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DianaDewAsmr/r/RedPillWomen17/09/14 01:17 PM
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I feel a certain level of competition as well, but I don't feel it if there aren't men.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/15 07:57 AM
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I often read that women put make up on for themselves, dress up for themselves, lose weight for health, not to look good for their men or to impress men in general. It's seen as sinful and vain by people in general to do something for you so. It's so weird that a woman choosing a dress for her man makes the news. And to everyone saying that men don't care about wedding dresses... I am pretty sure they do not care about choosing it with the bride. They want to see the end result, like with everyt…
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/15 06:56 AM
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Staying around 1200/1300 cals per day. So far it's 12 days I am succeeding and I've lots a good amount of weight already.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/15 03:12 PM
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Staying around 1200/1300 cals per day. So far it's 12 days I am succeeding and I've lots a good amount of weight already.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/15 03:12 PM
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You sound happy but very strict! Relax :D You love him, he loves you, make him happy. Don't ascribe to guidelines to follow and ticks to check in order to be a perfect future wifey. You don't need to stay on top of everything or you'll end up super stressed. Congrats on starting a physical activity! Don't forget that being fit is 70% food and 30% activity, I suggest using calorie counters as they motivate you reaching your goal. If you lose motivation for jogging try other activities! Good luck …
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/15 08:40 AM
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I haven't tried but I'll be doing an unboxing video for a company that also sent me spring removers so I'll try them soon :D I just need something for camping in summer actually, because I won't always have access to electricity and the epilator requires 220V to run. I shave every 2/3 days.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/15 10:38 AM
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I think you have to be real good with razors. I know that there are great asian brands as they are the best at this! I use the Silkepil series 2000 with the shaving head and it works wonders.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/15 10:08 AM
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I've been having great luck browsing the SCA reddits, and this is my night routine: vaseline cleansing remove with a tiny microfiber cloth and warm water rubbing slightly use another tiny microfiber cloth, damp it in warm water, put some mixture of 1/3 apple cider vinegar and 2/3 water on it like a toner and remove the rest of vaseline. Do not rinse! when dry I apply Paula's choice 2% BHA. I wait 40/50 minutes and apply 5% AHA. I do not moisturise at night. Morning: moisturise wait for 10 minute…
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/15 07:24 AM
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What you have seen in TRP is that men treat women exactly as most women treat men - they try to get the best they can giving the less possible unless the person is someone they care about, a woman they love. Like when you go out, and girls try to get rides and drinks from you without giving anything in return. In TRP both men and women accept human nature and act in a way to attract the best partner possible for them and keeping his/her interest in the long term.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/14 04:29 PM
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I was hoping this was sarcastic too. It really looked not serious. Very Harrison Bergeron fantasy like.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/14 04:14 PM
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It looks to me like all these ex-escorts exaggerate numbers so that people will disagree with her job but still be attracted by the sums. In a way to validate themselves in eyes of people. I wouldn't believe just everything someone says when they are bragging about their job/ex job no matter what their profession was - even more if the occupation involves social stigma.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 06:11 PM
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White knights create their own scenarios where they imagine a certain damsel in distress and he feels superior by thinking that he's gotten the hands of an "asshole" off the pure, innocent and victim damsel.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 10:51 AM
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Other women tell other women off when they wander away from the herd - and insulting men when their aspirations are too high (getting muscles for example). Ever since learning about the female social matrix I've understood so many things, and it's not necessarily a bad thing but something that helps people live together without killing each other or stealing from each other. When society takes a bad turn though this FSM pushes people towards things that go against human nature - pushing your bio…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 06:44 AM
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It's like so many people I know take relationships and their men for granted, putting everything in front - all things which can hurt a couple's bedroom. It's sad!
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/14 09:54 PM
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I think relationships amongst women were better because behaviours which were looked down from fellow females were shamed and not encouraged with a U go grrrl mentality.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/14 08:35 PM
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I think camaraderie can happen more easily in a group where hierarchy is more clearly defined, even if not by words. Women are much more "equal" when it comes to hierarchy positions and therefore it leads to much more ambiguous situations. From my experience I used to try to fit in boys' groups too and I never worried on the job if I'd get along with them or not - I did worry about women though and used to take things personally from them. I also used to have more issues taking orders from a wom…
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/14 08:26 PM
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If they could be used in all orifices..
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/14 09:01 PM
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It's a question that arose lots of other times in this subreddit and something lots of women deal with daily. Just go out and ask people,
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/14 03:19 PM
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You actually misunderstood my comment by claiming something different when the context was quite clear, jumping at conclusions. My question was not "how not to be a lazy blah blah" but how to not look like a lazy gold digger in front of people. Anyway, let's enjoy the subreddit and each other postings'. It was a misunderding and that's it.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/14 09:01 PM
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Wat do you mean those positions are a mistake for men too?
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/14 04:41 PM
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You read it wrong, and the other commenter got the point exactly.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/14 04:40 PM
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Good luck with that you sound like you have lots of things figured out :) Sounds good. I still have to decide what I want but ultimately I really think I'd want to, possibly keeping a little side income (I get some revenue from Youtube now, it would be cool if I continued).
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/14 08:49 PM
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I've never had coffee at Starbucks... I take my moka wherever i go to :)
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/14 05:43 PM
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Those men are completely unnoticed. Whenever I hear a woman cry "male privilege" these people, and not only them, come to my mind. It's easy to envy the "privileges" people who are better off than you have - again, some of the rich guys earned it so even quotas are an offence to those who sweat to get where they are.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/14 09:46 AM
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Feminism broke the glass ceiling... but also the glass cellar. Meaning that women are much less protected than they used to be and even chasing positions they dreamed of has revealed to be a mistake. Thank you feminists, thanks for ruining this for everyone.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/14 07:33 AM
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Yet she dates someone who perfectly fits a gender stereotype... http://theothermccain.com/2014/08/19/celebrity-feminist-emma-watson-says-something-really-stupid-on-twitter/
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/14 06:45 AM
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I have typical italian light mustache I wax. Do they not grow back worse? I'll be trying this in a little angle today... i am excited! Edit - gave it a try. I'll let you know in a couple of days. I am excited! I looked some asian videos like /I_am_quite_nervous suggested.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/14 06:01 AM
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Cappuccinos are 2euros here so it would be expensive to go everymorning. I pay croissants 80 cents, just like in bars but it's at home. I should get an electric one so he can do it even in a hurry...
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/14 04:21 AM
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And here is a read on rape and men in war, yes men have it worse because aside being victims they aren't even considered men anymore. It's a powerful and sickening read. Just because it's men who do these rapes it doesn't mean that men have it all good and don't get raped. It looks like the exact opposite. http://www.theguardian.com/society/2011/jul/17/the-rape-of-men
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/14 09:45 PM
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that would be so cool. I an just afraid I'd take too many coffees if I had one xD Aside that I've never seen one for that cheap here, people pay hundreds for nespresso machines and I can't really understand it.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/14 01:20 PM
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so just because it's men who rape women as a tool of war all the other male victims of said wars have no value? Just because some men decide to rape instead of Killing women unlike men then women have it worse?
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/14 06:03 AM
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Men are viewed as slaves, women as property to protect. Heck, I'd rather be something to protect than disposable.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/14 10:37 PM
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Women do not have a tougher time. You probably have only noticed women because most humans don't even see the men that live below the poverty line. Those men that matter to no one and die everyday on dangerous jobs, those that aren't considered anything because they can't bring food on the table. Women at least have a few bonus points by having the possibility to bear children. Men are more disposable - you can get sperm everywhere. Women are protected in those countries, I really suggest you re…
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/14 10:37 PM
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men get directly sent to war and killed. Warren Farrel describes it as the glass cellar.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/14 08:16 PM
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Anywhere women are treated like you say men are not treated any better. It's not feminism who improved life conditions, it's wellbing and technology.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/14 05:12 PM
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as long as the issues men face aren't attributed to "the patriarchy/gender stereotypes" who forces men to hide their issues then the argument is legit. Most times feminism blame problems men face on other men... when it's women that don't want a man who doesn't fit gender sterotypes.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/14 05:11 PM
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I've never had issues luckly, I am still studying so I see things from the outside. solipsism as far as I know is assuming that only your mind exists and people think like that. I am trying to think if that is what gets some women in the victim mentality, what makes them feel targeted.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/14 04:18 AM
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yes that is true. It is understandable that even though a woman can be good she may have to work harder and seeing that most women are worse than men in such jobs they can face a bit of skepticism (with quotas and all too)
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/14 04:13 AM
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Well it may be instinctively unfair but you gotta thank people who forced women into the workforce and outta the houses.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/14 09:33 PM
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Yes but if a woman thinks even subconsciously that another woman has to work harder to get recognized by her then she believes everyone thinks this way about her. Does this make better sense?
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/14 09:32 PM
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I've seen it happen with guys deemed as creeps. Getting drinks and complaining he tried to kiss you. I believe some creeps are getting mixed signals and that doesn't help.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/14 03:38 AM
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Women also do take advantage of having a man they haven't turned down yet, I am speaking from first person and from friends' experience.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/14 07:30 PM
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In Italy we have the habit of greeting with 2 kisses on each cheek. I hate it unless it's someone I truly enjoy seeing. I've stopped greeting guys I deemed as "creeps" this way. It was not them being creeps most times, I was leading them.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/14 07:30 PM
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Don't try to do masculine stuff just to fit in with the guys, they like that you may take 5 extra minutes to put make up on or that you are particularly feminine. Don't do stuff other girls do to get approval of boys only to be disappointed you dn't get attention - they liked those girls mostly for their looks, not because they were good at a game you sucked at. Don't try to act over confident, that's feminist bullshit we are fed. Be yourself (an advice which works for women more than men!!).
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 09:56 PM
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Sorry, I misread then.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/14 05:48 PM
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ignore it ans don't talk about it. The temptation lots have is to bragplain but It's slutty. I ignore because it is the only thing to do. unless they do something funny, which i tell my s.o. about.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/14 12:23 AM
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yep and in a world where women have been replacing men in workplace and jobs usually taken by men have been drafted overseas for decades you have to keep respecting your partner even if he earns less than you unless you want to end up alone. money isn't everything and some lonely post-wallers are learning it the hard way. of course that requires some thinking - thinking not hamstering.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/14 03:32 PM
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you made your choice but modern femism forgot that women are not kids and can make self choices. See you on row! EDIT: See you on RPW, not row!
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 02:26 PM
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Everytime I read posts on the internet and hear from my friends on how to be a good boyfriend all I read can be written as "How to be a polite beta orbiter for the longest time possible so I can get the best out of you giving nothing in return and without having to turn you down". So guys hear this day in and day out but then see women doing the exact opposite, and their position sets them to be the orbiter they'll cry to about the latest guy who pumped and dumped them. One may not feel totally …
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 09:35 AM
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I honestly have to find a place where misogyny occurs... and I mean where only women have it bad and men don't. Aside that it really seems like lots of people are scared and angry at TRP and even refuse to read it (probably because they don't want their opinions debunked). I'd also like to add that people shut up when you direct them at RPW because their whole meeesooogikneee cry dies at seeing happy women discussing. TRP is actual advices without all the PC sugarcoating and it works. TRP is wha…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 07:05 AM
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This comment sums up what I think. If she didn't progress in her career she wouldn't have seen him as inferior and would be happy now very likely (or found another man to make her happy!). Ah, the lovely legacy feminism has left for women. Nobody wants to say it but if she didn't have a fancy career she would probably have had everything she wanted by now. The truth is, when the woman makes more money there is a significantly increased chance the marriage or relationship will end. The more women…
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/14 04:53 AM
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She lost her tingles because she felt superior to him and didn't see him as attractive anymore. Especially if you don't know about the dynamics that come into play (and just hamster to yourself that men and women should be equal) it's easy to start seeing him with little respect. A man doesn't need a high paying job to be respected.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/14 04:44 AM
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A man isn't manly and productive for a woman but for himself and to attract any other woman.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/14 04:33 AM
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My first thought is to ask to r/AskTRP and r/trprelationships My idea is that if man is turned on by it it's fine but I don't know how it can work in the long run in the roles and stuff.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/14 09:08 PM
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Meh if I were a man reading this it wouldn't help one bit. Things missing: cultivate your friends cultivate your hobbies stay fit don't give me 100% attention have your own life aside me don't dress as a teenager be manly and protective be of few words and don't allow me to be too emotively whiny don't bitch too much don't spend too much on a lady unless you see she is worth it don't feel like you owe me anything cos I have a 'gina This is what I'll tell my brother... not emotive crap like this
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/14 06:57 PM
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smooth as sandpaper!
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/14 09:58 PM
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Are you good at cooking, cleaning, listening, taking care of your looks and taking care of people (aside your job)? That's what men care about, a lot more than your business or school. Do you dress feminine?
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/14 09:56 PM
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Whoa what nagging bitches they both are.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/14 09:49 PM
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In a perfect harmless world it can be true. In a world with dangers and a non perfect environment men are needed for babies and women to survive.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 09:55 PM
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In the original article, the nagging one it struck me how women couldn't take criticism from sons and hubbies because it's offensive. That made me want to take the writer and see what people had done all their lives because they probably never said anything bad to risk of offending her. If dinner was bad and people complain IMPROVE COOKING SKILLS don't fucking cry because they didn't appreciate and give you a medal because you burned something. UGH.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/14 09:41 PM
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They filtered a lot, I've read some that had my heart shrink..
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/14 09:37 PM
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Apparently any desire a man has is society's work and indoctrination. Blondes, big tits, youth, worrying about penis size... But if a woman wants a tall guy it's because of "evolution - big men are protective"
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 09:09 PM
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I can't believe this is even a theme. It's unheard of here to not cook everyday.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/14 08:18 PM
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I agree. I see two sides to this - if it's being used in a positive note, as in "We are soul mates" it's cool, like how cute. If it's used in any other tone I take it as laziness. Oh you were not meant to be together, or didn't you work hard enough right when the tingles started to fade away? Even in a positive note don't forget to work hard, otherwise when the sea is no longer calm the ship will wreck.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/14 01:41 PM
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RPW want to be good partners for their man. They, we, don't want a man to screw and one to be supported by. I'm not interested in any other man aside my own. I want to make my man happy and with all means served to me as a woman. I feel our happiness is also my responsibility and I will do all I can to influence it without shaming and blaming him. That's the first thing that comes to my mind when you try to compare RPW to Feminism.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/14 01:23 PM
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yep and it's not feminism that made their (our) lives better but technology.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 09:25 AM
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Take away technology and commodities and women will run back crying to macho men.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 08:29 AM
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I think it's mostly about bragplaining. You get to be a victim AND tell others how awful it is to be stared at because you look too good.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 09:22 PM
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on a side note does sex really drop living together like the ladies say? Or is it possible to keep a happy standard throughout the years?
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/14 06:30 AM
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read the sidebar, read the sidebar, read it once again.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/14 08:01 AM
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Hey :D:D
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/14 04:26 PM
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What feminism seems to forget is that even though women may hate seeing another woman celebrated for her beauty it's still the woman's choice, like they have been predicating for years. In all honesty I also believe that the two women have completely different sex appeals - I'd be much more worried if my husband's coworker looked and acted like Sofia than Beyonce - I've never found the latter as beautiful as people say, while Sofia is fabulous in my eyes. And lastly... say hypothetically that ei…
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/14 02:25 PM
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It's easy to have sex, it's not easy to have sex with someone you trust enough to be completely vulnerable and intimate with therefore "letting go" and enjoying yourself.
/r/askTRP27/08/14 12:50 PM
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If you don't want people to write "Next her" write that nexting her is not an option (apparently) and write LTR in the title. We as women can't really suggest a man what to do, even though it looks more scary pack your balls and ask men.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/14 07:27 AM
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Daaaaaw that's cute! I wish he would come home for lunch too, the few times he did I was so happy.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/14 07:15 AM
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The person who wrote this has the driest 'gina on earth.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/14 07:14 AM
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yeah eating a lot and enjoying meals is very manly. I love food but it's better to enjoy it quietly and not too much otherwise the waistline disappears D:
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/14 06:41 AM
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I specified that I don't brag otherwise anything could be perceived as annoying, it's just a perception I had especially when people asked me or when out of the blue they talk about house chores. But thanks for the insight.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/14 06:40 AM
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Don't get defensive. I was just telling you how to act around here. It's not because it hurts my little feelings, it's simply useless to the conversation and not suitable to RP.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/14 06:14 AM
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The problem is he has no idea XD He's been thinking about it and coming up with a few ideas. I've decided that if he asks me sandwiches every day I'll do them for him, the bread is bakery made after all.. :)
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/14 06:13 AM
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Yes! He sometimes feels sorry that I don't have what he eats but I'm like "Nooo you gotta eat, you gotta grow, become strong" ahah :)
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 06:13 PM
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wow salmon here is soooooo expensive! What an awwesome list. Thanks a lot, to you and everyone.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 06:12 PM
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Well you never told her it wasn't ok from your side, you just nodded and kept being the beta she wanted. If you really want an answer ask to the guys' side.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 02:39 PM
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oh wow groceries online?? What a cool idea! I only bought coconut oil from UK :)
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 01:59 PM
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I have those thingies which remain warm. I will use that. thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 01:59 PM
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Brown rice looks tasty, I've never seen it shops. Hopefully we have it here. I just bought strawberries to give him tomorrow :)
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 01:37 PM
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Yes, I had to specify.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 01:36 PM
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Yes I know, men cheat even with a perfect partner, but sometimes they stray for some reason and trying to improve can make her focus on something different.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 12:24 PM
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If it weren't a person you know or that your friends know I am sure it would hurt less. My philosophy has always been that I don't believe in male monogamy so as long as I don't get to know, you use protection and nobody gets to know it's fine. The fact that it was at a house party is really icky. I'd feel hurt by imagining people see him flirt and act silly with her before going to bed. I wouldn't even know what he could do to win you back without looking too whiny or too beta... Aside all this…
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 11:40 AM
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I wouldn't wanna give him sandwiches every day because it's not too healthy but he loves them, especially ham so I could a couple of times a week.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 11:36 AM
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oh I love puff pastry, I cut it in triangles, put sugar on one side, nutella on the other, roll and oven for 20 minutes. Mini croissants! Thanks
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 09:20 AM
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Read the sidebar. Don't develop oneitis for RP women. Don't pedestalize us. If you want a woman that is happy to live this way head over to the red pill and read all the sidebar there.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 09:03 AM
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Bad bot! Go away :P Ahah jokes aside this is lovely. I am thinking of eating different stff too because we have 30cm in difference and he clearly needs to eat more than me :)
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 09:01 AM
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I wish i could like this comment 100 times.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/14 06:09 AM
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All men getting wet at that are pedestalizing women, and honouring what they say over what they do. The exact opposite of RP right? But hey it may draw women to a different lifestyle, so good for them
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 08:52 PM
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why would anyone want to date someone like the one described as the boy you date 0.o?? Looks whiny and boring. Also will know how to take care of himself: how to cook, clean, do laundry, pay bills, and more–because he’s already a man. It’s important for people to have this figured out before they’re ready to marry, which is a great way to tell what type your guy is. Why is he marrying you then? Can't he stay single if he's gonna do it all by himself?
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 07:45 PM
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It looks to me when people become extremely emotional that they don't want to lose the victim status they sooo hard fought to obtain. Just a vibe I got.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 02:47 PM
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These looks to me like bad looking sleepwear.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/14 04:35 AM
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great post, so many interesting every day tips to learn from! At the same time i am a bit sad that these things are being taught to me from a blog but let's all not make the same mistake with our daughtets/ nephews..
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/14 02:53 PM
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And I'd add the bonus in relationships (and lots of other things too) women get when they are young
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/14 09:41 PM
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I think it means two things in the minds of people I hear if an ugly guy looks at a woman in a sexual way she can feel disgusted and tell him to stop seeing her as just boobs and ass (as if a stranger owes you anything) if a high SMV guy talks about a young good looking woman and her attributes in presence of women who aren't as good as her he is seen as "objectifying her".
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/14 09:40 PM
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You've attacked male sexuality with bloodthirsty abandon, belittling the "male gaze" and objecting to "objectification I've noticed that men who are criticized for objectification are ugly ones who give unwanted attentions and goodlooking/rich ones who value beautiful women (ignoring the woman who is crying "Objectificator pig")
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/14 01:42 PM
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The problem is I don't see the need for feminism in the countries where rapes and homicides of females happen because what is really needed is human's rights. If a woman's life is not valuable just think of how disposable a man's life must be. I am ready to bet that for every woman raped there are more men killed - in war, on jobs, even in simple fights. I don't have data handy with me and I don't have time to look for it, I just mean that violence against women in thirld war countries sticks ou…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/14 01:40 PM
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You are right. My mind considered that rape but she was consensual actually.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 09:48 PM
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She made bad choices, enjoyed her time with men whose lifestyle didn't suit hers, probably had fun living a free life and now she blames men as if she has no guilt nor choice?
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/14 08:20 AM
2

I don't have a group of friends, just many female friends who like me are in a LTR. If I have to go out on my own I try to do it when he is not home. we go everywhere together, I love his friends (couples, singles, a mixed group) and I just prefer to go out together, even if tagging along friends of mine - if I need to see a female friend of mine we can do so during the day, no need to go out in bars in the evening.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/14 08:57 AM
6

yeah, proves that I didn't even remember what his part in it was. I honestly believe they made him handsome for this purpose..
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 11:01 PM
1

I think he is comparable to today's assholes. Liar, deceiving, few virtues, just charming and good looking.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 10:30 PM
16

I think most women convince themselves they should have the good guy fantasy, they should be wearing the pants, and have beta guys. But then reality comes knocking at the door in a form of book and they get moist reading about an Alpha male who does what he wants. That goes against their beliefs in date rapes, equality, erasing gender differences. Just think of the rape scene in 300... Who was it really aimed to? Not men for sure. She was a post wall woman and he was a very good looking evil guy…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 06:48 PM
1

I was hoping someone would make a post about this. I agree on everything, and this applies to LTRs too, heck, I think that it's when it mostly applies! We know that we are Always the same woman and it's unlikely that our man will have to do this to hve sex. And here is another truth I feel inside I am ashamed of - if I ever found out my SO raped someone my first reaction wouldn't be horror but anger and jealousy because fuck, did you really want her that much to push yourself onto her?
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 06:39 PM
4

If I dress in a certain way I know I will get looks and hit upon. It took me TRP to understand it, it's crazy the amount of responsibility we as women are trying to get rid of. I don't dress the same way without my man now and it feels great. I'd also like to add that most women "bragplain" about creeps just to have something to complain about while affirming their high SMV value to other people. It instills jealousy when a woman is being catcalled and the other totally ignored.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 01:32 PM
1

ahaha yeah, no hypergamy and difference in smv in play ;)
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 11:57 AM
3

I think we are capable of change, we just aren't required by outside society nor are we pressured too. I know this applies to me.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/14 10:17 PM
3

So she fucked with a guy cheating on her bf because she had no stories to tell? And now she is trying to convince herself that the sex was good and she has no regrets? Really? This really sounds like she is trying to convince herself she is a happy, strong, indipendent woman who can fuck with no strings attached. Yep. Totally /s
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/14 10:14 PM
2

:O:O
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/14 10:08 PM
1

Genders are valued differently and personally thinking I can give it a try with 2 skills (one of which is a real passion of mine!) is a great luck. How many people do you know are pursuing their art work? I am and I did it while studying. If I were a man I would have had less chances to have success and I wouldn't have such a freedom of choice. It is incredible how much I started valuing free time once I met my current man. I'd like to add that I don't know if it happens to other women too, but …
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/14 10:05 PM
2

Yes, I meant ask for one ahah ;D You totally should, I am not short of ideas because we just moved in together but I'll tell my mum. I find them pretty sexy too!
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/14 09:28 PM
10

Damn, these posts are why I also visit the male side of RP. I don't come here to feel like a special snowflake but to read what I do exactly like all other women that men don't like about us without "asking the fish". It's a shortcut, a textbook, something my mother should've told me if we had lived 150 years ago. Never stop being like that because harsh words are much more effective than soft talk. Soft talk solicites solipsis and feeds the hamster. And in all honesty a man who tells me how thi…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 09:25 PM
2

I think they make for a great birthday gift unless you have other urgent needs. This way you won't feel guilty for spending money and mum can be happy getting something you like instead of throwing her money away on something you don't like (Always happens to me so I'll show her - she'll love them ahah)
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/14 09:11 PM
1

Thank you. I think I have decided I will work part time or privately while still doing my home-job, possibly starting new projects with my SO. I haven't mastered nursing at all, instead I have so much to learn, but he is too important for me to spend my life working. I think that it's like devoting yourself to a religion, I can't imagine myself giving up my personal life for work. Some people are happy to do so, I probably have options and that helps. I hope to be an angel to everyone... even if…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/14 08:39 PM
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Hypergamy... check Rich guy... check Good looking guy... check Plain female protagonist... check Rape fantasy... check Stalking fantasy... check Absence of responsability in the relationship.. check Oh, but by all means, to charm women and make them fall in love with you you have to be nice and never, ever ever act like Mr. Grey /s
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 08:29 PM
1

"We need feminism because if some women decide to lead their own lives in a way that men may find more attractive than riding the CC and career life until we hit the wall may make them have standards about women"
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/14 03:14 PM
1

Women can change when they are molded to by strong men in their life. Every woman I've ever been with has changed to become more like me, without fail. I think this is why a manly figure, a strong father, is needed in every woman's life.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 03:03 PM
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RPW here. This is so true it's painful. Honestly, whenever I was required to change all my excuses were valid and accepted, heck, I was even pitied and patted on the back, with apologies for hurting my feelings. If a male counterpart did the same he'd have been kicked in the ass very hard. So now whenever something pisses me off I try to shut up the hamster and find what's hurting me because it's usually something I agree with.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 03:00 PM
2

Let me guess, are the comments filled with women saying that they share chores with their stay at hubbies and they still have an amazing sex life because there are lots of unique special snowflakes? That's what usually happens in comment sections of these articles.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/14 02:39 PM
10

I always browse Pinterest for dress-like aprons so yeah, I agree :P
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/14 02:36 PM
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If I were her I'd like to know your sincere reaction so I can base myself on that.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/14 10:03 PM
10

Why is a man considered sexist if he chooses to live his life giving his woman a choice to work or not? In my opinion he wouldn't be sexist even if he said he wouldn't want his woman to work. I wouldn't want a man who worked 16 hours a day, nor one who didn't work, but it doesn't make me sexist.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 08:07 PM
1

This is a perfect example of the crabs bucket FSM theory...
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 07:16 PM
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From what you say it could actually be useful for a man himself and society if a man became very good at something THEN and only then settled with someone younger than him. That way women and family don't interfere with his goals, he can achieve them and then build a family with a loyal woman who will give him kids because she is still Young. Her parents would be happy to give their daughter to a man who knows what he is looking for in life and knows what he can achieve. Wait, isn't that how thi…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 03:14 PM
1

You are definitely right. Well maybe it still is a male gender role... as in "Make yourself useful and fullfilled". Let me add that on the edit.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 03:08 PM
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Because they are doing what women did decades ago when they decided to stop working inside their gender role (like men who don't MGTOW do). They are "strong indipendent men who don't need no woman" and this freaks lots of women out because they can no longer get their beta bucks by using the power of their vaginas (which grants women lots of free things during life) I am not saying they are correct (imo this will bring us to extinction) but it's not any different from feminism. Well, it's better…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 08:56 AM
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Let this be a warning to men - if you are living with your GF and she has duty sex with you because she can't get her ass out of your house or explain that she is simply using you RUN because you could find yourself in jail for having consensual sex.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 08:49 AM
1

totally.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/14 01:04 AM
2

And also, imagine a female version of Indiana Jones, an incredibly attractive woman who's smart and athletic and can get any man she wants; women feel uncomfortable just thinking about it.They don't want to experience 130 minutes of jealousness in the cinema. This, this, this, this. Women would just complain about how it's unrealistic that she is so fit yet her house is so clean.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 06:35 PM
1

I saw so many on Amazon... I decided to get myself a dress shaped apron since I Always wear one when I cook. I'll post a link when I choose one!
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/14 08:29 PM
1

Nope, thanks for sharing I'll listen!
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/14 08:28 PM
1

awesome!
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/14 05:01 PM
3

Same here! I tend to put it ALL on my butt and it may sound stupid but... it's in the back so it's a tad harder for me to notice and much easier to ignore it. Talking from an attraction point of view if a man tells me I put on weight at first I may not like it but I tend to see him in a better light after that. His words to me mean "I like you more fit/I am not afraid to tell you the truth/I don't need to kiss your ass to keep you around" aside that I appreciate if a person worries about me.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 12:01 PM
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There is nothing that hurts more than your SO telling you you put on some ass. But at the same time it's extremely effective so if you notice your woman getting some weight tell her!!! Tiptoeing around it to avoid hurting feelings will make us hamster around the fact that "he loves me anyway".
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 11:04 AM
3

The religious people figured it out before Reddit!
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/14 08:06 AM
1

It's always like that... you always think you are happy with sexcapades, you are free and you can do whatever you want. Your ego is fed, you feel powerful, but it's mostly lies to avoid facing your insecurities. We need old education back. Good luck, it's nice of you to worry.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/14 07:55 AM
1

I am sure that if she becomes more feminine and stops her "sluttitude" people will eventually move on. I know friends of mine whom it happened too and even though I didn't ride the carousel I was really considered rude and boyish, to the point that men found me attractive but would've never dated me. It's hard to find the real source of good attentions especially if you are addicted to sexual ones.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/14 07:53 AM
1

Please do something to help her. She may hate this and reject it at first but things will add up and she'll understand that the lies fed by feminists (do whatever you want in bed and you'll have no consequences) were not in her own interest.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/14 07:51 AM
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I especially agree with this Don’t put your husband on the defensive. For example, if you are driving around a section of town looking for a restaurant and he’s obviously lost, does it really help for you to tell him that he’s been going around the same block for the fifth time? I see this happening sooo many times in my family - getting lost and becoming anxious, paranoid and pointing out useless things. In those occasions only talk if I have something valuable to say or to make funny remarks o…
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/14 07:49 AM
1

Yes, totally.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/14 07:45 AM
1

:)
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/14 07:19 AM
1

Whenever I rejected someone I was flirty with (guilty of that in the past...) and I saw that person just move on with their life and not show a little bit of embarassment I was like "Whoa, what a guy, he must certainly have lots of stuff going on/I should've given him a chance".
/r/askTRP10/07/14 08:36 AM
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It's both subconscious and volountary. I did it on purpose to see the person again and to mark my territory as others said and now that I think of it sometimes after I asked my friends how things are going with their new guy/hopefully new LTR they told me how it went and lastly giggled about being silly and having forgotten something at his place or car. If it's hair related stuff or earrings then I forget but not volountarily.
/r/askTRP10/07/14 08:15 AM
1

Same here. I thought it was young bratty girls.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/14 08:09 AM
1

Yes, same issue!
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 08:28 PM
3

I always wear skirts and leggins too because they show of legs but are not pants! I've stopped wearing pants actually, aside ethnic and bellydance styled ones during spring-summer.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 01:37 PM
1

Thank you! Love those coats, I have a green one with a very big collar in front, it is very elegant, feminine and sexy because it is tight on waist.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 01:11 PM
2

Yes I remember reading that too.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 01:09 PM
2

What a cute list. Try to encourage the children to be quiet I like that it tries to teach the children respect for the tired person. Probably involving them in the dinner activity would be helpful.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 12:35 PM
1

I was trying to avoid thighs because they cut off blood circulation and like jeans they make my legs bloated, I just wear them if I have to go out. I have a pair of boots for the rain and they have a large heel. They are very stylish and they keep me dry! Gotta wear heavy socks under those though because just like hunter boots it gets cold otherwise. Thanks :D
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 11:55 AM
1

yeah, gotta add something coloured because I really love purple and grey! I would like to wear more red.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 11:14 AM
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Yes, I don't want to ask him for 2 reasons - to avoid going insane at pleasing him perfectly in every outfit and to keep the surprise. I should look for snuggly things which compliment my figure more - I am hourglass shaped and if I wear large sweaters I look much larger than I am. I'm just not used to thinking of dressing nicely at home too and it's way harder in winter :) EDIT: adding that I take all hints in what he wears in clothing so I usually guess (I actually dared being more feminine th…
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 11:09 AM
3

yes ans considering we instinctively choose our mates based also on how our kids will look It's correct to say it right away (without need to talk about kids, just say you had surgery)
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 09:45 AM
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What about working on adding some list to her desirable traits?
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 08:40 AM
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We should strive for equality of opportunity not equality of results. No woman I know is protesting because she can't be a garbage collector and there are too few women in the field.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 08:00 AM
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I am not a man but I really need to say this - if you have cosmetic surgery before you meet your partner DO tell him about it and quite soon because if in future you decide to have kids they may take some of the looks which you tried to change with surgery therefore you might "trick the genes" like my mom says. EDIT: I am not a MAN not a woman :)
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 07:08 AM
2

but men were never to be made the guilty ones that is the point...
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/14 11:07 PM
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This is some fine solipsism at work. "I would feel being exploited therefore everybody has to feel this way, even if they don't admit it and I will have to help them free themselves!". I think it's also a Crab Bucket Effect [...] can't he see that everyone wants only what is best for Ms. Apple, they love her so? Female rivals, allies, subordinates, and superiors will all insist that they are acting out of a sense of love and compassion while they effectively hamstring Ms. Apple's position. Every…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 08:03 AM
1

Men have the same issues as far as I know but again it is a woman's duty to try avoid trouble the most she can, we can't make the world a super safe place so women can go jogging at night
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 05:55 AM
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I'd feel that I don't have the sexual monopoly and not because of another woman but from a man (hamstering me says because I can't compete with a penis and that it's a visual turnoff)
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 10:41 PM
1

Oh wow, people being so picky. I agree with the advice read here - the only reason why people are shaming the OP in the thread is because they assume he is bad looking. If he was good looking he'd be regarded by women as generous to offer all that free beer. Asking people to bring something is a great way to make the invite look more "precious" and not just trying to bring people in.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 05:08 PM
2

Some of these are certainly "gentleman" behaviours but they could be adopted by guys who have no game or whatsoever and it could result in being seen as even more beta (IMO). And yes like others said it's women who blatantly rejected and shamed chivalry (publicly but still getting wet dreams about being the damsel in distress saved by the hero) so it's funny how they cry now that no decent man is left (especially close to/post wall) and real men were from the past. Yeah, it's probably true, but …
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 05:05 PM
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Aside some VERY exaggerated things (not getting in metros with men? Eating icecream??), some just look to me like good common sense to me and things I wouldn't even want my future son to do. Everyone has to care about their safety and just because women perceive men to be strong doesn't make them invincible against other men (equals solipsis as always). Most of these advices are things I'd recommend my future daughter to avoid doing to not get in trouble. Just because we can't strut around with …
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 04:55 PM
2

In that case it would be a case of solipsis probably!
/r/askTRP05/07/14 09:07 PM
2

Awwwwwwwwwwww :3
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/14 01:31 PM
4

I don't accept feminism because it bases itself on blaming men.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/14 01:23 PM
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Yes, she CAN admit she can't have it all. Other people cannot even think of that. Imagine if the situation was reversed - sure a man would have lots less responsabilities around the house but he'd still get no chance to see the family and decent hours and if he quits it wouldn't be a celebration.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/14 07:39 AM
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bursts out laughihng *
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 02:02 PM
2

I stumbled upon Dan Bilzerian's instagram the other day and some guys posting there were trying to rationalize how he actually isn't happy but they were recognizing his success and not trying to bring him down. Most posts are self-ironic where the poster thought he had a happy life until he saw how Dan has it. I agree with everything you say.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 02:00 PM
3

I love the bucket of crabs analogy.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 08:05 AM
3

Still less gold than the OP!
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 08:01 AM
3

I don't understand the whole "setting an unrealistic standard". She's real, and so is her talent and her beauty. She probably sets the bar too high on some things and people feel threatened by this, but it's ridiculous and I'd feel ashamed to say that someone does too well because it means I'd rather bring people down than try to take myself to their level.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 08:00 AM
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Awww :)
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 06:53 AM
1

Breastfeeding should be allowed everywhere I believe. I've seen that women want to go around topless and I just don't get it - men can't go shirtless in places where we have to dress up (the street in a city) and the only times they do take the shirt even where they couldn't is when they are working sweating under the sun. Doesn't look like all women complaining about this are working on the streets under the sun in August! I sometimes remove my top at the beach, do you do that in America? EDIT:…
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/14 08:35 AM
1

Yes, I read everywhere it's not ok to simply enjoy things a man does and any desire he may have. I felt I lacked directions too on what kind of attentions to appreciate and which were useless or even worse damaging so I know exactly what you are talking about. It's ok, it's fine to rant every now and then.
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/14 07:50 AM
1

Sewing is such a cool and useful skill. You can adjust the clothes you get in stores and have clothes almost tailored on you for yourself, investing time instead of money. People are crazy!
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/14 09:53 PM
1

May I ask what happened?
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/14 09:47 PM
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Honestly I NEVER understood these statistics. Yeah, women do more housework and men do more shitty risky jobs. What is the deal? What are we trying to state? If women REALLY aren't happy with the situation can't they speak clearly to their SO instead of doing statistics? Can't people communicate? Honestly I'm proud to say I do more apparent housework, he can do other things I won't do. Also why share a chore between 2 people? I'd rather have each one their job in the house.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/14 07:52 PM
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You know what the problem is? Girls, and I did too, get addicted to the attention you get for dressing that way. I am just realizing it now! You cringe but at the same time you desire attentions. I can't believe I learnt it now. I doubt there is any expression in dressing inappropriately at any age unless it's for occasions or with your SO (but always stay classy). Anyway, the addiction to male attention makes people real vain and dependant on those looks and approval.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/14 07:44 PM
1

I am a smaller hourglass and I agree with you! We are so hard to dress!!
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/14 08:07 AM
2

Do you think I should remove this?
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/14 06:27 PM
2

Oh, I posted this without thinking about it. I just thought it applied to the RP message, it's pretty general.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/14 05:27 PM
2

Aw thank you! My youtube channel is such a fun part of my relationship with my SO as he enjoys the things I tell him and involve him too. This is a project I am carrying on hoping to be able to work at home more and my dream is to be a part time nurse and part time youtuber. We have other big projects that will involve traveling and he is sooo galvanized. Thanks :):)
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/14 03:32 PM
1

Yes, having a great father is one of the greatest ways to "set standards" to what a good man must be like, and good men loooove when their woman gets along with her father. They must know instinctively it is a good sign!
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/14 02:13 PM
1

Awesome! Also teach them to find a good man so that it decreases chances of divorces even more. I wish you the best!
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/14 02:12 PM
1

I think it's easier to take control than to give it over to someone else. I'd encourage my girls too but I think that being a housewife can be risky nowadays when divorces can happen. I'm afraid she would be seen as a dumped gold digger and unless that happens before she is too old to not be young it can be risky. Don't you fear that?
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/14 01:57 PM
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I am so sorry :( She refers to those who don't think about it, but it sucks to be in that situation. I don't know where I'll be and what I can do to prevent it, but I'll work harder than I do now on everything.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/14 01:54 PM
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I would introduce it to tell women not to waste their 20s. Starting from this we can get to the sexual and SOs part.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/14 11:41 AM
1

I work basically with my hands as I have to display them so I have to keep them hydrated and my nails long. I don't like nail polishes because even if you apply them perfectly the layers will come off and my hands will look like a child's after the first day. It helps that my SO hates nail polish for the same reason. I keep them 5-6mms but they are quite resistant so they hardly break. I just file them once every 2 weeks. Instead of painting them I'd get nail gel which lasts from 3 to 5 weeks an…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/14 10:44 AM
1

The "passionate about" thing works if you are to choose between engineering and mathematics - both jobs can have outcomes and your best bet is to choose what you are more passionate about. Lots of women keep choosing artistic schools not because women are more artistic but because they do not have the burden of being the breadwinner (or so they think). Even if you are not a career driven woman choose something that will give you a job!
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/14 07:42 AM
2

oh thank goodness.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 06:19 PM
2

Yes but at least once things don't go the way she was told they would be (do whatever whenever with whoever you want and it'll be ok) she knows what is going on and can work from there.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 06:18 PM
1

Oh I'd never want to blame anyone, I just wish I knew what would happen. I understand what you ean.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 06:17 PM
1

Oh I am not single, but I will keep iit in mind!
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 06:16 PM
1

Yes!!! I read so many times in women's magazines that women thought they were dating a guy after sex but you have to make things clear before going to bed with him if you are unsure.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 06:16 PM
1

I thought it was kinda sexist too but there was something wrong with my perception, and I know what it is. Gotta lay off the fat I put on ahah :D
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 02:28 PM
4

Totally!! Should I post it there?
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 02:23 PM
1

Yes, I saw that even ads from the 60s where a woman was to keep herself beautiful for her men were considered misogynist... Are we crazy? I think we have to aim to improve people close to us by giving them a shake and telling them to "man/woman/fit/loosen/whatever" up
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 02:06 PM
5

I think that age 12 would be ok to talk about the younger stuff part, i'll save the rest for when she is 17/18 and her head is getting filled with "Have fun/don't commit/do whatever you want" crap. Everyone is acting like asking girls to protect themselves is blaming them. No, girl YOU be careful - I'll come pick you up at the disco, no drinking, no smoking. I had no idea people could get sued for receiving things. This sucks. If I were the mom of that girl I'd have given her a lesson then excus…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 01:43 PM
4

I friggin hate it when my man notices I put on weight but boy does it work for me. It works when he points out anything because it's not just my guilt sense poking, it's an outside voice and no matter how much it hurts it works and makes everyone happier in the long run. A woman is considered brave when she tells a man to "man up and get a better job" so should a man be seen when he tells the woman to improve herself. It sucks and it makes me suffer, but it works. Our feelings shouldn't be prote…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 12:53 PM
2

It's incredible how some friends of mine deny differences YET they'd never go for a man that shows feminine traits. If men weren't different from women we'd GO EXTINCT for so many reasons, but mostly because they wouldn't get laid 0.o
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 12:50 PM
5

The same people who tell women to find themselves shoot down on men who want to be artists (happened IRL to people I know). I am not pointing out a double standard because "it's unfair" I am saying that the way girls are told that "everything is ok" is wrong and doesn't live up to their expectations when the wall hits and nothing is ok anymore because you are no longer youthful and beautiful. I feel like this feminism just freed young women to do "what they want" and helped them gain more speed …
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 12:48 PM
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I am not saying this to infantilize women or rid the girl of her responsibilities, but if you grow up and you are told that you can be anything and everything at the same time, that sex doesn't matter, judgements shouldn't be listened to and should rather be ditched, probably by her mother ad relatives (like I saw happening in real life)... Then how is she supposed to know? I know that some kids grow to be rebellious adults but if all parents instilled the right teachings to kids then things lik…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 12:01 PM
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Totally. Maybe giving them respect and kindness with make them value for their man, or they think someone might value their man more. Meh!
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 09:56 AM
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It's reassuring, sometimes I'd love to hear lies but honesty is like a standing groud and you can rebuild from that.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 06:50 AM
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It's 6 months we live together and I always try and get up to prepare breakfast. It's incredible how far people will criticize and I'd grown to even feel ashamed to tell people I do this everyday, but now I don't care anymore as we both love this morning ritual - it's an extension of our time together. I just don't get how people feel the need to criticize this openly, like "He can do it himself/Why doesn't he do it?" do they feel guilty or something? I've never been given as much unwanted advic…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 04:15 AM
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That would be sooo cool :):)
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 04:08 AM
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I read a reply of yours to someone, where that person expected you to be sweet and you said "we are sweet with our SOs, but here we are looking to be frank with people and shake them, otherwise it would be You go grrrlll and it would turn to feminism" and I loved it, like an honest aunt or something ahah!
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 04:08 AM
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Yes, I need frankness to and this place is where to look for :)
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 04:05 AM
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thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 04:04 AM
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We should make a thread on what advices to give our daughterss/nieces on wedding nights :) I wouldn't want to be spamming the board!
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 04:04 AM
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Totally!!! I second this 100%
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 09:22 PM
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I agree 100% with that and I'd also like to add that soemtimes setting a positive example is the first way to go. I think it applies also with kids. I read around TRP today that men usually tell themselves "Don't listen to what a woman says but look at what she does" something that meant that you should look for what a woman does instead of what she preaches. I'll add in this edit that the reason why I love this thread is that nobody is here looking to blame anything (well, aside aging, dust and…
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 09:14 PM
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I don't know honestly and I have no examples in my circle of acquaintances of women who made it on top of their jobs or are workaholics.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 06:41 AM
1

Yes, I don't like it when people try and be protective of feelings. I'm like "thanks for being kind, but that's how things are, I need to drop these extra KGs"!
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/14 09:17 PM
1

Oh noes!
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/14 09:16 PM
1

It's not unfair, I believe everyone has a role. I may sound like a wuss but I'd rather be protected than be a protector so I am pretty happy to be a woman. Exactly, men pay the price of their strength with their health (risky jobs) and life in many cases too. There may be bitter men but we can't expect everyone to treat everyone nicely nor to be perfectly happy about their lives.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/14 09:16 PM
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Are there gyms that keep kids? I don't have babies but I wish they were here in Italy too! I'll start free body exercises too they are quite good. You can just add weights in your hand while squatting and you keep your muscles working without getting used to it. I love this encouraging spirit, I swear I found my will to get fit again from reading this.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/14 04:12 PM
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That's awesome! I think sometimes people have told me to accept myself because THEY didn't want to improve themselves. I'm lifting weights at home before a bellydance show now to tone up, I gained some weight in the last months and I want to get rid of it, even though it was on already when I met my SO (6 months into it now)
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/14 03:50 PM
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"I don't believe in "female empowerment" -- you should feel empowered as a person, regardless of gender, because of something awesome you did, not for male-shaming!" ^ THIS ^ I couldn't agree more! We posted the same kinb of post at around the same time :):)
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/14 12:36 PM
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Just like men die at work because they are pushed to take hazardous jobs or they'll starve. Men make up 92% of fatalities on work. It looks a lot worse to me and both the man and the woman CAN not have a choice (maybe this man's dream is to be a firefighter and this woman's is to be a pinup). You don't understand my point. No matter who's "fault" it is (more than society I'd say bad luck) people can get into jobs that are dangerous or they may regret. But I don't see people complaining that mini…
/r/MensRights21/06/14 12:34 PM
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Yes I read a little bit of it already. thank you!!
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/14 07:33 AM
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All feminists I talked to would get angry if they heard a man saying "I want my wife to be a housewife" so I understand why. Lots of feminists I talked to take personal choice (looking for a non career-driven woman) as an offense to women, thus demonizing men's needs and wishes. Yeah, I'd hate them too.
/r/MensRights21/06/14 05:52 AM
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I don't believe that if a man tries to get the most out of women he is a misogynist. He may be a player, but that's what we girls used to do as young was try to get as much free stuff from guys as we could so it's a thing on both sides. I am moving on to Redpill women. I feel like Mensrights and feminism are something where you fight to spread your idea... I am looking for self improvement and happiness.
/r/MensRights21/06/14 05:00 AM
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I am saying that if that person made a bad choice it is a matter of that person, not blaming all men because they objectify women and women are not capable of choosing. What if that person loves it? What if that was the best option? What I am saying is do not use anything to blame men, or women and if we really have to look into bad choices I'd be more worried if my future son got into a low paying hazardous job over my future daughter being a high paid playmate
/r/MensRights21/06/14 04:57 AM
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Honestly I toured TRP both men's and women's side and I found no disrespect for anyone. But maybe it's just me!
/r/MensRights20/06/14 03:00 PM
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Congratulations on your choice! I am so happy you had your miracle baby, it warmed my heart :) A professor in school once told us how women who had their kids early, around their 20s like you did were happier and kids healthier. I always thought about it whenever someone, usually older, upon hearing of a 20 year old pregnant said "She ruined her life". I don't think she did! Instead she'll be a mother full of energy and she'll be able to enter the workforce if she wants/needs to. Good luck with …
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 08:57 AM
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Hello... I'm 25, studying to become a nurse and my part time job is my youtube channel. My LTR SO knows about it, he enjoys that I have my own revenue without using too much time (working as a video creator gives flexible hours!) and I also include him in some of my videos. I just came across this today. I actively participate in MensRights subreddit and I always heard bad things about TRP... today I decided to check for myself. TRP isn't all that bad, I didn't see misogyny, just men being objec…
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 08:48 AM
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Isn't it more like "We need special boost to be equal because patriarchy?"
/r/MensRights20/06/14 07:15 AM
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I am mostly angered by the infantilization of women. Whatever they do it's men's fault, they are being used, objectified. Women don't accept that other women have free will (except when they do stuff like becoming a CEO or engineer). Whenever I see pictures of playmates and I hear women shouting "That's objectification of women!" it drives me nuts. First of all she is ONE woman, she doesn't represent anyone. Secondly she is doing it out of her own WILL. Third, she probably enjoys the male attent…
/r/MensRights20/06/14 04:47 AM
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Oppression has Always been caused by wealthiest people.
/r/MensRights12/06/14 06:56 AM
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I am talking to you somewhere else (and I found your answer so worrysome I had to post it here!) and comparing serves to put attention on it. There are tons of helps to women's eating disorders but much less for men's body image issues. Why does it bother you so much? Are you against any kind of comparison because it's misogynist or misandrist? It doesn't detract anything, it simply says it's an issue that is ignored. So unless it 100% attention on women it's misogyny? Why is it forbidden to say…
/r/MensRights12/06/14 06:43 AM
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Yes, I was sarcastic!
/r/MensRights12/06/14 06:40 AM
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My sarcasm :)? Yes it was sarcastic!
/r/MensRights12/06/14 06:40 AM
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Huh? Calm down there. Read "The Myth of Male Power" there it perfectly explains WHY women withhold sex. I'm not speaking with someone who jumps to conclusions like that.
/r/MensRights12/06/14 06:38 AM
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I think that people who hate Men's Rights have only read the extremists portions or didn't even bother to read it. I am a woman and I made a list a while ago about why I agree with Men's Rights www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/279xdm/why_as_i_woman_i_agree_with_mras/
/r/MensRights09/06/14 02:44 PM
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Yep, females do not agree with these, in fact most women prefer skinny men and refuse dates with well built ones.
/r/MensRights09/06/14 02:33 PM
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Whoa, I've just been pointed out that this post as "a misogynist response to what is also a valid issue from women". Crazy. I agree with this post and it's a point of view I never thought of. Body issues are usually only associated to women - anorexia and bulimia are predominantly women's issues but people miss out men's body issues and this post was pointing it out.
/r/MensRights09/06/14 02:33 PM
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Or they expect men to pick up the check ;)
/r/MensRights09/06/14 07:43 AM
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This is especially interesting in families who reached their maximum number, but I wouldn't feel confortable neither as a man or a woman in having my tubes cut or tied up.
/r/MensRights08/06/14 10:09 PM
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Yes yes yes.
/r/MensRights08/06/14 10:02 PM
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Oh, poor she, so traumatized she had to give love to 3 boys. If it were said about a male adult there would have been an uprise.
/r/MensRights08/06/14 09:48 PM
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also the photo might seem legit because women tend to scratch.
/r/MensRights08/06/14 09:11 PM
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this is a great point and it's the reason why holding a woman is not a good idea as you could be easily arrested if she starts screaming RAPER
/r/MensRights08/06/14 04:46 PM
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Mmmm I totally don't agree that patriarchy values femininity less. A man, under "patriarchy" could not have "access" to a woman until he could provide for her. He had to be worthy and then slave away working all life a dangerous job in most chances to provide for her and kids. "Patriarchy" has always had men cover almost completely of most dangerous jobs and women always came first, along with kids.
/r/MensRights07/06/14 04:03 AM
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What bothers me is that you can think for yourself that it would have been your teenage wet dreams... but don't dismiss others' feelings when they say they were raped even if they were males!
/r/MensRights07/06/14 03:15 AM
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This, this, this. I often hear even female friends complaining that it's unfair there are so few women in certain jobs... no it's not, chance it's they don't like it or they aren't interested. Equality in opportunity not results... this will be my motto!
/r/MensRights07/06/14 02:56 AM
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Thank you, it wasn't the point of the thread but it's good people didn't take me for a weirdo for whispering towards a camera xD
/r/MensRights06/06/14 08:26 AM
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Well I wasn't taught by anyone except biologists that enduring pregnancy takes 9 months so, instinctively, I should be reeeeaaally sure a man wants me and t support me before I have sex with him. We do not live by instincts but instincts are part of us and I do not believe "Everything was taught". There are differences in male and female and I am sure the biggest one comes from one bearing children and the other not.
/r/MensRights06/06/14 08:24 AM
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Yes, I can say that if I drink it's FOR the inhibition that derives. Well not me, but some women told me they've had best sex ever while drunk. It's infantilization of the woman... I don't support the patriarchy theory but if there were one, claiming the woman can't decide and be responsible of herself would be part of it.
/r/MensRights06/06/14 08:22 AM
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I think that whatever you or anyone else may think of it the raped boy should never be disrespected for not liking it. Maybe you would've been happy about it unlike him but in any case he HAD to laugh it off because he was targeted by other people who did not emphatize (how is it spelled??) with him and didn't even keep their mouth shut
/r/MensRights05/06/14 03:44 PM
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Oh that is terrible. I read something similar, less worse, when a boy was growing up in the 60/70s and he had tons of female friends who used to talk about men always in an evil way because they had sexual pulsations and desires, they'd turn to him and say "But we like you, you are not like that". He grew up repressing those feelings and it took him lots of time before allowing himself to not feel dirty for having sexual thoughts. I am so sorry. Bad people are in both genders and they want to us…
/r/MensRights05/06/14 09:55 AM
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This is terrible, but I wonder why women so much have this "buyer's remorse" that they have to blame someone of something terrible. Is it because they are blamed and shamed by other women? I am not justifying their act, just wondering what could be done to prevent this "guiltying" of the involved male parties. Shouldn't we teach people that sex isn't bad and there are consequences to it but nobody is guilty if you have sex when drunk? Both have responsabilities but it's none of the 2s fault. A p…
/r/MensRights05/06/14 09:36 AM
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That sucks. Are you a man or a woman?
/r/MensRights05/06/14 09:21 AM
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I thought you were talking to me in the previous message. Aside that I don't agree with most feminist claims that insist on blaming one gender for power but they did great things and it maddens me that a part of it now doesn't allow men to achieve the same results women did. I agree with you!!!
/r/MensRights05/06/14 09:16 AM
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Oh, I got it!! Whoa it's like digging a hole in water if not harder.
/r/MensRights05/06/14 08:35 AM
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Same here... I agree with everything you said.
/r/MensRights05/06/14 08:10 AM
1

That is sad.
/r/MensRights05/06/14 08:10 AM
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Just a side not Phimosis can be prevented in young age by encouraging the care of penis by withdrawing skin and moving it like the motion of masturbation.
/r/MensRights05/06/14 08:09 AM
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I personally do not feel the need to talk about the positive of feminism because I acknowledge it already. Here we will discuss men's rights and what is wrong with feminism, I don't think we need to repeat what is good with feminism, it won't get us much far. If someone thinks MRAs are hateful it's because they don't go reading beyond the first few lines.
/r/MensRights05/06/14 08:06 AM
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Well as far as I know circumcision is quite old..
/r/MensRights05/06/14 07:58 AM
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I don't know who to talk about this to in real life, it would take tooooo long. I'mm trying to get people to read The Myth of Male Power though.
/r/MensRights05/06/14 07:55 AM
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Yes, my channel had 3000 subsribers in the last 30 days and we are almost at 15K now. I understand but I hope people will get that I want the best for both genders :)
/r/MensRights05/06/14 07:54 AM
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I don't know how I'll be as a mother but I hope to never forget all things I'm learning from life. Did she not listen to you?
/r/MensRights05/06/14 07:51 AM
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Yep, in doubt I personally don't wear revealing clothing at work or in school.
/r/MensRights05/06/14 07:51 AM
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Well, I am a woman and these are the things which I saw and feel for my future sons, husband, father... I'd love to hear more about men's problems and that is why I am here.
/r/MensRights05/06/14 07:50 AM
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Yes, gotta add that..
/r/MensRights05/06/14 07:48 AM
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In most schools even males are supposed to wear sleeves, if it's a rule for both I think it's ok!
/r/MensRights05/06/14 07:47 AM
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Yes, feminism first intent was to free women and then men, I am sure they were thinking about their sons too but when movements get highjacked and earn power... we know how things go.
/r/MensRights05/06/14 07:47 AM
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I do not mean to use it as an excuse but yes, it happens when I am writing in a hurry that I do not convey the proper meaning when speaking english :)
/r/MensRights04/06/14 06:47 PM
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"The issue shouldn't be men being able to control their hormones though. The issue should be whether or not you are dressed appropriately for the occasion. " Exactly! When women say that men should learn to control their hormones instead of telling them how to dress they blame men's hormones instead of aknowledging they have to follow rules like anyone else. Exactly V day should be like that! But too many couples see it as one way worshipping and the other side gets the short stick
/r/MensRights04/06/14 06:46 PM
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Yes yes, exactly. Call it cuddle and collection day, sushi and strolls, whatever. And same about the hormones!
/r/MensRights04/06/14 06:44 PM
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Yes, inequalities hurt us all.
/r/MensRights04/06/14 06:41 PM
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Quoting the super quoted Norah Vincent "People see weakness in a woman and they want to help. They see weakness in a man and they want to stamp it out."
/r/MensRights04/06/14 06:40 PM
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I also don't like when some male issue is brought up and I read "Check your male privilege". Yeah... I checked. Now check yours. Ok, can we go on talking? I am a female and it's not directed at me but it bothers me.
/r/MensRights04/06/14 06:39 PM
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I agree! Dividing issues to take care of allows people to take better care of them.
/r/MensRights04/06/14 06:33 PM
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exactly this! It's always been rich VS poor...
/r/MensRights04/06/14 06:33 PM
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Yes, what's important for me is to avoid looking like a female who wants attention here!! I am grateful for this subreddit because even though the stories are sad it's eye opening.
/r/MensRights04/06/14 06:24 PM
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As far as I know men are kept in captivity even before the trial, I am on phone now but I willget back to you on pc, or someone else will!
/r/MensRights04/06/14 06:23 PM
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Yes, I wasn't informed enough to talk about it! Feel free to chip in, I will add it in an edit.
/r/MensRights04/06/14 06:22 PM
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Thank you very much :D
/r/MensRights04/06/14 06:22 PM
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Yes I was of course speaking only about women who do the said things which are in most cases a minority. I just wrote it and didn't feel like writing every time "some". Most people I know are amazing no matter the gender!
/r/MensRights04/06/14 06:22 PM
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Yes, I'd personally prefer letting my son decide in later age and most of all nobody should feel forced to do it.
/r/MensRights04/06/14 06:21 PM
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Thank you!!
/r/MensRights04/06/14 06:20 PM
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You are correct, let me rectify! As far as I know the only ones getting gifts for V day are women, they get taken to dinner and so on. Also you are correct, I meant a generalized men's festivity which is already being celebrated, I didn't state that all men like bjs and steaks! My man would probably prefer sushi too.... or grilled fish :D You and men can keep their hormones straight. Some women like to blame men for how they have to dress because they can't understand that it's rules that have t…
/r/MensRights04/06/14 06:19 PM
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LEt me permalink a comment: http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/279xdm/why_as_i_woman_i_agree_with_mras/chyxqqm and copy mine "Women love strong, muscular men who fight, compete in sports, with phisycal pain and appreciate them. They love "heroes" yet they blame boys when they want to play something a bit "tougher"."
/r/MensRights04/06/14 03:26 PM
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Yes, I see a lot of them just want to convey their hate somewhere. And I too never ever speak about it except here!
/r/MensRights04/06/14 03:23 PM
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Pills are quite close to being 100%, it depends on when you take it. Other methods are safer than the pill. Exactly, women can lie about pill and the man can do nothng about it. While you can tell him to suck it up and keep it between his pants we can ask her to keep her legs closed next time, but it would be very stupid in either case.
/r/MensRights04/06/14 03:21 PM
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I am simply trying to explain to all women angry against MRAs that they shouldn't fear, if a man tries to tell them they probabaly won't listen, there are lots more chances they'll read if a woman writes.
/r/MensRights04/06/14 03:19 PM
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Thanks a lot :D
/r/MensRights04/06/14 03:16 PM
2

What do you mean by popular? In what area?
/r/MensRights04/06/14 03:13 PM
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NP I am here to discuss :) I know lots of men who have at heart feminist issues and it's also thanks to them if the world managed to change. Let's change it, in better, for men as well now :D
/r/MensRights04/06/14 03:13 PM
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EXACTLY!!
/r/MensRights04/06/14 03:11 PM
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exactly!
/r/MensRights04/06/14 03:11 PM
1

Yes I agree, that was poorly worded. What I meant is that in case of clothing at work is that it has to be appropriate regardless of genders, men can keep their hormones fine at work but lots of women blame them because they apparently become fragile at the view of boobs... while the reason behind proper clothing is company etiquette.
/r/MensRights04/06/14 03:11 PM
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From personal experiences when both male and female's issues are studied one of the 2 gets left behind. There is nothing wrong in having different departments studying different parts of population as long as it doesn't become a war.
/r/MensRights04/06/14 03:09 PM
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She could spit it. You see where I am going? It's impossible and not fair. I don't understand where you are trying to get, it's quite clear it's a one sided issue. Women have lots of choices while men only have one which is uncomfy for both.
/r/MensRights04/06/14 03:06 PM
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It's not so obvious to people who criticize the movement and an insight from a woman can't do harm. I am happy you have a determined view of your life and your acquaintances but I prefer having a dialogue with people and it's what we are doing here.
/r/MensRights04/06/14 03:05 PM
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Women love strong, muscular men who fight, compete in sports, with phisycal pain and appreciate them. They love "heroes" yet they blame boys when they want to play something a bit "tougher".
/r/MensRights04/06/14 02:57 PM
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Well here we are talking about regular couples whose measure is the pill and who abandoned the condom because they are intimate.
/r/MensRights04/06/14 02:54 PM
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It's thanks to this subreddit, Warren Farrell and other people :D
/r/MensRights04/06/14 02:53 PM
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Well I can understand that if someone sees another side as an "enemy" seeing someone that is biologically sided with them siding with the "enemy" maybe, maybe they will listen!
/r/MensRights04/06/14 02:53 PM
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I may have considered myself a feminist as a young teen.. But I called myself "communist" too so yeah. I have always seen men as always accused and I always felt it wasn't right. I didn't like the constant blaming. I had and still have an example of what people call "incoherent feminazi" so I had all the worst in front of my eyes... a person who based all her life on appearance. It's easy to love men when they appreciate you for your young looks and tell people "I get along better with men than …
/r/MensRights04/06/14 02:51 PM
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I am sorry to say this, but it's not how it works in real life. It's like saying "Don't have sex if you don't want children. Wait for marriage".
/r/MensRights04/06/14 02:43 PM
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Really??? I don't understand what is so appealing in removing a part of the penis! It removes sensitivity in the long run and it's unnecessary. Good hygiene solves everything!!
/r/MensRights04/06/14 12:28 PM
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Agree! I didn't think of this because here, in Italy, I never heard much of circumcision. I had a friend who had been cut as a kid and he was the joke of everyone. I don't even think I ever saw a circumcised penis except in porn! I'd never ever ever do it to my son. He'll do it for himself if he wants to when he is older. It reduces sensitivity "down there"
/r/MensRights04/06/14 12:22 PM
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A healthy sexuality is the basis of many couples. Some people don't want kids. We are not talking about WHY people stay together, but that men have less say in reproduction than women do and women can do things even without telling him.
/r/MensRights04/06/14 12:21 PM
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Thank you! Yes I am in total support for the reasons listed and some more. If women hadn't had such unequal power in my life.. well some things would've been better. I fought all my life for another person in a similar situation and I think it's time to see how the dirt is distributed globally. Thank you very very much.
/r/MensRights04/06/14 12:16 PM
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:D:D what did you recognize me from?
/r/MensRights04/06/14 12:04 PM
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Even wearing a condom is a 50/50 decision, and it bothers some women. Do you think that couple who have been together for some time should be forced to use a condom because he has no say? I don't think so. It's unrealistic to expect one side to have no say at all. And yes, if a couple agreed to no longer using condoms it's only her say.
/r/MensRights04/06/14 12:03 PM
3

ouch mistake :O I noticed it now!
/r/MensRights04/06/14 11:39 AM
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I am sorry but while I do agree that sexual contraceptives should be used there are situations when people stop using them especially when they have been together for some years. In that case it's solely up to the woman, she could stop taking the pill and he has no say. I know that developing male contraceptives is probably harder than females' but it's still unfari.
/r/MensRights04/06/14 11:38 AM
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I understand that too. I was apologetic in my intro because I didn't want to make it look like MEMEME I'M A WOMAN I AGREE LOOK AT ME just hoping to help some people think about this :)
/r/MensRights04/06/14 11:18 AM
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oh I know and I agree. I was hoping that if any woman comes here she can read from someone biologically like her why I agree. Being the same sex means she hopefully won't just ignore it because "i am a white man with privilege".
/r/MensRights04/06/14 11:11 AM
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As it has to be, taught when we are kids and to be done when we are older!
/r/MensRights04/06/14 10:40 AM
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thanks feel free to add more
/r/MensRights04/06/14 09:49 AM
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Thank you. I've been reading around a bit and I've almost finished Warren Farrell's book and I had to get this off my chest!!
/r/MensRights04/06/14 09:49 AM
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Men have always taken legal responsibility for what their women did, like going to jail, longer sentences...
/r/MensRights04/06/14 09:43 AM
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Not only are they focused on girls mostly but they don't allow you to fight back. Bullying will never stop but punishing those who defent themselves and not those who start fights is a politically correct way of seeing things. I have studied in a british school for 3 years and the bullying was waaaaaaaay worse than any italian school I've been to, no idea why. People here compete on clothing and brands though, something you couldn't do in that english school because we had uniforms (loved them).
/r/MensRights04/06/14 09:32 AM
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But how would the quality of life be? If you had someone to help, someone who you plan to have kids with, couldn't you try and take your brother with yourself by saying your mother is not adequate? I know it's not that easy nor painless...
/r/MensRights04/06/14 09:21 AM
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This is so powerful. No mouth, words read as positive close to extremely negative ones (violent and tough usually are part of female's fantasies). My dad came to my mind. He is amazing and I never forget to tell him, but I'd also like to tell him that if he can't make it one day I won't expect him to make it and blame him.
/r/MensRights04/06/14 09:09 AM
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Thank you. I didn't want to make this post "yet another thing about women even in an MRA", my hope is that people see why it's directly or indirectly everyone's interest to take care of these issues. My concerns are my childhood, my family members and my future sons/daughters. I want a better world for them and I believe that these issues are of primary importance. And thanks for the compliment on my channel :):)
/r/MensRights04/06/14 08:40 AM
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Yes, I totally agree. I don't feel comfortable with it because of all the "ME ME ME ME ME" in spite of others, especially kids, supported by feminism. I see lots of feminism wearing this cross of fear so they can blame men for everything that is wrong with them, without ever taking responsability. I know it's not everyone, but as of now I think that society's main issues should be more geared towards men because they have been left out with the excuse that they've been oppressors since ever. Hel…
/r/MensRights04/06/14 08:37 AM
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Let me add... I don't want men to be put in prison for years before they even have a trial. I don't want my future son to go to jail for years just because his wife can claim she was beaten or harmed without having to present proof.
/r/MensRights04/06/14 08:20 AM
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I honestly believe that any group that will lump together both gender's problems will result in men's issues being ignored. There is nothing wrong on focusing on a group of problems at a time and you and I, 2 women, are working together to solve understand these problems since we are here. I don't believe that everyone has to focus on everything at the same time - it would be dispersive and there are too many different interests together. What I don't agree with is blaming someone when they have…
/r/MensRights04/06/14 08:11 AM
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Aside that it's my/your body and I'll/you'll objectify it all that I/you want... If we are happy who the f*ck cares? You and I, suppose we are models, don't represent anyone except the brand in the advertisement. We don't represent all women or men, just that friggin brand we are trying to sell so we can work more. I am embarassed by beautiful half naked women being used in motorshows or stuff like that because my man can ogle on them while I am there. They are better looking than me and they ar…
/r/MensRights04/06/14 08:08 AM
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ahahah yes I just found out about MRAs, Warren Farrell and it's been quite eye opening and therapeutic. I hope to keep giving you brain massages along with thoughtful discussions here :D
/r/MensRights04/06/14 07:08 AM
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Thank you. I hope to not sound like a kissass because I may look like one but I am here because some women had too much power and this hurt me and others so I want to reverse this.
/r/MensRights03/06/14 07:06 PM
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I am sure that all "relegated" women will be happy to take high risk and low pay jobs which obsolete men cover to take them on dates.
/r/MensRights03/06/14 05:44 PM
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"Once upon a time, the men ventured out to hunt bison while the women stayed behind to dust the cave, gather berries and raise the very hairy children. This is the story we have told ourselves for tens of thousands of years to explain why men rule the world while women are relegated to being the second sex" If raising children is being "relegated" women could start taking high risk jobs which pay averagely (most of which are covered by men) - I am sure men would be super happy to manage the hous…
/r/MensRights03/06/14 05:42 PM
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Thanks. I am not saying this because I am bitter or envious, but there is a time and place for everything...
/r/MensRights03/06/14 05:36 PM
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Hate women? I've never felt so much respect. An MRA man treats me like a human with rights, responsibilities and a thinking head... Instead of treating me like a child who can't make its decisions!
/r/MensRights03/06/14 05:33 PM
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yep 100% agree. you can stay fresh and classy at the same time.
/r/MensRights03/06/14 10:24 AM
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This...
/r/MensRights03/06/14 09:45 AM
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"1. I need feminism because I refuse to be a victim." Really? I thought that was what you lived mostly off.
/r/MensRights03/06/14 09:37 AM
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I'll be using this as a quote!!!!
/r/MensRights03/06/14 09:28 AM
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School code has to be respected. Blaming it onto others will do nothing! You can wear capris if it's hot. I don't see boys going around in shorts...
/r/MensRights03/06/14 09:24 AM
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I am reading Warren Farrel's book and he writes that "sluts" lower the price of sex amongst women. It's an interesting point of view!
/r/MensRights03/06/14 09:19 AM
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a little less entitled ahah!
/r/MensRights03/06/14 08:59 AM
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Thanks for your insight. I might be watching porn and enjoying performances of both male and females but I am not reducing them to anhything as you said! thanks :)
/r/MensRights03/06/14 08:58 AM
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Ahaha yes, I was talking about movies :)
/r/MensRights29/05/14 06:21 PM
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Speaking for myself... saving women, making jokes, adjusting things, dancing, running cars, playing and instrument, having fights...
/r/MensRights29/05/14 01:58 PM
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yes but most women are never going to touch themselves JUST by looking at a hot guy. He has to be contextualized in something and super heroes are perfect - good looking in tight clothes doing uber manly stuff! The plot is minor. What we see is women's dreams reflected on screen. I didn't see Magic Mike but he didn't stay still aside being hot, he moved and probably talked ahah :)
/r/MensRights29/05/14 01:42 PM
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what do you mean?
/r/MensRights29/05/14 12:29 PM
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It's not about the hot guy in spandex, it's the hot guy in spandex doing heroic stuff, saving a damsel and acting manly (if he were hot and doing nothing more women wouldn't care). And if I'm not wrong women always watched super hero movies. I don't understand what objectification in ads actually means.. putting it simply, seeing my choices not generalizing, if I want white teeth I'll be more likely to buy a toothpaste from an advertisement which has a pretty model with white teeth. If I am a gu…
/r/MensRights29/05/14 09:06 AM
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I apologize, my women was to go against the person who said that men enforce. I should've said "most women". It probably has to do with most women liking tough men who can protect and bear, a man who shares his feelings isn't probably as tough.
/r/MensRights29/05/14 09:01 AM
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I would never ever want to eliminate objectification... the only way to do so would be everyone living on their own and relying on own sources! What bothered me was that the subject who died was being ignored in a familiar context.
/r/MensRights28/05/14 11:39 AM
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Yes I understand what you mean, it was a response to people saying that women were property. I should've specified!
/r/MensRights28/05/14 11:37 AM
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You can't take one comment and say that MRAs are bashing. There will always be idiots,, the general idea though is that people are quite easy to discuss with here and not rude.
/r/MensRights28/05/14 09:43 AM
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I wish I could upvote your comment a hundred times.
/r/MensRights28/05/14 09:29 AM
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Women enforce silence of men by not accepting an emotionally open man as a partner and preferring one who will listen keeping his worries to himself, I will quote Norah Vincent (not exactly as my internet is not working well) who said that when we see weakness in a woman we want to help, when we see weakness in a man we want to stomp him. Women are the first to laugh at men crying because they have been raped and who tell men to man up. So probably if women didn't have such standards of men, men…
/r/MensRights28/05/14 08:38 AM
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I totally agree with you and if all feminists were like the OP I'd love to discuss with them!!
/r/MensRights28/05/14 08:29 AM
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Especially if you have a passion for big cars! But of course she'd rather be picked up by a guy in a Jaguar than a Fiat Panda...
/r/MensRights28/05/14 08:26 AM
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I don't like the general mentality of feminism because everything seems not being their fault and women can't decide for themselves. That is what bothers me. I don't like how women identify the past systems as patriarchy while men and women had it equally bad... if not men having it worse because they were the ones who were always sent to die. Feminism has done great things in past that allowed women to be freed from some roles they had been relegated to I am not denying this and never will! I'm…
/r/MensRights28/05/14 08:19 AM
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I think that help for men should be structured for them. Women can ask for help, we are wired and we have the privilege of externalizing our feelings without being blamed or demonized for it. Like AlexReynard said maybe men need a different approach to it so they don't see it as something "weak" but they can still let their feelings out. What about camps where men are made to endure physical tests - not too hard of course, like military training but not as tough, but something that will make the…
/r/MensRights28/05/14 08:02 AM
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Yes it is about "ownership". The woman "owned" a working man who risked his life to sustain her economically and to protect her and the man owned a woman who'd be a housekeeper and risk her life to give him children. There was nothing wrong with it, it was equality as in nobody wanted the other's person rights without having some duties in return...
/r/MensRights28/05/14 07:24 AM
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And let's not forget that men's fun outlets are demonized - porn, men's magazines, videogames. You watch porn? How misogynystic! You read men magazines with bikini girls? You exploit women! You play videogames? How childish!
/r/MensRights28/05/14 07:06 AM
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There is no debate whether a man really means NO when he says so because he isn't even asked. (Reading The myth of male power and this came to my mind)
/r/MensRights27/05/14 03:15 PM
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Yep. There are times when the friendzone is non existent... I divide them into 3 categories. 1 - We were never friends. We just talked a couple of times, you tried, I don't like you, you complain you are in the friendzone. Nope buddy, you are in the nopezone. 2 - We are friends, you never ever out your feelings to me, I have no idea, I probably have no interest in you but can't imagine your interest so you stay in your limb doing nothing. 3 - I know you like me, I don't consider you my friend bu…
/r/MensRights27/05/14 08:45 AM
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Well I actually think that I am just protecting my ovaries (so it's an instinctive behaviour), but what bothers me is not that. It's that even though I always rejected concepts like "women earn less" and "men are always violent" I thought men were the entitled ones... while I am because men's attention is handed to me freely just because I am good looking. It's a while I realized this and while I didn't start going to bed with everyone I am much more open to men and women in general and it helpe…
/r/MensRights26/05/14 02:21 PM
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This is why we need MRAs. This is why we all need to fight for correct child custody systems.
/r/MensRights26/05/14 09:02 AM
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Because women want to hold the power of child custody and all that other shit. If women had less of those powers, if women could stop using kids as a bait and revenge against men, if they REALLY had to earn child support and PROVE to be a great parent then the first to benefit would be the kids involved. Because people saying these lies are selfish pricks who don't want to lose their powers and their "female privilege" (get child custody, drain the father's resources without letting him see kids…
/r/MensRights26/05/14 08:01 AM
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Male privilege exists like female privilege exists. Honestly I don't buy that "feminism is for everyone". Why call it feminism? Why not masculinism or transgenderism? That's an excuse to keep on going with the feminist tyranny. It drives me mad how men's problems and womne's problems that derive from men's problems are a taboo. You just can't talk about it. Both gender's issue should worry us because if men have problems they reflect on their daughters, wives, relatives.. (this of course applies…
/r/MensRights26/05/14 07:53 AM
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I've been refused quite some times, especially before I was 21 or something (I was a tomboy who didn't take care of herself, yadda yadda) so I never felt shock or anything, but anywhere I go especially if I am groomed I expect preferential treatment. I guess it's what drives women nuts when they (we) age and we no longer feel all this attention which simply derived from looks. No, society never told me anything. I just always saw men acting like this and I took advantage of it.
/r/MensRights26/05/14 07:46 AM
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:O I never thought of it this way. This was mind opening. Yes, I feel entitled to male attention..
/r/MensRights25/05/14 08:57 PM
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Oh let me add I am sorry if it looked like I was fishing for people here, people sometimes write to me on my facebook and they complain because they tell me their problems and I try to give them possible solutions or make them think of the situation instead of only pampering them. I hope that my continuous involvement will prove this. Reddit and the whole world is filled of people just looking for new clients or places to spam in and it's really not that. I am actually a bit scared that my thoug…
/r/MensRights25/05/14 08:53 PM
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Sure you can ask anything you like! I will start by saying that feminine ASMRtists make me relax more. That means good looking, groomed, good looking. I first look for these elements so I thought of not hiding my elements of being female both in a nurturing and "interesting way". I won't hide my femininity nor is anyone asking me to. It all adds up and it's not a mistake that people like me prefer a good looking female to relax. It's not about sexual attractivness for me when I watch them nor do…
/r/MensRights25/05/14 08:50 PM
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Last year one of the warmest days in whole summer was around the few last days of July and all the men had to wear these suits for a wedding. they were soaked in sweat.
/r/MensRights25/05/14 08:38 PM
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There are dress codes in workplaces, why try to push them? For what gain? Why does a woman have to force her boobs or camel toe in my face? she is free to do that outside of work or school. A man would never come to work in tight leggins showing his bump, why shouldn't a woman be limited in the sexual outfits at work? I am not saying women, we, should always cover. I love dressing sexy and feminine, but I try and limit my sexy clothing at work because there are rules to follow and everyone does.…
/r/MensRights23/05/14 11:27 AM
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I don't see wearing uniforms as a prison or army. Instead it removes the social burden from people who can afford less and it removes differences. Kids and teens are free to express outside school. It removes distractions imo, but hey everyone has opinions. I was one of the poorer kids so I appreciated uniforms.
/r/MensRights23/05/14 11:23 AM
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Yes, I can imagine. And it sucks. EDIT: adding this means men do not have a choice. Women do.
/r/MensRights23/05/14 10:55 AM
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Oh and about dress codes, totally unrelated to sexuality, I went to schools where uniforms were required and it was a relief for students who couldn't afford to dress well or branded. It may sound stupid but it's things that count when you are a silly kid/teenager and uniforms made everyone equal. I liked it.
/r/MensRights23/05/14 09:50 AM
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Exactly. My father is travelling to Sweden for work and one of his upper managers just came back to work from paternity leave. It would be unthinkable here in Italy! He'd be laughed at and he'd never fit in workplace again. I'd be open to paternity leave for 2 reasons: the daddy loves to spend time with the baby as much as the mum does the mum gets a break from being a full time mum and sees other humans, not just the baby Since we can't revert to one person working I think we should adopt North…
/r/MensRights23/05/14 09:47 AM
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There are some lines that have to b drawn. One thing is having hair uncovered. Another is extremely tight leggins showing a camel toe or a deep cleavage. Honestly, as a woman, the sight of displayed sexual body features distracts me so I'd be happy if other women didn't show too much at work or in school. I always interpreted the rules as in men being disturbed, but I am equally embarassed,.
/r/MensRights23/05/14 09:45 AM
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Yes, totally. I love dressing sexy and feminine but there is a time and place for everything. On the other hand I love uniforms so I don't have to think on how to dress but that's another story 8) It's refreshing to be reading a different point of view. I never fit inside feminist ideals. I just don't agree. I want a man that is free to be a man and I want to be a supportive woman to him and in future of the whole family (kids, grandparents). What's so wrong with that? Why am I looked at as a ba…
/r/MensRights23/05/14 08:52 AM
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I am so sorry for you. I've seen similiar things happen amongst my relatives, with the woman slapping the man and he holding her down... she'd start screaming he hit her. She was drunk and I saw it with my own eyes. He was desperate and angry because he hadn't done anything and one word from her could crush him. It's unfair that just because one belongs to the weaker gender they can get away with it and in some cases turn it against him because everybody will believe her anyway. Good luck findin…
/r/MensRights23/05/14 08:48 AM
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I support any kind of escort work as long as the person agrees to it!
/r/MensRights23/05/14 07:46 AM
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I'd add to SporkTornado's valid point by saying that they can lose their shit if the person being killed is a woman. If it's a man meh, who cares. It's exactly as if rape is worse than death. I do get that the problem is that someone could get arousal from it but last time I checked forced sex fantasy was quite common in women too (if not most common in them than men?) http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/women-who-stray/201012/the-rape-fantasy
/r/MensRights23/05/14 07:42 AM
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Yes you are right, I always heard in school that since girls can't wear bare leggins "boys should be taught to resist their urges". I thought it was a real issues to men! I totally see it now, and it makes even more sense. The more I go on the more we, women, seem to me like wanting just rights and no obligations.
/r/MensRights23/05/14 07:20 AM
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Yep, like at weddings "OH it's unfair women have to wear heels.." No you don't. Men HAVE to wear suits the 30th of July...
/r/MensRights23/05/14 07:18 AM
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yes. aside blaming others it bothers me because they don't leave freedom to other women.
/r/MensRights23/05/14 03:29 AM
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yes I'll be a nurse... oh noes... I am doing what meany big men want.. nope that's what I want to do and ultimately I dream of working part time to take care of a future family... totally brainwashed by patriarchy for them.
/r/MensRights23/05/14 03:28 AM
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what about 93% of work fatalities being men...
/r/MensRights23/05/14 02:28 AM
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Yep. That drives me mad. "There aren't enough women in tech jobs because we are given pink dresses as kids" No, there aren't because apparently they choose to do something else! It doesn't look to me that the greatest minds in history had the road to success paved in front of them. I hate some women! And I am one of them!
/r/MensRights23/05/14 02:12 AM
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“Feminist: the person who believes in the social, political and economic equality of the sexes.” ... Then don't call it with one gender. Call it humanist.
/r/MensRights22/05/14 11:46 PM
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Why do some feminists want to limit others' freedom? I take it that not all prostitutes are there because they want to but some are. What about those women who made it as a career choice? Why don't we criminalize those people who want to force us to think like they do??
/r/MensRights22/05/14 11:18 PM
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Also that they are never ever responsible of their own actions. In patriarchy because women are the victims and can't choose, and in feminism because they can't choose but some other woman has to choose for me... no thank you
/r/MensRights22/05/14 11:13 PM
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