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| 7 | It has never been easier to approach women🫂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 01:41 AM |
| 8 | It has never been easier to approach womenNo need to call yourself a coward. Confessing feelings to someone is a big deal and not easy to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 11:33 PM |
| 12 | It has never been easier to approach womenUsername checks. Further reply unnecessary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 09:18 PM |
| 19 | It has never been easier to approach womenWomen: Me too. Fuck all men. Men: Christ, not ALL men. Women: ALL MEN! All Men: Alright then. stops coming on to women, goes to do something else Women: Where did all the men go? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: How do you feel about Pick MesThis is a whole lot of truth in just one post. Perfectly put. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 01:38 AM |
| 7 | Why are men like this?Because with a lot of women it works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 12:43 PM |
| – | What do you think of passport bros?🕚 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 02:40 AM |
| – | What do you think of passport bros?Same old insults every day. I love how you mentally jumped to “fat 60 year old” when the thread is about passport bros, a self labeled group that actually trends quite young. If a woman declared that she was “sick of American men” and flew to Barcelona and landed some gorgeous young guy who did well for himself you know that women would be screaming “you go girl!” Sounds like you haven’t been picked. Tick tock. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 02:32 AM |
| – | What do you think of passport bros?The fact that you can only imagine that men might be into foreign women for that reason says a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 01:54 AM |
| 2 | What's stopping you from taking the Blue Pill?You’re entitled to your beliefs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 01:49 AM |
| – | What do you think of passport bros?I have no issue with it. Anyone can go anywhere to date or not date whomever they care to consensually date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 01:47 AM |
| 22 | If women hit the wall, according to men, would it be in a young woman's best interest to NOT date older men?This. Whenever anyone starts with “according to all men” the following post is 99% sure to be a cope. The subtle logic sandwich is awful. “According to men only youth is important.” followed by “Dating men who only think youth is importance is a waste of time.” So they used a post accusing “all men” of accusing older women of being worthless, in order to try to justify calling older men worthless. This is the literal definition of gaslighting and narcissistic argument reflection. It’s sexist and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 11:30 PM |
| 7 | Doing the math on bear debate showed me that it's not as crazy as it seems.If you consider that rape is far more likely be inflicted by someone you know (decreasing the stranger risk by 76.8%) and that men are generally more likely to have a bear encounter as they are more likely to be in the 28.7m cohort due to their hobbies/interests, the numbers favor men to be the good guys even more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 08:21 PM |
| – | What do you think of passport bros?His body his choice. End of discussion. There is literally no opinion to have other than “hope you find what you want.” Anyone judging/shaming men for looking for love abroad should also be comfortable with judging/shaming women who go to the Caribbean for spring break to get lucky with the cabana boy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 08:13 PM |
| 0 | What's stopping you from taking the Blue Pill?Look at the question. “What caused you to switch?” Yes, my answer is mostly political, as that was the catalyst for my switch. I do also mention my relationship with my husband in passing as a cause and effect. The question isn’t “what red pill stuff do you do?” The question is “what caused you to become red pilled?” In many people politics is the gateway to the pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 04:40 PM |
| 6 | Q4M: How do you feel about Pick MesI have a nice mix of friends. I did lose some of by very liberal friends when I went red, but I’ve got friends all from blue to purple to red. People would likely accuse a lot of my red friends of being “pick mes” but they’re not. They’re just more traditional. I find it so weird how these lines are drawn: Example: Woman says “Girl I ditched my boyfriend and I’m single for the summer! Gonna get some, who’s ready to partyyyyyy!” - This is apparently “empowered, strong, and independent.” Woman say… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 04:35 PM |
| – | Ugly women don't have more dating opportunities. We are invisible or mockedPerhaps you would hang more dating opportunities if instead of investing in your romantic prospects you invested in your career? There are probably plenty of men who would find a high income, nice house and marked accomplishments sexy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 02:02 PM |
| 8 | Q4M: How do you feel about Pick MesI agree, but I get accused of being a pick me for those exact reasons. Heck, I got accused of it just yesterday for saying that I didn’t lose my social life when I switched to red from blue. Conservative woman? Pick me, apparently. 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 12:41 PM |
| 5 | Q4M: How do you feel about Pick MesI appreciate your kind words. It’s nice to be reminded. I needed that today 🫂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 03:56 AM |
| 4 | Q4M: How do you feel about Pick MesAmen, sir. 😁 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 02:33 AM |
| 28 | Q4M: How do you feel about Pick MesThis. Some of us just like some of the stuff that’s listed in OP’s post. Labeling us “pick me” is just a way to try to attack us. Of note, I do have female friends. No one calls me the b word. We celebrate Valentines together and it’s nice. That said, I enjoy watching the game with my husband. Beer tastes good. Taylor Swift sucks. I would rather drink black coffee than pumpkin spice. Giving my guy sexual gratification how he likes it is fun and makes me feel sexy. And there’s nothing wrong with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 02:28 AM |
| 2 | What's stopping you from taking the Blue Pill?I’m not conflating a thing, thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 01:53 AM |
| 2 | What's stopping you from taking the Blue Pill?I think neither side is good to ascribe to without thinking, and it’s exactly as you say, I could not exist on either side within an inflicted dogma, thus immediately disqualifying the blue. Yes, there are crazies on both sides but I find them easy to avoid. And I feel that the true nature argument is a decent generalization, but ascribing to it as indelible fact for 100% of people is take it a step too far. The best way to destroy an ideology is to speak in absolutes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 08:06 PM |
| 5 | What's stopping you from taking the Blue Pill?Thank you. I couldn’t agree more. 😁 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Why do women here try to assert that any man expressing frustration with dating must be undesirable or needs to improve in some way, and that they are some small fringe of the population?Well I hope that people like you and I can still make a difference. 🫂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 07:27 PM |
| 12 | What's stopping you from taking the Blue Pill?It started with the 2016 election, I voted Clinton. Yes, there was vitriol on both sides but I saw a lot of bluepillers get on such a huge high horse. They would ban their kids from playing with kids with conservative parents and jettison decade long friendships over how people voted. I started catching a lot of crap from my “fellow” bluepill friends over not being willing to abandon my conservative friendships, or over saying things like “well he’s the president now so let’s hope he actually do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 07:26 PM |
| 12 | In-Person Purple Pill Discussions?Honestly, what you’re proposing isn’t possible and would be incredibly likely to devolve beyond anything worth anyone’s time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 04:30 PM |
| – | What's stopping you from taking the Blue Pill?Did you post your debate topic to debate people or insult them? I’m out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 03:20 PM |
| 5 | If men could magically force women to answer ONE question truthfully what question should men ask?This in and of itself would likely qualify as a red flag, so it still gets the job done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 02:42 PM |
| 3 | What's stopping you from taking the Blue Pill?I’m open about having swapped from blue to red. I lost few friends and gained more friends than you might think I did. 😏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 02:41 PM |
| 2 | If men could magically force women to answer ONE question truthfully what question should men ask?I suppose that’s an acceptable answer too! 😄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 02:40 PM |
| 21 | What's stopping you from taking the Blue Pill?The assumption that we red pilled people have no friends / social life is very dated. Being red pilled is more common than ever. I used to be blue pilled. Vomiting it up was the best decision of my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 02:08 PM |
| 69 | If men could magically force women to answer ONE question truthfully what question should men ask?“Are you interested in dating me to truly find love, or are you looking for a more convenient life / to work less / to satisfy your biological clock?” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 02:06 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Males should pay for the first date because makeup is expensiveSo if a man picks you up in a $100,000 Mercedes, does that mean you have to pay for the food? 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 01:46 PM |
| 3 | For men who prefer that women don’t wear makeup or say it’s not necessary - share a picture of a woman you find attractive not wearing makeup?She won’t reply. It was just a small, sad effort to get one up over a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 01:41 PM |
| – | How long did you wait to be sexual with your current partner?Stayed up too late talking the first night to do anything about it. Second date we got intimate first so we wouldn’t run out of time 😍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 12:30 AM |
| 3 | The View has declared men useless on mainstream televisionPrecisely. Misandry is disgusting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/24 04:45 PM |
| 2 | “Crimes would disappear from this world if women went away” -Fox news host Greg Gutfeld, do you agree?No. The nature of crimes would change, that’s all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/24 01:53 PM |
| 2 | Guys are not intimidated by her job / status. They just don't want to compete constantly with other "high performers"It depends on her focus. Women are generally more concerned with competing with other women more than they are with putting their partner in a position to have to compete with other men. A woman who challenges the man she’s with to compete with other men for her is doing so in order to compete with the other women around her. Talk to her and watch her actions. Does she put effort into heavily competing with other women, and/or make disparaging comments about other women behind their backs? Run. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/24 01:51 PM |
| -1 | If a Woman claims to have been raped, regardless of if she's telling the truth, is she more likely to be believed or not?It would be ideal if it was possible to always believe women about such things at face value. At the very least, anyone should be believed on a temporary emergency basis to ensure everyone is safe prior to figuring out the veracity of the claim. Unfortunately, over the past decade you’ve had a lot of very strange ideas start to happen, in which you hear some extreme feminists claim things like “if you say yes but regret it later it’s rape”, “if you say yes but don’t enjoy it it’s rape”, or the c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/24 05:52 AM |
| 3 | Struggling women should get married.If you had a “job” that was going to pay you more than you could make in the short term (not enough to retire on, but enough to have at least more than you could earn with what talents/skill/education you did have), but that job was also going to be temporary, exhaust your body, make it exponentially harder to get married, take a debilitating toll on your mind, and would embarrass your children at school to the point of needing at the very least therapy if word of your “job” ever got out, would … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/24 12:56 AM |
| 17 | The View has declared men useless on mainstream televisionThe View is equivalent to if the KKK had a syndicated television show where they just yelled the n-bomb for an hour straight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/24 12:04 AM |
| 3 | Prove me wrong Male Gold diggers are more worse then Female gold diggersThis is the only comment this entire post needed. Perfect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/24 12:02 AM |
| 2 | Struggling women should get married.Work on a viable career (not sex work). Make supportive female friends to help share childcare if applicable. Find good roommates to save on bills. Get a second job or take a more intensive first job (leave your retail job and do something more physical. Maybe learn a trade. Hustle. Put the “strong” and “independent” in “strong independent woman.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 11:28 PM |
| 3 | Struggling women should get married.No, struggling women should do what everyone who is struggling should do: stop complaining, get off the internet and do something about it. Marriage is one option of many. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 09:24 PM |
| 4 | You wander through forest alone and you stumble upon a lone guy, would you rather the guy is 20yo or 40yo?Love this. Phenomenal answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 07:37 PM |
| 0 | You wander through forest alone and you stumble upon a lone guy, would you rather the guy is 20yo or 40yo?I see inference is lost on you. Color me unsurprised. I’ll stop wasting my time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 03:44 PM |
| 0 | You wander through forest alone and you stumble upon a lone guy, would you rather the guy is 20yo or 40yo?How much time have you spent in the woods around wild bears, exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 03:40 PM |
| 3 | You wander through forest alone and you stumble upon a lone guy, would you rather the guy is 20yo or 40yo?Your average guy is a a thousand times more likely to want to help you both get out of there together and ask for you number if you bonded during the experience than be like “lady in the woods, lizard brain says sex time.” It’s perfectly okay for women to have their preferences and choose as they see fit and base their decision on internet memes over actual logic and reality. It’s also completely okay for the beat to eat them and for the rest of us to not feel too bad about how that went down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 03:30 PM |
| 17 | You wander through forest alone and you stumble upon a lone guy, would you rather the guy is 20yo or 40yo?The 40 year old. He has a better chance of having more survival experience in the wilderness and increases our chances of getting out intact a bit more. That said the 20 year old is also a fine choice and would also increase our chances significantly more than either of us being alone. Heck he might be an Eagle Scout and I might eat my words over preferring the 40 year old. 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 03:03 PM |
| 1 | You are dropped on a deserted island, but you have a choice in bringing two companions out of these three: a man, a bear, a pig. Who do you bring and why?A man, because I want to survive and I’m not an idiot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 03:00 PM |
| 0 | How do you think the men mental health crisis is going to end?I’m sorry you’ve been led to believe that. I know some drop dead gorgeous shorter men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 02:58 PM |
| 3 | Why do women here try to assert that any man expressing frustration with dating must be undesirable or needs to improve in some way, and that they are some small fringe of the population?This is phenomenally insightful. I don’t have an appropriately long response in me to share in turn, but I do appreciate your sentiment that this odd act a lot of women have been taught. I do sense an overarching question as to any I am the way I am though. Several people here have asked me the same thing. The base for it is that I’m both rural and conservative and see the advantages in such a life. For the record, I’m a millennial. Interestingly my desire to start raising my voice stemmed from … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 02:56 PM |
| 2 | How do you think the men mental health crisis is going to end?Then they need a contraceptive without the miserable side effects. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 01:54 AM |
| – | Why do women here try to assert that any man expressing frustration with dating must be undesirable or needs to improve in some way, and that they are some small fringe of the population?Why date a 10 when you can date a 12 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 10:44 PM |
| 4 | On average women paid $499.96 for a date and men paid $861.29 in 2019.We agree. That’s part of why I didn’t like the other data, as it didn’t specify. I only provided this because of the “my data is best until you manage to find better lol your move” challenge that was issued like I didn’t know how to spend five minutes googling data newer than 2019 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 10:43 PM |
| 4 | On average women paid $499.96 for a date and men paid $861.29 in 2019.I’m not arguing that men don’t pay more. I’m just saying it’s bad data. I don’t disagree with your thesis, I do wish you picked a better data source to prove it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Why do women here try to assert that any man expressing frustration with dating must be undesirable or needs to improve in some way, and that they are some small fringe of the population?Not something I generally think about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 08:22 PM |
| 2 | On average women paid $499.96 for a date and men paid $861.29 in 2019.It’s quite obvious you don’t work in data. I just thought about how they asked the question and the question wasn’t asked well. For the record, I do believe the trend of the numbers is close but it’s still… too vague. Also, just typing “stands” in bold doesn’t legitimize a point. Also, sure here’s better data than yours. It’s more recent and has better / more complete citations: https://www.self.inc/info/cost-of-dating/ Was there anything else you needed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 08:17 PM |
| 7 | On average women paid $499.96 for a date and men paid $861.29 in 2019.Bad data is bad data | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 08:01 PM |
| 3 | On average women paid $499.96 for a date and men paid $861.29 in 2019.Agree. Regardless, articles with bad data are bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 07:56 PM |
| – | Why do women here try to assert that any man expressing frustration with dating must be undesirable or needs to improve in some way, and that they are some small fringe of the population?Agreed in every regard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Why do women here try to assert that any man expressing frustration with dating must be undesirable or needs to improve in some way, and that they are some small fringe of the population?Maintaining male friendships along with my female relationships and objectively listening to both sides. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 07:50 PM |
| 11 | On average women paid $499.96 for a date and men paid $861.29 in 2019.The data here is too vague. What counts as “paying for a date?” Are they counting transportation, clothes, makeup etc? Or is this just counting the activities/food/drinks? This is too hard to discuss with the article as presented. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Do you think the rise of redpill content has led to some women changing their behavior?Would I? No. Would others? Maybe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Do you think the rise of redpill content has led to some women changing their behavior?I didn’t say “not the women.” I just happened to be talking about men. It’s okay for someone to speak about just one sex at a time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 07:33 PM |
| 3 | Do you think the rise of redpill content has led to some women changing their behavior?Tell that to all of the women out there waving a vibrator in the air while screaming “I don’t need no man.” If technology evolves to the point that it emulates sympathetic emotion well enough and you combine it with effective pleasure delivery I wager it could very well be sufficient for a lot of men. That said I don’t WANT that future, and it would be really neat if we collectively found a way to not need it. Not proudly waving a sex toy around and arbitrarily declaring men obsolete would be a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Why do women here try to assert that any man expressing frustration with dating must be undesirable or needs to improve in some way, and that they are some small fringe of the population?Bring it on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Do you think the rise of redpill content has led to some women changing their behavior?It hasn’t yet. It likely will, eventually. Either that or all the guys who are predicting that AI will become a female companionship substitute are likely correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 06:02 PM |
| 5 | How do you think the men mental health crisis is going to end?And your original comment about metal detectors in a thread about how to help men with their worsening mental health crisis was equally irrelevant. I wish I could say that I was surprised that the irony escapes you. At least you’re proving OP’s point. Silver lining and all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 05:56 PM |
| 7 | How do you think the men mental health crisis is going to end?As far as I’m aware, none of the women who decided to falsely accuse men of rape had been accused of stabbing anyone 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 05:51 PM |
| 4 | How do you think the men mental health crisis is going to end?If the solution to male mental health is treating the symptoms of the worst cases instead of the cause for them all, then we should be treating women in an identical fashion. Let’s start with increasing the penalty for women who ruin multiple lives by falsely accusing men of rape to be equivalent to the penalty for rape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 05:42 PM |
| 7 | How do you think the men mental health crisis is going to end?“How do we help improve men’s mental health?” “Metal detectors, because once they’re driven crazy they do bad things occasionally.” This… isn’t how you treat mental health. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 05:33 PM |
| 8 | How do you think the men mental health crisis is going to end?The long and the short of it is that men are finally starting to allow themselves to be men without guilt. Men wanting sex isn’t disgusting, men wanting male friends and to engage in stereotypically male things isn’t a waste of time, men having feelings isn’t weak, men being shorter isn’t ugly, men starting single and spending the money they earn on themselves isn’t selfish. Please note, all of the following of also true about women. I’m not being sexist, I’m just focusing on men for the moment.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Women of PPD - Are you okay using statistics to discuss your points concerning dangerous men?Of course. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 05:11 PM |
| – | Why do women here try to assert that any man expressing frustration with dating must be undesirable or needs to improve in some way, and that they are some small fringe of the population?My pleasure. Thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 05:05 PM |
| – | Why do women here try to assert that any man expressing frustration with dating must be undesirable or needs to improve in some way, and that they are some small fringe of the population?I appreciate you. Thank you for this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 05:05 PM |
| 4 | Women of PPD - Are you okay using statistics to discuss your points concerning dangerous men?Anyone should be allowed to protect their safety from a perceived threat. This can be based on sex, values, age, religion, race, etc… it doesn’t matter. They don’t have to “prove they’re legitimized” in avoiding a perceived threat. “Data” not required. I’m not going to walk through Compton alone and that doesn’t make me racist. It makes me smart. And alive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 05:04 PM |
| – | Why do women here try to assert that any man expressing frustration with dating must be undesirable or needs to improve in some way, and that they are some small fringe of the population?Precisely, which amounts to women doing what they can in the moment to appear supportive of other women in the moment despite doing long term harm. Modern feminism damages women’s lives. And thank you for the compliment. ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 04:13 PM |
| 4 | Why do women here try to assert that any man expressing frustration with dating must be undesirable or needs to improve in some way, and that they are some small fringe of the population?I can see where you’re coming from on this, but you’re forgetting one important thing. Far more women complain than men about this particular topic. Yes, there are far more men than women who are willing to lower their standards; however, those who do turn to the internet to complain are in the minority that I stated above. No need to so dramatically call bullshit. This can just be a civil discussion, which would be far more pleasant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 04:10 PM |
| -3 | Why do women here try to assert that any man expressing frustration with dating must be undesirable or needs to improve in some way, and that they are some small fringe of the population?I only use Reddit, so that’s my source. I don’t care about TikTok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 03:37 PM |
| – | Why do women here try to assert that any man expressing frustration with dating must be undesirable or needs to improve in some way, and that they are some small fringe of the population?Love this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 02:57 PM |
| 6 | Women of PPD - Are you okay using statistics to discuss your points concerning dangerous men?It is perfectly okay for anyone to be cautious strong any group of people for any reason of they are worried about their personal safety whether or not it can be backed up with statistics. Say it with me: It is 100% perfectly fine for women to be wary around men in order to protect and preserve their health, safety and liberty. Full stop. That being said it is also perfectly okay for men to do that around women. https://www.postandcourier.com/opinion/commentary/women-starting-to-suffer-the-metoo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 02:55 PM |
| – | Why do women here try to assert that any man expressing frustration with dating must be undesirable or needs to improve in some way, and that they are some small fringe of the population?The big difference on the internet is that when an undesirable man comes forward and complains about dating, women and men alike inform him that he needs to improve (which is fine, if constructively delivered, feedback is a good thing); however, when an undesirable woman comes forward and complains about dating, women blindly back her up (which is misplaced feminism and is ultimately damaging to the woman complaining despite looking “nice” in the moment) and men tend to avoid them altogether out… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 02:34 PM |
| – | Why do attractive woman generally befriend other attractive male/female friends?People just generally hang out with their own. Women do this, men do this. Secret to life: If you want to be powerful, beautiful, rich, or brilliant, find powerful, beautiful, rich, or brilliant people and do what they do. As a side benefit you will likely end up making friends who make similar choices. Your observation isn’t wrong, but it’s not just young beautiful women who do this. It’s everyone whether you think you do or you don’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 03:48 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Young people in general just don't want commitment, male or female, beautiful or uglyAt the end of the day, if a anyone wants to find someone to commit to and presumably put down roots and start a family (man or woman) then they should be putting work and effort into both finding and being that kind of person early. I find that most of the women I know who spend time complaining about men up to their standards being unwilling to commit are also women who wasted their 20s doing whatever they wanted without caring, and then as the big 3-0 gets close they start blaming the proverbi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 12:50 PM |
| 3 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existGosh one would hope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 11:41 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Young people in general just don't want commitment, male or female, beautiful or uglyEveryone deserves to have the autonomy of their body and their choice respected. Men and women. If a woman doesn’t want to commit because she has something she would rather be doing, respect it. If a man doesn’t want to commit because he has something he would rather be doing, respect it. Simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 11:41 AM |
| 6 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existYou’re twisting my words. I’m saying that women shouldn’t settle for less than their standards and that men shouldn’t expect them to. I’m also saying that men shouldn’t settle for less than their standards and that women shouldn’t expect them to. This does end up meaning that if you can’t find anyone to your standards that you’ll have no one. It also means that if you aren’t up to anyone’s standards you have no one. The moral of the story is not “be with a man you don’t desire or be forever sing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 11:38 AM |
| 23 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existSo don’t commit to men you find undesirable. That’s easy enough. Just don’t complain if no one will commit to you because they don’t find you desirable either. It goes both ways. Can’t find a man? Find a hobby. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 05:29 AM |
| -3 | What more can be asked of men?The issue is not that the man in the example is not celebrated by feminism. The issue is that value is being placed on being celebrated by feminism at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 09:07 PM |
| 0 | What more can be asked of men?I already answered this. Read the entire post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 09:00 PM |
| 8 | What more can be asked of men?Because feminism isn’t about being better. It’s about “but what have you done for me lately?” A man who does all of those things is perfectly fine. Probably even helps his aging parents out, which improves their lives and lessens the burden on society. Consider the fact that a single, celibate man who lives with his parents and has a steady job is very unlikely to be celebrated by feminism, whereas a chronically dating, high body count woman who lives alone and does onlyfans is generally going t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 08:37 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Young people in general just don't want commitment, male or female, beautiful or uglyOne would think so, but a multitude of dating profiles suggest otherwise. The wisdom of “Party irresponsibly now, hard life later; have a reasonable amount of fun now, life easy later” is something I think would go a long way to helping people in their life journeys. I know that doesn’t service instant gratification very well, but instant gratification tends to be the opposite of hard work, and success comes far more from working hard than TikTok likes and questionable one night stands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 08:21 PM |
| 10 | CMV: Young people in general just don't want commitment, male or female, beautiful or uglyThis is a great way of looking at it. Moderation is almost always the best way to move into things. At the end of the day people can do as they will as long as they’re not hurting other people by doing it. It is important to be realistic about things too. If a man accumulates six figures of debt prior to looking to settle down, he should expect it to be much harder to do so. If a woman accumulates multiple children out of wedlock prior to looking to settle down, she should expect it to be much h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 06:00 PM |
| 50 | CMV: Young people in general just don't want commitment, male or female, beautiful or uglyI find it interesting that the title here says “male or female” but the post is 100% a complaint about men not “doing what women want”, in particular men who are not interested in long term commitment. Say it with me now: It’s just as okay for men to not be interested in commitment, regardless of age, as it is for women to not be interested in commitment, regardless of age. If a woman is too busy “girlbossing” or “living her best life” or enjoying her youth dating around that’s perfectly fine. H… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 05:22 PM |
| 10 | How would you feel about a man using the women’s restroom and women using the men’s restroom if needed?No one should have to be in danger of “not making it” because of a gender sign on the wall. If you need to go, do what you gotta do. Otherwise, I don’t care as long as no one is making a big deal out of it. Come do your thing and discretely leave. Anyone (male or female) coming into a public bathroom making comments about it (e.g. loudly commenting “fuck these bitches were go where we want” or “omg Stacy we’re in the men’s room, hi there guyyyyyyyys!” can kindly get out) It’s not about gender, i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 12:30 PM |
| 3 | If most younger women are dating older men, should MATURE younger men attempt to date older women?That’s not how biology works. In the majority of species, older, established males and younger, more likely to birth healthy offspring females are perpetually the most valued. People who date the opposite sex will virtually ALWAYS gravitate to these two (relative to them) subgroups. It’s not societal bias, nor is it negative. It’s nature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 05:15 AM |
| 1 | How Should Women Hold Themselves Accountable?Onlyfans isn’t a job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 02:16 AM |
| 5 | How Should Women Hold Themselves Accountable?Why thank you. And I prefer the emotive gold to the dollary-doo Reddit version anyway. Internet high five ✋🏻 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 05:29 PM |
| -4 | Killing “it” or killing “us”?Only if you open your eyes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 01:50 PM |
| – | How Should Women Hold Themselves Accountable?I believe that the origin of this debate comes from a much simpler place. I feel that men generally want accountability in us not always expecting them to pay for everything, not sharing their personal and intimate business with other women without consent, and not assuming that they exist to solve any careless mistakes we make. And for the record I expect that they hold themselves accountable in the same way. Men just tend to do those things already, whereas women are socialized to think not do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many women ask to be choked? Is it because they believe men enjoy this?It feels remarkable. Intense and satisfying. In my defense I also like choking the gentleman in my life too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 01:00 AM |
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