DicklessforDuarte Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	RPW Hypocrisy		DicklessforDuarte	/r/RedPillWomen	11/11/17 03:44 AM

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0	RPW Hypocrisy Did you read the part about the majority of responses being positive?, i read the whole exchange, that's part of the positive messages. You don't get to pick what is helpful and what isn't, i didn't make this post to be helpful to you specifically, i made this for me and people like me, i enjoy complains because they push me in the right direction, so i made exactly that.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/11/17 05:33 AM
0	RPW Hypocrisy Not an accurate evaluation? Do you have any data to support your claims?. This post was on the positives, so it must have resonated with someone. You could have asked for clarification, instead of removing my post. This is not how you deal with a community, good luck trying to make this shitty subreddit of wanna be submissives be relevant.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/11/17 05:23 AM
-1	RPW Hypocrisy It's not all of rpw, of course, although that thread isn't the best example since most people agree cheaters are the problem, i would lose all hope if that wasn't the answer. Counterexample, since you seem to think individual posts are proof of something, look at the replies: realize these episodes are going to be recurring parts of your lifw together. Do you really want to sign on to that? Ask yourself if this is something that you are willing to deal with indefinitely, or at least as long as…	/r/RedPillWomen	11/11/17 05:13 AM
1	Balance between being a hot commodity and being loyal Oh my, that makes sense. But wait, then whats bothering me if its not him talking to me less?. What would be the proper way to say the same thing but not sound demanding?.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/10/17 06:56 PM
1	Balance between being a hot commodity and being loyal But he knows, i told him a couple of times that i wanted him to talk more, like he used to. His answer is that he's like that, and the start was the anomaly. Also, he does this with everything, he changes hobbies all the time and gets really really excited at first, a month later they don't exist. He's very strict with his job though, so he can stay in one place if it's worth it, i guess. Im still around, so i try to think about that, but everytime that he changes hobbies it makes me feel more a…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/10/17 08:06 AM
1	Balance between being a hot commodity and being loyal Oh man, what the heck? are you talking to your ex with this?. I'm very feminine, i have 0 confidence, im very thin, i make exercises, i clean the house and cook, i take care of my image (im trying to fit it a little bit to what he wants, but i was already kind of his type). I wasn't talking about having fights, i was talking about kindly bringing out each other issues and solving them in a nice manner. Im very kind, and sweet and caring, i have hot cakes ready to bake at any hour of the day, and…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/10/17 07:23 AM
1	Balance between being a hot commodity and being loyal but your writing style is odd and has put people off I think Yes, sorry, i try to be direct and fail miserably most of the time. The best thing you can do if you want to keep him keen is to know what it is that your partner values in you and play that up 100%. Dread will not work on a man in the same way it works on a woman. Thank you, i think this answers my question. Although it's harder to do since people don't always know what they want so they might give you fake clues about what they actua…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/10/17 04:06 AM
1	Balance between being a hot commodity and being loyal My interpretation of "tolerate" is for something you dislike and don't accept. Could be, i think that tolerance is something that you might not specifically like but you can still endure. And, like you said, there are things that you have to compensate for, if there where no actual dislikable things then there wouldn't be a reason to compensate. he's taking you for granted I wasn't talking that much about my current relationship. He's still making efforts. It's just that i might be a little bit …	/r/RedPillWomen	29/10/17 03:42 AM
1	Balance between being a hot commodity and being loyal What do you mean?. Maybe i'm using the wrong word. Im not talking about appearing as though you aren't loyal. The issue is managing to look loyal, but still appear valuable. I know that loyalty is something valuable, so it seems to be contradictory. But aren't men attracted to challenges? at what point loyalty doesn't look like boringness?. It's really easy to balance things while you are on the flirting state, but once you are already settled what do you do? what is the challenge if the result …	/r/RedPillWomen	29/10/17 03:17 AM
1	Balance between being a hot commodity and being loyal Nobody is obligated to tolerate something you (general "you") know is an issue Are we assuming that every successful relationship involves two people with no problems whatsoever?. It's safe to assume that every person has some sort of problem they have to deal with until they die, and that includes the time where they are in a relationship. Also some issues don't even have to be issues for you. Should i expect my partner to nor make so much noise while chewing food because that's something that …	/r/RedPillWomen	29/10/17 03:02 AM
1	How do i deal with being inferior? He increased it a lot at first, now it's slightly worsening, but he didn't do anything in particular, it's just me being away for family reasons and feeling bad because we can't talk. That is kinda true, when i started talking with him i was very aware of my value and was very clear about my demands, i tested every word and asked questions constantly. But now that i like him it's harder for me to ask things or demand things. It's always like this. The only relationships in which i don't turn int…	/r/RedPillWomen	14/10/17 05:31 PM
1	How do i deal with being inferior? Oh, i searched for older people, last one i talked for a couple months was 37, great guy but i shared a lot more things with this one. Sorry if i sound low, i haven't slept and we had this conversation 3 hours ago, so im still puzzled about it. I really like this one, and i really want to make things work because thats the whole point of wanting a serious relationship, i deal with your shit and you deal with mine, no way out. I think that wanting a poly thing is a very young person thing to do (…	/r/RedPillWomen	14/10/17 04:13 PM
1	How do i deal with being inferior? But i am mediocre, im not particulary young, im atractive but not something you cant get in a billion more people(im quite thin, i guess thats a plus), im good enough at conversations but im no phd in anything, i dont have any interesting hobbies. Im good, that's it. We have been monogamous, but he did talked a lot about his previous 10 year poly relationship. I remember me trying to make him admit that it was clear that he was interested in a similar deal, but he said that because i was so meek…	/r/RedPillWomen	14/10/17 03:36 PM
1	How do i deal with being inferior? I have really low self esteem since i can remember, its not this guys fault. Now it makes more sense, bur since i turned 18 i felt old and useless to anybody except a partner. I still look very young but saying 27 years and looking for a traditional role feels wrong, like im trying to con some man into taking care of me now that im dying. Truth is i really wanted to be that in my previous relationship, he ended it, and now i think im asking too much.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/10/17 03:22 PM
1	How do i deal with being inferior? He is, very stressed, he went from being a manager to the ceo in training, so he has quite a lot of extra responsability. And i like that, i like industrious people, problem is we are in different countries right now, im going back to the house in november so i can keep doing my work. But is it posible to try to be a traditional housewife if once in a while this third lady is going to appear in the house and try to change it?. We are not having kids, so no need to worry about them.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/10/17 03:09 PM
1	How do i deal with being inferior? I like him, i ended up talking about it and he wants another poly relationship, he still open minded about changing his opinion, but i dont think i can, to him this is the normal thing to do. This is hard for me to concede because i respected him very much, thats why i am a doormat for him, but i can't respect polyamorist, never met a couple who wasn't in denial or borderline mentally ill. So im in this loop where i respect him so i want to submit, but if i submit i won't respect him.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/10/17 02:57 PM
1	How do i deal with being inferior? Oh no, nono, he didn't say i was inferior, he said i was great multiple times, but there was a clear change in behavior after the promotion wich i assume have to do with him feeling he have other options now. I'm the one that feels inferior. I had an open relationship before and it ended just as expected, so i don't feel good about it. It's not open yet, but he talked about that being a problem for him since he never had a closed one, he had a 10 year old poly relationship prior, and though he d…	/r/RedPillWomen	14/10/17 08:42 AM
1	Simple Questions If a submissive initiate sex once every three times, then she isn't a real submissive. Also initiating sex has nothing to do with using it as a weapon, it's extremely difficult to demand/ask for sex as a submissive, the only thing you can do is make it clear that you are up for it anytime, that's all. Having to initiate sex with a dominant person feels unnatural and it's not sexy.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/10/17 08:12 AM
1	How do i deal with being inferior? But he's right in taking me for granted, that's part of the problem. I can't negotiate if he knows i won't leave. He still says nice things to me, and talks about wanting a long term relationship, but i think that his way of compensating is putting less effort.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/10/17 07:39 AM
2	There Are More Traditional Men Than Women Now, I Think! I live in Argentina, the percentage of traditional men here is almost 0. There are a lot of anti-feminists who complain about liberal women, but they don't offer anything different either, merely suggest that you want to be a housewife and they look at you like you are a caveman or a leach. One friend stopped talking to me just because i said that i low-key agreed with this subreddit. Don't want to know what he would have done if he knew my real views.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/09/17 06:06 AM