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| 1 | What should your tinder bio text look like when targeting one-night-stands?it's a fair call man, not all advice is sound. I have no tinder experience, so it already reduces my credibility. I would have appreciated a bit more reasoning behind the dismissal, but to each his own. I would practice honesty, but I am generally not that successful (i'm more of a quality>quantity guy, liking to find and develop relationships rather than going after girls im not really interested in) | /r/seduction | 28/10/18 06:48 AM |
| 2 | Today I saw how much a trained and muscular body can help to attract womenCan someone explain if something is wrong with high school girls beside their neediness and want for attention? Generally it's their immaturity, there's usually a bit of a spike between before HS and a few years after (20-22).I gather you live in Australia, where I have not really experienced this spike, so it may not be as relevant. In general I've found HS students to be just less mature in general, feels a bit bad to take them seriously. Obviously YMMV and if you're just ejaculating and evacu… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/18 06:47 AM |
| 3 | What should your tinder bio text look like when targeting one-night-stands?I'm no tinder pro (read:never actually used it) but I feel like "not looking for commitment" or "not looking to catch feelings" would work? | /r/seduction | 20/10/18 12:02 AM |
| 2 | Direct Game Vs. Indirect Game - Which Is Better?quality, never though about the whole sex/relationship thing. But then, how does one approach? I've been cold approaching a lot on campus (since I don't really meet attractive women otherwise) and it feels a bit bizarre, if not impossible, to try and get on a date with her... without setting the tone for a date/asking her out? What am I missing? It seems women read this really clearly (good), and decide fairly quickly whether or not they want to date me (good?), which seems convenient given that… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/18 01:46 PM |
| 2 | TRP journey and the struggles we faceWhat other way can I construct my own opinion on the matter than by testing and observing? I can read about this all I want, but it's always easier to accept the easy (negative) things and deny the hard parts, especially when the easy "truths" contradict the hard ones. The only way I see that I can solve my internal struggle is to see for myself, feel me? I'm not gonna dedicate my life to it though, that would be counterproductive (both to the goal itself and outside it). I appreciate the warnin… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/18 02:05 PM |
| 8 | Female blogger unknowingly confirms TRP principles to a tee.I think it might have more to do with mindset and financial situation than we would like to believe.As always life isn't black and white, as entertaining as it is to believe everything we read here as gospel (because it's empowering and provides some sort of explanation, both rational and emotional, for the world we feel alone against). I know that I, at age 20, certainly don't want a fucking kid. Shit, I can't even fucking consider having a kid without shuddering. All that extra financial and l… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/18 02:02 PM |
| 10 | TRP journey and the struggles we facethis is kinda what it feels like to me as a new-comer. Nothing here is "new" really, just a confirmation of things I didn't want to believe. I suppose it's all about accepting and learning to deal with these truths - tearing off the bandaid, instead of suffering slowly til the end as the weight of the world lays on your shoulders. The "red pill" really is the perfect name for this idea. You don't want to believe it. I certainly don't. But it just seems to be empirically true. I'm gonna start tal… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/18 01:48 PM |
| 17 | Raising a glass to a fallen brotherYou should see Australia, capital of importing foreigners. Little to no aussie identity left under all these colours for better or worse | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/18 10:59 PM |
| 0 | Men's Fashion - Basic Guide To Dressing Better!Alright.. I really don't mean to be rude, but I'm new here and I guess not socially calibrated enough. Are you trolling? The first thing you said felt like a meme but now I'm not sure. Does it really affect sleep? I generally sleep like shit (broken nose means I can't breathe through my nose.. getting surgery to fix it soon) and I sleep with socks cause it's cold. Does sleeping with socks really affect sleep? I guess i'll have to try it, I never even considered it to matter. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/18 04:08 AM |
| 1 | I lost my "cocky funny" personality...I dunno. I'm not really sure how I did it. A good therapist helps though. Shit, sometimes its just like that. A week later and I feel like shit right now, lonely and unwanted, but such is life, these things pass. | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 08:50 AM |
| 1 | Hooked up with a girl when should I text hernow. Count down 3 seconds in your head. By 1, you better have texted her. If you vibed together, she will be down to see you, stop wasting time and losing that vibe by fucking around. | /r/seduction | 03/08/18 11:25 AM |
| 6 | I lost my "cocky funny" personality...there's nothing wrong with not being cocky funny, sounds to me like you matured. Everyone grows up, making a fool of yourself is generally seen as a poor trait at the end of the day. Your efforts should be spent on acknowledging how you are now and accepting it (in my experience the quality girls like the quiet and reserved man anyway), and overcoming the depression. Depression should be your number one focus - remember, there's no shame in seeing someone if you can afford it, the mind is an org… | /r/seduction | 03/08/18 11:23 AM |
| 5 | If a girl don't use tongue while kissing does that mean she's just not interested?not using tongue isn't a sign of disinterest, some people just don't like using tongue (my ex didn't like it, but she was definitely into me). However, not talking much/awkwardness IS a bad sign, usually. Try to set up another date? | /r/seduction | 30/03/18 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Any advice to start finding a girlfriend if you have no friends to go out with?Nope! Impossible. What is possible is that you have the misfortune of learning slightly slower than others. It's not that big of a deal, it just means you will have to work slightly more than others. Think about highschool; There was four main types of people in the class: The genius kid, who always seemed to nail every test. Did not care at all about the test, somehow nailed it. The other genius kid, who always seemed to nail every test, but was always freaking out about it. Much more stressed … | /r/seduction | 12/01/18 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Any advice to start finding a girlfriend if you have no friends to go out with?Hmmm, you're probably right. Not everyone is built for the mental drag that failure creates. Unfortunately, as far as I can see, it is the only real way to progress. The way that I see it is that if you give up, then it's over. All the failures, all the struggles, all the work were for nothing - and you have locked yourself in a state of an eternal failure. I cannot see an alternative to trying - you either try, or you accept the greatest, most taxing failure. I suppose the healthier way would b… | /r/seduction | 12/01/18 02:00 AM |
| 1 | My STEM college is 13% female. Am I stuck bring single for the next 2 years?your STEM college is also filled with guys who are extremely autistic or nerdy and don't really talk to girls. I don't think the stats are that heavy against you if you are actively trying to find chicks, but it makes life harder (especially finding the cute ones). Not impossible, though. | /r/seduction | 12/01/18 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Any advice to start finding a girlfriend if you have no friends to go out with?No you aren't, you're just too afraid of improving. Improving takes failure. You're afraid of being "awkward". With strangers. People who you will likely never see again. People who will likely not remember the interaction at all, unless it was really weird, in which case you become an anonymous story that they will tell their friend which you do not know and will never meet, who will never tell this story to anyone because it is not extraordinary enough to be relevant past his/her friend's imme… | /r/seduction | 06/01/18 09:47 AM |
| 29 | How to deal with another guy hitting on my girl?I disagree, he would be a cuck if he stood for it. He makes it sound like he would just leave her if he discovered this, which is absolutely not cuck behavior; it is the exact opposite, which is not standing for a woman's shit. | /r/seduction | 23/12/17 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Thank you.Having chemistry with a girl makes everything so easy, such a blast. This is the 20% of girls that don't need to be "gamed" (in the "20% of girls cannot be seduced, 60% of girls need to be gamed and 20% of girls do not need to be gamed" analogy) and it makes for much stronger relationships IMO. Everything just happens naturally. Congrats, OP :) | /r/seduction | 10/12/17 09:41 AM |
| 1 | What percentage of your platonic friends are women?Close friends that I hang out regularly with now, due to moving countries? 50%. Close friends including those separated by distance? something more like 10-15% | /r/seduction | 10/12/17 09:36 AM |
| 1 | What kind of girls are most interested in you?most obvious advances I've seen have been from women i find unattractive. Either i'm way less attractive than I think, or it's just statistics in play (like a guy wants to be with an 8/9/10, a girl wants to be with one too, so they will try to be more obvious in their attempts). I'm guessing im just not experienced enough yet to pick up the more subtle nuances. N.B. most of my experience is in clubs (i don't go outside often and don't hit on girls in the gym) so its more or less entirely a visua… | /r/seduction | 09/12/17 09:29 AM |
| 2 | Girl In Classsounds like good flirting to me; it's all in your delivery. | /r/seduction | 07/12/17 03:15 AM |
| 2 | Feeling like I have less to offer because of the size of my penischances are she won't cum from your dick anyway, even if you had a nine inch megadick, get good at foreplay ;) | /r/seduction | 07/11/17 07:52 AM |
| 2 | Went to a busy club for the first time tonight. Had some guys but in front of me in the line. Felt like a chode. How do I make sure this doesn't happen again?Go out with big friends and intimidate them more than they intimidate you, or go lift, get big and push them out of the away next time.. prepare for a fight... Or just accept that some people are massive insecure faggots and let them be dickheads and spend 3 minutes less in line. Bonus points if you turn to a cute girl next to you and tell her something along the lines of "get a load of these kids..." in plane sight of them. They call you out for it, laugh them off, they try to fight you, they g… | /r/seduction | 04/11/17 08:54 AM |
| 2 | What to do after kissing a girl you just met? (drunk)do you like kissing her? keep kissing her. Chances are she likes it too. Just keep slowly escalating, build up the tension. Get more.. intense with your kisses. Tease her by going in for a kiss then pulling back (most girls, especially average ones, wont expect this level of restraint from a guy and it will throw them off and intrigue them), kiss her neck, hold her close so she grinds against you (against your dick, most importantly). Gently pull her hair (pull from the base of her hair at the b… | /r/seduction | 04/11/17 02:12 AM |
| 3 | TIFU by being an attractive guyI would tell her boyfriend whats going on, this chick is fucking insane. Like, this can't be real. Surely you're trolling? :/ This is turbo-thottery. Look how fucking quickly she spun the story into you sexually assaulting her the second she was put into an uncomfortable situation. Unreal. I mean, it's on you for initially hooking up with her knowing she has a boyfriend (can't condone this) and not seeing the immediate red flag of associating with someone who would do stuff like this, but what t… | /r/seduction | 03/11/17 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Do you notice a decline in your game when you're tired vs when you're not?100% the case, when I'm tired i become almost entirely socially inept. Almost zombie like. When I'm awake this is still the case, but slightly less so ;) Also definitely agree on the neediness part. I'm generally not needy or outcome dependant when i'm awake - i'll hit on girls just for the sport of it - but when I'm tired I feel like i just want to fall asleep next to someone, which totally fucks my game because I become more stressed about outcome and have less fun with the interaction. TLDR s… | /r/seduction | 03/11/17 04:48 AM |
| 8 | Ya know, hearing women talk about guys makes it really hard for me to trychicks dig black guys. But an artsy black guy? who also goes to university? (read: isn't in a trap) I think you're feeding your own insecurities here, mate. If anything, girls would find the fact that you think you are unattractive to be unattractive, not your color, height, or hobbies (chicks eat artsy shit up like its fucking chocolate). Shit reads like a book. Also, if you think chicks aren't liking you because you're not ripped (also most likely not true) then hit the gym. A few hours a week… | /r/seduction | 31/10/17 10:02 AM |
| 3 | How's your love life atm?Same situation. Almost 13 months now. Only lately have really considered finding a new girl, even though I told myself i would for months now. It's an odd spot - I kinda want to meet new girls and set up a new relationship... but not really enough to actually go out of my way to meet girls, and my social circle is super limited right now. Zero drive. Just gotta focus on my studies i guess | /r/seduction | 20/10/17 03:31 PM |
| 2 | My major is fucking me uphow do you define a bad reaction? can you give any examples? | /r/seduction | 03/10/17 01:45 PM |
| 5 | This Way Of Walking Makes You Look Twice As Attractive - "Men who walk with swagger in their shoulders more than doubled the perception of their attractiveness. Swagger involves dipping the shoulders slightly with each step to create a rolling motion."if you're post-victory celebration isn't this lit don't even talk to me, bro. that was awesome | /r/seduction | 22/09/17 02:33 PM |
| 1 | (Super long) 19 YO virgin needs help getting laid.Just gotta be careful if you're "shitting where you eat", like hitting on girls in a class or whatever. I thought I'd hit on a girl I wasn't attracted to just to test my skill, and it backfired, because I actually did really well and can sense an obvious attraction. But I'm not sure I wanna pursue anything related to a relationship. Now i just feel like an asshole for leading her on. I reckon it's better to just force yourself to fail with hotter chicks the hard way, cause if it works it will gi… | /r/seduction | 16/09/17 06:26 AM |
| 2 | Club kissing. I have lost all the power. Does it just happen?Do girls just want the kiss to happen? Go and find out. If they push you away, say no, or are unreceptive, then no, they don't. If they DO, you get to kiss a girl. Do it for science | /r/seduction | 16/09/17 06:15 AM |
| 1 | (Super long) 19 YO virgin needs help getting laid.I could never get this mentality... always feels like the opposite of abundance mentality. Why not just focus on trying and failing until you score with a girl you're actually attracted to? Shit, if you succeed once in 400 times, you only need to hit up 400 girls to get with a cute chick... | /r/seduction | 12/09/17 03:12 PM |
| 7 | Making women feel good at their worstThis is gonna sound super sexist, and to a great extent it is - but I promise it's not based on any form of derogatory intent. It's just how women and men, on average, think; Men tend to be more logical, and more inclined towards logical problem solving, whereas women tend to be more emotional and more inclined towards creative thinking and "emotional" solutions. It's basically how we tackle problems - a guy wants to try and fix it, even if that process is painful and difficult and potentially u… | /r/seduction | 12/09/17 03:01 PM |
| 2 | Give me some harsh but solid advice on what I need to get started.there is an age limit: death. Until you die, you are not too old. Fuck the nay-sayers. The best time to plant a tree was five years ago. The second best time is today. P.S. the only reason death is the age limit is because at that stage it's probably gonna be a bit hard to work on your life.... ;) | /r/seduction | 07/09/17 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Advice for having other guys interrupting a set and completely taking controlNot true. I'm a fit guy and I actually get people trying to start fights with me or move me away, even when I'm hanging out with female friends who I actually know (in clubs). If anything, it makes it even more complicated, since some guys will see you as a direct challenge. | /r/seduction | 07/09/17 02:24 PM |
| 2 | Interesting women that you meet which have boyfriendsno, since it implies that she'd do the same to you in the first given opportunity - and there will ALWAYS eventually be someone more attractive than you. If they naturally broke up and then you swooped in, no problem i guess, but be aware you might be a rebound (IMO a rebound will never be a full relationship, but thats just gut feeling). | /r/seduction | 01/09/17 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Are you ever intimidated by a woman?I reckon it's just biological hard-coding. Respect your elders sorta thing. Gotta work out of it. | /r/seduction | 12/08/17 10:50 AM |
| 1 | College Sex | Gaining Experiencebruh, remember, if you have a body count of 1, you are already miles ahead the engineering students. For real though. I personally don't think that there is a right or wrong - you don't need to have one night stands to be living life in college, i think having a girl you can go home to is equally as rewarding (if not more so). If you like the girl, don't break contact just to get with more girls. That's a mistake you see regretted a lot. | /r/seduction | 12/08/17 10:49 AM |
| 14 | Are you ever intimidated by a woman?if she acts way more maturely than I do (you know how some people just come off as "older", even though they aren't necessarily that much older) I find it much harder to exude confidence and or pursue something intimate with her. Something I need to work on, IMO. No real idea why it happens. Just feels like i patronize myself by being around them. I guess because I'm still young (19) and childish I see older behavior as more authoritative and thus pull back. | /r/seduction | 06/08/17 03:44 PM |
| 0 | To Use Emojis or to Not Use Emojis? It is the question.Depends on how you wanna come off, IMO. For serious talks? no emojis. Everything else? use at will... it's not just a "young" thing any more, i've had mature adults use emojis when talking over text with me (granted, at 19 y/o im just a kid so that could be that).. Emojis are a very powerful tool to convey emotion and flirtiness. Also, I think chicks who prominently use emoji's will notice when you slide an emoji in and ask themselves why you were using them if you don't usually use them.. proba… | /r/seduction | 06/08/17 03:42 PM |
| 3 | I'm a girl, and I'm back for more advice: Why do guys say they want a second date and then don't text?as someone who made out with a girl on the first date yesterday and hasnt texted since... am tryna figure out a good thing to do for the second date. | /r/seduction | 08/03/16 06:18 PM |
| 1 | A Quick Tip for Datingwhy? thats a super interesting subject to talk about. You can use it to tease (as you can "read her thoughts ;)") You can use it to form an intellectual discussion, as its a deep and intelligent subject and it makes you sound interested in people, and in listening to people. there's literally tons of things you can do with that. | /r/seduction | 05/03/16 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Lets make a list of different kinds of pua? I'll start, the "I was actually good in the past, I just haven't practiced" dudethe "focusing on self improvement" dude. need to unfuck myself before i can fuck girls | /r/seduction | 22/02/16 04:32 PM |
| 6 | The 10 Biggest Myths About Attracting WomenHi dudes... I hear the idea of "being a jerk" thrown a lot here lately, and was wondering; what the hell does this even mean? If a girl (who you are trying to game) asks you for a favor that you have no problem completing (say, a lift somewhere... via car obviously...) should you still decline, just out of "not putting up with shit"? Obviously, if a girl gives you shit you give her shit back. I'm just wondering, if a girl needs an honest favor that you dont mind fulfilling, is it still you comin… | /r/seduction | 09/01/16 01:00 AM |
| 1 | 18 and a virgin, I need some advicei'm no PU pro, but this is definitely the mindset you should NOT have. Never be that desperate. there will always be enough poon out there. | /r/seduction | 22/09/15 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Building Up A Sexual Vibe- the key to getting places (and by places I mean in her pants)does it matter that much if you're actually 16 tho? serious predicament over here... like i've found that I typically feel more "alpha" after like 3 days of not masturbating but cmon how long can I possibly hold it, especially if i'm not getting any v | /r/seduction | 04/03/15 07:23 PM |
| 1 | How to get a guy/girl to ask you outthanks for taking the time to write such an in depth answer. Really appreciate it, and will take this advice to heart.. cheers! | /r/seduction | 14/02/15 04:07 PM |
| 1 | How to get a guy/girl to ask you outYou mention doing favors for people and expecting something in return as a negative trait. Whilst I agree with you on the "expecting something back" part, is it always a bad thing to do favors? I mean, I tend to be generous. "Shit, my shirts all dirty, i need a school shirt" (where I live, school uniform is usually just a shirt with the schools symbol on it)? NP, you can borrow my spare (I always bring one, just in case somethings happens to my first shirt. weighs like nothing, fits nicely into … | /r/seduction | 12/02/15 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Feel a bit lost/switching from beta+alpha mindsets.porn is an apathy powerhouse? care to elaborate? im 17, should i be worried? stop watching porn? :/ | /r/seduction | 06/10/14 08:12 PM |
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