DiamondRider21 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	What to do instead of shaking a girls hand? You can always extend your hand palm up like the olden days just don't kiss it.	/r/seduction	29/07/22 01:11 AM
2	Just some thoughts in my head I agree with the others. Being distant after a rejection rubs off as sour	/r/seduction	29/07/22 01:06 AM
1	Approaching a group Get them to take a photo with you. Have the girl you want take the photo and converse with one of her friends first.	/r/seduction	12/07/22 06:26 PM
1	Can I still get laid even i I am a virgin at 20? Yes you can. First and foremost you have to get used to being rejected. If you can't get used to that you will never succeed. Expect the worst, hope for the best.	/r/seduction	12/07/22 06:20 PM
2	Went on a date with a coworker, and it went alright. She throws out mixed signals, and I talked to a few coworkers to get their opinion. What are the odds they told her? The biggest mistake is thinking people act or think just like you do. Not everyone you work with or become friends with has your best interest at heart. Good chances are those coworkers are competing with you. By telling them, you give them the upper hand.	/r/seduction	12/07/22 06:07 PM
1	The more ambivalent I am towards women, the better I do. I think you might be mixing up caring with infatuation. I just recently came across this realization myself. 👍	/r/seduction	11/07/22 07:42 PM
6	Girls always flake on me from online dating and just in general I’m a good looking guy who’s tall and have gotten flaked on 10 times in a row now what’s going on? Get to know them in person, keep texting to a minimum.	/r/seduction	10/07/22 11:30 PM
2	how to handle gf tantrums I agree, op needs to establish boundaries, what's okay and what's not okay	/r/seduction	24/06/22 11:27 AM
5	The Waiting Game - Why Men Should Be Willing to Wait for Sex (and why you shouldn't) I waited for 4 years she fucked my friend and married the other... All the while leading me on and enjoying the attention. First and last time I'll ever wait again.	/r/seduction	22/06/22 12:24 PM
15	My girlfriend slept with my friend Definitely self sabotage, you wanted this to happen.	/r/seduction	22/06/22 12:16 PM
1	i have been rejected by every girl I've asked out If you come off in a way where the only thing you are interested in is sex they will shoot you down in a heartbeat.	/r/seduction	13/06/22 10:46 PM
2	Bars vs Clubs? Bars are good for "game" I went to a legitimate club once all you have to do is stand and kinda dance in place. the only notion given is if they get in front of you and begin to dance too. There are no words just eye contact, facial expression, and body language.	/r/seduction	11/06/22 11:40 PM
1	How do you fake that you care about someone. What do you mean by caring? What's YOUR definition of it??	/r/seduction	10/06/22 06:55 PM
2	How to get over being friendzoned? Chances are no, she already decided she doesn't want to move towards the next step. Accept the loss and move on.	/r/seduction	08/06/22 01:42 AM
1	Small talk with a milf at elevator Have more small talk and possibly invite her to your place for coffee. Best of luck! 💪	/r/seduction	08/06/22 01:39 AM
1	How do you become self assured, self confident and charismatic? By making your life a little bit better at a time. Even if that means finding work you actually enjoy Going out and finding hobbies you can enjoy with others even if you aren't that sociable. It takes a lot of time and dedication. 🙂	/r/seduction	04/06/22 02:23 AM
1	Got a girls number at her work yesterday at 8, texted, she still hasn’t texted me back, it’s 10:30 next day. Did I do anything wrong? Gotta tell yourself "she doesn't know what she is missing out on". Then move on to the next. 👍	/r/seduction	29/05/22 01:47 AM
2	I....cannot do it....feel like crying If you need more practice, just started with a nod of acknowledgement then move on to hellos, and so on and so forth. You don't have to wait till someone is close. You can either make eye contact or be a bit louder and sound direct. 😁👍	/r/seduction	24/05/22 09:59 PM
2	I think "game" has hurt me more than it has ever helped me. It's just a bunch of needy behaviors/tricks to attempt to make women like you. It seems like its constantly reinforcing the idea that you're not good enough. The point of "game" is to grow confidence. Be yourself but be confident. Women love confidence and a man who is 100% sure of himself.	/r/seduction	18/04/22 11:29 PM
12	Trying to get a guys attention Are you possibly smothering him? May just need some space	/r/seduction	17/04/22 05:05 PM
2	How do I Stop Being Nice To Women? If you are being nice because you are scared of being judged women can read that behavior and perceive you as someone who is nice because he wants something out of it. Always be genuine and true even if it may mark you as an asshole. Practice makes perfect and with more engagement the better your word flow will be.	/r/seduction	17/04/22 05:01 PM
1	Getting shamed for dating women younger than me Nah your good bro, quite frankly that's normal. Sounds like your sister is just razzing on you	/r/seduction	31/03/22 09:48 PM
1	To attract girls how can i seem confident even if i'm insecure? Don't seem confident be confident. You have to squash the bug In your head. Negative thought grows like cancer. You seriously have to work on yourself before you seek others.	/r/seduction	23/11/21 06:50 AM
0	[deleted by user] If you really wanted to meet her you would have called out of work Saturday, but i don't know your situation so that might be out of question. If anything you could have suggested something the following week if possible, instead you put the ball in her court. And i don't understand why you added that last comment.	/r/seduction	04/11/21 01:06 AM
3	[deleted by user] You messed up the moment you asked for a date on Tuesday, she clearly stated she was busy that week. She even suggested a day! Which women who are not interested and play games don't do. You then proceeded to not compromise and make it only on your terms and not even thinking about her. You basically came off as selfish and you would be lucky if she ever texts you back. Learn And grow, best of luck 🤞	/r/seduction	04/11/21 12:46 AM
1	How do you make friends with girls If you are only making friends with women you see as a potential Suiter it won't work. You want a girl as a friend then that needs to be with women that you don't find attractive and she doesn't find you attractive either. Taking a "let's be good friends" doesn't end up the way you want. Instead you will find yourself slowly breakdown and think there is something wrong with you. You want a girlfriend then you need to make that clear you want a relationship. Stop trying to avoid rejection. That's…	/r/seduction	04/11/21 12:39 AM
2	Tip For Nerdy Intelligent Guys Yes having muscle helps but what works better than having muscle is using tight long sleeve undershirts. Makes your forearms look defined and women tend to look at that area the most. So if you have veiny arms show it.	/r/seduction	25/05/21 03:42 PM
1	Approached two girls at a bar last night and made a fool of myself. I need to go out and do this	/r/seduction	02/03/21 11:49 AM
1	The amount of theory here to find women is nonsensical, does it really have to be? They didn't have the digital age like we do. Naturally we are attracted to physical looks before anything else, afterwards men are geared to a woman's personality and women to a man's intelligence. Having sexual freedom is rampant and a major campaign in the USA. Last but not least is porn which desensitizes people perception of a relationship. There are many factors at play.	/r/seduction	01/03/21 06:43 PM
1	Is this a rejection? How do you guys meet?	/r/seduction	01/03/21 02:46 AM
20	This entire subreddit seems to be about seducing women, what about seducing men? I agree with these gentlemen, if you show a man physical affirmation he will succumb to you. So for men it's really about physical not words.	/r/seduction	08/02/21 12:56 PM
3	Self confidence Add to the list No-Fap. Masterbation kills your confidence	/r/seduction	03/02/21 03:39 PM
3	What kind of haircut should I (18M) get? This might not be helpful but it's honest. Just do what you like. Keep asking for different cuts until you get what you are looking for. You might not know what that is but at least you would enjoy it. To change for others, Change for yourself!	/r/seduction	02/02/21 06:31 PM
2	Being a nice guy is all about being feminine. If you ask me, should be honest about your sexual desire. No I don't mean look at a girl and be like " let's have sex". Do so in manner you show interest by flirting without being too direct. If the woman is interested everything should fall into place. If not let it be and move on. Secondly if you are hung up over the same woman even after being rejected, should probably work on yourself instead.	/r/seduction	31/01/21 06:49 PM
2	Been hanging out in the college dorm lobby and these are the results If you can i recommend finding hobby groups. Like pool tournaments, paintball meet ups. Large social gatherings that normally mix up all kinds of different people. Get your social game up and more opportunities 🤘	/r/seduction	31/01/21 02:00 PM
1	What causes you to lose interest in a girl? From what I read, if that many people are approaching or over all giving you any attention you most likely are not ugly. The only thing I can even think of is you are probably boring when trying to get a response from. Best example is when asked a question you possibly give a short answer with very little to work with to actually strike a conversation. Men do not like prying info from a woman it's mentally exhausting.	/r/seduction	22/01/21 04:19 PM
1	Women don't like Nice Guys. Women like good men. I could be wrong but I'm trying to understand where I fail and so far my conclusion is, i do it to myself. I try to hide that I like a woman, while I try to gauge her to knowing who she is I'm quick to flip on any red flags i want to find. After this i tend to ask the girl out when I know it's a bad idea to and get a no and afterwards I would complain and project, but it was really myself pushing the rejection the whole time. I'm scared to open up. Another thing is i came close to doing it and I…	/r/seduction	06/01/21 11:01 PM