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| 12 | If more people are meeting on dating apps but you don't make the cut, what should you do?There’s typically a bunch of conditionals attached to “can’t figure out what to do”. The big one being “how can I not really try that hard but get the girl of my dreams”. To be blunt, swiping on dating apps on and off with a moderate effort profile is the dating equivalent of clicking easy apply on LinkedIn three times a week and saying you’re trying to improve your career. Extreme example, but I’m trying to make a point. If I put a gun to your head and said you’re done for unless you land a dat… | /r/seduction | 20/06/26 09:46 AM |
| 6 | Gym baddies…how tosay hi first and just small talk. if that goes well then escalate to more personal talk. if that goes well then ask her on a date. if that goes well then bump bellies. dont expect each step to happen quickly and let it flow | /r/seduction | 10/06/26 02:28 PM |
| 6 | Weird eye contact pattern I’ve noticed while walking aroundI agree but you’d be surprised how many adult guys still do this. The group of guys that actively approaches women they don’t know who they find attractive is very small. | /r/seduction | 02/06/26 06:42 AM |
| 1 | What actually makes a man feel “naturally confident” in social situations?Some people are naturally very confident and don’t care much at all and that’s very attractive. That kickstarts a feedback loop where they are received well which makes them more confident which means they’re received well and so on. I’m not the type at all, I was extremely insecure for a long time and still am often. My friends ask me how I can speak so confidently to strangers and my answer is I’ve embarrassed myself more times than they’ve even tried to talk to people. Another thing, a lot of… | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 07:14 AM |
| -5 | How many bodies are considered as high bodycount for you personally?Probably more than 3, but it depends on age. I don’t like the question though. I used to think you could get a sense of a girls body count after you got to know her. But after a lot of times hooking up I’ve realized that unless they’re literally a virgin or very inexperienced, you’ll never truly know. I’ve been with girls who had just broken up with their boyfriend only for them to get back together the next week, or gotten head in my car from random girls I met who I never saw again. Fingered g… | /r/seduction | 03/04/26 10:15 AM |
| 1 | How much does race matterCalifornia | /r/seduction | 24/02/26 08:05 AM |
| 1 | How much does race matterI’m Korean American and 28 so in my short life I went from my representation being Ken Jeong to Kpop stars and Korean actors so I think I can speak to this more than pretty much anyone. I think it really matters, especially for guys in the middle. Before I expand though, I think regardless your race, if you look good and have charm you’ll bag attractive women of all races. Pre-2015 when Asian meant nerdy guy with small dick, I’d still get attention from girls of all races but only when I was “pe… | /r/seduction | 31/01/26 07:06 AM |
| 5 | How much does a great body help in attracting females?Significant help for many reasons, not just how you look. Addtl. reasons include more respect from male peers and strangers (higher status), markers of discipline and being put together, higher self confidence, better fitting clothes, etc. | /r/seduction | 29/11/24 04:07 AM |
| 2 | The Secret Solution To 99% Of Your Dating ProblemsI don’t know the details of your life enough to confidently make suggestions on what to do, but if you’re truly not either fun/sexual or stable/disciplined then you’re playing the lotto trying to find a high quality partner. And even in the off chance you manage to get one, you’ll put her on a pedestal which wouldn’t be good for either of you. Ultimately your time is better spent developing your appearance, your career, your network, and having a broad and rich life. Beautiful women by your side… | /r/seduction | 29/06/24 09:27 PM |
| 9 | The Secret Solution To 99% Of Your Dating ProblemsPick one of the options and become them. The time you’d spend trying to get a girl at your current state is better spent developing yourself. | /r/seduction | 29/06/24 08:58 PM |
| 6 | I can easily make female friends but I don’t know how to get a girlfriend?Have a standard for how you want to be treated and when she crosses it then tell her what you expect and be willing to walk away if she doesn’t meet that standard. It’s that simple. Not some weird shit like saying “No” to simple requests or being rude or spouting off on your thoughts on abortion. Respectfully expressing that you have clear and firm boundaries says so much about your character and it’s extremely attractive. Don’t shy away from your sexuality, she’s most likely horny as fuck too. … | /r/seduction | 06/03/24 09:48 PM |
| 1 | average looking guys who have had success dating, what did you do?I massively improved my mindset, discipline, commitment, willingness to take on challenge and fear, communication skills, and ability to delay gratification and the women just started to appear. Didn’t even focus on them, just wanted to be a better man. And as I made progress on those fronts, one day romantic/sexual relationships with women, which was so hard before, suddenly became so easy and natural. Also as an extra, I don’t treat women I date like feminists. I’m the clear dominant one in re… | /r/seduction | 02/03/24 03:04 AM |
| 2 | HelpIs he reasonable and logical in other areas? If yes then ask him to explain why he listens to these podcasts/people you disagree with or dislike. Maybe they make valid points, maybe they don’t. Regardless of how you feel about it, clearly something they’re saying is resonating with him, assuming he’s a rational person. Once you’ve understood where he’s coming from that’s when you can start asking yourself questions. Does he have a point? Are your values incompatible? Are you wrong on some of you… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/09/22 09:55 AM |
| 2 | How to get laid: Have a normal easy going conversation about nice stuff then ask her if she wants to join you for a bottle of wine at your placetrue to a degree with OLD but in real life you can do decent if you have a good personality and you’re 5+, great if 7+ and amazing if 8+. Really not as hard as it’s made out to be and pretty much 99% of guys can become at least a 6 if they put in the work. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 06:05 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]It’s not that being nice is unattractive. It’s that a lot of guys cover up their weakness with an excuse that they were just “being nice”. And weakness is extremely unattractive. Are you able to stand your ground and defend your beliefs? Do you know what you value and are you pursuing it? What have you done in this past year that made you better than the you of last year? What haven’t you done that you could have? Personally, I feel like the whole idea of being dumped or rejected cause of being … | /r/seduction | 01/01/22 09:27 AM |
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