| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 6 | Ghosted?! What can I do to get past this?Has it been at least 6 months of dating him? | /r/askFDS | 17/09/20 09:39 AM |
| 4 | Very cute!That was so cool!! 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 06:16 AM |
| 11 | Ghosted?! What can I do to get past this?He is not a HVM, you haven't even met him. He is just another LVM loser | /r/askFDS | 17/09/20 06:06 AM |
| 8 | 5 months pregnant, husband blames me for everything and is texting exesYou should really read the handbook, doing absolutely everything for this LVM and going way beyond what is expected to make him happy has landed you in an abusive marriage where he is trying to also cheat. You gain nothing from this, he won't change. Do you want your child to grow up with this trash as a father? | /r/askFDS | 17/09/20 06:05 AM |
| 20 | What do you guys think? Did I make the right choice?100% the right choice, he is probably cheating. | /r/askFDS | 17/09/20 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.I would like to be able to comment, I read FDS daily... But not the biggest poster :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 05:58 AM |
| 84 | “I pReFeR gIrLs WiThOuT mAkEUp”They say this, but always go for girls wearing make up. One of my male friends constantly said he prefers girls without make up, but on Tinder didn't swipe on a single woman that didn't have 2 hours spend on her look. Actions>words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 05:37 AM |
| 3 | What's your best HVM story?I don't think I can pick just one thing he has done as my favourite, so I will just mention a few off the top of my head 😊 I play a certain game and they have splits and pro play....which of course I watch and follow. My boyfriend has never played this game, but he started watching them with me, read up on the game and champions and actively roots for a team he liked. Made us T-shirts to support our teams on worlds last year! He was buying clothes 3 weeks ago and called me to pick some for mysel… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 12:24 PM |
| 19 | Put out always or go to hell - helpful advice from RPWFucking bullshit. So according to her he I'd always ready for her and never refuses her(bet you she is never the one begging for sex), OK then sis, fuck him 10 times a day. Let's see if he doesn't refuse then. He will tap out after one, the Alpha Chad that he is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 12:03 PM |
| 5 | Would you date Damaged guy ?Oh yeah he was totally "burned", he is preemptively making this shit up so you feel bad asking for anything. Next thing you know you are splitting everything 50-50 and being "not like other girls" 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 01:39 PM |
| 1 | What makes a man boring?Being interesting isn't about following a script, become an interesting person | /r/askFDS | 24/03/20 08:46 PM |
| 12 | Is it too soon for both? 32m, 30fSo she is being a good friend and you immediately thought about how to fuck her. | /r/askFDS | 24/03/20 01:46 PM |
| 7 | What makes a man boring?Asks boring questions(how was your day, how's the weather.... Etc.), doesn't ask anything about me and his answers to my questions are one worded or not open ended. Has no hobbies/passions, just mindlessly goes to work then home, maybe goes out during the weekend to get wasted 🤢 Is fucking stupid | /r/askFDS | 24/03/20 01:45 PM |
| 11 | I am a nerd, how can I market this? And improve from here?The VERY basic one would be to take her to a restaurant for a first date, a good one. Other dates can involve things like board game cafes, the theater, a movie.... There are so many things to do in the city. Anything that shows me he has put in the effort and gone the extra mile, bonus points if it's something I have wanted to do. | /r/askFDS | 23/03/20 03:33 PM |
| 15 | I am a nerd, how can I market this? And improve from here?The dates you want are low effort and cheap. HVW don't go strolling in the park while a literal stranger wants to take their pictures. To be honest, along with your other eccentricities, even pickmeishas wouldnt date you. You are way too low energy/effort and you should really work on that. Good luck. | /r/askFDS | 23/03/20 03:18 PM |
| 4 | I am a nerd, how can I market this? And improve from here?So what would you consider date ideas where you don't get overwhelmed? | /r/askFDS | 23/03/20 01:44 PM |
| 8 | I am a nerd, how can I market this? And improve from here?You sound pretty boring to me. Except for "intellectual conversations" what else do you plan to do with someone? | /r/askFDS | 23/03/20 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Don't fix a man, but what about redecorating?I am conflicted on that one. Most men I know or just see outside are dressed like fucking hobos. My boyfriend when we met was wearing ill-fitting clothes and had the worst haircut imaginable. After almost 4 years together he looks amazing, got into male fashion(to please me) and got the haircut I recommended and like on him. As long as a man is receptive to "advice" and follows thru I don't give a fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 08:55 PM |
| 14 | Texting etiquette: for younger members (18-30) Do you reply to all texts when talking to a guy ?Absolutely not. If he can't be bothered to hold his end of the conversation he gets left on read. You can train them like a dog this way and they start actually trying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 08:51 PM |
| 9 | I feel I missed out and will be shamed if I want the same things everyone else had.Let me be super clear.... You will never be desired like that. At best you can have a few women that would be OK going out with you if you paid for every date. That's it. You don't offer them anything. If you weren't hot 20 years ago, what makes you think you are hotter now that you are old? And divorced and wanting to act like a 17 year old. All of those are turn offs | /r/askFDS | 22/03/20 08:01 PM |
| 10 | I feel I missed out and will be shamed if I want the same things everyone else had.Would you still want to "casually date" if it didn't involve any sex? I am guessing not. So you want a free prostitute....multiple ones actually. It's just not gonna happen | /r/askFDS | 22/03/20 05:17 PM |
| 2 | A question from a short guyThat's such a silly question. "Why do hot people get better treatment in life? Personality should win! " People with desirable traits get better treatment, we all know this. Absolutely pointless obsessing over one tiny characteristic of yours that isn't perfect 🤷 | /r/askFDS | 12/03/20 09:04 AM |
| 19 | As u/circecircus beautifully posted earlier, HVM don’t begrudge women from being selective and picky. This here is the mentality of the average alt-right LVM male on Reddit who will call FDS a hate sub and blame everything wrong with society on women and minorities. Steer clear of them!That's a lot of words to say he is lazy, poor and wants to marry someone hotter then himself. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 06:40 AM |
| 6 | What are your "requirements"/standards for a man?*Full head of hair (baldness is just not gonna work for me) 5'6-5'8(basically around my height) Great job Impeccable hygiene In great shape Reads books Has real hobbies he cares about Has friends, that aren't trashcans Nerd (I am into video games, comic books, superheroes and all things nerdy, I can't date someone who isn't) Is OK with me leading *Childfree Wants to travel There is a lot of things I look for, but I don't think any of them are unreasonable. I have also found someone that fits all… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 11:22 AM |
| 1 | Anyone not necessarily looking to get married?In my country getting married brings me nothing. If I divorce some LMV I would get literally nothing, child support(if I even get it) would be about 15$ a month. On that note I am also childfree, so no point in tying myself to someone. The only person I have ever even considered marrying is my current boyfriend and that's only so we can buy an apartment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 06:16 AM |
| 8 | Do you have any stories of LVM that crashed and burned later in life?He was GORGEOUS when we dated, had a good job, amazing body, full head of hair. He also had no style(he actually went to work one time with a giant hole in his T-shirt), was an immature moron (thought that mint bubblegum did the same as brushing your teeth) and tried to change me into what he wanted in a girlfriend. Well 6 years after we broke up he is still as single as ever and as a bonus got so fat. He tried to get back together with me a couple of years ago, but I have happily moved on with … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 06:12 AM |
| 9 | Speed dating, other ways to meet single men? Your thoughts? I’m over OLDIt's probably a lot different here, but I went on a ton of those events when I was single. There is always a shortage of women participating here and the dudes are more or less the same 20-30 guys that go every time. They are so LMV that literally no woman picks them. I also went to bigger singles parties and while it felt a bit more organic meeting people, the guys are extremely shy/creepy and stood in corners ogling the women and waiting on someone to come woo them... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 06:58 AM |
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