Diaz_Bros_Real Archive

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1	Got rejected by my crush- IT FEELS GREAT! Well, at least you were honest and told the truth. But the thing is she won't feel comfortable enough to go on a date with you unless you first create some attraction & connection. It can be done by demonstrating value (humor, personality, playful teasing, creating an emotional bond etc) and also by conveying the message that you have some dating standard and you appreciate certain things in a woman other than just puccy and tins. It separates you from the group of guys who want to sleep with wo…	/r/seduction	01/02/21 08:16 PM
1	[deleted by user] Abundance is the key to dissolving fear. Invest your time and energy into your future vision. And learn how attraction really works. Not by reading some guru's philosophy but by going out and actually testing those theories.	/r/seduction	01/02/21 07:56 PM
4	Stuck in a perpetual small talk phase. How can I move beyond just surface level conversation topics and actually focus on deepening the connection with a girl? The purpose of conversation is not just to have conversation. Because theoretically it's possible that you can talk all day and still the conversation won't go anywhere if you don't have a goal in mind. You have to have an end goal. For example:- the first time you meet her, your goal should be to demonstrate your personality, humor, uniqueness through conversation & body language so that she knows you're an attractive guy. But the next time when you go on a date with her. The conversation style…	/r/seduction	01/02/21 07:28 PM
3	Feelings for ex fwb Nothing personal, bro But looks like you're the one needing validation in that relationship. It'd be much better, if it were the other way around. You know what I mean? Most importantly, if you think this situation is detrimental to your emotional health, move on. Let go. There are other girls. The funny thing is 2 months later if she sees you with another attractive girl then she will be more attracted to you than ever. You will receive tons of text messages, phone calls and what not. Strange t…	/r/seduction	01/02/21 06:18 PM
5	Just one question: How the hell do I stay out of the friendzone??? The goal of disqualification is to meet women and tell them you don’t want to date them. Ever noticed how guys who are unavailable and play hard to get actually get the girls? One crucial reason of their success is : Lack of neediness. Generally speaking, the guys who go home alone are too available. The successful guys all play hard to get. They aren’t afraid to walk away from the woman they are attracted to, talk to other people in the room, and create the impression that if she doesn't act so…	/r/seduction	01/02/21 05:43 PM
3	How to show interest without looking like you have an agenda? Comedian Chris Rock has a routine in which he explains that anything a man says to a woman translates as "How about some dick?" If you barrage a woman with generic questions, what she hears is “How about some dick?” Offer to buy her a drink, she hears “How about some dick?” Introduce yourself to her, comment on her necklace, ask for the time: “How about some dick?” Your goal is to start a conversation with a woman without saying “How about some dick?” This is accomplished through what are known …	/r/seduction	01/02/21 04:58 PM
6	Always worried about what people think. How can I snap out of it? Yeah, Mark Manson is an enlightened motherfucker. He got the same vibe of Tyler Durden from Fight Club. Just exactly what we need for this generation.	/r/seduction	01/02/21 04:36 PM
4	Always worried about what people think. How can I snap out of it? Turn your Self-Consciousness into empathy. Just think about the middle-aged man who you think is judging you when you're approaching girls in the street. May be he is stuck in a dead end 9-5 job and he is trying hard to provide for his family. Do you think he really has time to care if a well groomed guy is approaching a girl in the street? The girl or the guy who you think is judging you has their own insecurities. They have their own problems in life. And most of time they are as self-consciou…	/r/seduction	01/02/21 04:31 PM
3	Always worried about what people think. How can I snap out of it? If this guy isn't enlightened, I don't know who is.	/r/seduction	01/02/21 04:09 PM
0	Just one question: How the hell do I stay out of the friendzone??? Establish Connection. (Rapport & frame control) Demonstrate Value. (Show your personality via cold reading and routines) Disqualify. (That phase is super crucial) Seeding. (Make sure you first complete previous three steps perfectly) And then give her great Sex. Pay attention to what she's saying before you make a move. Read her & act accordingly. If she got a boyfriend, leave her alone. Move on to a next target.	/r/seduction	01/02/21 03:42 PM