| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 66 | How do I gain abundance and deal with feelings properly instead of using abundance to run from them | DidYouUseAJimmy | /r/askTRP | 18/08/20 02:16 PM | |
| 17 | Tomorrow is my 21st birthday and I’m filled with depression about it. | DidYouUseAJimmy | /r/askTRP | 23/10/20 07:25 PM | |
| 7 | How often is too often to see a plate | DidYouUseAJimmy | /r/askTRP | 17/09/20 07:57 PM | |
| 6 | How to get over oneitis of girl I left? | DidYouUseAJimmy | /r/askTRP | 30/06/20 05:31 PM | |
| 6 | Plate said she can’t have sex, told her not to come over, now she’s saying I hurt her feelings | DidYouUseAJimmy | /r/askTRP | 21/10/20 02:23 AM | |
| 6 | How many of you are lucky enough to have a community member as a irl friend | DidYouUseAJimmy | /r/askTRP | 10/09/20 04:10 AM | |
| 3 | A friend of a plate/fwb I’ve been seeing disrespected me, would demoting/breaking off be to harsh? | DidYouUseAJimmy | /r/askTRP | 09/10/20 03:50 PM | |
| 1 | Is there any books/forums/help with women unplugging | DidYouUseAJimmy | /r/askTRP | 10/09/20 03:53 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 0 | How do you respond to "small dick" insults?Holy fuck this is the saddest thread I’ve seen on this sub. Dude you actually give enough of a fuck to A: have hurt feelings, B: come make a post about it? Also if you’re advocating for something because you feel it’s marginalized/degraded and you get upset because someone marginalized/degraded you, it’s probably time to hang up the advocacy, you don’t have the mental toughness to bring lasting change. You literally got the response that drove you to feel you needed to tweet stuff like that, and… | /r/MensRights | 09/08/24 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Request for books involving fitnessGreat response, wanted to add that everyone has a wake the fuck up moment where they stay consistent, that will carry you maybe a year or two. What really changes things is when you see the results, and your own satisfaction and the purpose of lifting becomes your why. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/24 01:35 PM |
| 2 | TRP Songs/Playlist?I used to haze to girls just wanna have fun, man I feel like a woman, and big girls don’t cry. Not sure the relevancy to the post, but not sure the post relevancy to the sub. Anyway real answer whatever you lift to and whatever you fuck to, any other playlist is a dopamine hit | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/24 12:58 AM |
| 33 | Some of this is gonna be bullshit depending on what you want out of lifeHey man, 23 here as well, found RP at 20. First I agree with everything about being your best self and all that. Applying that to my life in the past 3 years has significantly improved my life. As for the parts you don’t agree with, I’ve felt very similar recently and I came to a different conclusion. You come first, you vet women hard, and you do what makes you happy. If it’s to have casual sex, fine. If it’s to find a meaningful LTR, date to find a girl who deserves to be with you, and makes y… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/22 01:38 AM |
| 1 | What is the male equivalent of chocolates and flowers.A small item, like a 6 pack, a video game, etc. you know your man better then Reddit, and then when you give it to him, give him the best blowjob you can. Most importantly, allow him time after to enjoy said gift (especially a video game/movie/a nice cigar) | /r/MensRights | 04/09/21 05:44 PM |
| 7 | Ignored by every girl, ever, on every platform, and in real life. It's making me depressed.Good luck fucking a hot 20 something without having an iPhone. I know it sounds stupid but green texts lower SMV. Also think about how much you want to feel noticed, that’s what happens when you don’t notice women. And they will seek you to noticed them instead | /r/askTRP | 08/05/21 07:48 PM |
| 2 | What to watch by Patrice o'nealThe black Phillip show, elephant in the room special | /r/askTRP | 06/05/21 02:15 PM |
| 6 | Once you see your LTR has been texting her ex is the relationship fucked?Honestly I’m gonna say it depends on tone I’m 21 and me and my LTR both have exes involved in Greek life/party scene at our school. There are overlapping friends and you will see them at social occasions/campus bars and that’s life. Now you know she’s texting him, so you know what the texts said. You said it’s about a mutual friends party, so here’s my advice. “Hey Ik so-and-so’s party is coming up and we will both be there, if you’re gonna be there let’s just agree to be civil and not make it a… | /r/askTRP | 03/05/21 11:14 PM |
| 3 | Called incel for advocating men's rightsNot a social issue but a biological one This is a true and good point however in the culture that toxic feminism grows in, acknowledging the differences between men and women biologically is sexist and degrading. | /r/MensRights | 29/04/21 01:25 PM |
| 18 | I Had Lunch with the Chad I Hated TodayVideo games are to be enjoyed, not a life accomplishment, low mmr ftw | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/20 07:48 PM |
| 126 | I Had Lunch with the Chad I Hated TodayPlaying Dota is chad behavior, don’t let anyone tell you different | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/20 05:10 PM |
| 13 | Ex LTR slid back in my DM's after we split and moved out 4 months ago, how to navigate the situation?Dude take this with a grain of salt, but I’m gonna give you some advice based on the perspective of my experience. I’m 21, had one LTR, first love, all that. Still see her from time to time, we go to the same college. Here’s why I’d personally say never speak to her again. In my LTR I made a mistake as a young man and dropped acid on a total whim. I wasn’t in the right headspace and it fucked me up, debilitating anxiety attacks, had to start therapy, was a messy few months. I was acting like a b… | /r/askTRP | 13/11/20 01:57 PM |
| 3 | Where to meet women besides online dating and bars?This is it | /r/askTRP | 07/11/20 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Tomorrow is my 21st birthday and I’m filled with depression about it.I get my vitamin d and I read a lot of self improvement/life skill books | /r/askTRP | 24/10/20 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Tomorrow is my 21st birthday and I’m filled with depression about it.I’m still in college so I can’t, I plan to after, I want to go see the world before I start working. I’m a jr and go to a big city school so I’ll be/am able to meet new people | /r/askTRP | 23/10/20 10:54 PM |
| 2 | Tomorrow is my 21st birthday and I’m filled with depression about it.Sorry I’ve been doing shit but I see a therapist for everyone saying that, and I’m made a lot of progress without meds, don’t want anti depressants. I just came here as a place to get it off my chest/get more red pilled advice, seeing as I already have advice on feelings like this from a therapist. I meditate, lift, I’ve read the sidebar twice, as well as other books. do decent with girls, learning to totally cold approach. Have life goals ranging from 3 months to by 30. I really just saw this a… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/20 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Tomorrow is my 21st birthday and I’m filled with depression about it.I’m lifting 3-5 days a week, did this morning, decent diet, ok sleep, probably my worst point but still 6-7 hours, could use an hour more. Im doing pretty good in school. It really just bubbled up. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/20 07:56 PM |
| 3 | Plate said she can’t have sex, told her not to come over, now she’s saying I hurt her feelingsMe, wasn’t my question | /r/askTRP | 21/10/20 01:30 PM |
| 3 | When a chick wants to get "railed", does that require a large appendage?Dude it sounds like you’re insecure about the size of your penis, and therefore performance. Don’t worry about getting a peep out of girls, or pleasing them, at least for now. For now do what you want to do to a girl and live out your fantasies. You got what you got, have fun with it and get the sex you want, and girls will probably like it more than timid you trying to figure out exactly how to please a girl | /r/askTRP | 13/10/20 03:59 PM |
| 1 | A friend of a plate/fwb I’ve been seeing disrespected me, would demoting/breaking off be to harsh?Yeah, I think keeping our interactions to my place one on one is definitely the direction im gonna take it, she did nothing wrong but her friends don’t improve my life | /r/askTRP | 09/10/20 09:59 PM |
| 2 | A friend of a plate/fwb I’ve been seeing disrespected me, would demoting/breaking off be to harsh?I agree except I’ve pretty much decided to only see her one on one at my place, | /r/askTRP | 09/10/20 09:45 PM |
| 1 | A friend of a plate/fwb I’ve been seeing disrespected me, would demoting/breaking off be to harsh?The friend is a girl and like her best friend, IMO it’s her fault bc of the company she keeps | /r/askTRP | 09/10/20 09:43 PM |
| 2 | A friend of a plate/fwb I’ve been seeing disrespected me, would demoting/breaking off be to harsh?Plate is just a chick you fuck, a fwb you do social things with, like parties, mixing social circles, at least in my opinion | /r/askTRP | 09/10/20 08:59 PM |
| 2 | How often is too often to see a plateYeah that’s kinda how I feel, still kinda new to trp and unplugging but honestly I don’t like lying to people in general, never promise commitment, and would rather a plate break bc I told her how it is. I was just more questioning if I’m at risk of her burning out to quickly because of getting too invested and being disappointed | /r/askTRP | 17/09/20 11:09 PM |
| 1 | How often is too often to see a plateI’m just more “worried” about burning the plate out and having it break prematurely. If she cooks as good as she says it will definitely add value, just I don’t have class or work today and I have a few hours to fill, so some sex and food sounds like a good way to fill it | /r/askTRP | 17/09/20 08:29 PM |
| 2 | How often is too often to see a plateI’m not doing it out of loneliness, I would just invite another plate to fill the gap of time I have but I don’t have any rn | /r/askTRP | 17/09/20 08:26 PM |
| 0 | How often is too often to see a plateThat’s what I’m “afraid” of, don’t care that it breaks but she’s cool and the longer it spins the better | /r/askTRP | 17/09/20 08:25 PM |
| 3 | Girl at workI’d say this is a grey area around “don’t shit where you eat.” Can you get fired for bothering the guests? Her dad doesn’t like it and reports you and now you don’t have a job because you wanted to approach 1/3.5 billion girls. If not, just try to help them with something to be nice and have an excuse to approach, complement her on something to turn the convo from her family to directly at her, and than ask. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/20 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Is there any books/forums/help with women unpluggingShe sees someone and is dealing with it, however has trouble with friends and dealing with social settings. I’m currently in the middle of no more mr nice guy after the sidebar and the rational male. I care about here a lot and want to know if there’s anything like that for her bc in geniuay worried | /r/askTRP | 10/09/20 04:16 AM |
| 4 | Should i just give 0 fucks and shoot my shotI would say instead of inviting her over after you get drunk, just invite her to drink | /r/askTRP | 03/09/20 08:15 PM |
| 1 | How do I gain abundance and deal with feelings properly instead of using abundance to run from themCmon bro give me some credit, she was a geed | /r/askTRP | 18/08/20 11:47 PM |
| 2 | How do I gain abundance and deal with feelings properly instead of using abundance to run from themI don’t drink a ton but I’m 6 foot 185 and have a 6 pack, I’m lifting the most I ever have, I just wanna keep at it and getting dumped never helps | /r/askTRP | 18/08/20 07:58 PM |
| 2 | How do I gain abundance and deal with feelings properly instead of using abundance to run from themEither one better to read first? | /r/askTRP | 18/08/20 02:37 PM |
| 10 | Almost lost virginity at 16I’m 20 and smoke from 16-19. Wait dude. Weed will always be there, development won’t | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/20 04:04 AM |
| 3 | My therapist tells me to bang chicks no matter what.Bro I just saw my therapist tonight, you gotta get a new one, especially if you have explained why you put up the barrier of not shitting where you eat. They are paid to help you with what you want help with, within the boundaries you set, not tell you what to do. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 02:01 AM |
| 5 | Tinder - Date or come over ?I say “let’s grab a drink sometime” and get the number. Then text her some rapport builder and then ask/get her to tell you when she’s free. Then offer to go somewhere for drinks or offer to have margaritas and a movie at your place (or whatever you drink) and let her decide. She will pick what she wants and it really won’t set you up for failure bc she’s interested and you made what you want known, but still gave the option to go on a date if she is more comfortable. Also helpful currently in U… | /r/askTRP | 06/07/20 02:15 PM |
| 3 | What do you guys do in a mental funk?Man this is a hard one, family and money mix like oil and water. But they are doing you a disservice by riding off their son. Maybe letting them lose everything will be a wake up call. Maybe not. But you gotta do you first and it sounds like you wanna move out, and can definitely afford to. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/20 02:15 PM |
| 6 | Things people do which makes them unattractiveCigarette smoking, and girls that get drunker than me when I invite them somewhere. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/20 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Do y’all wear cologne?Buy a nice one, put a nice sized squirt on your upper chest lower neck area, and your good, use a nicely complementing deodorant and you will smell great. I use Versace le homme and old spice deodorant, my last ltr was crazy about it. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/20 03:46 AM |
| 7 | What do you think is the best use for money (lets say £5000) in your 20s?As a college student, I think 5k is pretty valuable | /r/askTRP | 09/05/20 09:46 PM |
| 5 | What do you think is the best use for money (lets say £5000) in your 20s?I’m gonna make an assumption and if I’m wrong I apologize The fact that you put the trip first means this is what you ultimately want, but you also deep down know it’s not the smartest financial move. Now you must weigh the value of the experience to you against the possible financial outcomes of the other 2 options. Reddit can’t tell you what to do, imo all raise smv and are working on yourself, and all can be done in 1-5 years after the others have been accomplished, so figure out what you wan… | /r/askTRP | 09/05/20 05:55 PM |
| 4 | Anyone else always beta out of relationships intentionally?Do you beta your way into them? | /r/askTRP | 03/05/20 05:47 AM |
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