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| 12 | 19 yr old kidnapped by boyfriend, captured on CCTV, he got 7.5 years in prison - she had life changing injuries and needs 24/7 care.Pull on his thumbs. That will make it hard for him to keep his grip and he will likely drop you or at least give you leeway to break his grip on you. I think the best defense is to be ready to fight for your life if any man threatens your safety, and DO NOT hold back or care if he gets hurt. Bite down as hard as you can on his arm, shove your thumbs/other objects as hard as you can into his eyes, punch his throat or nose as hard as you can, scream as loud as you can that he's going to kill you, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 12:22 PM |
| 9 | A guy brought up porn half a minute after matchingYep, cant think of anything more anxiety-relieving than that! 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 02:42 AM |
| 73 | Why he will punish you for giving him second chancesExcellent post! You're not missing out on a great guy by giving him a second chance, there's a reason you cut him off/left him in the first place. If you give him another chance, there will likely be even worse behaviour in store for you. Not remotely worth the risk! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 10:59 PM |
| 16 | What is female liberation?To me, women's liberation means true freedom and choice. That looks like guaranteed income, housing, schooling, childcare, transportation, and medical care for all women. We need our choices to be free from the coercion of capitalist market forces. Until all women have true economic and personal security, we cant have truly free choices. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 08:42 PM |
| 231 | A guy brought up porn half a minute after matching"Ah yeah King, personally I cant get enough of those videos where a woman beats and ch*kes a man to the point where you can REALLY see the fear in his eyes, just makes me feel like everything is right with the world 😊" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 02:58 PM |
| 199 | A guy brought up porn half a minute after matchingHe was clearly expecting you to be like "omg me too! What are your favourite videos?" 🙄 At least he told on himself in the 2nd message! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 02:16 PM |
| 57 | The slow normalization of pedophiliaI'm so sorry to hear about what happened to you. To go through all that and still be alive means you are a fighter. You are an amazing woman and I hope that the rest if your life is nothing but peace and healing ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 08:36 PM |
| 283 | The slow normalization of pedophiliaAs terrifying as this is, I think the tide is starting to turn. So many gen Z women are smart as whips and they are waking up and calling out the normalization of pedophilia and porn and prostitution. FDS is growing like crazy on a very Male dominated, misogynistic platform, and even subs like 2X aren't as dogmatically libfem as they used to be. All the rights we currently have were secured through the tireless, tenacious work of our foremothers and grandmothers. If they did it, so can we. The m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 08:25 PM |
| 25 | The slow normalization of pedophiliaI think it depends on what you define as "progressive". What would be considered "far left" by US standards is more likely to be anti-porn/prostitution because they examine the issue from a marxist/materialist lense (FDS favs MacKinnon + Dworkin used a lot of marxist analysis in their writings). When you view the issue from that perspective, you really cant argue that porn + prostitution will exist after a socialist revolution. However, the US "left" is a joke that doesnt move beyond tokenism/em… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 08:00 PM |
| 58 | The slow normalization of pedophiliaAbsolutely right. Let's not pretend that right wing religious men are actually anti-Porn, they consume it just as much as liberal men. The "family values" image is as fake as a three dollar bill. They preach and judge and collect their huge sums of money, while firing up pornhub and hiring prostitutes 😡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 07:42 PM |
| 25 | NEVER EVER FINANCIALLY RELY ON A MAN! Naive young women on TikTok are idealising the stay at home wife/mum lifestyle and literally cursing our hard-earnt right to work.Working for a company certainly isnt fulfilling. However, you think working for a corporation sucks? That doesnt even compare to how hellish your life becomes when your "boss" expects you to rub his feet and wash his clothes while he gets close to his "work wife". He knows he has you nice and trapped, because he holds the keys to your. Entire. Life. Women didnt fight for equal pay because working for a man was so cushy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 04:51 PM |
| 121 | One thing these scrotes gonna do is drop their masks. Their real intentions show when they feel they have trapped their wives. Girl run!He really is a pathetic, useless little worm. Certainly not fit to be a father. I bet the poor OP has been babying him and tending to his fragile fee fees for their whole marriage without being consciously aware of it. But now that she needs extra support and consideration from him, she's starting to see who he truly is, and what she actually means to him. If he wants to be the little baby in the house, he should move back in with mommy 🤭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 08:02 PM |
| 131 | One thing these scrotes gonna do is drop their masks. Their real intentions show when they feel they have trapped their wives. Girl run!You dropped this: 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 07:42 PM |
| 36 | One thing these scrotes gonna do is drop their masks. Their real intentions show when they feel they have trapped their wives. Girl run!LOL has this Scrote ever heard of "man flu"? So many men cant even handle the sniffles without collapsing in bed and whining for his wife to care for him while he ignores her and the kids. If men had to get pregnant and give birth, the whole human race would be extinct by now 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 07:03 PM |
| 6 | Your male friends WILL masturbate to you, and it’s not their fault. Here you have it Queens, If you are friends with men, they will masturbate to you, because they can, and because it’s private, and none of your business.OMG 😱 That poor lady! Good job educating your younger female staff, too many girls are being pressured into sex acts that are downright dangerous, all so a man can act out his violent fantasies. What does a woman even get out of anal? Men are the ones with a prostate, if they want anal they can take it up their own asses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 02:22 PM |
| 163 | Groom smashes bride’s face into cake & she rightfully is leaving himMost brides make sure their make up is carefully done, hair is usually professionally done or styled by a skilled family/friend, and of course the wedding dress is usually the most expensive piece of clothing she's ever owned. She knows that there are so many eyes on her that day, and she is usually doing everything she can to be as photogenic as possible. Could you imagine seeing how much effort and care your spouse put into creating their wedding look, and then grabbing their head and smashing… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 09:21 PM |
| 4 | Men’s “goofiness” and “clumsiness” is usually just laziness and lack of considerationrecord scratch ... 😱 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 09:05 PM |
| 26 | Your male friends WILL masturbate to you, and it’s not their fault. Here you have it Queens, If you are friends with men, they will masturbate to you, because they can, and because it’s private, and none of your business.What the fuck did I just read? I feel like every time I think the bar for Male behaviour has sunk as low as it could possibly go, they somehow manage to go even lower | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 08:22 PM |
| 92 | STOP BENDING OVER BACKWARDS FOR ABUSERS WHO BEND YOU FORWARD AND SCREW YOU. She is so fortunate not to end up like Gabby Petito, yet she still wants to be accommodating to her hobosexual ex who ousted her from a van in another state.She should pawn that watch and buy her bus/plane ticket home. And NEVER speak to or be alone with this psycho again. I swear some of our sisters are so brainwashed into being nice and polite and accommodating to men that they endanger themselves with their own naivete. I'm starting to wonder if this is the new favourite tactic of abusive men who want to set their girlfriend up for the highest chance of injury or death, without being directly responsible. We are seeing more and more stories of Sc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 07:36 PM |
| 16 | I got chucked off a left wing political facebook page I followed for years for challenging this. How do you vet for men who believe they are owed access to a woman, I'm starting to feel it might be all of them.I think it's a coping mechanism. It's easier to deal with your reality if you frame sexual exploitation as "therapy" rather than what it is - men using vulnerable women's economic misfortune to coerce sex that the woman who never otherwise consent to. All Johns are something that rhymes with tapists, and that's a difficult thing to digest while you are actively relying on them to pay your bills. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 06:39 PM |
| 55 | A Curated Selection from OLDDoes your wife know you are "ethically non-monogamous"? 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 07:04 PM |
| 11 | Why I’m against strip clubsI would definitely be interested in hearing all your stories! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 03:13 AM |
| 373 | Play stupid games, win stupid prizesGood catch! Instead of gifting them a down payment for a house that would probably have the deadbeat's name on it, her parents kept the house in their names. Because of their good judgement, their daughter gets to stay in her home and not have to pay a penny of the house's value to our dear dumbass 😏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 03:08 AM |
| 58 | Play stupid games, win stupid prizesI was practically rolling on the floor with laughter all the way through this beautiful self-own of a post 🤣 Redpill ideology really does ruin men - they are out here thinking that they are still just as hot to 20 something women as they were in their 20s. Nah, old man. 20 something women will see you as a creepy old dude, or a wallet to tap. You are only playing yourself if you dont realize this. Also, who wants to bet that this loser defines being an "involved SAHD" as being a couch creature t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 02:57 AM |
| 62 | Play stupid games, win stupid prizes🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 02:44 AM |
| 75 | Why I’m against strip clubsIt's disgusting how being a stripper is marketed as this easy way to make a ton of money to young women. I'm ashamed to admit that I went to a strip club once, many years ago, with a female friend. It was marketed in our town as something fun for Uni/college kids to do, even for women! It was every bit as repulsive as you can imagine. I could literally see the smug contempt on the men's faces, as the strippers had to go to THEM and "market their services". That's something they dont tell you abo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 10:35 PM |
| 112 | A pictorial depiction of the “male feminist”Yes, especially because 3rd wave is peak white feminism. Dont look at all these systemic issues that disproportionately affect women of colour, look over here at our "liberated" girl boss! 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 05:33 PM |
| 174 | A pictorial depiction of the “male feminist”Couldnt be closer to the truth 🤣 Men love feminism as long as it means women saying yes to all the same patriarchal bullshit with a new "empowerment" bow. And if a woman pushes back against prostitution, porn, poly, BDSM etc. then you can simply call her a SWERF! While still looking like a progressive male feminist! What a sweet deal 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 05:24 PM |
| 4 | The absolute audacity of some of these men. Could you imagine telling your partner that you are taking a three month break from being a spouse and a parent?Sadly, you're right. 😥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 03:24 AM |
| 15 | You can be happier and more successful as a single mother! My second chance story:What an inspiring story. ❤ You are such an amazing woman and your kids are so lucky to have you. I am relieved you got out when you did, it sounds like he was escalating to physical abuse! Thank God you listened to your gut and moved away to be with your support system. Thank you for sharing your story ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 12:55 AM |
| 66 | The absolute audacity of some of these men. Could you imagine telling your partner that you are taking a three month break from being a spouse and a parent?It's absolutely disgusting isnt it? Men really feel like they should only have to experience the happy and fun parts of being a husband and father, and every bit of the grunt work should be done by Mum. Does he think that his wife doesnt get tired of her responsibilities? Of course he doesnt think of it, he is the only one that matters! /s I'm sorry to hear about what happened to you ❤ I'm sure you and your kids are better off without him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 11:27 PM |
| 52 | The absolute audacity of some of these men. Could you imagine telling your partner that you are taking a three month break from being a spouse and a parent?We are starting to see the effects of shitty Scrotes learning "therapy language" to shift blame and keep their families focused on their bullshit. Wanting to "find yourself" on a 3 month bachelor vacation while your wife shoulders the entire household alone is selfish and abusive. It doesnt matter if you have framed it as "needing to heal" or whatever the fuck else the Scrote brain can come up with. It's the same sexist double standards and Male entitlement that has always existed. Except now, w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 11:22 PM |
| 75 | This made me throw up in my mouth just a littleThey look like grandpa and grand daughter 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 02:21 AM |
| 23 | On subreddits outside of FDS women are coming to understand that being “independent” 50/50 women will only attract losersDING DING DING | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 12:04 AM |
| 62 | On subreddits outside of FDS women are coming to understand that being “independent” 50/50 women will only attract losersYep! So you get a man you have to pay for, plus you have to deal with his delusional audacity. What a great deal! 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 11:03 PM |
| 63 | On subreddits outside of FDS women are coming to understand that being “independent” 50/50 women will only attract losersLol they think they are all doing 50% of the housework when really they can barely wash their own dishes. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 10:56 PM |
| 341 | On subreddits outside of FDS women are coming to understand that being “independent” 50/50 women will only attract losersThe vast majority of men dont have the skills necessary to make up for contributing less financially to a relationship. Not necessarily because of biology, but because they were taught from day 1 that they dont have to do "women's work". The vast majority of them are not amazing housekeepers, cooks, shoppers, childcare providers, etc. So what are you more likely to get from a man who contributes less financially? A man who takes on more of those domestic duties to compensate? Or are you more lik… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 06:28 PM |
| 19 | Just broke up with a sweet, funny, kind and attentive guy, because he works a minimum wage jobWouldnt be at all surprised if he was the one into drugs... the life he leads seems very chaotic and at 40 I dont buy that his instability and lack of income is his ex's fault, or a result of moving or lockdowns. 🤨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 08:47 PM |
| 5 | Just a friendly reminder that men will date and marry women they don’t like.Imagine looking like that, and still thinking you have a right to say anything about a woman's appearance 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 10:26 PM |
| 12 | How do you handle exes who, whilst not harassing you directly and having no contact with you, are still acting in strange ways around friends you have in common? Crying to/in front of them, tirades about missing you, asking them to deliver messages, etc?I wouldnt be surprised if he is an abuser who didnt get his chance to sink his claws into you. That might sound drastic, but abusers are not always stoic, "alpha" males, VERY often they love to portray themselves as victims. Crying to anyone who will listen about your breakup is likely similar to how disgusting Scrotes will cry to anyone who will listen about their divorce. They can no longer control you, so they try to control how others see you. Thank goodness your acquaintances arent falling … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 06:21 PM |
| 62 | Do NOT procreate with bum ass men!"Full time caretaker" aka "Will do the bare minimum to keep the kid alive while making lots of time for video games" 🤢 This loser didnt even want to work a full 40 hours a week pre-baby, and let me tell you caring full time for a baby/toddler is the hardest work I've ever done. Dude is going to drop the ball big time, and she's going to be left to deal with the consequences. Bum ass men will stay bum ass men, no matter how many kids you have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 12:15 AM |
| 26 | Telling women to “just communicate” with their uncaring, oblivious, self centered partners is the advice equivalent of asking, “Have you tried turning off and back on again?”If you have to spent so much thought and time and energy just trying to figure out how to say something so that a man will actually listen to you... it's not worth it. Im tired just thinking about it. They know. They just dont care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 06:07 PM |
| 115 | Reminder: Being The "Cool Girl" who isn't "materialistic" will get you nothing.Honestly, it's an issue of respect. Nothing more, nothing less. If a man cheaps out on once in a lifetime experiences, that is a sign of disrespect. If he is miserly and stingy with his money, also a sign of disrespect. And being willing to tolerate disrespect in order to be seen as "the cool girl" is truly a race to the bottom. Because disrespectful manchildren dont have a limit for how much they are willing to take advantage of you. They will take whatever you are willing to give them, and the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 06:23 PM |
| 13 | Husband suggests she stop buying formula rather than get a job and cancel his $80+ a month subscriptions.What a pathetic creep, sorry that happened to you ❤ I often see Dads complain that mums are wary of letting them in to their parent playdate/friend groups, and that Mums dont trust them as much as they trust other women. Well no fucking shit dude. Women dont trust the intentions of any man they dont know extremely well, having a child in tow doesnt reduce the likelihood that a man will be a nasty, boundary stomping pervert. 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 03:38 PM |
| 80 | Husband suggests she stop buying formula rather than get a job and cancel his $80+ a month subscriptions.Good God what a useless lump of shit. This is what too many "stay at home Dads" end up doing - they do the bare minimum to keep their kids alive, and then they lounge around with their video games/tv/porn. The fact that he has time to use all those subscription services is a dead giveaway that he is not parenting at anywhere near the level of a typical SAHM. 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 04:31 AM |
| 8 | Wife discovers that her 30 yo husband was planning to leave her after finally graduating from college "because he wouldn't need her anymore". Another reason to not settle for men who are struggling.Sadly your assessment is spot on. Too many men are raised to only consider themselves and their wants. Women's lives and our wants or needs are completely inconsequential to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 02:12 AM |
| 46 | Wife discovers that her 30 yo husband was planning to leave her after finally graduating from college "because he wouldn't need her anymore". Another reason to not settle for men who are struggling.I'm starting to think that women should just assume that everything men say is a lie until it can be proven true. Too many men lie their fucking faces off to everyone in their lives, and they dont have the smallest ounce of remorse for it. To them, lying is justified because it helps them get what they want, and they are above all else entitled to whatever they want. Dont trust, VERIFY a man's word before moving forward with him, otherwise he will have you out here looking like a 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 06:19 PM |
| 35 | LVM hero Dave Portnoy revealed for being an extremely predatory, hateful, psychotic freak who lures teenage girls to his place for violent, humiliating sexI could not even finish reading the article, it was too disturbing. If there were any justice in this world, him, and men like him, would be catapulted directly into the sun. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 10:22 PM |
| 5 | When we say some men are delusional, this what they mean. Your wife is not yet born is creepy! Calling women pretty young things is gross and dehumanizing.And the thing is, I dont know how to solve for that. It's going to continue being dangerous for women to tell these men how they really feel, so it will never be worth it for women to tell men off when they are being nasty if it is not obviously safe to do so. And with the police force and courts being packed full of abusive men, women using any kind of physical force to defend themselves against men will also be a losing battle. Just look how they arrest terrified 120 pound abused women, becaus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 06:44 PM |
| 117 | When we say some men are delusional, this what they mean. Your wife is not yet born is creepy! Calling women pretty young things is gross and dehumanizing.Yep! She's going to placate the bullshit until she is a safe distance away from him, and then she will tell her friends how she was hit on by a creepy guy old enough to be her father at the gym. "Silver fox" my ass 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 03:11 AM |
| 250 | When we say some men are delusional, this what they mean. Your wife is not yet born is creepy! Calling women pretty young things is gross and dehumanizing.If only these 40 something year old self appointed masculine sex Gods knew what the 20 year olds they pester say after they manage to escape the awkward social situations they create 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 12:12 AM |
| 7 | We deserved to be protected. We deserved to be stood up for. We deserved to be treated with respect and kindness.And that goes double for women of colour, who are usually the least protected, stood up for, and respected. Every single woman and girl deserves to live a happy, healthy, free life. ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 10:42 PM |
| 83 | “Under the patriarchal rules they ascribe to, providing financial support should come with the promise of control.”Men will literally torpedo their own lives and sink to lowest depths of hell, just to avoid paying child support. They will quit jobs, work under the table, leave the country, live off grid, and move into their parent's or new girlfriend's house, just to avoid supporting their own children. They will impoverish THEMSELVES, rather than pay a dime to a woman they no longer have sexual access to. That level of resentment and anger over loss of control should be considered absolutely delusional and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 01:43 AM |
| 76 | “Under the patriarchal rules they ascribe to, providing financial support should come with the promise of control.”Absolutely brilliant comment. How much money do governments spend subsidizing men's inability to give a shit about their offspring when they no longer have sexual access or control? When will governments start aggressively demanding that men uphold their responsibilities as fathers, instead of bending over backwards to give these losers every right and privilege under the sun? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 01:29 AM |
| 79 | A man asked, "most men aren't bad so why don't women trust us all?" Here is my my reply:Most men dont rape, but most men DO cover for and stay friends with their rapist buddies. Most men dont go to prostitutes, but most men DO defend the sex trade and porn. Most men dont harass and attack women on the street, but most men will NEVER put themselves at any kind of risk to defend a woman they see is being harassed or touched inappropriately/aggressively by a man. Most men are complicit. Most of them are happy to let it keep being our problem, and blame us for not trusting them. Given … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 05:17 PM |
| 45 | Men always knowThis is such a great point. It's a waste of time arguing with men, they don't care because the current set up benefits them, and they dont take women seriously. Waking up our sisters that they can and should walk away from Scrotes is the only way; it's the only form of cOmMuNiCaTiOn men will understand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 11:40 PM |
| 284 | Men always knowI'll never forget the time I saw a deranged acting man at the mall harassing a young woman wearing hijab who was sitting with her friend. He was asking her if she was a virgin, if she was saving it for her husband, etc. I couldnt listen to it anymore and started walking over. I had no clue what I was going to say or do, but I stood in between them and looked him right in the eye, didnt say a single word. This motherfucker IMMEDIATELY takes a step back and starts blubbering incoherently, trying t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 05:25 PM |
| 43 | Men are becoming aware of women's anti pornography stances and are using it to manipulate women.I'm so sorry that you went through that <3 Just remember that you are valuable and amazing regardless, what happened in the past doesn't define you <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 11:29 PM |
| 51 | WOC and our current complex feelings about missing woman media coverageVery, very well said <3 WOC never get this level of attention and public outcry when they go missing or are murdered. In my country, we have a highway that literally has the nickname "highway of tears" because so many mostly indigenous women have gone missing or were found murdered along that highway. People are angry that Brian Laundrie hasn't been found yet, when the men who killed all those beautiful souls along highway of tears walk free and sleep soundly in their beds. Hell, a few of the ki… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 06:09 PM |
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