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It was popular, and some people took the story to be part of their personality. It's usually because they have nothing else to believe in and nothing else going on in their empty lives.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/05/19 06:02 PM
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I'm sure that you never overlooked women who were into you Great, go make a sub about it instead of just bitching and tearing down other people's work.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/19 01:08 AM
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She's clearly not experiencing financial abuse, otherwise she'd unstick herself in a New York minute and collect that sweet alimony she's owed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/04/19 11:52 PM
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A permanent track record of poor life decisions and long term planning.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/19 09:58 PM
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so as not to spook the guy if he’s not on the same page as you. If he's not on the same page as you, why are you dating him? What an idiot! Then she realizes if she wants something, she must ask for it. Wow! Isn't this something people learn when they're, like, 3?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/19 09:12 PM
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but love and relationships aren't just about your value as a person or your chad / hotness rating They ultimately determine what you can get. And maybe all you can get is a trashy single mom.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/19 07:09 PM
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As an uneducated single mother working part time?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/19 06:54 PM
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What could possibly go wrong with sticking your dick in crazy?!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/19 06:45 PM
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How is it cruel? She's already asked the questions, he gave her his answers. Apparently they were good enough to her, so she's still with him. If they were not acceptable, she should have left him for someone more appropriate. Someone who wants to be married to her and wants to have children with her. If it's important to her, it's her job to establish these metrics, and leave if they're not being met. He's found someone to give him what he needs. It's her job to find someone to give her what sh…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/19 12:27 AM
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From her other comments: she will consider giving him another chance if he wants to come back. hahahaha, the delusion!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/19 08:54 PM
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I know they exist, because my brother's been with one for ten years And it's a double edged sword. I have no doubt that MOST people here agree such women exist, but the reason we say AWALT is that society and laws are setup in such a way that any time she stops feeling that way, she has all the tools to walk away and make you pay for it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/19 08:50 PM
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No need to be skeptical. Just swing by (har har) any of the polyamory subs. A third of the posts are exactly this, a third are about how to deal with jealousy and feelings, and the rest is self-delusion and pep-talks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/19 08:45 PM
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...and?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/19 08:38 PM
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Right, because the most fertile place on earth got that way because the men have high standards. Get off your high horse.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/19 07:37 PM
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Same thing with Japan's "herbivore men". Not one single article that I have read on the subject has bothered to interview even one such "herbivore man" to ask one simple question: "but why?" Somehow, they all offered their theories about the problem (blame the men) and their solutions (require the men to change). No one cares why men are choosing to opt out, or what THEY can do to entice them back.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/19 07:13 PM
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I'm with the other guy too. I've known lots of sponsors who brought in immigrants, some of who turned out to be turkeys, and no one's been held liable for shit. They scare you with that stuff and tons of paperwork to that effect, but no one ever takes it seriously. Mostly, because the departments responsible for welfare don't (and can't) talk to the ones responsible for immigration. You're basically evaluated for your ability to theoretically support people you bring in. It's an empty threat tha…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/19 12:38 AM
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I don't think that's trait exclusive to "brown girls". There are some women who realize it takes two to grow and build up together, when they're younger. It's easier to do well professionally and personally when you have support and encouragement at home and don't have to worry about the home stuff, and it's easier to run the household when you have a steady stream of money coming in. These days, I doubt even these women are doing anything other than just roping you in tighter. But once they get…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/19 12:26 AM
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Ex was obviously beta bux. 10 years married, so she settled in early/mid 30s for whomever she could rope in long enough to pump out a couple of kids. Now they're out of diapers and in school, it was time for the good old "the love is gone/we've grown apart" divorce rape, and now she's finding life as an "independent strong woman" (ie a functional adult) is harder than the feminists let on. This is a Bailout, not Entitlement Princess (aren't they all...).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/19 11:45 PM
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For someone who's about to be in a wheelchair, a height requirement IS stupid.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/19 04:43 PM
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She says she's a recent widow.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/19 10:46 PM
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Funny how all these older women who are constantly told they look decades younger can't seem to find any men... That's SOOOO weird! It's almost like they're delusional, or something.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/19 10:39 PM
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Hey, 30 is the new 20! 40 is the new 30! Ahh.... no, feminism has not defeated biology OR math, yet. Last I checked, 30 is still 30. They keep trying though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/19 06:21 PM
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Depends on whether he increases her own status. If he does, she will settle for the betabux (doctor, engineer, etc). Otherwise, she will not, and will end up with cats. A no name guy from accounting doesn't do anything for her. He would for some, but not for this one. She's too educated and sophisticated.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/19 06:03 PM
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Her earrings just weren't dangly enough!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/19 09:05 PM
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Anyone who googles her name is running the other way as fast as possible.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/19 09:01 PM
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Who's upvoting this shit? Do none of you have Google?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/19 07:38 PM
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Profit?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/19 06:50 PM
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His response was priceless though. He offered her more pump & dump, and she's over the moon for it! I also love how she blames him for not "making it clear" he just wanted something casual... if it's that important to her, why didn't she say/ask up front what she was looking for?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/19 01:54 AM
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The overlap between "woman stronger than man" is so tiny, probably fewer than "over 6 feet tall". She looks tall though, and I'm sure short men need not apply, but every tall guy is going to be way stronger than she is. There might be, MIGHT BE, one man on the planet who fits all her criteria, if you remove some of the contradictory items, and then he has to like her... but why would he?!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/19 12:50 AM
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Spontaneous and a planner. Be fit, but not too fit, or look fit, or be into any sports or be a runner. Probably, spending any time at the gym is a big no no too. Reminds me of https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qbJOLq5wXwk
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/19 12:42 AM
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You get better at sex through having multiple partners. Citation required. You get better at sex the same way you get better at anything: doing more of it. You won't get better at building tables by building chairs. You won't get better at sex with your wife by having sex with women 1-20. You get better at sex by having more sex. You get better at pleasing your partner sexually by having more sex with your partner. There is little transference of sex skills from partner to partner, beyond the ba…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/19 12:15 AM
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Neither a bailout (teacher in most places is very good employment, and lots of help with kids) nor will she have a problem finding someone to latch onto. Just your basic bitch CC rider.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/19 12:00 AM
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Username alone indicates female.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/19 10:44 PM
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If anything, I spend money because I’m washing all my bedding to make sure it’s perfect But it's totally not because she wants them there for sex. Also, even if she has to use coin laundry, that's less than a buck for a wash and dry. She considers that "spending money" on the guy. If a guy spent ONE DOLLAR on her, and then complained about basic household cleaning and hygiene tasks, she wouldn't even consider him worthy of spitting on. Oh no, she had to clean her place because company was coming…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/19 09:17 PM
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In fact considering she is out of options I would expect her to be even more submissive. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/19 08:09 PM
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Looks like the guy does not want her and that is fine. He does want her, for sex. And no, it is not fine. She is deeply hurt. This guy hurt her. Even though they both entered the relationship on a non-committal "lets see what happens" basis, then started having "great sex", thus establishing the nature of the relationship, and she kept it going for 6 months, hoping she could put in enough sex tokens to get commitment. She's trying to make it seem like a relationship between equals, and the break…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/03/19 09:46 PM
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Wow, and she didn't think a suspended license was a red flag, and it only became an issue when it directly affected her in the immediate? Way to raise your kids.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/03/19 05:53 PM
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There's the reckless lie that is sold to men claiming that a dual-income household (man and woman) will result in a better quality of living. The opposite will happen Of course. Sure, you will live in a bigger house (thus saving nothing anyways), but otherwise all your other expenses rise.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/19 09:03 PM
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Hmm, get pregnant, get free house from the government. Nah, I'm sure no one would take advantage of that!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/19 08:53 PM
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Nothing is free. You're paying somehow, even if it's not directly monetary. Even just putting up with her drama and bullshit is taxing enough. If you're well off enough that you're attracting gold diggers, $500 is just a good night out. Despite what you may think, gold diggers know what they're doing, you won't get to pump and dump them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/19 07:44 PM
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They have no accountability for it starting either. IT ALL JUST HAPPENED!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/19 06:29 PM
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Relatively less common. But it's cute you think it somehow magically doesn't happen there. Women get executed for infidelity in some muslim countries, and they still sleep around. AWALT
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/19 10:54 PM
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Maybe he doesn't care if his pump & dump has a dozen kids?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/19 10:40 PM
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Already looks like a melting ice cream cone, and that picture is probably older than a year.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/19 12:15 AM
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This is such pessimistic and defeatist view, and again shifting the blame to men and their "unrealistic", patriarchal standards. Preferences are not absolute. Men's or women's. Few men can become millionaires, when clearly most women would prefer one. Few men can become ripped like Chris Hemsworth, even though most women would prefer that. No men can become taller, or grow more hair, even though most women would prefer it. Would most men prefer a hot 19 year old virgin? Sure. But so what? When d…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/19 05:00 AM
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Statistically speaking, we're not all average, we're distributed on a curve. Some are above, some below. Half are below MEDIAN, half are above.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/19 04:27 AM
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Nah, she's got orbiters, but they always try to find a Chad to commit before heading that route. Being pregnant and single mom ultimately rules out Chads in the long run.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/19 12:42 AM
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The whole point of civilized society is to reign in the base instincts without the use of force and coercion. That is one major benefit of religion, even if you don't believe in a god. All those dumbasses who will argue with you about flat earth and vaccines, you won't be able to argue with with about keeping their pants on until marriage either. But if some holy text says so....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/19 12:00 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rksKvZoUCPQ
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/19 11:42 PM
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The CC is always equal opportunity. BB is not.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/19 11:35 PM
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Popularity: Average This is amazing, I think I have yet to see a single post from this app with popularity anything other than High. This must be the first one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/19 11:28 PM
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SJWs are on a hamster wheel of escalation. They need to become more and more crazy and extreme in order to cover up the insanity their cognitive dissonance is driving them too. They see boogeymen behind every corner, in every shadow. Eventually, this fear and distrust and hate spreads to the people they, purportedly, love. How can you say all men are rapists, and then be married to one, live in the same house and sleep in the same bed? Then they're shocked, shocked! when those people get fed up …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/19 09:21 PM
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It's just a shit test and filtering/projection. Cold asking someone out on a date is considered rude. You read it in all such posts: why are you asking me out on a date, you don't know me, you don't know who I am, and I don't know you. So you learn quickly, and when you see a girl you like you try to get to know her first, wait for an opportune moment, and pop the question. Then you get: oh, you weren't really my friend, you had ulterior motives! But really, if the woman found you attractive in …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/19 07:16 PM
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Who hurt you, m'lady? Drug addiction at such a young age is usually a sign of deep damage and dysfunctional upbringing, no mention of a father and a string of bad boys tells us all we need to know. She might well have been a de facto sex worker, or exchanging sex for drugs, because what uneducated, unemployed 20 year old can afford to feed a drug addiction. She doesn't want to be judged by her past actions and decisions = very bad news for you. Oh, by the way, YOU will definitely be judged for y…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/19 02:21 AM
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Attract the women, men will follow. Lots of business survive on that principle.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/03/19 09:32 PM
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And? That just speaks to the length of the relationship.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/03/19 06:57 AM
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Only real men operate forklifts?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/19 01:09 AM
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We're just rediscovering ancient wisdom, which took generations of men to discover and document. The internet has allowed this knowledge to flourish again.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/19 02:05 AM
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We were all ambitions.... in our 20s. Now we're in a comfortable place, and realize we don't need to kill ourselves at work. If she wanted an ambitious go-getter, she should have been dating him at 20, when he had nothing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/19 01:34 AM
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This is just simple game theory. Like the prisoner's dilema, if none break, all benefit, but the first one to break benefits the most. Unfortunately for those women, by the time they realize this, they've (collectively) already been training men for 15+ years in what it takes to get sex. Although it would benefit all women if women stopped slutting it up, the biggest sluts get to benefit the most; they get to ride the CC, and if they manage the transition properly, they get to lock down the BB t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/19 12:34 AM
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She wants chad to send her flowers and "good morning beautiful" texts. But chad doesn't need to.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/19 03:11 AM
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Chicks love a guy that shows signs of being willing to face death to get what he wants. It's got nothing to do with that. A coal miner faces death to get what he wants. Thugs display fake alpha characteristics, which easily fools most women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/19 02:49 AM
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"Only". I suppose you would say no to a raise if it was "only" 9%?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/19 02:45 AM
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No friends either. Massive red flag. Probably BP.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/19 01:32 AM
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Any fertility clinic has all the statistics you want. That's why they want your eggs in your early 30s, at the latest, and IVF after 40 is like russian roulette. Now what women are starting to talk about UNfreezing their eggs, you find lots of stories of 36-38 year olds unable to conceive.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/19 12:51 AM
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Everyone keeps taking about becoming "wiser", but I have yet to hear a single solid example. Literally a single one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/19 12:39 AM
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There appears to be one behind her!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/19 10:35 PM
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In the year 2019 we have clean drinking water that comes out of the tap.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/19 10:33 PM
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She's just learning this at 40? Also, she writes like a 12 year old.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/19 08:58 PM
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You can't see her face, how is she cute?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/19 04:22 AM
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"This relationship won't give me what I want. I am moving on." -- Hitler, probably.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/19 12:47 AM
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BIG, if true.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/19 12:43 AM
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We don't need numbers and genetic diversity to continue the race. We won the top predator game. But we do need to stop breeding stupid people before civilization unwinds.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/19 12:03 AM
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Disagree. Know of at least two "traditional" families, only the guy works (they make about the same as I do, well under 250k), wife sahm, 4-6 kids, parents living at home too. In one of the most expensive cities in NA.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/19 10:16 PM
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Or I guess they were just side casualties, their lives weren't that important Untermenschen, unworthy of the promised future.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/19 10:15 PM
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Italian is a useless language to learn for our subject.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/19 10:12 PM
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Mostly it means you're spending time, money, effort and attention on things which do not benefit her or her children. So that needs to be stamped out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/19 04:15 AM
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And let everything fall naturally into place Ie, dating for women. If everything's just naturally falling into place for you, that's because one of you is busting their ass.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/19 03:59 AM
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Jesus.... we really have to walk on eggshells around you princesses, don't we. You're not the first one to publicly boycott the sub, don't feel too special. Nothing wrong with some banter! Until there is. Only took a couple of hours to do a 180. AWALT You can't be "on" 24x7. Nature always wins. AWALT Like dating a BPD who has it "under control". You can overrule what your hormones, feelings and brain tell you to do with education, self knowledge and reason for only so long, before it becomes con…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/19 01:47 AM
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I mentioned this above but riddle me this if women are so fucking proud of their children and 'its their world' and they are 'the best thing ever' why do we have so many abortions happening? Mind you they are killing their own children they are... not the father the grand father but they and its as we hear so often 'their body their choice!' so i don't think we can place this blame anywhere. They think they can make a better creation. Like a man who winds down a startup he doesn't want to dump a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/19 12:57 AM
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You need to take some time away from the internet and relax. A woman's emotional state is, literally, everything. All woman's decisions are driven by how she is feeling at the moment. If she's sad, depressed, anxious and overwhelmed, she will abort easily. Most women go on to deeply regret their abortions, which only hilites how little rational thought women put into long term, irreversible life decisions, and how then they need to absolve themselves of responsibility so they don't feel bad abou…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/19 12:42 AM
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its pretty idiotic to take it specifically as a sign of degeneracy. Good chance you will get it if you are banging multiple past the age of 30. Indiscriminately banging multiple people IS a sign of degeneracy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/19 11:37 PM
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I doubt her financial situation is all that great. The comments there are a goldmine. There's one Carol that claims she's got her shit together, including finances. Scratching her comment history, we see she's got $75k student debt, which she is not paying off, she is traveling instead. Been to 20 countries. Her "have my shit together" financial plan is to wait out the repayment period, and declare bankruptcy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/19 05:02 AM
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It is the year 2019 today, yes? We didn't just time travel to 20190BC?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/19 05:00 AM
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This is correct. This story is a repost, I even posted about it back then, although the OP has cleaned up his post history since then. It's either a troll or a trans crying whale tears.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/19 02:13 AM
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Well, guilty as charged. They're free to judge me on the number of out of wedlock children I've produced.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/19 01:57 AM
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I've got better things to do with me time than impressing women. Like playing video games. That would be a better use of my time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/19 01:37 AM
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No, it's even more basic than that. Everyone's getting hung up on her being a virgin. That's ultimately irrelevant. She's indistinguishable from the hundreds of women we've seen here... educated, accomplished, 40 and single. The older they get, the higher standards they have and the more picky they become. She's made the journey from "Strong Independent Woman" to "Leftovers". Next stop: "Catlady".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/19 01:31 AM
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A recent Korean drama had a young successful guy going for a single unmarried woman approaching 40, that could almost be his mother. No, she didn't have any children, that's too much for Koreans, but plenty of modern dramas star single mothers, they're just not being rabidly pursued by younger men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/19 01:14 AM
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The difference is that the ones who attempt to be decent human beings will try unbelievably hard to fight and ignore those feelings. My ex was like that, and the reason I didn't learn this lesson sooner. No, they just end up using it against you when you're at your lowest point.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/19 12:17 AM
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I mean, probably easier than digging for coal. It's indoors, it's flexible, it's comfortable. It's time consuming, it's boring and repetitive. Why does it have to be easy? No job is easy, that's why it's a job and not a hobby. But it's a damn sight easier than going out in a -40 degree ice storm to fix power lines. The first electric washing machine was introduced in 1908. The first effective respirator for coal miners was introduced (and/or legally mandated) when? (exercise left for the reader)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/19 12:15 PM
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They have no valid reason to do it. He's demonetized though, that's about all they can do.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/19 12:08 PM
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If you're a single guy in your 30s whose choices are CC rejects and single moms, you're NOT in her target demographic.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/19 11:52 AM
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The name of the sub is "where are all the good men" not "where are all the virgins". It's not about the sex. It's her ludicrous standards. She's surrounded by alpha olympians and their entourages 24x7, and expects to find one that's christian and marriage minded among them, that is ok with not having sex for years. But, in 15 years, not a single one has presented himself. At some point you have to ask a very pointed "why?" That's why she's a leftover. Her prince is not on this planet. There are …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/19 11:40 AM
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So how fucked up is it that, in the end, she still 'won'? Did she though? https://www.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/aq0013/35_year_old_blogger_hits_the_wall_and_she_decides/egcufbb/
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/02/19 01:23 AM
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There are plenty of flags here (sahm, "my world", smokes, drugs, no car, no education, hair color/no hair, "just ask me", etc), but she's not complaining about anything, or making demands, or valuing herself outrageously.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/02/19 12:16 AM
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I feel both r/MGTOW and r/TheRedPill lack focus and proper moderation, and the hordes upvote nonsense to the top.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/19 10:55 PM
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Well, she gets a lovely boyfriend, what now?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/19 03:39 AM
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There's no such thing as "slow metabolism". If you're an apple's worth of calories difference from other people your weight/height/activity, seek medical attention immediately, or patent your body because it's a miracle of science.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/19 03:36 AM
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Short and fat.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/19 03:33 AM
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It's all about attention seeking. Doesn't need no man, but desperate for a long term relationship. Not getting any attention from men in real world, goes on hookup apps. Wants a committed long term relationship, talks to 20 year olds. And the best compliment they give her is "talks in complete sentences".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/19 08:46 PM
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in reality it is men who go after hot younger girls In reality it is hot younger girls who go after older men. Or are women not responsible for their decisions and actions? If women didn't want "hookup culture", it would cease to exist overnight.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/19 08:43 PM
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No one engaged, no one complied, no one bent the knee. Absolutely toxic.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/19 09:32 PM
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You pot smokers are so embarrassing...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/19 09:18 PM
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It's a figure of speech and an analogy, not an equivalency. It's not weird at all.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/19 08:56 PM
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I'd be interested in knowing the divorce rate amongst DINKs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/19 08:44 PM
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Attractive Smokes often and all pictures are overexposed and blurry/filtered from one angle with lots of makeup. Definitely not attractive.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/19 08:33 PM
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"Some college" and "has children" = got knocked up in college.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/19 08:28 PM
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Just like women "offering" to pay for themselves on a date. It's just an empty gesture, and they get super pissy if you take them up on it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/19 08:24 PM
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You don't have to be wealthy to have children. Just responsible. I know a couple of families that are raising 4+ kids on a single income. You know how they're doing it? They're not divorced, and the dad goes ham at work to bring home the bacon. If you're on welfare, and can barely put a roof over your head on a good day, maybe bringing new life into your world is not a fantastic idea.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/19 02:55 AM
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"Open marriage" will quickly be on the table.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/19 02:33 AM
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This is all true, but these things only have value if you get married in your early/mid 20s. After that, guess what... I wash my own laundry, I cook my own dinner, and I do my own budget and taxes. My career's well on its way, and my life is setup how I like it. I'm not setup to share it with someone else, or to build a life together with someone else. The opportunity to do that has come and gone. What does a woman bring to my life now, except sex (which I can already get semi-reliably very easi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/19 09:18 PM
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Women just refuse to accept that they have power (and thus responsibility) in this area. They definitely have privilege. A young woman, even a not so attractive one, has power. She did not earn it. She just has it. She has it whether she wants it or not, whether she likes it or not. That is the definition of privilege. Hookup culture could end overnight. Sex before commitment could end overnight. Tinder could cease to exist overnight. If only women wanted it and put their vaginas where their mou…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/19 09:14 PM
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Edit: there we go, this one, wonderlandgirl. Deleted her account. Exact same situation, exact same language and wording used. A few months ago is when she went full retard, and even people outside this sub caught on to her bullshit. https://www.reddit.com/user/wonderlandgirl111 https://www.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/8vhr6n/shes_a_former_model_educated_wealthy_dates_down/ This sounds like that troll that used to post on dating subs... she used to provide lots of material here. Al…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/19 09:04 PM
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No date's gone past the 3rd and every time i think a guy is interested after sex I'm old fashioned honestly. Hahahahahahahahahahaha!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/19 03:21 AM
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She’s already a great mom. There's just always that assumption that women are great moms. You see that everywhere. A TV show where there's family conflict or something and the woman ends up with the kid(s), everyone tells her what a great mom she is or will be. Why? She's a woman, of course she will be! It comes naturally, no effort required. Take any random Law & Order SVU episode. (In fact, if you want to feel like shit just for being a man, make sure this show is on your "must watch" list.) S…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/19 12:07 AM
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Once a year is "sometimes".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/19 11:56 PM
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These guys on Tinder are probably the top 10% Chads No they're not, they're low effort opportunists. A top 10% would not be dating her for months, and if she were hot enough to get a Chad for that long, she'd get plenty of attention in real life, which she does not. She's probably average at best, insecure and low self esteem, will take anyone she deems attractive who gives her the time of day.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/19 05:06 AM
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I'm 68f and I honestly think I look as good, maybe better than I did in my 30s. 68 is the new 18!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/19 01:36 AM
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Nice guy behavior is not about "winning her over". It's about trying to gauge whether she is attracted to you or not, in a safe manner. You might say "just ask her out plainly", but more risk averse suitors will try to eliminate some risk. They don't want to cut ties with the woman, so they hang around, but they don't want to ask her out just yet. You may see this as less effective/ineffective behavior, but is it? It's definitely not very effective in today's social and dating meta.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 06:16 AM
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Yup, always a shortage of eligible men, never a shortage of attractive women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/19 04:44 AM
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Just another point along the trend of women looking and acting like men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/19 11:24 PM
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Whether a tattoo is trashy or well done is highly subjective. No one who ever got a tattoo done set out to get a trashy one. No woman has ever said "oh yeah! this totally maximizes my skank factor, lets do it!" In any case, it's irrelevant, they will all look trashy and terrible after mid-40s at the latest, regardless of how they started out, ie, poor decision making and lack of long term thinking and planning.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/19 11:08 PM
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We're just taking her at her word when she says she's disabled.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/19 05:50 AM
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Women make most car buying decisions.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/19 05:13 AM
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Only 1 sentence in the entire treatise dedicated to this fact: I’m at the age where I’ll likely need to settle for someone who is settling for me Just a lot of words about how all the men are damaged, boring and defective, and how perfect she is in her single parenthood.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/19 05:10 AM
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The reality is that the degeneracy of women is perpetuated by the guys who feel the need to hump and dump. The proclivity of guys to "hump and dump" is because women let them. You know what it's called when they don't? Rape. The "degeneracy" is self-inflicted. Should she hold out sex until she vets him more? /facepalm No, she shouldn't be dating him at all. She should start with dumping hookup apps, because as terrible as her man picker is in person, it's 100 times worse online. And if they like…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/19 01:46 AM
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Can't believe everyone missed this one: I have a friend who got married at 23 and her greatest regret? That she hadn’t slept with more people before she got married.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/19 01:13 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/MapPorn/comments/1zx34j/wheres_the_best_place_to_be_a_woman_global_gender/ https://www.reddit.com/r/interestingasfuck/comments/a2wbhg/global_physical_security_for_women/ https://www.reddit.com/r/MapPorn/comments/82w30u/the_best_and_worst_countries_to_be_a_woman_oc/ https://www.telegraph.co.uk/travel/maps-and-graphics/mapped-the-most-tolerant-countries/ https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/World_Happiness_Report https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Where-to-be-born_Index But lets keep …
/r/MGTOW25/01/19 11:47 PM
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I mean, they were 12, and probably not bf/gf... But even at 12 she knew when the wall comes acalling.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/19 06:56 AM
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The good: She looks beyond the race for a dating partner. Does she though?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/19 06:55 AM
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your perfect in every way in live and if you do find someone that loves you he will respect that side to and be amazed and proud of what your doing and would stand by you every way. Yup, and here it is, dating advice for women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/19 12:47 AM
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Not just single mothers, but all women attempt to eliminate any factors in a man's life that cause him to spend time and money on something that does not directly benefit her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/19 09:28 PM
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She should be thanking her lucky stars that any man is interested in courting her. Oh no, she's all in! Posted this a few days ago: Finally made the decision to freeze my eggs this coming spring. Perhaps you should do the same? Meanwhile, keep dating (online and offline) and going to social events like it’s a second job!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/19 12:29 AM
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Necktits has been the hallmark of fat girls since the AOL days. How don't they realize they're a meme?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/19 02:05 AM
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The Child Pose is her favorite.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/19 02:00 AM
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Elsewhere she says she does not want children. Pump and dump through and through.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/19 02:55 AM
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One of the consequences of being a stripper is that there is a chance you will run into someone you know while spreading your legs for their view.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/19 01:09 AM
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This is just the logical conclusion to the "I deserve perfect, won't settle" mindset.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/19 12:17 AM
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She's sugaring right now, looking for dudes to pay her money for dates. And I'm sure dudes fucking her don't care about her n count, just those wanting to marry her do.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/19 10:48 PM
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Ok then, grades and resumes. Or are you going to make everything about race?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/19 10:45 PM
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She's a poster on sugar baby sub. Not just a slut, but a whore too. So hold your sympathy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/19 10:42 PM
2

I noticed that while the height QUESTION asks about height preferences, the ANSWER says "shape and size".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/19 12:57 AM
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It's a shitshow. If you think one bad date is bad, try 25 at the same time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/19 12:52 AM
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It doesn't need to be bigger, it just needs to be big enough. There's plenty of competition, in a market of nearly identical products people tend to go with habits and inertia, so once they're driven away they're not coming back.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/19 11:24 PM
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She wants to go back to the way things used to be 60 years ago, but she doesn't really want to go back to the way things used to be 60 years ago, she just wants the benefits women used to receive 60 years ago, with none of the responsibilities and drawbacks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/19 11:12 PM
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Who hurt you?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/19 11:10 PM
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She's not sexually attracted to safe providers. The epiphany has always been there, but no tingles = no good. Now it's hard to even get tingles (alpha widowed) or to attract anyone that can give her tingles (the wall).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/19 10:56 PM
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nothing really happened Something happened.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/19 08:47 PM
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And what do the statistics say about having your first child after 40?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/01/19 09:46 PM
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That's right, don't put yourself on a pedestal, put women on a pedestal!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/01/19 07:46 AM
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Guys generally don't complain about dating bitches, they know who they're with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 03:00 AM
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A lot of guys who discover trp are like "holy shit, I thought I was the only one!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/01/19 01:11 AM
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Second: Notice what she wants now. A man to spend holidays with, to take her on vacations, to care for her in her old age. Nothing in here about what she can offer a man. After 4 degrees, she makes enough money to get by. Probably still carries debt. Wants a man to go on vacations (ie, take her on vacations) and take care of her bills when she "loses" her job, a job she incidentally hates. At 50 years, still looking for her bailout.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/01/19 12:44 AM
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Except "sodomy" doesn't sound anything like "sodemy", unless you don't know how to pronounce it either.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/01/19 01:14 AM
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Two kids, from two different daddies. Two notes here. Only the girl is pictured. Red flag. The boy is not. Probably because the skin tone doesn't match.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/19 02:35 AM
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Then he would be mysterious!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/01/19 05:54 AM
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But once it comes out, the bills start piling up, the bailout is needed immediately.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/19 10:09 PM
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Just Choose the best for last God will provide Oh no he won't, but I think Beta Billy will!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/19 09:40 PM
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His woman will come first before friends Unlike he to her. Distant second at best.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/19 10:07 PM
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Did the guy who fathered her kid not prove himself enough? Hmm... Before kids, you probably never cared if your date had a dead end job Nope, he did not!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/19 09:56 PM
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She's not gonna fuck you dude. At least not before a month of $110 dinners. Her attention is strictly based on a weekly allowance.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/19 04:10 AM
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Sure, but why can't you pay for yourself? It's equal, it's respectful, and don't you value the time and relationship you get with the guy more than your money?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/19 03:59 AM
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She's also the write of this: https://www.bolde.com/scared-ability-emotionally-vulnerable/ WAATGM posterchild.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/19 02:05 AM
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This is not a debate/discussion sub, so yes, that is probably wise. The "related subs" on the sidebar may be more suitable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/19 12:49 PM
1

Try looking at MGTOW lol. What about MGTOW? They say to focus on doing your own thing and improving your own life. TRP says "this is how women behave, play the game this way to win, or don't play at all because it takes too much time and risk."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 09:36 AM
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Bad people exist, always have, and always will. It is part of your responsibilities as an adult to be able to identify and avoid these people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 09:32 AM
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No, there are a million and one flags along the way, before your SO cheats on you or starts abusing you or otherwise becomes an openly shitty person. This is just hamstering and excuses. And if you happen to run into a well functioning sociopath... well, sometimes bad things DO happen. Have your cry, and move on. However, all this requires time. Time you don't have when you put yourself on a "3 dates before sex" clock. It also requires a support system, and most choose a support system which onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 09:13 AM
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I think most dudes getting into a relationship with an easy/slutty woman know exactly what they are getting into. A woman will keep dating fuckboys for literally decades, all the while complaining about them, maybe even having a couple of kids with them along the way. I mean, it's not like they're that hard to spot and ditch before things get that far.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 09:05 AM
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All of mainstream (and not so mainstream) society and media already does it for them. They don't need to hide on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 08:55 AM
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And yet, many do, even in places where it is punishable by death.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 07:29 AM
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If these guys started becoming weak and unattractive they'd leave him for leaving out a dirty dish. But that's what they do; they leave when too much bullshit (ie dirty dishes) piles up. Or they get left first.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 07:02 AM
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Empathizing is the opposite of problem solving. When you're empathizing, you're just validating the person's feelings and conclusions, telling them what they want to hear. not offering any constructive advice to avoid the same problem in the future. Does it ever get to that stage, past empathy? Perhaps. Anecdotally I can say "not really", because by then the problem is in the past and no longer a problem that needs discussing, or "much too late".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 06:44 AM
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Freedom of speech is about saying what you want to say. But you should still apply some common sense and grace in HOW you say it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/19 06:02 AM
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Play it on survival difficulty first, then turn it off when you start hating it. I can build a nuclear reactor, but still have to remember to manually drink water every 2 hours?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/19 08:54 AM
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How can anyone be this stupid and still remember to breathe?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/19 12:35 AM
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You point the finger at me for sinking the ship and it doesn’t really matter whether I point one back at you or apologize profusely and ask how I can fix my wrong. No, no one's blaming you. Neither are you expected to fix any wrong you did. (Neither is there hate, in aggregate, merely distrust, but it sure serves the popular campaign to demonize the "manosphere" just fine.) Even if you are not AWALT for now, you can, at any point and for any reason, or no reason at all, change your mind, and wre…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/19 11:07 PM
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No such things as yesterday and legacy/history either.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/19 10:57 PM
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They're like servants in rich people's housesmansions/palaces. In the background. Invisible. Part of the scenery. Clearly human, but not possessing their own lives, motivations, feelings, desires, problems. Sentient furniture. Biological robots. They fulfill a purpose actual robots cannot yet. Should they do or say something to break that premise, a jarring moment of incongruity takes place. In the same way when an undesirable man reminds a woman he too is a human being with sexual desires and f…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/19 10:43 PM
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No one just wakes up one morning and decides to start beating their wife or sleeping around. There were hundreds of red flags all along the way, but tingles don't give a shit. Tingles want exciting, unpredictable men, not good steady solid men. Where were the parents, grand-parents, friends, teachers, common sense? All MIA, too busy telling her how special and perfect she is and how she deserves the best of everything. Because... because vagina, I guess.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/19 07:11 PM
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As a man, you get to play one of two roles: alpha/chad, or beta/provider. If you do not fit into one of these two boxes, you are a renegade misfit, an irresponsible man-child who refuses to grow up, man up, and take responsibility.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/19 07:00 PM
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30-40% of children (and in places way more than that) are in single-parent households, so they're no longer even numerically special.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/19 06:58 PM
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Who hurt you? Hey, you know what else is good for your health? Not having incurable STDs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/19 06:20 PM
1

She chose career over family?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/19 06:11 PM
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Male spaces are being shut down all around. In physical space they are already illegal, and online they're labeled misogynist/etc and banned. The only legally protected space, the locker room, is under heavy assault now too. The sisterhood is thriving, the brotherhood not so much.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/19 04:44 PM
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Mastered the art of "do as I say not as I do".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/12/18 10:27 PM
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Typical. Used to be a 7 when she was 22, believes a decade later she's an 8, because she's got a job now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/12/18 08:52 AM
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Ain't nobody got time to listen to all of this, but from the title it appears it's just the opposite of the crazy feminist/thott spectrum, coming back to make a full circle: instead of slutting through your 20s, do NOTHING with your 20s, and still expect the same high value man to commit to you on the other side of the process. Totally missing the point of what men want. Because no one cares enough about what men want to actually just ask them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/18 04:17 AM
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The list keeps going. 6 months (relationship-free). 6 years (of post-secondary education). 6-pack. 6+/10 looks. 600 HP car (ie, supercar).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/18 04:14 AM
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I think the point is that you're EXPECTED to. If you leave your wife after she gains 200lbs, you're the shallow superficial asshole who's trading her in for a newer model after she sacrificed everything for you. If she cheats on you, it's because you're not treating her right. You discover shit from her past? That's history, she's a different person now. She turns into a bitch? If you can't handle her worst, you don't deserve her best. So yes, you're supposed to let her get away with anything, i…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/18 03:48 AM
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Female empathy is a myth.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/18 03:25 AM
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Technically, some of us are adults. Or maybe you just don't understand what "technically" means.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/18 02:57 AM
1

That's just projection on your part. Here's an actual post from you, from less than 2 weeks ago: "I'm starting to really hate men (self.offmychest)"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/18 02:50 AM
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The #1 reason is, by far, boredom. Or whatever words are found in the thesaurus under the entry.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/12/18 09:21 AM
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She does not mention anything about being nice and respectful to her guy even if she disagrees with him. She removed "not a jerk" from her list. Priorities, bitches!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/12/18 02:29 AM
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Never marry into a crazy family. Despite what she will tell you, you're also marrying her family. They always come around into your life to fuck things up, no matter how estranged they may be, and settle right in.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/12/18 06:48 AM
1

Plenty of virgins get the itch and start wondering what the grass is like in other yards.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/18 10:25 PM
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I'm surprised that this female didn't have someone on deck ready to go. They do, or at least they think they do, and sometimes it doesn't pan out, or the guy gets bored of her right away, and then it turns out she can't pull in Chads any more.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/18 09:07 PM
1

But it's men who are shallow...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/18 08:44 PM
2

I like how she conveniently pre-highlighted all the key parts for us!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/18 08:37 PM
2

The wallet doesn't care about the scale to open. It has to open, because otherwise it's abuse.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/18 08:31 PM
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The "education" requirement is indeed a modern proxy for money, because it's uncouth to say you want to marry money. It quickly turns out you suddenly don't need any education if you have money. It's funny that in 1965, when only 7% of medical school graduates were women, men did not have a problem with the "dating gap", and men did not say "there are not enough women" for us to date, and the education ratio was far more lopsided.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/12/18 09:11 AM
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I don't see women doctors dating garbage coll.... er... sanitation engineers, or even contemplating it as a remote possibility. High status women want a high status man. It's already a well accepted trope high status men are not so much concerned about the status of the woman, unless you're talking some snooty high society shit (and doctors, or anyone working for a living, is not part of that, no matter how much money they have). The dating pool of high status women is tiny. The dating pool of h…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/12/18 07:53 AM
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Government will not allow children to starve. The resources are there. I bet there is even transportation assistance to get her and her spawn around to school/doctor/food bank/etc, especially in a leftie sjw enclave like Houston. But it's easier to hit up a man she thinks owes her for some cash.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/12/18 10:50 AM
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She got sex in return. Seems like a fair trade. Equality, bitches!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/12/18 10:47 AM
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Didn't scare away the other guy either! LOL
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/12/18 03:53 AM
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Oh man, this is a post onto itself, but this comment: I feel this definitely. Hate that as women were told to go for the shlummy nice guy who isn’t our type while men are never given this same advice. No. Men are NOT given this advice, that's stupid and projecting. In fact, every single person in her life is telling her she deserves to get what she wants. (Although, I will admit, after a certain point, the looks and the tone and the subtext is clearly "if all you're getting is lemons, maybe it's…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/12/18 03:40 AM
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Yeah, makes no sense, does it? By this logic, older men SHOULD be fine dating younger women, as they are same maturity levels. And she, who by her own admission dates younger men, is the one dating less mature people.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/18 03:02 AM
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Yes, otherwise known as fiction and fantasy. Yet these morons use these fictional fantasy characters as their role models. Even children are smarter than that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/18 02:40 AM
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She would regularly deny me sex. She told me "In the past I've had sex when I didn't want to. I want to avoid that with you." "In the last I haven't had sex when I wanted to. I want to avoid that with you."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/11/18 03:19 AM
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She doesn't seem rational at all. Nearly everything she says is contradicted 2 minutes later. And the whole instagram diatribe just confuses me. "Men shouldn't like pictures of scantily clad women!" "Unless they're of me." "My instagram is full of slutty pictures." "But I'm not a slut, it's just a hobby, really!" "Men are only interested in me for sex." "Except the ones who aren't, I either tell them to fuck off, or I'm not attracted to them because ewww... 40 year old..."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/11/18 02:31 AM
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She can't work because of "a medical condition". Whatever chronic bullshit it is, it definitely doesn't help fertility. (Of course, since she can't work, when she inevitably divorces your ass, it's gonna sting. Men know this.) The fact is you have no idea what her ability to conceive is at this point. Some have been known to conceive and have a normal baby in their 40s, others already require medical intervention at 30. If you're a dude in your 30s, looking to have children, would you roll that …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/11/18 02:00 AM
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Most of them are cunts and will do whatever it takes to clime the ladder, regardless of how unethical or immoral or is. I agree, women are. But what about the lawyers you were talking about?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/11/18 01:38 AM
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This one is priceless. I go out all the time, 3-4 times a week, and... I thought I would have no problem and that person would just come into my life but I feel like there's... something... I dunno... <oh yeah, you DO know> There's a hamster in there giving it his all, but the wheel's spinning in the wrong direction. On top of that, she's only working (oh, what a draaag!) because she's boyfriendless, and her ideal life has her on somebody's yacht (her own even, how? how?! does she see herself ha…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/18 11:18 PM
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It would take waaay too much time to decode her online life, but from what I found in 5 minutes, on her instagram it seems she has a kid, and is posting with #singlemom #singlegirl hashtags, so, there you go, she found her sperm donor. https://www.instagram.com/p/BqFnAfdnMid/
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/18 10:52 PM
1

You can trace all this, the dissolution of the family unit and gender roles than enabled the raising of functioning, successful adults, back to the sexual revolution and women's liberation of the 60s and 70s. Everyone wanted this, or at least 50% of us did. We destroyed in 3 generations what took 3 thousand years to build. Yes, easy way out. That's not projection. What do we see in common with all the stories here? Lack of responsibility. Lack of accountability. Lack of planning. Lack of self-re…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/18 09:49 PM
1

TFW you wake up one day and realize the last 20 years of your life were a mistake and wasted.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/18 09:18 PM
1

Really? Entire generations swallowed up, and you think it was a trick? What could have caused this, I wonder. Probably taking the easy way through life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/18 09:08 PM
4

The circle of life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/18 01:32 PM
5

Women love free shit. The left gives it to them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/18 09:49 AM
3

You had sex with a guy on first date. What did you think was happening? Woman up and move on.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/18 05:41 AM
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Just like every fat person has a thyroid problem, every single mom was abandoned by a sociopath. And yet, as unlikely as either are to be the case, both are treatable. Go to a doctor to get your thyroid diagnosed and treated, and vet men to screen out the crazies.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/18 04:30 AM
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not letting her ruin your credit and buy meaningless trinkets Yes, they're actually invented "financial abuse" now. It's a real thing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/18 03:27 AM
1

That's not how traditional divorce works. If your wife wants to leave, for reason <whatever> (the love is gone, or whatever bullshit women cook up these days), she can if you sign the papers, but she's not getting any money. If she wants to leave for cause (abuse, infidelity), then she can sue for divorce, and would get alimony or a one-time payoff if the situation warrants. No fault divorce has nothing to do with anything. We could easily have a no-fault divorce system where people just separat…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/11/18 06:32 AM
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That's what the queen would do!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/11/18 10:37 PM
1

I’m so so tired of being hurt all the time and feeling used because someone was lonely and wanted to talk to someone but not make it official. Projection AND solution all in one! If she wasn't desperate and afraid of being alone for a few months, she'd have a guy already. Look for LTR. Look for guys who want LTR. Pass over guys who don't want LTR. Don't fuck guys who don't want LTR. Rinse, repeat. This may take a while, but if you manage to find the inner strength of character to keep your legs …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/11/18 10:17 PM
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They love the drama. Obviously, abuse is not right. However, it GOT TO that point, over a long period of time. At first, it was exciting, and felt dangerous and crazy and scary, and got the juices flowing. The signs were always there. I don't believe that in 99.99% of the cases a person just suddenly flips like that. They've been that way for years, decades, but she chose to ignore all the signs. Because sometimes he kisses her in public (get a fucking room). Because tingles > everything. In pla…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/11/18 09:48 PM
1

She claims single motherhood is "better" and "winning", how can you possibly reason with such a person. That she states it so matter-of-factly should be the most worrying thing about the entire exchange.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/11/18 10:32 PM
1

Jesus, it's like Sluts Anonymous up in there!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/11/18 12:44 AM
1

In a larger context, yes. Women no longer need a man for their daily lives. They can have their own jobs, friends, apartments, cars, interests, lives. In that sense, there is nothing traditional about today's women that would necessitate a traditional relationship or a traditional approach from men. I think we are kind of "in-betweeners" right now, where inter-gender relationship haven't had time to settle, mostly, I'd venture, due to leftist politics and social agenda pushing. I think a new equ…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/11/18 09:10 PM
1

Depends on the group. In most friend group situations, it all evens out over the long run. One time you pay a bit too much, another not enough. With an all-male group, everyone tends to drink the same thing at about the same rate, and most drinking food is shared, or roughly evenly priced. Just throw in some money and don't make it complicated. Once you add women, they're drinking their sugary bullshit drinks and eat organic free range locally grown gluten free whatevers, it throws everything of…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/11/18 08:55 PM
2

21, dumb and obese is no way to go through life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/11/18 07:55 AM
2

People don't go rogue out of the blue. No one wakes up one day and says to himself "I think I'll beat my wife today after I'm done banging her sister". There were dozens and hundreds of ignored signals along the way. Usually, they knew from day one what the deal was, and it's not victim blaming to say so. The repeat refusal to learn from mistakes and blaming men for bad relationships is getting tiring. Men make terrible choices, out of thirst and fear of being alone, but women make more than the…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/18 06:56 AM
1

Start a life? She's 32, what was she doing for the previous 15 years??
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/18 06:15 AM
1

She may realize she is low quality (she does not, she realizes she is lowER quality), and she will not be attracted to the nice guys her profile will fish out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/18 06:13 AM
1

FWB implies she will know where you live, where you work, and where you park your car. Don't stick your dick in crazy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/18 09:03 PM
1

Just your average femcel.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/18 08:56 PM
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Yeah, a lot of them just copy/paste their tinder profile without bothering to read or edit it, because why put in the effort, right? Dudes line up around the block either way.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/18 04:42 AM
3

Yeah my last dating experience was moving in with one of my customers from waffle House and now here I am 5 years later She sounds like she knows how to pick the good ones!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/18 10:34 PM
2

She says she's not invited to dinners because dinners are for couples. I dunno, I never had a problem like that. Maybe that's because I'm not a dick to everyone, or crying to them constantly about being single.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/11/18 11:29 PM
2

Like when you get cucked?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/18 07:35 PM
1

Even if the guy really wants to be just friends with a woman, by definition she will be getting much more out of it than he. She will get relationship-like things women want from men, while he will get no relationship-like things men want from women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/18 06:49 PM
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What if no matter how much you strain, you can't meet this non-strenuous friend requirement?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/18 05:42 PM
3

their approach is to place themselves in the market and hope someone of worth comes along. They don't have an active strategy to attract a man of worth. Her weapon of choice is Tinder. Enough said.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/10/18 01:05 AM
1

Sure they do. PUA works. But why are players and PUAs reviled, and makeup on women is perfectly acceptable? Multi-billion dollar industry. Both are methods to temporarily increase your perceived sexual attractiveness through fakery. This works for both genders. Women are perfectly willing to reproduce with anyone willing to make it happen. There are plenty of good looking guys who get no sex because they are too shy or reserved, and tons of mediocre looking guys getting laid all the time. This h…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/18 11:32 PM
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It's the only tool available to the government, it's the only "active" solution they propose, and only reason they say it won't work is that nobody would support it. Well, TODAY relatively few would, not enough to pass it. But I doubt that will be the case in a few years. We have lots of laws and taxes today that 10-20-30 years ago people couldn't even conceive of existing, like, hey, it's illegal to challenge the paternity of your children. I also find it curious that while labor participation …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/18 11:04 PM
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Of course nobody asks WHY are they choosing to play video games. The same problem with analysis of Japanese "herbivore men"... nobody bothers to ask "but why" and attempt to answer with any insight or honesty.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/18 10:47 PM
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Really? Who's told her she's ugly? Not a single person I know has ever told a person of the opposite sex "you're ugly". She's projecting. She says her looks are not preferred by the "majority of men" (I don't think she did a survey), leaving at least a large minority still interested in what she's selling. Elsewhere, she admits she's had interest on Tinder, indicating "probably not ugly" (keep in mind you can only message on Tinder if you both swipe on each other), and the only reason she keeps …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/18 03:44 AM
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No pussy is worth that kind of trouble. Who knows what people will be trying to dredge up from his past in 10-20 years.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/18 02:20 AM
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We already do, a woman that doesn't put out is just not in tune with today's dating standards. Women did this to themselves. It still doesn't stop bait and switch and dead bedrooms once the ring is on.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/18 10:04 PM
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You are right, but this has nothing to do with anything. She doesn't like being objectified and treated as a sex object? Well, a year earlier she was just fine being objectified by a man who treated her horribly, but he was attractive so she threw herself at him. So it turns out she doesn't have a problem being objectified, it just depends on by whom. The Chad didn't give her what she wanted, so she was angry at him, the 7-11 guy didn't get what he wanted, and he just went away without complaini…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/18 09:01 PM
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Consistency! https://pixel.nymag.com/imgs/daily/selectall/2017/02/09/09-roll-safe.w700.h467.jpg
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/18 08:39 PM
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That's just not gonna happen. Every attempt to restrain hypergamy, or even educate men about it, is met with demonization, is ostracized and subverted and deplatformed if it gets too popular, meanwhile anything reinforcing and advancing hypergamy is glorified. It will take a severe social shock to reset this. Men aren't going to go on strike. They won't even be allowed to in any meaningful way. For now, all you can do is own your life, your body and your decisions; RP/MGTOW.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/18 08:31 PM
1

I think there is enough variance in humans and all aspects of humanity that I simply cannot believe AWALT. Some of us know this personally and are old enough to know it's not a just-for-now situation. Still, your chances of finding such as slim to none, and Slim just left town, especially if you're past mid-20s.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/18 08:08 PM
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But she cooked them food and even had sex with them! Why won't they commit?! RPW just follow a formula: put in these tokens (sex, food, support), and receive commitment from the man of your choice. This is exactly the mirror of Nice Guy(tm) behavior. Nice Guys fancy a gal, do Nice Things for her, and expect her to give them sex. There is no care or concern for the other person's desires. But nice, supportive things are just things you do for someone you care about. If you want more than that, yo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/18 07:41 PM
2

Probably what his current chick is doing. Probably why he's hitting her up again.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/18 01:17 AM
3

But that even the attractive ones are having trouble reconciling reality and getting what they want is more instructive.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/10/18 09:31 PM
6

She's lived her whole life as an aries, but is actually a pisces. That explains all her problems!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/10/18 09:11 PM
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Why the fuck did she marry him and have 4 children with him if he wasn't nice?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/18 10:33 PM
12

I thought I've seen this one before, but then I realized it's probably because she looks like the average composite of all American single moms ever.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/18 10:31 PM
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"...I just needed a little luck.” Amen, sister. It's all just up to luck, dontchaknow! All these people, in relationships, married, they just got lucky!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/18 11:33 PM
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I don't like this attitude in places like here, TRP and MGTOW where only women are to blame and men can't do anything for themselves. Yes, women are to blame for their problems, and it is up to them to fix them. But men also have problems, that they created and they are responsible for. There's plenty of issues and blame to go around. Anyways, the comments are deleted, so I don't know what was being said there exactly. Men built civilization and all the technology around us, lets not pretend lik…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/18 10:11 PM
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She most certainly will. I'm just augmenting your argument. She may be able to still attract a good man, as many of those will themselves have to eventually settle. And the majority will attract a man, which was your point: a severe compromise, and a life of unhappiness. That is not a fix. She is settling, and she is settling for far less than she could have settled for a decade earlier.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/18 10:00 PM
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There was a post a while back I found, I think it was on a sub for that Peter guy, where some woman hitting the wall had an epiphany after listening to his lectures, and made a post asking about what she can do now. I made the point that, as sad as it may be, not much. Sure, she may get lucky, like Meghan Markle, but her and the vast majority of women like her are out of luck. The point I made was that a decade and a half of choices has certain consequences, consequences that cannot be wished aw…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/18 09:43 PM
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Men will warn the next generation. There is something about our psychological make up that forces us to confront our poor decisions and most importantly, warn other men. Only the internet makes this possible. This is why TRP/MGTOW groups are being co-opted and deplatformed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/18 09:33 PM
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She doesn't say she hasn't slept around. I think that would have been a bigger selling point than anything else could have mentioned. Not to women it isn't. Sleeping around is either accepted as commonplace and consequence-free, or, among the more shameless ones, an actual bonus, like they're building up a resume. And we already know women are not capable of considering a man's point of view, a man's wants and desires (what she wants is obviously what everyone, including men, want), so why would…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/18 08:52 PM
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Haha, they're literally waiting for their prince charming to swoop them away to the castle.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/18 08:39 PM
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That awkward forced stance and lack of collarbones says everything you need to know: fatfishing in progress.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/10/18 07:19 AM
2

Being decent and respectful herself would be a good start, but her first sentence dispels that notion.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/10/18 07:16 AM
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It's in every pof profile, you'd think by now people would figure out the site is putting that in based on the birthday or whatever zodiac people select.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/10/18 07:12 AM
2

How many times has a girl I've been interested in tell me about her exes. Drug addict after psycho after drug addict. 20 years later they pull this shit because they can't get attention anymore. Why are you interested in trash women?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/10/18 10:49 PM
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TRP is a joke, sorry to say. I mean, the ideas are sound, but the sub is turned to shit. It's now a pua and pua-wannabe hangout, and all the incels moved there to add their bitterness and failure to it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/10/18 07:37 AM
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You can learn a lot about a person in 3 dates, if you know how to socialize and vet properly. Why are you still dating a guy at this point if you don't see ltr potential?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/10/18 05:32 AM
1

She's not even remotely hot.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/10/18 10:52 PM
2

RPW in a nutshell: be attractive, get pumped and dumped by chad (which is all their clever "strategies" will ever get them), enjoy the empowerment, repeat.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/10/18 10:26 PM
1

He hasn't relapsed and is going to rehab because he smokes dope.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/10/18 10:18 PM
3

Or you pass away without a will and the state or you 5th cousin 3 times removed gets everything because you have no other legal next of kin. Lol, so transparent.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/10/18 05:56 PM
2

No it's just fat. Why is this so hard to understand. Fat people aren't big boned. Their bones are the same as everyone else's. It's fat. Fat is soft, and forms into rolls around where skin breaks. There's no magic to it. Just fat. Don't try to make it any more complicated than that. Do they have more shit inside them? Probably, but it's the fat that's making them fat, not inflamation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/10/18 04:36 AM
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No experience with the fat ones at all, but it's almost certainly looser. The tightness is due to muscles, and fat chicks have zero abdominal and core muscles.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/10/18 04:33 AM
1

Fascism is socialist. Communism/fascism, socialism on two ends of the spectrum.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/09/18 02:28 AM
2

This is the reason many people claim we need religion, even the ones who otherwise do not believe in a deity themselves. It provides a framework of morality and social pressure for socially desirable behaviours (ie, sexual restraint), without, generally, resorting to naked force to coerce the masses to do so. Some people are smart/intelligent/enlightened/motivated enough to do it on their own, based on purely rational reasons, but the vast majority clearly are not.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/09/18 02:14 AM
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That's just MGTOW. Doing it to optimize and maximize access to sex is TRP. Dudes are doing it not to become better, as an end in itself, but to get more hot women, and the sub content, posts and discussion is clear on this point. Putting in half assed disclaimers like "do <X> not to get women, do it for yourself" solidifies it. If it were true, you wouldn't have to keep saying it. TRP just became too big and popular, and absorbed rejects from incels and other fringe groups, who just walk around …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/09/18 01:49 AM
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It's just too easy and consequence-free to renege on such a "promise". Her relationship doesn't even have to fall apart (same-sex couples have far lower long term success rate than straight couples), they just have to realize they can get thousands of dollars from you for the next 20 years, and get half of the kid's college tuition paid for, just by filling out a few forms. And if she wants to be really malicious, she can even levy a rape accusation at you for getting her impregnated in the firs…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/09/18 10:30 PM
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The practice is not an american invention.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/09/18 10:25 PM
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You can't sign away your rights (that's an illegal contract), and you sure as hell can't sign away the rights of a minor (by denying your baby child support). So I don't buy it. It's "cheap", because it doesn't work and is not enforceable. This man is a fool. A sperm donor is, legally, a father.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/09/18 09:18 PM
1

She's not red pilled. She's just talking. She herself admitted she does not do the things she says she should be doing. She's talking up a good game, hoping to attract a higher status man before her gambit falls apart. There is no actual change happening.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/09/18 08:58 PM
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(Ashley feels like the ratio is three single women for every single man) "Feels like", mmm.. 2016 Canada Census, Vancouver metro: ages 20-24: M 85,385 F 81,885 ages 25-29: M 89,305 F 90,640 ages 30-34: M 89,925 F 92,700 ages 35-39: M 81,090 F 86,860 43% of the overall 15 years+ population is single. Only in later age brackets do women significantly outnumber men, because women live longer, due to The Patriarchy no doubt. In fact: ages 90-94: M 4,905 F 9,965 ages 95-99: M 1,050 F 3,140 ages 100+:…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/09/18 11:29 PM
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She's basically all Vancouver women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/09/18 11:19 PM
1

200 dates in 2 years, oh so challenging!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/09/18 12:13 PM
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Well, faw was formed because the guys on FA were sick of women complaining about how they were just all getting p&d but couldn't find their prince chad, so they basically drove them out to make their own sub.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/18 09:03 PM
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As an aside, I've noticed this trend where someone posts something like that, out of nowhere, with no post history in the sub. It's like they're just lurking here, reading every post and comment, biding their time to pounce on something, some comment, some sentence, some word they think they can get mileage out of. Then they slink away.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/18 09:23 PM
4

You think he can find one?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/09/18 03:12 AM
4

It's just the bubbles we live in. In US, everything that's "higher quality" (ie, overpriced) is European-style, and I'm sure the reverse is true in Europe. When I was in Korea, I saw some shampoo that was "Canadian formula", and I just facepalmed, like wtf, there's no such thing. But it's the perception of Canada being wild and pure, which may be true for 99% of it, but not the 1% where everyone actually lives.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/09/18 03:07 AM
2

Three sentences. 180 degree contradiction. 0 degrees of self-awareness. Aren't women supposed to be the ones with compassion and empathy?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/09/18 02:06 AM
3

Looks like a chick though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/09/18 06:43 PM
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And her solution is to double down on her hypergamy. Find a guy her age of equal or lower status and work together to build him up? Fuck no! that sounds like work! No, she just increases her age range. Still wants her cake, still doesn't want to get her hands dirty making it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/09/18 04:03 AM
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Yeah, suddenly we need to be a team and work together! (watch her other video on mra).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/09/18 03:47 AM
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I love it when she talks about that friendzoning possibility, there's a moment, a fraction of a second, where you see something like a spark goes off behind those eyes, but then, oh yeah, never mind, the hamster needs time to catch up. Nobody dates their friends. You date distant acquaintances. You can put a name to a face. That's it. Your friends are your friends, not dates. And she's not hot. She's got one of those body types where all the fat goes around her middle, like a man, not even her a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/09/18 01:17 AM
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When Mr. Right comes into my life, it will be to enhance my already happy life…not to complete it. Man, this grinds my gears. So if you have a happy, complete life, why do you need a man? You need a vibrator, not a man. If you need a man, admit what you actually want him for, and don't say you're "complete and happy". A man is not an accessory to "enhance" your already "complete" life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/09/18 12:39 AM
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Nearly every guy has been with a woman that's been... overfat... at some point in their life. We know exactly what we're missing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/09/18 12:07 AM
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Apparently she enjoys fucking non-humans.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/18 10:32 AM
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Really? And you tried not paying your taxes lately? That's what we mean when we say women marry the state. In Brazil, they have a program called Bolsa Familia. Women have been quoted saying literally "I traded in my husband for Bolsa Familia".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/18 07:21 AM
2

"No coffee dates" "I'm the whole package" You think?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/18 12:01 AM
1

After this is normalized, women will just tell men this is what's going to happen and how their marriages will be conducted. It's going to be like divorce is today. You just get told you're getting divorced, and that's that. Everyone's like "yeah, sometimes you get divorced". It'll be the same with open marriage. One day she tells you "I'm going to open our marriage and start fucking other men". And that's what happens, and if you don't like it you can get divorced, but you won't be able to NOT …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/09/18 11:00 PM
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There is a related article to this one called "5 rules for non-monogamy", ie "how to deal with problems you created for yourself when you decided sleeping around was a good idea". One of the sections is called "sleeping arrangements". I mean, this is shit normal people don't give a second thought to. So when you're married, and have a house, and children, you have two options how to deal with "sleeping arrangements" when you have an "open marriage". Say, your wife has a "date" with another dude …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/09/18 10:42 PM
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Because otherwise she will have to find a job doing something useful.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/09/18 10:36 PM
1

Yes, the absolutely WILL settle, for millennia they have. It's just that today men have ways of communicating honestly and openly, regardless of social position, without fear of targeted female reprisal. This knowledge of how hypergamy works and how gynocentric our society always has been is now out there and persistent, and fewer men are willing to tolerate it when the truth cannot be avoided. Women may be more delusional today, but there are forces working from both ends. Our gynocentric socie…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/09/18 09:54 PM
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She is kinda not at fault. Oh stop with this nonsense already. If she was still on top, she wouldn't have flipped. But this is different, she has been indoctrinated since birth to believe this nonsense. So was I. So were we all. A whole generation of women, just bamboozled to run headfirst into the wall. "You can have it all." Pardon my skepticism. Too good to be true is the first clue. Our ancestors couldn't accomplish that, ever, but we can. Because we're special! Special, indeed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/09/18 05:55 AM
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Even the wording of the question itself deflects blame, doesn't it. Such a leading question, like the good old "so, when did you stop beating your wife?" Men haven't gone anywhere, we're all still here.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/18 09:16 AM
1

She can make corn bread, but refuses to. You can't make this shit up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/09/18 12:10 AM
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Whatever happened to taking a beautiful woman out on a date, and getting to know her mind before getting to know her body? Netflix and Chill is what happened, and I honestly cannot blame men because of some women who have chosen to lower their standards. Oh, I'm sorry, remind me again what you were doing in your 20s? I spent my early 20s unapologetically being dumb and having fun Ah, so "some women" is YOU. YOU lowered your standards, and now you arbitrarily raised them. You're in your 30s, your…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/18 11:53 PM
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Yeah, well, only way a woman is introducing you to her friends is if there is no way for her to ever get with you: she's your sister (or closely related), your friend's wife, lesbian. Otherwise, she is not going to do it. Neither would you want to, as you're just getting the flip side of social proof: what is wrong with him that makes her NOT want to have him for herself. You think she's doing you a favor, but what she's really doing is cementing your orbit around her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/18 10:51 PM
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Oh, she already has dick. She is "best friends" with a dude she used to fuck. So if you date her, you have to be ok with the kid, and an formeractive fwb being in her life. Just man up and step up to get cucked!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/09/18 10:52 PM
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The issue is her cohort: the pro-feminazi, sexually masculinized millenial female generation. Right, women have no agency, no ability to make their own decisions, for which they are not responsible anyways, because "society!" and "patriarchy!" Well, she's realized there is a problem. But continues to display a level of introspection and self-awareness that is somewhere near zero (only because it can't go below zero). She will never progress forward beyond this stage. And so, males in America hav…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/09/18 11:00 PM
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FUCK he just walked out; literally all I had to do was put out this one time In a way, we should be happy things have gotten as far as they have in our age. 20-30 years ago, she'd still wouldn't have been thotted enough to brazenly blurt out her n-count and refuse to have sex with him before the dotted line was signed. She did it, because she thought she would get away with it. Today, thotts are red pilling men, one shitty relationship at a time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/09/18 12:31 AM
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What a load of horseshit. Women are getting EXACTLY what they want from the casual dating and sexual market, because they control access to sex (and its price). If women didn't want lots of casual sex, then the casual sex scene/"hookup culture" would cease to exist instantly. Women select partners for casual sex, and women select suitors for LTR. Men vie for women's attention, not the other way around. And, of course, you couldn't have a female bitch fest about the "low quality" of men available…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/18 11:30 PM
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(assuming the sperm doner wasn't a one night stand) Have been in some crappy relationships lately. (plural) Magic 8-ball says: odds are looking good.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/18 08:14 AM
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This is an interesting observation and realization many men reach eventually. Women lack empathy, at least in this area, which is ironic given their claims to superior empathy. They are utterly unable to put themselves in the shoes of another person and see things from their perspective. They can only filter things through emotions and not reason, so they fail at empathy by definition. They can't genuinely say "well, I see why this would upset you" if it is not something that would upset them. T…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/18 06:29 AM
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r/WhereAreAllTheGoodWomen is that way. In that sub, we post stories of men who act like children, and treat women like children, and then complain they only meet child-like women, and why can't they meet any decent ones. I mean, it's valid criticism, but is that where we're going?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/18 09:14 PM
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This shit show has barely started warming up Oh, like many I believe it will get much worse before it gets better. Some are calling peak thottery already, but I think it's still too early. Give it a decade, then check again? It's a generational process. Things have been going downhill since the sexual revolution and third wave feminism more recently, I don't think all the pieces are in place yet. The whole Europe immigrant situation needs to get resolved either way, and in the US we need to see …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/09/18 08:19 AM
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I'm referring to the twitter comment. A woman kills herself because "reasons", and it's automatically assumed it's because men are dogs, just because one of her friends said she told her she worried about him leaving her. Abundance (or not) of good men in her life has nothing to do with anything. For all we know, the current/last man in her life WAS a good man, and so was every boyfriend she had before him, and she killed herself anyways due to imaginary relationship problems. We'll never know, …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/09/18 06:43 AM
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We don't even know if the guy was or was not a "good man". All we know is she thought (or at least said) he was going to leave her, which really doesn't mean anything. This is just a case of men being told to believe everything a woman says just because something bad may have happened to her. How does that quote go... "None of us know the truth of the situation and I'm sure more will be revealed. Be gentle."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/09/18 06:07 AM
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Just classic projection.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/18 07:33 PM
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Mind = blown. Mary was a slut and Joseph a cuck! I just read up on what is known about Joseph... not much, apparently, and essentially nothing post-Jesus birth. For reasons that are probably obvious. He found out Mary was pregnant when they married, and he wanted to divorce her (he knew it wasn't his), but "an angel" (she probably drugged him or hypnotised him) told him it was a "miraculous conception", so he believed her and stayed. Oh boy..
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/18 07:22 PM
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No Netflix and chill. I'm not 17 years old. Well, using basic math skills, I think I'm getting the picture.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/18 01:37 AM
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Additionally, you are taking this matter as a personal attack upon you. Because he knew exactly what was up, and failed to look after his own family and protect his sister from a bad person. So now the narrative needs to be "nobody could have seen it coming" to absolve himself of the responsibility he shares in this debacle. Because nobody in this shit family tells women the harsh truth and gets away with it. "But he makes her so happy! (when he's not making her miserable) surely it will all wor…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/18 05:47 AM
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Don't fuck with her like she's not shit!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/18 06:09 AM
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loves shooting hopes Somewhere, Freud is spinning in his grave.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/18 04:43 AM
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The post was brigaded by r/mgtow earlier. I don't expect a lot of sympathy for her even from the regulars on dating_advice due to her transparent wording, but the voting tells you what happened.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/08/18 04:16 AM
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I'm sure it's the patriarchy's fault somehow. Probably internalizing self-hatred or some bullshit nonsense.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/08/18 12:14 AM
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Equal opportunity pussy for rockers, punks, metalheads, crooners and boybands?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/18 05:56 PM
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She told him he can have his own, but knows full well this emasculated pussy wouldn't be able to put anything together if his life depended on it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/08/18 07:26 AM
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So was he.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/08/18 07:08 AM
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I also have some weird turn-offs (if a guy follows the progress of professional sports teams--I just... no.). This is typical. These kinds of interests are always called out as "immature" that men need to "grow up and out of". This is because these interests mean the man will be spending a lot of time (and money) on things that do not involve and benefit her in any way. They do not provide her money, they do not provide her things, they do not provide her entertainment or excitement, they do not…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/08/18 12:29 AM
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She's attracted to hot guys who look stunning or she's attracted to people over time because of their personality. Do I need to spell out the strategy here? Case in point: But a couple years ago I got approached by a guy at a bar and fell for him very quickly. There's just something about meeting someone "in the wild" with no forced sense of romance happening that really does it for me. At a bar. Right, meeting people on OLD has expectations on sex and romance "schedule" that she finds objection…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/08/18 12:19 AM
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//#NotAllMen, I’m sure. // I'm an asshole but I don't want to look like one. You're probably misreading this one. #NotAllMen is the NiceGuy response to #metoo, which feminists say is not allowed, because #NotAllMen invalidates their victim status, and you can't do that. She is using #NotAllMen satirically, sneering, to like-minded feminists she is saying #YesAllMen, to those not in the club she is virtue signalling. It's modern double-speak.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/18 07:47 PM
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I would tag it Leftovers too, but I don't think she's quite reached the level of hamstering just yet. Destined for Leftovers in any case. She looks like no one can afford her, having built her identity around being a desired model, and is too old to demand the best regardless of looks, so she will get hit with the usual train of P&D experts.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/18 06:43 PM
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Why would you delete the images?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/08/18 02:24 AM
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She has only 1 cat, and is desperately posting online for attention, so not yet.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/08/18 07:21 AM
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Also, water is wet.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/08/18 06:38 AM
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the guys in the deadbedroom sub who marry virgins only to discover that they are anti-sex or have no libido There are ways to find this out during the dating process. But that takes honest communication and willingness to ask the hard questions, so I am not surprised deadbedrooms is filled with them. Too many guys don't want to rock the boat and lose the pussy, because this is the best they will ever do, and then end up marrying a completely unsuitable woman. There are no guarantees in life with…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/08/18 04:42 AM
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Women fall in love and bond when they have sex. There are a lot of feel-good brain chemicals involved in this process, and when you have too much of that, the effect wears off and is harder and harder to achieve next time. So the ability to bond is dosage (dick) dependent for women. Like you say, it really doesn't matter if promiscuity leads to high divorce rate or if both are just symptoms. What matters is there is high correlation between the two, and that is a good enough signal/flag for me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/08/18 04:37 AM
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Empathy goes a long ways, but I don't feel it can make up for someone who understands when you quote Latin. Well, and good luck with that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/08/18 03:26 AM
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Hit up amazon and get yourself a vibrator, because this I'm a divorced mom and can't imagine going into nun mode. I would be absolutely MISERABLE and in turn my kids would be miserable. Happy mom = happy kids. isn't helping you land a quality guy. You know what men do when they're feeling horny? Take an extra long shower and come out carefully due to wobbly legs.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/18 02:51 AM
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They got a lot of asians in colombia?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/08/18 02:26 AM
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We have to endure all the shit that goes with dating in our 30s. All the dirtbags, all the failed attempts, all the heartbreaking losses. They’re all going to lead us to finding someone great. This is delusional, because this is exactly what dating in your 20s is like too, if you're dating for marriage. If you're just partying and fucking through your 20s, your perspective will be obviously different.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/08/18 12:27 AM
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It's just hamstering and backpedaling. Did he really have bpd? We'll never know. We do know, as good or bad as he was, she hasn't been able to do better, and he has.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/08/18 07:21 PM
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We don't need to (and it's unrealistic), we're already seeing the results unfolding in front of our eyes in slow motion.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/08/18 01:42 AM
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Isn’t opening doors considered sexist or racist or something? I just can’t remember. See, men are supposed to be old fashioned when it suits women, as long as "old fashioned" means "unconditionally treats women at a higher level". Old fashioned values where women have to compromise are misogynist and oppressive, like traditional women's gender roles.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/08/18 12:22 AM
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She's in top percentage in looks, but most importantly, not fat, or at least not visibly so. Who knows when the clothes come off, there will be sagging even if there's no jiggle, age spares no woman ultimately.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/18 07:13 PM
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#1 divorce reason is not abuse or infidelity, it's boredom. "I'm unhappy" tops the list.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/18 08:42 AM
2

You think there's any place in the world where tax dollars are spent wisely?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/18 08:36 AM
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But they're going around flaunting their "sexual prowess" as if it's the highlight of their resume! Really, put two virgins in a room, they'll have it figured out in minutes. The only semi-legitimate point is high differences in sex drives, but we've already had a solution to this for thousands of years: keep you pants on and masturbate, you horny wanker. Not that anyone who takes up these sluts on their "prowess" will actually get to experience any of it for any length of time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/18 08:18 AM
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In the abundance mentality, n+1 always exists.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/18 08:05 AM
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Mathematicians fail again, it should be called "the dating problem", since you cannot perform an exhaustive search for a mate. When hiring a secretary, you get to review all applicants and interviewees before selecting the best one, so the analogy is flawed and needlessly contrived; it does not work like that in real life, but what would academics know about that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/18 08:03 AM
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In Japan it is. In Chinese countries it's "leftover women". (Christmas cake, because after 26th nobody wants them)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/18 07:28 AM
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She's cute and nerdy, and fuck yeah I would, but way too high maintenance. Plenty more where that came from. Pump and dump only, if you can pull it off.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/18 07:24 AM
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Tattoos are never classy, but can look good in rare cases. Maybe we have different definitions of "classy".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/18 07:17 AM
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I just realized why all these useless degrees exist. I thought it was just liberals and feminists infecting academia, but there's an actually perfectly rational economic reason: to give all these useless twits something to spend theirother people's money on.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/18 06:57 AM
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Or not having a job...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/18 01:13 AM
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Think about that next time a woman tells you how many guys she's had sex with.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/18 12:28 AM
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Yeah, wonderlandgirl, the millionaire phd nurse former pro model who looks like Angelina Jolie and Sophia Varga, depending on what day of week she posts.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/18 12:05 AM
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Of course she puts out, for the right guy. She's a woman.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/18 11:32 PM
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But it's an instinctual repulsion, not a reasoned one. We just want nothing to do with children of other men. So I think it's much more deeply rooted than that. I think the lion example points in the right direction. Women have a different approach, because giving birth to children means they by default need to take care of them, so to make the task easier and more successful, cooperative child raising was a thing, on an evolutionary time scale. The whole "takes a village" idea. So whether you f…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/18 09:33 PM
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She's a house cleaner, with no car. What is she cleaning?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/07/18 08:04 AM
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She's 28. What has she been doing for the last 10 years? Aside from complaining that men don't find her Harvard education and immaculately decorated apartment drop dead attractive? All those years at Harvard, and not a single eligible man could be located. Not one! What are the odds? Look at how utterly clueless she is about what men want in a woman. Perfect material for this sub. Her whole post, once you strip the fancy college textbook nonsense, is summed up in "I'm such a great catch (and obv…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/18 11:51 PM
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Not that we can see.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/18 04:43 AM
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Oh yes, these are all proxies for money. Well educated, stable, well spoken, world traveled, intelligent, secure, ambitious. All mean "has money". Well educated underwater basket weavers need not apply. Ditto ambitious sanitation engineers. Backpacked across the world? who gives a shit if it wasn't first class.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/18 04:29 AM
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Oh, this one is just a clusterfuck. Her latest whinging post: "Feel like I totally missed out on the one!" And a comment from a few days ago: "Back in 2012 I went on a few dates with a guy and it didn't work out. We ended up meeting up again in 2016, he turned out to be the biggest jerk of all and he ghosted on me. During the time in 2016 I also met another guy who was great and seriously the nicest guy. Wicked nice. Well the jerky guy had me thinking he was really interested and he stood me up …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/18 02:40 AM
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Where is the issue here? She doesn’t say she hooks up, just that she doesn’t like the hookup culture. Oh, please... What has she been doing for the last 10+ years? Now when it doesn't get her what she wants, NOW it's a problem all of a sudden? Had she spent that time becoming a person of worth, a woman that a good man would want to wife, she wouldn't be complaining about hookup culture. It would be a complete non-issue in her life. Don’t y’all on this sub also not like the hookup culture because…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/07/18 04:21 AM
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WTF, oh, so tiring fucking all those 20 year olds! Are you sure your friends are straight?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/07/18 03:34 AM
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Rings don't plug holes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/18 09:04 AM
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What? Why would you hold somebody's shit at the airport for them? Are you insane? When was this?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/18 12:41 AM
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"Well traveled", "well educated", "stable"... all proxies for "has money".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/18 12:12 AM
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Well, except the father of her children.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/18 11:26 PM
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She's 25 with a 5 year old kid. That means she got knocked up at 19. While she was trying to become a model. Hey, I can do basic math as well as anyone, and now I wonder, who is the father, and how did that come about?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/07/18 09:37 PM
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Well, biologically we're not very invested in individual offspring. We want to spread our seed, not so much concerned with what happens after. And on an evolutionary timeline, you're right, most males didn't get to reproduce, socially enforced monogamy is a recent invention, in place to keep us together long enough for pair bonding to kick in. Tribalism was concerned with the collective, and ultimately everyone ("the village") was involved in raising children and ensuring their survival. The tri…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/07/18 09:29 PM
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Sure. And this situation is making you very sad. But that's all. It's far worse for women. They NEED this. It's an innate biological need. There is no "Where Are All The Good Women". There's no crazy cat gentlemen. A guy will be happy as long as he has a project he can work on and finish. There's no shortage of those you can invent. Women need to have an influence on other people. When you have no people in your life, you can't just invent them (well, I guess you can), so therefore cats. You'll …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/07/18 09:17 PM
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Education: Some college Could have fooled me. This is her opening salvo: "i cant see whos said like to meet so message instead" Those are mostly English words randomly strung together into a sentence fragment.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/07/18 08:19 PM
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And has an "odor issue".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/07/18 10:56 PM
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You can't MAKE people respect you. They will only give you the respect you have earned. And she has earned no respect, she has done nothing worthy of respect.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/07/18 10:51 PM
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Yeah, she's broken in some way. Comes from a broken, dysfunctional family, who woulda thunk it. As attractive as she is, and she is, for her age, and to me, she's not un-attractive, something makes me uncomfortable when she's on screen. The other old ones make me sad, and at least one of them is clearly mentally ill, but this one in particular is not right. With some early therapy and change in attitude she could have had a normal life like she wants to, and avoided the path of the cat lady. But…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/07/18 09:09 PM
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The 300 puts the cherry on top.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/07/18 04:55 AM
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Segments at 4:45 and 51:00, to save you the time, that's the youngest one I think, 35. Not really WAATGM though. Just sad. Although she does say she things she's a "great catch", and she definitely wants a man, they all do.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/07/18 04:33 AM
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The top 3 GIS results for this ( the ones with humans) are hilarious. (fat chick, fat chick, 2 chicks with dicks)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/18 10:38 PM
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How do sluts avoid being called sluts I think the idea of slutting it up with other sluts is just too much for her brain right now. She'll get over it soon enough.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/18 06:42 PM
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Asian Chads don't want unemployed disabled fat women of any race.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/07/18 06:50 PM
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Well, she stayed with him until it got to be too much, because she was living with him and he was paying rent. Now she wants a "good man" who will buy her a house. Oh, sorry, they will buy a house "together", what with her disability pension and all.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/07/18 06:48 PM
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Because real grown men(tm) only have hobbies their women approve of, ie, those that directly benefit them. Wasting your time on something that doesn't do anything for her, wtf were you thinking. Those are childish pursuits. Man up and become a real man by becoming a slave to her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/07/18 05:54 PM
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That's either an optical illusion, or a serious case of frontbutt.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/07/18 05:35 AM
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The last picture is by far the most recent one. She definitely used to be cute, just average and overweight now
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/18 08:48 PM
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"a few extra pounds"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/18 08:46 PM
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If he doesn't wear the pants where will he put his wallet. In her pants?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/18 08:19 PM
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We should ban references to wonderlandgirl, it's clearly a troll account and "her" posts are claiming all kinds of inconsistent, contradictory and mutually exclusive things over time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/07/18 10:51 PM
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I don't understand the "not looking for a dad" you always see. So what are you looking for? A fuckboi? How responsible. A new partner/husband that won't be a dad to your children? An outright lie. Anyone who dates/marries her will be doing all the parental things that a dad would. Pay for them. Babysit them. Drive them school. Take them to the doctor. But not a dad, right. Just an ATM and domestic helper.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/18 09:36 PM
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Nah, either one is likely, at a glance, but with 3 kids in tow, you really think she, of her own volition, kicked her own ass in gear and lost the weight FOR NO REASON? Either he divorced her because it's a dead bedroom with a morbidly obese fatass, or she suspected he was cheating on her and suddenly remembered she has a vagina and started getting tingles of her own.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/18 07:37 PM
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Yeah, she has an eating disorder, that she made up. Check her posts for pictures, looks like she beat anorexia alright!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/18 09:43 PM
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She's obese, formerly morbidly obese, I doubt she's clocked in 100 yet.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/18 09:40 PM
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When she wants to "open things up" it's pretty much already over. They know men for the most part wised up to the real meaning behind "let's take a break", so this is the new one that still gives them some hope things will turn around in the future.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/18 08:04 PM
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Left over women are post-wall career women. She's a "cashear".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/18 07:02 PM
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Lives in his house (that he pays rent for), eats his food, goes to school for free. But reeeee financial abuse reee! How do we know this? Now that she has no living expenses (lives with parents and raids their fridge), she's having financial difficulties. So he was paying for everything.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/18 06:04 PM
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You can see from the comments it was her idea, because she wanted to explore her "bi" side that she has been "struggling with" for a long time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/18 05:29 AM
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The wall is always there, as certain, inevitable and solid as death and taxes. It doesn't need to chase.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/06/18 08:12 PM
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That's just wonderlandgirl, who's been posting the exact same thing for months and I'm convinced is a guy trolling.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/18 06:48 PM
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Oh, look at the questions he's asking and comments he's making. You think this middle aged, probably fat and balding cuck, has any game or value to get hot young women on the casual dating market? He's alone, he's anxious, he's depressed. Yeah, they're gonna be lining up around the block for him. He talked about excitedly perusing his "options" on dating apps, but notice how there is no further comment on this topic. That's because his inbox was as dry as his wife's vagina. He hasn't met anyone,…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/18 09:20 PM
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because the comments are surprisingly apologetic for his cause and not trying to convince him to "go for it, she's still loyal to you" No, but most are suggesting they "try to work it out". WTF, how? How do you move forward from this position as a couple? As if any amount of therapy will fix her, or make her wet for him again (if she ever was).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/18 09:17 PM
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I actually laughed out loud (yes, I loled, and almost rofled) at the comment suggesting counseling with a pro-polygamy therapist, "to avoid judgment" of course. This is some next level gaslighting here.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/18 09:13 PM
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Caption says "wrenching", so I assume grease.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/18 08:27 PM
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Then you win the std bingo!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/18 08:20 PM
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They have fat mannequins now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/18 08:13 PM
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Yeah. I think the blind adherents to TRP and its likes (like this sub) become too dogmatic and "woe is me", and miss the big picture. There are women who realize their intrinsic high value while young, and choose to not give their wealth away for free and spend the bank by their 30s, because they can think ahead and realize the consequences of such behavior. They choose to use it and behave in ways so as to find a good man early, and then keep him. Like men who build themselves to become better …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/18 10:45 PM
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Sometimes it's easier to sell out. Well, it's usually "easier" to sell out. Some trainers may be just starting out, and don't have a deep client list. A paying client, any paying client, is better than no client. He won't be able to use her as a reference of course. 5 years though, I'll go with sellout. In wealthy areas, these kinds of people are a dime a dozen, peddling feel-good vibes and virtue signaling to rich people looking for it. If you're morally bankrupt and socially gifted, it's easy …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/18 10:17 PM
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You can always call nice guy AAA to give you a tow.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/06/18 07:28 PM
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"Normal weight" is not a social construct. When someone is "overweight", we don't mean they "weight more than 50% of the population", we mean they "weigh more than is healthy for their body". You can absolutely have 70% of the population overweight, and if you measure by body fat percentage, the figure is much higher than that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/18 07:40 AM
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What's the point of the shot from the back?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/18 06:20 AM
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Haha, step 1: make a long list of requirements.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/18 02:00 AM
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You haven't been "given" your life, your life is the result of all the decisions you've made over the last one and a half decades. I have no doubt you wish things were different, or even that you could go back and do things differently, but this is the life you have made for yourself. However, your post and your responses here clearly show you have not made the connection between your past decisions and your present situation, nor have you moved beyond the "complaining about men" stage.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/18 01:38 AM
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"I enjoy a lot of different things like going to the beach, seeing movies, grabbing drinks at happy hour & going to dinner parties with friends." Wow, that IS a lot of different things... Actual things she brings to the relationship: tits.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/18 12:10 AM
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It doesn't need to be "bred out". Humans are thinking animals, we can easily overrule biology, and we do it all the time. Every CC rider does it daily, against her biological imperative for mate selection, behavior that in times past would have been indeed literally a death sentence.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/18 04:37 AM
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Again, don't complain when she gets fat. When? She already is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/18 04:04 AM
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Rentals all the way here! 🤷‍♀️
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/18 04:03 AM
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Probably thought the guy would change once he laid eyes on his spawn. Isn't that what all women hope for?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/18 03:21 AM
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My suspicion is she's got a few more years on the CC, with decreasing quality of partners Lets face it, with how hard she went for this guy, this is her peak.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/18 09:50 PM
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They're already hitting the floor, without the support. Look how far up the cleavage goes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/18 08:30 PM
2

This, but don't wait until kids. Start that shit asap. After she starts "eating for two", there's no turning back.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/18 10:05 PM
3

Can someone translate this to English please?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/18 10:02 PM
1

She's got a bunch of pictures of herself on the website profile, and she ain't no 7.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/18 05:44 AM
1

Guys get scared to approach. Online? She's hardly getting any matches. If she were hot, she'd be swamped with dick pics, so she'd at least get a ton of matches and complain they were all rude and not what she is looking for. Definitely not hot.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/18 04:22 AM
1

Absolutely hit with the ugly stick. "nice and fun", yah ok, meaning, "accept me for my shallow personality and promises of being kind" Probably very fat too. Usually when women say "nice and fun", that is qualified with some kind of appearance disclaimer, specific or vague, like "not fat/go to gym several times a week/very active/blahblahblah". If she can't come up with anything, you know things are very bad. Obese. Morbidly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/18 04:12 AM
2

Men are entitled, women have standards.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/18 12:18 AM
1

I feel so bad for the person that goes for her ;) Why? All the signs were right there.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/18 09:48 PM
1

Just look at how much the world has changed legally and geopolitically since the 1950s. A big part of that is due to the political institutions of the country you come from. A big part of that is due to the people pressuring politicians to do something, who otherwise would continue with status quo and self-enrichment.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/18 08:02 PM
1

The legal system works on technicalities, people don't make such distinctions.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/18 07:45 PM
14

She loves watching karaoke. There's a winning past time right there all the guys are looking for in a woman.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/18 04:21 AM
5

Not a single person on the panel has asked what the men want (that the women are not providing), or even implied that the man's desires matter or exist. 20 minutes of memememememe, what can you do for me and why are you not doing it. The men who brought them up were laughed at. You're single for 10, 15, 20 years, at some point it should occur that maybe the reason you are single is because there is something men commonly want, something that you are not providing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/18 04:11 AM
1

Not really... when she says "average body type", she's not wrong.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/18 02:45 AM
7

Putin knows, that's why he divorced his.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/05/18 04:11 AM
2

Season 1 of what??
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/05/18 03:51 AM
1

That's what happens when you get fat.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/18 05:39 AM
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