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Having a community/friends can help a lot. Many people have partners that wouldn’t lift a finger if they were dying
/r/ExRedPill26/09/25 02:13 AM
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Why are you worried about her future? Even if she doesn’t marry she can still build a beautiful life. But I see it this way. 50% of her peers will be divorced within the next 5-10 years. She may have missed the first wave of marriage among her peers but most of them will be seeking second marriages. She’s likely to find someone within that cohort.
/r/ExRedPill10/09/25 05:37 AM
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Autism and social anxiety I can relate to. While I understand the neurological implications of both I believe they are largely a skill issue. Dive into learning the skills that are missing for autistic and socially anxious people and you’ll see improvement. I’ve read a ton of books of social/people skills. Taken classes on public speaking and confidence. Joined discord groups and toast master groups to force me to speak in a group daily. Work your weak hand! And watch things change. Don’t just s…
/r/ExRedPill09/08/25 02:35 PM
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Why do you think you have a hard time dating? Have you explored that?
/r/ExRedPill09/08/25 02:34 AM
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And I stand on that. Keep lying to yourself about how men and women are biologically wired.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/25 06:27 PM
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She told him he just wanted a fun sexually fling 1 year max. He simply said yes.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/25 06:25 PM
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Ok….Where in this post did this guy disrespect her? Not wanting to text between meet ups and keeping it short is not disrespect lol that’s what you sign up for when you have a fuck buddy. It’s just sex
/r/ExRedPill02/08/25 06:22 PM
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And from what you wrote it doesn’t sound like he treated you like shit. Sounds like he was trying to maintain and enforce a boundary that you both agreed upon (maybe unspoken). A strictly physical interaction. You cant offer sex strictly and expect relationship benefits.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/25 06:20 PM
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No where in my response did I say you deserved it. If you can’t see how your actions contribute to outcomes then you are not mature enough to date or have FWB. You offered sex, he took you up on the offer but you tried to establish an emotional connection, ask him to stay longer to console you after a bad day, text him in between meet ups… sounds like a bait and switch. You lured him in with sex but tried to get more. Hence his anger/frustration with you. If being accountable for one’s actions m…
/r/ExRedPill02/08/25 06:18 PM
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This doesn’t sound red pill. This sounds like a man who likely didn’t respect you and wanted sex. I say this with respect, you created this problem. You met a man on a dating app, suggested the first date at your house, and offered him sex. Even if you didn’t go through with it, you showed him the type of woman you were and your standards. You can’t expect a man to respect and treat you well when you offer yourself on a platter without him having to earn it or even get to know you. Don’t try to …
/r/ExRedPill02/08/25 03:11 PM
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Yup. Some men focus way too much on quantity and ignore the fact that their partner is not enjoying or climaxing. What woman would want to keep repeating a sexual act that is unfulfilling? I wish more people knew that duty sex leads to a dead bedroom.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/25 05:39 PM
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We women carry too much and wonder why we burn out and have low libido! I’m glad this helped. Def check out that book it changed me! Also another book called fed up. Talks about the emotional labor we women carry in relationships that also leads to burn out.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/25 05:01 PM
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A few things: 1. Don’t let people on here make you feel like something is wrong with you for not wanting sex everyday. We tend to pathologize differences in libido but the truth is we are all wired differently and that’s ok. Regarding the extreme fatigue: I would check you iron, thyroid and assess your sleep. Lack of adequate sleep kills libido. Your husband complaining about the frequency is further killing your libido. When our partners complain about it, it becomes a point of contention and a…
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/25 01:47 PM
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I dunno. I’m a female and regardless of what state of mind I’m in I orgasm 100% with my toys. The issue is penetrative sex. Most women enjoy it but it’s not how they orgasm.
/r/MensRights29/06/25 08:55 PM
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No it’s because women are shamed and called hoes if they try to explore their bodies/sexuality. So most repress this drive to fit the social mold.
/r/MensRights29/06/25 08:52 PM
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Grieving comes in stages I hear. The last stage is when the partner moves on. Then you can close the chapter
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/25 08:52 PM
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Thanks
/r/ExRedPill04/06/25 04:57 AM
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Yea you’re right. Men do benefit more so are willing to wear a mask. But it doesn’t end well. No he knew I wouldn’t take him back after seeing all the bs. He’s also a closet racist I believe. Shortly after we ended things he got with a Caucasian woman and knocked her up within months. I think they’re engaged. Nothing wrong with interracial relationships but coming from a black man who specifically told me “white women are just easier” and said he would never date a white woman to a mutual friend…
/r/ExRedPill04/06/25 04:55 AM
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Deception for real. Luckily my ex said things like “there’s no wage gap between men and women, women just don’t want to work menial jobs”. “Why would you take advice from a woman”, “that guy is struggling because he’s raising another man’s kids”, “I would never be attracted to a fat woman”, “men deserve a prize for not cheating”, “I’m the prize” “men are treated unfairly”…just to name a few. They usually tell on themselves. But it’s scary that they enter into long term relationships and marriage…
/r/ExRedPill04/06/25 01:26 AM
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It seems like they are taught to keep it a secret. I once dated someone that echoed any redpill sentiments. I went snooping on his followers and saw all the red pill content creators. Went down the rabbit hole and ended up reading the rational male. Told my partner about what I found and how I read the entire book in one sitting. He was shocked and confused about how I found out about it all. Almost like I wasn’t supposed to know. Imagine dating and marrying someone who has a whole hidden set of…
/r/ExRedPill04/06/25 01:22 AM
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This! Someone needs to teach women that there are some men who hate women but just need them for reproductive purposes. It’s scary.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/25 01:00 AM
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Can you explain more. Why does it matter a lot. It’s obvious to me but just want someone else’s view
/r/ExRedPill04/06/25 12:59 AM
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Then your dog..if it’s a female lol
/r/ExRedPill27/05/25 01:51 PM
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So his smv is higher because he cares about his kids?
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/25 02:26 AM
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No know Tommasi is married .yet your claiming asexuality for life. He’s having sex regularly
/r/ExRedPill27/05/25 12:55 AM
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I hope someone treats your mother sister or aunt the same way if they see them in danger and need of help
/r/ExRedPill27/05/25 12:54 AM
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This is a red pill lie. A divorced man with a kid does not have a higher smv. Actually throw that whole word out
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/25 06:56 AM
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Her channel is so bad it’s comical. I feel really bad for the men stuck in bad marriages that she’s manipulating. This stuff is straight demonic.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/25 04:33 AM
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May I also suggest reading mind the gap. Eye opener
/r/ExRedPill26/05/25 04:22 AM
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I’ve learned a relationship break down is rarely just one persons fault. Unhealthy partners will try to dump all that responsibility of a failed relationship on one person. It’s not yours to carry alone. Yes,own your part of it but it’s likely not just all you. Once someone checks out there’s not much you can do and it actually gives you some peace. Kudos to you for fighting for it and trying. I hope you sleep well and get some rest knowing that you tried and it’s not all on you.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/25 10:50 AM
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There’s no timeline for healing. You may feel emotionally fine but your brain is still trying to process it. This is actually how we grow and evolve between relationships. Your current partner isn’t getting 100% of you if you’re still processing and getting angry.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/25 08:04 PM
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Yea it makes no sense. And this is a result of the redpill. It’s such toxic rhetoric.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/25 05:07 AM
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My apologies. I was actually referring to the OP not you lol
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/25 04:20 AM
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Right. The audacity of a divorced man to think he’s better off than a woman who’s been single for years is wild to me. she should be scrutinizing him!
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/25 04:20 AM
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lol the irony. How about figure out why your marriage failed and stop worrying about single attractive females red flags.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/25 04:10 AM
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Most women aren’t emotionally ready for commitment in their 20s. It’s better to wait and mature than rush into a situation that will end in divorce by their mid 30s. And what makes you think women have their pick of the litter in their 20s. This is sounding very red pill ish
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/25 04:01 AM
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Vet. Not vent
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/25 03:56 AM
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This. The problem is society thinks being single is a problem. But people can jump from relationship to relationship, be divorced 5 x and no one would bat an eye. Backwards ass society lol.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/25 03:55 AM
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Not a divorced individual scrutinizing someone else lol bro.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/25 03:53 AM
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Bingo. It functions to bring people together so they can procreate. It’s no surprise that most complain that the sex drive declines after moving in and/or having kids. Nature accomplished its goal lol now onto the next couple. Once we realize and accept this totally normal phenomenon we will stop blaming the opposite gender and start finding solutions that gets everyone’s needs met
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/25 07:33 PM
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You give women too much credit lol imagine being horny and with holding sex because the dishes aren’t done.
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/25 09:18 PM
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I honestly think most women are ill informed about their sex drive/libido. from my understanding, the female libido thrives in situations of novelty and when there is a certain elements of mystery. of course love respect and trust are important in relationships I really dont think thats what drives the female sex drive. society and movies have misinformed them.
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/25 06:57 PM
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please call a crisis hotline. Things may look bleak now but I promise you it won't always be this way. you are loved and needed. Theres so much more to your life than a woman/relationship. I promise that you will love again. just take it one day at a time. one moment at a time. dont look into the future. focus on getting through one day only.
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/25 06:44 PM
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the issue I see here is the wording that the woman is the supplier and the man is the consumer of intimacy/emotional support and companionship. dont you see the problem here? could this be why the supplier get burned out? constantly being the supplier and never able to be the consumer? add kids and the supplier has more people to supply to! why cant both genders be both supplier AND consumer?
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/25 06:35 PM
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sorry you went through all that. I feel like once a woman has lost that attraction it's almost impossible to get it back and sustain it. the goal is to never lose it.
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/25 06:31 PM
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I love this perspective. this woman on YouTube is actually pretty dangerous. she validates men yet pits them against women. she insists that women consciously and maliciously withhold sex. very divisive language. the truth is that the situation is very nuanced. its not a man vs woman issue. but a combination of many things. most people were misinformed about the reality of marriage and long term relationships. most women dont know that their libido will decrease significantly after the honey moo…
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/25 06:27 PM
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It’s worth it. Everyone is saying if you pick the right person. But what’s more important is if you are the best version of yourself. Work on any traumas you may have accumulated along the way before marriage. Master yourself. Get to know your quirks.
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/25 01:41 PM
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Reading about codependency and tracing the people pleasing behavior back to childhood. Most likely had a critical parent/care giving that forced them to learn to get their needs met by people pleasing. Also build up your sense of self worth.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/25 07:31 PM
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This is a tough one. In today’s economy it makes sense they both have good paying jobs. The kids take the hit though in the long run. When both parents are out of the house working the kids may not get the level of nurturing they need. But in this capitalist nation what can you do.
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/25 01:40 PM
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I dunno man. That invalidating the way of thinking could very possibly be your issue. Someone tells me they were abused who am I do invalidate and discredit it?
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/25 03:00 AM
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you missed the part where it said he is abusive. she didnt just wake up and decide to get divorced.
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/25 11:01 PM
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You’ve already trapped her in marriage. With respect I think you are a huge part of the problem and should do some reflection. If you leave this marriage pls do not consider marriage again.
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/25 05:10 AM
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This is a common feeling so don’t beat yourself up. I’m sure you learned a lot from the relationship and your next love will benefit from the lessons you learned and thus the better version of you. It’s also normal to put an ex on a pedestal. The brain does not like change. Just means you need to take time and heal. Maybe stay single for a while. You won’t die lol
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/25 07:38 PM
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Bro with respect…Your ego might be the issue
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/25 06:36 AM
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I wish I could tell every divorced man who thinks getting shredding this. Women want men who have a healthy balance of masculine traits and emotional/relational intelligence. Yes get shredded but learn how to really relate and build a healthy relationship.
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/25 02:30 AM
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It makes sense that you feel this way given what you’re going through. We’re wired to connect so I get it. Just know that love always comes around again. Give it time. Sit with your feelings. Getting shredding and up under another woman are just distractions. The only way out is to go through the pain and use it to evolve.
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/25 02:28 AM
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Exactly. It could be something as simple as he gets an extra cookie at moms lol
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/25 01:45 AM
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Did you ask her why she shared that? My ex partner once told me her family didn’t like me and didn’t think I was the right person for her. Gutted me. I asked why she shared that information and her response was “so you know what you’re up against”. So maybe she’s looking out for you? But most likely it’s a manipulation tactic to hurt you.
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/25 01:09 AM
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I like this! Boundaries.
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/25 01:05 AM
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This comment is good! Him telling her that is not an indication of your worth or your love with your son. It could be as simple as he eats more snacks at moms. Kids are so fickle. It speaks volumes of her character and intent to share that useless information with you. What were you supposed to do with that information? It was intended to hurt and manipulate you. You’ll need a Teflon layer of armor around her because this is likely not the last time.
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/25 01:04 AM
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congrats! would you get married again? what would you do differently?
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/25 06:15 AM
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Stomach full balls empty lmaoooo. Your poor wife
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/24 03:04 PM
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lol
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/24 03:03 PM
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