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ROAST-A-SCROTEDiamond-Breath/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 01:22 PM
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My boyfriend is an amazing man and he's definitely a progressive, even if he acts like a traditional man (he pays for all the dates and is really loving towards me). He told me he would support me in any decision after the election and I believe him. I love him so our sex life won't be affected BUT I did tell him that kids are off the table if they ban abortion and birth control where we live. Also, I don't think we'll marry officially if they eliminate no-fault divorce. We'll just do a ceremony…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:40 PM
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A South Korean woman mentioned in another sub that Korean men want to minimize the 4B movement there and not acknowledge the issue, but it IS happening and now they have the lowest birth rate in the entire world. You can try to wish it away and not acknowledge it, but 4B already arrived to the US since the election.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 11:11 AM
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Does a 7 year old have more maturity than a 16 year old?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:59 PM
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No, we need more women to wake up and actual good men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:18 PM
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Age comes with a more developed brain and the ability to take advantage of younger people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:51 PM
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Misandry is a defense mechanism, when men actually show us that they respect us and love us, it will be the day we won't choose the bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:46 PM
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Lol I wouldn't blame women for hating our oppressors.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:40 PM
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Good men support us, the one's who don't will just keep suffering the loneliness epidemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:38 PM
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No women are removing men's rights and/or killing them off just because they are men. Misandry does not exist, we're just tired of placating our opressors.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:26 PM
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When men stop disrespecting us, beating us, raping women and children, and literally killing us and the whole family if they don't get their way, it will be the day that women won't fear and resent men. Hold other men accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 02:46 PM
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So?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:49 AM
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Women aren't the ones whining about the lack of sex. You parrot the same point in this sub practically everyday. We will be more than fine, believe me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:48 AM
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4B seems to work just fine for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:22 AM
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Sexual experience does not equal maturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:15 PM
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Male chivalry during emergencies is a myth. The Titanic was an exception because Captain Smith threatened the men to give their space to the women and children. https://vancouver.citynews.ca/2012/04/12/researchers-titanic-was-an-exception-male-chivalry-on-sinking-ships-is-a-myth/
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:28 AM
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Because men have an advantage physically and when push comes to shove, they don't care about the people who need the most help.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:27 AM
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In sinking ships women and children make up most of the deaths. Even in the Titanic the captain and his officials HAD to threaten the men with guns to try and save the women and children first. Edit: I'm getting downvoted for telling the truth, but you can look it up for yourselves. https://globalnews.ca/news/233057/researchers-titanic-was-an-exception-male-chivalry-on-sinking-ships-is-a-myth/
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:34 PM
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No, I wouldn't. I don't find 50/50 men attractive at all. Even less so if he splits the bill and still expects sex on the first date, that would make me a clown.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 11:48 PM
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You can spoil your husband in other ways though, women already bring a lot of value to a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 11:18 PM
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Money is part of it obviously, try to do anything in life without money.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 11:15 PM
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The dating scene is full of mediocre men, why should we initiate? And yes, we do expect the bill to be paid by the man because they're not the ones at risk of being raped and killed by a man who's much stronger than 99% of women. We already do so much to fit into the mold that society wants for women. And we don't receive any preferential treatment in schools, we all get the same tests. This is not Japan where they failed the women on purpose just to prop up the men who were actually failing the…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:46 AM
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We are treated as inferior, the default is men. Right now we even have one of the most qualified candidates running for president and she's literally so close to a pedophile/rapist/felon/fraudster just because A LOT of people don't want to vote for a female candidate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:40 AM
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Who created the draft and banned women from the military? And what are the so-called benefits that women get from being treated and regarded as inferior?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 11:00 PM
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Objectively false since toxic masculinity benefits men more.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 10:55 PM
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Latinos are really comfortable with the idea of having a housewife. Not all of them obviously (like in any country), but most of them wouldn't mind being in a traditional relationship. Source: Am Latina.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/24 07:46 PM
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If we could have more than one man that is actually worthwhile, I think plenty of women would be into polyandry. Even then, the men who are not chosen would be extremely jealous and they would judge the women heavily. They already do but imagine if polyandry was more widespread...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 05:55 PM
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My boyfriend dresses neatly. Long pants, dress shirts, nice-looking shoes, etc. He looks like a model when we go out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 07:20 AM
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Grandpa shouldn't have such high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:48 PM
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It's noticeable that you live a bitter life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 01:22 AM
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Love is not something finite, you can find another person worthy of it again. I'd mourn him properly, heal my trauma, give him my sincerest appreciation spiritually. And if some time down the line I find another person I could love, I wouldn't close my heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 12:03 AM
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I'm late to the convo, but I would choose number 2. That's literally my dream, and just imagining my marriage with the man I love makes me excited. He's one of the best things that has ever happened to me. The trad stuff doesn't really bother me, but I'm Latina though. We're a little more comfortable with the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:50 AM
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Ngl, you sound a little cuckoo for real. They were probably joking around.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:35 AM
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I'm bi so I definitely do watch bisexual/lesbian porn. Straight too. I think some women here underestimate how sexually flexible we can really be.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:25 AM
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Depends, my bf pays for all our outings (we don't live together yet because I want to marry him first). When we marry and have kids, we've decided that I'll be a homemaker. So it really depends on the dynamic of your relationship and what would make both of you happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 11:27 PM
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Divorce rape 😂😂😂 Fella, divorces are bad for everyone. And yes, you're supposed to pay child support for the child you made (if you don't have custody).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:31 PM
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Lol he's delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:26 PM
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All I wanted was a gentleman, a traditional man, and I found him. I don't know why there's so many theories surrounding women like we're alien species. We find the most compatible man that is attractive to us and that's it. We're simpler than you think. None of this red pill mumbo-jumbo nonsense, it all depends on the woman and her personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:20 PM
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Women should definitely have high enough standards. You're choosing the man that will determine a lot of things in your life, you owe it to your future kids. And even if you don't want kids, time is valuable. Female companionship is valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:33 AM
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We care, we just don't obsess over it like men do. I don't like to waste my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:57 AM
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I was an avid reader of FDS and I never saw a post about coercive control over men and poking holes in condoms. Not even in their site you see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:09 AM
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No, it's the radical feminist option. Although we can claim femcels too, they're nice people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:07 AM
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Men defend literal predators all the time (if they're male). Women are usually more objective.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 05:01 PM
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Well, it's hard to not judge men's sexuality when you see what they masturbate to on porn sites.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 04:36 PM
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He was a grown man, he had the tools at his disposal and he didn't take them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:04 PM
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You don't know half the things I went through with that man. The relationship turned toxic and I still tried to help him. But he needed to fulfill his part in taking care of his mental health and he didn't, a relationship needs to be nurtured and protected.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:01 PM
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Women kill men for money LMAO. Believe me it's not as common as men killing women for any reason. It's not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:50 AM
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Coming from a Latina, you can also take her out to an actual restaurant. Appreciate her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:47 AM
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My ex was a broken man, he had depression since he was a teenager but he barely looked for any help outside of my attention (I also suspect he had undiagnosed autism). We stayed together for 5 years until I broke up with him for my own sanity. A lot of women are like me, we do love these men deeply until it's too much for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:12 PM
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Do men get pregnant and give birth too? Women are vulnerable when they have babies, they need a man that makes the same amount of money as them or more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:47 AM
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You kinda sound like a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 05:30 AM
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I won't stand for this attack on younger men. My boyfriend is just 2 years older than me (we're both in our late 20's). He's sweet, decent, he doesn't drink, doesn't go clubbing and he sure as hell doesn't do drugs. He's a college graduate and he takes care of me financially. He's sane, mature, and he's the perfect example of what a masculine man looks like. And as the cherry on top, he's literally an Adonis, he has been compared to Superman many times. Stunning man in all aspects. Having said t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 05:23 AM
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Depends, 40 year old Gal Gadot looks hotter than when she was a 20 year old. She grew into her looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 05:04 AM
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That's disturbing and tells A LOT of the fallen nature of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:57 AM
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I'm in my 20s, and I would never date an older man that thinks that his shit doesn't stink. It's a red flag when they're only looking for way younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:54 AM
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It's obvious that anyone, male or female, wouldn't choose the 50 year old if they're young themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:26 AM
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Older men on their peak? Sorry but that's not true, I'd rather have a young Adonis that treats me well over an older man that most likely has tons of baggage and isn't as attractive as his younger counterpart.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:24 AM
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When men fight for custody they get it, it's just that most men give zero fucks and KNOW they can't handle kids 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:18 PM
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Pregnancy and childbirth is no joke. Plus, most of the child-rearing rests on women's shoulders and we're already kicking ass in our careers, it's almost impossible to do both and live happily. Men SHOULD be as present but when push comes to shove, women still have more of the burden. Having said that, I do want to marry my boyfriend and have kids with him, but I told him that I'd like to be a homemaker and he's definitely on board with the situation. We're just waiting for him to be more stable…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:10 PM
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I adore my boyfriend and he pays for everything (been together for 5 years already). It feels natural and stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 04:44 AM
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My boyfriend always covers all the bills and we've been together for almost 5 years (and counting). I love him to bits and we have a very healthy relationship. It feels natural and our tendencies regarding our genders are satisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 04:39 AM
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Exactly, it's clear as day. Even the birds know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 04:34 AM
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I know plenty of women who split the bill and are subservient, and I think even moreso than a traditional woman. These women work outside the home, inside the home, contribute financially, are the primary caretakers, and the list goes on. Bad deal all around, I'd rather focus on one sphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 04:29 AM
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Even if you go halfsies, most men will still feel entitled to sex. Their first impression of you will be that they found a woman with low enough standards to fuck without investing much. They'll just take advantage of the situation, even when they know women are more disadvantaged in our society. And to be honest, the quality of the relationship will always be altered when you split the bill. Men who try to impress you by proving they can provide for you and make you feel comfortable are always …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 04:23 AM
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Girl, this may hurt a little but even if you pay for your share they'll still feel entitled to sex. In fact, a lot of them will think you're actually dumb and easier compared to women who have higher standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 04:08 AM
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That's because: 1) women have a lot more to lose if they meet and date the wrong man, 2) most women have more expensive physical upkeep compared to men, 3) we provide the womb and many benefits to the sexual relationship, 4) women are great in terms of chores and emotional exchanges, and 5) we're more in demand on dating apps and general dating culture. Really, ask yourself why most women have a larger selection of dating prospects. We ARE valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 04:05 AM
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Did you see the news about the man that strangled his wife and pureed her body in a blender? That's why. It's better to be cautious.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 07:16 PM
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My boyfriend goes to the gym 6x times a week, he's muscular with a full head of hair and a beautiful face. He models from time to time and people compare him to Superman, so yes I really find him attractive. As a matter of fact, a girl recorded him at work and posted him on TikTok just because he's hot lol. He even looks good when he plays sub for me, that's the real test of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:47 AM
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Chad definitely puts in effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:02 PM
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Who told you vaginal orgasms are more satisfying? Clitoral orgasms are the most powerful ones, your whole body goes to Nirvana.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:00 PM
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My bf is legit gorgeous and he's really good. Great stamina and eager to please 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:57 PM
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Who's stopping you from creating male spaces? Start today.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:21 PM
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When women initiate they're ridiculed for it or used as a placeholder.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:20 PM
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Supply and demand. Men MAKE and WATCH this content, they obsess over it (even normal videos are full of double entendres and men talking about porn), and would throw a global fit if porn disappeared tomorrow. Female pornstars are just hired for the job, and when women make their own OnlyFans, they get criticized heavily and still need to cater to men's tastes or they get nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 01:55 PM
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People are too soft when this topic comes along. It's because male sexuality is more perverted and it's actually dangerous. Gang-rapes exist, sexual torture, incest, pedophilia, human trafficking of women and girls (boys too but let's be real, most are females), throughout all history women have been controlled using their own sexuality against them, and a lot of people have been produced by rape/impregnation (especially during wars, which of course are started by men too). You only have to chec…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:53 AM
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I won't put your feelings above my sense of security, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:48 PM
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Nothing wrong with sprinkle sprinkle girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 06:30 AM
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If you want her to be a sex goddess, bear and birth your children, cook 3 meals, clean everything, be the primary caregiver/child-rearer, look beautiful and fit, and be the organizer of your entire life, being a virgin or not wouldn't matter at all. She already contributes too much, if you had to pay professional services for what a housewife does, you'd go broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:42 AM
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I play videogames too so I would actually find it attractive. What would certainly bother me is ignoring all the household chores and our time together in favor of playing videogames.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:16 PM
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We want well-adjusted, attractive men. Water is wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 08:09 PM
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They'd love that clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:49 PM
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Because most men are terrible husbands, and a lot of them aren't even decent fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:45 PM
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I agree but you're quite naive if you think that men didn't cheat when female sexual freedom wasn't around. Men did step up for marriage and they certainly did too for extramarital affairs. At the end of the day, men will do what benefits them. They want the conservative wife/gf and the sexually-liberated mistress.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:41 PM
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I support traditional marriages, in fact, that's what I plan to do when I get married and have my kids. I like the idea because I feel like that's the best arrangement to raise kids and it also would keep me attracted to him. I love the idea of being his soft landing after work, and having him fulfill his role of protector and provider. It creates polarity and I think it's more interesting that way. Plus, the happiest marriages I've seen have been traditional. The housewife always looks radiant …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:32 PM
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*you're And none of the things you described are negatives. Short women get dates, POC get dates, trans, fat women, tall women, all of them pair up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:19 PM
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Shhh, you're making too much sense. He won't be able to handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 01:03 AM
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I don't know where and when those studies were conducted but I'm pretty sure they don't show the whole story. Women do masturbate, they just don't tell people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 01:00 AM
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You'll stop obsessing over your looks when you realize that there's more important things in life than beauty. We'll all end up dead one day, enjoy your days doing things that actually make YOU happy.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/24 01:22 PM
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Bi women and lesbians exist, now more than ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:39 PM
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Women have to look attractive and be able to please a man. Fat ugly women never get chosen for relationships, I see it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 10:34 AM
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Changing diapers is definitely a man's job if he's the father. Having a dick doesn't make you useless. A woman should change more diapers if she's a housewife, but if they both work the man should do his part too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 01:34 AM
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Do men promote singleness as acceptable for women? In what world are you living in?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:10 PM
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Those broke college students have gfs or casual sex because they give the illusion of a better future. The woman feels like the man has potential financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 10:40 PM
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Wholeheartedly agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 10:36 PM
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Am Latina, I do value a man that can provide for me. Latin America is quite traditional so I don't know what you're smoking.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 10:33 PM
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At least prostitutes get paid for their time, some women give their all for free and then get betrayed by the men who took everything from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 10:18 PM
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Because women are the ones who get impregnated, they carry the baby for 9 months, give birth and then breastfeed. We're more vulnerable, especially at that stage, so we need a man that can actually take care of a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 10:09 PM
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Your mistake was inviting a strange man into your house. He should be courting you properly, taking you on dates and such.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/24 06:08 PM
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Honestly, you should mind coffee dates. A man that likes you would put more effort into a date. Believe me.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/24 06:05 PM
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Facts are facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:27 PM
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It depends on whether we are actually compatible and if we both find each other attractive. I think the perfect balance is getting asked out by a man and taking things slow knowing each other. That way you get the best of both worlds, a solid foundation on friendship and romantic interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 07:48 PM
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They don't actually trust science when it's not in their interest to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:33 PM
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The normal age gap is 1-3 years with the man being older on average. You can research plenty of studies that say so. Bigger age gaps end up in divorce or separation most of the time. Personal anecdotes don't count as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:30 PM
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My man takes care of me, he's wonderful. Feels great to be treated like a princess, I highly recommend it lol.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/24 03:20 PM
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Same way men want a woman that is more attractive than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:14 PM
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They're the biggest hypocrites, I can't even 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:50 AM
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Men don't file for divorce because they're lazy and expect the woman to do all the steps. Plus, being married gives them a lot of benefits (even if they hate their wives).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 06:07 AM
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Women are always at fault, remember that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:06 AM
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Men are literally the kings of dodging accountability for the acts of their own gender. The hypocrisy makes me laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:05 AM
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I don't think these women hate it, hate is too strong a word. It's just that women are surprisingly protective of other women, especially the younger ones. In my case, I'm in my 20's. And you can bet that I'll help another woman and tell her how valuable she is. It's really rare that a big age gap benefits the younger party, these men almost always end up being toxic, controlling and even abusive to them. They use their experience to keep the woman down and use her for what she can give.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 09:07 PM
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It's worrying if it's a large age gap because the younger party has wayyy less experience and can be easily manipulated. Recipe for toxic and abusive relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 08:56 PM
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Lol maybe she's not really mentally sane?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 08:54 PM
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Ooorrrrr women are dating other women. Bi women and lesbians exist and they keep increasing in number.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:53 PM
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My boyfriend is only 2 years older than me and I think it's perfect. We share so many hobbies, interests, and we can actually watch the same tv shows together and nerd out lol. Having said that, he provides for me and he's a complete gentleman, so I got the best of both worlds.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:52 PM
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You think the Andrew Tate mindset has no power in society? When women have been treated like the inferior gender for thousands of years? So much so that we actually needed a movement to stop the oppression. And still there are men like you that keep trying to bring it down. Feminism will always be needed until women all over the world are no longer victims of the treatment of terrible men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 03:16 PM
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None of those are unfixable problems or things that happen just because people treat you unfairly. If you mess around with your life and the lives of others, you will end up in prison or homeless. Also, there's no real discrimination academically (nobody gave me my grades and my degree for free as a woman, I worked hard for them), and we all have mental health problems, it's just that women actually go and get treated.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 09:11 AM
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Feminism is a movement for women, and at the same time, men should be able to recognize that a lot of their behavior is problematic and change accordingly. As an example, nobody would expect Black Lives Matter to cater to white people, we just know that racism against black people exists and we try to support them. Why should we treat feminism differently?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 09:05 AM
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I have the same boundary, keep your standards tight.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/24 06:05 AM
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How is that related to the post?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 05:08 PM
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Why an expensive gift? Your feminine presence is enough, you wouldn't want to seem desperate, especially when he didn't get you a gift for your birthday. I suggest giving him a normal-small gift that doesn't stretch your finances.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/24 06:01 AM
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We all want a balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:53 AM
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When women make the first move they get used or they get treated like they're desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:45 AM
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Mhm sure Jan.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 01:11 AM
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Increasing beauty standards is a complaint by men? I'm actually glad men are putting in work to look their best, just like women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:14 PM
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If he doesn't look particularly good, he can't offer financial stability, and a masculine yet gentle personality, then why should a woman be attracted to him? No man would be attracted to an unattractive woman for no reason. My advice? If you're already in a spot where you can be a husband and father (mentally, physically and financially), the woman you need will find you sooner or later. Just be open and talk to them. I found my bf on Tinder, he asked me out and then it was smooth sailing from …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:00 PM
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Why did the 4B movement occur again? Feminist countries don't need these kinds of measures.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:56 AM
2

Projection, they feel miserable themselves and can't stand women being happy without being chained to a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 07:11 PM
0

If he's handsome, has a great personality and actually has money, then sure. But most men don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 06:45 PM
17

Will they address the rampant sexual assault problem that exists for women in the military?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 08:27 PM
1

Your statement doesn't even make sense because traditional dynamics are different in many parts of the world, a lot of men pay/paid dowries too. In fact, most men paid the bride price. And we can argue that even today, Western men still pay a pseudo-bride price with the engagement ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:50 PM
1

You enjoy sex too, but how many women get orgasms out of their sexual encounters with men? How many men get pregnant from sexual encounters with women? Do we treat women's sexuality and freedom the same as men? Have you seen how pornstars are treated in the industry, how the videos are called and how they name the women in them? In the real world, our sexuality is more targeted and demonized. Why would you give your all for nothing and receive all of the consequences?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:36 PM
1

Traditional dynamics will always exist. I found mine, and any woman who wants that can find it also. If you're upset about it then find a woman that accepts whatever you're trying to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:24 PM
1

Can you explain because I can barely understand what you're trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:12 PM
3

Both.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:11 PM
2

You can call it whatever you want if it makes you feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:10 PM
7

I'm attracted to successful men, mostly because they have resources and would be capable of taking care of a family financially. Pretty sure that qualifies as attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:47 AM
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I'm sorry but he deserved it. He was quite aggressive with her and needed to get off his high horse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 10:19 PM
3

Cringe as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 09:49 PM
3

It depends on the woman you're trying to date. In my case I only date men that behave as traditional men. My man "courted" me properly, and we still like that dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 08:04 PM
-1

So it's better to give your body, heart and soul for free? I'd rather have a man that respects me enough to take me out properly and court me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 08:01 PM
0

We're too picky but at the same time we choose losers, according to them. How convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:50 PM
1

If Trump wins he'll change everything and become a legit dictator. You didn't research anything about Project 2025 and it shows. Come back to me when you actually have an interest in the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 11:31 PM
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Being bald is a deficiency, having small breasts is just a feature. They're fundamentally different.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:20 PM
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You're certainly insane if you believe that, reeks of pure projection. I really think men should make their own movements to tackle their own problems instead of hijacking a movement made for women's rights. Women literally were tortured and killed for trying to have the right to vote, have bank accounts, and be protected from marital rape (and any kind of crime against them). And yet, we're still being vilified everywhere, men are still treated as the default gender. We still have a long way to…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:17 PM
2

Research for yourself, their manual is online for free. And as a matter of fact, people said the same thing about Roe vs Wade and they overturned it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 04:31 AM
1

🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 04:28 AM
12

That's what Project 2025 is going for. Please vote blue people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 03:47 AM
1

Exactly, I think dating apps are superior in every way. The only time I'm open to romantic approaches. Well was, I met my bf on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 05:59 PM
3

Idk but my man is literally the opposite of what you just mentioned. Healthy couples exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:20 PM
1

English is not my first language but I'll try to give my 2 cents. I looked for a man that had all the qualities of a great father for my future children. An excellent father will be an amazing husband, the mindset is quite similar. So I would tell guys to look for a woman with all the qualities of a loving mother. I think that should be the bare minimum to have a healthy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:47 AM
3

I'm sorry but that just sounds like a giant excuse for boys and men to not do better. Me and the girls around me were serious about our education, the boys were just goofing around. No one gave me my A's and my degree for free, I studied hard and put in effort. No matter the gender of my professors. And hey, my boyfriend did great too. He's college educated and he even WORKED at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 09:05 PM
0

Wtf you live in la la land lol. Where are the evil women that are punishing little boys for existing? It's the other way around, men kill, abuse and rape women/girls all over the world. Even now they're trying to take away our rights again in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:58 PM
1

Don't worry, Project 2025 will fix it /s It's funny how men can't tolerate women being treated a little bit better for the first time in history. We literally gained rights like 60-100 years ago, and we still don't have equal representation in politics and other areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:49 PM
3

I'll never get the obsession with this discussion, just enjoy life with the people you love and the ones who love you back. As long as the person is clean and loyal, why should you waste time thinking about it? Life is ridiculously short and believe me, it won't matter at all when you're in your deathbed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 01:52 AM
2

Money is power and security, a man that plans to lead and protect his family must be able to provide financially.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/24 07:35 AM
2

That's false, read a science book. Even Down Syndrome is caused by aging sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 06:06 PM
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When we say we like older men, we don't mean 6+ years. The ideal is 2-3 years older than me, max 5 years if we're both adults. More than that feels uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 05:59 PM
2

She can, having a person that will carry your children and birth them is more than enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:54 PM
1

I wanted a traditional relationship. A masculine man that knows how to take care of himself and others, so my first and only date from Tinder included a man that is an avid gym-goer, is educated, and that was attentive to me throughout all the courtship. I call it courtship because he took me on many dates he paid for and gave me gifts on ocassions. He still treats me like a princess and he's always mentioned that he can't wait to be the father of my children, and viceversa. Point is, I require …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:45 PM
1

They can certainly get the closest option.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:18 PM
0

Then they need men that can actually support a family, aka men with money.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:17 PM
0

All women are "prostitutes" at the end of the day. Some are public, others private. Andrea Dworkin explains it better than me, but association with men hardly benefits women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:20 PM
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That's not common at all. I've only had 2 partners in my whole life and both waited practically a year. They courted me properly first. Still in a serious relationship with the second guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 07:42 PM
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You're certified crazy if you believe all that. Projection at its finest. Men barely wipe their own asses and clean the dishes, imagine if they had to do half what women do everyday. They carry the most burden in the home, they take care of everyone and they're still leaving men in the dust in school and the workplace. And I'm not even mentioning what women have to suffer, I wrote that down in another comment. The only thing men may experience is war and there hasn't been a draft for ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:57 PM
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Periods and the cost to manage them, the performance of femininity, pregnancy, child-birth, the lack of orgasms in heterosexual couples, the loss of female-only spaces because men have to barge in everywhere where women try to connect with each other, having to prove ourselves way more than men in school and any career, we're losing our reproductive rights, we end up with all the burden in the home/family yet we still work outside the home, pornography showcases us in denigrating ways, we have t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:36 PM
0

Sure, tell me ALL the privileges I have as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:18 PM
0

I love your flair
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:12 AM
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Delusional, we live in a man's world. You wouldn't last a day in the life of an average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:10 AM
1

At the same time men are whining about the "unfair" advantage women have on dating apps and the dating market as a whole. Tell me then, how would it work for men too when they can't even get a woman to answer them on a dating app?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:02 PM
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Lol if you say so. Truth hurts doesn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 10:21 PM
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I don't like promiscuous men, I would never marry one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:55 PM
1

Even most swear words are meant to insult a woman instead of the culprit. We're not equal yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:51 PM
1

Not her fault if she has an abusive family and/or absent father.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:49 PM
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Men can't demand what a traditional/feminine woman can, he'd be working against thousands of years of biological evolution in place.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 07:04 PM
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I'd totally sleep with a younger man, but I wouldn't take him seriously as a bf/husband. I prefer someone my own age or max 3-4 years older than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:39 PM
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They just like to whine about their problems and try to make women solve it for them. Male accountability is nonexistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:34 PM
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If it makes you feel better, I preferred a guy that looks like Henry Cavill and took me out to a fancy restaurant. Women with standards exist lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:27 PM
4

Women understand women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 06:38 PM
1

You literally said the same thing you already mentioned in your first comment lol. You're either a man or a bot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 10:33 PM
1

I don't think it's an unique experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 10:31 PM
1

My boyfriend takes me to different places, showers me with gifts, etc. and he's in fact my long-term bf. Every man wants and expects sex, at least the woman in question feels taken care of.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 10:03 PM
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Female genital mutilation is way worse. It's performed with rusty, unhygienic tools, it cuts off the entire clitoris or the majority of the vulva and then it's sewn shut without any anesthesia, and it's done on girls that already know what is happening to them. A lot of them lose the ability to feel any pleasure and/or die because of the infections. For what reason? To control their sexuality and mark them as inferior to men, only to be used as sex slaves and broodmares when they grow up (some e…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:58 PM
1

That's what my ex thought and he ended up killing himself. Relationships solve nothing if you don't work on yourself first.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:14 PM
8

Are you really defending the older man who was dating/raping a minor?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 11:09 AM
6

Am female, I usually don't respond to ignorant replies. Time is valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:39 PM
10

This, stupid responses don't deserve any attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:35 PM
2

Men hurt women. They stalk them, sexually harass them, rape them, use them as emotional tampons, free maids, incubators, nannies and even cash cows... lots get beaten up or killed by their bfs/husbands/exes, some lose their kids to those tragedies, we still aren't able to hold powerful positions in the same manner and quantity as men in politics and media because we're harshly criticized, and much more. We are systematically put down and dismissed as an inferior class, the injustice is still pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:59 AM
2

Not all kept women are escorts, they can be in real relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 08:06 PM
2

Sex from the POV of the woman. I want to see the good-looking man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 05:58 PM
2

Because women are the gender that are expected to be purer and untouched by the world. If a woman lives with her parents, it's harder for her to be truly independent and make trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:17 PM
5

You mean normal men that actually treat women well?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:51 AM
5

Child support is necessary because kids don't grow from palm trees and they're not maintained by forest fairies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:42 AM
1

How convenient for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 10:33 PM
1

I'd say that my bf is a mix. He's traditional, the providing type, but he doesn't like to block other people's freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 10:24 PM
8

Exactly, it's never real love.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:18 AM
11

Lol at the insecure men telling you that it doesn't happen. They can't get over the fact that single mothers can still get amazing men. You go girl!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:14 AM
1

If you want a dinner date, stick to your standards. Me personally, I don't like coffee dates. A man can go to 100 coffee dates in a short period of time and have different women on his rotation, especially if all these women split the bill. I prefer a dinner/entertainment date that shows me he's serious about dating me. Never had a problem with that mentality, that's how my boyfriend courted me and I have no issues with him. He's a wonderful man.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/24 05:52 PM
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Which is stupid because you can still get out of a dinner date. Just pay your bill discreetly and leave.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/24 05:46 PM
1

I hated so much when the teen boys in my classroom used to say the same thing. "AlL wOmeN lIKE ASshOlEs". 🤡 No we the fuck don't, braindead take. Maybe some damaged individuals gravitate towards people like this (men and women), but normal well-adjusted people certainly don't. Having said that, I don't want someone without a spine either. You can have a strong character without being an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 03:29 PM
1

I found a great relationship just fine, and on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 08:41 AM
5

I'm sorry but you sound off, not really like a real woman at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 08:39 AM
4

I agree with your bullet points honestly.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/24 12:59 AM
1

A 2-parent household is better obviously, IF the father is actually father AND husband material.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:17 AM
3

If he wanted to he would rings true in this situation. He wouldn't miss the chance to spend time with you in person. If I were you I would reduce the time that I'm texting him and focus on other things.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/24 02:58 PM
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Don't do it, the kids will add stress into your relationship, even if they're not your own. He'll always be chained to them and the baby mama.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/24 02:55 PM
2

Of course women are wary of men, a lot are legit dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 10:51 PM
2

Because the career wife is more tired obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:29 AM
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Idk I wouldn't mind staying at home doing household duties and taking care of my children/husband. I don't really like or even need stimulation from outside people, and that's me not even being married yet. Women like me exist, I go out once in a while and it's quite fun, but I'd rather spend time at home with my loved ones. Btw the housewives I know have their own cards, their husbands deposit money and they use it how they need/want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:25 AM
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That's projection, everything you're saying has already happened to women and girls. And it keeps happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:44 AM
2

Not even, I literally have 1 friend that I talk to occasionally and I'm quite content lol. I can't maintain friendships 💀 too lazy and antisocial
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:39 AM
2

If you're not going to be a present father, don't bring kids into this world. Kids need parents that are actually there with them, and I'd argue that they'll always need a loving mom. It's not the same at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 06:47 AM
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My girl game was being sweet, shy and slow to get into bed. He took me out to different places and with time we got to know each other more deeply. We've been together for 4 years and counting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 07:08 PM
2

Men have been our oppressors for most of human history and they still are in a lot of places. The majority of violent and sexual crimes are commited by men and even pregnant women are at risk of being unalived by their own male partners. It's actually the #1 cause of mortality for them. So yes, obviously women aren't happy with the state of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 03:10 PM
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According to the men in this sub, women are attracted to losers and violent men so aren't the standards for men already low enough? Make up your minds already.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 11:31 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:54 PM
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Improve, be better, be a man
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:52 PM
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And men are notorious for their accountability 😒 give me a break
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:50 PM
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When have men controlled their sexual desires?? War breaks out, you're the first ones to enslave women and girls to rape them. Even in "civilized" society it still happens. And I'm not even mentioning porn and the human trafficking involved in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:48 PM
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Women reject guys but they don't spin plates, which is frankly worse. Red pill men are users.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:45 PM
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I'm a feminist, I believe women should have the freedom to choose what they want to do with their lives and to have the protection they need from some men (plenty of them are dangerous). Yet, I prefer traditional gender roles. Both ideas can coexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:37 PM
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There's no female loneliness epidemic, women don't care as much. They know that dating and loving men comes with so many risks that a lot of them aren't even bothering. And why would you think that futuristic sex/companionship robots would only be purchased by men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:58 AM
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I can understand, don't let people lower your standards. My bf is barely 28 years old (2 years older than me) and he knows how to change a car tire. It does signal that he's a resourceful, capable man that can and will handle any problems coming your way. We are attracted to protectors, there's no shame in that.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/24 11:49 AM
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What if you program it to work from home? He could still provide lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 08:15 PM
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I'm pretty sure that robot bfs would be a hot niche for women. He could look however you wanted and he could probably benchpress 10+ men while telling you how beautiful you look. Win-win.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 08:13 PM
2

Women can date other women and they're also choosing to remain single.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:07 PM
0

There's A LOT of autistic women that never get diagnosed or they get diagnosed later in life. It goes unnoticed most of the time because girls and women mask it better and the behaviour is different from boys/men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 02:18 AM
2

I've seen guys enforcing this way more often than girls. When men want to bully, they're downright evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 01:48 AM
1

Robert de Niro, the movie star with plenty of money to buy 10+ private jets?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:42 PM
1

Men are definitely in a hurry too. Most men are not physically attractive when younger, getting older won't help them at all and they don't upkeep their looks like women do. Fertility-wise, the max age that sperm banks use before rejecting sperm is 45yrs old. The ideal range is 18-35 for them. Aging sperm causes many conditions, including Down's Syndrome. And even though women find men with money attractive, the average man is behind the average women financially and academically. So you can't e…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:39 PM
2

He looks like the trashcan muppet nowadays, not as desirable anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:32 PM
1

What about the NEET that married a doctor?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:31 PM
2

All the hottest stars are 30+. Think of any sex bomb and she'll be in her 30's.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:40 PM
5

I'm quiet and people describe me as pretty feminine. A quiet woman can give the impression of sweetness, softness, and mystery. Some people call it having a calm spirit, which I think is really alluring to men. Having said that, a quiet man can be very attractive too. The strong and silent type, no words are needed to take action and protect the ones you love. So I believe quietness is just a trait, it can be feminine or it can be masculine. It depends on the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 12:51 AM
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No they don't, they're all over Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:00 PM
4

No, we need our own spaces to talk without male interruption.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:00 PM
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I would normally agree with you but I want to point out that women with hijabis still get sexually harassed and the ones in the Middle East can't even leave their homes because men are quite disrespectful to them. It doesn't matter what you wear if the man has the intention to sexualize you and humilliate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:59 PM
3

Don't buy him flowers, get him something that is useful.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/24 08:30 PM
2

He'll get what he deserves, protect your own energy. Sooner or later he may even get a STD.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/24 12:26 AM
3

Best comment around here.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/24 02:13 AM
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Chad isn't a man? Handsome men commit just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:14 PM
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Old news, not relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:13 PM
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Men hardly want to be single dads, it's A LOT of responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:09 PM
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The military is full with sexual harrasment, I wouldn't advise that. Regarding men, you just have to find an actual traditional man that doesn't expect you to work full-time and then come home to handle all of the housechores and child-rearing alone, on top of staying feminine and beautiful. My aunt tried that as a nurse and mom and guess what? She died of a heart attack and left her children with a man that didn't even know how to cook or be organized enough to clean. Those kids were screamed a…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/24 02:21 PM
6

It's deeply unfair, no wonder marriage and birth rates are going down.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/24 02:00 PM
11

So the woman gets burdened with both roles while the man just works?
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/24 01:55 PM
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I would never condone domestic abuse and yes, males are the perpetrators 95% of the time. I would leave your boyfriend if I was in your shoes, you already know he doesn't have a strong grip on morals.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/24 02:02 PM
4

So he was useless as a father and boyfriend and she was mad at him for it. I can't blame her, although I would've left him.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/24 01:59 PM
0

There's a channel on Youtube made by a Christian black man that I think is great for men and women alike, it's called "The Shumake Way". He's a married man with actual relationship advice. I'm not really a Christian in the whole sense of the word because I mostly follow a Buddhist Goddess but I can acknowledge wisdom when I see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:45 PM
2

It depends on what you study. I studied biology with art and history classes sprinkled in, it really opened my mind.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/24 06:08 PM
7

He's not into you and he doesn't want a serious relationship. He has shown you clearly, don't waste your time like the other women.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/24 03:43 PM
9

Having extremely low expectations for a man is a recipe for disaster and resentment. You deserve better.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/24 03:41 PM
1

Don't worry bb I will wipe your tears too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:53 PM
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Why don't men manipulate their looks too? You can you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:50 PM
1

But men do catch feelings through sex, it's biology. You can't argue biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:23 PM
1

I wish we could do a massive anonymous study to try it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:04 PM
1

Exactly.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/24 04:27 PM
1

Manwhore isn't an insult to men? I dare you to go around calling men manwhores.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/24 04:26 PM
1

Most women are nurturing, we don't care if our men cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:55 PM
1

My boyfriend used to hang out with a group of guys that would constantly talk shit about another guy behind his back but they NEVER confronted the guy, until one day my boyfriend got sick and tired of it and called Juan (the other guy) to the group so that they could tell him everything they were criticizing about him. None spoke up and acted like my bf was the problem. He never joined them again. But as you can see, men can be cowards and hide their true intentions. It's not gendered.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:49 PM
1

You never mentioned physically attractive, isn't it important to attract women?
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/24 03:38 PM
1

Aren't experiences reality? You have lived and you're real no?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:10 PM
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That's the bare minimum, women already do all that while looking beautiful and they're surpassing men in education/salaries. Also, they're the ones with the womb, they're already valuable. Now I ask you, what do most men bring to the table? Subpar sex? Uneducated? Unattractive because they don't put the effort to look handsome? Low emotional intelligence and entitlement? Poor housemaking skills? Modern men don't even know how to build houses anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:01 PM
1

Because women already bring value.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:15 PM
2

It's not rational to ignore a man's employment history and financial status so I'm glad women look for successful men. Why would you want broken homes and poverty? Families that struggle?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 10:21 AM
1

He's quite frankly delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 10:17 AM
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Why should a PARTNERED woman do everything alone when she has a husband/boyfriend? Why should he be treated more special and have more free time while she's essentially a single mother that also has to clean up after him and cook for him? An extra child that she has to fuck when she gets home from work? It's better to actually be a single parent in that case.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:21 PM
2

No, I don't necessarily mean marriage. Less people are marrying these days and yet, I know many cases where the men or young men stay with their cheating partners. And these are not unattractive men by any means. Men do catch feelings and especially through sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 04:37 PM
5

Men don't catch feelings from sex? Why do so many men stay with cheaters then? And why are men so vocal about sex = love?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:38 PM
3

This is why I almost cry when girls split a coffee/dinner bill with a random guy and then sleep with him on that same day expecting him to stay. Later on they get ghosted and wonder why he doesn't call back. It screams desperation and being easy to bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:29 PM
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When did women ever win with marriage? Speaking as a woman that actually wants to marry my SO, it definitely benefits the man instead of the woman and more women are realizing this fact. That's why birth rates and marriage rates are going down, women prefer following their own dreams instead of carrying all the burden. And no, we don't want manwhores. We want genuine good men that could be manwhores but aren't. Promiscuity isn't attractive in any of the sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:23 PM
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They think men were lazy back in the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 02:55 PM
1

I wouldn't be able to think that my man is the dominant one if I'm the breadwinner, but kudos to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:40 PM
1

Men cheat more and become abusive when the woman earns more than him. There's actual studies about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:38 PM
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She can still have a card where he deposits money for her own interests, like my cousin. And she can also do freelance work if she wants to. And some women actually enjoy being submissive in a relationship, when a man deserves it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:55 PM
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Like men you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:07 AM
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Her standards were wayyyy low. I normally defend women in these threads but honestly they should choose better. I've never paid for a man and the men I've been with have been generous with their time, attention, and they have treated me like a real princess. They do exist so even though I'm sad for her, she should be more proactive in her vetting instead of sobbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 10:32 AM
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I want a man that works full-time, carries out all the domestic duties and is happy being the primary parent. See how ridiculous that sounds for a man? And yet that's how a lot of women live their lives, sad and stressful. I don't blame them if they want to be housewives.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:13 PM
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Because the so called "50/50" doesn't really exist in the majority of the households. Women are still doing most of the household chores (if not all) and they're the ones being the primary parent in almost all the cases (I always noticed how my female college professors were the ones that took care of the children and brought them to the classroom or went absent to take them to the doctor, for example), while still expected to look way better than her man and to work and contribute to the bills.…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:58 PM
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He's porn-sick, try to tell him your needs and boundaries regarding porn. If your relationship continues like this, it's perfectly acceptable to leave and find a man that appreciates you.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/24 04:42 PM
1

I'll go against the grain here that are telling you to choose neither. I would choose the most stable option because with time you'll realize that you have fallen in love with the person you've chosen.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/24 03:39 PM
2

What is a high value man to you?
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/24 03:29 PM
2

If he really hates that he makes less than you, he'll do everything it takes to take home a higher income.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/24 04:27 PM
2

No, we're not all like that. I love women even if some of them are or can be assholes to me in the future. I don't go looking for trouble with them even if some try to tear me down. I know it all depends on the person and not the gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:07 AM
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Not all women are like this, and I've seen men tear each other to shreds.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:03 AM
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No, she just wants a masculine traditional man. That does not make her a "hooker". You're in the wrong sub if you think that.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/23 01:00 AM
1

To be protected you need money. Money allows people to feel safe.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/23 12:57 AM
1

An alpha is more than just a manwhore though.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/23 11:21 PM
4

FDS was there to help women vet potential candidates for relationships. A lot of men take advantage of women in all the sense of the word. It's not perfect but then again, the red pill isn't either.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/23 11:18 PM
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Exactly. It's just an added burden to her and they'll live in a deadbedroom situation forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:32 PM
4

I think women should date whoever they want and should not settle. We risk a lot being with a man and if you have children, you need a man that can actually provide and protect the family in the best capacity. By the way, dating an unattractive man doesn't save you from being cheated on, they have a lot to prove and will chase any other skirt that gives them an ounce of attention besides you. They get cocky.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:27 PM
1

He has cried in front of me before. I don't hold it against him, he's human like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 09:49 PM
1

I find it really attractive when men have fatherly traits, it's hot. My boyfriend is like that, he has the provider mentality while being assertive and tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:26 PM
0

I think most women are more sexually flexible than they let on, it's really easy to find other women attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:05 AM
8

Hm. God forbid women actually want men in their prime too. That's when men cry about "hYpERgaMY".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 10:32 AM
2

Hm. God forbid women actually want men in their prime too. That's when men cry about "hYpERgaMY".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 10:31 AM
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Why can't it be both? Sensitive men who have no problem being sexual and seductive. That's the jackpot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 02:27 PM
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She prepares breakfast, lunch and dinner, does errands for the household, keeps the home immaculate, has time for the gym to look thin and beautiful, and is able to receive her husband with a smile on her face. Lunch is included because she can prepare a lunchbox for the husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 02:08 PM
12

Shhh you're making too much sense. The men won't like it 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:44 AM
13

What do YOU offer to a good woman? It's not the age, maybe you're expecting too much. If the idea is to date younger women as an older man, you do need to provide and perform the traditional masculine role. Younger women have a lot of options and most of us would rather be with a man our same age.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:41 AM
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We bear all the risks but nowadays there's so many birth control options...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:02 AM
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It's both.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 12:57 PM
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Ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:33 PM
1

We can explain the same logical points over and over again and they still keep word vomiting and ignoring them. No wonder they keep failing at getting better dates or dating at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:35 AM
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No, we just don't want to be stuck doing everything for a mediocre man. What's in it for a woman if she pays the bills, does everything at home, takes care of the children, keeps up with female beauty standards, and doesn't even get to have the same amount of orgasms and social benefits that a man receives when he's partnered with a woman? There's 50/50 men that even expect her to still defer to them as head of household, even if they don't say that part out loud. Explain to me why should that b…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:30 AM
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You can experience romantic love and not be taken advantage of by a man. You deserve great treatment too, women bend over backwards for the home, the family and the man and they don't receive the same back. And on top of that you pay with your own hard-earned money and sanity. It's a scam.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:37 PM
3

And passport bros are?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:34 PM
4

Women can get any type of sex anywhere, at any time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:33 PM
2

Some lesbians were in straight-passing relationships before realizing that they're actually lesbians. That's included in the statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:32 PM
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I agree whole-heartedly. Going by the trends, having a man in the house is too much stress UNLESS he's one of the rare ones that actually manage the household and the kids to the >>same<< degree as MOTHERS do, if you're both working. Or if he's the only breadwinner and you focus on the home. On the other hand, if I'm going to pay bills and he's the average man, it's way better to have a female roommate (or lover). They're more hygienic, they look better than men, most know how to cook and they'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:29 PM
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Your brain must not work at full capacity. She literally just said that it's better to have a woman as a roommate because at least they actually do chores and you don't even have to fuck them. Men on the other hand... The least a man can do is pay the bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:13 PM
10

You mean the man who loved her and was happy as hell that they were together? The kid was loved too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 01:07 AM
8

You must be a monster to speak like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 01:05 AM
4

She never exploited him, throughout the movie she literally showed that she didn't want to accept his romantic advances because he had a disability. Plus, let's not forget she had her own mental problems and struggles, men used her and she had a terrible upbringing. Nevertheless, Forrest assured that he had the mental capacity to be with her and their child. And yes, the child was clearly his. The book states it. Wouldn't hurt to empathize with female characters too you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 01:03 AM
4

So you want a career woman that does it all at home too? What would she get out of being with you if she can do it all by herself?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 11:09 PM
1

You're delusional if you expect a feminine woman that also acts out the masculine role. Ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 11:06 PM
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I don't typically side with red pill men because some of you are extremists, but I think you're wasting your time on this particular thread. The women won't admit that they're practically being used for their money and the guys are pretty content disrespecting their gfs/wives/partners in open, "equal" relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 10:57 PM
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Ugh no, some people want chaos. We're not a hivemind.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:04 AM
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Men create the great majority of the problems in the world, I don't see how they're "protectors". They even freeze in public when problems arise and women are the ones that step in.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:11 AM
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No, we prefer kind men. Next question.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:45 AM
2

Female-only spaces have been demonized way more and men keep insisting in getting into them. Female-only gyms, lesbian bars, even STEM events that were made for women, by women, are being infiltrated by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 07:02 PM
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Make your own movement, would you expect the Black Lives Matter to address the problems that each race faces? No right? Feminism was made by women, for women. A lot of feminists literally died for our rights and feminism is still trying to bridge the gap between women and men. Makes no sense to use it for anything other than its intended purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:15 PM
3

Because most men don't do household tasks properly and just play videogames.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:04 AM
6

And women don't pay bills? They're literally superhumans, doing it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:02 AM
4

Another delusional male.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:48 AM
2

It's still risky, no matter the age.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:42 AM
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Tell that to the majority of women who sacrifice their time and energy taking care of people in all ways imaginable. Men barely provide financially nowadays, women literally do everything. And even if men provided financially, women would still be doing the lion's share of the work in the home and family life. Buying us a measly plate of food in AppleBee's wouldn't realistically even out anything. A token of appreciation, yes. But men get way more benefits out of relationships with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 08:09 AM
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It depends, where I live most men provide. Latinos are more traditional. Some are the exception but most of them are quite masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:34 PM
1

Sassy men are deeply unattractive to me. I know someone like that and he's always bitter, I stopped talking to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:22 PM
5

Too few good guys, most try to emulate Andrew Tate 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 05:39 AM
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Boohoo, women have been the punching bags for ages. No rights whatsoever during centuries and we're still not treated as human beings now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 03:01 PM
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It's men who have womb envy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:22 AM
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You sound cuckoo for cocoa puffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:20 AM
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The Barbie movie is based on this quite literally lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:19 AM
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Old sperm still affects the health of the baby, he/she can have Down Syndrome and many birth defects. Most men aren't wealthy enough to entice a younger woman. And we all know women are visual too, why would she settle for an uglier, older version of a man when she can get someone on her level?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:13 AM
7

So you do both roles? What do you get out of this arrangement?
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/23 02:27 AM
5

Most women I know are more financially savvy than a lot of men, we don't waste money on Legos and stupid things. Having said that, my boyfriend and I have agreed that when we get married and I get pregnant, he'll support me financially. Meanwhile, I work and invest in a retirement account. I also have my own home and plan to make improvements on it too. A lot of my friends have my same mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:37 PM
2

You'd be surprised how many women are bi and lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:32 PM
3

Says the gender that screams and punches things when they're losing in a videogame.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:31 PM
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Why do men always use the same study over and over? It doesn't necessarily mean that women abused other women, it also means that they were with some lesser men before considering themselves as lesbians. It's clear that around the world, domestic abuse occurs way more in heterosexual relationships, specifically men abusing women. Don't try to cover the whole Sun with your thumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:27 PM
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When he feels like he can provide for you and a future family, he'll propose. At least the ones with a good head on their shoulders think so. But they know that you're the one a couple of months in.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/23 07:31 PM
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My boyfriend "lead" with his wallet because he's a gentleman, we're planning to marry soon. We do desire men that commit wholeheartedly.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/23 06:53 PM
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Men are not immune to STDs and impregnating many women won't guarantee that these children will survive. Not enough resources and attention to go around. Plus, women are inherently jealous. We should look at whether these women are content or not with the idea. Even the wives of the sultans were battling it out to get their own children on the throne and they wanted to be the favorite to get the most attention of the sultan. It's not natural and it's not healthy for everyone involved, if it was,…
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/23 06:46 PM
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We've been socialized to not care and give chances to unattractive men, which later comes and bites us in the ass. I've noticed too that women like pretty men, the ones who look masculine but have a certain femininity to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:47 PM
2

It's funny when some men defend promiscuity in males saying that women don't care. I do care, and I'm sure that most women do. I want a man that is disciplined enough to not chase anything with a skirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 10:04 PM
3

We just don't care, but I would much rather prefer an inexperienced man than a manwhore.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 10:02 PM
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Most women don't enjoy the idea that their man or potential mate was promiscuous. It's the same thing for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 10:00 PM
2

He's the biggest hypocrite of all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 09:57 PM
1

I'm pretty sure they do. Who doesn't want a forever love?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 06:16 AM
1

I have a long term relationship with a generous man, most women do not jump from man to man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 06:15 AM
1

You make no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 06:13 AM
1

Why are you removing a comment that is made to make her think for herself?
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/23 06:06 AM
1

She deserves better no?
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/23 06:05 AM
1

Wtf are you even saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:35 AM
1

It's completely ridiculous that you're using Mean Girls as an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:34 AM
1

A 30 year old man is certainly not better looking compared to a younger man and his sperm is older. Older men usually have the resources, or they look like they have money and the means to get it. So it all comes down to being attracted to a "provider" subconsciously.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:33 AM
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Exactly. Which is why I don't recommend dating a 50/50 man, you'll always know at the back of your mind that he would go above and beyond for his true dream girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:27 AM
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Literally everything you listed is false, check actual statistics instead of being led on by feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:26 AM
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Delightful conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:25 AM
1

Women get the short end of the stick in everything else, boohoo if you have to actually impress a girl for her to date you and carry your babies someday.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:03 PM
1

We don't fantasize about male harems because it's riskier for us. Men are dangerous, STDs and pregnancy are dangerous. But if we had the freedom to do it safely, I'm sure women would be content with more than one loving husband.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/23 06:53 AM
1

She's right though, if you feel like you're more at risk than women, take it up with your fellow men.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/23 06:51 AM
1

If you were actually cool you wouldn't have to mention it 😂
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/23 06:44 AM
1

Biologist here, both men and women release most of the oxytocin during orgasms. Arguably, men release oxytocin more frequently because they always orgasm during sexual encounters, heterosexual women not so much.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/23 06:37 AM
1

A man that provides financially is great too.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/23 06:30 AM
0

I hate beards too, so unhygienic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 12:35 AM
0

We have, but most were older by 2 or 3 years only.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 12:34 AM
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A woman (young or older) is attracted to a successful, fit, charismatic 30 year old because of his resources. Why would those things be attractive if you can't provide something to her with it? So by your definition, it'll always be betabuxxing. Nothing wrong with it, but call it what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 12:32 AM
1

You base your entire knowledge about women's communication on Mean Girls? The jokes write themselves at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:34 AM
2

I mean it when I compliment my girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:52 PM
0

Not being rude is the bare minimum, maybe those guys don't put any effort into the dates and the women they're trying to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:25 AM
1

My man is wholesome asf, has muscles and an amazing jawline. Point disproven.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:03 AM
2

We (both men and women) release a lot of oxytocin if we get orgasms, most heterosexual women don't get orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:26 PM
3

The biggest problem humanity has to face is promiscuous women? What about family annihilators, rapists, serial killers, war mongers, school shooters, etc.?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:16 PM
-1

I love simps, why would I waste my time with a man that thinks he's above me? I'd rather be treated like a princess and actually loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:58 PM
-1

Lesbian and bisexual women exist you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:57 PM
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50-70+ first dates isn't the flex you think it is. Why are you jumping around all over the place? Why has no woman decided to stay with you? I wouldn't call that successful. Having said that, my boyfriend always puts effort into our dates. Restaurants, hotels, you name it. He was literally my first and only date off Tinder and I had to keep him, he's a whole gentleman. So no, I don't think that lack of effort will attract women and your advice won't help men honestly. If you don't provide, anoth…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:45 PM
1

What does my behavior have to do with my ex's controlling and manipulative tendencies? Is it my fault too that he tried to cheat on me? Figures that a man would blame a woman for a man's behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:01 PM
1

I literally just saw that they're TRYING to make lab-grown eggs but they haven't been able to. Next.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:26 PM
2

Reading comprehension is not the strong suit of some people clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:32 PM
1

There's literally studies that claim otherwise, most women are surprisingly fluid.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 02:26 PM
2

I was on Tinder for a couple of days and I met my boyfriend on there. Plenty of women find their matches quick and don't have to go on there again. Edit: I also think there's a rise in lesbian relationships, there's A LOT of bisexual and lesbian women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:57 AM
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I had a horrible experience with a less attractive man compared to my bf. The ugly one had control issues and he was really manipulative, he also tried to cheat on me but the other woman rejected him. My current boyfriend is literally a model and he treats me like a princess, no issues with jealousy whatsoever and he's had plenty of chances to stray. I think that the difference is that he already has the validation that my ex lacked (and he's actually a decent human being). So I highly recommend…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:36 AM
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We do, you're not as smart as you think you are. Something slips out sooner or later.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:55 PM
8

I wouldn't mind taking a man's virginity, it's just that I've never had the opportunity lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:04 PM
16

Why can't men let the same conversation die? Why are you trying so hard to convince people? Have you seen most women, young and older? They're gorgeous, they'll always have suitors. And the reality is that the great majority of men won't have the kind of money that can pull some young women who are interested in being provided for. In my case, I'd rather be with a young man that is my age (or 1-2 years older) than be with a way older one that I'll have to take care of when I'm in my prime and he…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:51 PM
7

Don't stay with him if he's not generous, you'll never feel valued and protected by him as the feminine partner.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/23 12:37 AM
1

They'd still need women because you need an egg for an embryo to form. The DNA comes from the egg and the sperm, 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 07:24 PM
1

I think videogames and anime are an acquired taste for everyone. I started playing them when my older female cousin introduced me to gaming on a Nintendo 64, I was just a kid. Since then I've had all kinds of videogames consoles throughout my life and I'm glad because it's something that brings my boyfriend and I together. In the case of anime, the only ones I watch are more geared towards females. Inuyasha was made by a woman, Fullmetal Alchemist too, Sailor Moon, etc. Another one I'd recommend…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:49 PM
3

Women don't loooveee sex with men because they don't have orgasms with them. News at 12.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 08:51 PM
1

Always the same fantasy, I don't know where you guys get the idea that women want assholes. I prefer a good-hearted man with manners.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:30 PM
2

So you're threatening women because you can't control yourself? Awesome way to show us that you're barely contained beasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:06 PM
10

It's so false it's even funny. Women never stop having opportunities with the opposite sex, it's just that some men love the revenge fantasy. The men that get more chances as they age just have something new to bargain with and that's always money. Physically we all know that youthfulness makes anyone look better, why would an unattractive man look better when he's older? It's absurd and deep down we all know it. The only men that stay attractive are attractive men that took care of themselves a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:42 PM
1

Taking dick? Women carry and birth humans, they take care of the family, the household, they're educated, they work. What do men do? Blow a load and disappear?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:23 PM
1

I'm bi, most women are way more attractive than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:18 PM
5

I've seen many videos where guys ask people to rate themselves and then others. Literally almost every time men are the ones who overrate themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:17 PM
1

I won't sugarcoat it. He didn't care about you. A man that loves you understands that he is the strong one in the couple and he would gladly help you out since you're the lady of the house. My boyfriend wouldn't even let me pay for the water bottles.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/23 09:04 PM
0

I've been in your shoes, I got cold feet when I tried to date older men. It just gave me a visceral ick when things got too real. Now I'm with a man that is older than me by only 2 years and I think it's perfect. We share so many interests and he still looks virile and handsome.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/23 08:56 PM
1

I think it's not entirely rooted in social conditioning only, I tried to date older men but when things turned too real for my comfort I felt an ick. My boyfriend is older than me by 2 years and it's the best spot to be in.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/23 08:50 PM
2

Would you say the same if the genders were reversed?
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/23 08:36 PM
2

Because men do take advantage of young women, we wouldn't be having this discussion if they were little angels on Earth. There's so many shitty men and women are protecting each other or finally learning to. I've seen with my own eyes how an older man can ruin a young woman's life and then he gets to skip off to the sunset without much push back. I will always try to protect women from those same mistakes. And yes, I'm a young woman also, before people try to gaslight me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 06:26 PM
1

You care enough if you replied to me 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:23 PM
1

I wouldn't be jealous of a loser that has to resort to sexbots because real women wouldn't give him the time of the day lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 04:11 PM
2

That's because women are the ones with inherent value, you have to protect what's valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:34 PM
-4

The whole monologue sounds so cringy. Ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:28 PM
13

This one is simple yet so true.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:25 PM
4

Nope, they're not. I don't want to get saddled with someone else's kids, unless the man is a literal millionaire or billionaire.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:09 PM
16

Plus, I consider drag a type of "black face" but with gender. It's humiliating how they try to impersonate women and do it in the most vulgar and sexualized way possible. We're bimbos to them, something to make fun of.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/23 05:25 PM
1

Why would I?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:16 AM
1

My boyfriend could have sex with any woman he wanted to, he's that hot, yet he doesn't. Not all men are desperate whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:50 AM
2

Exactly, I don't know why we're bringing the same argument over and over. A masculine man will pay, that's his job. If he can't even do that, how will you make sure that he's generous enough to provide for his family and take care of you? Sometimes I think that I'm in the wrong sub, the feminine discourse is completely different compared to this sub's peak.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/23 03:34 AM
0

No offense but I disagree wholeheartedly. Gender roles are rooted in tradition, and redpill women seek a relationship that feels natural to our biological inclinations. Dating a man that doesn't properly court you is the antithesis of what we stand for. We do have roles, and his is to provide and protect. If we blur the lines we're no different than the rest of women who are lost finding their way in the dating world seeking a masculine partner but failing to do so. So yes, I do expect that the …
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/23 03:25 AM
3

So just like men with "simp"?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:17 PM
3

Nowadays women graduate at higher rates than men and are out-earning them, they date up in all the sense of the word, not just looks. And women usually manage the household and the child-rearing, it's so obvious most women are settling. The bar should be higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:00 PM
3

The men in these threads always gaslight themselves to the point it's hilarious and sad. Large age gaps don't work simply because the people involved wouldn't have a lot in common and the younger partner will ALWAYS be at a disadvantage, the youth will be sucked out of her. He'll most likely die way earlier than her or be confined to a bed and she'll have to care for him like a nurse, if they have kids they will be at greater risk of having birth defects, and she'll be tempted by hotter younger …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:13 AM
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Large age gaps don't work simply because the people involved wouldn't have a lot in common, he'll most likely die way earlier than her, if they have kids they're at greater risk of having birth defects, and she'll be tempted by hotter younger men her age.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:00 AM
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On average clearly means that most women go for partners that are practically the same age as them. Exceptions occur everywhere, doesn't mean it's the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 10:52 AM
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Girls can have their period at 9 years old. Anything under 18 is a child, you're excusing pedophilic behaviours. I'd even say that 18 is really young too, I've come a long way since that and I remember that I was naive asf back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:09 AM
1

That sounds like a fantasy, doctorates and important positions take time. If those women exist they're in their 30's or late 20's.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:05 AM
5

So she married an old man and she still had to work and raise kids? The point of having an older man is that he has the resources, she really lost on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 11:35 PM
1

The day men have wombs, take care of themselves, and support a household in all the ways women do, is the day they'll be valued as one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:01 AM
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Misogynistic asf, women have been saying the same thing for ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 08:34 PM
1

Passport bros are hoes then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:10 AM
2

Female women? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 07:12 PM
1

It's not that women aren't interested in a reverse harem, it's just that we're socialized to not even joke about it. Plus most men are deeply problematic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 01:31 PM
1

That's not the symbol for Sagittarius 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 01:27 PM
1

The reality that a lot of men don't want to hear. If you're attractive now you'll age better than an average or ugly man. Same goes for women. If you're handsome/pretty, you already have the best base. It's more realistic to admit that you won't magically turn hot with age. Very few men actually get the kind of money that they could flaunt to get women. And even then, a good-looking man will have more chances, so part of that money should be used for cosmetic surgeries if you want to stay at the…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 11:50 PM
1

Don't you ever stop and read what you wrote? Doesn't it give you muscle-spasming cringe? I'm having second-hand embarrassment here, you both sound like high schoolers who never peaked.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 11:40 PM
10

No offense but I would lower my standards. You're grandpa age already and your nether regions will make a young woman queasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 11:32 PM
0

Most date older men because they have more resources or the illusion of having them. She won't say it out loud though. I'm the same age as your gf, for reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 11:26 PM
5

That man in his 30's will be pushed aside by the one in his 20's that managed to be successful. Youth is beautiful on everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 11:21 PM
0

Most men aren't virgins either and they were both expected to share their bodies after marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:52 PM
1

I'm very looks-focused but he's not really all that. His face is mid, eyes too close together and forgettable facial features. He has a nice body though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 12:17 PM
19

I don't do it, my boyfriend provides for me and it satisfies something in my lizard brain when he does 😂 Making love with a man that takes care of you is an experience that all women should have.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/23 04:30 AM
3

You can literally look around and see for yourself. That's what most heterosexual relationships consist of. And at least that "sucker" has someone that loves him and appreciates him. I don't think you have ever felt that by the look of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 12:33 AM
5

The obvious things. Household chores, child-rearing, nurturing, emotional support, looking beautiful, being sexually receptive or active, having a full time job and contributing, literally everything. In my case I found a traditional man that takes care of me, but I pity the women that do it all and live stressful lives while the men barely work outside the home and then rest and leave everything to the woman in their life. I'd rather be a lesbian, at least they pull their weight in the family t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:52 PM
6

So many words for nothing, just say you don't have anything worthwhile to offer to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:47 PM
1

I'm 26 and honestly I find most young men attractive. When I was in college I'd look around and could easily pinpoint several attractive guys with a lot of potential career-wise. What I don't like at all is beer-bellied middle aged men or awkward looking guys with disgusting beards and a terrible fashion style, I also substract 100 points if he's the 50/50 type, it's deeply unattractive to me and that's a sure way of giving me the ick. All in all, if you clean up nicely, remain fit (or at least …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:12 PM
6

Men are entitled to sooo many things from women, paying for the date is the bare minimum. Do you expect us to buy you a baby cradle too?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:12 PM
4

Everything you've written I've noticed too, my boyfriend pays for all the dates and I prefer it that way. I can rest in my femininity without guilt.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:58 PM
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Tell that to my boyfriend, he covers all of the expenses and he's very well taken care of. Men that split the bills give me the ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 04:44 PM
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Nope, it's just female attraction. A resourceful man will always be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 04:42 PM
-3

How many times will people ask this question? Traditional women do expect men to pay for the dates, I don't split with men and if we do I won't see him as a prospect. I already have a boyfriend but those are my standards, each person has their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 04:41 PM
2

You don't understand female attraction. If the man has money it shows that they're able to conquer the world and take care of you and your offspring. It is really attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 04:52 AM
2

If you really want the girl, effort is required. When I was on the apps I ghosted every man that asked me for coffee, drinks or a "dinner date" at their house. My boyfriend took me out to actual dates and he was the only man I went out with from online dating. I don't regret it one bit, I like capable men that go after what they want and do it properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 04:49 AM
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I'm a nerd, I grew up playing videogames and watching the original Superman (the reaaally old ones) and Spiderman (Tobey Maguire) movies. My female cousin got me into gaming, she had the Nintendo 64. After that I got the PS1 and the rest is history. I was like 5 years old back then. I didn't particularly like the first Star Wars movies, I began to enjoy them when the protagonist was finally a woman. Funny how representation works to get more people into the hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 04:39 PM
2

Some men in the comments are delusional. It's obvious that we don't like promiscuous men, contrary to popular belief women are very territorial. Irl I've had girl friends that legit have fought with their bfs for having had sex with another girl before them, and they were not even promiscuous males.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 04:07 PM
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We're both humans, it's exactly the same. Why do men get bitter and seek the red pill when they get abandoned by a woman through a break up or divorce? These men have nothing left to give to their future partner, each woman took a piece of him until only the rage remains.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 04:02 PM
9

It literally says that promiscuous men are more likely to cheat, divorce and to be unhappy in general. Did you even read?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:57 PM
1

It's a lie that we don't like virgins, I wouldn't mind at all. If you have your life sorted out it's really attractive. I'd rather be with a virgin than a promiscuous man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 01:59 AM
1

Men and women are not the same, we do like masculine men and that entails being able to provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:18 PM
3

I get what you're saying, when a man offers to split the bill he usually has a roster of women he's trying to fuck for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:16 PM
4

I really like the masculine provider types so I do expect that the man will pay for the dates, I don't feel fulfilled if the man asks me to pay. It feels shameful as a woman, like he doesn't want to put the effort into courting me properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:13 PM
1

I do think that it's an actual thing, especially if she's really pretty, modest and introverted. She may come across as snobby even if that's not her intent.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/23 12:33 PM
1

I've never paid for a single date in my life. I'd feel uncared for and I'd honestly think that he's not that into me if he offers to split the bill instead of paying it in full. If you want me in my best feminine light you have to play your part.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/23 11:16 AM
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I have a degree in biology, I really love science. But I'm not planning to do anything with it, I just wanted the education. In the future I would like to be a SAHM, for now I'm freelancing and planning to publish my first novel.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/23 11:07 AM
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Why would you take her to drink lemonades? That's so low effort, you're not in kindergarten anymore. I would jump ship also.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:07 AM
2

I'm very tiny so I wouldn't mind having short children, especially if they're girls (I say this because I know that we have it way easier regarding height and romance). I'm 4'9" and my boyfriend is 5'9", my first bf was 5'4" and my most recent ex was 5'7". I don't mind dating across the whole spectrum, they're still taller than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:51 AM
16

Now I know that me and the women in my vicinity sent love cards to literal serial killers. All women must looove evil men 🙄 Touch grass mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 04:11 PM
1

FDS is not amoral, it's about putting boundaries and selecting men that actually respect you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 04:48 PM
5

This, they're drowning in a cup of a water.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 12:17 AM
5

You literally pick and choose the worst women among us as an example and then say all women are the same 🙄 Obviously there are poor selectors, most of us choose genuine good men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:04 PM
5

A promiscuous can be shit in bed too, most just care about their nut and nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:28 AM
1

Men's attraction relies heavily on trends too. Women's beauty standards have changed drastically across millennia and guess who were at the top selecting the beauty standards? Men. The ones in the lower social classes followed whatever was deemed attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 09:44 PM
0

The worst bullies and gossipers I've encountered have been teen boys and men. It's a lie that only women do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:07 PM
9

Who said we don't like virgin men? It all depends on whether he's attractive or not. And before you say "oF cOUrSe wOmen OnLY waNt HoT MeNZ" I'm pretty sure no man would want an ugly woman either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:11 AM
2

Handsome men have easy lives compared to most people, it's not just beautiful women. Plus, average to pretty women have to work too, we don't get handed things just by existing.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/23 05:17 PM
-2

Women are not goods and services, how would you socialize that? Why should society pay for you to have a relationship with a woman and have sexual access to her? No, it's not the same at all, we're humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 09:31 PM
1

My boyfriend is ripped and he's quite handsome, people have called him Prince Charming and even a Superman lookalike. So I guess I did it...? For reference, I'm a really short/petite (a little below 5ft), slim-thick Latina. Not really supermodel material but I'm pretty, he probably finds me cute because he stuck by me during tough times and he still treats me like a princess.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 12:39 AM
2

I disagree wholeheartedly with Whisper, women are capable of being attracted to several men at the same time. Female chronic cheaters exist for a reason.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/23 12:24 AM
3

Sorry to be so blunt but he's definitely cheating on you and rubbing it on your face. I can't think of a single scenario where my boyfriend would travel alone to a wedding or a vacation with another woman unless he's cheating on me. Don't damage your dignity and have some self-respect, he's not the one for you. A man that really loves you wouldn't dare to disrespect you like that.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/23 08:20 PM
-1

They won't admit that things would be way better and safer.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:21 PM
12

You're making too much sense, he won't reply to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:14 PM
2

I think women are more wise now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:27 PM
0

Men can be beta/omega/whatever-widowed too. They become dangerous, obsessive and self-destructive in a lot of cases. Have you seen how many of them get abusive and even kill the new partner or even their ex before killing themselves too?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:40 PM
1

It's funny because realistically speaking, women are the gender with the most choice. Why would we lament losing an older man when there's plenty of better options out there? Masculine men capable of providing and honoring their wife/family (in your same age bracket) are not as scarce as some men here would lead you to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 03:59 PM
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I'm in my 20's and my worst relationship was my first one back in highschool. I didn't know what was normal and what was not, we're highly impressionable at that age. I'm still young but that relationship was my wake up call and now I'm wiser thanks to older women's advice. Right now I'm in a great relationship thanks to that, my standards were way higher and I selected ruthlessly. No hiking dates or low effort coffee/house dates. I wanted a true gentleman and that's what I got.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:57 PM
12

Modern men have the fashion sense and beauty of Adam Sandler, expect women to go 50/50 with them while leaving all the domestic duties and child-rearing to the woman. They also expect to be called "head of the household" or "the man of the house" when in reality women are the ones doing the heavy-lifting inside and outside the home. They don't even know how to take care of their sick wives and relatives. Thankfully I have a great man by my side, but it's pretty clear that he's the exception and …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:21 PM
1

Women lose way more options, they're more in demand yet they prefer monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:30 AM
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For a healthy, successful relationship you need both.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 11:27 PM
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My boyfriend is like you and I don't think he's strange at all, but I do believe he's a rare gem. He always tells me that he's working hard to be able to marry me and settle down, he always pays for the dates and everything I need, opens doors and makes me feel so safe around him. I try my best to be his soft place to land and love him as much as I know he loves me, and I'm really looking forward to spending the rest of my life with him. So I'm very glad to hear that there's more men like him ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 04:12 PM
3

Um it kinda is, the traditional masculine role is rooted in being a provider and protector. Strong men that can lead families with their resources and protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 04:01 PM
1

Men actually enjoy feeling masculine and providing for a feminine woman and his kids. It's not the same dynamic when it's 50/50, the attraction dies slowly or abruptly in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 03:58 PM
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That's because traditional men are providers and protectors, it's the classic masculine role.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 12:41 PM
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Small percentage? It's way more than a "small" percentage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 11:56 AM
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Would you blame women when literally we've been oppressed by men for hundreds of years? When they're the ones who bully us, rape us, kills us, etc.? We're even exploited by our labor. We don't owe anything to the great greeaat majority of men, and this is coming from a woman who is madly in love with a singular man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 11:54 AM
4

A lot of men are liars, it became a national thing because women are more aware and cautious now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:24 PM
5

Why would she pay for all that alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 04:25 PM
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No offense but you sound like a troll.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/23 05:06 PM
1

We want good men that are confident, generous and successful. That's the key, we want wholesome masculine men. Being mild mannered tells me nothing about your drive in life and how well you will provide and protect. I hate vulgar men, there's nothing attractive about it. On the other hand, I do like assertive men with a gentle heart, and I'm pretty sure 99% of women do too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 02:02 PM
2

Not as socially suicidal than having a sexbot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 04:30 PM
9

Exactly, that's the same mindset I have when my boyfriend provides for me. He's really an amazing man.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/23 12:24 AM
1

I love protective and chivalrous men, my boyfriend is practically Prince Charming (looks like him too) and it's so attractive. He opens doors, opens my water bottles, helps me when I'm struggling to cut a piece of meat, he gets things that are too high for me (I'm very tiny, 4'10"), he always pays for the dates/vacations, gets defensive when he feels something is wrong in whatever place we're in, ugh he's so badass and a complete sweetheart. No one can say anything bad about him, he's an angel o…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 09:54 PM
4

Women would get perfect AI robots too that look like Adonis, at that point why even have a male partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 11:51 AM
0

Because I would lose respect for a man that doesn't do his best to be successful and have the means to provide for his family. Women already do so much with pregnancy, birth, child-rearing, household chores on top of having a career (even without one they provide so much), so the least that a man can do is bring financial resources to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:21 PM
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I'm not promiscuous, I only had one sexual partner before meeting my current boyfriend on Tinder. I'm introverted so I prefer screening through dating apps. He was literally the first person I went on a date with from the app and everything went smoothly, together 3 years and counting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 12:44 PM
1

I'll be honest, you deserve better. The comments in this thread would be totally different if it was the other way around. You make more than him, he's probably using you or getting ready to use you and spend your money on other women. Be more discerning and keep your eyes open, I wouldn't trust him. Don't let people gaslight you.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/23 02:27 AM
2

And she gets all of the work too. The hot woman gets the resources and his attention without having to take on the role of a wife. Wives do everything in the home, they're the primary caregivers and a lot of them work full time too. Where's the benefit of being a wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 05:17 AM
2

This is why women must have high standards for their boyfriend/husband, he shouldn't take you for granted. Don't chain yourself doing all the household chores, taking care of the kids/husband and contributing financially. We're not slaves and we deserve better treatment. You should be one of his top priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 05:02 AM
1

You sound pretty arrogant, I would tone that down if I were you. So unlikable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 12:49 PM
1

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 08:59 PM
4

You both work why should you be the only one cooking, cleaning and looking good for him? Makes no sense. The day he makes you a housewife should be the day that you give him those privileges. Don't accept any less.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/23 11:24 AM
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I never pay, I get my boyfriend little gifts on occasions and I shower him with affection and intimacy to let him know that I appreciate everything he does for me. That's pretty much what most men require.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/23 04:54 AM
0

I'm a bisexual woman and that's totally not true 😂 Women are goddesses in bed and if we go by statistics, women give other women way more orgasms than men. Stop coping.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:57 AM
11

Do men make out and grab each other's balls? Would you say that they're not really into men? Part of finding women sexually attractive is making out with them and touching them so yes, they ARE into women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:11 AM
1

I do think femcels exist, I knew an obese girl with scars on her face and she had no male attention ever. She dressed prettily but men didn't find her sexually appealing. I also met a really tall college student with less conventional features and she would walk with bad posture to appear shorter and smaller because she was bullied all her life for looking different than the other girls. Some women have unfortunate facial features or odd body proportions, and we're valued primarily by out beauty…
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/23 06:08 PM
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I don't know why men shit on Only Fans models so much when they're the ones being catered to. It's men that feed into the Only Fans machine, just like they're the ones who mostly consume porn and then are mad that women have become "sluttier". Pick a side, don't be hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:15 PM
11

Your problem is that you have low self-esteem, you don't even expect that a man should pay for the dates. Any masculine man worth his salt would provide for his lady.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/23 01:48 AM
4

We care because we want older men to stop trying to get with us, it's annoying and uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:58 AM
2

My boyfriend and I have an age gap of 2 years so it checks out. We're both young adults, he's hands down one of the most handsomest men alive. A random girl even made a TikTok video about his good looks. He has that youthful glow and square jawline, plus he goes to the gym. Older men don't even register in my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:55 AM
10

Fresh and Fit = hot trash
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 10:09 PM
3

He may have a child, but the kid will most likely have disabilities and conditions. The older he is, the greater the risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:29 PM
0

What the fuck does that have to do with anything? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:22 PM
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More depth than women 😂😂😂 The gender that are literally obsessed with their own dick, oh the irony!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:42 AM
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Yes because women are only interested in gossip, drama and everything related to attention-seeking behavior 🙄 I've met more men into drama and gossip than the neighborhood's living camera. They love to tear people down (especially women) and to boast about their "manliness".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:17 AM
1

No offense, but you sound so arrogant without the credentials to back it up 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:11 AM
1

Most women I know sadly work full time and do the second shift at home. They're the ones who take care of the children, cooking, cleaning, homework, everything. The only upside is that women are waking up though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 11:08 PM
3

Female con game 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 03:11 AM
3

You should rest in your femininity, he should be the one traveling to you. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and he always travels to me to take me out. He also pays for the dates.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/23 01:53 AM
6

Because the women you are describing are still attractive and look after themselves. Their bodies are still feminine, which is what men want. This coming from a bisexual woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:38 PM
1

Not necessarily, some fathers are weak.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/23 03:31 PM
1

No, it gives me the ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 11:59 AM
1

I'm not a fat woman but the comments from the men here are abhorrent and disgusting. Is this how you talk about and treat other human beings? No wonder most men are lonely, I wouldn't want their company either.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 11:55 AM
2

Isn't getting fit, healthy and successful the normal expectations for any human being? Women have been doing it since forever, are men that dumb that they need to be told to have ambition and look their best? Madness all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:21 AM
0

Your husband can divorce you, but your kids are your kids forever. Blood of your blood.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/23 02:42 AM
8

Then why are you so obsessed with women? You don't have the experience to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 10:51 PM
48

Fresh & Fit is the trashiest podcast on Earth, I don't even know why some men follow it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 10:06 PM
0

Her beauty and companionship is enough, if you don't wine and dine her someone else will. With time you'll get to sleep together and hopefully she'll take care of you like a traditional woman would. Cooking, affection, little gifts on holidays or on random occasions, her attention solely on you, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 07:54 PM
1

Don't date single fathers, it's very hard and he'll always be bonded one way or the other to his baby mama and their kids. You don't have kids yet, find a man like you.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/23 01:19 AM
1

Most of the comments are giving him wayyy too much credit. In my opinion, life is too short to feel uncared for by your lover. Men aren't stupid, they know what they can do to make your day better. My boyfriend notices every detail about me, my likes and dislikes without me mentioning anything directly. He always gets me my favorite snacks, foods, knows where to take me to have fun, and every time I feel sick he becomes my nurse essentially. He gets a really worried expression when I express eve…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/23 01:12 AM
1

Most twenty something women that I know of are coupled up with men in their 20's, me included. I don't desire men wayyy older than me, they don't have the same spark or looks that younger men have.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:54 AM
1

I did find my perfect guy so I think it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 03:06 AM
24

Your advice is terrible and disrespectful. She deserves a man who's only loyal to her, emotionally and sexually.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/23 04:27 AM
1

Men expect motherly prostitutes/incubators with built in domestic and child-rearing skills. Nowadays they even expect them to pay for things too, so I think most men are the real users.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:54 AM
-3

What is it with American men not wanting to provide for a woman they intend to court? It's so unattractive. I'm glad I live in a Hispanic country, men here are so different and masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:27 AM
1

You must be a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 06:22 PM
1

You're delusional, you'll probably end up a bachelor.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 05:31 PM
1

Can you show me the statistics? What if the couple is not in the right financial situation yet to get married?
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/23 11:19 AM
4

With your last sentence you gave away that you're quite the user too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:12 AM
1

Most men can't even give women orgasms, experienced or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 11:28 PM
1

They won't hear reason, but I wholeheartedly agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:13 PM
1

She's right though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:46 PM
1

Lol at your attempt to mention the women that contributed to warfare, you could literally count them with your fingers and you'd still have fingers left. We all know wars are made by men and for men. Women aren't as vicious and evil, that's the simple truth. You know how many children and women Russian men raped and impregnated during the current war? And it has happened every single time there's warfare. You're no angels.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:43 PM
2

American women can't get abortions in a lot of states, it's obvious that they won't have sex with men and risk it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:19 AM
7

Babies can have disabilities caused by aging sperm too. My cousin had 3 babies when she was in her early 20's with a man in his 40's and guess what? They have debilitating disabilities, all 3 of them. Another story, my sisters unfortunately had their babies when they were in their teens and none of those poor kids have ever been decent at school, they usually took summer classes to make up for their failing grades. On the other hand, my mother had me and my brother in her 30's and not to toot my…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 03:47 AM
4

My grandmother was a tiny Latina that had 14 children. She had her last one in her 40's. They were pretty poor so no fertility treatments. It's common.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:36 PM
2

Sure, why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:43 AM
1

My man courted me properly and I love him to bits. We do like it, a lot.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/23 08:21 AM
1

She sounds deeply insecure about their arrangement, confidence is quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/23 08:13 AM
1

It's different, we have natural roles to fulfill and a different biology. House husbands don't inspire the same level of attraction than an educated working man with a great salary. Women are better suited for the nurturing role and I'll die on that hill.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/23 08:10 AM
1

Biologist here, men release oxytocin and vasopressin during sex, which makes them more bonded and territorial. And I'd argue that they release quite a lot of oxytocin, they get to orgasm way more times than us.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/23 08:02 AM
2

I'm about to be 26 and I get confused for a teenager all the time. I've always used great organic skincare and sunscreen since I was 13. Sleep on your back, have a skincare routine for the mornings and use rosehip oil + adapalene at night. Adapalene is a retinol variant that used to be prescription only but now it's being sold over the counter, it's primarily used for acne but you can use it for anti-aging too. Also, don't forget to exercise and use multivitamins.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/23 11:47 PM
3

Not me, I don't need a man to need me. Want me yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 12:32 PM
62

Didn't know that taking care of the family you made is being a slave, you learn something new every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 12:49 PM
-4

My boyfriend pays for every date and buys me gifts on many occasions, he wants to be the breadwinner too when we get married and have a family. These men do exist and there are a lot of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 10:59 PM
4

I wish women would stop: Coddling their sons and their SO. Doing everything at home while they also work and contribute financially. I didn't know we were slaves. Trying to lower other women's standards. Choosing men that don't even brush their teeth and/or their ass. Simping in general and not valuing themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 08:08 PM
1

Delusional, not even yourself believes that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 11:29 AM
1

She's literally fresh out of high school, she can be manipulated easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 11:27 AM
4

Yet they have entire subreddits, channels, podcasts, books, everything under the Sun, just to talk about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 11:24 AM
0

I can't believe I'm going to say this but most of the women commenting on this thread are delusional. No, women won't be "hunkering down" to fight with their partners or whatever, we have seen what happened in Ukraine. In any war men have been the ones fighting and this time it wouldn't be any different. We don't have the same capacity as them in war and to be honest, wars are made by men. We should not be responsible for it. Plus, if we all go to war who's going to take care of the children, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 12:53 PM
0

We're still as capable, it's just that biology gets in the way. Spain is going in the right direction, if you're not in favor of menstrual leave, you might as well say that maternity leave isn't necessary either. They're both part of womanhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 12:16 PM
2

Men can't impregnate themselves and have their own families without a woman so. And even if they got a surrogate or something, kids will always need a mom. In the case of men that don't want children, they'll still want to be loved by a woman. Life is pretty lonely if you don't have a life partner by your side.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:52 PM
1

Um you can be short, smart, courageous and strong emotionally. They don't cancel each other. Plus, I don't see submission as weakness, you submit because you respect and love the other person. Some women do it for the wrong men, but I know for sure that there's a lot of us that do it for the right ones. Having said that, I don't think there's anything wrong with your preferences, but I do believe that you think that femininity has less value than masculinity and that it's essentially an empty bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 02:09 AM
5

Thank the male overlord Putin for that. Men make their own problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 10:09 AM
2

I'm in college and I definitely identify as a traditional woman. I've talked with my boyfriend about being a stay at home mom in the future, and I'm really attracted to the masculine traditional guys. He pays for everything and in turn I'm my most feminine for him with everything it entails. I just can't really vibe with 50/50 guys, it's deeply unattractive to me. Especially since we're Latinos, our culture is way different and the men in here wouldn't be caught dead treating their women like a …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 07:04 PM
3

I wouldn't let my boyfriend cheat on me, it's so disrespectful and it would show that he doesn't love me enough to care about my feelings. So no, I wouldn't be okay with it. I think the only way a woman should let it slide is if she cheated on him first or if they agree on an open relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/23 02:01 PM
4

Men cry about custody battles but deep down inside they don't want to take care of the children almost 24/7 while contributing financially like single mothers do. It's all a farce. If they really wanted that they could win the cases, it's a patriarchy after all. Regarding abortion, men are not the ones that can even lose their teeth and eyesight while pregnant or die during birth. So no, abortion is solely a woman's decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:36 PM
11

Go to the gym, muscles are super attractive. Take care of your skin and hair, invest in skincare and retinol. Smell good, cologne always makes you stand out. Whiten your teeth, have great posture and act like a gentleman. Sweet and masculine men are rare. My boyfriend has all of the qualities I listed and more, he gets glances everywhere he goes and has been asked to model many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:19 PM
5

I always gift my boyfriend on any holiday, my friends do the same for their boyfriends. You just probably don't have any luck dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:11 PM
0

Because sometimes we do fall in love with ugly men. My ex was unattractive and I still loved him, I was a teen and learning how love works. Having said that, my current boyfriend is model-attractive and he's everything I wanted in a man, so I can't really say I miss my ex. I'm excited to see him as the father of our children someday.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:33 AM
0

What do average guys have to offer that a better guy can't? Average men aren't physically attractive, they expect 50/50 and they hardly help at home with the household chores and the kids. It's better to be single or to find a man that is actually physically attractive and financially stable with a provider mindset. Less than that is wasting your value.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:11 PM
1

I think it comes down to cohabitation before marriage, nowadays more people cohabitate before marriage and statistics show that they're more likely to divorce IF they even get married in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:53 PM
3

Not gonna lie, your story sounds super fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:10 PM
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Most couples do not have significant age gaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 06:33 PM
12

Being overly trusting, you shouldn't trust someone so much that even red flags don't register in your mind.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/23 09:31 PM
2

My current boyfriend. Second LTR and planning on keeping it that way. A random girl recorded him and gushed about his good looks on TikTok, he's a really handsome man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 05:43 PM
2

I don't know why you guys keep bringing up Leonardo DiCaprio in this sub over and over. He's one of the most unattractive male celebrities right now, he looks bloated and fat. Most of the normal, well adjusted male sex symbols/stars are married to age-appropiate women or even women older than them. Let it rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:27 PM
7

Online dating is whatever you want it to be, I found my boyfriend on Tinder. We've been together for 3 years and counting.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/23 04:27 PM
17

Abusive fathers are the worst obviously, if the man in the home is dangerous the mother has the responsibility to get out of the situation by all means necessary. I also believe that she should stay single until the kids are grown up, or at least do not let a strange man into the home by cohabitating with him.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/23 03:58 PM
1

You're too kind of a soul to think that these men will try to compensate for her reproductive burden. She'll probably have to go to work heavily pregnant and after the birth, she'll have to go again with her insides still recovering and her vagina still bleeding while being sleepless. This is why women have to vet heavily for a man that will be present at every step of the way, that is willing to be a provider and have all your needs met. 50/50 is a scam for women who want children (and even the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 02:11 PM
0

Why do men only seek sex, sex, and sex? Everything about you guys comes down to sex with women. Don't you have anything better to work for? It's pitiful honestly. Regarding the sex bots and everything related, the enticing part of sex for men is actually having a real woman giving you sexual validation and feeling/looking at her soft, feminine body. A bot will never be able to replicate her energy with everything that it entails. A sexbot can't even have pheromones, that's strictly biological.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 12:45 PM
1

You sound so bitter with women 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 12:37 PM
2

For some women it isn't that easy, you can still have an ugly face and unlucky body proportions.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/23 03:04 AM
1

Yes, even in the poorest countries women and girls are literally forced to marry older men. Most women desire handsome men, and they're usually young-looking/same age as them. It's just that men are allowed to grow old and some way or another they try to tell us that they're better than their younger counterparts and/or force us to be with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 09:33 AM
1

Each one has their own story, but don't you ever get sad that you'll probably spend your best years caring for a sickly old man in bed? What about when he dies much sooner than you? I really admire you because just thinking about it makes me upset, I love my boyfriend so much and if he were that much older than me I'd be an anxious wreck thinking about how soon he'd be taken away from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:30 AM
1

They instinctively want your protection and resources, that's all there is to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:25 AM
1

George Clooney wasn't even hot to begin with, I don't understand why he's always mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:21 AM
2

Speak for yourself, when I was in highschool all of the girls had age appropriate boyfriends. Younger guys are prettier to look at.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:16 AM
2

He's making a reservation at a fine dining restaurant. I got him playing cards from his favorite TV show so that we can play together in a more intimate setting, a cute card that goes with the theme of the first gift and a chocolate box. It'll probably be pretty fun.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/23 02:35 AM
13

As a woman, just do whatever you want. Don't settle for someone you don't find attractive though, physically and mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:11 PM
1

So many good male role models and they choose the bottom of the barrel.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 01:05 PM
1

Speak for yourself, you're not even a woman 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 01:45 PM
1

Women get tired of the so called Alphas too. Maybe women aren't meant for monogamy. The best bet is having both qualities, being a masculine provider and protector. Those are the ones that women keep.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 01:43 PM
0

I don't split costs, my boyfriend pays for everything. We're quite traditional and he knows what each of us bring to the table. I'd get the ick if the man I'm seeing would expect us to be 50/50, it's so unattractive. By the way, I think you're not telling us the whole story, she wouldn't go on a random rant without having noticed something odd about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 03:37 PM
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Obviously, everybody wants an attractive partner. Why is it surprising?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 11:08 PM
8

This is literally the worst piece of advice I've seen on here. Thank God I already found the love of my life, men are getting scarier by the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:33 AM
3

My boyfriend courted me properly. He took me out on dates, gave me a token (his rosary necklace) when we made things official, he has given me flowers, actual letters, cute gifts when we enter stores, and he has taken me on vacations for our anniversary. He's also the one who drives to my place to pick me up. I love how romantic he is, he's quite serious and assertive (some would call him dominant), but I've never met a man like him, he has a really gentle heart. I'm spending the rest of my life…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:20 AM
32

I prefer a man that barely watches porn or none at all. The difference in treatment is immense.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/23 11:02 PM
10

You don't sound like you belong here, your comments are bordering on incel-territory.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/23 11:01 PM
6

He could expect it, but I'd just move on. Plenty of fish in the sea.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/23 11:37 AM
1

I don't think any person regardless of gender gets anything back. Sure it's new and exciting the first time around, but with time it creates a void.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 03:15 PM
6

Fun fact, those are linked to aging sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:28 AM
15

Isn't it obvious? They want women in their 30's but can't reach their standards. I'm in my 20's and it's so easy to see that they want them but resent that they can't manipulate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:43 PM
5

Red flag, I do want a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:10 AM
8

I still see plenty of 30+ women marrying great men, I guess the study wasn't large enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 09:56 PM
6

He died alone in a seedy hotel room with a "whale" in his room. The biggest hypocrite on Earth and you still lick his boots.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 09:53 PM
2

Have you seen the back stories of most homeless men? It's usually their own doing, either by drugs or by being general assholes with the people in their lives. It gets to a point where no one wants to help them because they're self-destructive and destroy everything in their path. Suicide rates? The desire to end life is fairly equal between men and women, it's just that 1) women think more about the people in their lives and how it would affect them; and 2) a lot of the suicides committed by me…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:10 PM
1

Most of the time it's creepy older men that want to take advantage of the inexperience of younger women (or even literally girls). The only way I can see it working is if the man doesn't necessarily date younger women only and is a genuine honest man with dependable qualities. He should be able to provide a certain lifestyle and be ready to take care of his wife and family. If he can't offer what men in the 50's could with a modern twist and respect for his lady, he shouldn't try to date a young…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 07:39 PM
1

One of my guy friends back in highschool. He's very tall, dark-skinned, fat, aggressive, arrogant and quite ugly. Has a low-paying job and still lives with his mother. He's a huge pervert and misogynist, I can't stand being in a room with him. He also treats his mother like garbage, she literally gave him everything anyone could ever wish for yet he's so disrespectful towards her. His dating standards are through the roof too ironically enough. Some people really lack self-awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 02:07 AM
4

I agree wholeheartedly, I think that the men in the comments are in denial because they've never been acknowledged as husband material.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 08:28 PM
1

Men who spew this nonsense literally live in a different world from most women. Husband material is the holy grail, my boyfriend is husband and father material and you can bet that he gets the best of me in all the sense of the word. Fuckboys don't even register in my reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 08:21 PM
1

Both are extremes, ideally we want a man that spends time and money on us.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/23 10:31 PM
1

We don't really have to date down to find commitment, my man is drop dead gorgeous and he's really committed to our relationship. You underestimate us lol.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/23 10:11 PM
3

Women are the ones who are expected to maintain their youth and beauty, they're usually the emotional driving force in every relationship, the ones who plan everything, they do most if not all of the household chores and rarely get orgasms from men. The least that men can do is foot the bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 04:43 PM
2

When I was a teenager my boyfriend always paid. Now as an adult the dynamic is practically the same, not the same guy though. Men can't expect femininity and submission if they can't even provide for you.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/23 10:58 PM
1

I identify myself as a submissive woman, but that doesn't mean I'm braindead. I've always excelled academically (even though I plan to be a stay at home mom when the time comes) and rest assured that I know how to spot anything that doesn't improve my quality of life, including the men in my vicinity. My boyfriend is quite dominant and sweet at the same time, we work because I'm not hellbent on bringing drama into his life and he, on the other hand, treats me like a princess. He's not insecure o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:36 PM
1

If you think about it, it's only gross if many men actually came in her raw. What if she slept with one man but always using condoms? How would guys feel about that one? Not technically a virgin but you were the first one to cum inside her?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:16 PM
5

Speak for yourself, I don't want a man that causes drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:20 AM
1

Fembots would not tolerate loser men, I'd be scared to put my dick in one if I was a man. I'm 100% sure they wouldn't be submissive pornstars that would take any type of mistreatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:44 AM
1

He was annihilated and imprisoned, what are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:58 AM
-7

That should be a white man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:41 PM
1

Who doesn't like attractive people? Ladies just go after what you want, at the end of the day you should choose the person that you would feel more comfortable and happy building a life with. The men who can't catch up will keep whining forever anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:50 AM
-1

Never in my life have I heard a woman making fun of male virgins, my best friend literally wants a virgin. The only ones who make fun of them are men because they think that being a manwhore is a badge of honor.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:43 AM
6

If the majority of men peak around 35, why do you have to choose between "fatties", single moms or singlehood forever? Where are the beautiful, young, child-free women you were promised?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:10 AM
27

They all know deep down that they won't get them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:07 AM
1

He should pay obviously, but the real issue is having a long distance relationship. They never work.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/22 02:33 AM
7

Um so you're basically saying that men did and do provide for their wife and their family. He does pay for her life then.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/22 07:37 PM
12

My cousin is a housewife, they have separate bank accounts but he gave her a debit card where he deposits money for her account. It goes pretty smoothly for them.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/22 07:36 PM
0

At the end of the day all relationships are transactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 02:58 AM
0

I'm introverted and my boyfriend is an extrovert, he always handles business and it's so attractive to me. I really like the dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:27 AM
1

LTR for both sexes, I won't spend the rest of my life with a toxic, broke goblin. He must be attractive, smart, kind, ambitious, and generous. Luckily, my man is all that. He's wonderful. Plus I'm pretty sure that there's a big number of women who don't do casual sex, so the only way to get them is through LTRs. Casual sex is a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 06:47 AM
0

My dad is a terrible judge of character, my mom is way better. I trust her wholeheartedly with her opinions on the men I date. Right now I'm super happy with my boyfriend and she approved of him since the beginning. My ex? Not so much. I should've listened to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 03:01 AM
2

I've had 2 LTRs (not counting the one in middle school because we were just kids and nothing serious happened). The first one lasted 5 years and now I'm in my current one (3 years and counting). I'm almost 26 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 06:45 PM
1

I don't necessarily think that women are measured by their career success or education, some of the most high value women that I know are homemakers and their husbands/boyfriends take great care of them. I do think that a low value woman lacks class, kindness, femininity, the ability to empathize with people, modesty and logical reasoning. If he doesn't feel comfortable and masculine in your presence, you're doing your job wrong. Same with the opposite case.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 12:58 AM
2

I would take out unemployment/underemployment. Not really required to be a low value woman, lots of women don't "work" in the career sense but they are high value in other more feminine areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 12:51 AM
1

FDS is still thriving, they're just on another site.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 04:48 AM
3

That's because women are the ones who get impregnated, give birth, take care of the kids, do most household chores, need to upkeep their beauty by all means possible, be available sexually 24/7, and nowadays a lot of "modern" men want her to work full time and contribute to the bills. Pray tell why should we initiate the courtship too? The least that men can do is pay for a simple meal and dates. You want all of the benefits and none of the responsibility, we're one step away of literally cleani…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:20 PM
1

I'm very happy and comfortable in my relationship, we argue very rarely.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 12:06 AM
0

It's happening to women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:31 PM
-1

Everything you mentioned must be done once in a week or a month while "womanly" tasks must be done every day for a couple of hours. Not the same at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 12:41 AM
2

Don't put his name on your estate, I've met so many women that did the same and now they have nothing. He could leave at any moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 04:22 PM
1

I'm 25, I'd support him but he would be responsible for everything inside/outside the home and my meals. He's gorgeous too so he'd basically be a trophy husband lol. Honestly though, it's not my ideal arrangement, I prefer the traditional roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 04:21 PM
1

Both obviously. Also, a man that provides makes me feel secure too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:46 AM
1

You're delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:13 AM
3

Nope, it's a turn on for me too. Men know nothing about us apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:12 AM
1

Slutty men always try to change reality, it's funny really. I only wanted a man looking for commitment and I found him, and let me tell you he could really be a male model or an actor. He could literally sleep with a new girl every night and he still wanted a long-term relationship. You don't know how attractive monogamous handsome men are to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:08 AM
2

The role of the male breadwinner is more prestigious than ever. Haven't you noticed the huge femininity movement? More and more women are resting in their femininity and looking for a provider. Feminism birthed quite the backlash and I've noticed that the increase of conservatives has gone up substantially.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:45 PM
4

What you said made no sense and I'm not even the one that made the comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:41 PM
1

I love dating apps, it makes it easier to vet and it's way safer. I wouldn't want to meet up with a creep. Plus, I found my boyfriend on Tinder, he's the most amazing man in the world. It was my first and only date from a dating app, I highly recommend it and won't shut up about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 02:10 AM
14

It's funny how some men don't want "jaded" women yet they don't realize they're the ones who turn women like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 08:21 PM
3

Why should a woman give you her youth and beauty if you're not going to marry her?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 08:18 PM
7

That's just a skinny man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 05:18 PM
1

The man in the second picture is quite muscular, I wouldn't call that a dad bod. My boyfriend has the same physique and he goes to the gym almost every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 05:14 PM
5

First time that I agree with a post. You love what you can get, if these women were honest they'd go after muscular men. Self-esteem and your perception of your own league dictates what type of person you go after.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 05:06 PM
1

You're exaggerating your claim, no one has talked with thousands of women about this same topic to know for sure. It sounds immature. Plus I believe my initial comment received quite the visibility so yes, most if not all women prefer monogamy with a valuable man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:26 PM
1

Yes, he's truly a gem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:11 PM
2

Classic comment from the type of man that I'm referring to. I'm literally telling you what women want and you still try to cover the Sun with your thumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:04 PM
9

Leonardo DiCaprio is an outlier, he's veryyy wealthy. And still, he has female partners because they only want his money and status. All women desire security but I'll sure as hell will look at younger hotter men that are my age with enough resources and generosity. I don't need an ugly old millionaire when I can get a gorgeous man that takes care of all my needs, even financial ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:51 PM
10

I'm in my early 20's with a wonderful boyfriend, and he's the type of handsome that girls have even recorded him and they have literally called to his work to get his number. He's a gorgeous man and guess what? He said 18-19 olds are babies to him, and he's not even in his 30's yet. He has a good head on his shoulders, no creepy vibes from him whatsoever. I think that young women shouldn't pick men in their 30's and beyond, it brings a lot of issues and at the end of the day, men die way sooner …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:28 PM
14

Why should I settle for a manwhore when I can get a hottie that is solely mine? No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 08:10 PM
0

Exactly what I was thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:43 PM
1

Then study hard sciences, those ones are objective. There's a lot of women getting STEM majors and we still excel so I don't think there's a "hidden" agenda. Also, I don't think women will date down. That's not part of our biology and we can be happy alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:40 PM
0

There will always be men that provide and those will be the ones that get women and a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:23 PM
2

That will happen when men get penetrated, impregnated and have the ability to birth children. Oh and I'm not even mentioning the socialization that girls and women go through, it's simply not the same. You want all the benefits while having none of the setbacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:14 PM
7

Um no, we still want attractive men that make money. That's part of our DNA. Resources for a family and dates don't come out of thin air, it turns me on to see an ambitious man provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 04:02 PM
1

I believe that it all depends on our mood, not on the person/relationship. Sometimes I want spontaneous sex with my boyfriend, other times we are pretty busy so we flirt with each other throughout the day. I've never been into the casual scene though, so I don't know how people do it in that case.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:52 PM
0

No, I didn't and I don't pay for the dates. My boyfriend covers everything, it's so attractive and it makes me feel secure and loved in his presence. Hypothetically, I'd only reach for my purse and split the bill if I didn't see a future with the guy.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/22 03:19 AM
2

Nevermind normal recipes and cookbooks. Get "Salt Fat Acid Heat" by Samin Nosrat. Her book was a God-send, I knew literally nothing about cooking and she breaks down each element of cooking in such an enjoyable and efficient way that you'll learn all the basics and then some. Plus it has cute pictures! <3
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/22 07:50 PM
1

Building things and being tall aren't feminine qualities.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/22 06:51 PM
1

Best advice around here.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/22 06:49 PM
3

The virgin thing, no one cares and no one would literally ask the man if their partner was a virgin. They'd only notice if the woman is modest, and she could've slept with someone else before. You don't have "not a virgin" stamped on your forehead, they only see her behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:02 PM
0

Men still pay for love and affection one way or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 12:57 PM
2

Have you seen all the magazines, media posts, and general beauty and behavior standards shoved down women's throats all day everyday while maintaining academic success, careers, and families? We already know what improvement means for us, men have to keep up. That's why we focus on vetting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:01 PM
1

Cope, most men in their 40's and 50's have thinning hairlines, a gut and no money. The sad trifecta.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:36 AM
2

Coming from a woman in her 20's, look up the hottest actresses and models, they're all 30+. Plus you can't really prove that all younger women are more beautiful and energetic, people of varying attractiveness and energy levels can be found across all ages. Same with emotional baggage, which by the way, is mostly caused by men. As a gender you should really clean up your act before criticizing women with trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:30 AM
1

Both of my grandmas had their last babies in their 40's. Maternal grandmother had 14 kids, paternal grandmother had 12. They were both very tiny women and they had no complications whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:16 AM
4

I'd rather have a hot dude that I can actually enjoy life with at the same pace than taking care of an old man when I'm still in my peak. I'll take care of the man that gives me his best years.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:12 AM
4

Why is it gross? If he treats her right it doesn't matter how he words it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 01:20 AM
5

Why is it patriarchal to have a resourceful husband or boyfriend? Women are too valuable to waste their prime years with someone unattractive in all the sense of the word.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 12:50 PM
1

You can easily do a Google search and you'll find he/she is right.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:42 AM
0

Correct, I split the bill with a man if I don't see a future with him. It is what it is. If I find him attractive and as potential prospect, I'll accept the kind gesture of him paying for the dates. Traditional masculine men are my cup of tea, not that I'm looking anymore. My boyfriend is ideal in my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:59 PM
7

Dadbods, I don't know why it got so popular. Give me a man with real muscles and a v-line.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:02 AM
-1

I've literally never seen men fawning over Victoria's Secret models.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:00 AM
2

They asked a similar question in Askmen and they all agreed that women in their 30's are attractive. I'm sure that outside of Reddit men have the same sentiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 01:27 AM
1

It's not women's problem to deal with, why can't men strive to keep up with women? Let men be advocates for other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 11:28 PM
0

I wouldn't call conformity, compliancy and emotional fragility as feminine features. Women have fought all their lives for their rights and going by the other comments, everybody acknowledges how women are emotionally mature and in touch with their emotions. Not even going to break down the other ones, it's wrong in so many levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:39 PM
-1

You can't blame women for leaving most men in the dust neither. They either give you trauma, suck you dry or kill you, even perhaps a combination of all three. Fun fact, the time when women are at bigger risk of being assassinated by their male lover is when they're pregnant. Men feel bitter because of how cold women have turned out, but that's just self-preservation. Only a handful of guys should be able to procreate and have women by their side. Simple truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 02:25 AM
4

The day men have periods, carry and birth children will be the day all women will go 50/50 financially. Most men don't even help with house work, child-rearing or even take care of their own appearance. The least they can do is pay the bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 02:41 AM
-2

You really think that going 50/50 will stop him from feeling that you owe him sex? On the contrary, you'll seem easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 02:38 AM
41

I don't like promiscuous men, gives me the ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 01:17 AM
6

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 12:31 AM
5

That women love to be mistreated. I still cringe everytime I hear a guy say that. I left my ex because he started showing red flags, I would never tolerate an asshole. To the trash he goes 🗑️ On a positive note, my current boyfriend is the sweetest gentleman I've ever known. He treats me like a princess and tells me when I'm wrong, the perfect balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:36 AM
1

Being realistic, this will be the downfall of relationships between men and women. Women will always want someone better than them, especially in the financial sense. How can you create the polarity that both sexes want when you need her to survive? Plus, deep down men like to be the leaders and the providers. It'll be chaos all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:28 AM
2

The redpill discourse just sounds like fear-mongering and ultimately it will rob the man's ability to be truly happy and build a legacy. He'll be paranoid all his life about what women do or won't do for him and will succumb to the weight of his own delusional expectations. It really makes me appreciate the fact that I found a traditional and wholesome man that doesn't live life fearing me or other women. He's a gem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:09 AM
1

I had my first puppy love in middle school and then dated my first actual boyfriend in high school. I learned so much from that experience and I would gladly do it again, even though it was a rocky relationship. Now I know how to deal with men and what is expected in a relationship, I'm sure my current boyfriend appreciates the maturity. He had experience too, I'm glad we're both the people we are today. The base of our relationship is love and understanding, we already know how to handle any is…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 02:55 AM
4

Biologically speaking, it's obvious that the mother will be more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 11:37 PM
6

Excuse me but my man is the kindest man I know, he's awesome. We all have different tastes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 11:35 PM
2

If he works the same hours as me, I expect him to do half of everything too. It's only fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:04 PM
1

We want both, a man that provides and that inspires lust in us.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 09:57 PM
1

Yes, but I think most know how to vet. The party girls usually are the ones that keep getting used, and they're definitely extroverts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:30 PM
2

I don't know about that, I'm pretty shy but I have an amazing radar for fuckboys. My first relationship lasted 5 years and I've been in my current one for 3 years with a wonderful man. I may be awkward sometimes but I'm not stupid. I think they just see it as a cute feature, at least the men that are worthwhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:11 PM
0

My boyfriend is the sweetest guy I know and he's a stud. Muscles for days and pretty face. He also dresses so damn fine. My ex however was ugly asf and he was a manipulative asshole. Ugly people aren't always nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 05:12 PM
0

I'm in my 20's, most of the women here are not middle aged. Can't say the same for the men 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 05:09 PM
0

Because they're still fulfilling their traditional gender role while working on top of that and being a "girl boss". We're not Wonder Woman, men leave everything regarding housework and child-rearing to their spouses while claiming 50/50. I've seen women dying of heart attacks because they literally did everything for their family and the man didn't step up before it was too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 11:32 AM
-4

Since when? Women still take care of the home and the children, a lot of them do it while working too. It's men that are still pushing back, they don't want to provide and they don't want to participate in the child-rearing and house-keeping neither. You'd rather have everything on a silver platter and do nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 11:20 AM
7

Spoken like a man that doesn't know how much sacrifice it takes to raise babies/children and take care of a home.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 08:23 PM
4

You do if you cared enough to comment lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:08 PM
4

When I'm having sexy time with my boyfriend it's not on the forefront of my mind since I'm on birth control pills, plus he's definitely the man I want to marry and have a family with. But right now it's not the time to have babies, so I do get nervous if I get a different symptom from the usual stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:29 PM
1

Water is wet, cuter features make you want to protect and provide for her. Just like all humans do with smaller animals, everyone has the pull to take care of puppies for instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 01:50 PM
2

Ugh look at all these men mansplaining their fantasies. Never in my whole life did I ever think that I would like a promiscuous man, none of my girl friends look for that either. My boyfriend is literally a Superman look-alike and he has had experience in serious LTRs, and that's way preferable. I would've actually be turned off if he was a manwhore. So sorry guys, we'd rather take a virgin if push comes to shove. My best friend was really into that so women do like virgins, just don't be a weir…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:16 AM
1

No chest hair pls. Doesn't look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:39 PM
10

Not quite, you live in a bubble if you think that only ugly and obese women shame men. We all know that certain men are bottom of the barrel, so it's okay to shame them. You're not as pure and noble as you would like to think, not even the best man in the whole wide world is a saint.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:52 PM
1

Men shame women ALL the time for having standards, and we all know that someone has to keep men in check or they'll literally go for underaged girls. In modern times it still happens with consent laws, imagine if we didn't have laws or social parameters. In regards to promiscuity, no one like a promiscuous person, man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:47 PM
1

If you don't like his cheating, divorce him. If you feel it's unfair and you want to try to make it work, cheat on him too so that he realizes how wrong it is.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/22 03:08 PM
6

Most tall girls aren't models though, they need a specific proportion to look dainty and feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:31 AM
5

My cousins are gorgeous tall ladies but they never had good luck in love, they're all currently single and in their 40's. Men say that they would date tall women but in action they date the short/shorter ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:30 AM
11

So you need to trick a woman into sleeping with you? That's not consensual if both had agreed that it would be a long-term relationship. Women don't owe you their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:24 PM
2

A broad back and muscles certainly do the trick, speaking as a woman in a relationship with a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:16 PM
3

I don't get wet just by looking at a random man's body, but my eyes do linger on my boyfriend's broad back and his muscles. He's sculpted like a Greek statue, I'm awed everytime he gets out of bed naked or when he flexes for me in the shower for giggles. So yes, women do find certain male bodies arousing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:14 PM
1

There are plenty of "alpha" married men so they do exist.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/22 06:33 AM
-2

That's the least that men can do when women doll themselves up for a date and take on greater risks meeting a strange man. Sex is way riskier too for women, it's fair that men take the initiative and pay for the dates. If not, then women are practically carrying them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:37 AM
117

Work out for your health, and realize that you're not responsible for your husband's wandering eyes. If he leaves you and the kids, remember it's his fault for denying his own family. He may very well find other women to sleep with, but the absence of his family will haunt him forever even if he doesn't acknowledge it. The universe has a funny way of getting back at people. Stay calm and let everything unfold, you and your family will be alright.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/22 03:17 PM
6

The gods of beauty have always been women across all cultures. Men chase women more than the other way around and they're more valued for their attractiveness. I think we all know deep down that women are more beautiful, even comparing the average ones with normal men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:31 PM
2

Don't base human behavior on chimps. We share a great amount of DNA with bananas too, should men behave like bananas? Humans are truly in a category of their own, no other animal can replicate the consciousness that separate us from the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:31 AM
12

The chimp pill 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:27 AM
1

Lol if you think most women are having sex with Chad, the girls I know have nerdy-looking boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 12:48 AM
7

Which most men aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:30 PM
23

Relatively good looking? He literally looks like a bloated potato now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:52 PM
1

It depends on whether they do it respectfully and on age-appropriate women. Some older men are quite predatory and thirst after naive young women for their own selfish reasons. Quite a lot of them harass underage girls too, which I think is the greatest offense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:49 PM
4

Are you referring to the same Disney movies where princesses end up with literal thieves and broke/womanizing men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 12:45 AM
12

This, men lose way more when they lose their female partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 10:00 PM
3

So she was sexually abused as a child and taken advantage of but instead of having compassion for her you say she was a "good fuck" and talk about her like she was living trash? I'm glad you let her go, she deserves a better human being by her side.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:48 PM
1

Not necessarily since tall women have more trouble dating than their shorter counterparts. Sometimes they just have to accept the shorter guy and go against what they would really like.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 11:38 PM
12

I'll probably get flamed for this but coming from a woman, deep inside most women like the idea of a traditional man even if they say they don't. Just look at all the romance novels written by women. What woman wouldn't want a protective, confident man that pays all the bills and takes care of them in every sense of the word? So I believe those degrading kinks are a way to get their fill of their own desire to be dominated since society has moved to a more egalitarian path.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:48 AM
3

I'm sorry but most women can't respect a man that seems assertive/dominant in bed but later on splits finances to the last penny. It's a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:41 AM
9

I must disagree, unattractive men are more prone to cheating if the opportunity presents itself. Handsome men already know they're hot so they don't need the validation. I've seen both sides in my love life and my current boyfriend is TikTok good-looking and he has never strayed. My unattractive ex on the other hand...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:09 PM
5

Um no, the vast majority of women do not think this way. We're not a hive mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 10:18 AM
1

I do care if he was actually seeking out sex just to use women as masturbation tools, just not the type I'm attracted to. I wouldn't care if the sex he had was with LTRs. Seems more genuine to me and not like he was seeking validation through casual sex, that's pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 10:14 AM
1

I don't know, I found my guy on Tinder and he's the best thing that has ever happened to me. Dating apps are a great tool if you know what to look for.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:54 PM
4

3 including my boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:33 PM
2

I think a woman should get educated and have a fund, but ultimately we do desire a man that is more resourceful than us in all the sense of the word. I want a family so I understand that I won't be able to be super mom and climb the corporate ladder while a breastfeed my babies at the same time. So I do have an education but I'll choose to be a stay at home mom when the time comes and my boyfriend is 100% on board with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:50 PM
1

My guy is stable and hot, I don't think he's boring at all. Most women aren't suicidal retards.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:42 PM
31

This is the best response yet, quite practical.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:38 PM
34

If a man with a high body count expects a woman to have a low body count, he better provide fully and do everything a masculine man does. She's losing by being with a manwhore so he needs to rise to her level to make it balanced. This coming from a woman who has a low n-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:36 AM
1

I wouldn't mind, my boyfriend is really tight with his family but has like 2 friends (maybe less). He has many acquaintances and he's pretty social when he needs to be, but he usually hangs out with me more. Also when he games, sometimes he does it with his cousins but usually he plays with me. In my case, I only have one friend that I actually talk to regularly. I'm very close with my family though. So nope, I'd actually prefer it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 02:48 AM
1

You're still a manwhore if you sleep with a lot of women, work or no work.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:09 PM
2

I really think he got hurt by someone, he seems eccentric. Most sane Hollywood stars have a wife and family.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:04 PM
2

You sound like a cringy old man ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:32 PM
1

Case in point, Leonardo DiCaprio, Johnny Depp, Brad Pitt, etc. They were all way hotter when they were much younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:28 PM
1

If you don't spend money on them what is the purpose of dating an older man with money? I'd rather have a younger fit man with less money if that's the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:18 PM
1

A responsible man would buy a house for his wife and family since he acknowledges that they are his world and that women bring a lot to the table without even counting their own money.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:05 PM
1

Nevermind the sourgrapes in the comments, men like you are rare. I'm already in a long-term relationship with someone that has your same mindset. Keep treating her right, most women are not bitter witches and we actually love our significant others.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:59 PM
1

Not all women tell their friends everything or even open up emotionally, but I get what you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:34 PM
1

I almost left a guy I was dating because he was being distant emotionally. He became more communicative when he saw that another man was getting my needs met emotionally. We're not stupid, I'd much rather have a man that expresses his love and his feelings than a cold bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:25 PM
0

Is that why most tall men go for short women? In real life petite women mog. Tall women are great for the fashion industry though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:07 PM
1

Says who? Most of Hollywood's bombshells are shorter than 5'7".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:05 PM
2

Older men with good money can get younger women, but most men won't be able to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:25 AM
2

Deep down most women want a man that provides and dotes on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:17 AM
4

Excuse you but I do care about my partner's education and income. It's pretty essential.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:11 AM
-2

STEM majors take more time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:04 AM
12

Depends on the major, STEM majors take more time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:03 AM
1

You can't have both, she'll have to spend time away from the family to maintain her job/career.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:21 AM
3

Not like men did, men have always been the main breadwinners.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:13 AM
1

I love genuinely good men, but most "nice" guys aren't nice. I find the idea of dating an asshole to be downright humiliating, they would never treat me right. So there goes your hypothesis.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:41 PM
1

Yet men always say that relationships should be sex-focused. The irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 12:13 PM
1

I love a defined chest, pectorals look so good on a broad chest. I swoon everytime I cuddle with my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 09:17 PM
1

Men should pay for all of the dates. Women don't even get orgasms most of the time and we have more risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 09:10 PM
1

No, it means that I want to see how well he treats me. I treat my man like a king so I expect the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 09:06 PM
1

At least he'd actually be making real money.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 09:57 PM
1

I like traditional gender roles and I plan to be a housewife after getting married and having my first baby. My boyfriend knows this and he's completely on board. He pays for all of the dates and he's quite a gentleman so I aim to please him in any way I can. He's a wonderful man, I really enjoy our dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 09:53 PM
1

I must be lucky as hell because you just described my boyfriend word for word. Although his bad boys days are over, they do exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:46 PM
1

Finally a worthy answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 05:55 PM
1

Do not generalize, that girl was a pig. Most women would run for the hills if the guy is smelly and has poor hygiene. I'd rather die than sleep with a man with bad breath and/or a dirty body.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 01:54 PM
1

Most women wouldn't trust you, they would get slut shamed if they said they wanted a threesome with 2 men. But believe me, women want it. Have you seen the popularity of Twilight? I bet that most women would love to have both characters in their bed if they could.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:18 PM
1

Lies, that study is pretty old and in my honest opinion, hot men are better lovers and companions. I dated an unattractive guy and it was hell, even random people would comment that I was out of his league. That's not why I left him though, I truly loved him but he mistreated me for years. Fast forward now, my boyfriend is drop dead gorgeous and treats me amazingly. He's so pretty that he went viral on social media. I can surely say that I'm really happy and comfortable with him, no regrets.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 11:52 PM
2

As a woman that once cheated on her partner when the relationship was starting, women can still fall in love with their SO after cheating with someone else, be it emotionally or sexually. Men aren't the only ones. Hard pill to swallow but it's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 11:19 PM
2

That's not true, relationships are complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 11:17 PM
1

If you look around in real life you'd see that couples are mostly compromised of short women with men of all heights. Unless you live in Scandinavia or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:59 PM
1

I'm a bi woman so: Men: Tall, muscular, with broad shoulders, dark hair and eyes. Luckily my boyfriend is exactly my type. Women: I like petite women, so a short girl with a nice figure and a cute smile would steal my heart if it wasn't already taken. Short hair, long hair, doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:56 PM
0

Lies, ugly men mistreat beautiful women because of their own insecurities. I've seen it with my own eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:46 PM
1

Why would we care? Men barely care about our issues if at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 12:50 PM
1

Because most men are useless and they need a woman to organize their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 12:47 PM
1

Sometimes women want sex with different men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 11:28 PM
24

Bi woman here, it's because it's easier to fit in society with a male partner. People are very homophobic even in these current times.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 12:38 AM
1

I'm bisexual and my best relationships have been with women. Maybe it's you? I can't even relate to the height issue and this is coming from a very petite gal (4'10").
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 12:36 AM
3

Not really, just low self-esteem and the drive to fix a man.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/22 12:41 AM
1

Ideally with some experience in exclusive long-term relationships. No more than 5 partners.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/22 12:11 AM
7

It's a deal breaker for me and I'm a woman. I'd honestly feel disgusted knowing he has slept with so much people.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/22 12:01 AM
1

Um she works, she manages EVERYTHING about the household and contributes financially. She's selling herself short and doesn't realize it.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/22 02:58 AM
1

She shouldn't even contribute financially if she's literally doing all the household management alone.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/22 02:48 AM
1

So you leave everything to her?
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/22 02:41 AM
2

I love this analogy.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/22 03:37 AM
2

They can literally read your name on the card.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/22 03:01 AM
4

I'll miss it, it's rare for women to have a space only for themselves where they can advise other women about shitty relationships. Men always want to barge in to ruin the conversation and keep women in the darkness.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 06:57 AM
1

I've never denied that I love when a man provides for me. The women who pay for the dates and initiate are missing out big time, I feel so feminine and cherished when my boyfriend takes care of things. Must be my lizard brain, he's one hot man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 06:46 AM
1

Honestly, my first love was a submissive guy in personality but he asked me first and was kinda traditional in a sense (he paid for everything and had his bouts of masculinity). But I wouldn't do it again, I much prefer the masculine type with the same traditional traits, which is why I'm now dating my boyfriend. He goes to the gym, has a traditional outlook on things, a powerful personality, and he's sensitive at the same time. The perfect Chad lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 06:41 AM
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My boyfriend is the "guy who looks like a bad boy but is sensitive" so they truly exist. He's reformed now (used to drink a lot in his teens) but he's still as handsome as ever with a kind and loving personality. Women always look for a balanced man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 01:14 PM
1

Women have more value by default and men want to take care of them to reap the benefits of having a woman. At least the masculine ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 01:05 PM
3

These young dudes sure as hell love the benefits of an older woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 01:02 PM
1

Why is it always about extremes with men like you? Sounds like you just want to justify terrible trashy behavior from men. My man is balanced. He's a total sweetheart that opens doors for me and picks up the check, but knows when to put his foot down. That's the kind of man that wins in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:57 AM
24

He has managed to manipulate you into staying with him doing literally everything while he does nothing. Kick him out, he's not good for you.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/22 09:06 PM
–

You have many assumptions. Quite funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:11 PM
1

I'll graduate this semester, thank you for the nice wishes though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:38 PM
5

You sound like you don't belong in society with the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:51 PM
1

I'm a biology major, good luck trying to change my mind though. I said what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:50 PM
1

I highly doubt it, you seem resentful towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:49 PM
2

I answered her/his question somewhere around this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:45 PM
4

They have dead eyes and they seem tense all the time. You usually feel uncomfortable around them, like you're walking on eggshells. Trust your intuition and listen to the little comments they sprinkle here and there about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:17 PM
9

That's what they'd like to think but we always know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:14 PM
2

Women that want the traditional life do exist, I'm one. Regarding men, each time I brought up that I want to be a housewife to my dates they pretty much accepted the notion with open arms. My current boyfriend loves the idea and that's what we're planning to do when we marry and live together.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:06 AM
6

Nope, too much hassle. I want to create my own family.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:27 AM
1

The men I've been with don't seem to notice the difference at all, they enjoy sex greatly. And yes, orgasm is the pinnacle of sexual pleasure. Don't deny reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:49 AM
1

Women are expected to be generous in other ways and then some. You get off easy and yet you still complain about the bare minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:18 PM
1

Being generous is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 04:23 AM
2

This sums it up perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:00 AM
1

Delusional, I treat my boyfriend like a king in bed and outside of it and he provides. He's no little boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:57 AM
1

Keep doing you, it's insanely attractive. The other comments sound bitter so don't mind them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:55 AM
1

I've never paid for a date in my life, it's sexy when a man handles the bill/provides. I feel more feminine and cared for. It activates my cavewoman circuitry.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:52 AM
1

You're nuts, I'm one of those women and there's no man on this Earth that I respect more than my boyfriend. He knows how to get shit done and takes care of business. It's insanely attractive. You should try it sometime, maybe you'll have better luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:46 AM
1

They're not fools, they're actual grown men. Gentlemen like those hardly exist these days. Even more so in the US, I'm glad that Latino culture is still quite traditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:37 AM
3

we didn't get a choice to do us. our mothers mutilated us before we were capable of self-defense. Mothers? So fathers are just decorations now? Great way to show your misogynistic mindset. Thank you. surgical scars don't look good. I've never seen surgical scars on a circumcised penis, and I've seen them up close.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:23 AM
3

Vulvas are easier to clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:19 AM
0

What does that have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:18 AM
1

I've experienced it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:18 AM
2

I already replied to your several other comments responding to this same message, I don't know why you're trying so hard. Take a chill pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:15 AM
2

Again, the men I've slept with are circumcised and they orgasm as well as any other man and quickly if they choose to. It's cleaner and looks better, but you do you. I won't criticize the way you like to do things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:13 AM
2

False dichotomy, next.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:11 AM
1

You again? Make yourself a favor and take your opinion elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:10 AM
0

Nice, great way to start a conversation. No thanks, I'm good.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:09 AM
1

They already feel pleasure. The men I've slept with are circumcised and they orgasm just fine and as quick as any other man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:08 AM
1

I was correcting the good Sir about his ignorance regarding his own anatomy and pointing out that only vaginas are self-cleaning. Vulvas, on the other hand, need to be cleaned obviously. But that wasn't the point of my comment so I didn't bother to explain something that surely everyone is supposed to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:05 AM
1

I obviously know that, I was explaining to the other poster that vaginas are self-cleaning. Mind your own business.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:02 AM
2

I said vagina, not vulva. Read properly before writing comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:58 AM
0

I've literally never heard of that outside of Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:52 PM
-1

Um no, penises are NOT self-cleaning. Vaginas secrete a discharge to take care of pathogens and microbes, penises do not. If I have a son I'd want him to be stress-free. The uncircumcised men I've encountered did not take care of their penis properly and I noticed they weren't clean under the foreskin. They were clean-looking men and they always groomed, but they had difficulties with that part. So I prefer circumcised.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:49 PM
3

That's your opinion and I respect it, but it hasn't been my experience. I've had encounters with men that do not take care of their uncircumcised penis properly. So if I ever have a son, I'd want him to be stress-free.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:43 PM
0

You'd be surprised how common it is to still have things under the foreskin.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:40 PM
4

They have self-cleaning vaginas and the anatomy is different. An uncircumcised penis can still have things stuck inside the foreskin if you don't clean it properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:39 PM
-4

Honestly, I'd rather have him circumcised for hygiene reasons. It's easier to clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:06 PM
1

Yeah, you should definitely not share it. It doesn't bring any positive to the interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:53 PM
1

You're welcome.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/22 05:50 PM
2

It really depends on the woman. In my case, I would never sleep with a man on the first date and even less so if I don't see a future with him. My boyfriend is jaw-dropping gorgeous but we waited until we were official.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:49 PM
3

I personally do care, it shows me that he doesn't value intimacy as much as I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 03:05 AM
1

So traditional dating is the same as a Disney fairytale? Delusional.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/22 08:43 PM
2

The real catch for women is a man that could get anyone he wants but has self-control. You have no idea how attractive it is. 10+ sex partners is too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:39 PM
8

I wouldn't say that they're redpilled, they're truly vile and misogynistic over there.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/22 05:33 PM
–

We definitely do care.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 01:19 PM
2

Sorry to break it to you, but you're in a redpill subreddit. We acknowledge that certain attributes are valued in women and we all know that virginity or few sexual partners are valued. She's not a prostitute clearly, but we must admit that men want something from women and women from men. She has given literally everything and he's not upholding his part of the deal.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/22 02:58 AM
0

You're crazy if you don't think those statues have muscles. If you would stop coping and actually being objective you'd agree that they were fit men. Masculinity has always been conflated with strength and power.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 11:43 PM
1

They were warriors who fought with swords and actually trained. Do you really think they wouldn't be fit and muscular? The delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 11:40 PM
1

How does carving muscles on a statue of a god reinforce your relationship with him? It only proves the idea that their supreme beings were muscular fit men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 11:36 PM
0

We would no longer need men for real.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:40 PM
0

You're making too much sense and it's making him uncomfortable 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 06:49 PM
1

I said ancient Greeks created statues that showed off what their ideal man was. Balance and proportion is beautiful but they were interested in power. They were lean but they had muscles, other people commenting were trying to say that they didn't value muscular men when the reality is much different. Have you seen how they also depicted their male gods in statues?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:43 PM
2

Getting rid of fat AND going to the gym. You need to force the muscles to get bigger if you want to be able to show off how fit and strong you are. Men look the hottest when they're muscular but in a natural way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:37 PM
1

Did I mention bulging muscles? They were certainly muscular as soldiers who had to use melee combat instead of guns, their statues depict this. Plus, youthfulness doesn't cancel out muscles lol, who told you that? You can look young, hot and muscular. Prime material for fighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:30 PM
1

Yes, they were openly bisexual but it happened mostly with young boys and mature men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:27 PM
2

Some men are growers obviously. Did you know this or did no one told you in Sex Ed?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:25 PM
1

Source? Look at their statues on Google. They usually depicted men and male gods with muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:22 PM
2

Most men don't have those "perfectly average muscles" like you call them, most are obese or scrawny. And do you even know about your own male anatomy? Some men are growers, for your information.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:19 PM
1

I've studied art in college so I sure as hell know. They represented the ideal of masculinity in that time. Are you even educated?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:16 PM
1

Shhh don't tell him
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:12 PM
2

Modern men aren't even appealing in one way, imagine other ways 😂 I lucked out with an awesome man, but nowadays women surpass men on everything. And yes, that's coming from a woman who dates other women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:07 PM
5

Exactly, most men say they want this and then they're surprised when we don't really have anything in common with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:05 PM
9

Have you seen the ideal man in their minds? Check out a statue from those times, you're in for a rude wake up call. They were muscular.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:04 PM
1

It depends on the kind of sexism and how the man goes about it. For example, my boyfriend is super attractive and exactly how you would picture a gentleman: He opens doors for me, pays for our dates, carries anything heavy, literally cuts up my food if he sees me struggling with it, and is generally always protective of me. But I do understand and recognize that he's misogynistic to some degree, in a traditional way. I certainly don't mind though, I'd wear his collar if he wanted me to 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 04:15 AM
2

Hypothetically I would if he's super hot, loyal, an excellent father and house husband. But I much prefer a breadwinner husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:49 PM
2

They get to see naked women that they wouldn't otherwise see.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 06:08 PM
3

Who said we don't? I've discovered a lot of things about myself while watching porn and masturbating. I think porn opens the gateway for many fetishes. I also read a lot of erotic fanfiction when I was starting out exploring my sexuality. I don't know if my libido is higher than most women but I identify with some of the experiences that men have ironically.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:32 PM
12

A cheat code for free money? Are you even hearing yourself? They're putting their reputation and safety on the line to get the supposedly "free money".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:00 PM
0

Everything is transactional if you really think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 02:58 PM
2

No, I'm saying that we like young looking guys, not men that look like they could be grandpas.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 07:48 PM
3

Taller than me (not that hard since I'm very petite), good set of teeth, shiny hair, pretty face and fit. If he has a broad back even better. Thankfully my SO has all of these and more 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 07:43 PM
3

I was an underaged girl once (now 24) and believe me I've always seen my friends and other girls gushing over boy bands. Look around, right now BTS holds more fangirls than any man in his 40's. You're just coping.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 07:19 PM
3

Underaged girls who have crushes on men on their 40's??? Are you insane? 😂 They adore younger guys across all generations. Back then it was the Jonas Brothers, Justin Bieber, One Direction, Big Time Rush, now it's BTS and all the K-Pop idols. About collagen content and all that, women take care of themselves waaay better. Men look like raisins compared to them at the same age.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:16 PM
3

Sperm gets created with genetic material that has been replicated a thousand times already, there's more risks for the offspring as you age. Women do find younger men attractive, have you seen the kind of men we truly long for? Tall, fit, squared jaws, impeccable skin, shiny strong hair, the ability to protect and provide comfortably; all traits of young virile men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:18 PM
3

As men age, the risk of the baby having Down syndrome and autism is way higher too. Old sperm contributes a lot to many of the diseases and impediments that kids have.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:12 PM
3

Painal for you or your partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:48 AM
2

Anal, pegging my bf, scat, pee, and anything involving blood.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:46 AM
1

Not really interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 02:26 PM
2

Then choose woman A, easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:10 PM
1

Don't play stupid. FDS women haven't killed anyone, on the contrary. They're helping women realize their worth. Also, femcels just keep to themselves. Incels are truly disturbed and dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:07 PM
2

I don't have anything to prove to you, think whatever would help you sleep at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:59 PM
1

Says the guy with anger issues and low self-esteem. You always seem to want to prove something but you look pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:42 PM
1

It's obvious that a career takes the majority of time of your day. The marriage, your beauty, the house and the kids will have to take the last spot since we can't do it all even though some people expect it. It always burns down in the end.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/22 01:19 AM
5

Women are the prize, yes. But you're forgetting that we have much more to lose if we choose wrongly. That's why we're so picky for the most part. Have you seen how many cases there are where men rape, torture and kill women? Be it their girlfriend, their wife or a stranger? Or women just plain get the short end of the stick and get saddled with every responsibility like managing a household, kids, their career and a manchild. We also have the possibility that he leaves her on her own and disappe…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:33 PM
-1

Subsets of "people"? Subsets of men more like.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:08 AM
1

Incels are truly evil, I have no simpathy for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:06 AM
1

I want a traditional family, I'd love to dote on my husband and kids. Plus, I know I'd find my husband leaving for work to provide for us way more sexually attractive than the modern way of doing things. It's complementary and beautiful. But that's just me, women can choose whatever they'd like for their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:33 AM
2

You literally said that you wouldn't choose B and then you mentioned you wouldn't choose A neither. Did you use your man brain for that one?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:24 AM
1

He settled for a woman which doesn't care what he likes. He's worthy of having my attention and care, unlike most of you clearly. Purge is over, you have to be civil and restrain from personal attacks. Freedom of speech, no one has blocked me yet. Also I'm awesome. You'd be better with decent morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:20 AM
2

If you don't like A or B, then the correct answer is staying alone. But men on this sub abandoned all moral compass and would rather cheat on B, says a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:12 AM
0

Bad relationship material... if you have a BF I feel sorry for your cuck. He's more of a man than many of you combined. Discontent partners tend to cheat! Duh! Discontent partners should just break up and let the other partner find what they deserve. But you love the convenience of having the secure piece at home and disrespecting her behind her back. You're worse than trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:08 AM
1

😂 You're funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:03 AM
2

Some men are plain evil sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:00 AM
2

Why didn't most of you choose A then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:59 AM
-4

We don't care about what you'd like, I'm emphasizing the dangers of believing in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:56 AM
1

Let me rephrase what I just told you. We hold differences, yes. But that doesn't mean we're from different planets. I can love a man and have sex with another man/woman without loving them, just like a man can. In that same manner, a man can love a woman and also love his side piece. It all depends on the type of person, not their sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:53 AM
2

I can't take you seriously, you're one of those redpill weirdos.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:13 PM
1

Leonardo stopped being handsome a decade ago. She looks like she's just admiring him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:08 PM
1

I'm a young woman so he's not really my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:06 PM
7

It's also dangerous to make us seem as different as possible. How can you possibly know what a woman feels towards her side piece if you've never been in her shoes?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:04 PM
4

Dumb as a pile of rocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:01 PM
12

The hipocrisy. By that same vein, a woman can love a man and still sleep with someone else. Doesn't mean she loves the second man/woman, she's just releasing her pent up sexual energy. God knows many men fail in making their woman sexually satisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 10:59 PM
2

She looks at him in awe, but that doesn't mean she's attracted. If I met Obama I'd look the same way even though he's not attractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:51 PM
33

Notice how the men would choose B but quickly jump on board to cheat on her 😂 Ladies, keep notes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:45 PM
10

The point of the whole post is that she won't ever like sex. You can't cherry pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:43 PM
2

He surely doesn't want daughters by what he's saying. He wants tall athletic sons.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:53 AM
5

You're a smart man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:27 AM
-4

Ultimately you can do whatever you want, but it's really none of your business. Think about his feelings and how embarrassed he would feel. Plus, if you actually slept with the woman, I think you owe her respect. She shared her body and intimacy with you and you're just going to trample it for a second of sadistic satisfaction?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:47 AM
-4

You're a disgusting human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:42 AM
-1

Most men do not take care of their skin, their style, what type of hairstyle suits them better, etc. Women do this every day. Most women are wayyy better looking than men, so it's easy to say that men like a variety of women. They're literally brainwashed to be beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:54 AM
1

She was still a child, she wasn't mentally developed enough compared to you. My understanding of the world was very different at 16.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:56 PM
1

Because incels are dangerous. Haven't you seen the news? They've literally killed women. One even blew up his own hand when his plan backfired, he actually wanted to blow up a group of cheerleaders.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:53 PM
-2

Dude on the right looks like an incel that got muscular.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:13 AM
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I'm young and I sure as hell don't like old men. My boyfriend is young, hot and has much more to offer. I don't want to take care of a man in his senile years when he didn't spend his youth with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:48 AM
1

I already have my dream man but you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:21 AM
1

I've seen envy from young mothers towards women who were better prepared for motherhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 10:07 PM
1

Then why do men simp the most for women over 30? The hottest celebrities chosen by men are 30+
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 10:05 PM
0

My sister was a teen mom and I hardly would call her an exceptional mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 10:00 PM
1

You sound quite resentful.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:26 AM
2

It's amazing that you're actually a woman, you really get into pickme character. Kudos for playing the part perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:51 AM
1

Let me break it down for you so that you better understand. Standard = a level of quality or attainment. To like a guy he needs to have certain features or qualities you're looking for, hence, they're your standards. Everyone has standards, women more so.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:49 AM
1

Why were murderous incels aligned with TRP then?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:36 AM
1

They pick a guy they like by having standards, they're there for a reason obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:35 AM
1

He looks very pleased, but thank you for having him in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:33 AM
1

Do you understand the concept of love and fidelity? And why do you describe moms as dumpy? There's beautiful mothers and unfortunate-looking young women, such is life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:30 AM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:27 AM
1

Sometimes men get pretty annoying when they think they're having "intellectual" conversations about something that only interest them or when they give unsolicited advice. They should be able to read a room. I think that's partially the reason why the term mansplaining arose.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:26 AM
1

You have it all wrong, as always. And honestly, men don't care about any of those things either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:21 AM
2

It's true, most women are attracted to masculine handsome men. The ones who say they don't care are lying, you could just read any type of fanfiction or romance/erotica book and you'll see that they describe a man like Henry Cavill, Chris Hemsworth or even Tom Hiddleston. And yes, men should realize that we have standards for a reason. It's simply biological.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 01:59 AM
0

I like FDS and I sure as hell had a wonderful time with my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 01:54 AM
0

Not all of us, I'm always vocal about wanting a handsome man with traditional qualities lol. They're trying to soften the blow for some guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 01:53 AM
2

Aren't you the girl that looks like she has self-esteem issues going by what you post all the time? You should really get that checked out unironically.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 01:36 AM
3

I won't comment about the depraved sex acts since that's between husband and wife, whatever floats their boat. But it benefits both the woman and the man if she exercises after giving birth. I wouldn't say that she should be skinnier than younger women though, just fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 03:21 PM
21

Caring for your pregnant wife and future children ensures propagation of the species. Evolution-wise, if you reject her it's possible that they'll die since you failed as a protector and provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 03:34 AM
1

Impossible, she'll notice more successful men than her partner and that's a recipe for disaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 03:11 AM
1

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 03:07 AM
0

I was 6 or 7, by a family member sadly. Later on by strangers. People sometimes don't realize that an alarming number of men are pedophiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 11:37 PM
4

Um no, that's how you communicate like actual adults.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/21 11:31 PM
3

Of course there's quite a few problems for age gap relationships. Especially for younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 03:32 PM
1

I had 2 male teachers in middle school that were creepy asf. One bit the same apple of a student (her sister was very close to him and an adult) and another one seemed to be part of the redpill cult. He would always talk about inappropriate things in the classroom and how women needed stern leadership and weird stuff like that. He was also involved with the same girl of the apple. In highschool there was a teacher that seemed obsessed with one of the girls, he was always praising her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 03:30 PM
2

Honestly, why is being a conservative a bad thing? Even if they are, I don't blame them. I'm conservative myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 03:01 AM
1

I don't know, husband material and wife material mean something different for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 03:33 PM
2

It's annoying, reeks of insecurity to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 07:40 PM
1

The only way I'm supporting a man financially is if we have kids, I make a lot of money, he's hot asf and can actually handle everything about the home and childrearing. So most women would probably say the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 07:27 PM
3

Simple, Tinder is safer for women. Any obvious red flags can be dealt with a single block and delete.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 06:52 AM
3

TRP, they actually have convicted murderers and they seek to harm women. FDS just wants to AVOID these types of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 04:47 AM
1

I'm 4'10" and weigh 107 pounds. Women like me do exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 02:14 AM
0

Speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 02:12 AM
1

My standards for a man are: 1) Fit and muscular 2) Great with kids and animals 3) Strong and compassionate 4) Chivalrous and traditional 5) Generous 6) Knows how to style himself and is always clean 7) Minimum a bachelor's degree and a job that can support a whole family 8) Knows how to get things done 9) Can chop down a tree with only a machete 10) Protective and secure with himself 11) High-libido
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 02:06 AM
0

Women are usually attracted to men with money and these men use money to attract women. Last point is useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 02:01 AM
3

I agree, we're not designed to do both roles at the same time PLUS staying beautiful.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/21 11:11 PM
1

I agree, women were only allowed to work so that more people can be taxed. It's another reason why there's less jobs and the pay is shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 04:30 AM
0

Lazy ass? You're quite ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 04:29 AM
5

Men don't age better than women, it's just that they're allowed to age.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/21 03:10 AM
0

Because they were and are the oppressors.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:18 PM
2

That's because we're attracted to different things obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:42 AM
1

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:05 PM
1

Most people today are not conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:02 PM
1

When has money NOT been attractive? 😂 And I'm pointing out that there's handsome men with money. They can be classified as "betabux" too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 09:11 PM
1

All the actors have money, most are hot as fuck. Elon Musk has money, he's not bad looking either. There's tons of wealthy men that are attractive. The only ones who are ugly-looking are old men. Sorry to burst your bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 06:22 PM
1

My "betabuxx" is my lover, I'm very sexually attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 06:10 PM
1

No, he truly is hot. He doesn't even need game.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 06:09 PM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:33 PM
1

I already have one and I've known men like this. I truly don't believe men are as shitty as you're describing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:31 PM
1

What are you smoking? Is there a rule that leaders can't be generous? They're SUPPOSED to be generous with the resources they have in custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 04:46 PM
1

Because it's fun to argue with strangers. And in a way, deep down you're trying to empathize with the other side even if you don't agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 02:49 PM
3

That's bs, there's loyal men that could fuck any woman and yet they don't. You're projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 02:45 PM
0

I have a boyfriend with all those qualities and yet I post here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 02:44 PM
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Generous men with leadership qualities that know how to style themselves and put effort into their body and mind. These men are very rare these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 02:40 PM
3

I'm lucky because my guy is all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 02:38 PM
1

I love hot simps, my boyfriend "simps" for me but has a backbone. You have no idea how attractive it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 02:39 AM
4

That's probably because there's cultural shame surrounding divorce, not because they were virgins per se.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 11:42 AM
1

False, my boyfriend could seriously fuck around if he wanted to but he doesn't. He's gorgeous.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 11:39 AM
11

The same thing happens with men, you should've mentioned it in your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 11:37 AM
1

This, 50/50 never works. Trying to be something we're not always brings conflicts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 08:46 PM
5

I enjoy the traditional roles. I love when my boyfriend takes care of the physical and financial aspects of our relationship, and I make sure he's satisfied sexually, emotionally and spiritually. I respect him and I always try to build him up, very rarely we get into arguments (like literally once every 8 months and that's pushing it). He's a great man and I'm very lucky to have him. Chivalry is not dead yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 08:43 PM
1

You'll know when it happens to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 08:33 PM
1

Masculinity is tied to how much a man can provide and protect. It's literally what men have been valued for for thousands of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 08:32 PM
2

Personally, I'm not attracted to him. My vagina shuts close when I hear the words "convicted felon". From billions of women you're only picking several mentally-ill women that probably aren't what most men would want as a partner anyway. I'd rather fuck and marry a man like Bill Gates than to drool after a loser, even if he has good looks. Now he has money too, so more women would react positively him. Even I prior to knowing that he was imprisoned thought he was attractive, but that's because h…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 08:29 PM
1

Following your line of thinking, do you really think the type of woman you're visualizing would want to divorce a millionaire or a billionaire? Before she had access to his good graces, why would she just want half?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 08:20 PM
1

So? In the great scheme of things, they both have a lot of money. Women and children don't need billions to be able to live comfortably.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 07:55 PM
1

Jeremy Meeks is still a millionaire. What you're not understanding is that having money never hurts your chances, on the contrary. If you're hot and capable of providing resources you'll have a line of women ready to marry you and give you whatever you want. He's attractive for so many women because he's the total package. And honestly, I'm pretty sure that Bill Gates could have any woman he wants too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 07:53 PM
1

You're forgetting that Leo has money as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 07:47 PM
2

Leo DiCaprio? From all the men you could've mentioned 😂 He looks terrible now, he used to look like every woman's wet dream when he was younger. But he aged pretty badly, he looks bloated and lacks body definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 07:45 PM
0

It's a cope broke men use. Thinking that having and using resources to attract women makes them a beta male is laughable. All the wealthy men are a far cry of the beta male meme, they're not there on the top of the world because they let people walk all over them. To be successful you must be ruthless and charismatic. There's nothing hotter than a capable and generous man. Don't listen to some of the men here, it's better to listen to the women (you know, the ones that are actually attracted to …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:38 PM
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The only ones who are coping are broke men that think that having resources to attract women makes them a beta male. All the wealthy men are a far cry of the beta male meme, they're not there on the top of the world because they let people walk all over them. To be successful you must be ruthless and charismatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:34 PM
1

FDS is anti-scrote. Very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 07:55 PM
1

This basically lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 07:53 PM
1

I started being interested in it after reading an article on Return of Kings. I'm curious by nature so I read almost everything on that site. It made me learn how to better identify redpill types to avoid them like the plague.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 03:37 PM
0

You're delusional and sexist, not quite surprising in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 05:12 AM
1

It's attractive when you know that a man can provide comfortably, comes with the territory of masculinity. More money = more masculine
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 09:15 PM
3

Honestly, they're the gatekeepers of nothing nowadays. Although I do enjoy when my man chops a tree or opens tight lids... Plus other things. He's the only exception and I love him to bits.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 09:11 PM
8

If you don't want to marry her let her go, someone else will fill the spot gladly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:19 PM
1

I don't know about you but high-earning men seem more masculine to me than the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:53 AM
6

It's true, I know several men like this. They lost their jobs, became dependant on their wives and cheated on them for doe-eyed women that still made them feel like men. These men were using the money given to them by their wives to impress the other woman, go figure. This is why I don't believe in role reversal, deep down no one's happy with the outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:43 AM
1

Guys stop, I truly think OP has mental issues. It's no use arguing with her, she needs compassion not judgement calls.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 08:24 PM
1

People are telling you to just become a housewife but the reality is that feminism doubled the workforce and now wages are lower than ever. That's why everyone is unhappy these days, we can't have it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:43 PM
2

My grandma was poor and she didn't have to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:37 PM
-1

Double the labor force, less jobs, less wages. Before feminism companies had to try very hard to secure workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:36 PM
2

Not even gonna bother because it's obvious that women work and pay taxes too. I'm sure you're not illiterate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 08:44 PM
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