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10, truck drivers honking. 11, being groped on a bus.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:20 AM
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What does ‘older’ mean in your books? At 40 I wasn’t struggling at al.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:14 PM
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You can’t learn not to be boring. Either you have passions and interests or you haven’t. On the other hand, plenty of women are boring too. Just find one of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:59 AM
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Ain’t she lucky? A guy who fetishises her virginity or marriage and a bunch of kids one after the other. What would you choose?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:27 PM
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Some people have values and standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:26 PM
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Half casual sex is under the influence. It’s not raw passion, it’s a lapse in judgment!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 10:21 PM
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It’s fun with the right partner. Otherwise it’s shit, at least for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:15 AM
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The natural end of arranged marriages, you mean ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:12 AM
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Oh no no. My bf washing dishes is painstakingly slow. But he’s hot AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 10:43 AM
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Doesn’t sound anything so dramatic happened with op.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:10 AM
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Talking about low bar… ‘how not to die alone’. Sorry, I’d rather find someone who adds to my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:53 AM
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I don’t think that the issue was the quality of sex. The guy wanted sex and he got it . Didn’t want anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:50 AM
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Found the guy trying to make women look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:12 AM
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I don’t care, as long as I don’t have to support him like my kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:29 PM
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I discuss things with my kids since they were 12-13. They have good positive examples of a strong independent sex positive woman. My husband and I are separated but they see us working together, laughing together, cooperating, talking and always agreeing on everything or almost. So… my kids are not going to be redpilled, blackpilled etc. they saw Tate on YouTube. They can’t believe that the guy is serious. They were like ‘oh no he’s just making a parody!!’.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:37 PM
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The first question is what is going on in their lives? Did they have a baby? Is it an arranged marriage? Is he a misogynistic AH who doesn’t help or with no empathy for his wife? What do they do in their lives? Work? Study? Does he control her? Was sex attentive? Was she satisfied? Has he said something which made her ashamed? When women avoid intimacy there’s usually a shitload of reasons, the last of which is ‘betabuxing’.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:51 PM
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Do you think that the guy who uses his he 400 lb woman treats her well or is interested in her? Very often he is just horrible and using her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:55 AM
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This is when you want to be a ‘trad’ wife, or if you are after the kind of man who cares about body count. Personally I don’t consider sex something ‘I give away’ in exchange for commitment. I don’t ask my date/partner/bf to pay for me. If I make them wait it’s not because I have a masterplan to make them stick to me. I have sex when and if I want to, without expecting commitment in exchange (but I do expect an orgasm). I am very capable of ghosting the guy or complaining if sex is subpar and gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 07:10 AM
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I am 5ft7 too. Bf is 5ft6. I refuse to not occupy space. I also refuse to let other people’s insecurities get to me. If a guy can’t cope, it’s on them!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 07:47 AM
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I don’t even get the ‘taller than the woman’ tbh. I have always preferred short guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 05:39 AM
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The vaccine covers from a handful of subtypes out of hundreds.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:14 AM
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HPV entered the chat
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:13 AM
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Herpes entered the chat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:13 AM
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Most passport bros actually do the first. Not in a village.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 05:50 PM
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Believe me, if your perineum is weak you don’t lift without an incontinente pad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 05:28 PM
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Those are the results of trauma and a negative attitude to sex. Sex positive people don’t have trauma from sex for having had hookups 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 08:42 PM
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She’s probably having other issues (depression? Thyroid? Medications?) and blaming other things
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 07:04 PM
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The result IS NOT the same. Having a positive attitude towards sex is different from having trauma from sex related activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 06:53 PM
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None of these women sound like they had ‘a promiscuous past’ as in had nice casual hook ups. One was an escort, of course sex was a chore. The other one talks about toxic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 06:49 PM
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Just for your knowledge, buttons were the on the other side for reasons, not just to be contrary https://www.smithsonianmag.com/smart-news/heres-why-mens-and-womens-clothes-button-opposite-sides-1-180957361/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:55 AM
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Maybe you should read more history books of the situation in some countries, like communist china. I’d recommend ‘Wild Swans - Three Daughters of China’
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 07:29 AM
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It’s a mix. I see couples every day for my job, and they come in all sorts of matching.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 06:21 AM
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He’s just more famous at present.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 10:10 PM
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Lisa Bonet used to be stunning, and is still a beautiful woman, Momoa looks like a caveman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:39 PM
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How is that relevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:35 PM
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But many guys can’t understand that women can think exactly the same (reverse roles ofc)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:44 PM
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It’s always women I examine. The guys often stink of stale sweat, thankfully I don’t get any closer than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:40 PM
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I work with the public. The public on average struggle with basic hygiene, women and men alike. Sometimes I have to do intimate examinations and I badly regret having a sense of smell.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:12 PM
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Literally this. The answer is ‘dick is cheap and easily available, so that’s how things are’. Whining that it’s unfair doesn’t help you get any.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:09 PM
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I think you missed my point. That’s what the guy thinks. Not me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:30 PM
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Apparently women outside of uni are ‘run through 25 yo’
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 01:40 PM
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So you are literally comparing the maturity of a 20yo and leaving a 3 months relationship at 20, with abandoning wife and children at 40? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:58 AM
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The guy feels the need to say he’s 6ft on his Reddit profile of all places. He clearly has very nasty beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 04:08 AM
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HPV causes cancer, not oral sex. You know what people should do? Have HPV tests, which are regularly routinely done for cervical cancer screening.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:00 PM
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😂 sure. Your view is that sex is transactional and you pay for the date to get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 10:32 PM
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Sounds about right. You view money as a way to buy sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:42 PM
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The key work here being ‘was’.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:31 PM
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Nobody has ever shamed men for their sexuality. Women, yes. Men, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:53 AM
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Approach whoever you want, but be ready to be told to fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:41 AM
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Sure but when they do call you to advertise and trying to sell something, they often get rudely told to f**k off.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:14 AM
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If a gay man is not socially aware, he’s gonna end up beaten by some straight guy if they approach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:12 AM
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This. I wonder what their take would be regarding being approached by a gay man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:12 AM
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Women don’t reject nice guys because they are nice. They reject nice guys that they don’t like. Being nice is the bare minimum. And no, mentally healthy women do not avoid nice guys and chase assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:37 PM
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What, one woman out of 10,000? I know exactly zero women who do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:16 AM
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The women actually meeting the guys messaging them on IG are the ones ending up dead or disappeared. No woman of sound mind is going to go out with a rando who messages them on IG…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:26 PM
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So you are assuming women assess their prospective partners based on what men consider important
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:46 AM
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Interestingly… you shouldn’t use the same BMI range for the Asian population.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:29 PM
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My bf doesn’t have a problem with it. To each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 04:57 PM
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Self made millionaire women are not going to be into a guy who inherited a fortune with no skill or merit if their own and no looks just because he has money. They have money already.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 11:53 AM
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Too much effort. Whatever they can buy with money will suffice, so they can reinforce their idea that all women only want money.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 11:51 AM
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You are forgetting something altogether. Style. Everyone has a different style. A guy I dated for a short time, told me I drove him crazy for the way I approached him to kiss him. It really stuck with me the way he described me as ‘coming to kiss me with your mouth slightly open and looking into my eyes’. But… that’s the way I kiss, doesn’t depend on whom. I have kissed in the same way guys I have never seen again because I didn’t get any real spark.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 11:55 PM
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Mmmh, no, you don’t get to grope me if I decide to kiss.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 11:51 PM
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This sounds 15 yo. Or level of experience of a 15yo
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 11:49 PM
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You pushed physical contact and she didn’t want it. Second time too, you kissed her and she didn’t reciprocate, clearly she didn’t want to. She found someone else or anyway she decided not to pursue anything more with you. You say she rejected your advances. With her you instigated unwanted contact too. Unless you have terrible breath or stink, it sounds like you can’t read cues at all and push unwanted physical contact onto your dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 09:37 PM
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No it isn’t a sign that she’s DTF.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 09:26 PM
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Exactly the same thing which came into my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:03 PM
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To be a positive role model you don’t necessarily have to be married or even keep being in a relationship with the mother, as long as you co-parent peacefully and create and maintain a relationship with the kids
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:55 PM
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No problem apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:52 PM
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Tbh I said that too but he said that wasn’t the problem, and to be honest I am a good looking woman and have had zero trouble in finding other interested guys (including much younger friends with benefits and other relationships).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 12:36 PM
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Not having sex, coming home later and later from work so I would be asleep and not ask for sex (I was working too, but finished earlier, and I had the kids to bring home and sort out), not taking initiative ever, declining to have sex if I took the initiative, etc. discussed a million times, cried, felt like shit for years, offered therapy, counselling, doctor, asked if he was depressed, gay or or anything, until I decided I had enough and separated.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:34 AM
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‘Cold and stoic’? You had a freaking lemonade with a girl, she clearly felt things were off and wanted out, and you are here whining to Reddit that you want to stop dating and she scammed you! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:29 AM
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After all your comments, you sound unbearably bitter and a woman hater. Definitely ‘nice guy vibe’. You clearly also don’t understand what ‘scam’ means. The girl wasn’t getting money out of you or anything. She clearly wasn’t enjoying the date and I bet that you said something which put her on alert and decided to go. She could have been more subtle about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:16 AM
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OP says that is all she ordered. She could have got something else, she didn’t want anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:14 AM
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Do you understand what ‘scam’ means? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:13 AM
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For sure OP would have replied how she looked heavier than her pics and that he didn’t like her but was giving her a chance as he’s a nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:12 AM
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That’s dangerous. I am not gonna go on a car with a guy I met 5 minutes ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:11 AM
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‘ Pay for a woman on a date’ . A fucking lemonade. Awww the loss!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:10 AM
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Nobody has time to waste ‘scamming you’ of 2 hours and 2 dollars. No woman gets a kick out of wasting half a day to make you sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:08 AM
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Most guys don’t go to the doctor (free healthcare in my country) until their wife or their mother pushes them to, and then when they finally say sure ok, I will see the doctor, the wife/mother will make the appointment or they’ll never go.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:57 AM
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Women are expected to care for their man, children and elderly members of the family. Or you were only talking of bringing a pay check home (which women do too)?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:54 AM
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Weird, I left my husband because he didn’t desire me and he created a dead bedroom. We are still best friends, basically, after many years.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:52 AM
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Not heat unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 06:58 PM
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Half these redpillers are extremist Muslims who want to see women in burkas.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 06:24 AM
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On average, men are taller than women. This means that most couples will see the man taller than the woman, but it’s not a rule!!!! I see many couples where they are the same or the woman is taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:01 PM
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It’s my grandma having to get married and hiding her child born out of wedlock, being stabbed by her husband and being unable to go anywhere, that did it for me, not ‘capitalism’.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:18 PM
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Tbh I am 45, if you tell me I am middle aged I am gonna flip! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:42 PM
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Misogyny has taught us that having financial independence is a basic necessity if we don’t want to suffer abuse and have to shut up about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:55 PM
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You mean the developing countries with deeply religious culture?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:53 PM
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And they surely don’t offer anything better
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:52 PM
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It’s not safe to depend on others financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 01:30 PM
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Maybe it’s as easy as ‘did it once, didn’t like it, felt used, not happening again’. People grow and mature. Or ‘did it with a guy I wouldn’t even want to see the next day, so I wouldn’t care snout using him, but I wouldn’t do it with someone I may actually be interested in’. Or even ‘never had a one night stand, why do you assume I did?’
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 08:35 AM
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Oh wow, that’s so serious compared to human trafficking and being pimped out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 08:21 AM
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Definitely not. But you clearly have it against women. If you hate them that much, maybe you will prefer guys better.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:59 PM
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I always split bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:14 PM
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Assuming a guy you have just met is safe to be around is a shitty strategy for health and survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:14 PM
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If the guy ‘feels a beta because she surely had sex earlier with other guys’, then he’s a douche and he’s also assuming stuff which most probably isn’t even true. If he thinks sex is important and doesn’t want to wait months for sex in a relationship, fair, find another woman who shares your ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:11 PM
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‘Oh, but you are only asexual because you can’t get Chad’ /s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 09:49 AM
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And yet 80% of men reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 09:27 AM
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I had one of those as a FWB… adorable!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 09:19 AM
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Yeah sure, we are all so stupid and shallow! But I mean, a hole is a hole, just go for guys if you prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:13 AM
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I don’t get why you say number 1, unless you have more than 1 wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:32 AM
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I’ll correct you here… those guys only look down on promiscuous women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:08 AM
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By other guys and by a few women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:52 PM
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I understand that sex for you has no subtlety, passion or excitement and it’s nothing beyond inserting a sausage in and out of a hole a few times. I feel sorry for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:05 PM
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I make sure to give pleasure to my partner. He makes sure to give me pleasure. So no, it’s not ‘my responsibility’ to get myself off. It’s a two player game.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 10:56 AM
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False. He’s saying what everyone else here recommends. If you can’t get dates, look at yourself in the mirror and become the best version of yourself that you can be. Only a desperate woman is going to date a jobless ungroomed mediocre looking guy with no money no ambition and no prospect. You have to have something.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 10:54 AM
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Deceiving people, be it for sex, money, food or favours is shit behaviour. However, deceiving people to get a meal or deceiving people to get sex are not on the same level, no. Plus, to be honest, it doesn’t sound like you date used you for a meal. It sounds like she didn’t want to pursue anything with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 10:39 AM
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Are you saying that unfit, ungroomed guys with no career prospects are not highly sought? Mind blowing!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 08:02 AM
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Yeah, these guys don’t get that most of the time, telling is actually an advantage rather than a disadvantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:41 PM
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Reading this is just infuriating. Hopefully, nobody will have to experience this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:40 PM
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‘ Their parents divorced’ doesn’t make them damaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:22 PM
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The red flag for me is a guy thinking that being born out of wedlock (possibly from a loving couple of parents who don’t believe in a piece of paper) or being orphaned of one parent are red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 12:34 PM
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Sure because women are all lying bitches, right????? The nerve…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 10:09 AM
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While I was having a good time i totalled around 20 in 18 months (some were fwb and saw them several times along the whole period of time).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 10:08 AM
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You are indeed trying to turn the table. No worries, I can still read between the lines. ‘Females’.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:57 PM
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You talk about ‘obvious concerns that female egoic sexual indulgence causes’. Don’t try and turn the table on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 07:24 AM
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I feel like you are intentionally gaslighting me into thinking you are not saying that female sexuality should be restrained. Btw, if ‘promiscuity and mental health are associated’ it doesn’t mean that having sex causes many as L health issues. Association is not causality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 10:43 PM
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You clearly want to control women sexuality, so yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 08:40 PM
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Let’s make an example… you think the guy in the pic is hot? Because I personally like him 0 on a scale from 1 to 10 (joke intended). Hot means different things to different people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 08:37 PM
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In facts that doesn’t exist except in a very few cases. Like passport bros and desperate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 05:44 PM
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Hun, stay out of my choices regarding my vagina (and my uterus too, as we are there)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 05:40 PM
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‘Below my level’??? Nope. Unless you mean just by looks. And that’s what I meant in my comment above. This is where you get it wrong. I had sex with those guys because I liked them. I never considered them ‘below my level’. Bring less physically attractive doesn’t make them below me in any way. I found them cute, or funny, or sexy, or honest, they flirted the right way (or didn’t flirt at all!) and one or all of those things made me decide that I wanted to have sex with them. That’s where you go…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 02:11 PM
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And you think that the 20yo from a poor country is with you for fun? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 12:59 PM
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You are literally confirming what I say. You are not a millionaire, and you are not in the same circles. 20yo women from poorer country may agree to be with you for your money. How does it feel, buying a woman? You can do it in any other country too, with some. The poorer the easier it is, usually, because the can be so desperate that they have to accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 12:41 PM
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😂 sure, sure!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 04:34 AM
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Talk about unrealistic expectations. That’s why you can’t find a woman. You actually despise those women who are your match by age and life experience, and look for women who are out of your league and with backwards ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 04:33 AM
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But these guys here crying about bad luck with women do not want a relationship. They want to hook up with virgin women who look like top models. Then they cry because virgin top models who want to hookup with them don’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 04:30 AM
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Sure, and in around a year I had sex with 20 guys. None of them was ‘Chad’ by your standards and I am considered an attractive woman (I would say 2 were objectively very handsome, on my same level, but the others weren’t, they just had things going on for them which I really like in a guy, not talking about money or cars or shit, just personality wise and looks).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 04:24 AM
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If you actually believe what you wrote, and you are not a 17 yo trying to be edgy, you need to seek therapy to get to terms with your insecurities. No, the average 20yo who wants to date is not fighting against the 35 yo millionaire because they literally don’t have the same hunting territory, social circles etc. Letting alone the fact that there’s not so many millionaires. You were never a potential match for Kate Middleton, as Prince William was never a potential match for me. Most people are …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 04:06 AM
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Are you kidding? Women shirk accountability when a guy pays for a date and they don’t let him fuck them. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:10 PM
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Here, let me help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:44 PM
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So you want a feminine delicate gentle submissive woman, who needs to rely on you for protection and mantainance, and then complain if she doesn’t earn money and you have to pay alimony in divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 03:50 PM
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Never say something unforgivable. There is an invisible line you can’t cross expecting the relationship to survive. You don’t tell a guy he’s a failure. You don’t tell a woman she’s a slut. You don’t hit them. You don’t tell them ‘you are like your mother/father, that’s why your other parent went away’. ‘You are a useless mother/father’. You are such a disappointment. Relationships do not survive this. Even cheating can be forgiven. But this can’t
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 06:04 PM
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If I am single I enjoy life and sex. If I am with someone I am with them and give them 100%. It’s not a matter of being a ‘reformed’ party girl. It’s a matter of having a healthy libido and freedom. Always. There is nothing inherently wrong in sex, having sex and enjoying pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 09:51 AM
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That adv was shameful.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 09:28 PM
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Rightly so.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 05:02 PM
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Actually, that’s a healthy BMI.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 05:48 PM
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Yep. Women who spend an hour a day for make up, half an hour to sort their hair, have fake eyelashes, Botox, fake tan, fake nails (or very long nails, exactly same. They can’t possibly have time to cultivate their intellect, if any.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 05:47 PM
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Total bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 06:39 PM
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https://people.com/movies/eddie-redmayne-hannah-bagshawe-relationship-timeline/ my idea of attractive guy is this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 06:14 PM
0

Nope. I don’t find them attractive. Find them slightly repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 06:13 PM
1

Yup. I literally like ribs showing and stick legs, not the six pack.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 06:10 PM
1

I don’t like gym guys. I don’t like muscular guys. I like skinny guys. I find gym guys threatening and potentially dangerous. I despise that they put so much effort into their body and appearance. Also, if they are putting so much energy and time into anything that shallow, they are not my guy. I tend to stereotype them as dumb, too. If they spend so many years and so much time into gym, then they can’t possibly have the time to cultivate their intellect. So nope. Doesn’t apply to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 02:01 PM
2

Guy is in jail being used as a bitch, due to human trafficking. A bright example for the new generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 09:43 AM
2

I was over 40 having fwb/ casual sex with 23-25yo. They were cute, yes, but not ‘chads’ as you say. My type is definitely not your ‘chad’. You know what they had? They were honest and nice and not putting up a façade of interest just to bang me (I am, by the way, very interesting). Over 30s were often just nasty. One coffee together was enough to never want to see them again.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 08:50 AM
-1

Do you approve of Nike producing shoes in Bangladesh?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 05:49 PM
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I can see what good advice incels are giving each other…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:45 PM
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Complete bs. Why would that be, exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:44 PM
-1

You still don’t get what I mean, right? There wouldn’t be so many wars as women don’t usually fight on who’s got the bigger dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:33 PM
-1

Maybe there wouldn’t be so many invasions if women had more power.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:06 PM
-3

Women fight for their own bodily autonomy and rightly so.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:04 PM
-3

No, I am saying that it’s men causing wars.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:57 PM
1

Avoid as in not get to the point of having a war.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:51 PM
-12

War made by men on men often at the expense of women and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:50 PM
1

No it doesn’t only happen in that case. Maybe you should study more history.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:49 PM
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Idiotic. They are losing their children. Clearly you can’t even think of what it means. Oh wait? Women in wars get raped, tortured, killed, left pregnant of rapes. But sure, they have it so good.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:21 PM
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They would avoid the war.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:19 PM
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They can’t, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:49 PM
2

Private sperm donors aren’t safe. That’s a matter of fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 06:57 PM
0

Having a child IS NOT A RIGHT.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 06:54 PM
2

Producing sperm takes a wank. Harvesting eggs takes hormonal therapies, plenty of scans, and surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 06:54 PM
2

I think the whole concept of cheating is overrated. There are way worse things my partner could do. I don’t think I’d care much. I’d wonder/ask why
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 11:55 PM
2

As long as you’re not hitting on barely legal girls, you’re good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 12:27 PM
2

The mind hive you mean? 😂 women are all different. It would actually be interesting to know what ages are we talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 10:21 AM
1

Yes sure, Ukrainian women are all slutting on tinder while their partners die. It’s not as if they have been displaced by a war. So sad that you actually think this
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 11:09 AM
1

Things like ‘I don’t fancy going to the movies tonight, why don’t we go have a nice ice cream and chat?’ It’s not a test, these things happen in real life you know? But you see reactions and decide if you like what you see or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:41 AM
1

It’s usually the other way around. When you know what you like it’s way easier to have an orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:55 PM
1

That’s bs. Women are often not diagnosed because when they go to doctors they get told they are hysterical and it’s in their head. They report pain and they get told to get antidepressants.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:39 PM
1

Sure, because guys don’t drop women for the newer model…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:35 PM
0

Hope you are not talking about the displacement of women and children during war…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:34 PM
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In my country, my grandmother and my mother used to comment things like ‘height is half the attractiveness’ or ‘if he’s not good for the king he’s not good for the queen’ meaning that if a guy was so short he wasn’t accepted into the compulsory military service, then a woman wouldn’t want him, or also ‘man of your waist’ as waist and life are the same word in my language, or ‘he’s at the right height to look at your boobs’, or they would comment when in a couple he was shorter than her. I have n…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:31 PM
1

Actually, a woman with sexual experience, knows what she likes and what she wants, and is not afraid to ask for it. It only takes a partner who listens.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:27 PM
1

Toxic masculinity is wanting a low count woman because she shouldn’t have more experience than you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:25 PM
1

If anything, height was more important 30 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:52 PM
2

My boyfriend has had way less partners and experiences than me. Sex is great for both and i can’t see why a difference in experience should be a huge mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:16 AM
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And this is the correct mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:12 AM
5

😂 dick weights?! See where you go wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:10 AM
1

Shame that the comparison here is ‘I can’t get my dick wet’ vs ‘ I get sexually harassed, assaulted and I fear for my life’
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:09 PM
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Darling, your worth as a woman is in how pretty you look. You go on dates and you clearly see that the guy is only putting up with the chats to get it over with and try to get you in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:07 PM
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What that girl says is actually the opposite of feminism. That’s deeply ingrained patriarch, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 09:46 AM
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Do you realise, that the girl saying that being insecure for a guy is a red flag, is actually being misogynistic, right? That’s exactly what toxic masculinity is, and she has that so deep into her that she spouts this nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 09:41 AM
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Hooking up is not the same as relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 09:28 AM
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I don’t go looking for ‘incels’ and from the several pictures that sexless guys have posted, most of them are actually average looking. Anyway, I was talking about the character. You all complain women like confident bragging bold types, and actually most women don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 07:13 PM
2

Oh you mean that they are understanding that she is not the same as she was before bringing HIS KIDS into the world? Exactly what I stated at the beginning?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 10:52 PM
1

Yeah sure. And you went running with a 5 seat stroller every day. Ofc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 10:43 PM
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If you mean a socially awkward guy who would like to have a relationship but can’t, for some reason, I find this type quite cute and definitely someone I’d date. If you mean a misogynistic AH who wants to hurt/rape/use women… they can rot in hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 10:33 PM
1

I am all for skinny guys. I like to feel the ribs and see the veins in their arms! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 02:25 PM
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Men do not stay if the woman starts being unwell. Don’t make me laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 02:23 PM
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So who is looking after the kids while you exercise? Because when you have three young children and work on top of caring for your kids and managing the house, you are 1. With no energy left, 2. With no money left, 3. With no time to even go out for a run left.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 02:22 PM
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Exercising will increase your at rest energy expenditure, and ANY physician will recommend exercising.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 02:20 PM
2

You don’t want to risk dying for thrombosis with a young child, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 01:03 PM
2

How many women are in chronic pain after pregnancy, which affects the amount of exercise you can get?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 01:02 PM
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Sure, if you have the time and the means. Anyway, you are totally out of touch with reality if you can’t understand what I was saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 09:29 PM
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People who have a BMI of 50, don’t have a ‘like eating a bit too much and are lazy’ problem. They have a mental health issue, as much as people with anorexia.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 09:17 PM
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Women change physically with pregnancy and delivery, and very often don’t have a minute for themselves until the youngest turns three. Moreover, pregnancy for many women does cause permanent changes (triggering autoimmune diseases, causing bladder issues, permanent or chronic pain after a Caesarean section or tears, etc). And btw, try losing way while you breastfeed…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 09:14 PM
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Darling, get pregnant, have a kid, breastfeed them for a couple of years, in the meanwhile get pregnant again, have another one, breastfeed etc. the first may be in school at 6, but the second is 4 and the youngest is 2, maybe just getting out of their nappy (and it’s not as if a 4yo doesn’t need mum).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 09:09 PM
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It takes 6 years to have three kids and breastfeed them, care for them and start to see a few full sleep nights.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 09:00 PM
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What happens is pregnancy and kids. If your partner has become bigger after bringing your three children into the world, and breastfeeding and looking after them in the last 6 years, you may be more understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 06:06 PM
2

The percentage of skinny men is also very low.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 10:38 AM
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So?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 09:53 PM
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What these guys cannot get, is that for one woman who finds blonde off putting, there’s another one who goes for blonde guys with blue eyes. For one who goes for muscular there’s another who goes for skinny. For one who goes for tall, there’s one who goes for short. They just don’t get that women are not a monolith.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 09:20 PM
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It absolutely does, 100%. You’d describe my bf as unattractive and someone who has lost the genetic lottery. I find him extremely attractive and sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 09:17 PM
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No woman ever will describe her sexual encounters in these terms to her friends (especially guys). This is 100% invented story.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 08:23 PM
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You can’t understand how some women like an emotionally expressive guy and others don’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 12:39 PM
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People on this subreddit do not understand that women are not a hive mind. There is only one solution, and it’s be the best version of yourself you can be and don’t try to fake what you aren’t. If you want to be able to express yourself emotionally there’s plenty of women out there who appreciate this. You don’t have to be liked by ‘women’. You have to find the woman who likes you as you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 12:38 PM
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He doesn’t get it. Curious in this case means ‘Ew, what do you find in him? I wouldn’t touch him with an 8 ft pole!’.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 10:15 AM
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Women are not a monolith either. All guys will think a super model is hot, but in real life they go after different types. All women will agree a good looking guy is good looking, but in real life they go after different types. I see all type of guys with all type of women in my job in maternity. That is only your partial and biased view.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 10:13 AM
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The point is that you are physically attracted to a guy who is like that, and also, familiarity make you see them more beautiful by the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:10 PM
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I think you are mistaken on number three.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:02 PM
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I agree with a grand total of zero of what you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 07:26 AM
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Older women don’t put up with that paternalistic and condescending shit at all you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:58 AM
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Also most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 02:46 PM
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Women get to experience pregnancy and childbirth, wanna have a go?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 02:45 PM
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And rightly so. Taking advantage of the other party naivety, position of weakness and ignorance should not be allowed
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 11:56 PM
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Possible. Do you realise that nobody wants a bunch of strangers messaging you in private with a lot of obscene proposals?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 12:31 PM
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😂 ‘bitter and combative’ means not falling for shit and not putting up with any shit, right? 😂 actually, most of the 25 yo guys I went out with were adorable, honest and cute, and fed up with the drama and bs of these supposedly hot 20yo women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 12:29 PM
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Hilarious! I had a queue of 25 yo guys while dating at 40! lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 07:40 AM
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A 25 yo will believe a lot of shit that a 40 yo woman won’t believe and will be, on average, more easily impressed by the older guy having a car a job and their own place or by the fact at they can afford to pay for dates. Also she may feel special because the guy will tell her she is mature for her age and other similar bs. Some women are impressed by these things
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 06:49 AM
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I doubt a dumb guy can be fun, attentive and charming for me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:00 PM
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Then your doctor is trying to make a 30 yo feel wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 01:53 PM
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Not. A pregnancy over 40 is considered advanced maternal age. At 35 we don’t even scan you after 20 weeks as it’s considered a normal pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 01:52 PM
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You also are not happy that the state has to financially support teenagers with no job having kids, right? People wait to have kids because houses are unaffordable, healthcare (in some countries) is unaffordable, bills are unaffordable, and they aren’t irresponsible. People wait to have kids until they can actually support them, which these days means in their thirties.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 11:33 AM
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Also, if you want to be a parent that badly you can still adopt.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 11:22 AM
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This. Yes, fertility decreases with age, but this woman already had fertility issues. As you say, it can happen way earlier and it’s not ‘because she left it too late’
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 11:09 AM
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Well but that’s wrong. 36 isn’t too late to conceive. Sounds like they had fertility issues already.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 11:00 AM
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Sounds like this woman, who is now 36 and divorced for 3 years already, had actually all lined up nicely. Sounds like they were going through IVF with the ex husband and that the embryos she made with him were destroyed because court/husband/clinic decided so after the divorce. If they had gone through ivf it means they had fertility issues already when she was 30 or younger. Some people have issues with infertility whatever their age. This woman needs therapy because she is grieving the loss of…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 09:47 AM
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Welcome to parenthood, I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 09:42 AM
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Again, your reality is Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:30 PM
1

So you are basing your view of reality on what a few weirdos on Reddit say.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 11:29 PM
1

Surely there is a balance between vomiting how you feel all the time and appropriately express feelings and states of mind when it is a good time to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 11:24 PM
1

Talk about yourself. You have resentment for that, not the ‘relationship market’.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 06:07 PM
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Btw, I am neither American nor British
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 06:05 PM
2

That’s basic necessary communication. I want my partner to be able to communicate his needs and wants in a non confrontational, non mean, non accusatory way. I want him to be able to express his feelings voicing them and with actions. To be able to fight without being hurtful. Same goes for me as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 05:47 PM
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Ashkenazi Jews have the highest rate of genetic diseases ever
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 05:15 PM
2

An example?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 12:22 PM
2

Good in bed and can communicate well. I don’t even need 5 points.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 08:40 PM
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I don’t. I think people focusing too much on rules instead of people are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 02:28 PM
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I pity the women in your life who could not freely breastfeed their baby. The suggestion that their options were feeding the baby in the bathroom or using bottles, is just disgusting. Yes, women go to the seaside in bikini. Look away if that’s a problem. That’s comfortable and reasonable clothes in that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 02:24 PM
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Partly agree. The worst Swedish area is not the same as the worst Colombian one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:07 PM
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In your books you can do whatever you want. Claiming that the average woman is not overweight just doesn’t match reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:06 PM
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The average woman (as the average man) IS overweight in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 10:52 AM
4

Are you clueless of bad areas and don’t speak the language?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 09:54 AM
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Shorter women DO NOT have better childbearing success.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:04 PM
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All these women wanted to share the Chad winner, hun, ofc. They loved to see their companion and kids slaughtered, be raped by the winner and become their pleasure slaves. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 07:31 AM
2

So it was the man owning more than one woman, not women swooning after one guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 07:29 AM
1

Women were given out like exchange products in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 07:27 AM
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They are not sharing shit, that’s your fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 07:26 AM
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Explainable also by guys having two consequent marriages when they had kids and they needed a woman to care for the house and the kids, after the first wife died in childbirth.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 07:25 AM
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‘Some women here often claim etc’—-> never read that ‘Most women agree next best option is sharing a guy’ ——> never read that either. That is how YOU think women think. It doesn’t match reality, hun.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 07:23 AM
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That’s because you don’t see people as people. I don’t have the ability to ‘replace’ my current partner because everyone is irreplaceable as a human. I can find another one, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:40 PM
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The ability to walk away is unrelated to having an alternative hole to use. It’s related to self worth and self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 02:54 PM
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That’s because you interpret ‘replacing’ as ‘having another hole to use’. Any guy would have a very hard time replacing me, because I am awesome not because I have a vagina
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 02:52 PM
1

‘Competence’? In getting laid? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 02:49 PM
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The average woman does not get a ton of men sliding into her DMs with the intention of asking them out and having a successful relationship either. At most, they are trying to creep or pump and dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 11:20 AM
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The average man gets treated like the average woman, except he doesn’t get random creeps starting a conversation with ‘wanna bang’ and dick pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 09:43 AM
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So don’t tell me that ‘women are judged more favourably, looks-wise’. They aren’t. They are called accountable for any hair out of place, any stretch mark and any kg they put on. Or that they don’t put on. But yeah, guys will not look at that if it’s just to have sex with them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:19 AM
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‘Men would still find more women attractive than the inverse’ because many guys would literally fuck anything as long as it gets their dick wet, animals and hoovers tubes included.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:00 PM
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and that’s not because MtF have big boobs, dress nicely, exaggerate their femininity and wear make up. And it’s not because the FtM actually have not very masculine facial and chest structure. Must be ‘because we all consider women better looking than men’
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 08:44 PM
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Feminists believe that women choosing to have children or not, instead of having to have children because you are expected too, is a good thing. I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:55 PM
1

This.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:51 PM
1

Do you think at 50 a guy us is ready to go again after 5’?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:13 AM
2

Yeah sure with 30’ recovery time after sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:30 PM
1

What if it’s not games, but a dog, or a child? Darling, you really should stop spending so much time with your dog/kid! Now you’re in a couple you should want to spend your time with me!’
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:33 AM
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Brace yourself for a number of guys starting the conversation with ‘wanna bang?’ or similar pleasantries.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 07:30 AM
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My man does his share without even asking, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:55 PM
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Of course, all women are evil shallow bitches only going after Chad /s
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 10:43 AM
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It’s you pulling out the ‘men are better at’. So are they good at it or is it just when it suits them?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 10:42 AM
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Men might have better hand eye coordination but they can’t use it to aim correctly to the toilet…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 08:40 AM
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I enjoy respect, equality and honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 08:39 AM
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Even my teenager kids try that, to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 11:02 PM
2

I did. So?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 11:01 PM
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You are justifying weaponised incompetence by saying ‘boys will be boys’
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:07 PM
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The rate of miscarriage does increase with age. Keep in mind that one pregnancy out of 5 ends in a loss, anyway, and that some apparently perfectly healthy couples have issues (independent from age) that cause miscarriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:50 PM
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There is no association with maternal age in most non chromosomal abnormalities. There is an association with maternal age in some chromosomal abnormalities, the most common being Down’s syndrome, which is for the vast majority picked up from screening in pregnancy. It is still a very small percentage of fetuses being affected, after 30yo. The increase in percentage is used exactly when one wants to show ‘awww the risk is massive’ when it isn’t in absolute numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:29 PM
1

I have, indeed, as I am European.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:24 PM
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OP, no, dating, outside this subreddits, is kind of normal. Don’t worry too much. Also, bring quirky is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 04:35 PM
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Sure because Switzerland is not renowned for banks… 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:27 PM
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There IS research regarding long term outcomes. Lots of it, actually. It correlates to mode of delivery, gestational age at delivery, maternal age etc. Interestingly, the first research studies on this are quite old (see Barker’s hypothesis). The detection of ‘obvious stuff’ is within 20 weeks (first trimester screening for Down’s syndrome and other chromosomal abnormalities and second trimester scan at around 20 weeks for the anomaly screening). The incidence of those abnormalities is still ver…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:52 PM
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Your assumption is that women are evil, shallow, dumb, a hive mind and only valuable for their looks. I wonder why dating is a struggle….
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:11 PM
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The average guy’s profile is shit, though. Half of them have no bio whatsoever, the pictures are often selfies taken in the restrooms of a gym/workplace, with a literal toilet on the background, and a dirty shirt on, add something like ‘coffee and gaming’ as interests… of course most guys are not getting matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:07 PM
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Of course my favourite fwb has been absolutely rejected as soon as I started seeing my current boyfriend. And yes, I could absolutely get away with it as much as I wanted. I am not going back for any reason nor am I comparing my current bf to the previous ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:11 AM
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Your idea of ‘decent woman’ is skewed too. A child bearing and hard working woman, yes. Not ‘a ten looking virgin porn star’. You’d have sex once every year or two: not when pregnant, not when on period, not during lent, not during breastfeeding, basically never. You’d probably also never see her naked. Moreover, stop grading people by their looks. You might find that there are actual humans behind that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:09 AM
2

The vast majority of babies born to mothers over 30 are absolutely fine. You are very wrong stating that they are more likely than not to have chronic illnesses
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:01 AM
1

They couldn’t marry an heiress because women couldn’t even inherit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:53 AM
2

Unless you were Henry the VIII, with a deformity you’d have had an impossible time getting a wife /companion in any era. Unless the companion had the same issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:51 AM
0

😂 do you really believe that if I have 30 previous partners, there’s 30 guys I’d rather have sex with rather than my current guy? 😂 they are exes for a reason!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:40 AM
2

Totally your impression. The woman who is looking for a relationship is not going to go after the motorbike guy (tbh, some motorbike guys are absolutely calm and family oriented but you clearly state that as a ‘risky guy’)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:29 AM
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The reason why you don’t have success is exactly what you are. Someone who defines a woman as ‘used up hole’, is exactly the type of guy us women don’t want to have anything to do with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:25 AM
3

Believe me, several guys appeared to be very uncomfortable because I was taller than them and wearing heels too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:45 PM
2

Exactly!! You are not everyone’s cup of tea, and I am sure it’s also true the other way around, you are not going to just get the first guy who seems to want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:44 PM
1

So what? I have had guys saying they didn’t want a second date or just ghosting after the first. I am not everyone’s cup of tea, who cares?!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:40 PM
16

Most women learn to mask so well that they struggle to get a diagnosis. That’s why men are more ‘forgiving’ of women’s neurodivergence. They look neurotypical, maybe a bit weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:10 AM
1

Don’t forget leeching off you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:30 PM
2

Does he have a tongue?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:27 PM
6

Exactly this. The guy doesn’t understand that both partners have to invest daily in a relationship for the relationship to work, hence he only speaks of money, SMV and similar meaningless shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:33 AM
4

Anarchism has nothing to do with choosing how to live your life from a personal point of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:07 AM
3

I am in a long term loving relationship with a guy I have been delighted to introduce to my family, yes. Talking about ‘better’ guy is very limiting. It is a guy I have things in common, I am in love with and I am proud of being seen together. Were my FWB more conventionally handsome? Yes, sure, some were. Were they richer? Some, sure. Were they someone I wanted to have a long term relationship with? Oh gosh, no!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:00 PM
5

Darling, I had fwb and casual with guys I’d never ever introduce to my friends or family. They were good for sex, but I’d never have a LTR with any of them!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:51 AM
0

Because they offer nothing in a relationship apart from money. Not even basic respect
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:49 AM
1

So it’s because the guy is a distrusting coward.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:45 PM
1

I don’t watch randos on TikTok. That’s not real life (and mostly not even people with real opinions, they are just being edgy).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:11 PM
1

You base your reality on TikTok?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 10:17 PM
1

I like skinny blue eyed guys. Don’t care about height or other things. I care about respect and bed manners. Most of my matches while dating did meet the type, and personality wise most were adorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:29 PM
1

You don’t use settle as a transitive verb, with an object, like ‘settle a dispute’. You use it as an intransitive verb, with a meaning of ‘putting up with something which actually doesn’t satisfy you’.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:23 PM
4

Thank you. That’s a perfectly reasonable and realistic take to the matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:18 PM
-1

Or maybe you do. That is not the meaning you use here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 08:40 AM
1

Oh come on, you don’t agree with him that a taller man is inherently ‘better’ so whichever woman is with him she can’t be his equal? 😂 I mean, he’s tall!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 08:38 AM
2

And again, this view sees women and men like pawns with a role in a game and is an extremely sexist view
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 08:35 AM
2

The fact that you call women ‘females’ tells us all there is to know about your views, and that they are heavily biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 08:25 AM
5

They can’t even envision a healthy relationship or a woman and a man loving each other and actually getting on well together.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 08:24 AM
4

I have literally never ever heard a woman use the word settle regarding their partner. Only ever saw that used here by men whining about women’s standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 08:21 AM
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They don’t divorce because they are stuck without a passport, without means of living independently and don’t have a family to turn to if things go bad, or because in their culture divorce is considered wrong. Doesn’t mean these women are happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:51 AM
-2

Are you really quoting a ‘book’ written by ‘Dr Laura’ 😂 and titled ‘proper care and feeding of husbands’? 😂😂 can’t make this up…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:49 AM
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You actually mean that once they are in a couple and having kids, women are the ones who have to leave work/take leave/go part time/ give up career advancements in order to look after the kids, so the man ends up earning more? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:44 AM
5

‘But women are evil and initiate 80% of divorces’ 😂 this is why.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:23 AM
3

😂 that’s because many men don’t actually clean to the same standards, right?!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:21 AM
7

Sure, that’s how most women live… 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:19 AM
3

They don’t want to be with a leech you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:14 AM
1

That’s how you see women, hence my wording.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:02 AM
2

Yeah, I ‘own’ three kids. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:01 AM
1

Try adding 2 teenage boys who are 6 feet tall and cycle to school in wet weather 🤪 plus a 7yo who comes home covered in food and mud stains every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:59 AM
2

There’s 5 people in my house and 4 of them wear adult sizes. School clothes, work uniforms, sport clothes, towels, daily underwear for all, trainers, coats, it takes no time at all to fill an 8 kg washing machine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:55 AM
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You aren’t getting when commenters are on your side and just saying what those guys think.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:37 AM
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This. Exactly what those guys think.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:36 AM
4

My self esteem doesn’t depend on what others think of me or on how others behave with me. That’s on them. If you get into dating again, assume they only want sex until proven otherwise. Don’t believe what they say straightaway (consider it but don’t believe just yet). Believe what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:23 AM
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Clearly someone who doesn’t do their laundry. In my house there’s an average of 10 washing loads a week and that’s without washing tablecloths or bedsheets weekly, and those clothes also need drying, folding and putting away. There’s grocery shopping, cooking, dish washing and then the actual cleaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 08:09 PM
3

So why do you whine if you don’t have one?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 08:07 PM
2

A majority of people I encounter, men and women alike.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 01:59 PM
1

People who don’t have opinions or fail to express them or to hold onto them in order to avoid conflict, are boring, conformist and not management material. They are also not mature adults and not relationships material.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 10:07 AM
0

That’s because they make her cum first. Highly desirable trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 10:03 AM
1

It sounds very dystopian, nothing fantastic about that…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:08 PM
1

Very lame attempt to ‘get back to me’
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:58 PM
1

But… but… average guy getting his dick wet???
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:49 AM
1

Yes. You could go at the nearest bar and hook up with whoever you wanted. This.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:41 AM
2

Then work harder to get what you want. Your problem. Abusers keep abusing because they don’t look like abusers when they introduce themselves!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:40 AM
1

Darling, I am a woman. If I wear a tracksuit, trainers, no make up and don’t interact with people to show I am witty, educated, intelligent and funny, nobody even looks at me. If I put on a nice dress, stilettos and make up and act flirtatious, I have a queue. It’s on me, not on them, how I choose to hold myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:37 AM
4

This. Like earning a degree, getting a job, buying a house.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:37 AM
0

Because he’s looking only at the hookup scene and some men will fuck anything still warm.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:35 AM
1

Clearly that just means that in 80% of unhappy couples, the unhappy one is the wife. Try and make your wives happy, guys…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:32 AM
1

You forgot the ‘booohooo! That’s all dating apps fault/women’s fault/hookup culture’s fault’
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:30 AM
4

He’s never watched Happy Days, apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:28 AM
3

Of course. You should never meet someone in private unless you are dtf, and even then, I’d recommend you meet in a public place, because you never know if they are who they state they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:28 AM
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Darling, if you invite someone to your house, you should have almost decided that you want to have sex with them. Otherwise stick to public places with lots of people around and guard your drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:27 AM
3

I care more to preserve the human rights and right to privacy if all honest people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:24 AM
8

I am a woman. Just no to this. The solution to rape is not the big brother on everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:22 AM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:40 PM
4

It’s because the ones complaining are those not getting their dick wet. They blame the fact that in a more conservative society, women would have been married off at 18 tops, to someone like them, without much choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:27 PM
1

The sharing of love attention energy and in some instances money is a normal relationship. The reason you can’t see this is because you think all women offer is sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 10:25 AM
7

Nothing is so sexy as your friendly date playing piano for you and not expecting sex back
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 09:15 PM
4

There’s really not even much to discuss. You have a completely skewed view of women. Like all of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 10:23 PM
4

They are spouting nonsense. They really hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 07:35 PM
6

😂 so, you match with sex workers on a platform where sex workers are known to advertise, and then ‘all women are sex workers’. The unawareness is astounding.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 06:37 AM
5

Luckily my grandmother was a strong independent woman who married for love. She worked, and had studied to complete her secondary school (class 1919, so quite rare).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:51 PM
1

Maybe it’s just that fucking all day is not everyone’s main objective…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:48 AM
2

But also, it’s them being fixated on their dick size. I dare say that average/slightly lower the average dicks hit me just in the right spot. Bigger ones not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:44 AM
1

You aren’t a minority. That’s what most normal people do and how most normal people think.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:39 AM
1

This. Plus, the experiences someone has make them who they are. I wouldn’t be such an awesome partner in sex if I had the same hang ups I had at 16, when I thought I’d marry still virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:40 PM
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Personally, I think only having sex with a lifelong partner as barbaric, plus I’d never get a pair of shoes without trying them on, let alone commit to a lifelong relationship with someone I haven’t had sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:38 PM
1

But then you find out before entering a relationship, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:36 PM
1

Yeah, please, don’t listen to POS guys spouting nonsense. Talk with your grandma. Talk with normal people outside. Read some philosophy. Read literature. Literally anything is better than that trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:15 PM
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Nope. And also, I am pro choice. But when and where ultrasounds were unavailable, people would kill NEWBORN girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 09:00 AM
1

Nope. People get distant and change.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 07:49 AM
2

The same as outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:04 PM
2

Hun, 50 years ago single guys were not having more than that, as hookups weren’t as common.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 11:44 PM
2

Doesn’t mean they are looking for a relationship either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 11:41 PM
3

Really? I used to see those guys all the time on dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 11:39 PM
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Not really. Newborns were killed in droves, it was not just terminations, and anyway if you find out the gender in ultrasound, it’s at least a 16 weeks fetus.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 11:01 PM
0

It’s the correct emoji. Your claims are laughable
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:27 PM
2

100 times this!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:12 AM
16

Simple: he’s an AH. Avoid. Huge red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:02 PM
2

😂 if you don’t like what I say I must be fake, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:00 PM
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😂’high value men’. It depends on what you consider high value, I guess. I don’t care about money, cars, gym body. There are way more important things in life. I value behaviour, character, good will, respect, good sex, kindness. I also don’t want him to put a ring on my finger, not sure why you are fixated on the marriage thing. Not everybody wants to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:59 PM
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No. If I don’t click with someone I’d really rather not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:53 PM
2

But when I don’t click with someone it doesn’t mean ‘I can have better’ or ‘he can have better’. It’s not a statement of worthiness. It’s just a matter or not being well suited to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:50 PM
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😂 my boyfriend is not a creep, hence he’s dating in his age range. And yes, we are both lucky, both happy, and both very much into each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:48 PM
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😂 sure, as you wish! Or maybe I am just awesome and my boyfriend is too. You can seethe as much as you wish. I know perfectly well that it’s easy to get sex, and I could pick whoever I wanted for that, and I did. When I was ready to date seriously again, I vetted quite a few guys before meeting my current partner. Sorry if this doesn’t match with your ‘post wall women are desperate and lonely’ 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:13 PM
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That’s on them. If they just get whatever they can, and then find out that things don’t actually work, because they don’t vet, that’s on them. I would rather be alone than with the first guy I find just to be with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:06 PM
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That is not a restriction for either sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:04 PM
2

😂 sure! It means women have learnt and they are not getting married again!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:03 PM
1

😂 many, actually, in facts I had the luxury to decline those who weren’t good people and choose someone I really like and who is a great caring partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:02 PM
1

No darling, I am thinking of literally every guy, including the 1800s and 1900s. Do you ever read?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:59 PM
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😂 nice try at objectifying women once again! Your weird ideas stem from the fact that you don’t consider women as full human beings but only as sex objects to be appreciated for their looks, the fact that they can provide sex and for their femininity only. Normal balanced adults don’t see other human beings like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:45 PM
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😂 women have the same ‘restrictions’. They can’t go get whatever they want either (it’s called rape). They have to be ‘chosen’ by someone too (so they have to be cute, use make up, dress nice, get social, get an education, get a job etcetc). Same as guys, you know? The same laws, the same benefits from birth control etc apply to men. You sound jealous that women get to chose their partners too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:15 AM
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Awwww! But I don’t want to get married again. Too much hassle, and pointless. Plus I have properties that I want to go to my kids, not to a new guy, and I don’t want any more children at my age!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:12 AM
2

😂 sure sure! Never had more options than after I turned 40 loli
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 11:54 PM
4

‘Restricted’????? By which customs or laws?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 11:51 PM
2

You hate women, right? The very idea that they ‘are allowed’ choices on their body is loathsome to you. Women have the same freedom of men, now, in choosing a partner, in the west. Men HAVE ALWAYS monkey branched and gone for women way better than them (more beautiful, virgins, with good character, from better families etc) even when they were horrible themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 07:51 PM
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I think you are spouting a lot of bs, but if what you say is true, boi, you need therapy so badly. That’s not a balanced approach to social relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:35 PM
3

Just for a chat and a drink at a pub, I usually get a coke or a lemonade. Or a coffee date in the late morning if I am off work.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:32 PM
3

Surprise: the wall doesn’t exist and it’s a figment of your imagination
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:10 PM
1

We clearly live in two very different realities, as I think all you said is completely wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:08 PM
4

Why do you assume that if someone goes out they get drunk? I don’t even drink but was going on a couple dates a week when single.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:06 PM
1

And it can’t be because the woman is actually not shallow and she is actually attracted to a nice guy with a good personality, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 05:05 PM
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But that’s not how dating works. She is putting an effort, you are putting an effort. Personally I always go for coffee dates or for a drink and I occasionally pay, occasionally go halves, occasionally get my drink paid (I am talking of a 3£ coffee). I have never asked someone to offer me dinner (and I actually avoid dinner dates, especially at the beginning). I will not offer to pay for my drink if I picked him up and I am driving and paying fuel, but I will literally say ‘I paid for the fuel y…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:55 AM
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I am 5’7, never had an issue finding company, relationships or anything, if I wanted. I can tell that some guys have disappeared after one date just because I dress up in heels and they were shorter than me even without heels. I feel sorry for them and their insecurity. Thankfully my (shorter than me) boyfriend doesn’t have an issue with my height nor with my heels! 😊😊😊
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:55 PM
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Literally everything you have said about the guy in his thirties, applies to the woman in her thirties. She will be more accomplished, more mature physically and emotionally, will have better job, better pay, better social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 01:31 PM
2

Then the guy should wonder why she is with him, and not complain about the dead bedroom after the bare minimum has gone through and the relationship is cemented…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 01:28 PM
3

Question: why are women learning this shit and men aren’t? What stops 6yo Jimmy from talking to girls, 8yo? 10yo? 12yo? 14yo? Why should he not be required to have communication skills?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 07:09 PM
1

Personally, athletic/skinny, anything bigger is increasingly disgusting to me (and no it’s not fat shaming, I find repulsive more muscle than just athletic. I am totally not attracted to other body types. My dating pool is within those categories.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 06:13 PM
2

I left OLD because I found a relationship on there. The guys I met from the apps were overall ok (some overtly wanting only sex from the date, although I had pre warned them that there wouldn’t be any).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 06:05 PM
1

Sure. When she is pregnant, raising young kids etc, who is gonna work?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 06:07 AM
3

Exactly this. Women don’t want to have to support a lazy man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 06:06 AM
2

Redpill stuff does not work. The only sensible thing it says is to put energy in self improvement, which literally anyone will say.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 06:03 AM
6

So your ideal woman is one whose submission you can buy with your money. Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 09:03 PM
1

It’s literally due to positive discrimination, as men have bunches of privileges that women have to fight against since birth
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 08:30 PM
1

STDs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 07:24 PM
-1

Yes. And women are doing this better, apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 07:24 PM
-1

Didn’t someone just say women are doing better than men in study/career etc? Clearly they are not watching Netflix all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 07:22 PM
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Or potentially because women work their asses off while boys will be boys and play video games. For women there is a non spoken rule that if you don’t have your own money, career and place, you are going to be easy prey of domestic abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 07:45 AM
2

Of course you live in crap US. Most civilised countries give maternity leave to the mother who went through pregnancy birth and is possibly still recovering and bleeding for weeks and feeding a baby 12 times a day. Most civilised countries give several months of MATERNITY leave for this reason. There is also, in most countries, PARENTAL leave which is for the father or both parents to share in addition to maternity leave to recover from childbirth and breastfeed the newborn.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 06:14 PM
6

So maternity leave is gender discrimination? Wtaf.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 08:02 AM
2

Most people commit because they feel they are so in love with the other person that they want to grow old with them, have children, share everything in their life. They don’t care about ‘missing out’ on sex with others, because they only want that person. Sure, relationships and people change and things often don’t go like that, divorces exist, but it doesn’t mean that at some point those two people didn’t feel like above.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 09:35 PM
3

What you believe does not apply to ‘all men’. Easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 09:29 PM
2

This is not a walk in clinic. Surely the postal service works in Australia too? It’s all done online/via post. Order a kit online, delivered via post, sent back with samples via post, results online.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:43 AM
7

😂 swathes of guys taking a pill to benefit women? Never gonna happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 10:59 PM
2

See… I live in the U.K., get a discreet kit in the post, for free, take my own capillary blood, vaginal swab and send it back in the post, for free. Results are online and they make them shareable with your partner or whoever you want. For free.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 05:34 PM
2

Self care. Guys tend not to take care of their own skin/teeth/health as much. Fashion, and the choice of clothes which are often more flattering than practical or comfortable. Attention to details.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:53 AM
2

Yes. Of course. Finding a lifelong partner when you already have a child is more difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 09:03 PM
1

It absolutely does. I am separated with kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 09:02 PM
1

My LIFE prospect. The chances of having a child when I want to, with the person I want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 09:01 PM
2

If I have a child I am considered ‘damaged goods’ by a large part of men, by what I read in this subreddit. So? It’s gonna screw my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:32 PM
2

No court is going to just believe an allegation with no evidence at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:23 PM
0

This already exists in most countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:16 PM
1

But it’s only you and your likes thinking that women’s value is based on their looks. Not ‘society’
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 10:08 PM
2

Nope. I literally don’t care about money.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 08:09 PM
0

Yes, but it’s not ‘don’t produce more children’. It’s more ‘let covid do its job among the very sick and elderly instead of further screwing up the life of healthy young people’ like it happened
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 07:39 PM
1

Basically when she sees that he is leeching on her, not pulling his weight in the couple AND on top of that cheating on her, she sends him on his way. Weird, uh?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 08:25 AM
2

This doesn’t say what you think it says. It basically says that religious couples don’t get divorced, as they are almost the entirety of couples with no premarital sex. And by the way that doesn’t mean they are happily married.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 10:44 PM
1

It is actually the other way around. If your personality is great, I can overlook any physical traits I find unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 12:05 PM
1

Thank you for a chapter of the book ‘Things Which Never Happened’.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 05:12 PM
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Women get check ups, men don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:56 PM
1

I wouldn’t touch Di Caprio with a 10 feet stick. I think he is using the forks as much as they are using him. All in all, a bunch of people who deserve each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 10:26 AM
1

Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:12 PM
3

My boyfriend is 5ft6, very much thinning hair, and ‘universally’ may be considered unattractive. I am extremely attracted to him though!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 07:26 PM
0

Shaving. Plus apparently the pill stops the full development of the clitoris.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:37 PM
1

The simple take home message is: if sex is shit, I am not going to have sex with you. Now go cry about dead bedrooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:38 PM
1

Hadn’t we read yesterday that women who take care in their appearance and use make up and nice clothes are fake people who deserve to be cheated on? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 01:37 PM
6

From the amount of babies I see as a midwife being born to ‘women who act crazy’, I daresay that this is somewhat not real life. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:03 AM
1

Depends on the man, I daresay. There are some great men out there. There are also some great women. And plenty of average, too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 10:24 AM
2

You mean beauty was actually transient and they needed to have a good personality? 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 07:42 PM
-2

Because most men are scared of intelligent independent women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 07:30 PM
1

Men are fat in a higher percentage than women. Nope, more ‘normal men’ will not have to be with fat women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:23 PM
2

Basically you live a dystopian world where not all humans are equal. People like you are the root cause of the disgregation of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 11:57 AM
6

Depends if she’s barely legal..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:26 PM
1

This. Can’t fathom why these guys with the mindset of a silly 14yo don’t have fulfilling loving relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:35 PM
1

OP can easily sort that with arranged marriages I guess… /s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 09:03 AM
1

I don’t smoke and I read this first thing in the morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 07:05 AM
7

Which merits? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 07:04 AM
26

I get mad because the same guys who are looking for a virgin woman and consider the others ‘ruined’ and ‘not relationship material’ are totally happy hooking up with those ‘used up’ ones in the meanwhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:26 PM
0

Their ‘oppression’ is not being able to distinguish an onlyfans profile from a legitimate one and being asked for meals/money. Or not getting dates to fuck and dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 04:17 PM
1

I don’t need or want any man to protect me. I do it myself thanks. I avoid dangerous situations, and i don’t expect others to save me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:25 PM
6

Plus, I wouldn’t consider an achievement, or a positive thing, getting 500 messages from guys who want to fuck me and dump me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 10:20 AM
3

😂 my bf is clever enough not to get in a physical fight, I hope!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 05:33 PM
2

The cause of violence is deciding to be violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:41 PM
1

Sure, because not getting your dick wet causes you anxiety, comparable to the risk of becoming homeless if you don’t find a place to stay. Fgs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:39 PM
0

Women develop communication skills way earlier
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:50 PM
2

Because for women the only way to survive is communication. You have to learn to protect yourself, understand other people intentions and avoid dangerous people and places all your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:56 PM
1

It means they don’t want to support a leech.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:47 AM
2

Nope. It’s just under reporting. Police is corrupted and in villages even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 10:21 PM
2

Sure. Because in India all rape are reported…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 10:20 PM
-1

I am a woman. I never gave a shit about being ‘popular’. I invested my time and energy in studying and learning. I have always been very confident, because I am intelligent, capable and knowledgeable not because of my appearance. Hence, Billy beta could be a confident guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 07:03 PM
9

India’s monogamy is not doing it any good, though, uh? Highest rape rates, low pro capita income, not exactly known as the safest or healthiest population, or richest country…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 08:57 AM
5

India… great example!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 07:58 AM
2

😂 I am very attracted to him! I find him extremely cute and he drives me crazy! Is he going to become the next sex symbol? Nope. It’s like with your children. They may not be the most beautiful children, but you find them the most beautiful of them all. Will you sign them up for modelling next? No, you know they are not that beautiful!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 05:56 PM
2

It’s not a privilege being at risk of rape or receiving dickpics.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 05:51 PM
1

That someone who has postpartum psychosis is not in the same conditions and sound state of mind as someone who tonight decides to go to a club, spike a girl’s drink and rape her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 05:50 PM
4

You are talking of weaponised incompetence. ‘Oh, I can’t clean as good as you’ ‘I can’t cook as good as you’ ‘your cleanliness standards are too high’. Fgs…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:31 AM
0

It’s nothing unusual for any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:28 AM
-1

I had my share of tall athletic guys and I chose a short skinny one who doesn’t own a car and doesn’t go to the gym. That’s not what I care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:15 AM
1

I would say it rarely is a money thing. Being single is more expensive than being in a couple where expenses are shared
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:12 AM
0

This. Possibly just sex, and often this only consists in inserting a sausage repeatedly in a hole, followed by a ‘are you frigid?’
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:10 AM
0

You mean women cut toxic people from their lives? Good for them. Hey, wait, weren’t they illogical?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:03 AM
1

They also suffer from postnatal depression and postnatal psychosis. So?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:01 AM
1

The fact that most guy will have sex with you if you let them (and some even if you don’t let them), is not a privilege because many men would fuck anything still warm. ‘Oh my, what a privilege, most guys would use me as a fleshlight!’
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 08:34 AM
-5

Basically you are saying that patriarchy hurts men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 08:33 AM
6

Sure. Because women get trained from birth to smile, dress cute and be gentle.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 08:28 AM
7

If you think that a successful good looking woman does not get attention at 34, you are deluded.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 06:29 PM
1

Not at all. I don’t care about dick size, if guy has an effective tongue play! Edit. Actually, I care about dick size, as too big is uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 07:50 PM
2

‘Women stoop to shaming tactics and use shaming language’. You define women with some sexual experience ‘run through’.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:53 PM
1

This. She told him that sex sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 04:43 PM
1

Or his tongue is not being used…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 04:41 PM
2

So she doesn’t want sex because she is used as a fleshlight and you don’t make her cum. Solutions from you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 04:39 PM
5

Society does need children. Society does not need old obese sick people. Now, I love my 70 yo obese retired father with cardiac disease and hip replacements, but he’s a weight on society. Nature, viruses, society, cynically but rightly do not really care about my feelings for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 09:30 PM
1

By definition, if they are marrying interracially, there’s 2 people getting married and most are one man, one woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:50 PM
2

‘Rape is rare too’. Not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:30 PM
1

Then they will be virgins for life…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:36 PM
1

You watch too much porn. Most oral sex is actually not like that 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:34 PM
2

This.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:29 PM
1

For you. I actually quite like it instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:08 PM
3

Nope. Reproductive coercion should not exist.,
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:17 PM
4

Men have options too. Wrap your dick so you don’t have children out of wedlock.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:27 PM
2

You are too biased to see reality
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:55 PM
1

No you aren’t, and I can’t see where you are blaming the guy. Often these kids are love children, until the guy turns shitty and the woman is left with all the responsibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:59 PM
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Those statistics don’t say anything. Association is not cause/effect. Let’s say that it’s true and that children grown with single mothers bla bla bla. Is it because she is a single mother? Or is it because she was working three jobs to make ends meet while the father wasn’t providing shit? Is it the consequence of poverty? Lower parental education? Living in worse neighbourhoods with worse schools? Racism? So, actually those numbers don’t mean that single mothers grow shitty kids. It means that…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:32 AM
1

You mean women don’t want to be your bangmaid so they prefer living by themselves? Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:50 PM
1

If you saw them as human beings you could notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:29 PM
0

Because I was dating them until a year ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:00 PM
1

Not at all. I am in an loving relationship with an amazing guy, and we are both having a wonderful time together. Oh wait sorry, I shouldn’t because I have supposedly hit the wall 15 years ago! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:32 PM
1

Absolutely not. But because you only value looks, you literally cannot see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 12:10 PM
1

Said the guys who only consider women for their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 12:08 PM
1

They focus on looks because they still think women are stupid basic beings who can only bring looks and fertility into men’s lives. They only want a PYT for sex, and someone cleaning after them (and anyone can launder their dirty pants, doesn’t take a degree to put on a washing machine, so no brain needed). They are projecting that women only want looks because THEY only want looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:01 AM
1

It’s exactly the other way around. Personality is what gets you desired over and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:54 AM
-1

The point is that bitter guys who don’t get laid, want exactly that: shallow hookups with women with supermodels looks. They talk about how women are all bitches who use men and hypergamy and blahblahblah, but they are not honest on what they look for their side of the deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:49 AM
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Do you think guys’ profiles are any better? ‘Foodie’ ‘coffee’ ‘Netflix’ ‘gamer’ ‘gymrat’
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:51 PM
1

The problem with these guys is that they just want hookups with women who look like supermodels, and most averages guys aren’t going to achieve that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 10:35 AM
1

SAHM… You mean those women who give up their own career and independence, to deliver and grow the guy’s children, and let the guy pursue his career aspirations?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 10:34 AM
0

So you are not looking for a relationship with a ‘looksmatch’. Lower your standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 10:32 AM
5

‘Misbehave’? As in dating and enjoying sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 08:57 PM
1

You don’t get it. Some people actually like dating and casual sex. You do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 08:56 PM
4

Because if you have to ask someone to show enthusiasm, it’s horrible. It’s like having to ask your kid to say sorry for snatching a toy from another child. They may say sorry, but they don’t mean it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 07:38 AM
1

Nope. Not at all! I know what I like and what I want, if things don’t work sexually, I wouldn’t be in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 12:19 PM
3

I am 44 with 3 kids from past relationships. Things have been very good, dating wise, after 40, when I became single again. Had a lot of fun dates, sex, and I am now in a phenomenal living and caring relationship with loads of chemistry. Where’s your wall? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 12:18 PM
1

Are you actually kidding me? Getting equal rights and equal standing in society
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:57 PM
1

🤦‍♀️ the world (or women) are not conspiring against you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:21 PM
6

‘Trap men’ because they don’t have any say in their decision to get into a relationship, of course
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:38 AM
6

Some guys will actually NOT cheat even if they can
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:14 AM
2

There’s a huge difference between pretending to be a friend so that you can get into a woman’s knickers, and being friends with a woman and then actually developing feelings for her and she developing feelings for you. Women are saying that they like nice guys, and establishing relationships, not creeps who pretend to be their friends to have sex, and not pervs who treat them like sex objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 10:37 AM
2

In Italy, until 1981, a man who had raped a woman, by law, would not be prosecuted, if he married her. The ‘repairing marriage’. Don’t misunderstand, the actually repair was on the woman’s honour, because she was ruined for everyone else and for the family. The marriage would repair her honour (and her family’s) because then she would be married, plus, it would have been difficult to get her married when she wasn’t a virgin any more. 1981.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 09:39 AM
5

And if you don’t, then you are called a slut. There’s no winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 09:16 AM
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But, but… that’s only physical, not emotional and it’s biology! Plus, if women cheat it’s worse cause it’s emotional and the poor man gets to pay for a child who is not his! Financial rape! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 01:24 AM
1

Apparently the new rates of survival are better, 10-20% death rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:36 PM
1

I am for personal choice in that too. I wouldn’t let anyone touch my boy’s penis too. He can decide when he’s 18
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:38 PM
1

False. Most of those ‘perfectly healthy’ people dead with covid were morbidly obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:37 PM
1

Most people are vaccinated, you know right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:35 PM
1

I think that with most injuries or illnesses, you can still do some kind of job. You can be unable to work for some time, sure, but not forever. Unless there is some kind of big disability, so the question is quite pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:07 PM
17

People who are anti choice are not compatible with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 09:44 PM
2

But tetanus is lethal in 30% of cases, with good healthcare and at any age. Covid is lethal for very specific vulnerable groups who would be susceptible to death by flu or any other mild infection
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 09:29 PM
0

But the covid jab hasn’t been changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 09:28 PM
2

😂 did you ask for measles vaccinations before?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 09:27 PM
3

From my teens to my mid thirties I actually never invested in my looks but only on my skills, studies, career, knowledge, personality, hobbies. All the relationships I had were long term and deep because I never caught guys because of my looks, but only because of everything else. I have always despised guys attracted only to my looks and women who were only investing in their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 02:10 PM
2

Yup. Like school. You can be diligent and do all your homework but that’s no guarantee that you’ll be top of your class.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 06:07 PM
4

Don’t forget the ones who look like they have to go through the talking and listening bit to get their dick wet. They just can’t hide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 06:06 PM
0

I would teach consent, rather than rejection. Oh wait, they are 14 and 16 and I have been teaching them consent since they were little children by respecting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 05:33 PM
1

The article only says that if people don’t usually get married in a year when they have had more than one partner. The translation is that people marry after at least one year of relationship with one partner only.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 11:28 PM
0

Nobody is doing smear tests as a cervical screening any more (at least where there is a modern healthcare system). The golden standard at the moment is doing the HPVDNA test, so you find the infection well before it causes changes to the cells of the cervix.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 11:23 PM
2

So if someone, clearly through no fault of their own, has had a parent who was cheating, they get punished by you. Nice. Classy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:53 PM
1

Funny, because I am not!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:47 PM
7

Did you really out yourself like this? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:58 PM
2

I think they shouldn’t be telling. I also think that cheating is overrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:13 PM
2

Are we going back to casts and I didn’t notice?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 11:14 PM
1

That supposed to be a bad thing? 😂 maybe the drugs were giving you hallucinations.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 08:47 PM
1

I am over 40, lived in big cities, never seen anything like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 08:41 PM
3

The average dude IS overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 07:28 PM
1

Or that women who trust their partners are happier? Women who have more relaxed sex life are happier?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 01:33 AM
2

People’s social and communication skills are very low.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 05:34 PM
1

I don’t care about other people body counts, full stop. I care that my partner and I can bring a clean STD check to the table before non protected intercourse. Oh yes, and of course, that sex with him is good and plentiful. Which means communication and sex drive!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:35 PM
1

No woman I know every said any of that. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:33 PM
8

Lack of attraction comes from being a jerk to the other person. Relationship and marriage are a risk for both women and men if you pick the wrong person. Develop some social skills and vet your partner, but being paranoid about the other person having second aims in dating you, is extremely sad, beyond the first few vetting dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:55 AM
2

But, but, if you slept on a guy on date number one and your current boyfriend only got to sleep with you on date number three, you are settling for him and don’t really like him! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 10:43 AM
1

I disagree. No, sorry. Science disagrees. https://www.scotsman.com/news/environment/earth-overshoot-day-2022what-is-earth-overshoot-day-and-is-it-later-this-year-than-2021-3779596?amp
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 10:28 AM
1

You offered your skewed view. Why, did you bring scientific evidence? I am most certainly not wasting further time in bringing research to you 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 12:43 AM
3

I enjoy reading the idiocies that seething women haters like you come up with, that’s why I am on this sub. And no, thanks, I can most definitely choose who I want to be with, and it’s not a toxic, violent, misogynistic AH. I make my own rules and live by my own morals. I don’t need any provider and I don’t need a man! I choose to be with my boyfriend, as he decides to be with me, because we make each other happy. And I have all my responsibilities, don’t worry.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 12:39 AM
1

Unrelated. You claim ‘older’ mothers make damaged babies. That’s not the case. You can believe it as much as you want, doesn’t make it true
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 10:19 PM
1

We BOTH do things for each other. That’s not a ‘cost’, that’s a pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 10:15 PM
2

This.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 10:14 PM
2

Relationship does not equal transaction, no, it does only in your distorted view. In a relationship each of the partners collaborate to accomplish a shared goal. I am sad for you. You can’t have that. You might be able to buy a woman to produce kids for you. I am especially sad for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 10:14 PM
1

Your point has no scientific basis. Older mothers don’t make damaged kids
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 10:10 PM
3

😂 I am extremely feminine if I want to. Feminine doesn’t mean weak or stupid! 😂 I also don’t want to be a man, I am happy with myself! I am professionally successful, educated, have three great kids, a boyfriend, and I lack for nothing I care for. You seem salty and bitter, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 10:07 PM
1

Not even. I never had positive outside input, but I have high self esteem and I am very confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:33 PM
7

Btw… do you think the world needs more people? The planet can’t support the ones who already live here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:39 PM
1

You are wrong when you say that migrants take more than they give. I live in the UK and that is incorrect here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:38 PM
1

Your idea of relationship is transactional. I don’t do transactional relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:34 PM
1

I’ll add the mansplaining. That’s literally my job. I do the antenatal screenings, I do ultrasound in pregnancy, as I said I work in maternity. But of course, you claim you know better because you are a man. Sorry mate, this woman knows more than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:33 PM
1

You are saying things which are incorrect from a medical and scientific point of view. Plus, found the paedophile, I guess. 16 year old children should not be having children. But I guess 16 yo girls are easier to manipulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:29 PM
3

Sex is not a reward because relationships aren’t transactional. At least among fair equal adults. For controlling misogynistic guys, maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:28 PM
3

I am a woman, not a transgender woman. But I know very well what type of man you are and I have always known how to deal with the likes of you. When I was 12, one of my male teachers commented that women should stay home knitting. I replied that maybe that was his place, surely not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:26 PM
1

I would NEVER marry any of my fwb. That’s why they never became bf!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:20 PM
3

But the husband/bf IS GETTING THE SAME she’s getting! He’s getting commitment, relationship and all the things which go along with that!!! That’s a peer to peer partnership.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:19 PM
3

‘Women are whole human beings’ is a charged phrase? That tells us what you think of women. For you they are inferior cows to be used for sex and breeding. Incel view. Sorry for you and especially for any woman who crosses your path. And with this, sorry, I am going to invest some more time, energy and resources to make myself and my boyfriend happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 05:29 PM
1

You clearly cannot understand what I wrote. I actually explained quite clearly. No, older mothers don’t have stupid children. By the way, a woman is not considered an old mother at 30!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 05:25 PM
1

Poor him. You mean the house where his kids are growing, and that he could only buy with the 50/50 help of his wife? And no, property and body are not the same, and if you have your own properties before marriage, get a prenup.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 05:24 PM
3

Poor you. No, my boyfriend doesn’t babysit me, nor me him. I spend time and attention and money and energy as much as him in the relationship. No, he’s not risking his life. A relationship is not a leadership of the inferior woman, and that’s why you are so salty. You are never gonna find a woman with those ideas except in backward and traditional, usually religious societies. I have a job, extremely rewarding, and I earn more than my boyfriend. You are totally assuming things regarding my suppo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 05:22 PM
0

And by the way, although chromosomal abnormalities increase with age, prenatal screening and testing exist. Moreover, the rate of abnormalities is still overall very low. I would know, I work in maternity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 05:09 PM
1

Divorce rape 😂 sure!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 05:07 PM
2

That’s total bs. Sex doesn’t damage women. Doesn’t stop them from having meaningful relationships. It’s not me manipulating the discourse. Stating that men and women are equal and women have the same prerogatives and agency as men is just equality. Different doesn’t mean not equal
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 05:06 PM
3

Bs. Violence damages others. Women having sex with whoever they wish, doesn’t damage anyone at all. Women are whole human beings, with brains, education, jobs, and complete agency. I don’t see any ‘cooperation’ in society in your misogynism. You are just salty that you can’t exploit women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 04:49 PM
7

My boyfriend doesn’t have any ‘cost’ in the relationship. Maybe you should find an equal, to create a partnership, instead of whatever economic transaction you think a relationship is. Having had sex with several guys has not tarnished my value, because I am a whole person, and my sexual experiences are that: experiences, not a supposed damage! The whole issue is that you don’t see women as your equal. Misogynistic much.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 04:45 PM
2

Because they can’t get laid and then dump her all in one night.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 04:41 PM
3

Sure sure… same for women. Women want to have sex with guys they are really interested in, because they want to avoid men judging them. You bring it upon yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:48 PM
11

The reward isn’t the sex. The reward is literally the relationship with the whole woman, the potential of building a family etc. That’s where you miss the point. The fuckboi is not rewarded. He’s just used. Not someone you’d ever introduce to your friends and family
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:45 PM
35

Women are correct into thinking that most guys will not take them seriously if they give them sex too early. Men are bringing the wait onto themselves because of this! Plus, most women are not into having sex on the first date, even if they did it a handful of times when they were 20!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 12:57 PM
26

The type of guy who writes these posts is only interested in the sex part, so he’s bitter that he doesn’t get it instantly, as opposed to what he thinks happens to ‘Chad’. They are also never gonna get any if they don’t get past the relationship threshold, and with these views, it’s a hard task! These guys have a completely skewed view of women and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 12:55 PM
1

Both have bodies I don’t like. I can tell you that they are objectively toned, muscular and that they probably appeal to many women, as they are considered the ‘standard’ of attractive bodies, but I just don’t like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:38 AM
1

Jason Mamoa has a body type I find repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:34 AM
1

I also don’t care about small chins tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:31 AM
1

Too many muscles for me. I like them slim but soft.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:30 AM
1

You can put all the effort you want, but I may choose not to be with you because I don’t think we are compatible. It’s a necessary condition, not a sufficient one
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 08:51 PM
1

Women are happy to be in a relationship with a good guy. Women would rather be single than in a shitty relationship just for the sake of being in a relationship. Not rocket science…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 10:52 AM
1

If those are my options, I’ll stay single, thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:42 PM
2

I can confirm 😂 the fact that you don’t understand it, doesn’t make it false!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:33 PM
6

Are you kidding? You mean women are not a hive mind? (Insert shocked Pikachu face)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:31 PM
0

Good for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:40 PM
3

Let’s not forget to add that most men seem to desire any woman who is attractive enough to them. Women want to be sure that they guy they are dating/marrying is into them as a person, not just into it for sex/looks/lust. So yes, most women, if dating with relationship in mind, are going to probe, wait, and eliminate most ‘suitors’
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:41 AM
2

Entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:35 AM
1

Nope. 30ish, apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:49 PM
1

I mean… unless you go around parading your lack of sex, nobody knows. And I have never seen anyone ‘shunned’ for not having a gf or for earning less, except in very posh circles. Working class are doing just fine, from a romantic/ sexual point of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:48 PM
0

So women don’t want to date guys who see sex as transactional and participate in the exploitation of other women and want to date a straight guy. How dare they…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:06 PM
2

The reason being the guy is not heterosexual. Most women want to date a straight guy. Same applies the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:05 PM
-1

As I said above, sex for you is a transaction, and you want to buy a wife from a developing country.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:04 PM
2

See? YOU see sex as transactional. I don’t have sex with guys because I am ‘cheap’ in exchange for a drink. I have sex with a guy because I like him enough, I feel like having sex, I feel safe and I like sex. I have sex because I want to and I am neither uptight nor held by stupid religious or tradwife crap. Same as I would have a nice meal, because it’s pleasurable and satisfactory. What I don’t do is blackmail, use the guy for his buying potential, or go with guys who pretend to be into me jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:01 PM
5

You just defined having an unwanted child an ‘ inconvenience’
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 01:02 AM
1

Definitely didn’t mean that!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:53 AM
2

You are spouting discriminating nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 09:58 AM
1

I don’t know where you live, but I am in the U.K. and the NHS offers IVF with embryo selection for free in this cases. I have recently seen a young woman who has one of the BRCA genes and is having IVF for this reason. Of course you maybe child free by choice or be against pre implantation testing, but otherwise, this option exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 09:56 AM
3

They should be humans too. My boyfriend is not my protection, is not my ATM, he’s not my boss. He’s my peer. We decide things together. Or for ourselves and then inform the other. It’s not rocket science. I wouldn’t dream of telling him to not go on a trip he wants to go. He wouldn’t dream of telling me not to do something I want to do. Literally, my peer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 02:52 PM
1

You mean misogyny has damaged romance. Feminism literally asks for equal rights. Guys who can’t accept that women are equal, independent humans, fail at relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:49 PM
2

If you are lying on a couch or abed with a tv, ignoring your partner and kids, while she works her ass off, yes, you deserve being called all sorts of names. And still, she will usually only appeal to your better instincts to get you up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:24 AM
1

I am sorry for whoever feels that they aren’t enough without them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:12 AM
1

Or that studies are biased and ‘general’, but don’t apply to life. Even if your claim was true, it would not mean that women still prefer the tall broad shouldered guy after meeting him and his shorter and less bulky friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:51 PM
1

Sure, the hive mind…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:49 PM
1

😂 doesn’t everyone use their own experience? 😂 you ASSUME I am lying just because YOUR experience is different
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:42 AM
2

Why do you say that women don’t mind kissing another woman? Straight women mostly don’t like the thought of kissing other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 11:08 PM
1

Nope. Do you realise that even if 90% of women had a ‘height requirement’, which usually is just ‘not shorter than me’, that already includes almost all guys, as women are statistically shorter than men anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:44 PM
1

Come on, it’s mostly people who met and got together in the last 3-5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:42 PM
0

Drugs/getting drunk/misogynism/pro-life/loud-bragging type/low sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:01 PM
1

This. And also, if one wants to be the best lover their partner have ever had, they can put in some good work, instead of choosing their partner virgin so they don’t know any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:51 PM
1

Exes get into your mind because of plenty of reasons, generally related to child arrangements and various negative things. Not with sexual longing or remembrance
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:49 PM
1

I am not repressing anything, I am definitely very self aware. I don’t need a ‘confident guy’ and I most definitely don’t need a guy to feel ‘secure’
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:48 PM
1

😂 I work in MATERNITY! it’s guys who have pregnant partners NOW. Young men and women, mostly under 40yo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:47 PM
2

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:54 AM
1

Actually, not in that sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:35 AM
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If the way to be the best is the necessity to be the only one, then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:33 AM
3

Because all that matters is looks, ofc! My bf is shorter than me and he’s someone you would see and think he’s not handsome at all. Instead, I see him handsome, and he’s a beautiful person. Inside, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:54 AM
2

I see married men literally every day because I work in maternity. Tall, short, ugly, handsome, broke, loaded, clean, dirty, so obnoxious that I couldn’t put up with them for more than 5’.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:44 AM
3

If a guy can’t find the woman he’s looking for, maybe he should have a hard look at himself and consider whether he’s really the prize he consider himself to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:42 AM
3

You don’t get it. They only mean ‘dating down’ looks wise, or at most looks and money. They don’t even consider women as whole human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:41 AM
1

Whatever, mate
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 10:26 PM
0

Most people on tinder are not looking for ONS. It was born as a hookup app but now most normal people use it to find matches because there’s so many people on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:07 PM
1

And that’s assuming that all guys out the same effort and that all women like the same guys, which are both false assumptions
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:01 PM
1

I actually read the bios. I exclude people based on bios or the lack of thereof, on the type of pics (silly pics? Pics in front of the loo? Drinking/fishing/hunting/firearms etc. Yes, I look for compatibility also, not just a type I like.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:00 PM
0

I think you are assuming much. The platforms have evolved.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 11:05 AM
1

That’s projecting. You think that women will choose the most attractive of their matches because that’s what you would do. There’s more to people than their looks. And that’s still considering that different people find different guys attractive. I go for shorter skinny shaved guys with blue eyes and my friend goes for big dad bods with full beards and bald or shaved heads. Like… different people like different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:35 AM
1

Most people aren’t saying that same sex is disgusting. They are only choosing a heterosexual partner for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:29 AM
1

Poor them! Shamed into not talking about sex with strangers on a first date!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:22 AM
1

You are widely exaggerating
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:19 AM
1

And you think women don’t match with bots and scammers?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:54 AM
3

Take a hint and leave them alone. Girls don’t ‘play hard to get’. They are telling you they aren’t interested and if you keep pursuing them, because you can’t take no as an answer, you are creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:38 AM
1

Because more boys than girls die of malformations and disease.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:51 AM
1

Messaged for weeks and never got to fix a date, even after I said several times that I wasn’t looking for a pen pal but a guy for a relationship. In the end I said sorry, bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:11 AM
1

The guy she married had the ‘went on a dating app, found a chick he liked well enough to marry’, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:48 PM
1

You mean that as a rich white guy, Asian women were putting a ton of effort? As if you brought money and a passport to the plate?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:46 PM
0

Many guys’ opener is ‘hey, wanna bang?’. Even if you profile states you are looking for relationship and you aren’t open to ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:44 PM
1

If her friend is an 8, why should she be matching with someone like that? And also, do you think all guys who are 5’5 and overweight are amazing conversationalists?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:43 PM
1

Woman here, similar results on OLD. Excellent for ONS or FWB with low expectations, but the overall quality of guys is between bad and worse. Maybe 1 in 100 is decent enough to not look like a complete douche and also be able to hold a conversation as if they were my peer. Plenty don’t reply to messages, or ghost even after chatting and planning a date. Been defined as a solid 8, here, so no, I am not some kind of ‘below average landwhale’
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:38 PM
1

‘Hopeless mess of contradictory expectations’ … As if women weren’t a hive mind, you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:27 PM
1

I mean, a number of guys open the conversation with ‘hey! Wanna bang?’
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:26 PM
1

Do you think there’s a lack of ugly, lazy, socially inept, poor guys, unable to hold a conversation, in the world or on dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:21 PM
5

I was over 40 when I had my promiscuous phase, mainly with 25yo very handsome guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 06:38 PM
5

Not desiring to have sex with someone who is gay or bi is not homophobic. I am still entitled to choose who I have sex with. Same goes for dating within my race. I am simply not attracted to other races sexually. This doesn’t mean that I discriminate people of a different race from mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:50 AM
4

There is no ‘sexlessness’ issue. There are individuals struggling with relationships as it has always happened. A century ago guys would only be able to have sex in a marriage or in a brothel, there was no making out with girlfriends, teenagers having sex or any other contact with a woman except with a chaperone. They still managed to have significant relationships with the other sex, friendships and social lives. Stop whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 10:50 AM
1

No darling, that’s literally what life was like before the sexual revolution in the 70s, for my father, and as a teenager in the 90s for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 09:36 AM
1

I mean, in my father’s generation, it took meeting, making friends, dating, courting, getting engaged and getting married, which means a few years effort to get one for life, so one every 2-3 weeks seems like a sweet deal. In my own generation, it still took making friends, dating for several months-a couple of years, and then maybe get some. 2-3 weeks still seem like a sweet deal
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 02:02 PM
3

No darling. What happens to you isn your life is not your responsibility, but how you react to it, is totally your responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:47 PM
5

I am in a high density population area in Europe. But I work in a 99% women environment, and when I go home I have the kids, so for a long time I could not go out basically at all. I don’t have a group of friends here, to meet people, having moved countries at 35 yo. Yes, it is hard to meet the right guy in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 09:55 PM
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He can’t get better female friends because he believes the above shit about women. He believes that all women (hive mind, ofc) are anxious, weak, needy, useless, exploiting things which (not a grammar mistake) only gossip about fashion and astrology. If that’s his view, no wonder he has no valuable friendship with a woman (sorry, I mean, those things which only have a pussy as valuable thing on the table).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 09:38 PM
3

Nice, so now they can also say it’s all women’s fault if they are AHs. Finally they are able to blame women for literally everything
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:10 PM
1

Nobody is asking you how many partners you have had when you donate blood. They ask you whether you have had casual sexual partner in the last few months, and they don’t have any way to check whether it’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:36 PM
1

Gosh, are you telling me that movie stars are - check notes - not average????? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 btw, that applies to women characters also, and actually there’s plenty of ugly guys who get sex and romance in movies. Moreover, most adults can distinguish life from fiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 08:23 AM
-2

Your misguided impression.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 11:26 PM
4

There are options for screening and termination.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 11:15 PM
4

Not even gonna be harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 11:14 PM
-6

When a woman is with you, it means you are her first choice. Otherwise she would be out looking for better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 08:46 PM
1

🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:26 PM
1

🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 11:21 AM
1

There’s no research saying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:12 PM
1

Women don’t have ‘higher standards’ for casual sex. Women have different standards for casual sex. Those for relationships are way higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:42 PM
1

I desire my man, deeply. So?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 09:33 AM
1

And it’s not possible that they feel differently about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 09:33 AM
18

😂 that’s usually the men’s excuse!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:32 PM
2

Yes. You consider sex the only ‘prize’.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:07 PM
1

I am never going to do with a one night stand the things I do with my bf. And I think he would say something if he felt treated unfairly
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:16 PM
1

I am not ‘settling’! He’s an awesome guy, very sexual, and I like him like crazy! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 04:58 PM
2

I wanted to have sex, but I would have never considered him for anything else! A guy can be sexy and I can still consider him pretty much not enough for me from any other point of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 04:56 PM
2

Not with a new partner. With a stable one maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:55 PM
2

😂 I am totally into him, now, though. While I was actually never into the guy I had sex with earlier on!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:54 PM
6

You talk of attraction but you only mean attraction to looks and you believe that’s all there is, and that if a woman doesn’t have sex with you ASAP, it means she’s using you. Not true. My current bf ‘waited’ several dates before even a kiss. I wasn’t sure how I felt about him or whether I was into him at all. On the first date his coat had a weird smell. He sounded bitter and cynical. But I found him interesting and intelligent, so I met him again. And again. When I had decided I was actually i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:27 AM
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Fgs, women, mostly, don’t ‘make you wait’ because they are not attracted. If they are not attracted, they are not going to have sex with you, full stop. Not now, not in a month, not ever. They may wait to gauge your interest because they are actually into you and don’t want to get hurt. They may wait because they have their periods. They may want to get to know you better. They may have a UTI, thrush after antibiotics, or a pimple on their back! They may have eaten garlic and not want to kiss yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 12:21 AM
8

Guys are so used to death grip that they can’t orgasm with normal sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:38 PM
11

Tortured and raped women in wars may disagree too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:56 AM
1

I don’t spread negativity. People who say and think those things are negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 09:35 PM
0

Nowhere your ‘statistics’ prove that women ‘on average’ care a great deal about height.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 09:34 PM
1

😂 definitely not, I have a very happy sexual, family, sentimental and working life. Btw, I wouldn’t want to get near one of those guys with a 10 feet stick.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:40 PM
0

What you say is literally false by your own statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:39 PM
6

You have finally said that men who demand their wife/long term partner a paternity test for no other reason than ‘want to be sure’ have a mental illness and see the other sex in a negative light. Thank you for clarifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:56 PM
3

I have no trauma from my ‘high body count’. I am actually a fulfilled balanced adult! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:54 PM
1

I am not telling my partner all the details of my meals or diet or work activity. Am I lying by omission? 😂 my partner doesn’t care how many guys I have been with. He finds I am awesome in bed, and because he is not stupid, he can guess I have enough experience! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 10:15 AM
4

How many exceptions do you need to understand it’s not an exception at all? 😂 I am off the market too, just interested in the debate!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 10:11 AM
2

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:32 PM
-1

I am 5’7. My bf is 5’6. I have hooked up with guys shorter than me, and taller than me, I literally don’t care and I don’t think I am the only one who doesn’t. Sure, there will be women who have a preference, but saying that guys who are shorter than 6 feet will struggle with dating is bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:31 PM
1

I don’t need your fake statistics showing me in a good light or less, because I am awesome and people who get to know me hold me in high esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:22 PM
9

The point is that these guys want a virgin woman, but she should turn into a whore for them, and give them porn sex on day one, otherwise it means she is not really into them and she will only be settling. /Unfortunately it’s not sarcasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:36 PM
0

That is bs and you know it, if you have any intellectual honesty
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:51 PM
2

I was giving an example of how priorities, interests and compatibilities change.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:19 PM
6

And this is what incels and the like cannot understand. Different women are attracted to different things. Those details would definitely turn me off!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:05 AM
12

Grooming facial hair, haircut, decent clothes, white healthy teeth, smell nice. And no, women don’t ‘show off the result of puberty’, they actually often spend time in taking care of themselves, their grooming routine, their hair, their body hair, and they workout too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:34 AM
3

You mean those things are immediate turn offs, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:30 AM
1

Unfortunately he can’t fix that attitude real quick…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:28 AM
1

Even more judgemental.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:31 PM
6

But, but, they have to pay child support!/s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:59 PM
1

Total bs. The pressure to form a relationship has always been on women, so much that most languages have a different title and the word spinster has a negative connotation that bachelor does not have.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:56 PM
1

Very judgemental. So if your mother was a drug addict, you’ll become a drug addict?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 08:45 AM
3

Completely unrelated.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 08:45 AM
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Women are not disgusted by homosexuality. Women don’t want to end up with a guy who is actually more into men than women, or may be only pretending he’s into women to appease family or to have children, and might wake up one day and think ‘actually, I am gay, not bi’. Women also think that guys can easily cheat, and they don’t want to double their competition. Basically, women want to reduce their chances of being used or cheated upon. (With this I do not mean that bisexual people lie more than …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:53 PM
1

I’ll keep using it as I see fit. I am not looking for validation from my partner. I literally don’t need validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:15 PM
2

You can have sex ONCE and catch something. It doesn’t mean you are promiscuous
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:36 PM
2

Excuse me… who do you think these women have kinky sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 06:48 PM
1

I don’t need someone external to tell me that I deserve love, appreciation or respect. This means I don’t need validation. Saying that your partner not desiring you makes you feel unwanted, does not mean that I think I don’t deserve being desired, and in this sense, no, it’s not validation. It doesn’t change how I feel about myself. It changes how I feel in that particular. relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 12:13 PM
-1

Validation is something different for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 09:37 PM
1

What ages are we talking about? He’s 16 and she’s 18? That’s cool. He’s 14 and she’s 21? Not cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:59 PM
1

Validation? I love sex because of the connection and the pleasure. And being rejected by your own partner makes you feel unwanted, unloved, undesirable. I have a high sex drive, my boyfriend matches mine and I am currently very happy. One of the reasons my husband is now ex, is his low sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:55 PM
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The problem with you, and this type of guys, is that you consider women only for their looks, and that you think having had sex with others ‘ruins them’. Believe me, older women have enough experience to understand that you despise them and that you look down on them, and they’ll dodge the bullet. On op of this, clearly you would value a hot but dumb 20yo, over an average looking academically gifted one. Because you value the wrong thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:31 AM
2

To see what nukes she’s dodging, maybe…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:22 AM
1

Come back when you’re half as good as me. From all points of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:31 PM
3

A woman does not continually think of the moment she lost her virginity! Or about the man she lost it with! At all!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:20 PM
1

Widows.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:52 PM
1

42-43.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 01:42 PM
0

Why are you treating women as such?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:07 PM
4

That’s not making it any better!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:29 PM
5

Welcome to ‘get some STD testing’ class. It’s 2022, hun.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:13 AM
2

Darling, do you actually think your judgemental personality is attractive to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:10 AM
5

Lower their standard as low as it gets to include OP, of course. He even admits to negging them about their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:08 AM
5

Aww! You need a breeding cow!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:06 AM
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They are clearly kids. They believe that either you are with a top model or you are ‘settling’. They don’t understand the complexity of personality, charm, sensuality, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:50 PM
1

So, you don’t want a western woman because they wish you to pay for dates. You will look for a SE Asian woman who is looking for a green card, and be her provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 01:09 PM
3

Nope. No trauma. No drama. Parted ways. Hope he’s fine, I am not gonna chase him or his whereabouts.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 01:01 PM
1

Do you see any posts here which state ‘if a guy is a virgin at 30 it means there’s something wrong with him’? I don’t… the obsession with virginity, one way or the other, is a men’s thing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:01 PM
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Let’s be clear… you can have any ‘preference’ you wish, but yes, you don’t get to shame people who do not meet your preference. You don’t need to justify your preference, but if you try to ‘justify it’ by shaming people who do not meet said preference, and you resort to wildly faulted opinions and biased or wrongly interpreted studies to justify it, then yes, be ready for being accused of hypocrisy. Same if you demand your partner meets said preference but you don’t hold yourself to the same sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:12 AM
1

No darling, it’s the other way around. The body count shaming by men is demeaning to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 12:29 AM
3

I am in that little percentage. Every day is a good day for sex! Often more than once!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 01:05 PM
0

Tbh yes, if you are observant and sober, you can pick a lot of cues from the way a guy texts with you, speaks with you, approaches physical contact with you etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 09:04 PM
2

Sure, but then you are not following the first rule of sex. Don’t stick your dick into crazy. Anyway if I were a man, I’d get the knotted condom to throw it away in a public bin.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:03 PM
3

Wrap your dick and you won’t have this issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:14 PM
1

Had FWBs, although tbh it was mostly benefits and maybe a drink before or a movie before sex, not much else. They were young men with a 16-18 year gap in age from me, and they went on for a couple of years, mostly one after the other (one would only turn up every few months, so I did have other things on the meanwhile). At the time I was dating to find a long term partner. I stopped seeing all of them when I started dating my current partner, before even having sex with him. I have actually turn…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:25 PM
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In facts these guys don’t have any hope of a stable and longer relationship, at any point, if they don’t change their view
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:08 PM
12

What you call ‘settling’ is actually learning to value different things from when one is young. I don’t give two fucks that my partner at 45 wants to travel or have kids and go dancing until morning, while working a summer job. I care that he wants to cuddle in front of the tv and be there for me every evening because he works 9-5 Mon-Fri and loves frozen pizza.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:44 PM
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Funny how, instead, I wonder which of the group is happier or more satisfied, regardless of their marital outcome
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:02 PM
1

Oh yes, they totally do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 02:24 PM
1

Internet is different because strangers hiding behind anonymity have no qualms about insulting others.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 10:46 PM
1

Arguing as in discussing, meaning having different opinions or wanting something different at times is normal and healthy in any couple. The way you go around that is more important than anything else. Going about it in a manipulative way, or in a nasty way, or showing spite, despise, contempt, disrespect is a sure way to destroy relationships beyond repair. And I say this while having a perfectly amicable relationship with my ex husband. We never crossed those lines. We help each other as old f…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 10:40 PM
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I believe there are some things you can never ever say to a partner in a fight and then come back to be happily in love. You never tell a man he’s a loser, that sex was better with your ex, that he’s useless, that he can’t feed his family or similar things. You never tell a woman your ex was better in bed, that she is/would be a shitty mother, that she was a slut, that she is useless. Any issue can be sorted, but telling something nasty, even if you don’t really think that, just to hurt, is a no…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 08:52 PM
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Yes sure but even in a poor family of farmers, the man had the power and the wealth. He was the one with the contracts on the land, the owner/renter of the hut, the owner of the tools, and the one deciding what to do and how to do it. The woman had just to do what she was told.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 08:11 AM
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4 billion people may declare themselves some type of Christian but I can guarantee that the vast majority don’t follow the ‘rules’.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 08:09 AM
1

And yet they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 08:07 AM
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The standard was people dying at 20 of pneumonia with a partner and a couple of young kids. The surviving partner would very quickly remarry, because if the survivor was the man, he’s need a woman to take care of the children, if it was a woman, she’d need a man to provide for her and the children. Where do you think all the stepparents in fairytales come from?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 08:06 AM
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But darling, having one night stands or fwb situations does not carry trauma. Relationships ending may. And mentally healthy people grieve for their loss and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 06:09 PM
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Awww! That’s why they complain that women go find someone else after a while!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 04:21 PM
1

Finally a post which explains reality instead of talking shit. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 08:57 PM
1

Recent times being the keyword here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 08:33 PM
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I work in maternity. Most people get in long term relationships even if they are shitty individuals, highly problematic, with serious physical health conditions, with serious mental health conditions, with social issues, obese, objectively not beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:14 PM
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Yeah, safety from being stoned to death for being outside without a male chaperone…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 09:39 PM
1

This is in your head, I swear.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 07:39 PM
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Initiated by women when men cheat or become abusive? Good riddance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 07:35 PM
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Your ‘source’ is ‘Men’s health’, which actually only states that women apparently lose interest IN SEX, not in the relationship, especially when there are small children, a history of sex abuse and a STDs… wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 06:35 PM
1

Tell me again, which female head of state has started a war in recent times?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:09 PM
1

The age of first child has not changed since 1938.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:08 PM
1

No. People grow and change. Maybe you are not there yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:00 PM
1

It’s a pump and dump only if he pretended to be interested in relationship while knowing full well he was only in for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 07:02 AM
4

No decent person calls women used cars
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 06:59 AM
2

You can still enjoy frivolous things AND save for a house at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 06:58 AM
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Yes it does, because he DECIDES to be with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 06:56 AM
1

I don’t know the body count of my bf and I don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 06:54 AM
1

I would start the revolution. I am not getting married against my will. Succeed or die trying. By the way, the question is basically asking who you prefer to be raped by.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 06:21 AM
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However, if you feel that she fakes and don’t start the conversation, you are part of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:04 PM
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Oh wow, the bond. While having a baby after another, and breastfeeding, and risking death and disability with each pregnancy. Sure, not so much today, in the first world, but that’s why for women it is important to find a partner who is going to stick with her and the offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 04:00 PM
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Men are also the ones causing wars, their way of kind of fighting over whose dick is bigger…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 03:58 PM
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Tell me again when you develop a side effect from the wonderful birth control you have been on for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 03:57 PM
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I am over 40. I like some 25 yo (and not necessarily what you’d define ‘top 20%’ or whatever), for a ride. They are safer: unlikely to be too blasé or bitter, angry, disrespectful, nasty, judgemental, serial killers etc. I found the ones I chose chatty, sweet, good in bed, not selfish, caring, cuddly, spontaneous, and one of them, on one occasion, even offered to talk with my 14yo son, who was having a heartbreak over a girl and had messaged me all upset during a date! I think I had very good lu…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:21 PM
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Your role model has to be female, in OP’s opinion, because what he is after is literally just a way to tell women from ‘broken families’ and who don’t look up at monogamous/low body count women as role models, that they are whores. If your role model is a man it doesn’t count because ‘men and women are different’ and if men have several sex partners they are successful, while if women they show ‘lack of restraint’ and ‘impulsive behaviour’ and they make unreliable filthy partners who will cheat …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:37 PM
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Why, do you think that single mothers do not love and value their children above everything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:15 PM
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Do you realise that most women actually work in normal jobs, right? Also, men have way more orgasms than women in heterosexual relationships, so don’t come tell us about our pleasure organs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 04:46 AM
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😂 it hasn’t changed since 1938.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 08:04 PM
1

I mean… the average age of first child in the U.K. is over 29. At 30 most women have only started their families.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:06 PM
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Yes, you are correct. Other subtypes are responsible for the rest (clearly, that percentage is going to increase as the vaccine decreases the risk of getting those two subtypes). I am aware that there is no screening for heterosexual men, however there’s anal cells smears, urethral hpv swabs and sperm can be analysed too. They are only done on individual basis, in my country (I am in Europe)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:53 PM
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😂 I doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:40 PM
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Fertility declines with age. The decrease of fertility doesn’t mean that you turn 30 and you can’t reproduce, or that you face huge struggles in order to have a child. Nobody has ‘hit the wall’ at 30, ever. Anyway, for more info https://www.britishfertilitysociety.org.uk/fei/at-what-age-does-fertility-begin-to-decrease/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:39 PM
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Fertility declines with age. The decrease of fertility doesn’t mean that you turn 30 and you can’t reproduce, or that you face huge struggles in order to have a child. Nobody has ‘hit the wall’ at 30, ever. Anyway, for more info https://www.britishfertilitysociety.org.uk/fei/at-what-age-does-fertility-begin-to-decrease/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:38 PM
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Sure, sure! Not to worry! In the meanwhile this elderly lady is having sex three times a day! But yes, I still have to use contraception because, you know, fertility. Btw, I got pregnant at 36 having unprotected sex just once. So much for aging women of 30+
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:15 PM
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They aren’t. But for sure they can tell you despise them, so no, they are not going to open their legs for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:10 PM
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I am explaining what people posting these threads mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:06 PM
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Once a month for 3 years, goes quickly to 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:14 AM
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From a guy from Utah and one from Pennsylvania. 🤣🤣🤣 their interest lies in, guess what, religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:11 AM
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You don’t get the point. Women only should have it, for those individuals, not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:00 AM
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Imagine calling 31 year old women ‘aging women’… 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 02:48 PM
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Thank you for acknowledging that what I say is, in fact, correct. People have downvoted me for stating, once again, facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 02:35 PM
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Just saying… all these women you are talking about are just 30 or so! Basically. at their best age! Beautiful in a mature way, accomplished, with life experience, they know what they want! It’s completely your idea that at 30 they ‘hit the wall’ and that they have to rush to grab a man, any man, before it’s too late! Believe me. I am over 40, guys still find me hot enough that I can get sex whenever I want, if I do wish, but that I don’t have to put up with anyone if I don’t want to. Have had th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:48 AM
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Just saying… all these women you are talking about are just 30 or so! Basically at their best age! Beautiful in a mature way, accomplished, with life experience, they know what they want! It’s completely your idea that at 30 they ‘hit the wall’ and that they have to rush to grab a man, any man, before it’s too late! Believe me. I am over 40, guys still find me hot enough that I can get sex whenever I want, if I do wish, but that I don’t have to put up with anyone if I don’t want to. Have had the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:48 AM
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Second. Sour grapes much.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:39 AM
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The vaccine only protects from 2 subtypes which cause cervical cancer. Many other subtypes do, although they are less common. The vaccine is not going to eradicate cervical cancer, but ofc it decreases your chances of getting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:35 AM
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Of course there are tests to know whether you have it. The vast majority of the population gets in contact with HPV, and has zero consequences. The virus arrives, sometimes will cause changes in the cells of the cervix and most times it clears up by itself. Only in a few women it progresses to more serious changes, and then to cancer, and it takes on average 10-15 years. Most countries offer a free programme of cervical screening. Years ago it was done with the smear test to look for changes in …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:33 AM
0

I’ll tell you something… nobody cares if you take off your shirt running. Unless it’s illegal where you live…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:31 AM
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The problem is that in his opinion the correct attire for a woman is a full on burka. This way is respectful for others, who do not feel the urge to catcall you, harass you or rape you. Oh wait, but even women in burkas are harassed and raped…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:29 AM
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Stable job, stable personality, intelligent, sociable enough, caring, couple/family oriented. I don’t give a single f**k regarding his sexual options.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 07:22 PM
2

Don’t they reproduce? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:11 PM
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But it’s required to get into my bed a second time…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:28 AM
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Men in the 40s were happy their wives, sisters and mothers were at home raising children.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:06 AM
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That is the meaning of the word. If your bigotry makes you include any woman with a sex life in the category, that’s your problem. I have sex. I am not a whore. I thank god that people like you wouldn’t consider me as a potential partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:24 PM
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Nope. Also ‘many’ is an opinion. Whore is someone getting paid for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:05 PM
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That’s your personal definition, and you are calling me a whore for no reason except your bigotry and hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:51 PM
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It’s complete bs. A small minority of women only want 6ft guys. Guys of all heights find sex, love, relationships and have wives and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:46 PM
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That’s not whores though, is it? I am not a whore for enjoying sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:35 PM
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You prefer that, whatever, you do you. All the made up ‘they are all cheaters’ ‘they can’t hold a relationship’ ‘it’s man nature’, is all bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:19 PM
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I get this, you get this, I doubt OP gets this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 07:29 AM
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That theory is shit, and it can only be considered if you consider sex and relationships am exchange. It does not understand personal growth or feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 08:47 PM
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Depends if the ‘crossing boundaries’ includes ‘dressing as she wishes and not as he dictates’, and similar stuff or if ‘difficult to handle only means that she has opinions and doesn’t just bleakly agree with him on everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 07:48 PM
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No, that’s not ‘what guys want’. That’s what a minority of toxic men want. I am very happy that my being independent, accomplished and assertive excludes me from their dating pool. Good riddance.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 07:44 PM
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Darling I am 40something, most 50yo guys can’t keep up with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 07:33 AM
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They’ll reply that you are getting those who ‘hit the wall’. They want a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:46 PM
1

Because when people get a culture, they understand that the right oppresses and exploits women, minorities and the poor, while only helping the oppression and exploitation by rich white men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:03 AM
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100% not a woman saying those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:54 PM
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The point is completely there. I don’t NEED my partner. At all. I CHOOSE to be with my partner, because I like him and I have feelings for him. And if he were to disappear tomorrow, I would be sad but not lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:53 PM
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She is getting to know the new one. They are just talking. You can talk to and date several people at the same time. They are not together as a couple. There’s no reason to change her life until they are something. Also, there’s no reason for her to tell Jack about her sexual life before him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:28 PM
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Tbh, serious medical conditions where sexual relations are nearly impossible, falls within the ‘something very wrong with them’. Having such a busy missionary life that you can’t entertain normal relationships, also falls into that category for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:05 PM
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Of course you are hypocritical. And a misogynist!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 12:50 PM
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That’s what I always say (woman here!). I wouldn’t even buy a pair of shoes before trying them on!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:39 PM
4

For you. But women aren’t a hive mind. For me sex is very important. If I didn’t have a FWB, I’d have sex with every new date out of thirst. So I’d rather have a stable one and go dating relaxed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:24 PM
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Having a virgin woman is not even necessarily a good thing. It is almost exclusively a preference or a requirement of a relatively narrow set of guys. The religious ones and the hypocrites (which mostly coincide, by the way). And anyway funny you use these examples because both the house in LA and the Lamborghini are high maintenance. Guys who want a virgin bride, will have to jump through hoops with her and her family, before marriage, marry a possibly secluded woman, and put up with unimaginab…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:39 PM
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I believe you’d consider my body count unreasonable. That’s because when I was single I had sex when and with whom I wanted. But I also had long monogamous relationships. Saying that if you had casual sex you can’t be loyal or in a LTR is like saying you can’t eat healthily because when you were 20 you used to buy fast food 5 times a week. Doesn’t make any sense at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:23 PM
1

That’s exactly what I did and worked nicely for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:32 AM
1

You are actually correct and 5 7 is the average height worldwide
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 11:01 PM
0

Relationship worthy guys don’t go a dime a dozen. While looking for a good one, women want their needs met too, and a toy boy can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 10:54 PM
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I have had quite a few partners and for sure you would consider me a ‘ruined and broken woman’. I am thankful for that because I don’t run the risk of having anything to do with anyone like you! I am definitely not broken, I am definitely not ‘ruined’, but I have gone through good and bad times in several different relationships and situations. I am a balanced adult, I have kids, I bring zero drama, and I have an extremely healthy monogamous relationship with an amazing man. Blaming the ‘white c…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 08:25 AM
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The poor decision making is not understanding that there’s an age for everything. It’s perfectly normal for young people to experiment and have fun while young and then become adults, and decide to settle down. For me marrying with no sexual experience is extremely poor decision making, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 08:01 AM
5

I think we should, as a society, stop talking of girls under consent age as potential sexual partners for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 07:56 AM
4

So men are allowed to ‘fuck around with prostitutes and low quality women’ because ‘they need the sex and human touch’ but women cannot have the same needs… interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 06:53 AM
1

Well, if you describe them as hot women, they must be above average. It is understandable that they look for above average men, in one respect or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 10:41 PM
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Not ‘my opinion’. 5 7 is literally the average height of a man in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 12:03 PM
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But he doesn’t want to marry you. He wants to be the one with the economic power in the relationship, doesn’t value a partnership and most definitely does not want a family. His dream is to buy HIS house. His dream has never included you. Now you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 10:55 AM
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Either he doesn’t want to start a family with you and he is scared that once you have the house you’ll be wanting a ring and kids, or he doesn’t see a couple as a partnership. Either way, not someone you’d want a future with. Good riddance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 10:52 AM
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No they don’t. They don’t have even a basic grasp of statistics and they definitely don’t understand how to read a study and detect possible bias. They are the type of people to interpret that people living in cities in the 90s liked to watch movies more than people in the country, because there were more blockbusters in the cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:46 AM
1

I have what you consider a ‘high body count’. Because people are not ‘bodies’, what I actually have accumulated is experience in interpersonal relationships, social skills and being comfortable with my sexuality. I am completely monogamous when I am with someone (had very long term relationships, since I was young, my first ever relationship was for over three years, starting when we were 16). I don’t even consider other guys sexually, when I am with someone. I don’t have itches to scratch, I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:40 AM
-1

That goes down to your self esteem. At 5 7, you are not short, you are average. But you call yourself short. I am a 5 7 woman and my partner is 5 6, btw. I always preferred short guys when I was a teenager (my crush when I was 15 and as tall as I am now, was 5 4), I find very tall guys uncomfortable to be around, and as an adult I never cared about height at all. I guess my preference lies between, 5 4-6 2. Beyond those I think I’d be uncomfortable at the beginning, but I still wouldn’t even cla…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:30 AM
2

No woman gets an inflated ego by having a one night stand with a cute guy. He’s not ruining the market for you. Women KNOW many guys would fuck anything that moves (or even that doesn’t), and we don’t believe we are hot/pretty/beautiful just because a stranger has told us while horny and half drunk one night. That stems from self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:21 AM
2

Most men of that type actually have social skills enough not to make a big faux pas. They will not end up banned for inappropriate behaviours.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:00 AM
0

You clearly don’t understand the difference between causality and association. Also the same 10% of antisocial men who you report apparently fathering 27% of babies, belong almost certainly to the lower socioeconomic background population, which is where most babies are born and where many women are trapped or coerced into pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 10:34 PM
9

Married men report higher happiness than unmarried ones. I guess it depends on what you want from life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 01:47 PM
8

‘School curriculum oriented masculine’ ??? What does that even mean???
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 01:46 PM
1

I guess in an open relationship the information is shared. Personally I wouldn’t flip if my partner had sex with another woman. I have actually told him to do whatever he wants because I want a man who chooses to be with me, and not a man who stays with me because I cut all his other options. But he doesn’t need to tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 09:45 PM
1

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 08:10 PM
7

Not everyone is a thief, but you still lock your house and car, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 06:20 PM
1

It’s been a while since I read such a quantity of misogynistic stuff all together. I pity your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 09:51 AM
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For 99.99% of history the government made poor people work like slaves, often more than 14-16 hours a day, with nothing more than enough food to sustain themselves and sometimes their families with that. If the government was rich it would also enrol people in the construction of big projects (pyramids, aqueducts, the Chinese wall) so that they would not have time or energy to start a revolution, under the guise of improving their lives or for religion. Religion would also keep the poor quiet, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 08:05 PM
1

Less babies, less men. It’s all ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 08:00 PM
1

People are not owed sex, not even in a relationship. If you are unhappy with your relationship, you communicate your needs and wishes, see if there is common grounds with your partner, and if there isn’t, each can choose to separate and go their own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 07:57 PM
1

You are talking of a religious couple, she’s pregnant or has just had a baby most of the time, and she only has sex to procreate, so once every couple of years sound about right
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 10:39 AM
0

Sorry to break this onto you, but most women are not menopausal yet at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 10:30 AM
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And nobody has ever thought of seeking a diagnosis? it sounds like he may be on the autism spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 10:28 AM
1

My eldest is 16, and is uninterested in girls as yet. That’s ok! if he becomes interested I will give him dating tricks! I don’t think my child will struggle, though, because he’s nice, clever, polite and clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 10:25 AM
1

They will answer that they didn’t have sex in the last year.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:07 PM
0

So basically the ‘win’ for you is just fucking a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:05 PM
8

Exactly this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:53 PM
7

Are you kidding? If they jerked five times a day in a dirty sock when they were 15, they are damaged goods and they can’t be relied upon to want a healthy relationship ever! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:52 PM
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Someone who wants to have sex and fun is not necessarily abusive. You can be nice, sexual and fun, and just that. You don’t have to lie, you don’t have to degrade anyone, you don’t have to abuse, control manipulate, to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:51 PM
1

Most of them have dead bedrooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 08:01 PM
2

‘You kidding? All women will jump on gigachad dick as soon as he cold approaches them in a club!’/s
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:45 PM
1

Do you realise some people CHOOSE celibacy, for example for cultural or religious reasons, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:21 PM
1

Same they had to do to find us, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:19 PM
2

I am undiagnosed but I think I am on the spectrum and I match the description
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:03 PM
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My boyfriend seems to fit the description.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 08:24 PM
2

If he feels he deserves better, he should have gone for better instead of settling for someone he doesn’t like enough. He’s an entitled abusive asshole, that’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:18 PM
1

Are you kidding me? As a woman I do each and every one of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 07:25 AM
1

It’s not the unchangeable looks that guys whine about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 07:25 AM
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Well, you are wrong. I see couples every day because I work in maternity. Ugly men are having kids every day, with all kind of women. Ugly women are having kids every day, with all kind of men. And believe me sometimes you look at them and wonder how on earth did they get together, they are so mismatched in looks/height/weight/social class/ethnicity etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 07:22 AM
1

It’s the other way around but sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 07:11 AM
1

Same things a man does.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:05 PM
1

Why do you think women don’t have to do anything? That’s a skewed narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:03 PM
1

The boyfriend bar is actually higher, but hey, if you want to believe it isn’t, no problem
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:02 PM
2

I recommend this. https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/practical-mindfulness/202103/3-ways-stop-angry-rants-in-1-minute?amp
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:00 PM
2

I don’t, I laugh my head off at your incongruences and claims!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:43 PM
2

There’s no hypergamy, just your paranoia
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:57 PM
2

😂 I haven’t hit any wall, and I have never been so desirable, accomplished and happy!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:54 PM
2

Btw, that is NEVER gonna happen. You are ranting
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:51 PM
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😂 feeling attacked by a generic ‘you’ 😂 don’t worry, I didn’t settle for anything, any guy I have been with I have chosen because I liked them! And don’t worry I don’t fuck the likes of you (you personally in this case!)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:22 PM
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Are you ok? Because you don’t seem ok. What are you talking about? I live my life as I see fit. If my having sex bothers you so much, you have issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:25 PM
1

If the other person is in a relationship, they are cheating, not me. I am not looking for people in relationships to become my fwb or hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:50 PM
1

Someone else who is single? Yes sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:38 PM
1

I don’t cheat. If I called someone cheater, it means they were in a relationship and having sex with someone else. Are you high or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:32 PM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 ‘the consequences of my actions’? Hun, everyone is responsible for their own actions and their result on their own lives. You guys failing to fuck or reproduce IS NOT my issue. It’s not even a societal issue. You guys not getting your dick wet is literally nobody’s problem. Truth is, women today barely expect bare minimum from their partners. And they are still disappointed. If you can’t offer bare minimum (clean, shit together, pleasant, not misogynist, working, supportive, not selfish …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:00 PM
2

Nope. You are misinterpreting your numbers hun.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 11:53 AM
1

Not at all, which boundaries do I have when I am SINGLE?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 11:48 AM
1

You wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 11:41 AM
1

By the way, do you know what confirmation bias is? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:58 PM
3

Your post actually shows that men are having more sexual partners than women and that young men are less interested in sex than previous generations, plus that men start having sex later than women (very common, as young women usually find older boyfriends).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:57 PM
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It’s not looks though, is it? Is self care, attitude, the confidence that sitting straight or walking looking in front of you or smiling give.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:49 PM
1

Do you struggle with reading comprehension? Do you know what ‘single’ means?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:48 PM
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No. But luckily I can read.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:47 PM
2

Yes, I have had boyfriends whom you would consider ugly and hopeless, because they were nice, charming and interesting. So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:46 PM
3

You are inventing numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:45 PM
8

That’s a fixation you have, that women all go for the same guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:05 PM
1

Literally NO woman nor feminist says that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:03 PM
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Plenty of ugly guys find love and sex, I see ugly guys married and living a happy family life and a happy loving relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:01 PM
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You are vulgar, by the way. Whoever uses such language is clearly showing who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:59 PM
5

So you are telling me that hair style, hair colour, clothes, attitude, cleanliness, are not communication. Sure. Communication is made of verbal and non verbal elements. The way you dress, walk, sit, talk (not what you say, but the way you say things), your smell, your hairstyle, are all part of communication. Why do you distinguish an emo boy from a punk or a nerd? From the way they talk? 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:58 PM
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It’s not ‘sex without responsibility’. It’s sex without the feelings, the intimacy, the cuddles, the enthusiasm, the will to see the other person crazy about you. Literally, just sex. It’s ok, it’s fun, but it’s not the same as sex with the person you have a relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:55 PM
1

‘But it’s different! Women are the gatekeepers of sex and should keep an aspirin between their knees!’
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 07:59 PM
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Ugly guys still cheat, pump and dump, and play. So no, I don’t get someone I don’t like because they should be better! Very often not only they aren’t better, but they are also bitter!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 07:21 PM
1

But that, again, is not ‘looks’. That is social skills. How you appear is already communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:45 PM
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The contrary is also true. If a guy is ugly but kind, nice, confident and pleasant socially, they will get laid. Familiarity makes us see people handsome and reassuring.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:44 PM
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Just to be clear, women don’t gaf if their choices ‘contribute to inceldom’. I am not a charitable business!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:43 PM
1

What do you mean marriage contract? I am talking of the fact that if I am single, I do whatever I wish. What has marriage got to do with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:12 PM
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No they didn’t. You think that because you see women as objects. This is why you don’t get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:09 PM
0

I don’t give a shit of how much money a man ‘invests’ on me. I don’t look at those trivial things.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:00 PM
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Men fail to get laid because they have unrealistic expectations and are not playing to the strengths
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:58 PM
1

I have literally NEVER heard a feminist say anything different than men and women are equal
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:57 PM
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Feminists are only saying that both sex are worth the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:30 PM
-1

That’s because all they want is casual sex and they don’t see women as persons with agency and feelings but only as ‘cum dumpsters’.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 10:09 AM
-1

Sure, it’s easier to coerce and control women if there’s no contraception or abortion. That is the end aim.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:58 AM
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False. I see you as desirable and fun but I see MORE in you so I’ll wait before getting so invested with you. And if you get a relationship with me, you are actually getting the prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:56 AM
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This is totally your problem. You see sex at the same level of money. More money more value. Quick sex more value. It doesn’t work like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:55 AM
1

Like every other woman. That’s why they don’t get any
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:43 AM
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That’s why if we are interested in you for ltr you get to wait. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:43 AM
1

They are just bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:41 AM
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For 99.9999% of our evolutionary history, we’d also die in childbirth at high rates and neonatal death was appalling. Things change. We use smartphones now…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 07:04 AM
-2

Sure, because women are all voluble and mentally unstable…/s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 07:02 AM
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Because they are so repulsive, both in personality and attitude, and their standards for women are so high, that they can’t get that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 07:01 AM
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Why would I want a cute idiot? 😂 I am intelligent and pretty enough woman! I can fuck someone because they are charming and cute enough, but they may be the type of guy who ‘is fun’ but with no brain!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:54 AM
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It absolutely does, but the point is that the guys here want the casual sex that women are not giving them. Also, they don’t understand that, unless they are absolutely disgusting people on all respects, they would still be getting even casual sex. But they want it from top model virgin girls, whom they would then despise for having casual sex anyway, so for some reason, that’s not happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:49 AM
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Do you understand English? If I am single, who am I cheating on? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:15 PM
3

Random guys are not asking random women to marry them. If they were prematurely proposing, they would be considered creepy and turned down
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 04:05 PM
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Men are scared to ask a woman on a date, in case they get a no, how many guys do you think are going to propose without being sure it’s going to be a yes? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 04:02 PM
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Because in order to ask for marriage, there are plenty of steps needed beforehand, and most relationships don’t ever get to that point!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 04:01 PM
5

What has this to do with cheating. If I am single I am not cheating on anyone!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:53 PM
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Enjoying single life and having fun is not cheating. I am monogamous if I am in a relationship. If I am single, I have sex with whoever I want! By the way, in a relationship I am neither virgin nor not having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:27 PM
-1

Stay single, don’t worry.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:25 PM
-1

Personally I’d suggest you cultivate your relationship and don’t get married if you think the other person is untrustworthy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:04 PM
1

This.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 12:54 PM
3

Even worse. ‘Ideological reasons’ =not trusting ANY woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 12:54 PM
4

FO. If you think you need a test, you are literally telling me that you believe I may have cheated and be lying to you. I don’t share my life with someone who doesn’t trust me or believe me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 12:52 PM
5

I pity her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 12:49 PM
1

Same here. But I am not in my mid 40s and am am being realistic! Almost nobody is going to keep their hair on forever. But the full shave no thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 12:40 PM
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If they told me this, I’d know I have dodged a bullet, because the guy clearly lacks common sense. I’d defo not run to my bedroom and cry. Plus I have a sense of my own worth as a person, thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:45 AM
1

A minority of people are obese due to physical health conditions which affect their metabolism. Many due to mental health issues or medications they take for their mental health issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:42 AM
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People also want to act like it’s not possible to have fun for some time and then be monogamous at other times.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:14 PM
1

I don’t see anyone forcing people to go out and have casual sex nor relationships. What’s your problem, exactly, with people choosing what to do with their own bodies?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 08:48 PM
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How did you understand and manage to do that? By putting an effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:58 PM
1

If you want to go to the supermarket and buy, you have to put a great endeavour. You need to get an education and become literate, get a job, earn money, be able to use some type of transport, choose products, etc. The fact that you can do easily it, doesn’t mean it’s not taken you years to get to that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:57 PM
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They are so bitter, it feels like they are having no cake, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:20 PM
1

Or maybe, who enjoy sex and life when she is young and naive, and then understands what type of person she wants to spend her life with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:43 PM
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But they don’t want that woman. Because she sleeps with guys straightaway, so she is a slut in their opinion, hence not relationship material
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:41 PM
1

It’s the same for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:36 PM
1

A couple is a partnership. Is based on feelings and common aims, not on ‘I need a provider in exchange for sex’.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 05:31 PM
1

You clearly meant money wise, but sure, can change it now, to suit your aims…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 05:23 PM
1

Sure, that’s why they are getting degrees and jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 02:08 PM
1

Couples grow apart. Although you believe that the reason is that the woman married someone she wasn’t attracted to, that’s not the case in the vast majority of marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:14 PM
0

In a relationship, sure it ends up on the woman to be pregnant, not the man. Sure, not everyone decides to have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 03:10 PM
1

I don’t care what men ‘want’. Women still have to be all of that, as accomplished, productive, self providing members of society. They expect the same as bare minimum, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 03:10 PM
1

Some people will respect your boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 03:08 PM
1

You do you. If others are ok with it, they stay. If they aren’t, they can go.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 03:07 PM
2

Well, you got the story wrong! 😂 that’s why I suggested! But yea, it’s classic English literature, so I’d defo say read it!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 03:05 PM
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If men weren’t fucking anything still warm, women wouldn’t have so many options, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:54 AM
2

Maybe you should read the novel…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 07:43 AM
2

My boyfriend at 16 waited over 2 years…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:35 PM
2

Clearly that’s not the man’s job, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:28 PM
2

I had a 25yo handsome toy boy who was very inexperienced, with a smaller than average dick, and I don’t enjoy teaching. He was literally: I want to learn to make you cum with my tongue, so I’ll just be down here until I make it 😂 sometimes it only takes good will!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:19 PM
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So you are saying that when a woman is 20, building her life, enjoying freedom and having fun, wants a boyfriend who is the same, and when she is accomplished, with a career, and with her shit together, she wants a partner at the same level. Weird, ain’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 11:14 AM
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But why do you think so? Women HAVE to be emotionally intelligent, good looking, resilient and be able to provide for themselves. Plus they have to bear children, with all the consequences on their bodies. But god forbid they want an equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:53 AM
1

A man who kills himself ‘just because they got no female validation’ have a way deeper issue than not getting pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:51 AM
2

False. 50 years ago a man had to be clean, groomed, not a sicko, educated to a minimum or more depending on the girl he wanted to score, have a stable job and be willing to provide. Plus he had to marry her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:48 AM
0

When they feel like it. Their body, their life, their choice.?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:56 AM
1

Btw, things don’t have to be ‘logical’ for YOU, to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:04 PM
1

You really don’t believe a decent looking woman can actually like a short guy with thinning hair, right? And not have sex on the first date because he actually seems a great person and doesn’t want to rush things and fuck it all up? Poor you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:03 PM
1

Literally, shaving. Get a men’s blades, works nicely
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 01:29 PM
1

Anecdotal is different from assumptions. Your percentages come out of thin air.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:39 AM
1

I have already explained a bunch of times, I am sorry you don’t get it. If I am interested in someone and I like them, and I can see something developing with them, it’s extremely unlikely that I have sex on day one. First, chances are they won’t take me seriously if I do. Second, I consider them nice people so I wouldn’t want to use them just for sex. If I meet someone who seems fun, but who I am not particularly interested in, I may have sex early on. You want to believe you understand women’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:36 AM
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Poor, poor men, all these evil women who pretend to like them and instead only want to make them suffer. Honestly, if you believe this, I recommend you stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:28 AM
1

Nope. And with good reason. Anyway, guess who women got the STDs in the first place…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:47 PM
1

Sure, I was SOOOOO interested in the dude I fucked on day one that I didn’t even exchange numbers and I don’t know his surname… but hey, fool yourself that that’s the ‘alpha’ I want commitment from 😂 as I told someone else, he got the hole but he’s not getting the donut! But ofc you wouldn’t care, because the only thing you are after is sex, so you are just envious someone else gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:18 PM
1

You base your life on heaps of unfounded assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:14 PM
3

Just need a STD test for that. It’s a good habit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:11 PM
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At least, if she is a virgin, they can’t blame her for doing things with others she doesn’t do with them, nor complain that she made someone else wait less for sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:54 PM
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A man’s criminal past is SO MUCH a woman’s business that some laws, thankfully enable her to find out the guys past, in my country. These laws came into force after women and their children were abused by the women’s partners,
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:51 PM
3

Wtf, have you seen the average dude’s profile on tinder? I screenshotted a shitload of profiles which were abysmal, clearly written by illiterate, nasty, horrible creatures which already sounded abusive, misogynist and looking to use women, just from their profile! Ofc they are not going to get ‘chosen by a girl’. It’s not because they are not handsome, they are mostly average looking. It’s because no girl in their right mind is gonna match with them!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:40 PM
22

They watch too much porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:34 PM
1

😂 you don’t see other people as people do you? You only see physical appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:31 PM
1

The point is, I don’t ‘alphafuck’ or betabuxx’ anyone. If I have a superficial interest in someone, I may have sex early on and never contact him again. If I have an actual interest in someone, I may not have sex so early, to gauge how interested I am in the person. As for betabuxxing, I don’t ask anything from my partners, money or anything at all, and I don’t let anyone pay for me, usually, so that’s not an issue. Whoever is out with me, knows I am there for them and nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:33 PM
1

That I care about him so I respect him more than using him for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:28 PM
1

I take care of those risks. And the risks are the same even with anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:04 PM
1

Btw, this means you are only after sex and don’t value me as a potential relationship or a person, even.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:03 PM
1

‘Alpha’? Would you consider a cute idiot ‘alpha’? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:02 PM
1

This.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:36 AM
5

Why? I mean, if I see a sexy and cute idiot, who if never consider for anything except a ONS, why shouldn’t just enjoy him?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:34 AM
1

That is how you feel about it. You need sex ASAP for validation. Not everyone’s feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:08 AM
2

Your own problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:04 AM
2

That’s probably because you are a nice person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 08:27 PM
9

I split from my good man husband after years of feeling unloved, unwanted and unseen. I have had a few years to figure things out and have now found a partner who seems a better match, libido wise and affection wise. I am way happier with this relationship and he really seems a good guy, for now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:26 PM
6

You don’t get periods during pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 09:35 AM
2

How does that depend on the pill??????
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 09:34 AM
2

‘Picking up women’ is not the main objective of normal well adapted guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:53 AM
1

What do you mean by being confident? If you are bitter and behave no woman will ever want you because you are not ‘an 8+’, that’s a turn off, sure. If you mean that you should be bold and cold approaching women thinking they should like you, that’s a turn off too whatever your looks. Arrogant is a turn off and whiny is a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:50 AM
6

You just can’t understand that ‘hot’ means something different for each woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:52 PM
2

It comes with experience, unfortunately. Some women will spot them because they have seen others being abused, others will need to go through the experience themselves to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 01:24 PM
1

Slept with both, no difference in outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 07:25 PM
2

Girls who have babies stop going to school. Babies born to teenage girls in developing countries have a high chance of dying before 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 02:20 PM
4

One of the aspects of being socially apt is being able to understand that too and play to your strengths
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:31 PM
2

Honestly… I was having a few FWB I was seeing once in a while, but when I had my first date with a guy I potentially liked more, I didn’t see them again. Admittedly, I didn’t wait long before sex with him, but still, a month or so. The ‘exclusivity’ talk and the gf/bf talk were after a while (2-3 months and 4-5 months respectively). Honestly, I get you. I am kind of like you. But you have to decide what you want and if you decide, then behave accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 09:05 AM
3

At the end of the day it doesn’t matter in the least what other people or your friends think or do. It’s what matters for you and for her. Either you are happy with the boundary or you aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 08:58 AM
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Some women do not have casual sex. Some guys do not want to have casual sex either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 08:56 AM
4

You can still talk about sex without having sex. As in, know boundaries, likes and dislikes etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 08:55 AM
5

So… let’s make it clear: she is a high value woman from every point of view. If you want a chance, be a high value man and give this relationship a chance. Stop seeing your side pieces. Give this a real chance by seeing her only and decide if she is a person you’d like to spend life with. If you are not there yet, leave her to find someone better suited. If she ever finds out you have side chicks, she is gonna go. She is not desperate and knows her own self worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 08:51 AM
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Reasons why I may not like a cute guy at all: he’s an idiot, he’s not accomplished, he’s not intelligent, he has no ambition, he is giving annoying/pushy/controlling vibes, he has an hygiene problem (the devil is in the detail: longish nails, stinky anything, greasy hair, sweaty shirt), I don’t like how he dresses, I don’t like his humour (if any), he doesn’t get my humour, he has different values from me, he has some physical detail which I find ugly even if it’s not universally considered ugly…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 10:17 PM
3

I would go for 0. I would decline a cold approach 100% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 10:11 PM
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