DiagonalHorizon Archive

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1	Help! I don't have a problem approaching, I have trouble keeping the conversation going- what should you talk about in the first 5 minutes? Try to avoid asking questions and entering interview mode. It makes the conversation impersonal. Instead, if you have a question, reframe it into a statement. Conversations should flow naturally. Actually listen to what she says, and if she says something you relate to, feel free to talk about it. It's okay to talk about yourself. Oftentimes when you chime in, something you mention she can relate to, and then it goes back and forth. Don't try to think of the smart things to say or the smart ques…	/r/seduction	07/09/14 04:12 PM
1	[FR] Finally went out of my comfort zone and approached a girl for the first time in my life. Congrats OP! I know exactly how you feel because I approached a girl for the same time yesterday too, although it didn't go half as well as your approach :)	/r/seduction	30/06/14 02:43 PM
2	[FR] - K, #, F Close in One Weekend (r/thathappened) Awesome FR. Lost it at the Nord part, hahaha.	/r/seduction	19/05/14 06:04 PM
2	Finally all pieces have come together - I discovered living in the present. Maybe this might help you if you struggle. Well said, man. I think an important concept you imply here is that intimacy only occurs in the present moment.	/r/seduction	31/12/13 05:49 PM
1	[FR] Report #3, F-Close for the Roommate Again, Plus Bonus Content! What a great mantra you have there. Always optimistic and always having fun as your top priority when you go out. When I go out I often have the bad habit of people-pleasing, or making sure that everyone else is entertained before I am.	/r/seduction	25/12/13 10:10 PM
2	How to respond when a girl insults you? Oftentimes, people use aggression as a quick fix to anger that has seeped into them. I'm sure there have been times where you have a bad day and you launch on someone innocent and it makes you feel better temporarily, right? Well, to the person receiving the aggression, that is unacceptable. So if a girl is aggressive towards you, insulting you or being negative towards you, I simply say, "I am genuinely sorry that you're having a bad day," and walk away. Always avoid negative people, and realiz…	/r/seduction	23/12/13 04:56 PM
3	Approach Anxiety, but you're confident, knows what to say, not afraid of rejection, and etc. Time is not a valuable resource; energy is. You can make time for anything, but you only have so much energy in the day. I have no idea what you're like, but for an introvert like me, I have to ration my energy throughout the day and spend it when it's needed most, for instance when I'm socializing. You also have to make sure you are using your energy efficiently. For instance, if you are expending your energy on things outside of your control, that is called suffering. Don't suffer. Well now I'…	/r/seduction	15/11/13 07:53 PM
6	Reflecting on my year long journey in seduction and why, yes, you can do it too. A long story filled with tips and tricks I've used. Well done, sir. I think you imply an important aspect of a healthy relationship in this writing: Interdependence. There are three types of relationships you can have with someone: independent, codependent, or interdependent. An independent relationship is like a typical friendship; you don't need to be around that person to function, and there is no intimacy. A codependent relationship is the kind you want to avoid with women. It's the type of relationship most people here call "one-itis" where …	/r/seduction	05/11/13 05:08 AM
1	I AM TIRED OF THE SHALLOWNESS OF THE GAME. I AM A SENSITIVE UNIQUE FLOWER AND I WANT REAL CONNECTIONS WITH WOMEN :'( Your username...	/r/seduction	15/10/13 01:56 AM
10	Girls’re just as lonely and frustrated as we are. They want to meet a guy. But not just a guy, a great guy.... In the words of Ben Folds, "You've got to learn to live with what you are."	/r/seduction	03/06/13 08:38 PM
1	So... i thought i was confident. Embrace rejection. There are too many women out there to count. And life is too short to sulk.	/r/seduction	30/05/13 03:30 AM