DialecticContrarian Archive

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1	How do you deal with other alphas in group Watch how they influence the room. If they put in pressure use that as a gift to increase the vibe, connectivity, and love. You're a diamond. Help them and their goals. They might ne more likelily to help you. But if they use their influence for bad, part ways. Chances are if they are the leader, their followers won't be good people either. Or they are calling out a character defect that's truly wrong with you, discern that line yourself	/r/askTRP	14/06/20 04:34 AM
2	How do I not get caught up in short term pleasures and focus on my purpose You need some serious dopamine detoxing... and here I am on reddit lol	/r/askTRP	14/06/20 04:30 AM
8	Mid 20s. Don't give a shit about much It's not even that, I'm like getting so much excitement and purpose from this new chapter in my life that it's like such a different world. I just dont see the lifestyles, or at least the version in my head, being complimentary. Unless a girl is hustling it's like idk, it just seems so rediculous. I really dont know how to describe it. I always wanted to be a father and a husband but now it's like, I genuinely don't care and kind of feel like I dont want those things. I just want to help and ins…	/r/askTRP	14/06/20 04:17 AM
1	I feel like such a fucking pussy Reading touch is a skill. You have to discern in milliseconds how she receives you. As soon as she shows discomfort pull away, she will respect you for that. Does it feel comfortable for you to place your hand on her? If not, take it off, she feels exactly what you feel. But if you are stuck in your own self you will keep perceiving the situation wrongly. If you dont like you, why would she like you? You'd do everyone a favor if you stopped being "you".	/r/askTRP	14/06/20 04:11 AM
1	Socially Awkward to Socially Savvy (Advice?) Yeah dude, if you have only one social group, you unconsciously pick up on their social norms. But you immerse yourself in group blind spots. Branch out and learn other people. It will be awkward because you just dont know and people are so different different. But you will pick up on fundamentals that are universal as you go	/r/askTRP	14/06/20 04:06 AM
24	Mid 20s. Don't give a shit about much I'm on my last string in dating. Talking to one last woman on catholic match. Depending on how that goes, ima pretty much just put everything into career family and friends	/r/askTRP	14/06/20 04:03 AM
1	How to not ruin my 30's, Pt2, Got an internship now what ? I feel so strongly about this. They abuse counselors. This stuff should be outlawed. Its unethical, it preys on youth. Companies should be fined heavily for this	/r/askTRP	14/06/20 04:01 AM
-5	Was I too harsh? I love that scene from family guy when Ronald McDonald's daughter is dressed scandalously and hes like. Where are you going?! And she's like I'm going out with friends. And hes like, no your not dressed like that, you're a McDonald.	/r/askTRP	14/06/20 03:56 AM
1	Where do I find a good man? Truth	/r/RedPillWomen	14/06/20 03:51 AM
2	Explaining the Double Standards around Sex Well yeah, of course people are going to latch on to one point over another. It's called selective focus. You're also losing a lot of perspective by the types of people not commenting, ti simply not comment. The problem is a lack of chastity. People in marriages can disrespect chastity just like non married people. Transcendent question is are you sexually objectifying your spouse, are you objectively manipulating your spouse as a means for a non unitive end? Are you objectifying others while in…	/r/RPChristians	13/06/20 04:17 PM
2	Does Man Really Findeth A Wife? Who gives a crap lol. You want a coach? I'm a coach. 25 M. Hit me up. I'll help you find what basket you want to put your eggs in. We'll do a discovery call and work on a plan to make it happen. You sound like a great candidate, one that takes action. I hear you say you want to build an empire. You don't need a woman to do that. Build your empire and any quality woman with any sense of self esteem will recognize that you are irreplaceable and that any other man would just be a joke for her to pu…	/r/RPChristians	18/05/20 04:22 PM
2	How do I approach my husband about this issue? Sounds like you need encouragement for your work. And want appreciation. You blind spot button or trigger point is probably not being good enough. Your love language is probably words of affirmation. Discipline is tough because we want it to come from within. But if it's not met with love its punitive and draining. I think Paul says it about, if I have all the truths and wisdoms of the world but do not have love, it is like a clashing gong	/r/RPChristians	18/05/20 03:22 PM