their la…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 01:52 AM
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Own and ride horses More official racing and track riding. I'm into cars and motorcycles Owl sanctuary they're my spirit animal Mandate TRT to make trtgymbro proud
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 05:35 AM
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Nah I hate this. They just starfish and drunk (any drugs) girls turn me off especially if I'm sober. I'd rather the male version of this where you hit the gym, your test temporarily spikes and you bust through the door, metamorphosed into a caveman, she turns like a deer in headlights in the middle of watching a murder doc (women be watching some weird shit), and you throw her on the bed. Consensually of course :)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 05:25 AM
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you caught me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 05:08 AM
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My grandma has that bowl
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:30 AM
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Is it a coincidence that the reality stone is red?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 12:51 AM
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You'll get no disagreement from me there brother
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 11:31 AM
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I will back up what the other guy is saying. These people are getting comfortable online. Covid really screwed people. I'll have people add me on socials, attractive women, hell even men, mums. Not the people you'd think are socially awkward. They'll say something similar like wanting to hang out, it's been a long time since making friends. I'm super down for anything When it's go time they get cold feet. They think friends just pop out of thin air.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 08:48 AM
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courageous and unique or not caring what others think Awesome basically
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 07:31 AM
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oof this BASED woman just jumped out like the kool aid man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 07:14 AM
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Yup, the best girls were like this. It's not even gender exclusive. I have a friend that does use it to hookup but he also told me sometimes he just uses it for validation with no plans of meeting any of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 07:09 AM
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Wouldn't even bother. I don't even now. I'm the rather sleep with my girl 20 times a week than 20 new girls a week type of guy. Far from libido issue. I'm at 100% "close" but no doubt if I was doing what people are doing here it wouldn't be. I remember juggling a few girls and I felt mentally exhausted, like a second job. Plus I'm morally consistent there, I can't really respect randoms like that. If I bothered to get the n count to 500 I'm pretty sure my mind is going to blur the good girls fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 11:07 PM
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No. Even if it's true she will reject you for acting like it and you will if you keep thinking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 01:16 AM
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Grade "D" ain't no way hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:57 AM
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Are you an animal?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:46 AM
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Either that or in a relationship. Hookups don't necessarily make you better. If anything the frequent complaints are it sucks and you don't learn much because you're likely tipsy. You could even be "doing it right" but girls prefer different things. There's a lot men can improve in the confines of a relationship (without being judged) and experimenting with stuff you've read even if the idea of that isn't sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:44 AM
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What are you looking for? People at the club don't have the best reputation for long term. It's always been that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:30 AM
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What if he loves animals more than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:23 AM
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Women have this dominance fetish not me. Ask them. I pause and cringe when it's come out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:33 AM
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So in my life I've either had split or majority female friends. I'll say with women it's because they think you have an ulterior motive or that they also don't believe in M:F platonic relationships. Female friends as a man is super underrated for many reasons. If you live in abundance and don't want an N count of 500 or whatever it's easy to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:09 AM
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First thought when you heard it. Excited for who? That's your answer
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 12:51 AM
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I agree there isn't pushback. That's mainly men's fault. Men and women who talk about trying to get this to change are a minority. Men need to be convinced first that they'd be happier if it changed rather than double downing to reach 20% chad status and failing is the first hurdle.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 11:46 PM
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Tell us something we don't know. We are expected to be competent. Women were also socialized under patriarchy so we are held to rigid standards of masculinity. Those truly progressive and egalitarian about this are the minority but they are out there. They usually aren't young immature girls though that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 11:26 PM
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It's insecure but it's a valid emotion because she reasonably caused it. People acting like it's inherently an unreasonable emotion are wrong. If I'm at the VS after party and hot models are throwing it back around me and I'm not removing myself I'm going to expect my girl to be insecure. Same deal here. Women comfortable making comments like this do it more than once.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 07:04 AM
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I agree with Eulen in that it entirely depends. Also Asian grew up abroad so most didn't do the live in in-laws however just having that extra community is such a great thing and helpful. For reasons, that isn't the case anymore. None of the younger kids will really know their relatives, cousins, no sense of community and celebrations. I used to babysit and live for weeks as a young teen with my aunt and uncle and I was like their son before their son. I saw how stressed they were. It just depen…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:36 AM
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They're picking 2 duh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:56 AM
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The definition of preselection involves both. Does it not? The vetting and being chosen because of it happens at the same time. So other women subconsciously choose a man other women have vetted and will choose. One phenomenon that I've experienced (evo psych has a paper on this if you believe in it- I only believe some) that would go against simply being "chosen" as enough is if you've ever hung out with female friends that aren't conventionally attractive and then ones who are. The difference …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:30 AM
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I agree. It would be a disservice to the partner to have "settled" for them. However just as an observer I do honestly believe standards have got out of hand for things that really don't matter. People would likely realize they'd be happy if they just gave it a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:50 AM
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Both sides have their own biases. Men at night are dangerous is true. Same with the approach. Men are cheaters and fuckbois doesn't apply to me so I'm not offended, it's just venting. I know you're not arguing severity of consequences but just date women who align with you. The women I've dated fit that criteria. I have experienced that some of the women who are against those boundaries change their tune once the man they're dating is more attractive than them which is why some deliberately avoi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:24 AM
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Genuine good faith question. I'm not RP btw. Do you really find that to be the case? From what I observe men are more than happy for women to earn more than them but women typically aren't. We got all those funny tiktoks of men happily playing house husband if their hypothetical wife was the breadwinner. Despite that there's still a large negative social stigma to SAHD even in progressive countries. If there's some men that do feel emasculated can you really blame them? Men are expected to earn …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:53 AM
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It's MGTOW for women. I have girl friends from SK (I'm also Asian). This whole movement is far from the majority and the decline in birth rates has much more to do with money. Property is expensive there, all the good jobs are in Seoul (in a country of 51m), competition is high, people spend money they don't have on luxury because of status and the fact they don't foresee owning property in Seoul at any reasonable timeframe outside of marrying rich. I don't think much will change if it came to A…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:14 AM
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Still this strategy is explicitly performance based. It’s not as confusing and random as looking for true love. And you can work and improve yourself without worrying about everything becoming conditional on performance. Because you already understand everything is based on your performance/physique/attractiveness That is exactly how I've come to terms with it. As I said if I didn't perform then there's nothing to like about me that they couldn't find in someone else. A woman who loved me would …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:38 AM
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Since there's no studies it's just all anecdotal. In my experience it's leaned towards there being a correlation but i'm also usually looking for other accompanying attributes like mental health issues, personality before I make a judgement. I see them like tattoos or any other appearance or behaviour. You are different from what is "normal" so that must say something about your personality if you're willing to go against the grain. It's not necessarily the item itself. For example we judge men …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 11:38 PM
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Aren't you overcomplicating it? I see it all as diminishing returns, there's a baseline level of everything you must meet. You're asking what gives you access to relationships or sex the easiest but maintaining it is entirely different. Access is by far sexuality as you call it and personality maintains it. It's the old adage looks get you in the door, personality keeps you in. You're getting stuck in the idea of "paying for love" but all your attributes and the things you've done to obtain it r…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 11:15 PM
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He's saying you need to be top 5% of male attractiveness for women to accept you approaching. He wonders what other people think the % is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 12:55 AM
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You still finished? My lord. o7
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 11:18 PM
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In your scenario there's no other proposition. If he's forced to buy love he might as well go younger and more attractive. He's hoping she actually likes him for him of course. About the other commenter talking about an alternative form of attraction in sugar relationships, I'm not sure if that is most common. I just know of the girls I know who did partake in it, when they were with me they didn't say nice things about those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 08:38 AM
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Isn't the moralistic judgement from considering it nasty and reckless? I have a more nuanced stance on this based on my lived experience but I do understand people these days like to think it says nothing or everything about you. I think the truth is it sometimes does which comes with knowing the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 08:20 AM
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I agree with almost everything you said. I had a feeling it was from Chris' channel. My only disagreement is I believe that the bitterness comes down to the fact we've worked to break gender roles but not for men. This is especially true of certain demographics. People forget both men and women were socialized under patriarchy. The problem is the majority of men and to a lesser but still substantial amount of women expect men to uphold gender normative behaviours. There's no fight for change her…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 07:44 AM
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I think the way i see it is like racists. They'll never be gone and they'll always be crazy but we do our best to mitigate or ignore and partner up with people who aren't lunatics. That's the real us vs them. Non crazy men and women vs the crazies. You unsurprisingly run into some pleasant people that way, who woulda thought?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:37 AM
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this came out of nowhere it became funny
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:53 PM
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When you meet a woman that is really into you. There's no mistake. There's no paragraphs overanalyzing and rationalizing her behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:37 PM
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It's just pre selection. If it's worse now it's only because dating and finding people who are serious is even harder than before. As a niche there are some women who get off on being chosen over the taken woman. It also exists sometimes when multiple women are competing for you when single. She'll leave you soon after proving her point though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:23 PM
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Honestly, a lot of the complaints about some kind of double standard are just enabled by men. Yeah I said it. If you're 6'5 why not date the 6' girl? Idc about height but if I had to sit there and build a bear an attractive woman I'd pick taller over shorter. Like a VS model.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 09:11 AM
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This is exactly how I interpret it so my pet peeve is that situationship became a descriptor. It shouldn't exist regardless of which gender is "fuck zoned". If it's the rarer commitment issues you are just single with commitment issues. If you're not intending to commit it's FWB. The only reason for a separate label would be if it was common knowledge it still meant you were exclusive but trying to get together aka the boomer, "it's complicated" relationship status.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:46 PM
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What’s interesting is that from what I’ve oberseved, men with a lot of women friends tend to usually have women falling all over them. Even if they aren’t like, Gigachad lol I believe in mate choice copying even if he's already attractive. It's something I observed myself as a boy even if research isn't conclusive. I think what worked for me is that I am buff with masculine hobbies so I'm stereotyped but it's a pleasant surprise when I turn out the opposite personality wise. I agree, those men e…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 09:42 PM
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Most can't remain purely platonic and have ulterior motives as you can see in the comments. I'm a man but an outlier in that aspect but women know this. Only reason I have more female friends is because the toxically masculine men (dickheads, love to start fights, make ignorant remarks) grate me. Given enough time, it will come to blows. It's also interesting to hear different perspectives from each other. What "box" a woman is in is immediate. If I'm intending to date her and it doesn't work ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 07:31 PM
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