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Definitely feel like it's good for those without much of a social circle
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 12:19 AM
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Yeah I feel like sharing your emotional experience of the world is very humanizing and good. But there is a dynamic of survival and competition in the world that's outside of socially acceptable discourse. And that's the gray area where people tend to not step in and comment as much. I think the best thing to do is be aware of this base level of existence, and know why people seem weary to comment on it, but to also not be afraid to share your emotional experience of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 11:58 PM
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Yeah after getting good at sealing the deal got to comfort to prevent buyer's remorse... reinforce that it was a good decision from the pov of her mating strategy... i.e. locking down a winner in a relationship.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/20 01:49 AM
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Very good point about going all out in different hobbies and activities. I've always kept one foot in one foot out / not buy all the necessary equipment or whatever and don't make an effort to connect with people.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/19 08:16 PM
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Get a NutriBullet. Mix kale, carrot, and a fruit. The fruit makes it sweet while still giving you a metric f$$$ ton of Vitamin K. This is what you need for good skin and hair. You don't get it from a diet of meat, soda cheetos etc.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/19 03:53 AM
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I think TRP definitely forces you to clean up your life to the point that you're not hemorrhaging negative emotions as a result of your life choices... a major, major benefit when no one else in the world is really holding you accountable for that. But assuming you've come to grips with that and don't have crippling depression anymore vulnerability is a key to bonding... if you don't do that in healthy moderation you won't have a strong bond with your woman... then you'll kind of have an imbalan…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/19 01:26 AM
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Yeah attraction is very much an uncomfortable thing. You almost want to make the girl feel comfortable with you immediately if you ARE attractive, because girls are often total basket cases after you get to know them
/r/TheRedPill26/08/19 01:11 AM
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Yeah I try to broach the topic by bringing up whether guys or girls can be friends before it causes an issue and hearing what they say... I mention how in my experience one was either in love or wanted to fuck the other one. They should agree to that. Then you can bring this up later if the situation comes up
/r/TheRedPill26/08/19 12:48 AM
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Get the Sex God Method by Daniel Rose immediately and treat it like every word is absolutely true and applies. Almost memorize it and resolve to apply it.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 12:48 AM
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I did spend fifteen minutes coming up with the definition on the way to a show, and I presented it after too much coffee in a sperg-like way, and used very incendiary examples on very explosive topics to illustrate my point. Definitely regretting venturing into this territory though since people are reacting as if I'm advocating bullying when I specified that if the transaction or exchange is taken seriously the bit most definitely will fall flat, meaning (to my very wry amusement) that I'm in t…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 05:11 PM
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People groan at why did the chicken cross the road.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 02:14 AM
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Edited to try to address that
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 02:12 AM
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Go ahead and post on how to be funny then for people who don't know how. Just trying to help here
/r/TheRedPill26/08/18 11:36 PM
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More like how to miss your target audience 101 but fair enough.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/18 10:51 PM
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When did I say you need to be funny?
/r/TheRedPill26/08/18 10:41 PM
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Yes, timing is everything. It has to be quick. I think of it like riding the crest of a wave. The more on the crest you are the better the impact. Once the wave passes there's no more energy to it. It is somewhat of mysterious, but intuitive process almost like playing music. Glad you found it helpful.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/18 10:38 PM
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Edited to clarify I just wanted a very quick, functional definition to help guys who have had trouble being funny
/r/TheRedPill26/08/18 10:20 PM
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Let's take Sam Kinison's bit about if Jesus had a wife. Is it funny because it's unexpected or because he's portraying a cherished figure as behaving far 'lower' or more regular than he's usually portrayed? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S4rbobz9Ylo Here's one from r/ jokes short enough to share. Why do North Koreans draw lines so well? They have a Supreme Ruler. Is that funny just because it's unexpected or also because supreme rulers are usually venerated by their people? I'm a little perplex…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/18 10:15 PM
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He's just the first famous comedian I thought of when I wanted to test the theory.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/18 09:29 PM
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I read somewhere acne was FAR less common in third world countries without the Western Diet. Now I'd be willing to bet that anyone who juices with spinach or kale (shitload of vitamin K) and some nuts, as well as getting their Omegas with chia seeds or something will NOT have acne. Natural diets just don't create acne. Your skin is your largest organ and reflects your health, and you are what you eat. I'm very curious if people do have a blender full of greens if they still suffer from acne. Let…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/18 04:11 PM
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It gets better. I had a One-itis who I was in physical pain for six months every day after I stopped contacting. Now I look back at her decisions and agree the old me was a clueless pussy and wouldn't want to be with him either. When you're "on top" so to speak of of the game because you put in the work and choose to see reality as it is eventually it comes into alignment and you feel like you deserve it, because most other people are just not able to do that. It might be a radical shift on the …
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 01:35 AM
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People should not bond in death cults. Sacrificing chickens and cows and committing suicide to repair wrongdoing is not moral. Setting science back hundreds of years to do so has killed countless people. What's the alternative? Probably technologically inspired meetups like this one, where we can communicate with individuals who think like us (whether or not that's too homogeneous for hormesis to occur) and having the 85% percent of people whose libidinal energy is sublimated toward parental abs…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/18 04:11 PM
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Nice. Matchmaker? Headhunter?
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 06:34 PM
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RSD man. Watch all the videos. Also watch this by Barbara Sher on isolation. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H2rG4Dg6xyI Then consider starting a Success Group described at the link here where you meet with six other people for eight consecutive weeks to try and help the others figure out and reach their dreams. http://shersuccessteams.com/basics.htm Use meetup.com. Like she says, dreams need sustained encouragement, support, contacts, etc.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 02:02 AM
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Do you happen to have Breakthrough Advertising? I so badly want to know the end of the preface but it doesn't have them in the online editions you have to pay 900 or so for a copy on ebay.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 05:41 AM
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Mimetic desire. Someone signals a desire for one thing, and then everyone else wants that thing.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/17 07:39 AM
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Cold showers saved me. The monk Ajahn Brahm says that the release of jhana or experiencing unconditioned consciousness feels better than sex, which drives most monks to relinquish the world and relationships. Point being maybe don't worry about stopping cold turkey, just add more pleasure and awareness and look up equanimity. Joseph Goldstein talks about not clinging to different states. It's great way to live without desire or aversion, feeling everything fully but not anticipating or expecting…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 08:01 AM
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I did nofap 9 months. It didn't turn me into Casanova, I actually got friendzoned because of it. The redpill did the trick. Still, I couldn't perform at all with the girl. I was "in my head" in a profound way, and I found that for sex to be good you have to get in touch with your emotions which you never have to do if you have only masturbated your whole life. It's only my particular experience but I did find it made all the difference. I credit Daniel Rose for his book the Sex God Method for gi…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 07:51 AM
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"I submit to you the possibility for consideration that your attitude towards; drive for; feelings about sex are not one of your immutable premises; rather, they are part of your problem." This statement alone just upped my alpha-ometer. Anyone who truly understands this whole response has the world on a proverbial string. Wanting sex is a lot like wanting oxygen. Does one really want oxygen? One rather just appreciates that it is always there and it always will be. It's an unconscious process. …
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 10:48 AM
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Brilliant. Thank you for the Mcgregor videos they are really inspiring on a gut level. To "speak" a reality is an action. It really was illuminating how Conor spelled out how he drew energy from those pronouncements. Had he kept his beliefs within he may have had less to feed off. Dan Kennedy had a similar saying in Succeeding in Business by Breaking all the Rules, saying there is a lot of money to be made by declaring you are the best before you have proof and working like hell to deliver on th…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/16 11:46 PM
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Unfortunately they don't seem to be unless they are compiled somewhere else.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 09:18 PM
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Easily the most brilliant post on trp ever. Reminds me of how Burgandy Carpet started posting mind bogglingly brilliant stuff that wasn't fully appreciated here, and he eventually left. I must read more of your interpretations of natural law and game. Increasing power to raise consciousness in others is something that I've done that I have been doing unconsciously, so thanks for shedding light on that.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 02:47 AM
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Yeah. Shrooms and LSD demolish depression and make people feel more alive. If scientists weren't pussies and would study this stuff they could verify it. Tl;dr everyone would be enlightened.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 03:02 AM
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What was the text the veteran sent you? Sounds interesting
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 06:45 AM
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Most willing to do this are already training for the MMA dream.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 10:36 PM
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I find when I do assess the relative status of others I interact with and inflate theirs a bit to cover my own bias, the interactions are more normal.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 02:26 PM
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It all just seems so silly. I love the idea of pickup as a self-development tool, but Jesus.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 07:54 AM
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Hell yes. Surprisingly, that is the best and most succinct explanation of the role stories play in human experience I've come across.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 07:38 PM
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Regardless of the countless posts on the value of Dark Triad traits, it behooves you to be aware of the merits of using empathy to control the story of you and your women of choice. These are not mutually exclusive; you can still be a stoic bastard and use the emotions of others. In fact, true sociopaths do this all the time. Truth. I learned a lot from this post. It's valuable knowing the other gender's experience and aligning with it.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 07:34 PM
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I liked this post, it's a new approach. Something besides Chad, AWALT, anger phase, and divorce rape. Absolutely. True empathy is integral to sexual strategy, versus pseudo empathy which is really just cowardly fear of disapproval.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 07:32 PM
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Any idea what the title of the article was one GLL? Seems interesting, but can't find it
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 10:26 PM
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Inspiring post. Models is profoundly good. You should watch this if you haven't. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V3-EpyOrjBk And take a look at this for fun. http://www.slideshare.net/Knit/illegal-seduction-technique
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 07:14 PM
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I left some very personal items she's made/given me, on one of her bags, like a home-made wrist band I've never taken off during our relationship You don't want to subconsciously remind a girl about your fidelity to her every time she sees you wearing that. Knowing she has you tied down might cause her to consider pursuing other options on some level.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 12:42 AM
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I read one method in a book used by the Italian players.. they would earnestly, humbly beg a woman for something and the woman would instantly lose attraction.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 06:06 PM
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In your role one, do you come across like a superior giving orders to a subordinate at work?
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 09:02 PM
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This is the most sexist law ever.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 03:00 AM
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Lack of confidence with girls is a lagging indicator as tyler from rsd puts it. basically, check all the stuff off in your life that you want to improve, start a path to mastery and your reality will become much stronger. it's worth it. meditation is the first path to mastery you should learn because it helps with all the others. good luck.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 02:45 AM
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If you look at game, like the law of sprezzatura or artful carelessness, as it relates to social interactions I think you get a better sense of how things operate. http://www.girlschase.com/content/sprezzatura-effort-and-investing The blog's author says it's a program running 'beneath the hood' so to speak of all human and mammal interactions. The main program being to conserve energy and reap the most reward. People who use less energy and get more are typically seen as the more powerful entity…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 10:54 PM
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I think how we pursue and attain our orgasms tell us an awful lot about who we are as human beings. You can glean so much information about a person from it.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 09:29 PM
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You don't learn to play sports by watching highlight reels. I got a lot out of reading this.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 03:25 AM
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This quote I read on a youtube video really opened my eyes to what happens when guys who unlike you aren't versed in red pill cling to women and lose themselves. I agree with your point that encountering women like this is fun and often a good learning experience, but there are those people who lose themselves over it, much like drugs. "I am a 23 year old MGHOW and I do not want to get laid. Ever. If possible, I want to be a male virgin for as long as possible, do my own thing and be the best I …
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 07:52 PM
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And your posts get downvoted too.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 06:58 AM
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Women also like guys who take risks because a certain amount of social boorishness intimates to their hind-brains that said man will do whatever it takes to protect her even if it means breaking the rules. For the same reason rape fantasies that are the ultimate taboo compel women because the man is willing to risk that much for her he can be made into a tool and protector par excellence.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 10:34 PM
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I hope so, it's a great answer.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 03:43 AM
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You're still very reactive and outcome-dependent, but you're starting to implement some alpha flirting behaviors. Women are picking up on this. On the surface, you seem cocky. However, you're failing shit-tests by being too reactive, and they're picking up on this. This is great feedback. It's amazing to me still how behavior can work semi-effectively to provoke a reaction but still not be up to snuff and pan out as being a viable alpha. In other words, I would think that when a girl's instincts…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/15 08:20 PM
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Makes sense. This is just like speeding up the intimacy.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 12:00 AM
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Blue pill paradigm... observe something first hand, chalk it up to being reductive. Funny how that works. I'm in the middle of it. I don't care though. At least I have the balanced opinion here and elsewhere on the webs. In fact it's kind of nice learning how the lefties think straight from the horses mouth so I don't have to learn it on my own time and know the theory usually better or at least as well as those I'm arguing with.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 06:32 AM
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Man great points never realized that before thanks.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 06:23 AM
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Those last few sentences were particularly interesting. Girls so desperately want to be cool... it's sad.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 05:03 AM
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http://www.betcheslovethis.com/article/shadiness MIND FUCKING BLOWN. Check out the comments too.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 10:29 PM
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I think Marxism stresses equality so the problem is that everyone supposedly has to accept that these individuals live in a bubble of ineffable self-hood which would be fine if they weren't so public about the fact that we have to do it. They are wrong of course, there are not multiple genders, there are just sick people with re-routed hormones and body parts. Saying they constitute a new gender is entirely fucked up if you think about it, but it's what they do. I think it's more than disconnect…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 08:29 PM
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I just died inside a little bit. She's like my antithesis.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 05:54 AM
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You mean Tesla didn't reproduce? God damn it.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 06:35 PM
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Are you talking about the sex god method by daniel rose? or some other sex god game referenced on trp?
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 02:40 AM
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"Being unable to punch." Dude I've had those dreams too lol I fucking hated it. I think it was from masturbating too much as you get that dopamine rush and that weak feeling if you overdo it and your subconscious mind tries to rectify this continual lack of vigor that comes from it. Since I stopped for nine months a while back I'm confident as hell I'll never have that dream again, and if I do it won't bother me as I know potential isn't being lost over it. Probably also from socialization in sc…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 02:51 AM
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This is my favorite post I've ever read on here. Seriously. Have you ever done this in a LTR?
/r/TheRedPill22/11/14 05:09 AM
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You do realize that's like a man reading good housekeeping magazines compulsively. Shit I wish I could think of a way to mess with her without letting her know that you checked her history... that's tough.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 08:28 PM
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upvoted. this thread just keeps getting better and better
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 08:17 PM
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Yes yes yes that would be great
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 08:07 PM
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Can't agree with this post more. Alphas epitomize calmness. It's swift and powerful and then it's over and he either returns to being the calm, powerful leader or he's exiled and shamed. I'm horrible at analogies. lol.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 05:05 AM
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dude post the link to the article on the site if you can so you can give him some traffic
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 04:59 AM
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I don't know man. I could be wrong. But it seems to me like a pimp would be very direct with his girl. If she's feeling unvalidated, that's what he's there for. Of course, he has them working on the corner, so it's a different kind of love than we're used to, but hey.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 04:46 AM
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At 14? You must be absolutely brilliant. Listen to The Myth of Male Power! It was spiritually enlightening for me and totally answered a lot of questions I didn't even know I had about the hypocritical views regarding the balances of power that you just won't hear anywhere else. Just tons of good information in there. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FFtGwBsKgKs
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 08:09 AM
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That feeling of being unloved that you feel never goes away. But more and more as you improve yourself you really do start to love yourself in a way that a relationship with another would have only been a surrogate for.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 07:58 AM
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Yeah I feel the same way. Mark Manson's mo is that vulnerability is powerful because only strong people allow other people opportunities to destroy them. Women love a hint of weakness in an otherwise strong man as it gives them a means of getting power, try as they might.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 07:52 AM
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When analyzing the situation figure out a way to get what you want while adding value to the group. That's the role of leadership, to get the most potential out of individuals in an interaction. A good way not to feel anxiety leading is to genuinely want the best for all individuals involved, that way your sense of self/ego does not impinge on your judgment. Let people take over if they have competent skills. Another important part of leadership is having the task at hand be of genuine importanc…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 07:33 AM
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Don't know why this got down voted. It's correct. Suffering unfortunately has a victim connotation attached to it, insatiable dissatisfaction is a much better way of labeling it. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 05:06 AM
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This is how I got over depression for good. I read this book and heard that meditation increases your willpower. I figured what the heck, the book says doing things you're not used to like flossing boosts your willpower, so I'll try sitting for an hour. Turns out 95% of my depression disappeared just like that, by sitting and identifying with my body more than my head. And you know what, there is a video on cosmic energy out there on youtube. It says that this energy is what we use to get things…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 07:19 AM
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I thought lardosis was what I get when I eat too much and don't exercise.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 05:48 PM
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Nice fp trpfieldpeport. Need more like this around here.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 12:47 AM
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In The Three Musketeers D'Artanian is a white knight on steroids. It's part or his moral code though, and perhaps back then society actually thought women being respectable was a value. He literally sword-fights or courts everything that moves from what I remember. Pretty badass compared to how we live now.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 06:19 AM
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Super monk mode exactly haha. It provided a good metaphor for maturing into manhood. Unfortunately those mentoring us in grade school now a days have saggy tits and discourage sword-fighting rather proactively.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 06:14 AM
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http://www.artofmanliness.com/2011/05/09/the-cure-for-the-modern-male-malaise-the-5-switches-of-manliness/ Quality, quality article that covers the five switches that will boost your manliness. Good stuff. I would add listen to Stefan Molyneux. He teaches rational philosophy that's not gynocentric. Take wrestling and jiujitsu. Being able to kill with your hands kind of makes you feel a little alpha. Meditation shows that your thoughts are in your head and not in the world, which we sometimes for…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 06:41 PM
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Pleasure comes and goes. Depression comes and goes. The key is to not value one more than the other. Some aspiring Buddhists see pain and discomfort as an extremely valuable or gaining insight into the nature of no self. In retrospect, it has given meaning to what might have been perceived as meaningless suffering or me, and that's a great gift. Daniel Ingram's Mastering the Core Teachings of the Buddha can give you more on this.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 05:25 AM
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Man no fap made me pretty alpha at times. I did not give a shit. It's too bad I didn't combine it with trp. I was pretty disappointed nothing happened.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 05:08 AM
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That's the well adjusted point of view. But I can't help but think that for every women like this there is one less marriageable girl, or suitable mate. If she wasn't raised under the influence of the cesspool of feminism she would presumably be a decent girl.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 05:01 AM
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Way to target members of a subreddit who by definition do not give a fuck.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 04:54 AM
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Never ask to do anything, tell them what You are going to do, or just do it. I like this capitalization of You. Sounds like a deity.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/14 06:06 PM
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The problem is not masturbation so much as porn. You have a natural libido that rises and falls. Porn throws kerosene onto the bonfire and hijacks your natural cycles and the uncontrolled blaze threatens to burn down other areas of your life.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/14 05:23 PM
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He is the one the oracle has spoken of
/r/TheRedPill19/10/14 01:57 AM
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I thought .976 was like an extremely high gpa when I first read it.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 10:30 PM
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Haha no one is listening to you. Yeah this is an interesting question. Julien from real social dynamics had an interesting observation about how Tyler was able to pull hot girls when he was at and disgusting. It didn't real matter at all. He speculated that girls are not interested in the superficial at all, rather on the sub-communications or the interaction at around 2:45. Tyler speculates in another video that cavemen had no ways of being self-conscious with their looks, they must have just g…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 07:04 AM
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LOVE Stefan Molyneux. He just destroys the systems of illusions that inconsistently dominate everything around us, from the violent nature of the state down to the emotional manipulation of mothers that is very seldom called out, and in such an in depth and personal format. Thanks to him I care more about integrity than the opinion of others, and have seen how boys are kept emotionally starved by systematically never addressing their inner lives, or preferences, to ensure they don't hesitate to …
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 05:44 AM
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I have round that the more skill I've gained the more almost terrified of other people I have become. I think it has to do with projecting my level of competence onto them. Since you learn so slowly you don't notice how much you improve, just like you don't notice yourself looking different from day to day, so you think everyone can do what you can do. Women tend to be attracted to men who act like jerky two year olds, so you might be better off pretending you don't know how to fight.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 05:35 AM
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Great post. I haven't read it yet, but I read the article you're quoting a while back and am glad it resurfaced in the context of trp. I thought it was really profound originally, it stuck with me for a long time.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 06:12 AM
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Beta goes extra mile to provide bucks, still gets shamed by feminists.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 07:15 PM
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Maybe she has a point. Feminism took a shit on several generation's of men's souls, she could actually be arguing against the typical pussification of boys, which is the predominate mindset inculcated into them in school. Only about 15% of grade-school teachers are men. As for her dating an alpha male rugby star, I sure fucking hope she would. She is Emma Watson after all. God damn.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 08:13 AM
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Trust me, I've read a lot of shit here and there over the past year or so, and this book made it all click. If you want to get fucked up with some more truth, check out Real Time Relationships: The Logic of Love, a free ebook by Stefan Molyneux. https://freedomainradio.com/old-free/books/FDR_3_PDF_Real_Time_Relationships.pdf Not quite the same. Different arenas actually. The latter has to do with the philosophy of relationships using the often disparaged framework of logic. They are tantalizingl…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 10:07 AM
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I'm really curious about this. I would love to read a Daoist's perspective on trp philosophy more if you have more thoughts.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 08:09 PM
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You could try my dad's frame of extreme jealousy. I'm not sure it was a frame I'm pretty sure it was actually how he felt. If he ever caught her with someone else he'd probably end up in prison. People with latin heritage tend to be like that. Seems kind of fucked up but my mom seemed to get validation from it. Obviously it's done directly and not from a weakass beta place. She would never consider cheating. And it's only fair, considering you're being monogamous. It might be too late to suddenl…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 05:25 AM
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Ah yes thanks for clarifying. Orbiting is such a toxic place to be in for so many reasons. Glad you avoided it this time around.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 06:43 AM
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Congratulations bro. Five years is a long time to be in the friendzone, I'm amazed. What exactly did you do? And did she try to test you at first?
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 03:45 AM
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yes but when men are emasculated that's when it's a problem
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 10:27 PM
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not sure i want that link to get any clicks
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 10:47 PM
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You know what, me hearing about you being 5'6 with small hands and going bald actually made me feel a lot better about myself. Lord knows I worry about stuff too. That's your new role in life, make other people (men) feel good about themselves in contrast with your miserable shittiness. Learn how to be funny for the girls. It means you know the score. Become a black belt in humor. Here's a good article on the psychology behind being cocky funny. "This [type of humor] can be traced back to the co…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 04:33 AM
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I think it comes down to time and priorities. Friend-zoned men have an excess of the former and a lack of the latter. The term comes from the show Friends which re-engineered social perception as shows are designed to to. Made a lot of men goofy and encouraged them to hang out with women and act like children, beta-fying the fuck out of them. To get out of the friendzone first you have to tie up your assets (time and money) in activities which literally prevent you from being able to have the lu…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 10:03 PM
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I think sociobiology surfaced in the 1970's but was highly controversial and hotly contested in academic circles. Hmm I wonder what gender did not want to be probed by the giant phallus of science? Curious, what books did you read? Oleg Novoselov, a russian ethologist who took some time to systematically compile his studies, wrote what he advertizes as the last book you'll ever need to read. It's really, profoundly good, covering everything from feminism to the meaning of life to the female mani…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 09:28 AM
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Itsarusko makes great points on this. See, here at the redpill we men are becoming more masculine. At the rpw logically one would surmise they are trying to become more feminine. Now in our backward culture everything has been blown to shit--right is left, down is up. Bear in mind though it has only been this way for a couple of decades. You have to understand that the driving force behind civilization was a man's desire to please chaste women. These women were highly valued by society as mother…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 08:51 AM
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Please, post-trp don't break your girl's heart. The way I see it, feminists try decoupling women to increase their numbers. Casual hook ups, plate-spinning, increases the amount of psychologically damaged women. Keep her in love with you, instruct her much like a father would, how to treat men with respect. Add 'options' to how she thinks, as Patrice O'Neal would say. Otherwise, if you go for the hb9, who is already damaged by this process and has the skank self-image fed to her by the media, yo…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 10:53 AM
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It's okay man they're just squealing to the super alpha of the state to give them more money and more protection. Just for fun, have you ever tried constructing a feminist argument without resorting to an ad hominem attack? It's my favorite. It goes nowhere.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 09:47 AM
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Thanks for posting. Yes this material fascinates me. I think, however, that it can be explained another way, on perhaps a deeper level. When I posted this, I didn't actually realize the profundity of the steps listed by the author until I experienced them being used against me on an anonymous forum, even though I was more interested in the persuasion tactics and didn't disclose my point of view. The link may be anti-gay, but the book the article actually quoted from sure was not. This is a found…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 09:12 AM
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Then your state will proudly supply you with your philosophy, science, and art, as they are doing now. It's no coincidence that religion has been synonymous with culture since the beginning of tribes. The strongest societys have used an invisible super-alpha to peer into the heart's of primarily women to make sure they don't trade up and that they respect their husbands, most of whom will be betas. Without religion you get quotes like this from a Roman philosopher. "All men rule over women; we R…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 07:32 AM
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Oh. It looks like a communist group helped amend some laws regarding women, which probably did not sit well with a good deal of the population throughout the seventies and eighties, and eventually the citizens elected this mass murderer as prime minister, Gulbuddin Hekmatyar, who started scaling back rights. Then came a four year civil war culminating in the Taliban seizing power, at which point comes the types of things you see on the news, the extremely fundamentalist approach to relating to w…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 05:21 AM
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The people with the highest intelligence actually make up the circumstances we live under. They make up the trends. They spearhead political movements. They don't do it by force they do it by persuasion, in other words, by being smart as fuck. You think from the nineties to the two-thousands mankind became suddenly became enlightened and no longer hated gay people? That was social engineering my friend. It is a new, more sophisticated way of controlling people through campaigns implicit in the m…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 03:14 AM
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Nah man religion was created to keep women from slutting it up, which they will do in a state of nature. They will trade sex for food, and may provoke multiple individuals to fight over them. Hypergamy abounds, mostly for the leader. AF/BB also applies. For tribes in this state to grow and be competitive with other tribes religion had to be formed to have an all-seeing alpha keep watch on these potential hoes so that all members of a tribe could be successfully pair-bonded, and become a producti…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 02:42 AM
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I'm sorry, but I think you must have a very deep misunderstanding about the US and the middle east. Do you realize how badly men and women have both been duped by the feminist movement? Turning a significant percentage of potentially marriageable women into women who have sex without commitment (otherwise known as sluts) and who have to work full-time to support themselves might sound like equality, but it's a pretty lousy thing to do, both for them and the men that may have once had the aspirat…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 02:09 AM
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Nice. I was just guessing. I think there is value in being likable. It's good socially. But the problem happens when you take someone's opinion and dramatically overpay for it, so to speak. Just because these things don't have monetary value we tend to be romantic about them. I think we should put a price tag on everything, even opinions, and think of what you would be willing to pay for it, even just in theory, so that you don't get carried away or work too hard for something that is not worth …
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 09:45 AM
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On Value and the Value of Women on the sidebar probably invoked this thought, and it is a good discussion on value if you haven't read it yet. There are times when I would have given anything, gone anywhere, just for girl to like me. I spent a year after the fact thinking about how I could have changed the outcome of it. The day I fully healed was after I asked myself very non-judgmentally how much I would actually pay for her to have a favorable opinion of me, as if it was a commodity like sock…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 09:36 AM
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This looks like conversion, the third strategy after desensitization and jamming. From the article: "In Conversion, we mimic the natural process of stereotype- learning, with the following effect: we take the bigot's good feelings about alright guys, and attach them to the label 'gay,' either weakening or, eventually, replacing his bad feelings toward the label and the prior stereotype." I'm not arguing against the lifestyle, although I reserve the right to feel disgusted by or fond of whatever …
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 08:41 AM
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This looks a lot like jamming. From the article: "The trick is to get the bigot into the position of feeling a conflicting twinge of shame, along with his reward, whenever his homohatred surfaces, so that his reward will be diluted or spoiled." The reward being social approval of the group. So you're trying to make me feel bad about my point of view. The rationale here is that an attitude of hate is wrong, so hating the oppressor is justified. You do realize that anything that is harmful to the …
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 07:54 AM
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r Do you think subconsciously there really is a fear on the mother's part about dying during the pregnancy? I mean betas tend to be less dominant socially, but it's not as if they are deformed. If that were not the case, I'm not really sure why a woman would want a socially dominant offspring when it's less important to survive in the information age. Oh that's right because their instincts are fucking outdated.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 07:58 AM
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Men have hamster wheels too that convey useless information. Coming from a frame of logic where the mind is still creates the kind of masculine polarity that makes others want to fill the void.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 01:23 AM
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Sounds like confirmation bias to me. On a related note, I think blue pillers irrationally over-value things that don't have inherent value, like people's opinions and even love, which takes work and emotional detachment i.e. being better than the other person to last.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 07:57 AM
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The Black Phillip show actually will probably cut your time needed to emotionally heal by a lot. Patrice was a badass and a personal inspiration. I feel for you man. My case was pretty bad. It took a lot of time to get over it. In a market sense you have super-inflated the value of her opinion of you. I guess it goes hand in hand with love. We want psychological validation. Then one day, after a year and a half of trying to figure out what the hell went wrong, why you were not up to par, I found…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 07:33 AM
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Haha so true. People forget having children is a pleasurable female instinct, not a noble sacrifice. Caring for their children on a philosophical level is not the norm. That's how the supposedly nurturing sex can fail to give a shit when legions of their beta sons who they often physically and verbally beat into submission are socially isolated, depressed, and don't know how to talk to women.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 06:47 AM
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Abstinence has some pretty potent effects on many areas of your life so I would say keep that up. Cold showers is a cheat code for nofap imo. I coasted for nine months. Did get a nasty case of friendzone/oneitis though that seemed to replace the dopamine fix I got from watching lots of porn. Thought it was making me a better person to. I had more energy, less cynicism and was feeling pretty good. Nofap will make you dominant and when your neuro-chemicals build up a good enough reserve after a co…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 06:09 AM
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I like these sources and think they are invaluable, though the first is on youtube. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FFtGwBsKgKs http://kickass.to/women-a-textbook-for-men-become-the-kind-of-man-women-desire-pdf-t8836547.html
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 04:10 AM
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How apropos. That was a beautiful response.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 03:44 AM
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Thanks for the links. I think it's a great point. I don't want to resign myself to hookup culture because that's just the way it is.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 06:24 AM
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That's a great way of explaining it.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 05:47 PM
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